War Of The Roses: Is He Cheating On His Pregnant Wife?

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Жыл бұрын

She had their baby four months ago, and now she thinks her husband is messing around! She needed our help getting to the truth. It's #WarOfTheRoses!
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@magusdx Жыл бұрын

I would definitely fund sending her the flowers. This was one of the most impact segments. Worried about her husband funding out she sent herself the flowers and then having to have the conversation about why

@Iamhimberly 9 ай бұрын

She basically overreacted about nothing like the typical woman LOL

@suzannadannaTARDIS 5 ай бұрын

That was my immediate thought, too. That mama needs some flowers.

@Snowbaby859 2 ай бұрын

@@IamhimberlyI’m a woman & I approve this comment lol 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

@jennarose4695 Жыл бұрын

This is why I love the bert show. The humility & compaction you guys have is admirable and I love every one of you 🤍 you guys warm my heart and make me feel connected every single day.. with love from across the pond 🇬🇧

@JiroProject 6 ай бұрын

Except Abby. She's blah

@BrettABarker 7 ай бұрын

I wasn’t planning on crying today but I guess I am. 😂

@GarmrK9 Жыл бұрын

Amazing job handling this, you're a class act

@ebetpittman Жыл бұрын

This is the most wholesome... calm down mama - stuff be crazy... war of the roses group therapy I've ever seen. Breathe, mama. He loves you. Go buy yourself flowers!

@JiroProject 3 ай бұрын

Kristen handled this like a boss

@joanlaimmemo 4 ай бұрын

You all are so compassionate!!! Love you all

@pedigocaitlin Жыл бұрын

Holy shit this was the most dramatic War of the Roses. Like ever.. I had to skip it man. Love the drama WOTR brings and thats why i click so fast when I get the notification clip but man.. Do the sobbing somewhere else, it's especially intense on the radio. Glad it worked out for this lady. I think she needs and hopes she gets help with her Post Part depression. I think its bad on her rn.

@healinghashis 7 ай бұрын

One of the most helpful things for your marriage that you can do after having a baby is simply DONT try to hide your hard time. Say it to yourself, then speak it, cry it if you need to. Chances are, your spouse or partner is feeling very similarly and you can bond over the shared experience. Tell your partner what you need - is it more loads of laundry? a nap? Just tell them. Communication is key! People really forget that.

@Snowbaby859 2 ай бұрын

YES!!! 🙌🏼

@chelseapeters7187 Жыл бұрын

Does anyone else think this is hands down the WORST way to tell if someone is cheating? I mean....who sends flowers to their side chick😂 That would be weird AF especially since like 95% of all affairs have an agreement that there's no strings attached and we are just having fun. If u send flowers to ur side chick she's gonna think ur catching feelings and cut u off immediately..... That's like giving roses to a prostitute.....she's gonna be like uhhhh....thanks but no thanks

@KMyer 7 ай бұрын

I really hope he did send the flowers to her, lol.

@Snowbaby859 2 ай бұрын

That’s what I was thinking, like surely they didn’t just tell her that to make her feel better.. 🤔me being the typical, over thinking, woman that I am…would have been thinking this after getting off the phone with them, if I was in this lady’s shoes. 😩🤷🏻‍♀️

@laurao8099 Жыл бұрын

Sometimes I really hate our healthcare system. Why do they not make couples aware of The things that could happen to the mother and the father physically emotionally Both throughout the pregnancy and after baby is born.

@Snowbaby859 2 ай бұрын

Because like with everything else…THE GOVERNMENT & THEIR MONEY MAKING ORGANIZATIONS DO NOT CARE ABOUT WE THE PEOPLE!!

@cherlynnking9781 Жыл бұрын

Good call Kristain.....

@paliali7752 Жыл бұрын

Or he knows he's being set up and dodged it.

@DianeWilliamsCurvyGoddess Жыл бұрын

I thought that. How do they not know they're being set up? They've been doing this segment for too long.

@AshiyaWhitley-ShawVeganAthlete Жыл бұрын

Yeah,😬 because I personally have turned SO MANY people onto The Bert show. They ask ME if I’ve heard a segment. I’d never be able to pull this off on my family/friends.🤷🏽‍♀️😅

@Globewanderer000 Жыл бұрын

Stop. Jesus. Sometimes, it's best to be silent.

@fightthebitefishing 3 ай бұрын

Sympathy for her, I just hate that the had to be accused of cheating before being understanding of what he might be going through

@Snowbaby859 2 ай бұрын

Same, men’s feelings, emotions, and mental health go so unnoticed. I’m guilty of this with my husband, we as women forget that literally everything gets put on a man’s shoulders and, even though they’re men.. the burdens that they carry for us and our families get super heavy!!! Check on your husbands ladies!!

@meganmoon6197 Жыл бұрын

Awww I’m tearing up so bad right now

@melissaanowai9419 5 ай бұрын

Same😭

@estemeiring3705 14 күн бұрын

ALL people need some time alone!! Whether it's dad or mom. Get grandparents to babysit for a weekend or even just a Whole day. They need "me" time and date nights

@midnitemoon577 Жыл бұрын

Awwww. My mother heart goes out to this young lady. Reach out to your ob-gyn. Ask prepared questions. You may or may not need treatment, (doctor knows best), but sometimes just knowing what is out there to help you in case you do decide to get more medical help for your postpartum period is a big relief in itself. It's like knowing & feeling confident that there's a big soft safety cushion to catch you & ease things if you feel like you start falling too far into depression. It helps to know there are many things doctors or therapists can do to help. Hubby stuff: Sit down and have a loving conversation with your husband. Let him help choose a good time to have that conversation, like maybe when he has a day off of work and baby is napping. Turn off cell phones. Sit in a certain comfortable place. Hold hands while you talk. Don't attack him with words. (Not "You always ignore me when I try to reach you!") But tell him how you feel when x, y, or z happens (when I can't get a hold of you for hours at a time, I FEEL anxious. ASK SPECIFICALLY for how you need support from him. Not "You need to stop ignoring me!" Instead ask for something specific : "This is my first time being a mother, so just hearing your voice in a quick conversation maybe 2 times a day and knowing when you are coming home is all I need to feel supported and not so alone, especially as a new mom." Talk calmly. Listen well-- repeat what he has said. "What I think I just heard you say is _______." End by telling him you love him, hug him, kiss him. Tell him you will definitely keep in mind what he says and what he asked for in the conversation. Then do that. Actions speak louder than words sometimes. Much love to you, Sis.🌺 Everything will be ok. Be kind to yourself. You are going through one of the biggest learning experiences of your life. But it will all be okay. Enjoy that precious baby. They grow up so fast. 😉❤ ☮

@kevinbrown3158 3 ай бұрын

We all know, that he said that receipt was for “work” lunch and not “business” lunch, yea we see what ya did lady.

@theschipronouncedassky9142 Жыл бұрын

When you have kids things change. But it doesn't mean your partner is cheating. Just because you're pregnant for 9 months doesn't mean you're ready when the baby comes. It's an adjustment that takes time to figure it out. And it takes more than just 4months, a year or 2 etc. It can take a long time. And like they all said, you figure out that your parenting styles are different. You think you don't know the person. She also had no real concrete reason as to why she thought he was cheating. Just that he's been acting different. Well yea chick yall just had a kid, you're going to be different.

@frenchbluehen Жыл бұрын

Our marriage is so great, let's have a baby! Four months later: We're all miserable because of this baby. People, that's what having kids does to marriage.

@nikkihayes9236 Жыл бұрын

THANK YOU GOD, PRAISE JESUS, HALLELUJAH!!🙏😇💖 Would anyone other than me have lost their sh!t and bawled their eyes out had this gone the other way for her?!?!

@purple81butterfly 8 ай бұрын

I want to hug her....:(. Freaking hormones 😢

@reneegabbard6437 7 ай бұрын

Am I the only one who feels like this segment doesn’t really work? I mean if a guy is cheating, i don’t think hes gonna send flowers to his mistress unless the fling has been goin on for a while and he has some kind of feelings towards her..