Hi there! I can't believe I found this video today. I too am going through a similar situation. .where all my hardwork, all the sleep deprived nights, all the tears ,never show up in my results .I am questioning myself, where it all went wrong, and how i got trapped in this never ending downward spiral. I am also preparing for an entrance examination which I failed once and tomorrow is the day of the second attempt result. I am so scared and was going through the series of the painful events that happened this year. I saw your video and i don't know why, your muffled cries at the end of the video tugged my heart in a familiar way. I am so thankful to you for letting me know that it's not just me going through this kind of pain. I wish you good luck in your life.❤
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
A lot of us are actually going through this kind of pain. Most of the time, it's just us trying to keep them all to ourselves. So I'm glad that everybody gets to share their own experiences in this small community; to somehow ease the burden a little. Sending virtual hugs to you and wishing you all the best! 🤍✨
@MJsaBitterLemon6 ай бұрын
Listening to the cries of a fellow exhausted student really hit close to home. I'm still waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel because Im struggling so hard to balance all of my work but I really can't wait for the day when I can say I got accepted into graduate school
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Crying is definitely not a sign of weakness; rather, it's a sign of strength. You got this! We got this! 👊
@user-ku4it3wb9l6 ай бұрын
These feelings and thoughts are so familiar! And seeing you crying after this exam is finally over and you passed was a relief but a pain at the same time. Studying in high school I always felt the weight of these social standarts on my shoulders. My teachers always told me that I must keep being the top student. The quintessence was my teacher trying to persuade me that I should change my career choice because she thought it won't lead to a success. Now that I'm studying in university I'm trying to change my mindset and stop trying to always be the best student and show brilliant results. We should be more confident and love ourselves even if we can't always be the best. Let's keep going and we will make it through, Melly! Thank you for sharing this experience❤
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
So true. We should really stop being too hard on ourselves. We can do this! 🤍
@diaryofbubble6 ай бұрын
I am crying & sobing.. i literally have my finals which decide the subjects i can take for the next class thus this is very important to me. In the previous 2 exams that was for preparing for THIS big exam, i scored badly (twice). And now i can't even focus on studying because i am doubting myself whether i would be able to pass this time with better percentage or not. So this video was such an eye opener. Thank you 💗
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Hugs hugs hugs!!! I know this so well and your feelings are very valid. You'll get through it! ✨
@sristisumanaborah6 ай бұрын
When you cried, I cried with you... I am going through a similar situation. I have become very hopeless, I feel like hard work has deceived me, and all I want to do is lie down on bed and stare at the ceiling but I have realized that the world is not gonna wait for me to feel okay... so I need to get up and get going... Thank you so much dear for this beautiful video, it has filled me with hope again....I wish you nothing but tremendous success in your life
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
"The world is not gonna wait for me to feel okay," I should probably stick this on my wall to serve as a daily reminder, too. Virtual hugs!!! I'm glad that my video has motivated you in a way. And thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate them so much. 🤍
@estefaniacardonaburgoa6 ай бұрын
Melly, I really am happy that you successfully completed your goal. As a student myself, I think you’re not a failure. Everybody makes mistakes. I think you really bring joy and motivation to so many people, including me. Warm hugs, Stephi, your most motivated subscriber. ❤
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Nauuuur you're making me cry again. Thank you so much, Stephi! 🥹🤍
@estefaniacardonaburgoa6 ай бұрын
💜@@itscaramelly
@nkirukajasminesaunders32846 ай бұрын
I believe God was guiding you though this process for you to learn how to trust Him and not doubt yourself. Sending hugs 🤗 watching this after failing a chem summary test 😢
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Amen to this! This is really true. It also made me appreciate the process more. Success was definitely sweeter after all the failures. Thank you so much for dropping by and I wish you all the best! ✨
@l3afy_x6 ай бұрын
i needed this video so bad. i also failed an important entrance exam twice. my next attempt is in less than 2 months and i am so so scared. i am still sort of hopeless. i feel like giving up, my body refuses to study. im so glad this video found me. im going to give my all. congratulations for passing the exam, im sure you'll become an amazing physicist (or whatever you aim to be).
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Ahhhh I know this feeling so so well. Manifesting that everything will work out well for you! And no matter what the outcome is, always remember that it shouldn't define your self-worth. Rooting for you! ✨
@mintatatatataa6 ай бұрын
Neet? Me too i failed once but wont fail again.
@lakshana.v58616 ай бұрын
the minute u started crying, i burst out crying too. Even though i am just in high school right now, i feel like I'm a failure because of the few recent exams which i did bad... i keep all this to my self and don't share it with my friends and family . i even started to think i was actually dumb and i didn't have a good IQ. "is that all i can do?". This video was very relatable (except the passing part) i am crying as i'm writing this comment... hope all these sleepless nights and painful days end quick positively 😇❤❤🩹
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Sending virtual hugs to you!!! This too shall pass. Always remember that you are capable of doing so many things and multiple failures do not define your worth. Rooting for you! ✨
@lakshana.v58616 ай бұрын
❤❤ thank you sm! @@itscaramelly
@elnatanyel6 ай бұрын
The video prologue hits sooo hard 🥲 congrats for passing your qualifying exams!
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Thank you thank youuu!!!~ 🥹🤍
@lailanitukuafu6 ай бұрын
I'm a college sophomore aiming for a PsyD and it is so unbelievably daunting. I have a year or two before I need to worry too much about making it into graduate school, but it's already scaring me. Honestly, I'm really just trying to survive this semester. It's taking a lot to keep up with my classes while also dealing with chronic mental illness and a part-time job. I think I can do it, but it really is a daily struggle. Good luck to all the graduate students out there and congrats, Melly, for passing your exam! I hope I'm able to stay as strong as you have been. ❤
@itscaramelly5 ай бұрын
Ahhhh ily!!! Thank you so much! You’ll do great, I just know it. ✨
@candyb22056 ай бұрын
anxiously awaiting results for my first essay in grad school. I really needed this as a reminder that whatever the result is, it's going to be OK in the end 😊❤
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Yessss! One of my mottos in life is actually "Que sera, sera" which means "Whatever will be, will be". Sometimes, it's better to just let the flow of life carry you to places. Wishing you all the best! ✨
@abhinavilango53246 ай бұрын
Your videos are really great. I wonder why are you still unrecognised. I love your edits so much
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Awwe, this means a lot to me. Thank you so much! 🥹🤍
@PamPam-pow6 ай бұрын
Same I just failed 2 of 6 tests and now I have 1 try left
@itscaramelly6 ай бұрын
Rooting for you!!! ✨
@mintatatatataa6 ай бұрын
I failed once in my very important exam i have to give it i will give it again just want it. I hope i will get it this time i can't imagine my life without it.