Waitress Exposes Wannabe Rich Luxury Bag Owners!

[@HotRoz2]

When I worked in retail my most wealthy clients never wore luxury. They dress like they didn't have a penny. Never judge a book by its cover.

[@SuperDacob]

I agree. Never judge a book by its cover. 💖🥰

[@gloglos100]

Oh course, the waitress is likely talking about the aspirational wannabees. Old money wealth is obvious and they likely won’t wear such bags

[@funeats8201]

I’m assuming you weren’t dealing with wealthy Asian clientele. They typically like to advertise their financial status and they won’t associate with anyone who doesn’t because they really look down on people of lower socioeconomic status. I suspect this is why even broke Asians are often clamoring to buy luxury items. There are a few exceptions but these seem to be the general themes that I observe more often than not.

[@roseg1333]

@@funeats8201it’s also in the Hispanic communities and African American ones too. I think it’s actually in every culture 😅

[@bnb0510]

@@gloglos100This! I always fond these comments entering because I live in a wealthy area and people definitely aren’t walking around in sweats with MK bags. Shit our country clubs won’t even allow jeans. 😂

[@marynorton6068]

She makes the assumption that the ONLY reason someone buys a luxury item is to flex. People who are stylish usually mix a lot of brands because the final look is their focus, not the brand names.

[@GK-up6xz]

I always let waitresses dictate what I wear…

[@mimipeq3000]

🤣

[@seabreeze4559]

I sense she's an Anna Bey stan.

[@roseg1333]

Bahahaha 🤣 am I right?

[@tubereuse_criminelle]

Excellent approach! This is another way of getting around it - joke it off!

[@bnb0510]

Lmfao

[@Foudedanse]

I have a Marc Jacobs wallet my dear kids gave me that I carry in my Birkin. That wallet is priceless to me and I have excluded luxury bag purchases where my wallet won't fit. The waitress is an idiot. I also use my fave drugstore lipstick that I pull out of my LV pouch. Value is value.

[@SuperDacob]

Your comment made me feel warm inside 🥰 so happy to read that you have such a wonderful relationship with your children 💖💖💖

[@chinchillin6280]

❤ wish I could spoil my mom…she deserves the world

[@gailrobinson723]

You would think they'd be more worried about giving good service for better tips.

[@marygonzalez-pf7cb]

Ya’ know!!!…..🤑

[@ScentedHuman]

Let's be honest, we all talk amongst our peers, but trying to deliberately make another human feel badly about themselves is nothing but a reflection of a persons own lack of self worth.

[@Indiana_Girl757]

Absolutely

[@scarletred8888]

Or stupidity! Really, why would anyone be so judgmental!

[@sadiegossett9141]

I like buying luxury, but I’m not at my ideal weight so I don’t buy much ready to wear. Some just like bags, some just like jewelry, not everyone likes everything designer.

[@marygonzalez-pf7cb]

Hon, dr ess for you NOW!! Visit a stylist for a makeover or style adjustment to your current shape You are worth it😽😻

[@ditahargrove2804]

Girl same. Luxury clothes I like never come in my size. Clothes shopping is depressing and filled with way too much polyester, so I just buy nice shoes and handbags. 😔

[@sarahgee6690]

Judging someone from the contents of their luxury bag? That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.

[@STYLISA]

I used to work in luxury retail. Many of the ‘wealthy’ people I met, were not dripping in labels. Just because someone doesn’t look rich, doesn’t mean they are not rich. Also, if you are the kind of person who judges people on this basis, you need to have a word with yourself. There are different levels of luxury and luxury does not automatically mean money. It can be health, relationships, gratitude, etc…

[@hankypanda]

Well said. I thought society was past thinking that rich people are “better people” and that socioeconomic status reflects on one’s character. who cares who is “rich” or not. classism and other bigotry associated isn’t cute.

[@sophiepotvin5356]

This 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@rouquindunord8420]

And codes do change from one country compared to another. Also what means rich? Where the money comes from and since when? I would agree about "mid" wealthy people also called old money avoiding logos. And on another hand new but big money mostly shows off.

[@ladyofwinterfel8143]

true what can you say about warren buffet and bill gates?? elom musk they do not care about luxury brands, infact elon musk had a stylist when you reach this status you really need a stylist to appear put together in public, elon musk did not want to have a stylist because he wanted to look like an engineer... but he is in that status society dictates he needs to appear put together in public...warren buffet is wealthy but doesn't care about expensive food but what he does have are billion dollar companies and possibly alot of real estate and does not need to work, that is luxury, mark zuckerberg has grey shirts but they are from brunello cuccinelli for all you know or it might be from loro piana or the row... that waitress was just crazy to think that way and thast why she's probably poor

[@meggammacisaacrylie7869]

When I worked high end jewelry back in the day; my truly wealthy customers did not noticeably dress what most people think of as luxury. Some of them dressed down to the point they "looked" poor. Don't ever judge a book by it's cover. Snooty sales people I worked with lost out on great sales because of that mindset; while I made bank, because I treated everyone who walked through the door with respect and dignity. We're all just trying to get by on this planet. Being kind doesn't cost a thing.

[@chinchillin6280]

Well said and thanks for your kindness 😊

[@rbobtonka]

People buy what they like and no one should judge

[@c004857]

Wear your thrift shop clothes with very expensive accessories like a watch or a bag. It will confuse these kind of people.

[@komallasi]

😂😂😂

[@RoSez888]

I'm the opposite. I wear my clothes bought on sale or clearance with my luxe brand accessories like Chanel handbags and Christian Louboutin shoes bought from eBay. 😂

[@c004857]

​@@RoSez888You understood the assignment. Keep going.

[@sqwekity2]

Don’t care if my waitress judges me. Who is waiting on whom? Wanted to expand that I don’t mean wait staff are below. I mean those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones

[@natasa3412]

I love dressing trashy and looking “poor” ❤🙊 It is the best way not to get followed, robbed or worse… Many of my friends do the same, they put their Kelly croc wallets inside of a cheap bag and nobody knows . I think that’s the beauty of it, buying things for your personal enjoyment rather than buying it to seem cool or for others to see! ✨💖

[@Miyami81]

I like dressing that way too and walk into stores but I'll spice it up and wear my nice J12 and I'll have my diamond necklace tucked into my shirt. Surprisingly I've gotten help from SA looking that way at Neiman Marcus and Bloomingdale's. Saks, not so much. At least in SF. If I'm out to a fancy restaurant and I don't have to do public transpo, I will be dressed to the 9s but if I'm out and about taking the train and stuff, I look like a hipster.

[@natasa3412]

@@Miyami81 Omg! You’re my spirit animal 😂😍✨! I am the same, love mixing my premiere with some basic jeans an a t-shirt. Usually sa’s are very nice to me too here in eu. I’ve noticed that the ones usually judging clients by clothes are in the cheaper stores 😂 Public transport is good for testing out low key outfit vibes ✨

[@RoSez888]

I so agree! SA's usually ignore me because I dress so casually, especially when I go shopping. That's because I'm shopping! Not going to the Met Gala! The more experienced SAs don't judge me by my clothes. They usually give me the best customer service and I reward them with a purchase and by coming back and asking for them! I have nothing to prove to anyone. So, why should I dress to impress an SA? That's their loss.

[@classychictipz]

That's the most idiotic thing I've ever heard of. I work in healthcare, and I have to be able to put my wallet in my scrubs if needed. My Ecco leather wallet has been with me for over 4 years. It's reliable and still is in fantastic condition. I don't switch wallets on my day off to match my luxury bags. I don't have time for that nonsense. 🙄 A lot of wealthy people don't even wear luxury bags. She needs to seriously worry about herself.

[@aliciamullaney6634]

The world has become so judge mental, if I catch myself judging I immediately stop the thought and remind myself I do not know their journey and I have not walked in their shoes.

[@nirui467]

Well said. I am trying to practice this too.

[@nicoleweldon8876]

I told a friend I’d love to have a a Kelly bag , but people would judge me because I drive a VW. She said, “Do you love your VW?” I said yes. She said why can’t you have both? The car you love and the bag you love?” People really do need to mind their own business. I see dudes in Raiders hats all day long, now I’m going to be judging them for not wearing the jersey with it 😂😂

[@sloftin]

People be cray cray.

[@Aieshoo]

People are too judgemental when it comes to people having luxury goods.

[@bsk6707]

When did being or appearing wealthy become a thing to aspire to. ? Having taste , style, humor , class , integrity and compassion are worthy of aspiration. You are right about these platforms giving voice to those who should be relegated to the shadows of ignorance where they belong. You are also correct about keeping things you love to yourself out in the workplace. Learned the hard way.

[@hankypanda]

Many who make these controversial TikTok videos backpedal that their point is that we should “be ourselves” instead of “aspiring” but if that’s truly their intended message, they need to peer review it or something because it’s not clear and sounds gate-keepy, classist, and ignorant of a long history of inequality in our society. Like how dare anyone want to move through society with beautiful things and be privy to better treatment. It’s like when people tell women we “shouldn’t care” what we look like to revolt against sexism/the male gaze. Not everyone is interested in making life harder for themselves, or they may actually enjoy dressing up, makeup, and how grooming makes THEM feel. also there are many people who spend a ton on cars, camera equipment, tech gadgets, hiking or other sports gear or expensive, nonessential hobbies, but they don’t experience shaming.

[@Indiana_Girl757]

Well said!

[@myopinionismine999]

As they say in the South, "why, bless her little heart, she don't know". (the polite way to say "what a stupid a$$ thing for someone to say or do" for whatever reasons.)

[@lillilian1597]

In Europe we we might all look homeless according to this lady ?

[@marygonzalez-pf7cb]

You know she said “head to toe” lux. That would be sooo pretentious. Actually the fashion stylists view head to toe lux as ostentatious and excessive. 😂😺

[@pinkpapayarusyse9903]

Ima keep wearing my flip flops while carrying my LVs Thankyou 😂

[@carlahaiduk1878]

I don't have an LV but I'd don that if I had one.

[@truthbetold6942]

Me too!

[@lvbadboy]

Thats trashy ngl

[@ecaballo9450]

Amen!

[@KatieGrey]

Sweat suit + LV is a mood 🤣 I like being comfy but cute! Fashion is all made up anyway as long as you aren’t hurting others enjoy what you like 👍

[@lawrencekavulani]

8:38 Omg I am cracking up!!! 😂😂😂 I would literally wear my 25€ Adidas flip flops with my Birkin. That’s how much I wouldn’t care. Wear what you love! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@hankypanda]

I wore my adidas superstars I got on sale from Ross to buy my first Hermes bag. They were so kind to me. If the brand doesn’t care about the juxtaposition why should anyone else lol

[@am143-g1m]

Thank you Dacob! I´m homossexual and I know all you are talking about. Hate is hate and prejudice is prejudice. They always find their way to show themselves, no matter how we dress, whether we are discreet or not, whether we have money or not, whether we wear Zara or Chanel. People will always find something, a mistake, something they don't like, just for the pure pleasure of attacking us!

[@quellfalconer]

Ugh, she sounds bitter and resentful. And not very stylish either - I'd feel like a mannequin who escaped from the boutique if I wore head to toe all in one designer!

[@catalinaquijano6477]

Dacob, once again you nailed it. This is why I’m not on tictok or have an account. I’m too old and young for this crap.

[@GiveMeTheLook]

I find it so interesting how people who don’t have money have opinions on how people who have money should behave. I was just watching another video of a woman who said she was fired for wearing a Birkin into work, and everyone just commented on how it probably wasn’t real. That has nothing to do with the fact that she was Improperly dismissed. So many people had video reactions about how it doesn’t seem like she could actually afford a Birkin. She’s a nurse they make a lot of money. You don’t know what her family history is, or perhaps it was a gift. But regardless, why do these people care? Like why are so many people hating on people who actually have nice things. I have a lot of nice things and I don’t make a lot of money. I did, which is when I bought it, It’s OK to have nice things and not be wealthy. You can treat yourself to something good why does everybody have to hate on you for having something nice. And it’s always people that don’t have a lot of nice things that are hating on the people that do. It’s just a crazy world. We’re living in right now. That waitress can have her opinion because no one can take that away from her but she should know that it doesn’t matter what bag you wear that determines what kind of tip you’re gonna get. Because there’s a lot of wealthy people out there that do not tip well and a lot of broke people that tip generously and vice versa. Why is our culture so obsessed with judging each other? I don’t get it, I’m really happy you made this video. My favorite line from this video. We’re gonna have to resuscitate her from the floor. The confusion my God lol.

[@NataliaP]

been there, done that- was a "victim" of a narrow minded waitress just like that. She told her collegue ( not thinking I would understand the language) that I woman without makeup and high heels is only just half woman (yes, "half woman", that's what she told) and deserves no man by her side. Mind you, my boyfriend and I have just made it through an entire day of travel, I wore no make up, wore my Converse and ripped jeans and we stepped out from our hotel to grab something to eat. I mean.. I will def. not put my shining armor and heels and put on my make up just to pass a face control of a random waitress I will never ever see in my life again. Horror in her eyes when I paid for dinner! Could you imagine- a woman paying for herself and her man??? What a scandal! :)

[@colbybarney6870]

What makes it a luxury for some is that they may not always be able to buy the “It” bag or go on certain vacations. I thought piling on all of the luxury brands was “tacky” and only for the “poor”. Make up your minds. I used to be a waitress and found that my bigger tips came from “regular” people who understood how tips helped. “Richer” patrons tipped exactly 15%. Even pulled out a calculator! I could care less what bag you have or whether the wallet matches. Enjoy your life!

[@ItsJustSugarCookie]

My dad told me only buy something if you can afford it 3x. Case in point why my luxury collection is pretty small.

[@qtaromar1970]

I knew a few rich woman and know one now that used luxury bags and inside she uses fake wallets 🤷🏻

[@johnnaoates9898]

Like my husbands grandparents were literal millionaires whose companies still exist to this day and if you saw them, youd never know. Once my husband's grandmother gave me a fake coach bag not trying to pass it off, she just didn't know what Coach was. They had plenty and they didn't look "luxury" most of the rich people I know don't wear luxury head to toe.

[@waimengchan3126]

Yes some Asians wear from head to toes all branded names especially brands Chanel and Christine Dior .

[@seabreeze4559]

Wallets are better in cheaper brands. I have tested this.

[@rainbowstarfall]

True. I've been using the same Coach wallet for 5 years and only the motif emblem has experienced wear. The leather on it has only gotten better with age. It was only $70 at their outlet store too.

[@seabreeze4559]

@@rainbowstarfall Right?

[@tracinicole713]

I carry little Japanese cartoon pouches from the dollar store Daisy inside my $600 Speedy. That make me happy to look at. Oh the horror!!!! 😳 I’ve been buying LV since the 90s due to the quality and durability. Not to “flex”

[@mimipeq3000]

Why does your SLGs have to match your luxury bag? there shouldn't and there isn't any rule that your SLGs put you in a higher social class or makes you a "wanna be" if choose to be practical with your wallet. And with this waitress, check yo tip! a customer can have a juicy bag juicy wallet, and give yo azz a 30% tip! STOP the societal staircase ughhh... Keep Fashion to each her own.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Agree. I generally don't like LV SLGs especially not the monogram. For years I have been using a black Bally wallet which is extremely well made and has a diamond style quilting with heavy thread. It doesn't have any visible logos. Recently switched to an English brand, Aspinall which is understated. I don't like many Aspinall bags yet their wallet appeals to me. So am I a wannabe LV person? I do have LV bags and a monogram Alma. So shoot me! Ridiculous 'rules' done by a desperate person.

[@ecaballo9450]

Exactly!

[@lanaava]

When I used to work in a Bank a person who dressed Louis Vuitton from head to toe could not even cash their check against their negative balance account vs a real wealthy person who looks like who can’t even afford a soap.. Definitely don’t judge a book by it’s cover.

[@LiaAndrews]

Unfortunately Daco you are absolutely right about learning to protect your happiness. Feels like there is a rise in unhappy people.

[@stephanieann7700]

Now that everyone is wearing quiet luxury are actual rich people going to bring back loud luxury? I hope so. Fashion has been boring.

[@saekuto]

She's a pocket watcher 😂 a true hater~ Barely any of my SLGs matche my bag 🤷🏾‍♀️ some are gifts too. People need to mind their business. I'm happy people called her out in the comments, she thought she ate.

[@DemureDarlings]

She thought she 8 😂 She did NOt👏🏽

[@hankypanda]

So true! Pocket watchers are the biggest haters. They seem to know all the rules of “wealth” despite not seeming to have much themselves. If they do appear to have some, you know they’re really worried about losing it, so they project a lot to tear others down like it’s all they think about. It reminds me of guys who are not financially secure but have the most opinions on protecting money from gold diggers. All this financial literacy but still very insecure and appearing to struggle rather than enjoy the freedom money should give. That is sadder than any circumstance they are judging imho.

[@karo.de.m]

Let’s put it like this: if your judgment is based on such criteria no wonder working in restaurant is your path in career!

[@ApricusInaros]

Ohm, pardon me but you are writing this as if restaurant workers are less worth.

[@karo.de.m]

@@ApricusInarosExcuse me, if the restaurant worker allows itself to judge clients on criteria of what handbag or wallet they carry or not… I can as well judge such person based on what career path she has chosen!

[@ApricusInaros]

​@@karo.de.m You put yourself on the same level as this TikToker with this attitude. Chosing to work in a restaurant is an honorable job as any other.

[@karo.de.m]

@@ApricusInaros There is one simple rule - don’t judge if you don’t want to be judged! What I did with my comment was based purely on behavior of this particular restaurant employee and I gave taste of her own medicine! From the way you got offended I dare to believe you, yourself work in a restaurant!

[@ApricusInaros]

@@karo.de.m She hardly will read your comment. So no, your eye for an eye tactic will not work, nor is it morally a sound tactic in general. I've never worked in a restaurant, I don't take any personal offence. I don't have classist views though, like this TikToker, or you.

[@b.abouttowwn]

Can I just say I was crippled with laughter! Can you believe the audacity. How can you tell who has what based on a damn bag?

[@JohnDoe-xt7xl]

One of your best videos Dacob-so well spoken and as always with such wonderful arguments. Wise words indeed. I have a friend who is well off but she and her husband couldn't possibly care less about what they wear but have travelled the world. We all have different priorities and sometimes your head will turn because you saw a person who has amazing sense of style but dresses on a low budget.

[@melissafox6488]

So excited! I just ordered the Aspirational and the white The Journey ladies t shirts. ! I already have blue/grey FOMO and of cours, The Journey in black/orange. Thanks for such creative goodies! ❤ Wugo Wugo

[@SuperDacob]

Thank you so much for the love and support Melissa 🙏🏻🥰💖

[@5ftNothing]

How horrendously judgemental!! Is she saying that every time I go to a restaurant or a shop or wherever that I have to be wearing Chanel underwear?!! For goodness sake, she should get over herself...

[@bnb0510]

I always find it hilarious when people speculate how the rich/wealthy live.

[@Yvanna_T]

This is completely ludicrous. To each one their own, for God’s sake. As if she could even properly scan a wealthy person. WTF 🤬

[@stephenelizaga7699]

Wealthy or not, people should be allowed to wear what they want, how they want…why does said waitress really care so much? lots of wealthy people don’t even wear brands whereas some people who aren’t wealthy save up to treat themselves to a luxury item…

[@janusquiamco7128]

If her problem is that some flashy people don‘t know how to behave respectfully towards people in the service industry, then she should just call people out for the specific behavior that is bothering her, and not assume that she knows how truly rich people dress themselves. For that matter, in my book, a person who wears one brand head-to-toe has, to put it mildly, questionable style, and might actually be trying too hard to impress others-exactly like a poseur. But as Dakob said, my opinion should never prevent anyone from wearing whatever makes them happy. You spent your dime on it, enjoy it as much as you can.

[@gigikc6503]

LOL too funny, of course it makes no sense. A few years ago I was at the flagship Chanel in NYC and while my sister was trying on shoes, the Chanel rep for the whole NYC area was talking to me and I mentioned how I really never buy designer shoes, they lose their value quickly and not worth it to me, she laughed and whispered to me she doesn’t either, her boots were Zara. We high-fived and my sister bought her shoes and i bought a handbag, LOL so there goes that dumb waitress’ theory

[@Prev_C]

When I worked at Macy’s customers & ppl would assume my bag & what I carried. At that time was an Moynat tote, it was a gift. And I had an old wallet Tod’s and was taking my time find a clean simple wallet. Givenchy 4G and Celine as a back up. I stopped caring awhile ago. And then buying Luxury like Chanel after 2019 broke down and Ombré paint coming off. And I was priced out and finding new brands to fill their spaces.

[@lifeisbeautiful7421]

That explains why she is where she is at right now.

[@michelledalenaa]

I had an LV key organizer. I used it, it didn't work for me, and I replaced it with a 12$ no brand key organizer from Amazon that works amazingly. I don't care that the old one was LV. I care about what works and will not break down. This girl would flip over that.

[@AmyBaron-f1v]

Yes because Im sure Elon Musk and Mark Zukerberg have luxury brand names on them head to toe. Meanwhile, Warren Buffett is laughing at this while he is sitting in his paid off house.

[@giselleesquivel4210]

She wouldn't be able to recognize a calvi or a bastia 😂😂

[@redvelvetshoes]

Snobbery is never classy.

[@jacquelinenatividade7291]

What if the "LV bag + LV wallet" client in fact rented all that 💩? Lol. Gotta say it's entertaining to watch their train of thought though and thus how they believe they're good with reading people.

[@kustardlovesyou]

Some of the richest people I have known have not cared and dress like they are farmers not a designer label in sight so proves you cannot just assume anything about anyone...someone could be head to toe in it but be in loads of debt for it. So never judge a book by its cover.

[@Missy182]

Anyone should be able to wear / own whatever makes them happy ❤

[@tammyhiggins1013]

People who are truly wealthy do not need to flaunt it. I think if a person can only afford one luxury item and it is the thing they saved up for then good for them. Carry it and enjoy it!!!! I do not give two fluffs what anyone else thinks of what I am wearing or carrying!! Not two FLUFFS!

[@cclibre3832]

Don’t forget the shower gel, lotion, perfume, hair spray and water bottle 😅

[@SuperDacob]

The water bottle 😩😩😂😂😂🤣

[@stacyinfishers]

Wow what you said about unhappy people taking it out on you was amazing and so very true! I think that iOS behind any mean comment ever made, what a great post!

[@A.Luckybug]

If you own designer. You know all designer items are not created with the same craftsmanship.

[@luckydoginc4616]

Also it is really sad that it does not occur to people that we own luxury goods for ourselves and not to impress others. I live for me not you. Periodt.

[@starreh6]

I'm glad I don't worry about what others think of me. The ppl judging don't pay my bills or buy my bags.

[@rainbowstarfall]

Very good message at the end! We need to protect our bliss. The world is too twisted these days. Nobody should go through it feeling judged. Also, Dacob, you totally influenced me to get an Hermes Chaine d'Ancre Enchainee bracelet. It's currently with the authenticator. I'm crossing fingers for good news. EDIT: Sadly it didn't pass inspection. Ebay thank you for protecting me.

[@rexyambarwati7285]

I am that person wearing Shein dress, Hermes belt, LV scarf, Gucci bag, Tommy Hilfiger sneakers, H&M socks, Lindex bra, Primark panties, Mango coat and drive a Tesla.

[@daviddd_edgar]

I find it interesting how she makes those TikTok’s at her workplace. Idk but I feel like she could get fired on the spot if one of her managers found out. Just wanted to point that out since she’s talking about “lack of judgment” and “irresponsible behavior”…

[@Buttercookiesssss]

Nothing beats self maintenance on skincare, hair, good quality clothing, basically looking neat and clean. Much more presentable imo than carrying all luxury but lacking these

[@yeungstr]

I don’t like TikTok, not letting it into my life… I’m too busy for the real world or may be because I’m OD.

[@castleincorporated]

totally absurd. What if I only like watches? Patek and LL bean go just fine together

[@betequeue6233]

I don't know, if you make your money busting tables how are you judging the financial status of other people?

[@sparklesncake]

She would faint 😂😂😂

[@fivebagsforlife7479]

People are so cruel nowadays😅

[@estelleholderharildstad310]

Loved this Dacob❤️Ty to be there and stop these idiots for us, this girl is just jealous😂

[@donnamasotti3810]

Thank you Dacob for speaking the truth hate is evolving with buzz words. Besides I like to wear my pink sparkly card holder and change purse once in while.

[@SuperDacob]

I will take pink and sparkly any day over dull and expensive wannabe luxury 🥰🥰🥰💖

[@cleofe9962]

I have a friend who is filthy rich recently just paid two hundred thousand dollars on income tax. She goes out and buy fine jewelry and recently bought a Tiffany bracelet for 30K like nothing. And she carries her cash and credit cards with a zip lock all around. I was laughing at her all the time and here I am can’t even afford it. Her logic is when it gets dirty it’s easy to throw them out 😁😂

[@JG-wy9iv]

Don’t agree with her. Wealthy people don’t dress from head to toe in any brand. They wear what they like.

[@goodkitty4376]

Thank you for saying what you said. We should be able to wear what we love. The things that makes us individually happy. ❤

[@madeleinem.8313]

Yeah well said. As if we have to prove ourselves to waitresses...

[@kathycardiff7719]

Luxury is not only bought for sake in itself, but the aesthetics of the material, shape etc. Thank goodness we don't have to wear a "uniform", but wear each piece for what gives pleasure

[@lovenlune5503]

1. People need to refocus from “looking” rich and embrace their personal style and luxurious quality. 2. I used to think you had to be “Matchy matchy” with brands and now I appreciate mixing brands. 3. I’m not wealthy and know my financial lane. I like luxury accessories but don’t think ready to wear is worth it. I love mixing it with my express/zara clothes.

[@fuchsiafloyd]

Great point on the evolution of speech and projection issues🌸

[@happymetee]

Hate as logical speech - nailed it! Who the heck is anyone to tell me how & what to spend my money on! Girl have several seats!

[@shirleyluong5256]

💯 gatekeep your happiness! Learning this! Love your pearls of wisdom Dacob! Always a pleasure tuning into your channel ❤️

[@SuperDacob]

Thank you Shirley 🥰🙏🏻💖

[@Robbie_LeMeow]

I have a small lux brand wallet. But I also have a Hello Kitty Chococat one in my Amazon cart. Because I also want cute fun things. As for faking wealth...well hmph! I don't think the Princess of Wales is faking when she wears a Zara blazer with Balmain trousers. Or that she and Wills wear only non designer sneakers. Adidas, Asics, New Balance, Superga, Veja, etc. Yay them! Plus her Mulberry and Aspinal bags. Aspirational plebs like me can buy a lot of these things. She is the ultimate influencer without trying.

[@orianthi_elys]

Omg yes!

[@angiemasimore]

Love Hello Kitty Chococat !!!! 😊❤

[@orianthi_elys]

Wear what you love. Love who you love. Yes yes yes! ❤

[@devonneshort4749]

I have a gucci bag with my Hobo lauren wallet 🤣😂🤣but yet again I am being judge by a waitress?🤔

[@vanessaa7602]

Bitter? Table for 1 🤨

[@pianomanhere]

Dacob, I'm not even involved in fashion very much, but appreciate the craftsmanship of top quality items. You do have keen insights on human behavior and it's refreshing to hear your combination of composed sensibility as well as down-to-earth understanding. Your work and videos and personality are superb. Keep going with these great videos! 👍🏻

[@lisd8915]

You responded to that waitress so well! I buy bc I like it not to impress random waitresses😅 Im also the type to buy something Very expensive no one can see, not to show off! ❤

[@littleluxuries_435]

I love your perspective, Dacob. You are such an amazing and insightful person. Adore you ❤

[@sweett1973]

Thank you for all you do. Like that statement: Gate keeper your own happiness. Don't tell everyone everything. New 2024, I'm working on implementing that. Have a great week and a blessed day.

[@SuperDacob]

🙏🏻💖

[@sunnycali1294]

So ridiculous. I wear what I want. What I wear is none of other peoples business. 😂

[@windyellard2380]

Most people judge because they feel they are being judged. It really is true what you said about people not wanting you to be happy. I just shared some exciting and amazing news with family and friends about something that has been mine and my husband's dream, what we have been working our whole lives for and it is about to happen and no one was happy or excited for us. It is called jealousy! I do not plan on it ruining my happiness and joy!

[@artistexpressions]

I bought a handmade zippy coin pouch in Thailand on the street for a few bucks, and I throw that inside every bag I own lol 😂, I actually love it more now then any of my wallets. I’ve been using it 5 years

[@tracygarner5912]

Gets popcorn out.... this is going to be good.

[@kleinemaus365]

Awww if people don’t like that your happy you need to find better friends/acquaintances. Being happy for someone takes nothing away from one’s self….I have never understood why people can be so jealous