WAYBACK WILKOS: STEVE, HE ABUSES ME

[@libra9633]

Derrick: You aren’t going nowhere Holy 🤬 my heart started pounding Immediately, Not in fear - In RAGE. I never wanted to tackle someone so hard that it knocks the wind out of’em. Hopefully a cracked rib too… Well Done Karmela!! ✊

[@zepetotwins7090]

I felt the same way 😆🤣

[@AbyssalPrince]

So who else wants to break his bones

[@Ashley_Lauren]

I swear. I wanna go rounds with that fool!

[@jordanyoung1836]

I'm proud of her, she deserves to move on with her life, she doesn't need anybody like that, a woman deserves to be treated with love and respect, not like a punching bag

[@jworld3014]

Facts 💯

[@Greenmanalishe1]

Trust me she went back with him

[@aprillove9318]

@@Greenmanalishe1 I was thinking the same thing

[@Greenmanalishe1]

@@aprillove9318 lol right

[@SuperSailorOutlawGeorgeIshaq]

You should also be proud of her son, I mean he almost died a hero's death trying to protect her

[@laurenmueller2207]

It’s very disturbing to watch that boy talk and move around like that, like nothings a big deal. This is why women have to stick together to support and protect each other.

[@shanebroussard6262]

Or just don’t date losers like him. They are plenty of good men out there. Don’t settle for the first man you like settle for the right man.

[@shirley9209]

Let me know where such a GROUP EXIST.

[@andysux1]

@@shanebroussard6262 "apparently" we are all the same.

[@tfkcool4398]

And also men have to stick together against abusive women

[@lacie18]

@@andysux1majority

[@itazuranakisu]

The abuse starts out small overtime before escalating and by then most victims have been mentally abused (includes games to cause isolation from loved ones) so they feel they can’t escape. Once strangulation happens the chance of being killed by the abuser skyrockets. Also leaving can also get you killed. A lot of victims are killed within the first year especially if there’s a child or pregnancy involved. Abusers aren’t above killing their own child or another child to hurt the victim. They’ve killed family members too.

[@desertgirl30]

All of this!!! Very true unfortunately. I was lucky. I got away unharmed and my ex didn’t stock me or my loved ones.

[@MsWiccanpriestess]

@the truth You try being in a domestic violence situation and try to leave, it's not as easy as you think, because chances are when a woman with her child tries to escape the abuser will always finds her. I knew a woman once who was a major sweetheart and would give you the shirt off her back, well she met a man and for all intense and purposes he was an angel he treated her with respect and held doors open for her. They got engaged within a year of dating, they were married the following summer I was invited to the wedding it was at their house with family and friends. 6 months later she came to my house to see me and my family and she wouldn't remove her sunglasses and after some coaxing from my mother she finally did, and she had a shiner on her right eye and tried telling is that she fell. I knew it was a lie, he came to my house and I told him if he took one step up my stairs I am calling the cops and getting him arrested and he left, I put her in contact with some people who help DV victims and helps them leave, well 24 hours later he found her, but little did he know that the police were waiting for him, he was immediately arrested. His trial comes up and not just my friend showed up, but so did 7 other women he had been with testified that he abused them as well. After the jury deliberated for about 4 hours his verdict was guilty of criminal abuse, domestic violence, assault with a deadly weapon and forceable sexual assault he received 40 years in prison to be served concurrently. He is currently serving his sentence at walpole he has another 10 or so years left to be released.

[@MsWiccanpriestess]

@the truth submissive, weak women??? Are you kidding me??? Wow, your so closed minded, don't you think if it was easy for a women to leave an abusive relationship she would, like I said in my previous post it's not as easy as you think it is simpleton.

[@minavanhelsing2749]

Ladies defend and protect yourself and your little ones because some guys are monsters.

[@thatone2924]

💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@veronicahenry5047]

EXACTLY but not me 😅😅🤗🤗

[@antisocial_butterfly3571]

@@veronicahenry5047 that’s why she said SOME.

[@AskingKiara]

Some men are scary asf. You try to protect yourself then They kill you.

[@yakiralovesall]

@@AskingKiara kill them first.

[@mcrchickenluvr]

I've seen and heard a lot of people saying things like "why doesn't she just leave him?" Or "she needs to get her shit together and go." Clearly too many people don't know or pay attention to these things. It isnt that easy to just leave a relationship like this. There's often a whole lot of fear. And it is totally understandable when you realize why. Many women who try to leave all too often end up in the hospital or the morgue. So do the people who try and help them escape. I can only hope and pray that this young lady made it out safe.

[@socalbeachieboy6135]

Well she's gotta son, if she didnt get out, her son may repeat this behavior

[@Niqquhchris6]

Yeah I totally get it. I finally left my marriage. It never turned physical as much but my soon to be exhusband tried to throw a key at me and it broke and the police were right there and they arrested him. He hurt my animals so this was a progressive type of behavior. It could of gotten worse and I already filed for divorce. I’m waiting for him to be served and I got an order of protection.

[@socalbeachieboy6135]

@@Niqquhchris6 never in a million years would i even drean of doing something like that to my gf. I always said if i have a son, and he hits a woman im hitting him twice as hard

[@Niqquhchris6]

@@socalbeachieboy6135 You damn right.

[@jasmineharrison7822]

@@Niqquhchris6 if any man I’m with ever EVER hurts any of my pets or me let alone the young members of my family there would be hell to pay

[@nicholegallo1090]

My dad would of killed a man who abused me . Sent to jail.

[@glowblank17]

@NiChole Gallo, *Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*

[@tammymays120]

I wish mine would have done that while I was getting the shit beat out of me

[@Summertime5463]

Her kid comes first, she’s done! He’s just another coward that beats on women.

[@naruto456431]

Agreed! Get rid of the trash and move on

[@jasmineharrison7822]

If some dude puts his hands on me or anyone in my family my father will go nuts

[@ReginaldBostic360]

It'll be that day when he'll meet his match and he won't be talking like that or doing what he been doing

[@josephpacelli3691]

And beats children too

[@theKevronHarris]

I'd be very angry and outraged if a punk abuses my sister, cousins, aunt's, mother or any females in my family!!!

[@Jennifer-zm1ol]

Amen 🙏 to that 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@toastburproductions9987]

Honestly he'd be in a body bag if my family found out that I had a boyfriend like that

[@samanthalayer6384]

I would be angry/outraged if ANY of my family members were being abused by any significant other. Male/Female doesn't matter which way the abuse goes. No one deserves that.

[@sergiocarreon6686]

Why if your sister makes dumb choices that's on her

[@oholm09]

Hes done

[@Kim-Unearthed]

She's so beautiful and clearly has an amazing head on her shoulders and is a great mama. She's going to be okay, I'm sure of it. That takes incredible strength to walk away from a situation like hers. I hope her and her son are thriving now 🙏🏼❤

[@joaddahtezembong724]

She needs to stop having babies; why does she continue to give him children?!?! She needs to control her fertility.

[@priskillacilla1549]

@@joaddahtezembong724 Yeah they both gotta stop having my babies with each other. I'm thinking she laid with him out of fear or hope again, but obviously he won't change

[@thegermanfool8953]

Her beauty has nothing to do with her ability to stop having intercourse with these horrible men but she continues to

[@dougrissling8807]

That young lady is so beautiful and intelligent and she deserves so much more than that Punk can ever do for her. I hope that she finds the happiness in life that everyone so rightfully deserves. He " Hustles", obviously he will not change if he has that kind of attitude still after she gave him a sweet little son. Good luck to you sweetheart, and may God Bless you and your son and the one on the way. 🙏🌍✌️

[@SandiByrd]

Beautiful, intelligent.....she'll be alright if she truly means she's done. She's got a good Mom too.

[@hellokitty-pd4lr]

I CANT SIT DOWN NO MORE CUZ😂 Dude is a clown

[@jasmineharrison7822]

He’s a thug wannabe so tbh ain’t nobody scared of him

[@aliciaowen5007]

Please do a update Steve I'm really concerned for this girl I hope she got away from him safely. She can do so much better, I can't believe that some guys think that this is normal.

[@starrberrycakes]

Its pretty old

[@jarekbradshaw8543]

I remember seeing this episode, and I gotta say this...thank God for Steve wilkos, because had it been anyone else doing that, nobody would stand up to scumbags like that. I had a family member that went through this, and it took all my strength not to knock the hell out of the guy doing that to my family.

[@tieiatalks]

I was abused by my first husband (3 ICU stays). I was only 18 when I married. My dad talked a big talk about “no one is going to hurt my baby.” 🙄 He never protected me. Be their protector. ♥️

[@jessicarink7793]

@@tieiatalks um this woman on the show clearly said she didn't have a father. Her mom raised her by herself

[@theKevronHarris]

This guy is acting like the "Ca$h me outside" girl on Dr. Phil.

[@godfavored5]

💀💨😩😂

[@luwamalem9537]

Lool & Steve is killing me with the "first of all, I don't why he's sitting back stage!" 😂😩

[@brittrm8854]

Something MORE needs to be done about all these dam abusers. Why ain't we locking em up??

[@michaelamack-white117]

Police can’t do anything if you don’t press charges. Many get locked up and charges aren’t pressed or they’re dropped.

[@stephaniewallace4234]

ometimes the state will press chargers against the abusers but then they get out and well just as @Michaela mack-white said they get dropped sometimes. it is very sad. More should be done about it.

[@aprillove9318]

@@michaelamack-white117 They’re not married the DA should be pursuing the charges with or without her that’s how it works in Massachusetts

[@michaelamack-white117]

@@aprillove9318 Like I also mentioned, police still can’t make you do anything and charges would be dropped. Police can’t make you confess, police can’t make you testify, and the charges wouldn’t go anywhere.

[@NUGZo7]

Depends where u live they don't be locking up no body anymore in blue areas and if they do they're out in a day

[@naelmohammed9551]

Dude: My son is trying to protect his mom. Steve: So he’s more of a man than you are. That was straight up SAVAGE 😂, not to mention true

[@aliciareneephillips956]

L-O-S-E-R!!!! 😡🤬😤😡🤬😤😡🤬😤 I loved it when Steve got him Not 1, Not 2 but 3x for setting down. That gal is gorgeous, smart and hardworking... May God Bless Her in ALL she does, AND May God Bless ALL of you

[@jayne5185]

Beautiful lady, you deserve better and will get it. Don’t wast your time on him. Sending you strength and love ❤️

[@toris2710]

I really hope she took the help Steve and his team offered her. She needs to protect her children, just as much as herself.

[@sergiofernandez7318]

I love wayback wilkos. So much anger from steve

[@deamberw7845]

When he said the little boy tries to protect her that made me feel so many different emotions like how could u not see that’s messed up

[@ReginaldBostic360]

He has the audacity to disrespect women but if a real man get in his face he won't have that energy

[@sergiocarreon6686]

How she asking for it she even had another kid by him , she's making the bad choices staying around . She picked a loser and she is loser herself for staying with him

[@ReginaldBostic360]

@@sergiocarreon6686 how is she making bad choice were you even listening to what happened!?

[@sergiocarreon6686]

@@ReginaldBostic360 so not only having 1 kid with a abuser she has 2 kids with him 🙄 and last time I check he didn't force him self on her she never reported rape or anything she wanted and and still stayed with him 🤔

[@ReginaldBostic360]

@@sergiocarreon6686 I'm not having this debate with you maybe you check incorrectly. If u are looking to debate, do that with someone else I'm not wasting my time with you.

[@sergiocarreon6686]

@@ReginaldBostic360 then don't just remember she made her choice she stayed when beaten she made the choice to pregnant not once but twice she knew what he was about

[@mxmmianaxo1160]

He sounds like a joke 😭

[@MatthewCLewis]

He is!

[@qanico]

actin harddddd. 🤣

[@bryclyn958]

Pittsburgh accent strong ash😂

[@slaywitheestco]

Lmaoooooooo not him being proud of “hustling” .. gots ta see it through my boy

[@SuperSailorOutlawGeorgeIshaq]

I see the woman's young son being a superhero at some point given how he almost sacrificed himself to save his mother

[@heistychronicles6220]

As someone from Pittsburgh we do not claim him 🥴

[@pauladehombre2151]

This beautiful young woman and her children are now headed for lives that are safe, happy and mentally and physically free from that abusive cretin. I wish her all the best.

[@legzluvtinyy1370]

He sound like the dude from “gots ta see it through ma boy”

[@lexnikolle]

😂😂

[@kellieward4152]

I love the way you always put a protective arm around these women Steve but I would hate to be one of these abusive men if they meet you in a dark alley. Keep protecting these women and children love and peace from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺

[@leeleebabii6562]

When he got up hella quick and the chair disappeared 😂😂😂😂😂

[@CrimsonCheshir]

Godbles her and her kid. I pray that man stays away. Godbless em. Godbless

[@minavanhelsing2749]

Be smart, be strong, be protective and do what you gotta do to protect yourself and loved ones.

[@nothinginparticular6419]

I love how Steve keeps telling him to get up lmao

[@mar.69]

It’s 2 am, my tired ass read “STEVE ABUSED ME”

[@deloresjordan6043]

Your an awesome person Steve Wilkos, I'm so grateful for you to help that 👧

[@emmiberg4207]

How can someone actually look at that boy and be like “helll yeah that’s my boyfriend”… smh… he’s the worst kind of guy out there

[@WarGrowlmon18]

At least she has the strength to ask for help

[@Iamjustavibe]

They're both toxic even the Girl said that they " fight " sounds like they need professional help

[@blazaybla22]

That chair just magically disappeared between like 7:52 and 7:56

[@wwediva72]

Talk about a strong independent woman who don’t need no man

[@joshuatruvillion3044]

Single an die alone

[@robertsimmons7556]

you know I cant be stressful enough just how proud I am of her she doesn't need to put up with his abuse any further any woman needs to be treated with respect not like some kind of punching bag and that she needs to move on with her life.

[@garfield2439]

Scaredy cat sure jumped up out of the chair.😂😂😂

[@aniahmiller5281]

“He’s more of a man than you are” YES STEVE

[@O.SugarHoneyIceTea]

Punks like that only get violent with women and children, I’d love to see his reaction to a real man stepping to him.

[@mcrchickenluvr]

Or a woman that won't take his shit. I had a boyfriend that hit me once. I came back with a right hook to his jaw. He never touched me again.

[@O.SugarHoneyIceTea]

@@mcrchickenluvr yes ma’am proud of you for sticking up for yourself. 👏🏾

[@maribart4237]

This “man” would just cower down and tuck his tail between his legs cause he knows he’d become someone’s bitch real quick. They avoid confronting strong men cause they know they ain’t shit.

[@wallflower7441]

I hope she gets a restraining order

[@Frankie1103]

I wonder how life is treating him now

[@sinizka90]

As a survivor myself I really hope this lady got out of this relationship, I absolutely feel for her. I still remember being scared af when I went and got the rest of my stuff after leaving my ex at the time, luckily I had couple of my friends with me as support. Stay safe people! 🙏🏻

[@sinizka90]

@the truth there´s a couple of reasons why; I was super young, 16 when we started dating. He was 5 years older than me. Second thing is I had already experienced physical (and emotional) violence growing up as a kid from our dad, so those things played a huge role in it all. Also the violence with my ex wasn´t daily, usually it happened when he was drunk, when he was sober he was a completely different man.

[@bayleenicole2096]

He really said "MANNNNNNN" when she said you need to move out your mother's house and stop doing this and that 😂😂😂 GOD FORBID THESE MEN HAVE KIDS DISGUSTING. and how dare he tell this grown woman TO BE QUIET TO SHUT UP ?! Who tf raised this man . he's pitiful. He's disgusting and should be ashamed to be in his skin.

[@ReginaldBostic360]

He won't have that energy when a man put him in his place don't worry he'll meet his match

[@beau_sauce_god2676]

They gotta be from Baltimore LOL

[@RebelGaming4U]

Pittsburgh actually. @4:18

[@jayycorner8861]

💀fr

[@jessicarink7793]

@@RebelGaming4U you must know them.

[@7crunch]

@@jessicarink7793 no, he said it.

[@whitetiger7148]

I'm really hoping Steve gives us an update on this. 🙏

[@godfavored5]

Did he say “let me talk to cuz” 💀disrespectful

[@WarGrowlmon18]

Pretty sure that's not the definition of a physical relationship

[@aussiesteve2870]

Mother.......OK Son in-law.....know what I mean. Daughter..... Seeya. 🤣

[@chandra2911]

He’s just acting like a spoilt child and doesn’t know how to be a real man and unfortunately probably never will. I hope you stay away from this little boy as it’s obvious he’s only gonna drag you down and your babies will grow up feeling so sad seeing their mummy be bullied😣🙏🏻please realise you deserve sooo much better not only are you smart and clever but you are such a beautiful young lady and can teach your children right from wrong on your own💕🌸best of luck and much love 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@storyteller6418]

LEAVE him LEAVE him Leave him

[@seabass62yearsago]

“Steve I called your sheewww” “I been with for four yurs”

[@riggedsodarblx5363]

Just when I started watching, I was reading this comment 😂😂👍

[@notkarismaaa888]

Right when she said that I was dying 😂

[@shaneg79]

@@riggedsodarblx5363 same lol 😂

[@my2cents230]

😁😁😁

[@amyloveshistory7108]

Make a list: 5 good things, 5 bad things. Which one to you finish first? Hell, make is 10. Also, write everything down, if you can. Yes, keep a diary, again, if you can. I would live to hear an update, but I understand abuse is extremely difficult to get away from. Not only one relationship, but also recognizing why you allowed yourself to be mistreated in the first place. Generational curses are real, and this type of curse has nothing to do with voodoo. It's a learned behavior. I truly hope she, and her children, rid themselves of this parasite.

[@chantayb86]

He sounds dumb. I’m so glad she’s left him.

[@PurpleRain500]

This was the very first episode that I ever saw in July of 2011 and the rest was history! I can’t believe it’s been ten years!!! Here’s to the next ten Steve! 🥂🍾 🥳🎉🎊🎈

[@cmills19]

I’m currently dating someone who lives in Pittsburgh with me and I promise you that’s not how grown men act where we live. “I’m from Pittsburgh cuz imma show u how we do it.” 😭We see immature boys like him all the time. Thinking they’re an adult when they really aren’t.

[@juliejr]

Hope this beautiful young woman can move on with her children and make a better life ❤.

[@doloresfelix3477]

She deserves better god bless her

[@jessicarink7793]

I hope she really left him which I have a feeling she went back with this scumbag. She needs to leave him for good.

[@otsbitchtv8387]

He comes out smiling then sits down like he ain’t hear her say he chokes and punches her in public smdh 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@melissal9844]

I pray this woman stood her ground and told him to kick rocks

[@ellenandwillhernandez4298]

He jumped out that chair like his mama caught his ass doing something 🤣

[@jaredlewis6688]

Steve is the best✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿💯

[@DMG118]

Nothing helps the Black community more than committed, loving fathers

[@The_eyebrowguy]

Take it back take it way back

[@emilyemily6316]

Keep on havin those babies!

[@shayshay3424]

break that abusive cycle Hurt ppl.....Hurt ppl....

[@tendoa1483]

Lowkey want an update on this one

[@lisaloghry3171]

I hope she really left

[@lucilledukes9015]

You much love it,you stay with him.leard to love yourself first before you try. And love someone else.

[@annieg745]

I pray she did not go back to that low life!

[@Spencerlayne]

Little boys.

[@monqueawhite5782]

He ain't cuzzz he Steve!!! 😂😂😂

[@mirandavinci4146]

She deserves a prince not a sadistic creep like that

[@nita2bjuan7]

I am emotional about this episode. Physical abuse is no joke. Both of them are toxic for each other. I really hope that the help Steve's show provides is solid because they could actually end up back together again before completely healing first. And that would not be a good thing.

[@Essglizze]

She is a spitting image of her mom

[@marcopolo7768]

She's beautiful. She doesn't deserve this

[@heykayrenee_]

I feel like she unfortunately took him back when they got back home. 😕

[@fagatronluke8153]

I don’t think so. She clearly understands her situation well and knows that she wants the best for her kid and ofc another kid on the way. She said confidently that she’s done with him and I feel like she is truly gonna get away from him. Taking this huge step to even see Steve about the abuse means she wants to escape and is willing to. Idk that’s just how I see it. She seems more willing to leave than other people that I’ve seen on this show yknow?

[@jaylaw.6181]

@@fagatronluke8153 the part about them being in bed two days prior (if the dude was telling the truth) is really off though

[@fagatronluke8153]

Oh yeah you’re right. Unfortunately I don’t know these people so you never know who’s lying I guess. But that is a good point to bring up.

[@yakiralovesall]

@@jaylaw.6181 who’s to say that he didn’t force her to lay with him.

[@jaylaw.6181]

@@yakiralovesall I just said if he's telling the truth

[@markymark6089]

I hope not but I can see this ending badly 😔

[@erng8955]

She needs to leave. I get she saying shes trying but for family but there's a point in time where you just gotta get out. Easier said than done. I understand that too but she needs to just get help and get out.

[@tinadickerson4322]

Trying for the family is the worst reason to stay in a relationship. This is nothing but mentally and emotionally abusive to these children. Never stay in a toxic relationship for children because with all do respect your showing your Son violence.

[@thewatchman8290]

She is so beautiful it pisses me off hearing someone treat her like that she is a breathtaking woman and some idiot treats her like crap

[@karissacarey1971]

I’d love an update on this, i hope her and her children are doing well and are safe. That guy is a loser, so pathetic putting your hands on a woman

[@underscore55]

I missed a lot of years of Steve Wilkos when did this episode air

[@tieiatalks]

2009

[@mishammer9698]

That’s all the says u know what I’m saying 😂😂😂😂😂

[@NLMBG19]

Representing Pittsburgh ya hearrrd🖤

[@khabaled]

The producers totally had him sitting in that chair on purpose so Steve can do that to him :D

[@deirdrejones7573]

they took that chair from him quick as hell

[@adriedrake8605]

Change only happens when you decide enough is enough I pray for her and her childern

[@rileygardiner8097]

“You know what I’m sayin” 🥱🥴

[@nickmad887]

thanks

[@Pecker13]

Wow th a t girl got strength 💪 , she never knew she had , that must of been hard for her , she did it , well done you beautiful young girl .

[@kpgrim5794]

I'm from Pittsburgh and I can say %100 we don't condone this fuckery he does not represent us as a city.. is there any other city that will vouch for this man ??

[@Angus73]

I live in Fremont, Nebraska and no way in hell would this shit ever be condoned.

[@dequasiawilliams2529]

Her accent is beautiful I love how London people talk

[@Bibblesupremacy1992]

They don’t have a “London accent” it’s the hood accent lmao

[@dequasiawilliams2529]

Lol

[@isisdiamonique5481]

She is NOT from London 😂