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DELLA VLOGS

DELLA VLOGS

Жыл бұрын

Not focusing on the negative... this year has been one of the best years of our lives! So much good happened and we are forever grateful :) We love you!
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DALLIN AND BELLA
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@allyskarb
@allyskarb Жыл бұрын
Turn that room into a prayer room!! Make it your battle ground where you go when you’re at the end of yourselves and give it all to the Lord!! Having a designated prayer space can be so incredible!! Continuing to Pray for you guys!
@k.summerfield4866
@k.summerfield4866 Жыл бұрын
Bella’s story makes me think of Hannah’s story in the 1 Book of Samuel 1-2. I’m praying for them, too! ❤
@bubblez0920
@bubblez0920 Жыл бұрын
I agree with this! My friend and her husband waited 7 years, they tried IUI (where they inject the semen close to the ovaries) and God surprised them with triplets. Keep the faith guys! God is able!!!
@rileyfain1977
@rileyfain1977 Жыл бұрын
I was going to say that! Go to God about it! Miracles happen with prayer and putting your whole faith in the Lord and that he can make it happen DESPITE the odds!
@katurachupp9845
@katurachupp9845 Жыл бұрын
praying sm for u guys 😇♥️
@ygutierrez9418
@ygutierrez9418 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes yess !!!! This battle is going to get won on their knees !
@KendallBrookes
@KendallBrookes Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you guys are going through this. I have been going through 5 years of infertility and a miscarriage and I am now 17 weeks pregnant by a MIRACLE. I know this can happen for you guys. One thing that kept me going through the hard times was remembering “the person you become in the waiting is as important as what you are waiting for.” I really held onto that when I was struggling and tried to allow God to work in my heart even when it hurt more than I could explain to anyone. Hold on! One way or another it’s going to happen and it’s going to be perfect!! God has a plan for you! Something is happening to your hearts during this time that is beautiful and will produce good fruit.
@kelseyDOD
@kelseyDOD Жыл бұрын
Yes I love this! One of my favorite things about my journey of infertility is just looking at my sweet baby boys when they push my buttons… and thinking “Lord… I prayed so hard for this child. And waited so long. I WILL LOVE ANS CHERISH AND BE PATIENT IN THIS MOMENT BECAUSE OF WHAT I WENT THROUGH!”❤
@margueritethereselucila-te1597
@margueritethereselucila-te1597 Жыл бұрын
10 year infertility journey. Also tried it all for a long time. Now a mama to a happy baby (through IVF). Sending virtual support and much ❤️.
@sasha_markovsky
@sasha_markovsky Жыл бұрын
Congratulations ❤ it's surely a very much loved and adored kid 🥰
@marissa._
@marissa._ Жыл бұрын
A decade???
@Moccalatte61
@Moccalatte61 Жыл бұрын
You should Watch Jared and Britt and there infertility also ❤
@KERIELYSSANTIAGO
@KERIELYSSANTIAGO 9 ай бұрын
God bless you & that beautiful baby🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@selindedecubber6113
@selindedecubber6113 Жыл бұрын
Your kids are going to be so proud of you guys, when they'll see how courageous and strong their parents are!
@laurenhaspel
@laurenhaspel Жыл бұрын
I really hope you can get pregnant in 2023 and become parents. I feel bad that you guys are going through this
@Divine1767
@Divine1767 Жыл бұрын
Same...it is just so sad
@Divine1767
@Divine1767 Жыл бұрын
Same...it is just so sad
@kendalalexander3902
@kendalalexander3902 Жыл бұрын
I agree Divine
@KattKitt22
@KattKitt22 Жыл бұрын
I think Bella might have the same thing Montana has. Montana has a tumor on this one gland in her brain that controls all the womanly parts and she can’t get pregnant either until it’s fixed.
@finnfan1740
@finnfan1740 Жыл бұрын
@@KattKitt22They should go watch Montana and Ryans video where they talked about that or see if they can talk to them about it. So Bella can figure out if maybe thats her issue and then see a doctor about it
@sophielambertmusic
@sophielambertmusic Жыл бұрын
seeing you guys like this breaks my heart 🥺 , I still believe there will be a rainbow after the storm, you guys are so brave and I’m sure so many people are grateful to know they are not the only ones dealing with this. ❤
@GracieAndMJ
@GracieAndMJ Жыл бұрын
Yesss! ❤️
@thewallacefam1972
@thewallacefam1972 Жыл бұрын
I’m coming from a positive place when I say this. I felt this exact way for 3 years! I blamed myself until someone told me we are not powerful enough, to control pregnancy, birth any of Gods creation. Me and my husband stopped manifesting and started praying. We covered ourselves in a good church with amazing support and move out of the city and into a small town. And I’m now 10 weeks pregnant because God created this miracle. Don’t loose sight of God being in control, verses the doctors helping. They’re only people. I love you guys, and I wish someone would have told me I wasn’t powerful enough to control pregnancy and I wouldn’t have blamed myself for years. I’m praying hard for you guys!
@mirnagisselle
@mirnagisselle Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@jackieliz6809
@jackieliz6809 Жыл бұрын
Same here. Pregnant after 13 year struggle! Give the glory to Him❤🎉
@annacollier7708
@annacollier7708 Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you guys. My husband and I are walking into year 4 of infertility and you’re right, no one truly understands it unless they’ve been through it. It really does suck. Keep pressing on you guys. You’re not alone in this. ❤
@sariahangelica
@sariahangelica Жыл бұрын
Dallin saying “ I thought we would at least have a car seat in the back” broke me . Sending so many prayers and love and good vibes 💛
@blairbtravis
@blairbtravis Жыл бұрын
Every month is the month I feel like I’m going to get pregnant. Infertility does suck and it’s so frustrating. You are such a wonderful couple. I don’t even like being around my friends and their new babies. It makes me so mad and here you are, so supportive. I’m to the point now that I’ve deleted all tracking apps and I’m slowly trying to think about the positives of not having a child. Being 39, It just sucks. Prayers and positive vibes for you both. Do nothing for a while. Get your sunshine back.🤎☀️🤎
@lulunu9139
@lulunu9139 Жыл бұрын
@@blairbtravis The negative test results are the worst 😔 I feel like I need a break from trying, I just can't deal with it anymore emotionally. Sometimes it feels like no one understands 😕
@sariahangelica
@sariahangelica Жыл бұрын
Do cudolfdaq we
@sofie_ann_b
@sofie_ann_b Жыл бұрын
don’t EVER feel bad for not posting. DO WHAT YOU NEED!!! praying so much for you guys❤️
@bcc702
@bcc702 Жыл бұрын
I struggled with infertility for 4 years and I am now finally pregnant. Don't lose hope. Trust me I know it's easier said than done but I can feel that it will be your time soon. Keep your head up and keep being amazing!
@AlenaGorlova
@AlenaGorlova Жыл бұрын
I watched this on the way home from work and was literally crying with you! Dallin and Bella you guys are such amazing people and God is definitely using you! You both carry a light and hope and it’s beautiful! This is painful, heartbreaking and so difficult! In these moments it feels like the heart is exploding from sadness and pain. You try, try to hope for the better, to keep it in, to keep it together and at one point it gets so hard and feels like it’s too much and the heart just bursts into pieces. What you’re going through is NOT easy and you guys are so strong! How I pray that God sends His peace and comfort to your hearts and that you do have a child of your own! What a testimony and miracle that will be! Your sweet family is in my prayers ❤️ Yet hope returns when I remember this one thing the Lord’s unfailing love and mercy still continue, fresh as the morning, as sure as the sunrise, the Lord is all I have and so in him I put my hope. Lamentations 3:21 - 24 GNT But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one. ‭‭2 Thessalonians‬ ‭3‬:‭3‬ ‭NIV‬‬
@LavenderMystic3
@LavenderMystic3 Жыл бұрын
Please don’t lose hope! My parents tried for years to get pregnant and tried everything, and when they finally found a medical procedure that worked, they had triplets! The were 30 when this happened, so it’s totally possible! Sending prayers and hugs💖
@omololaajanaku9335
@omololaajanaku9335 Жыл бұрын
what was the medical procedure
@hayleystoltzfus8902
@hayleystoltzfus8902 Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for being so open and vulnerable! Really appreciate you. You said a few times - “I don’t know why I keep hoping.” And honestly that’s amazing that you guys keep hoping and expecting the best. It’s just who you guys are - that you don’t give up! That you’re willing to try so many new things. And I think you guys are incredible!! Cause it’s a really hard journey. Love you guys! 🤍
@SammieToomer
@SammieToomer Жыл бұрын
I've been watching your videos for a while and really relate to this video, your thoughts and feelings! It's CRUSHING!! We have been trying for 4.5 years, we had an ectopic early last year and got rushed into surgery the day we announced to our nearest and dearest! following that after a year of trying to get further tests done, having to go private otherwise it would have taken longer we haven't even started IVF. IT SUCKS and everything feels against you, no explanation and we can only hope. Your channel has helped me know we are not alone, thank you for your honesty and openness, we know it's not easy! Wishing you all the positivity and love!
@makalynnpugh1566
@makalynnpugh1566 Жыл бұрын
I’m going through this exact thing right now…. I’m so tired and so exhausted. I feel exactly what you feel. You guys and my husband and I started trying all around the same time and are literally going through all this stuff together. Our journey is almost the exactly the same. 😢❤️ love you guys. You have helped keep me strong with your positivity. It’s been so hard.
@sallyringer1499
@sallyringer1499 Жыл бұрын
Prayers that everything gets better and you get your baby! God and Jesus love you! God bless you!
@LadyAuston
@LadyAuston Жыл бұрын
These videos are honestly my favorite where you both sit down and just talk and be real about what’s happening in your life.
@stephanielarkin6941
@stephanielarkin6941 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you guys. No one deserves this, but especially you two. I hope 2023 brings back hope and a baby for you ♥️♥️♥️
@jamieginther2341
@jamieginther2341 Жыл бұрын
My heart aches for you! Infertility is one of the most isolating feelings I have ever experienced and the holidays are tough. Nobody can understand that feeling unless you’ve gone through it. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers!
@Jenuinethoughts
@Jenuinethoughts Жыл бұрын
I have been an Origami Owl lover and avid fan/client since the very early days. So, following you was a no brainer. I appreciate that you allow us to get a glimpse into the parts of your lives you choose to share. This journey is likely the hardest so far. Even though your journey is unique to you and many of us share in the struggle of infertility in some capacity, that does not lessen YOUR pain. Just remember to still invest in yourselves and your relationship together, and BREATHE. Much love, many prayers, and mad respect. 💜
@ki4mox989
@ki4mox989 Жыл бұрын
You guys are such an inspiration! I have been battling with infertility for going on 7 years and it’s the worst experience so far. There isn’t much to say that will help I just wanted to reach out and let you know that your not alone. Every hope crushed and every negative test your not alone. Praying for you ❤
@BeeItsRaining
@BeeItsRaining Жыл бұрын
Prayers. Prayers. Prayers. We’re all supporting you in this. We love you guys. ❤️
@marinwhiting3121
@marinwhiting3121 Жыл бұрын
Bella, I’m praying for you so much right now 🥺🤍 your feelings are so valid & you are so strong.
@123jujulinha
@123jujulinha Жыл бұрын
I’m so so sorry! Going into 4 year TTC as well, the emotional damage is insane, plus for us, the financial stress that has added to our life is also exhausting, feeling like money (well, the lack of it) is literally keeping us from having a kid is so unfair. Wouldn’t wish this journey on anyone. It’s freaking hard. So I feel you, I hear you, and I’m sorry! 😢
@twoalpackas
@twoalpackas Жыл бұрын
I experienced infertility for two years before we got pregnant, and no one truly understands it unless they have gone through it. Bella, you are so much stronger than I was cuz I avoided my friends who had been pregnant and had babies cuz it just made me way too sad to be around them. I constantly had one of my brothers telling me "it's all about timing" and it's just so frustrating to constantly hear people say things that just aren't helpful. I'm so sorry you are going through this. Cry when you need to cry.
@emmamenzies3904
@emmamenzies3904 Жыл бұрын
I agree... I was diagnosed with PCOS at 27 and I had 18 months of infertility 2 IUI and 3 IVF cycles. I've experienced 7 pregnancies with 5 miscarriages. I have 2 beautiful boys and true blessings. Feeling sad is something that you are allowed
@emmak9582
@emmak9582 Жыл бұрын
So happy you got pregnant!, wishing you all the best ❤
@lulunu9139
@lulunu9139 Жыл бұрын
@@emmamenzies3904 So sorry to hear that! I am Imin a similar boat but infertility treatment is too expensive for us right now, unfortunately 😔
@ashleyburkhard7185
@ashleyburkhard7185 Жыл бұрын
Lifting you guys up in prayers ❤ from someone who is currently in the valleys of infertility I completely understand all the emotions of family get togethers especially around the holidays. Sometimes it feels like there is a cloud following you around. I pray that in those moments God’s love surrounds you and reminds you that you are not alone, God already knows what your family is going to look like and we serve a mighty God so no matter what the doctors say, God has the last say. Some days you cry and stay in bed and other days you have hope to joy, take it day by day. Love you both and sending hugs! ❤❤❤
@Anddyyyyt1825
@Anddyyyyt1825 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been following you guys before you made your infertility x journey public and this break my heart. God has timing for everything, this is leading you to your purpose in life. You got this ❤️❤️ this will be your year!!
@haleygates5342
@haleygates5342 Жыл бұрын
Y’all deserve to take time and process all the treatments. It’s okay to take time away from KZbin. You both have a huge support here and we understand that you need time to heal and process. We will be here for when y’all post but take the time you need to heal together 💝
@carliejade256
@carliejade256 Жыл бұрын
I know this is hard. I’m goin through the same situation…. I haven’t done ivf yet but the fact of having infertility… it’s hard. Praying so hard for y’all! It’s coming! God will provide 🤍🤍
@graciediemer8862
@graciediemer8862 Жыл бұрын
Your so sweet
@graciediemer8862
@graciediemer8862 Жыл бұрын
That’s gonna make them feel so much better about themselves and what they are struggling with or going with
@seraiahroslin4748
@seraiahroslin4748 Жыл бұрын
I know there are no words that we can say that will make you feel any better during this struggle. Just know that you have so many people cheering you on and praying for you 💙
@jennaromm
@jennaromm Жыл бұрын
I am praying for you guys. I truly believe God has a plan through all of this. Sending so much love!!
@kimberlynapala7137
@kimberlynapala7137 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you both! I went thru 2 years of infertility and I totally understand the emptiness of the holidays without your own little one to celebrate with. You're time will come one day and all of these emotions you're both feeling now will be well worth it all. Don't be scared for another IVF that maybe the one that changes yalls life!!!!
@kaitlynschneider3154
@kaitlynschneider3154 Жыл бұрын
Some of the things you said, about feeling like something is missing all the time is exactly how I've felt. I'm so sorry you are going through this, I pray for you guys all the time and feel so thankful for you guys. Before you started sharing your infertility journey I felt so alone, it's nice to know there are wonderful people like the two of you that understand the pain and still stay so positive.
@shelbyrichards9224
@shelbyrichards9224 Жыл бұрын
Y’all are always in my prayers ❤
@chelseaklementzos4337
@chelseaklementzos4337 Жыл бұрын
Ugh this video breaks my heart. My husband and I also experienced infertility and I wouldn’t wish that situation on my worst enemy. You both are so unbelievably strong! I know it’s so hard, but try to be easy on yourself Bella, you’re not doing anything wrong. You’re such a beautiful human, inside and out and I truly believe your miracle is coming! Sending all my love, support and prayers to you both!
@Angggg3la
@Angggg3la Жыл бұрын
Currently going through a miscarriage having so many emotions. Thank you for being so open. Makes me feel less alone
@Jessj.19
@Jessj.19 Жыл бұрын
Sending you all the love and baby first your way💛 keep your heads and I hope you will get your rainbow 🌈 babes soon💛
@MaeTesson
@MaeTesson Жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you both. You’ve made it so far through the thick and the thin I hope you both end up getting all of your dreams. You deserve the world.❤
@addisynlewis2664
@addisynlewis2664 Жыл бұрын
i know God’s got an amazing plan for y’all. Y’all have been such a big part of my life and i want to thank y’all. I will be praying for y’all
@esthernewswanger5399
@esthernewswanger5399 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing ❤. So sorry you're going thru this .Our hearts ache for you all and We can so relate with the pain and discouragment,the crushed hopes and the questions that come with infertility as my Husband and I are currently going through it too for the past 6-7 years. Prayers for you all....for healing and for hope, joy, strength and peace thru it all❤❤
@alexandraariciu1358
@alexandraariciu1358 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for you.
@meganlewis8629
@meganlewis8629 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable. Praying for you🤍
@carolineforbes2293
@carolineforbes2293 Жыл бұрын
Sending you both strength and love!! Don't change how you are feeling for your viewers- we view because we love who you both are! You are going through something difficult and I appreciate you sharing and being so honest. You both are so brave and have so much love to give!
@amandal857
@amandal857 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you both. You both deserve the world and will be amazing parents, no matter how you come into parenthood 💜
@kirsty8401
@kirsty8401 Жыл бұрын
You're not letting anybody down. You are living your life and taking us along for the ride. We love you and all only want the best. X
@emilyvanfossen4462
@emilyvanfossen4462 Жыл бұрын
You all have an army of people praying for you and that is powerful, God is for you and His timing is perfect!
@MrsDyer1206
@MrsDyer1206 Жыл бұрын
Oh I felt this so much! I am so sorry for you both! Bella you’re so gracious for sharing this journey and reminding us we are not alone! I am on this journey and I don’t even have the heart to talk to anyone about it except my husband of course! I cry and I cry every time I spend too much time thinking about it! 2 failed cycles this year and I had to stop! I had to take a break or I think I would have been sunk into a deep depression. I’m praying so hard for you! Lord infertility is so hard and idk why some of us have to endure this to have babies but one day we will have our miracle!
@hollycorderosmith2207
@hollycorderosmith2207 Жыл бұрын
I am on year 10 of infertility 😢 I just had a 3rd IVF transfer and had miscarriage number 2. I totally understand your heart break and wondering where to go now. It’s so hard on every level!!! It’s a journey that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. It feels like a never ending hell. We just can’t give up!!! ❤️
@fonjadidi
@fonjadidi Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear of your struggles too, I hope you can get what you want!
@hollycorderosmith2207
@hollycorderosmith2207 Жыл бұрын
@@fonjadidi Thank-you! I really feel for Bella and Dallin 💔
@MrsDyer1206
@MrsDyer1206 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your losses! I have had 2 failed cycles this year too! Prayers for you
@hollycorderosmith2207
@hollycorderosmith2207 Жыл бұрын
@@rcg224 Thank-you! Me too ❤️
@hollycorderosmith2207
@hollycorderosmith2207 Жыл бұрын
@@MrsDyer1206 I’m so sorry!!!! I hope you get your baby soon! Never give up ❤️ It truly sucks especially around the holidays 😭
@kckc11
@kckc11 Жыл бұрын
I actually really appreciated your unedited footage. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. We love you and are praying for a healthy pregnancy.
@lilmary5291
@lilmary5291 Жыл бұрын
Oh Bella, I feel you on all of this. I’m going through my own IVF journey and it’s so easy to feel like there’s no hope even when our spouses feel very positive about it. You are strong though. Stay positive. Praying for you both! ❤
@bkessinger94
@bkessinger94 Жыл бұрын
Hey, guys. I just wanted to send you a quick message. I hope you get to read it. I know this time in your life is so hard. There’s no words that anyone can say to make it better or fix it right now. BUT I do want to encourage you to focus on the positive of this past year and next year. Also sharing your story and struggles has helped so many. I have read so many comments on videos the last few months of those going through similar things. You aren’t alone. Your time will come. Remember that Gods got you. It’s all in His timing. ❤ you are both phenomenal people and couple. You have moved mountains for lots of people. Your mountain will come soon. Find comfort and contentment. I know that’s hard but I have heard from lots of people that for them it happened when they took a step back and stopped stressing about it. Love y’all!! Happy holidays.
@maggiebryant2070
@maggiebryant2070 Жыл бұрын
I know you guys got this. Sending lost of love and support! Praying for y’all!!❤❤
@madisonsmith7650
@madisonsmith7650 Жыл бұрын
Bella, you’re a very strong person don’t blame yourself you came into life and became a beautiful women who inspires so many people you have purpose and you mean so much to so many people you are the light that so many people look up to whether you are able to conceive or not ( which I’m praying you get the chance to and receive and get exactly what you want in life ) you have so many young people that look forward to seeing you both and getting to share experiences with you good or bad. I’m truly proud of you both for how far you’ve come and how incredibly strong you’ve been through everything you both deserve only the best just know we are all here for you and will continue to be here to support and lift you up ♥️
@unnieeli1711
@unnieeli1711 Жыл бұрын
It will come when you least expect it. Praying for you guys!
@bianca-ic8yw
@bianca-ic8yw Жыл бұрын
I have an incredible amount of respect for you two. I’ve had two miscarriages and i feel like im drowning, i can’t imagine the strength it must take to be in your position in life. You are incredible. Praying that third time’s a charm for us both..❤️
@laurenash3524
@laurenash3524 Жыл бұрын
You guys are so so strong. When the day does come you will be the best parents ever. Keeping you in my prayers ❤️
@TM-UK
@TM-UK Жыл бұрын
Just sending you hope and love. No opinions. No wisdom. No solutions. Just hope and love from the UK. You got this 💜
@kaihlawalker2598
@kaihlawalker2598 Жыл бұрын
Love you all so much! You all have proven how strong your marriage is. Just loving each other through the ups and downs. Your honesty through this process is probably very hard to share but has been so encouraging to those around you. Praying for you during this time. ❤❤
@sandraarauz9345
@sandraarauz9345 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you have to go through this. It must hurt so bad .. when your future baby grow up and sees this video they’re gonna know they were so loved and wanted and desired.❤
@shelbs2603
@shelbs2603 Жыл бұрын
Sending prayers during this time! ❤so proud of you both!
@Maria-jq3zv
@Maria-jq3zv Жыл бұрын
I have no trouble getting pregnant, but I’ve never been able to hold onto a pregnancy longer than 24 weeks. It is absolutely heartbreaking. For so long, I’ve been wanting to be a mom. Then I get pregnant and lose the baby. I’m devastated. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this too. Know that I’m sending prayers your way!
@carleydiaz6373
@carleydiaz6373 Жыл бұрын
Have you been tested for thyroid problems, so they know why it’s happening? So sorry for your losses 😢
@Maria-jq3zv
@Maria-jq3zv Жыл бұрын
@@carleydiaz6373 I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (genetic connective tissue disorder). It carries a 95% chance of miscarriage or premature birth. My connective tissues are so weak that I just can’t hold the baby in. My cervix starts to dilate way too early (normally around 16 weeks), and getting a cerclage has done nothing. They said there’s ultimately nothing they can do but hope for the best each pregnancy.
@Shivuara
@Shivuara Жыл бұрын
I sat here and cried for a few minutes for you guys and with you. I have a friend who has infertility in that she has a physical disability that would be dangerous for her to get pregnant with. We have grown close as I lost my first baby to stillbirth earlier this year, and I’ve told her, I would rather have walked through stillbirth than to struggle with infertility, because that’s how hard infertility is. That’s how heartbreaking it is, and to go through that without the general populace understanding how hard it is… everyone gets how hard it is to lose your full term baby. But to grieve the babies you do not have every day, unseen - you guys are rockstars. I’m praying for y’all. ❤
@angistath
@angistath Жыл бұрын
Can't imagine how you feel and i hope none goes through this in their life! You will become great parents no matter how or when and your kids will be lucky to have you. I really wish you the best.
@favsmeditation969
@favsmeditation969 Жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much. I know it hard to get all your hopes up but just believe that this year is not over and things can still happen. I love you guys so much ❤❤
@cham7312
@cham7312 Жыл бұрын
I pray for you guys and will continue to do so ❤ 2023 will definitely be the year we get to see a Della 👶 xoxo
@bobidarling4
@bobidarling4 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could have hugged you through my phone when you broke down in your room 🫂 your frustrations are so valid and relatable to me. Especially with it being the holidays. Today I sit on Christmas Eve feeling empty and purposeless and the "sting" you described. Thank you for putting this feeling into words. It certainly does sting so much. Praying 🙏 for peace and joy for you and loved ones
@marielpindar6312
@marielpindar6312 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you guys so hard! Everything happens for a reason! I truly believe that! I never thought I’d have a baby and it happened SO unexpectedly when we weren’t even really trying! Keep your head up and I truly believe it’s gonna happen for you soon!!!
@rustyscc6382
@rustyscc6382 Жыл бұрын
It’s absolutely heartbreaking seeing you guys like this. I am praying so hard for you two to have a miracle baby. Love you guys.
@Melissahudd
@Melissahudd Жыл бұрын
Praying for you both! Praying that 2023 has a huge blessing coming your way.
@paigeperez1335
@paigeperez1335 Жыл бұрын
You are so right about the holidays being hard. Infertility is by far the hardest thing we have ever been through. You are not alone, there are SO many couples who are inspired by your transparency and vulnerability. Your videos make me feel less alone on this journey.
@ChefEmma
@ChefEmma Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you guys are going through this, I just can't imagine, you are so strong! I am sending lots of love and prayers and I just really hope this will all work out soon enough! We miss you, but take all the time you need, we understand if you need time to take break, we just want you to be happy!
@camiekirchner672
@camiekirchner672 Жыл бұрын
My friend struggled for years to get, and stay pregnant. She had three miscarriages then got pregnant and found out it was triplets!!! You just have to stay hopeful! I know right now it feels like all hope is gone, but her triplets just turned two and they’re such a blessing!
@eleyanor4763
@eleyanor4763 Жыл бұрын
We're with you guys.. I know it's hard to believe but we're right here. Supporting you, sending you energies, baby dust, and all the hope and love in the world. You're going to get through this and there's going to be a bundle of joy in your arms soon ❤️💚🍀
@amberlozano_
@amberlozano_ Жыл бұрын
Sending you both the biggest hug! You are in my thoughts & prayers. One day soon you’ll be THE MOST AMAZING PARENTS. I just know it ❤️
@tessremy-detty5025
@tessremy-detty5025 Жыл бұрын
I work in postpartum and have seen many of those miracle babies. Don’t give up!! Praying for you guys!❤
@CristinaDanielVLOGS
@CristinaDanielVLOGS Жыл бұрын
So sorry you’re both going through this. Sending virtual hugs! 🤗💕
@caseytalksjesus
@caseytalksjesus Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine feeling like you’re doing everything right to give yourself the best chance of conceiving and still struggling. I hope you know that you’re seen and heard. We support you guys and I’ll keep you in my prayers ❤
@kelseykuchynka6949
@kelseykuchynka6949 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that you’re both going through it right now. Your transparency in your videos demonstrates what strength you both have! Hoping the very best for you in 2023! I’m not sure if you’ve already done this, but while you’re going on your journey, I’d recommend maybe seeing a mental health counselor that specializes in infertility! There are so many out there that can provide empowerment, encouragement, tools to cope with the grief you’re both feeling, and allow you to process the trauma you’ve both experienced. Just like hitting the gym, it keeps your mind strong throughout this, which is such a large part of making it through these hardships! Good luck and I wish your family nothing but the very best ❤
@debbliles1069
@debbliles1069 Жыл бұрын
Secondary infertility is sucky also! Im now going through the grief of accepting that our time is done!! We have been married 22 years & now we are for the 1st time we get to go through the just us stage of life & its with out a doubt the strangest feeling! We thought that we would have 4 kids & that wasnt what God had in his plans! I have a illness that has me in bed now for most of my day & nights with crps theres a reason that we had our 2 daughters through facing infertility & then getting this illness ive seen that theres not a way that I could have gotten through having 2 more there are days i am hopeful but i could do it & then days like ive had the last 2 weeks that it is like no debb you cant! Im just learning what secondary infertility is & that it is ok to be sad & its okay to share your fight with others to know your not alone!!! Thank you both for sharing your journey with us!!
@JonathanMoralez-lq2po
@JonathanMoralez-lq2po Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. My wife and I have been together for 10 years and have been trying to have a child for 2.5 years. Were on our second round of IUI and waiting for results currently. You never think your going to be that couple to watch your friends have 3 kiddos while we can't even have 1. People always tell us, enjoy not having kiddos. we've been trying this and that and just so overwhelmed. this all sucks!! will continue to prayer y'all !!!!!!!!!
@angelh7238
@angelh7238 Жыл бұрын
next year HAS to be your year!! my heart breaks for you guys. you deserve a healthy pregnancy + baby more than anyone I know. thinking of you both extra during this time and sending so much love and baby dust 🤍🤍
@maggieriegel408
@maggieriegel408 Жыл бұрын
Hi guys, I have followed you for a long time now and love you guys so much. My husband and I are in this right now and my husband is just like Dallin he is so positive and uplifting and I feel the way you do Bella. I pray for you guys often and i do feel like God is going to make you a mommy. Someone told me once “God would not have put this on your heart if it wasn’t meant to be” I wish we could hangout with you guys because this journey is lonely and so hard and you bring all our feelings to light and help us. I prayed so hard for you both tonight - I know your time is coming and I know our time is coming too. don’t lose hope - you guys are a true inspiration
@amandajeanette3
@amandajeanette3 Жыл бұрын
I have been there 5 yrs of infertility & ivf and now pregnant! When I felt like giving up is when it happened. Don’t give up it will happen ❤
@theoryofpersonality1420
@theoryofpersonality1420 Жыл бұрын
Make sure you eat plenty of steak.
@caramarie9444
@caramarie9444 Жыл бұрын
I really feel your emotions 😭🥺 5 years and counting for us 💔 I’m really hoping you guys conceive soon ! You guys are the realest and cutest couple ever ! Hang on in there x
@AriahandGrandma
@AriahandGrandma Жыл бұрын
Watched this video after finding out your adopting! My heart is so happy for you both! God has plans for your beautiful life. He's gonna give you guys a baby that needs you just as much as you need them.
@paulinesanchez3537
@paulinesanchez3537 Жыл бұрын
I don't know what to say except the fact that I send you all the love possible ! I am sure you're going to have your angel when you won't expect it and OMG this baby is going to be loved ❤ I also want to add that I LOVE how you 2 interact with each other. You really look like an amazing "team" always supporting each other and you complement each other so well 💜
@GachalifeRiley
@GachalifeRiley Жыл бұрын
Bella we’re all with u all the way we love u sooooo much❤ u got this can’t wait for baby della❤
@GaiteeAraZareen
@GaiteeAraZareen Жыл бұрын
Hi Bella, I’m trying to hold back tears as I watch this video. I’m the same age as you and after 1.5 years of ttc, I found out this month that I may have diminished ovarian reserve. I resonate with so much of what you said. The uncertainty of when or how we’ll ever have a baby is so scary and feels so existential. Trying to have faith in God but it’s so so hard. I hope and pray by this time next year, we both have healthy and happy babies with many more to come 🤲🏼
@kaitlynemerich
@kaitlynemerich Жыл бұрын
Sending all the love and fertility vibes I can. Hoping 2023 will be your baby year❤
@hekele88
@hekele88 Жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon your channel and I was going through what you’re going through. Honestly, just be patient it’ll come. It will happen when you least expect it! Trust.
@brittanyshiers8803
@brittanyshiers8803 Жыл бұрын
Praying for y’all! I know your time will come soon! We went through a miscarriage in august and I understand the pain!❤
@youtubeaccount1708
@youtubeaccount1708 Жыл бұрын
don’t give up and don’t lose hope! Gods timing is always right and when the time is right you guys will receive the baby you’ve been wanting
@laurapalladino6235
@laurapalladino6235 17 күн бұрын
You guys do a good job of explaining all of the feelings that go into infertility. I’ve watched the past several videos of your IVF journeys and all the feelings you express I have felt as I’m going into my first IVF. It’s nice to know that all these feelings are normal for someone going through IVF and it makes me feel less alone so thank you for sharing. It could not have been easy to share some of these videos but I’m sure a lot of people going through this benefit ❤
@emilyespinosa7537
@emilyespinosa7537 Жыл бұрын
if there are two people on this earth that deserve to be parents, it’s a Dalin & Bella! One day God will bring many beautiful babies to both of you! i can’t wait to follow along the journey💗💙
@angelriddle8184
@angelriddle8184 Жыл бұрын
I am going to cry happy tears for you guys when you announce you are pregnant. Your day will come and your family and friends will celebrate you tenfold. I’m sorry you’re going through this heartbreak. ❤️
@marykuhns6123
@marykuhns6123 Жыл бұрын
My heart just goes out to you guys!!thank you for being so honest and real with us!!i am praying for you and just hope you can always know that Nothing is impossible with God!❤️
@BlairMarken
@BlairMarken Жыл бұрын
Y’all are the most strongest couple I know on here going through this difficult time and constantly reminding yourselves that it will be okay! There is light at the end of the tunnel! Y’all will be Fabulous Parents once that day comes! It will come. I’m prayerfully praying for you guys everyday!! Love you guys so much!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@lizzygrace6322
@lizzygrace6322 Жыл бұрын
This journey seems so incredibly difficult. I can’t imagine the feelings y’all are having. So many prayers have been coming your way. I hesitate to even say this because I don’t want this to hurt or seem disrespectful. Have y’all thought about counseling/therapy? Do you have someone to talk to who can empathize with you and talk you through everything? There are counselors and therapists who can help both of you stay on the same page and talk with you about staying positive as well as looking for other options. I hope this isn’t crossing a boundary, but I know from experience how incredibly helpful having a therapist/counselor can be! A 3rd party who’s trained in this type of situation may be just what you need. Maybe you’ve already tried counseling, but I thought I’d throw it out there. I know you feel so defeated after feeling like you’ve tried EVERYTHING!! God truly does have a plan for you, I hope with all my heart you are blessed soon. Keep your head high, y’all are beautiful people ❤️
@dgal718
@dgal718 Жыл бұрын
I totally can relate to your struggles- we’ve been trying since March of 2019- we’ve done everything, and we are starting IVF in January. I totally get the feeling of always “planning” for a baby…I have always done that to an extent but then like you said, the baby never comes and it just feels so crappy to go another holiday without one. I do try to have hope and keep the faith, but every failed cycle gets harder. I’m hopeful for both of us that 2023 is our year. Prayers to both of you!❤
@bflick412
@bflick412 Жыл бұрын
I am not as far into my infertility journey as you are, but I definitely understand after this year and a half. It’s been hard on me so I can’t imagine! Sending good vibes your way ❤
@njp1274
@njp1274 Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine the heartbreak you are going through. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. ❤
@caitlinjean3437
@caitlinjean3437 Жыл бұрын
Praying for a Christmas miracle for you guys ❤️
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