we need to talk...

If you are struggling entering the new year or had any doubts in your journey, I hope this video was able to resonate with you and help comfort you in some way. Wishing you all an incredible year to come - I truly can't wait to continue on this journey with you 💛
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[@marthleon1715]

You give me alex eubanks vibes in this video please dont let the fame and media destroy you like he let it destroy himself. Take a step back from that fantasy life and prioritize time with god. I wish you the best.

[@rainebierman]

Girl, this is going to be so long 😭 First off, you are one of my favorite influencers. I came across your platform over a year ago. You have come so far. And I just wanted to let you know that I am proud of you. Life can get tricky in this cruel world, unfortunately, but we have to push through it and hope for the best. I see it as “There is no tomorrow” because you don’t know if there will be a tomorrow. Anything can happen at any time. I try to be happy… but some days it is hard. When you were talking about getting close to your family, I almost cried because it's just me and my Grandma. Mom abandoned me at 16, and my father is in prison for SA me at 14. I haven't seen them since 2018. It's a long story between the two. It drove me to the point where I wanted to die. I did attempt to kill myself because I was so done with the world, but that was three years ago, and I haven’t really thought about it since. I’m at a place now where I don’t really have to worry about my life anymore, but like I said, “Anything can happen at any time.” Sometimes, I ask God to give me a sign that I am in the right place and hope for the best. Social media… don't get me started. I feel the same way as you. Social media is very toxic. I try to limit myself to 30 minutes a day, and that's it. It is very consuming, and everyone starts comparing themselves to everyone, especially if they’re the same age as the people they are comparing themselves to. I am guilty. I always wonder, “What am I doing wrong?” “How come my life isn't like theirs?” “What do I need to do to be like that person?” the question list continues. My stomach starts to turn, and I shut down because I feel I haven’t accomplished anything. Then, I look back and realize that I am not my parents. I will NOT become my parents. With the influencers I compare myself to, you never know what's happening behind closed doors. Not everyone's life is perfect. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. “Look how far God is taking you.” I love that so much. I need to get closer to my faith. Even if it starts with a daily prayer, I need to get closer to Him. I need to become a better version of myself for me. I need to finish school, but I’m on a time crunch. I thought I was settled in life to the point where I could start school. I started, and just like that… prices in EVERYTHING go up. All of my bills were so high. I had to get a second job and not do my schoolwork. I don't know what to do. There isn't a due date, so I try to turn in some of my work when I have time. My life is fixing to change soon. It will be more accessible, and I am hoping for the best. I won't have to work two jobs, so my main focus will be school. My major is Criminal Justice, but I want to transfer my credits. My goal is to be a paramedic or a firefighter. That's what I’m working towards. I have a hard time talking about my feelings with people. I always cry when I talk about my emotions… I have a journal on my nightstand that I haven't touched in months because I thought it didn't help me. I think it's time to start writing in it again. If anyone got to the bottom of this, try not to worry about tomorrow. Let God take care of your tomorrow. Live one day at a time. 💙 Diana, you're doing amazing. More things are coming, and I can't wait to see it all. Keep your head high! I love you. ❤️

[@luenanda4432]

I’m sorry if this is a bit personal but how on earth did you manage to get back up on your feet??? I’m really struggling a lot, especially these past 2 years and honestly my life’s been kind of a downward spiral. Feels like a huge void. I get bits of joy here and there, but the emptiness and sadness just eats it away to the point it feels like i’m lowkey drowning. How can you write all of this, to the point of even wanting and having the energy to help others? Thanks a ton for your message at the end, you seem like a wholesome person and thank you for that too. You deserve all the good that comes your way

[@jar7636]

Goals are like constipation. Sometimes it takes a giant push

[@francescom.8493]

Hi Diana! I'm 25 years old and I realized that we have 24h in which probably 8/7/6 h we will sleep, and the rest of them, we have to organize our daily routine and that is the most difficult part because most of the time we do not respect all we have decided to plan (the same with ours goals in which not always we respect our deadlines). So what I want to say to you, is being in love of the process, of the path that you are following, the "development" of your person and when there are obstacles (procrastination, regrets, etc.) you have to embrace them and understand that we are human beings and dedicate time to what you really want in that moment, even if you will be in late with your other goals..time to time. The important thing is to be in love with yourself and sometimes listen also your feelings/emotions rather than rationality/planning stuff etc. You say right: "When you start working on the internal, the external start making incredible changes" God bless you!!! Saluti dall'Italia 🇮🇹

[@rayoneforall]

Hi Diana, it's okay to feel. Just make sure you come back :) Try writing a letter titled "Dear Past Me" preferably the past year of you from a year ago. Keep that letter. Then read it later. You'll realize how far you've come and how great you are right now :)

[@mollygrulke1131]

Thank you for making this. I was already having doubts about myself and it’s only the first day of the new year and you really helped me put everything into perspective. You’re such an inspiration and you’re more impactful than you think

[@julienalexander6113]

This is so real. I am actually going through the same thing to the point that I wasn't on social media for about 3 years and still struggle with this. I was so down on myself, feeling like I was behind, and it would mess up my whole mood. I really appreciate your honesty and courage to come on here and be open. I could say more, but I'm going to leave it at that. Thank you!

[@uah9]

Appreciate the transparency, at least youre aware of these things so its just about setting out a strategy of how you do it. For every person you look at, theres probably 10 looking at you in the same way. Social media is a highlight reel.

[@GloriousVibe]

Praticing Stoicism is a magnificent philosophy for mental health. We suffer more in imagination than in reality. Comparison is the thief of joy after all. One step at a time, you're such a beautiful human being. ❤️🙏

[@yuriannamartinez7267]

You are beautiful inside and out. I drop off school a long time ago because it was not for me. Time pass and I still don’t have my life together. I have a dream now and I am very scared of finding out it will not be for me, but I trust that God will guide me and everyone including you to be better each day and continue our journey. Keep inspiring 💗

[@N3SSAi]

Thank you Diana for this video, I cried watching this. You spoke about everything I’m going through right now, that made me become aware of myself. Just for that, I wanted to say a HUGE THANK YOU ! You’re an incredible woman.

[@angelicarodriguez8887]

Thank you from someone in the dance world. Never pretty enough, skilled enough, liked enough, fit enough, etc etc…but when I open the Bible I remember what really matters and it takes me away from the toxic mindset

[@Caramelnapkin]

Timeline goals create failure TRUEEE IF only we would not give up we will reach that goal with baby goals and that takes time

[@user-mn8hk2ph1q]

You're amazing and foot on. Thank you for sharing this with your community. Best to you in 2024.

[@Liannydominguez301]

You know, you are my favorite fitness person and the fact that you are real and show more than just a perfect body and life is more than a role model. You give me motivation and watching videos like this make even happier cause your showing how you feel etc. I hope you have a good 2024 ❤

[@blazed468]

Thank you for making this video & speaking about your psychology & material aspects and what ur going through. I knew there are others like me but never met them or found them in social media. Finally having you who is going through same issues like me gives me comfort that now I’m not alone & can grow together with you in achieving goals & brking barriers. I promise u I got ur back & will be ur lifelong subscriber, follower, wellwisher, 3am friend always there to listen to you. I’m working on my carrier as ur working on building ur brand. I’ll do as much I can to bring awareness among my circles about ur brand & u can support me by not giving up on ur dreams and keeping ur self raw & real with us.

[@zZNateZz]

Thank you for sharing Diana. It’s uplifting & brave to hear you be so transparent about your battles. I’m grateful for it. Here’s to better days, loving & respecting yourself enough to become the best you. Its a day at a time. Remember to be proud of yourself, even on the off days. When the time is right it will be so. ❤💪

[@rdready3631]

i hope you continue to seek the heart of God and him direct your path to growth in all aspects of life. there you will find peace.

[@LylesAvery]

my favorite influencer, you are so strong and brave and many can relate to this ❤️

[@jedi_mario]

I needed this today. This all happens to me, too. You aren’t alone. Thank you for being so real and helping me.

[@ESGR1]

Thank you for sharing this, its incredibly awesome. alot of people have trouble even sharing their struggles with even close friends. this is just the reality of social media its never enough, constantly comparing, and focusing on follower numbers, likes, negative comments. this is also a reason why i dont believe in new years resolutions personally. i just set out on "goals" and however long it takes to get there is how long it takes, dont rush the journey. As long as you are making strides towards authenticity and fulfillment i believe you have already succeeded but of course success means different things to different people. i struggle with my obsession with my meals plans everything is weighed out and portioned to the exact gram. i never have cheat meals even at family dinners at christmas. i have fitness goals to reach and im doing whatever it takes to get there. i guess we all have demons were fighting.

[@Mimimim9]

We love you so much my beautiful 🫂💘

[@Isabella-cx1po]

I’m so proud of you for being vulnerable regardless of how uncomfortable it was. You are an inspiration to so many including me. Seeing you be so authentic is deeply appreciated. Most of us chase validation from ourselves and others. We chase this idea that once we become this or do this in our lives that we’ll be happy and all will be well. But we can be happy now. All can be well right now in the present. It’s just a matter of perspective. I struggle with comparing myself to everyone as well but God has helped me so much. Reading the Holy Bible and building a relationship with him is so healing. Praying is so much stronger than most people think. If only everyone knew how truly loved and valued they are by our creator maybe we’d be easier on ourselves. To see ourselves from God’s loving eyes. You are chosen by him. May God bless you and I pray that he may continue to guide you through all of your struggles. Thank you for being you. I enjoy and love all of your content

[@grahamnu1529]

Good video. I think your audience won't be surprised to see you like this, we know no one is perfect.

[@syd0300]

every single time you post I swear it aligns with my life perfectly and this is exactly what i needed to hear. thank you for being you. 🙏

[@DeathLobbyFR]

Cheers from France ! Dont worry, this feelings are normal specificly on this period of years. The pressure, the gulty, the fear...shows you're a good person. Sometimes we need to focus on own life, own business, own dream and that and that doesn't mean we don't think of others You do what you do because you love it and you want to help people, so yeah find a balance but never ever let you think, you are a bad person Cheers, keep going, we're all here with you You and everyone on comments, Have an Happy New Year and may everything go well for YOU 🎉

[@infinityxdreams7808]

Hello Diana ! I am in the same boat. What helped me was to take a step back on social media for X amount of time, and I also had to be less present for my friends because I was a people pleaser. I had to find a balance between my mental and social media+friends. I am now soon 29 and it may be cheesy, but my boyfriend helped me a lot. He is very laid back and told me to take one day at a time. If I feel sad ? I let him know. If I want to cry ? I let him know and let all that anger and sadness out. We can't keep this feeling inside us. It totally fine to let these emotions out, to feel them. It OK to compared yourself, we're humans after all. I still, today even if I find balance on my life style, I still get super depress and angry about myself, but it okay. It going to be okay, we're humans life is a roller coaster and life does not comes with instructions. I also have a agenda where I write out my feelings, as much as my boyfriend helps me, he is not a therapist and all he can do is listen. WE have to do these steps, WE are the one that will work on ourselves. You are not alone, and the past you would be proud of you right now. Yes, we want to achieve more, it is normal and we never feel satisfied, but we are proud of what we achieve today. You are great, you are a wonderful being, and I am proud of you Diana.

[@rudiiwii1]

Memento Mori. Happy New Year Diana. Love you! A 28 yo here agreeing with you and practicing them for a couple of years now.

[@elisad1975_]

Love you Diana, you are the best thank you for sharing this with us and thank you for everything you have been sharing with us this year 💙 happy new year Diana hermosa 🫂🤍

[@ogiyaonkegosa7480]

Diana, you are a human-being, not a human-doing. You're existence extends far beyond than the pressure of upholding a certain image or lifestyle for social media. You are not work, you are not the gym, you're not a rountie nor are you your eating habits. You're created by God for purpose, love and light. You're so young to drive your soul into such tire; you were not brought into this world to perform for people or a specific cause, please live and enjoy yourself whilst you're at it

[@theartst7992]

Comparison is the biggest enemy. Focus on your own path, thoughts, and overall health. It’s easier said than done, but so long as you try you are taking the right steps. As a content creator on other platforms i fully understand trying to keep up.

[@MILLIONDOLLARTRUCKERS]

Being righteous and pious is difficult but worth it. Purity in heart and mind is a good thing. Glad you’re keeping your head covered. Prayer is a act of humility and love. Staying grounded will help

[@joeventuraaa]

Diana, thank you for not being afraid to be vulnerable. Also, check out the book LIGHTER by Yung Pueblo - it’s about practicing living in the moment, it really helped me. Be kind to yourself along the journey, Diana. God bless.

[@AshlynMILL8R]

I just love that you were able to come on here and talk about your vulnerability but also knowing that a lot of people are most likely going through the same thing. I love that you’re so supportive! I’m a new subscriber, but I love your videos already! You’re doing amazing and the goals you set for yourself and also giving yourself time to make them and not stressing yourself out is so awesome to hear, and overall I just love the way this video is made and everything said! ❤

[@GGkimchi]

This was such a good video, you are amazing Diana! thank you for sharing this❤

[@rommykendar1729]

Gracias por compartir tu vida es lo más cercano que experimentamos día a día ❤

[@louishidalgo6470]

In my opinion, you are human you have the right to have this experience just like all of us just keep doing your best yes you are doing a good job

[@Caramelnapkin]

Diana I get it that’s why I don’t have social media I have KZbin for you and few other reasons like cooking videos but I know social media is not for me it gets me in my thoughts

[@patricia6610]

❤❤❤❤ needed hear this and video just popped up 🙏🏻

[@foj2932]

Thank you so much! I feel how God is working through other people. You reminded me about God's love and grace once again. In today's fast-paced environment we're way too focused on the constant race to success but in fact, relying on God more and building trustful relationships with him is the right thing to prioritize. So as you said: keep moving and you'll see. You're such a great speaker. Wish you lots of love 💘

[@darksiders2002]

I would recommend watching Rocky films. It helps me when things are tough.

[@baileyfoster9116]

Hey diana, firstly i want to thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. I feel as thought many fitness influencers are afraid to share their own struggles on the internet, due to people being judgmental and mean, as I’m sure you’re aware. But just remember there are people who will find this very helpful and inspirational so thank you for making this video. Here’s some of my thoughts if you were looking from some advice from a stranger. You have made social media a large part of your life, but it is the thing that has the largest negative emotional effect on your life. It’s opened many doors as far as success, but it also has that power to bring you down. You may need to evaluate whether the mental turmoil it brings is worth the external success. Another thing, your worth as a person is not dependent upon your success. I’m sure you’ve heard that many times. I know it myself, but still struggle with comparison and needing to always be growing and accomplishing. But you have to realize you’re amazing just as you are. You do not need to get better or improve. You are allowed to stay as you are right now, and that will be more than enough. I just want you to know you’re not alone in your struggles and you have people who relate and sympathize. I hope 2024, you’re able to relax and take that weight off yourself.

[@baileyfoster9116]

One question i think you should sit with is, why do you always need to be accomplishing more and getting better? When will you be enough for yourself? Until you’re able to accept yourself for who you are, and stop basing your worth off of your success, you will keep comparing yourself to others, and even to your past self, and keep struggling to be happy as you are right now.

[@taylorcruz1272]

Welcome to the "male", masculine experience. We as men are always stressed and under the burden of performance. We have such a role to be responsible for our families financially, mentally, and spiritually. Do not be so hard on yourself and stay in your feminine energy to feel happy. Hope it answers your question/ internal battle you have within you.

[@sethjiles2257]

Beautiful video!👏

[@darianayeseniaceballosvald1511]

que dijo

[@perishedsyn]

we appreciate you

[@Manofhonor8701]

I love you Diana! 😊. In the multiverse we are married😂. One can only wish.😅This video just shows how beautiful of a soul you have! I pray you find fulfillment in everything you do and find answers for the things in life u have questions. Keep up the great work! You truly are Awesome!!

[@sampatel41]

Amen 🙏

[@mayagonzabe7849]

i love u so much diana

[@mikewood796]

Yeah... What they said.

[@christianharris724]

Take your time and just work on yourself babe, your A1 alright?

[@Patrick_Bloom]

BE AWARE OF BODY DYSMORPHIA

[@dominiccromwell3345]

❤❤❤

[@kamid1102]

❤❤❤❤

[@kevn.san9571]

Yup we def do😑😀😂💯🤷‍♂️

[@umiryoling4140]

I love you 💖

[@v1ch0sus48]

❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹

[@ricketycricket4361]

This was master level yapping

[@GloriousVibe]

Have some compassion, bro Jesus Chirst. This was a deeply spiritual talk, not just random emotional ranting. She's pouring her heart out over here, maybe try finding yours? 🙏

[@ricketycricket4361]

@@GloriousVibe LOL I don’t remember commenting this, watching this video, or even know who this girl is 😭

[@GloriousVibe]

@ricketycricket4361 lmfao I feel you 😂

[@ricketycricket4361]

@@GloriousVibe you right tho sir; no need for me to be a dick like that. I been off the booze a month maybe I was drunk; not that I’m using that as an excuse. I apologize

[@GloriousVibe]

@ricketycricket4361 it's all good bro that fact that you're even apologizing instead of getting defensive means a lot, God bless brother 🙌

[@timherrmann697]

Which Apple Watch did you have and do you recommand it?

[@karapanagiwthh]

Firsttt🎉

[@David-gm7hj]

No se nada de inglés pero la escucho

[@rudiiwii1]

JAJA! 😂

[@CristianHernandez-xw9qu]

Eso está bien jajajaja

[@Orb1tal]

background song?

[@eduardocrestani2454]

I don't understand how she can compare herself so much to others. She's perfect, she just needs to smile more 🙂

[@dr.bendover-md]

Are you Italian?

[@Flaremanace]

tell me you are a virgo without telling me you are a virgo! hope im not wrong

[@GloriousVibe]

The human spirit transcends astrological signs, lmfao. 😂

[@Zynexys]

You should look into Islam. You'll find true peace.

[@jar7636]

Too explosive

[@ELCaptain07]

What struggle?? you have first world problems bruh. You also stress over things that do not exist like money, status or fame.

[@Patrick_Bloom]

wtf baby Diana i thought your life was perfect until i watched this video....your Instagram vids tell a different story..... you're going through a depression.....caused by BODY DISMORPHIA😊take it easy you look perfect baby

[@Kaiifit]

No ones life is perfect

[@Patrick_Bloom]

@Kaiifit what is your insta i would like to hve word w/ you kai

[@brookedelaney.1342]

This is not cringe at all. Most people just haven’t discovered the beauty of vulnerability yet. Lovely message 🫶

[@allenhodge7245]

Holy Spirit Baptism is a three-day fast to take the water 💧 of life freely 🌫🌬🔥

[@allenhodge7245]

SO YOU WANT TO TALK 👄 TO THE BEAST 🦬

[@allenhodge7245]

Boo hoo 😢

[@allenhodge7245]

You tried doing everything without God

[@allenhodge7245]

CRY 😂BABY 😂

[@scalex19]

Thank you for being vulnerable with us and offering great advice. Just take it one day at a time, you got this.🫶🏼😊

[@kathleenglenn6070]

so proud of you diana 🤍 you will forever be my favourite fitness influencer truly because of what you talk about in this video. you are so open and honest with us, and we are so appreciative of that! i wish you all the best in 2024 ✨