"We're having the best sex of our lives post-children." (Cameron Oaks Rogers) | The Real Stuff

Embark on an insightful journey through the labyrinth of new parenthood with our guest, Cameron Rogers, who's currently in the trenches of the fifth trimester with her second child. I love it when I get the chance the bring my friends on the podcast, and Cameron is a close friend in the industry. The two of us connect frequently and share intimate thoughts and financial figures about our businesses.
As a fellow podcast host and fresh to the motherhood scene, she brings a raw, unfiltered perspective on the Herculean task of balancing infant care with career aspirations. Together, we peel back the curtain on the dream and the reality of striving for professional fulfillment while nurturing a family, all while sleep deprivation looms large. Cameron's candor about the societal pressures of postpartum life, the importance of carving out time for herself and her marriage, and how her privileged upbringing has impacted her outlook on financial success is incredibly refreshing as she offers a glimpse of the often unspoken trials and tribulations of early parenting and "having it all."
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00:00:00 - 00:03:19 Introduction
00:03:19 - 00:10:58 Balancing work & motherhood in the fifth trimester
00:10:58 - 00:14:02 Division of labor
00:14:02 - 00:15:26 BetterHelp
00:15:26 - 00:18:54 Mental load of motherhood
00:18:54 - 00:21:37 Excess gifting
00:21:37 - Being a content creator
00:26:01 - 00:27:08 Jenni Kayne
00:27:08 - 00:33:03 Income & inheritance
00:33:03 - 00:38:10 Childcare
00:38:10 - 00:41:05 Lucie's thoughts on guest's boundaries
00:41:05 - 00:47:30 Growing up wealthy
00:47:30 - 00:55:23 Salaries
00:55:23 - 00:56:26 Scheduled sex
00:56:26 - 00:58:34 Early sexual experiences
00:58:34 - 01:04:05 Current sex life & how having kids has impacted that
01:04:05 - 01:06:16 Postpartum doula
01:06:16 - 01:07:30 Outro
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[@annabanana771]

I’d love to hear about how compensation works for guests on your podcast. Do guests get paid? Split a portion of revenue? Come on as a mode of publicity? I’m always intrigued how this works especially between influencers

[@aqz-xx5hq]

I always wonder the same

[@luciebfink]

Most podcasts don’t pay guests. They come on to be introduced to a new audience :) I’ve personally never been paid as a guest! And I haven’t paid any guests to appear! 💓💖

[@alyssaseedorff3286]

As a young working mom to two boys, it is so refreshing to hear her describe how I feel about work. When you do creative work, that extended time is so necessary to feel like you're doing it well. It feels like I'm doing the bare minimum most days and it's hard mentally.

[@luciebfink]

1000000% - so glad you related.

[@ruth-annakalchik7918]

Another awesome podcast!! Love listing to while I clean.

[@luciebfink]

So happy to hear this!!!❤

[@ursulamarialeft]

This collab is it! ❤❤

[@luciebfink]

we love each other heheeeee

[@sarak4010]

“Why would somebody like him like her?” Does not feel like positive energy to have towards your female friends. I would encourage Elia to focus on her strengths: Her business savvy, independence, and strong friendships. It is hard to find someone these days with the lack of third places. Maybe a third place is where her personal is hiding? I wish her the most luck and thank her for sharing and being vulnerable.

[@luciebfink]

This is the wrong episode you're commenting on but appreciate you listening!!!

[@PamelasLas]

Would be nice if you had time stamos

[@luciebfink]

We can work on adding those!!❤