We're Raising Our Kids With No Gender | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

A THROUPLE are bringing up their two-year-old baby as 'theyby', a term that refers to gender neutral parenting where the baby isn't outwardly identified by its parents as either a boy or a girl. Baby Sparrow follows in the footsetps of their 10-year-old sibling, Hazel, who was initially brought up as a girl but came out themselves as non-binary aged just four. Hazel and Sparrow are looked after by three parent figures: Ari, Gwendolyn and Brynnifer, who themselves are either non-binary and/or transgender. While the family, from Orlando, Florida, lives within a supportive community, online critics have argued it’s no wonder the children are ‘confused’ about their gender.
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[@Synaptic_Response]

Hiding the like/dislike ratio is a clear sign this is wildly unpopular.

[@Danderwhitepaw]

Agreed 100%

[@ghostlyvel]

Most of the videos don't show them lol (I actually think they do this to all the videos)

[@quisp6228]

@@ghostlyvel nah they only turn off like ratio on the videos that are controversial (like this one)

[@blacknbougie8021]

It also gives me hope that most of mankind still has it's scruples and many of us aren't falling for this 🐃💩

[@killwzve6876]

FAXX DOEE

[@burdeo2313]

“We don’t care about gender, it’s not a big deal in our lives” while also simultaneously making it the biggest deal in their lives.

[@longebane]

I know it's fun to laugh at them, but that's clearly not what they meant by not caring. It's more "I don't much care about current gender assignments, so we're doing it our way"

[@bobbylee6859]

You can identify as whatever you want. No one has to respect it and you are what your genetics made you. Can't change that, you can deny it but a lady man is still a man and a man lady is still a lady.

[@iohnxxxx]

this fruitcake family makes the munsters normal

[@zeenuf00]

@@longebane it means they're idiot narcissists with zero self awareness.

[@cemoihonay]

EXACTLY.

[@KayGrier]

For people who don’t care about gender, they are bringing a lot of attention to it

[@TheHairiestPotter]

I think it’s because they’re doing a video on that topic specifically and they’re explaining themselves and they’re beliefs.

[@KayGrier]

@@TheHairiestPotter ya but even by purposely avoiding it in their household it kinda highlights the whole topic in my opinion

[@rianoncl]

👏👏👏

[@blankxo1062]

You took the words out of my mouth.

[@greenzo6036]

But how are you gonna get respect from people when they thing you’re a ‘freak’? Prejudice comes from lack of empathy and knowledge. They’re just showing who they are so people can understand that they’re human beings just like everyone else.

[@Rachelle-u3o]

Absolutely sick! This is child abuse!! PERIOD!!

[@robertsanchez7412]

Hopefully trump labels it as gender abuse and lock them up for 10 plus years and have all parental rights revoked for life

[@randyorr9443]

The children appear to have caring parents. The children appear to be happy, well adjusted, well fed and smart. Where is the sick abuse? '

[@69yearsago25]

They are so open minded that their brains fell out.

[@sovietunion6530]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5bRnqqGeKhpoaM

[@sarcasticdrag0n603]

Friiiiick yeah

😂🤣

[@sheepyleepy..2806]

lol exactly

[@ashe2419]

I SCREAMED

[@patriottherapist1360]

They are raising their kids the way they wished they themselves would have been raised. The problem is these kids are NOT them. You can't rewrite history with different kids.

[@mashookie6875]

yess

[@thepeacechannel7083]

YESSSSSSSS

[@joshuagama3241]

Thank you

[@ayoutiecutie36]

I would have loved for my parents to raise me that way They aren't forcing their kids to live this way. They are happy with it and they let them choose what they want to be.

[@a2point083]

What that goes for every parent😭

[@yellowswagmuffin920]

Please do a “where are they now” series of all these folks in like 10 years

[@mattfischertt]

100% sure they'll all have blue hair screaming about how things aren't fair.

[@yellowswagmuffin920]

@@mattfischertt “I’m not a millionaire, not because I don’t work but because discrimination “

[@epicman004]

In 10 years they’re gonna end up in 5 D’s. Divorce, drinking, depression, disappointment and despair.

[@zoexxjane]

@@mattfischertt no, 100 percent sure they’ll have a great family and great lives,

[@heidigone]

@@yellowswagmuffin920 Sorry to hear that. Me too.

[@MartyHornbeck]

Ok that’s enough internet for today

[@Gregory_ferrandis]

Agreed

[@FromtheRoots0]

Ikr

[@antoniostamndley8272]

😅😅😅😅😅

[@RAMIR3Z0]

Then you decide to go outside and you see these type of people so the only safe spot is ur house

[@antoniostamndley8272]

@RAMIR3Z0 this is brain washing,( parents) f doing is very bad , its time to go to the shrink, all of you ,

[@tylermanuel9423]

All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids..

[@MiracleTurtle]

these kids get 3!!

[@residentpotato6023]

The only thing missing here are rubber noses and rainbow wigs.

[@vladimirackermann6182]

100%

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

@@user-ws9ec9bq1c Jesus is alive, and He is sitting on the right hand of His Father. Like every human is 3 part being, so is GOD in 3. THE 3 parts OF 1 GOD: (NOT 3 gods) FATHER SON HOLY SPIRIT THE 3 parts OF 1 HUMAN SPIRIT = me SOUL = my consciousness BODY = my house or clothing THE IMAGE OF GOD = Being created in/with 3 parts. Being SPIRIT BEING, (everlasting being) having consciousness, being able to understand good and evil. and living in a body = human aka complete living soul. We worry that among the living is 10 billion souls, therefore it = 10 billion souls, created in the image of GOD. 10 billion spirits who are conscious and who dwelling in a body, and who are all named ADAM. Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. Genesis 5:2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Don+t forget, BIBLE, which is the WORD OF TRUTH, MUST BE RGHTLY DIVIDED. Dividing: Male and female created he them; = answering how the body got created, in genders. Remember, SPIRIT IS GENERLESS. and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. = letting us know, that we didn?t just get created, we also got named. So God created man in his own image, = The SPIRIT MAN got created. (1st part) in the image of God created he him; = The conscious SPIRIT MAN got created. (2nd part) male and female created he them.= the body got created. (3th part) = 1 being with 3 parts. How is Spirit genderless? because it is created so. For what a everlasting being does being in gender? gender aka being male or female comes useless. Mark 12:25 For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven. GOD is genderless (GOD IS SPIRIT) Angels are genderless (ANGELS ARE SPIRITS) humans are genderless , cause all are SPIRIT BEINGS. (HUMANS ARE SPIRITS) Trans movement is a lie, cause we entering either as males or as females into this world , is taken care by GOD. There is nothing confusing nor unanswered, if a boy born then boy born, if girl born then girl born. GOD Himself saying that He is the one who forms our bodies in the womb and then give it to us, to live in that body. Jeremiah 1:5 Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. It is GOD who formed us to be either males or females, and it is satan who comes to confuse and saying that it aint so. Thats how we got the trans movement. The confusing and laying parts, satan does. Therefore whoever "feels they to be trans" - souls, GOD has given us a power to rebuke all evil. therefore say to satan, GET BEHIND ME, SATAN, NEVER TEMPT ME AGAIN. Well what was the temptation here? - souls got and get tempted to go and destroy their temple of GOD, their bodies. 1 Corinthians 3:16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? 1 Corinthians 3:17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are. That`s how you learn to understand the bible, through dividing the word of truth.

[@kristenjensen2589]

Do these people identify as parents? They're making the kids make all the decisions...

[@mustleavenyc6907]

They, “don’t care about gender?“ They are literally obsessed with it.

[@TheOnlyPedroGameplays]

@Philip Kirby yeah this video hurts to watch

[@fjsjfmskcixkxjfdn]

EXACTLY

[@kutie216]

@Philip Kirby Notice how they turned off the dislikes lol. A lot of people probably disliked this

[@janebaker4912]

YES!!!!!

[@kyzamarrow]

@@kutie216 You do realize youtube turned off the dislikes to EVERY video on this app right? Also these parents aren't deranged or obsessed with gender, their just raising their kids with a different set of beliefs than others. What's so wrong with that? You can obviously tell that the oldest child is confident in themselves and that their a happy family. 😊 Just because they were on a video SPECIFICALLY talking about gender, doesn't mean that that's all they think about. Stop letting your disdain and disagreement with the "Gender Ideology" prevent you from recognizing a happy family.

[@EliasVergsen]

One of the most dangerous things a parent can do is try to live their life through the children they have.

[@nerissarowan8119]

Exactly. So why they use them as little dress up dolls and make them play sports or learn skills they have no interest in is beyond me. Don’t force your child to conform to your ideals. I used to be a little girl smothered in pink - I can’t stand pink now. My brother wanted to play with my dolls, and he’s now a great father. Let kids be kids and turn out based on who they are rather than who you expect them to be. I’m sure these kids will be confident and well-adjusted humans, who ever they turn out to be.

[@TheAngWel]

@@nerissarowan8119 💯 % agree

[@leightonarnold1976]

@@nerissarowan8119 trying to make a child comfortable when you were not is not that

[@e.jenima7263]

Yepvi say the same thing about mothers who put there kids into child padgents ........this is no differint.

[@morganandgoose2]

I agree with this family. I love that they don't choose there kids gender, and that the kids can decide it them self. I find what they are doing is really meaningful and out right the best thing anyone can do. I am growing up in a homophobic and transphobic household and I am pansexual and non binary, and I can't tell my family that I am non binary without risking me being kicked out of the house. Do you know how many times people have committed suicide because of those reasons, over 70% of suicide is people that identify in the LGBTQ+ community. And I personally know how it feels like having suicidal thoughts, because I get them a lot. If my family excepted who I am I would have no problems.

[@andruelambes5409]

Thats 2 men, one woman, one girl and one boy. No they/them just she and hes

[@Ebh55.]

This is bad but don't hate on they/them pronouns.

[@hughjass3434]

@@Ebh55.there’s no such thing as they them pronouns, learn english

[@Maria_d1988]

​​​@@Ebh55. No such thing! Wake up

[@ShadzVibez]

@@Ebh55. there is no such thing as they them

[@nikaffiq1426]

hahaha..clearly..it is easy to identify.

[@66fives]

Let’s get an update in 10 years

[@LaurenAgetstein]

Right! Exactly! Let’s see how much their kids resent them!!!

[@swinter1212]

@@LaurenAgetstein yep 100%

[@ingridbraz4332]

Yess please!

[@Wishfull171]

100% but a I’m certain they’d decline lol

[@ncorp2668]

Unfortunately for that little baby boy she's *intentionally choosing* to dress feminine, in 10 years he's going to have a complex about his identity and believe he needs to change and mutilate his body to match his personality. It's all downhill from here.

[@whatiknowis]

we asked the kids if they wanted to go to school they said no. as would any kid in the history of ever.

[@amalia_89]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tuankrab7475]

Brah😂😂

[@maryshell]

My kids want to go to school. As an educator, I personally prefer unschooling, but I’m letting my kids choose now.

[@maryshell]

@@tuankrab7475 ???

[@Fmfcg]

Perfect analogy. Sorry but every child wants to be special, and if you present them with this magical concept of gender changing then of course they're going to take it

[@astonville]

You can still raise a girl or a boy without actually forcing them to follow gender stereotypes. Raise a girl, if she was interested in cars as an example, then let her. You don’t have to change her gender.

[@slappymcslapster8845]

My wife has told me that when she was younger she was quite the tomboy. But that she grew out of it. And if you saw her you would admit she is every bit of a woman and very beautiful. What's happening in our society today it is so disturbing and you know what the saddest thing is? We are never going to go backwards. Never. This is only going to get worse.

[@jessicasedlacek8585]

True

[@Danny-be1ex]

I did this as a kid, I ended up gravitating to things like makeup or girls clothes and shoes after a long time, like til I was a teenager. My mom didn’t genderize my toys but I could make my Barbie dolls play with robots cause it was fun. I found it nice to grow up this way, I think it’s actually helped me loads growing this way instead of being pushed into one thing or another.

[@mariksen]

True!! My mom told me that I was interested in cars and was not interested in dolls... but she did NOT even think that I should change gender! I didn't even knew what Halloween was before I was 8 years old! :D

[@sh4tteredgl4s38]

The parents didn't force it the kids told the parents what they feel like when thier ready whats wrong with that? If anything it shows those parents want the best for thier kids and if thier kids feel like they don't fit in they let them know they are valid. I see nothing wrong with thier way of parenting and calling someone stupid just because they do patenting differently is not nice.

[@utuber6903]

This is evil. If the world were just, those adults would be locked up.

[@SunkissedPeony]

This is a hot mess of confusion. I feel like the older girl wouldn't feel that way if they didn't influence the thought.

[@ashleyhicks3902]

Yeah she seems as if she’s just feminine but because how her parents are she’s like..uhh well I just won’t pick quite yet lol

[@mashudusimone578]

Thee biggest mess. Wow

[@Custinavo]

That part, I was gona say something but I didn’t want anyone to think I was against the LGBTQ community when I’m bisexual myself.

[@CandyLovesMakeup]

100% influenced by the parents. Sad.

[@delennamachoo]

Eh. At that age, experimentation should be healthy. Hopefully, the atmosphere at home is open enough for the child to feel comfortable enough to say something if they change their mind.

[@filips989]

"I want to look and dress like a girl (and am one), but she/her pronouns don't fit me" is 100% not something a 10 year old comes up with on their own.

[@Jonathan-kv3rn]

I agree

[@pokipineapple5377]

Uhh.. yeah, it absolutely could be? I know multiple trans people, even ones with VERY conservative households who felt dysphoric at a young age. Also hate to break it to you, there will always be influences outside of the home where kids learn things.

[@meria2082]

I’d say it’s not 100%. I know an 11 year old who identifies as a gender that is not the one he was born with. Sure, kids at that age are more likely to mistake something else for dysphoria, but there’s also a chance it’s real. In this case, though, I’m a bit more skeptical because of how they’re being raised

[@amo2464]

@@pokipineapple5377 the way in which she articulates herself makes clear that she is regurgitating phrases and sentiments uttered by her parents. Her way of conceptualising identity is absolutely not what we would expect of a 10 year old who has been left to decipher these ideas alone

[@crazykindor6439]

For contraditory that it may be, those kids may rebel against their caregivers when they reach puberty, and that means that they may turn out to be good christian girls 😁

[@jenuinelyjenni5237]

Why can't kids just be kids.

[@moonstar845]

They can't be anymore. It's really a sad thing.

[@comicallylarge3359]

forcing kids to conform to traditional gender roles isnt much better lolll

[@lga7134]

I couldn’t just be a kid when I was experiencing crippling gender dysphoria. I’m much happier now that I’ve transitioned, and I wish I could’ve done it earlier so I could truly just be a kid like all the other who were living as their real genders.

[@emilygriffith6702]

@@lga7134 yeah, but they are sort of MAKING these kids transition and not even letting these kids BE a gender

[@olivierpillot9439]

@@lga7134 "iving as their real genders." so stop lying to yourself

[@MyLifeOfAdventures]

When the lady kept saying They/Them, I didn't understand if she meant one of the kids, or both of them. It's confusing. It makes life more confusing than it has to be. They and Them are PLURAL pronouns. Meaning for more than one person.

[@user-ve7hn1qf7l]

Somtimes it can also mean singular if you can’t tell the persons gender or someone is non binary. I think it depends on the context and how much you hear it tbh. Like I hear it a lot more in singular so I’m more used to it and don’t get confused as much anymore. When I first heard about it, it definitely confused me tho.

[@antoniostamndley8272]

@@user-ve7hn1qf7l if you got a winky, your male. No matter what your brain says, 😄 😆 🤣

[@user-ve7hn1qf7l]

@ uhhh ok. Idk then

[@yogeshthakur9159]

​@@user-ve7hn1qf7l people who don't really have any problems in their lives tend to look for problems. That's exactly what this non binary, binary, secondary tertiary, alpha beta gamma theta is. You go to any developing country and you say this non sense there. People make fun of you.

[@kristun216]

You're just forcing them to be genderless. How's that any different from assigning kids gender at birth?

[@taufik_sopiyan]

true..

[@harryjames7117]

Just like how genders were forced to people, please respect their decisions as parents.

[@kristun216]

@@harryjames7117 it could be argued that the foundations they are raising their kids upon could lead to much more adversities than the alternative. I only mentioned it because they brought it up as one of their points. What if they later disagreed with being raised as genderless then resent their parents for doing as such? Isn't that the same problem? I'm just saying this doesn't solve anything.

[@Wishfull171]

Truth

[@tiamystic]

@@harryjames7117 Meanwhile you’ll find the parents of Toddlers and Tiaras worse than the two families.

[@MrAppleOrchard]

I literally only clicked on this video to read the comments. It was exactly what i thought lol.

[@RevLeonPLeon]

Bro, for real!!!!!!

[@Antiwoke-b4t]

Same

[@dianemarie-is9qx]

Yes Mr. Apple, sorry, but if I see an obvious man in a dress, heels and makeup, I’m going to laugh…. It’s funny 😄

[@Vegansteak114]

The title is very promising 😂

[@shamaal123]

Yep😭💯

[@Salwerth2822]

In trying not to force a lifestyle on their kids, they force a lifestyle on their kids.

[@AnaxofRhodes]

Parents who refuse to raise their children will allow someone else to do it for them.

[@kathrynbriley4299]

Of course!

[@DaysAreForgottenBaby]

Very clever

[@aundreafinesse]

Now this i agree with

[@nuberiffic]

true. But it's also literally a reaction to other people being forced a lifestyle upon them. i mean, they literally address that in this video. It's like saying, "Indoctrination is bad, and no one should experience it" - which is essentially a form of indoctrination.

[@sumitsukira]

theyre gonna be bullied so hard i feel so bad

[@GabrielleTollerson]

ikr

[@IARRCSim]

Home schooling is a sign they couldn't cope with the bullying they already faced. Bullying is nasty but it is a fact of life that everyone ultimately has to face. Even if they could get home schooled into adulthood, are they going to be jobless too? They'll have to learn and work with the larger culture around these gender identity issues if they want to integrate with society. Bullying in schools are often harsh lessons on what is and is not culturally acceptable.

[@RJ-he2ns]

So they're labeling their kids in an attempt to not label them?

[@enzokrikorian5580]

@RJ no they don’t label them. Hazel deliberately chose to be non-binary and Sparrow hasn’t decided yet. Labeling them would be telling them they’re a boy or a girl, and that’s not what they’re doing. Calling their child (the young one) with non-binary pronouns isn’t labeling them, it’s accepting the ambiguity of gender.

[@karasoi2660]

hazel chose to be non binary

[@Creepycrawliess]

@@k.d8671 no The younger one has a chosen yet

[@bippidyboppidyboo4428]

Right!? The older one just said she’s non-binary because she knows the adults would probably shun her for identifying as her biological sex. Welcome to the “stunning” and “brave” family 😂😂😂😂😂

[@karinano1stan]

@@bippidyboppidyboo4428 no? that's quite an assumption. also they know*, them*

[@isabella-s0]

i take back every bad thing i’ve ever said about my parents

[@nowaynottoday]

haha

[@naturalbeauty4734]

For real 😂🤣👏😊

[@saistrology]

​​@@mwellh113Any generation not parents prior to 201X

[@MrRichlisa]

Lol.... this stuff is just sick... and I complained about having to mow the grass on Saturdays!!!

[@eertyecal]

Kids do not choose how much schooling they get. Parents do. That’s why they are called kids and they have parents. They need guidance.

[@thefnafdetective]

Sadly these insane, woke idiots believe that children are mature enough to make major life decisions before they’re old enough to watch power rangers

[@elelnchly]

@@thefnafdetective Yeah like what was that they/them kid, two years old? Like that kid is not old enough to decide that.

[@pokipineapple5377]

@@elelnchly exactly. And that's why they use gender neutral terms and pronouns. Gender expectations and norms exist, and that's why so many LGBTQ+ people are uncomfortable coming out.

[@elelnchly]

@@pokipineapple5377 Yeah, I know that. But I don’t think a little kid is mature enough to understand the meaning of genders.

[@apuapustaja1958]

@@pokipineapple5377 So because a few people are scared we should normalize abuse of children? How long have you been a member of NAMBLA?

[@LeonardoD.Capuchino]

One lesbian and 2 homosexuals raising kids = confusion.

[@faithmottinger682]

They are also raising them without a true education, as well. This limits their choices far more than just the gender.

[@TheHairiestPotter]

They said they would integrate them back into public school if the children wanted. Honestly, being born in the U.S. has already limited their education exponentially especially if they go into the regular school system.

[@Zzz2x]

@@TheHairiestPotter I would think a lot of private schools in the US would be limiting in life as well though

[@Zzz2x]

@@TheHairiestPotter like a lot are Christian but more white and I doubt they teach whole world views there

[@nevermore99x30]

I personally believe that homeschooling isn't limiting children(if don't correctly)

[@vanessaarnell]

Exactly! I don't see how they allow their kids to make choices on schooling. They are the parents and are supposed to guide them in the correct direction on everything but especially education and social skills. They are horrifying as so called parents.

[@sammirolo]

When my son was 3, 4 years old he wanted his nails painted. He dressed up in his sisters play clothes. He loved it. It was fun. However, not once did I think - nor did he - that this meant he was actually a female. It was just a kid...being a kid...playing around. Doing things he saw his sister and I do - and wanting to take part. He is now 16, has a girlfriend, plays football and very much identifies as a male. I cannot imagine the extent of the damage thats done to children who are encouraged to transition at such a young age because they showed interest in something that is considered to be a male or female thing.

[@sovietunion6530]

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[@naomiri3837]

sammirolo SAMEEEE im so proud of you!! When i was a little girl i was more into the colours blue, black and green, so when i went shopping with my mum i always loved to buy the boys clothes, bc the clothes for girls has always been pink, yellow, white, i wasnt into that "girly" stuff... And she let me buy without ever telling me that this was for boys and i shouldnt wear it. This is just one example, today im 21 i love pink and i love being a woman, i think it was the best thing of my parents just let me do, so you did a great job with your son i bet hes handsome👍👍👍

[@blaccoreo3110]

Wow, a sensible and unbiased comment? Shocking

[@Simplyarlenealvarez]

My mom told me that I once tried to pee standing up when I was about 3 years old…she corrected me/taught me that I don’t have the boy part because I am a girl and that I should sit to pee….I had an older brother 1 year older than me…so yeah, I wanted to do the same things he did. Yes, it is sad how kids are influenced to make such a life changing decision at such young age for what is most likely a temporary like or interest or curiosity. In my example, I was a child wanting to copy her sibling and do other stuff like her older brother with whom she spent most her 3 years of life with. As to games and toys, I was never told anything for playing with toy cars, being a bit “rough” lol (I mostly had boy cousins). I was a bit of both lol. Never once heard parents make the distinction of activities…my mom only pointed out the peeing incident because…well…it would have been messy lol. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@vivekpatil7376]

True.

[@camfranson1194]

I love how they act like they haven’t indoctrinated their kids into this.

[@RSTEM]

They definitely hold daily meetings to brainwash them

[@camfranson1194]

@Morgue VØID well I thought those things were kind of baked into the pie as well when I said indoctrination but yes, you’re correct

[@blackflag5148]

This is child abuse.

[@lanedropify]

It’s truly upsetting.

[@nwesterbeckmaster]

Yeah, somehow they fail to realize that it's not just coincidence that all of their kids conform precisely to how they expect them to be, and how they view the world. Or maybe they do fully realize it, and are doing it on purpose.

[@sm0ki]

That's child abuse.

[@frazlaz]

I just started appreciating my parents a whole lot more

[@heroicflawzyt3610]

Only two genders in this world 😊

[@natnatmac]

@@heroicflawzyt3610 non binary isn't a gender, it literally means they don't have a gender, that doesn't mean mean they don't have a sex (what body parts or chromosomes) just the gender (and social) identity that follows the binary of male/ female, which doesn't even always work genetically cause intersex people exist or people with different chromosome groupings

[@kokoindisguise8350]

@@natnatmac having a sex is literally the same as having a gender

[@natnatmac]

@@kokoindisguise8350 literally look it up (world health organisations) gender is just a construct, yes biological sex absolutely exist no but it's not the same

[@natnatmac]

Also if sex only matters what about intersex people and people with different chromosome mixes

[@kiam7904]

I feel like they are making their kids life more confusing than what it has to be. This whole video annoyed me

[@finneganaj81]

how is letting them choose, how long their hair is, what they wear, what they go by and so on making their life more confusing in any way? by letting them have more options??

[@parisinthe30sx]

@@finneganaj81 are you seriously going to reply the same statement on every comment that doesn't fit with your opinion?

[@finneganaj81]

@@parisinthe30sx I did that 2 times and the second time that I did it I changed it

[@finneganaj81]

@@parisinthe30sx got a problem? I don't see you trying to argue against it so what's your point?

[@finneganaj81]

@@parisinthe30sx if the argument stated applies to something that I already said, then say it again I will until I agree with someone who has taught me otherwise, and nobody has so?

[@danielvamu]

Why not just raise the children as their "assigned" gender? If they turn out to be transgender, which is very unlikely anyway, they could just transition when the time is right.

[@purpleembers2229]

I agree

[@greenzo6036]

The little one is intersexual, biologically they have no assigned gender.

[@ayrenbethancourt9379]

@@greenzo6036 precisely, biology is the one that provides the gender.🤦🏼‍♀️

[@artsybella4389]

I agree, plus you were born a specific gender. If you choose to change it when you are older then I guess that's your choice... But raising kids gender less is just confusing... But again this world has become confusing in general :/

[@fishbonesxx]

@@artsybella4389 You don't choose your gender identity.

[@undefinedbeauty1740]

Pretending not to care about gender while making it the center of their lives to garner attention is gross....its also mentally and emotionally abusive.

[@memeadil1904]

What im more concerned about is that the kids basically are getting no education they said they do less than a HOUR a day.

[@thelastmoonchild.]

And the parents said they follow the kids lead in schooling.... uh.. what?!

[@leijolie]

"outside of academics" youre selective hearing is so bad

[@memeadil1904]

@@leijolie what are you talking about

[@leijolie]

@@memeadil1904 why don’t you watch the vid again instead of asking if youre so confused lol

[@-itschetachi-1159]

@@leijolie So hostile...

[@danielbaker4940]

Ruin your kids lifes without saying it.

[@VelvetRose-444P]

lol look at the 3 of them 😂 I really can’t wait to see the future for all this sh**. Those kids will loathe them eventually.

[@Oosama22]

Fr

[@mic-drop-74]

The mindjob these people have gotten is crazy

[@Zack29810]

*lives I agree with you though.

[@ninjagirl7424]

Watching this november 2024 are these people okay 👌

[@karacreswell8437]

Wow….it must be tiring to be so overwhelmingly obsessed with gender and labels.

[@itzhope3787]

Fr

[@micahsaldana3625]

It's become their religion.

[@SlushynSlurpy]

Right

[@Appleby-rm6bz]

Facts

[@lisadoyle2284]

Right? I mean for people who say they don't like labels, they try to label everything. Also, IMO, this is psychological abuse. The children, wanting to please their parents are going to exhibit behavior they know will make their parents happy at the expense of their own feelings.

[@Fvanmierlo]

That's child abuse. Period.

[@horsewithnoname12345]

By “not caring” about gender it is all they care about.

[@ggpc5156]

@@EverybodyLovesSarah imagine how disappointed they’ll be if their kids just ended up a plain boring girl.

[@kickyourhead1910]

@@ggpc5156 They just don’t wanna push a gender on them, I’m sure if their kid just turned out to be a regular cis girl they’d be fine.

[@kickyourhead1910]

@Book E Because they are. At least, right now, their identity might change sure, but right now yeah they identify as nonbinary and I think we should respect that.

[@kickyourhead1910]

@Book E Sir just do your research look into “sex vs. gender”, “the gender spectrum”, and “intersex” because science proves nonbinary identities and frankly I don’t have time to educate you today but there are plenty of scientific studies you can find on it. Happy researching!

[@akirekory1277]

Gender norms are very toxic.

[@angelaegan7511]

Fifty years ago I never understood what my parents meant when they constantly said, "what's the world coming to?" Now, after all these years, I get it!

[@nickabbott319]

At least racism isn’t how it used to be all those years ago

[@nickabbott319]

@Purple Strike You feel that way?

[@nickabbott319]

@Purple Strike I get the same racist comments too I get it

[@fishbonesxx]

@Purple Strike People may be a little racist, but white people are still more privileged and less commonly discriminated against than black people. It isn't okay to be racist, but I think there should be more focus on the race that's actually being oppressed.

[@fishbonesxx]

@Purple Strike 🤦‍♂️Oh my God, typo

[@electroxcolorful]

The worst thing about this is the name Brynnifer. Idc about the rest.

[@Candicedickinsonllc]

😂

[@DivineByDesignWithDani]

I too cringed at that name

[@mirandabutler9766]

Omg totally!! 🤣🤣🤣💯 I want to punch that name in the face!

[@GerardWay4President]

XD

[@Sidsebisse]

Yes it is AWFUL! Maybe her name is a combination of Bryan and Jennifer😊

[@concernedcit3376]

Two defensive linemen in dresses and Marcy Rhodes wearing the pants is the man of the throuple 🤦‍♂️😭🤣😂

[@ajarraccoon7660]

Nice way to label your kids while trying to “not label them”

[@stevendalipis1176]

@Jan Krynicky I applaud you.... I thought it was a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively male or female... trying to understand the confusion....

[@AllAboutPurple]

@@stevendalipis1176 that’s still a label 😂😂

[@stevendalipis1176]

@@AllAboutPurple great to know

[@noriii]

@Jan Krynicky ok

[@The_Primary_Axiom]

@@stevendalipis1176 Non-binary is a label lol. Don't you see? Raising your kids and pretending they don't have a gender it can confuse the brain, hormones and body. It can seriously ruin them or make them into a man that thinks he's a woman or vise versa. It's no different than somebody realizing he's a woman in a man's body. Now he's a man/woman and confused what he is. How can't people not see it? Raising children Non-binary has its own effect that effect is a label called non-binary.

[@TheJonkler2024]

*hides the like/dislike ratio* Comment section: "Fine. I'll do it myself."

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

I don't get the joke 😅🤷

[@TheJonkler2024]

@@fatonyalmitchell3281 they disabled the like dislike ratio, so people are commenting instead. They took a half measure

[@Clarkster55]

@@TheJonkler2024 Ahhhh...thanks for telling us that. I was wondering why my dislike button wasn't working. I guess it's kinda like "everyone's a winner. Everyone gets a trophy!" No opposing emoji...sad.

[@justatransdudett7009]

@domenique devon the shouldnt 😑

[@saddlebagssally4692]

@@justatransdudett7009 Nothing wrong with being a part of the LGBTQ community...but everything in this video gave me predator vibes. These people are not right in the head. At all. And people are allowed to have an opinion that doesn't match yours.

[@charlotte-xk9fy]

the fact the likes are off says A LOT

[@marioluigi9599]

There's not much to like. The taller "parent" in the dress actually gave me nightmares. There's something oddly creepy about him. Disgusting

[@maeve2718]

@@marioluigi9599 *her

[@marioluigi9599]

@@maeve2718 well he doesn't sound like it. Nor has he done much of an effort. He just looks like a man in a dress. He's no Blaire white is he? I think that person might actually consider themselves "non-binary" like she does, rather than as a "her"

[@marioluigi9599]

@@maeve2718 so we're both wrong. He's a them😉

[@maeve2718]

@@marioluigi9599 you really just said "he's" a them?

[@abuzie]

These creatures need to be put in prison for child abuse

[@CCLyssCC]

By doing this, it makes them more obsessed with gender actually. Do they not know, you can let your kids do and play with and however they want and it has nothing to do with gender. Why do they feel the need to confuse them?

[@pinkgummybear766]

Satan that’s why

[@amandanelson4252]

Good question

[@reafaasa8065]

@hi I think there kids are both girls

[@RetroLuv_]

Yea that’s little girl shouldn’t even know these things at her age and I’m sure she never shuts up about it and all the other kids hate her

[@mommar4858]

Gender becomes an explicit (aware) focus instead of an implicit (unaware) assumption.

[@mikedavies4561]

"How and why did you decide to come out as non binary" Because my parents talk about it 24 hours a day and I was easily influencd

[@thisworldiswonka]

Yet they just said it's hardly what they talk about. Did you even watch the video

[@thisworldiswonka]

And Hazel said themselves they are non binary that's why they came to this way of parenting

[@guro_gutz]

LMAOOOOO FR

[@Ori--pw5vw]

lmao

[@obamalastname34]

Better be influenced to be a men or women.

[@nachobusiness8985]

I personally just think this type of situation would be confusing for a child of young age

[@finneganaj81]

how is letting them choose, how long their hair is, what they wear, what they go by and so on making their life more confusing in any way? by letting them have more options?? what's confusing about it? oh oh no I don't know if I should wear a dress or pants have mercy!!! I won't know who to play with on the playground because I'll be in a dress and have short hair that I choose myself and wasn't given to me like the other kids OH NO!!

[@nachobusiness8985]

@@finneganaj81 calm down keyboard warrior I was referring to the parents situation they have going on in addition to the parenting style it would be a bit much for any child let alone one that’s very young the gender choosing and such should come later when they’re older and have a better understanding of who they are toddlers believe they can fly if you tell them they can so no they really shouldn’t be deciding what gender they are or identify as for all you know they’ll say they’re a cheeseburger

[@CouchMan88]

It’s confusing for me as a grown man because I’m not an insane person.

[@finneganaj81]

@@nachobusiness8985 cheeseburger isn't a gender kids may lack knowledge but they know that it's not possible to be a dead cow on bread cover in ketchup and mustard, and so your saying we should just continue GIVING them a "gender", gender meaning gender expression like how long your hair is what you wear and you name, you know the thing that aren't permanent and are supposed to represent who you are

[@finneganaj81]

@@CouchMan88 of course it would be confusing/unfamiliar to you because you did not grow up around it, it's not insanity to let your kids pick what they want to wear and how long their hair is and what their name is

[@CandiceOnTheBeach]

Who else clicked on the video to read the comments 😂

[@graceliagreen5566]

She doesn’t realize that she’s actually OBSESSED with gender.

[@Bippyboi]

Quite literally all they talk or think about in that household I guarantee it

[@dennisjohnson889]

Exactly.

[@gloristef]

They. The parents that spoke most uses they/them pronouns

[@Ιησου̑ςΧριστςΝικά]

@@gloristef who cares what she uses

[@gabbyblaha4721]

@@Ιησου̑ςΧριστςΝικάrespect other people

[@hodgelive]

For someone who doesn’t believe in gender roles, they sure seem to have distinct clothing choices.

[@Sarah-fj2sb]

What do you mean?

[@hodgelive]

@@Sarah-fj2sb one of the parents is literally wearing a dress.

[@kevinbumgardner3553]

@@hodgelive im sure they're people who believe clothing doesn't have to do with gender.

[@sage_leaf2546]

Clothing doesn’t have a gender 👌

[@hodgelive]

@@kevinbumgardner3553 then why would someone who claims to be against/dismiss the socially constructed stereotypes participate in them? I mean obviously they can wear whatever they want but I would think gender neutral clothing would be the best example if you were raising your children to dismiss cultural norms.

[@joyoinkenberry8968]

Why isn’t anyone pointing out the fact that these children are barely educated? They spend less than two hours doing basically whatever they want.

[@shannenamaya2407]

Once they enter society it will be a shock n learning experience....I pray for these children

[@shmrnt5996]

Hazel is 100% a girl. I can choose her gender for her.

[@Near-l6e]

They need education so they can actually decide their gender at this point

[@cutie-44]

​@@Near-l6eno one decides their gender. GOD THE CREATOR ordained it before we were born. Boy born male, girl born female.

[@dforgr9257]

One child is a toddler..... They are supposed to play all day long. That is education for them. And the older child, who is only 10, is highly articulate and looks like they are actually doing pretty fine, in my opinion. They are still at an age where sitting down for half a day with books and pencils is less effective than learning through other activities and experiences. Just because we are used to conventional schools does not mean that alternative teaching methods do not work. On the contrary, childrens' brains develop faster and better with learning through play etc. I agree their way of life is amusing. I am not sure what to think of that lifestyle or their choices myself, but at this stages of these kids' lifes, there is no nothing wrong with the educational system they are in.

[@flykitty9516]

There is hope in humanity seeing the comment section. The children need guidance not influenced to be confused with who they grow up to be! Let kids grow up to be a better educated version of their younger self.

[@andreazavala4193]

I was a tomboy. never played with dolls, only played sports with the boys in school. I'm glad my mom didn't confuse me with nonbinary or not assigning me a gender, I was born biologically a female, so that's how they called me, but never told me this is what boys and girls do. My aunt got worried because I was "acting like a boy" and would give me dolls for Xmas and my mom would go "she knows she is a girl, she just like different things, let her be" I knew I was a girl but when you are young you just want to have fun and be a kid. Around 19 i got interested in dating and buying little make-up, naturally starting going out, dating but still my goofy, tomboy side never left me. I don't know what would have happened if i had parents who refused to tell me my biological gender.

[@laylah150]

comments like this are so dumb. you realise trans isn't something new. there are 50, 60 70 80 and dead trans ppl. they weren't forced to be trans, as a matter of fact, they spent most their lives hiding their transness. similarly, nobody is forcing cis kids (now) to be trans either most tomboys now and uo being masculine women, cos transness isn't performative

[@charmainej4820]

@@laylah150 why are you being emotional. This person didn't attack anyone and you are being defensive.

[@regakiller7571]

@@laylah150 she gave a fairly great point and you are just acting offended because that's something you don't agree with. I do agree with it, stop getting offended over little things.

[@mightymikeamps9317]

@@laylah150 Your comment is extremely dumb and you unwittingly proved her point.

[@maincharacter2677]

Layla Hassan Shut up. That's all that's needed to be said.

[@Nephridiliel]

The obsession with gender those people display is psychotic and its amazing how they still manage to enforce the "silent, passive wifey - dominant, outspoken hubby" 50s cliché

[@ninaorozco2869]

That is because they only care about asthetics. I am a stay at home,, homeschooling mama. We are quite traditional as well. I feel like they only focus on the outside. I wish they could take some or all of my womanly issues and pain that goes along with it. They may rethink it lols...

[@cristoferjimenez8126]

You cute but that profile pic 🤣

[@Nephridiliel]

@@cristoferjimenez8126 Makes me stunning, right? XD

[@Trump4ever25]

Except now the dudes try to look like women (yikes!) and the woman trys to look like a dude (double yikes!) I don't want to even imagine what intimacy is like with this trio. I seriously can't figure out how in the hell people have become so fu@ked up in this world. It's gotta be the water. Those kids off camera are likely shitting themselves growing up in that mess. Lord have mercy.

[@carly582]

Not trying to be sexist....But is this two transgender women and a lesbian? So there's no husbands

[@I_am_milan]

You homeschool the kids. They don't interact with the outside world. How will they figure out their own gender identity and get back to you with the info.

[@phoebewilson6739]

How do you know they don't interact with the outside world? Plenty of homeschooled children have homeschool groups or have extracurricular activities. Also they don't necessarily need to go outside to find their gender identity sure it would probably be helpful and yes they need to anyway but their gender is something that they have to figure out themselves and the only reason it would be helpful to talk to a bunch of people is to 1 here there experience (easily can be done over the internet) and 2 help them experiment and call them different pronouns (easily could use their families for this) but in any case I can garentee you that they interact with the outside world plenty.

[@desirecastle-cross9831]

woah they said they arent allowed to know people outside the home? when did they say that? timestamp it for me

[@DarthLesbian]

@@desirecastle-cross9831 They're probably only allowed to interact with other cult members. Sending them to school would risk them being exposed to ideas the cult doesn't approve of.

[@desirecastle-cross9831]

@@DarthLesbian lol

[@I_am_milan]

@@DarthLesbian 🤭🤭🤭

[@fenley2372]

I'm scared for the future.

[@AntonDogg]

The amount of therapy these kids are going to need...

[@breitfart5285]

It’ll probably be the same amount all of us need… a lot

[@quillxy]

sthu

[@Gorescripter]

​@@quillxynah

[@patch3938]

No child is going to be thinking about gender unless you constantly talk about it, teach it, debate it, etc. I feel so bad for these kids. Letting a child "take the lead" will lead to nothing but failure. Children need guidance. This does not mean you're controlling, but considering all I wanted to do at 7 was ride my scooter at the park and collect Pokemon cards, i can't say I would have been a good teacher for myself.

[@veero8130]

Very true 🙏🏼

[@BlaBla-rx7yl]

EXACTLY!! These people brainwash and confuse kids

[@chaoticcollisions5328]

But how will it lead to failure i mean by letting your child choose instead of forcing them to dress girly or boyish based on there gender i think its a great idea. Because they can dress and act how ever they want and be comfortable wearing what ever and thoughts like “ i cant wear this cause im not a boy/girl” doesn’t cross there mind. So they get to experiment with what they like and when the time comes and they choose to officially decide then they kind of get that direction on how to proceed

[@sukaenacornelius9285]

As mother and homeschool teacher of four boys all ten and under… this is disgusting to me. I hope my children are never around such adults. I hope they grow into men like their father.

[@sukaenacornelius9285]

@@chaoticcollisions5328 No for one.. the world needs boys to become masculine men, and the world needs women to be actual feminine women. The world doesn’t need confusion and enabling of children to make decisions that could ruin their child hood. As a mother of boys I would never let my children drive, smoke, or drink alcohol if they asked because they aren’t old enough and its not healthy, never mind become a girl or for the rest of their childhood just because their growing brains have an impulse sense of curiosity and imagination which needs guidance not enabling. I’m not gonna let some overly pretentious and self righteous ideology contaminate my children or the children in the rest of my family with confusion, entitlement and risks that far out weigh any plausible benefit. My husband and I are going to raise them as men, because the world needs masculine, intelligent and God fearing men, real women need them too. And If I had a daughter I would raise and teach her to be an intelligent feminine and Christ loving woman who knows to take care of a man and family the right way and pass our values and love for Christ on to the next generation.

[@vtcelt]

I’m glad my dad doesn’t have internet. His head would explode watching this

[@graceburnett7310]

Just showed my dad. His almost did.

[@vtcelt]

@Isha 🤣. It’s not 1950 anymore that’s for sure

[@mai0033]

😅😅😅same lmao

[@Chaz4Edd4eva]

Brilliant pmsl

[@zh2266]

I don't even have a dad and he'd be livid!!

[@dawn-mariestyles3666]

This is deeply disturbing and would be illegal if the authorities would apply the law. These adults are deeply unhinged! Please, social services - remove these children. Send them somewhere safe 😢

[@squizzyicetea]

Can't imagine why they turned off the dislikes

[@Guthix198]

Child abuse

[@masinalima]

nicolai mcolai what is

[@paulondawula1011]

Shocked that the comments haven't been disabled though.

[@carlontollette4832]

@@Guthix198 its not child abuse

[@tacobirb_lover2228]

@@Guthix198 it’s not child abuse it is called being a good parent

[@aimeeh.29]

Please do a “where are they now” series of all these folks in like 10 years. This would be interesting to see how the kids are as a young adult about age 20 and how their prospection changed (people change as they grow older).

[@flatearth9140]

ONE IS A SERIAL KILLER AND THE OTHER IS THE LEADER OF BLM AND THERES A PRESIDENT TO BE SOON TOO

[@svietka202]

They r probably sadly will be dead from suicide

[@shaunnibrown9]

Literally copied the first half of your comment from someone else.

[@Littlemouse884]

Ones a librarian the other has a blog on how to make the perfect school lunches and the other one is a carpainter

[@bmk256]

did u just say prospection

[@carmelmcaulay3659]

What irresponsible parents! Home schooling them for 1-2 hours a day....the children are going to be behind on so many things - all because they can’t be bothered which is clearly the case

[@ayrenbethancourt9379]

👏👏👏

[@CADsAnonymous]

Hazel said she wants to possibly go back to school when the lockdown is lifted, so that could be good.

[@elenawilliams32]

Yes. The academic disadvantages will follow their careers. The social skills learnt through mixing with peers are invaluable and can't be replaced by parents.

[@kawaiilette2462]

the older child will most likely be 2 or 3 grade levels behind when they join the school... I hope they're a fast learner!

[@altnarrative]

@@kawaiilette2462 sadly doubtful by looking at her parentage

[@SalinaNakna]

Now this craziness will come to an end.

[@whatsup8992]

You don’t want your children to be labelled but that’s what you’re doing

[@Wurmss]

I don't think it's that the don't want them to be labeled more so they don't want a label that isn't correct forced onto them

[@whatsup8992]

@@Wurmss also non-binary is technically a gender

[@Wurmss]

@@whatsup8992 I never said it wasn't

[@whatsup8992]

@@Wurmss yeah fair enough

[@janinebelleestrada7096]

The trannies at the town square salon has more wisdom to give than some modern kid who thinks deleting genders will solve problems. They will just simply say that being trans is a choice and not everyone has to do it involuntarily. Its not because of hype or social media but because deep down they know they want to be born as a woman but that didn't cause any problems because like everyone else in my town. Everyone needs to work to live and to eat and some of them were married before transitioning and even had kids. Madame Sally the oldest of the stylists, has 5 children and all have graduated college and had kids of their own. They even accumulated almost 2 million dollars to build their father her dream house that they promised. So that she could retire from working in the salon for 40+ years. she has been flowery ever since the dawn of time and good natured person but has failed in many of her relationships with men. Until she met Constancia, scratch that XD until Constancia started courting her. Her wife did all the things that a man does when courting women old school style. Until she gave in and dated connie. Sally even said that she has never been that happy to wear a grooms attire because she always wanted to wear the gown but to sal it was worth it. He has never been happier. Had kids and grandkids. Maybe s few family problems here and there but thats just the things that happens in families. Though it was really sad that they closed up shop on 2020 because of the pandemic and the saddest thing is that constancia died of covid 19. This year they opened up the salon but sally would just lay in the wooden bed inside the salon all day and sleep.compared to before where she would catwalk around the square for costumers and talking with friends. Well losing your lifetime partner is one of the most tragic thing that could happen to anyone.

[@dr4876]

"If my children don't want to go to school, it's their choice" That upset me. Children need guidance. There are just some things children shouldn't be able to choose on their own, as it severely affects their future. I hope these kids get out of this madness as quickly as possible. This isn't tolerable in any way.

[@PatchedThePipe]

Agreed, I think I'd have probably chosen to not go to school most days and stayed home to be a pirate! Parenting is a role, one of guidance/teacher/protecter/provider... the parent makes choices for the child until they are old enough to understand what they are choosing. These adults can do what they want, I genuinely have no opinion of how they choose to live, I do think they are robbing these kids of a normal childhood mainly due to their own egos & selfish reasons. I think it's clear these kids get love but there's so many worrying red flags in this household but the silent majority are labelled for having an opinion

[@nemoniewide8899]

Agree

[@yogalover2753]

Exactly because that's how kids end up becoming homeless when they get older and even if they do get a job, it's most likely going to be working at a restaurant as a server.

[@nemoniewide8899]

@@yogalover2753 I know I feel sorry for those kids they should not be raised like that that’s how kids get bullied at school

[@yogalover2753]

@@nemoniewide8899 It's not the fact they're raising their children without a gender because there's nothing wrong with being non binary. I just don't think they should get to choose whether they do school or not because school is very important. Besides that it's not as common to get bullied for something like this as it used to be and even if they do get bullied for it, most people would have stood up for them.

[@harrish619]

What a strange times we live in. I feel bad for the kids.

[@mildlycurious8333]

@traduzyh woke

[@shangeorge2520]

We are in endtimes satan trying to deceive many people Jesus is the only way

[@yanijen9733]

@t r y s cringe

[@obama1620]

@traduzyhyou make me sick

[@mattynek2]

@t r y s Cope and seethe

[@mimozamuza]

Am I the only one who clicked on the video thinking that this was Rachel Maddow with her family? 😂

[@kitchenmumma7596]

Why can't they just say "OK, you're a girl/boy, but you can dress however you like and have your own interests

[@avatiede1512]

That’s what I thought this was about

[@peachduck24]

Exactly obviously let kids dress how they want but stop being over obsessive ab labels

[@leifashley]

Because people are crazy. So they turn themselves into child psychologists.

[@ryangrumbles2216]

Not part of the radical left narrative.

[@rat-1567]

If I ever have kids I will let them be themselves

[@Mina-ti9nh]

I honestly feel like, they are setting their children up for fail. They are self projecting themselves onto their kids which is ironic . The next generation is gonna be very interesting. As for them being poly well that's their business it's not for me. However I hope the children don't feel confused and overwhelmed. I feel like these kids are gonna need serious therapy in the future . Society will pick them apart and I feel like their parents haven't really prepared them for that . I also believe they are putting too much responsibility on their kids. Why can't parents just be in the middle not closeminded but not too liberal.

[@undeadend]

and when the kids need therapy, the parents are going to blame the rest of the world and take zero responsibility. those kids didnt choose their identity, the parents chose it for them.

[@danielp7810]

You’re not wrong.

[@Mina-ti9nh]

@@undeadend I completely agree with you. The children haven't picked anything their parents nudged them in a certain direction. they do not know any better. And are going with what they see . This is damaging and so is forcing your children to be something they don't want to be. But at the end of the day it's set in stone now. I just hope the children will be ok.

[@cremebrulee419]

@@Mina-ti9nh I agree 100%. And as horrible a person I may sound like right now, I really dislike this whole thing. Poly relationship, fine. 3 parents, the more the merrier. The gender fluidity of the parents, whatever makes you happy. But to put that on a child who, as you've mentioned, know no better is really really terrible in my opinion. Those children should absolutely have the right to choose how they live their life, but when the time is right! Why muddle everything for them right from the start? :(

[@niconeuner207]

Self projecting on kids is what parents do thats the thing children learn from theor parents just because they learn something different what you dont understand makes the kids not needing a therapy. And if they get picked at its not the parents fault its the fault of the other parents teaching theor kids that there is only black and white in this world that boys have do be blue and girls habe to be pink. So nit the parents are doing the wrong thing, yes it is controversial but nothing new. And there is no middle someone always have to say something against sossdndn

[@Ehlaar]

There will be a documentary years later on families who practiced this and how it affected them years later I hope I am alive to watch it because it’s going to be wild.

[@jeremywaygay]

yeah really wild!!!!! a bunch of people saying "man im so glad i wasn't enforced to be one thing for all my life, and that my parents gave me autonomy over my identity and who i knew myself to be."

[@yamakensama7595]

Sie mal

[@melissateodola1887]

By then the robots will have become the rulers of the world and taken humans into slavery.

[@jeremywaygay]

@@CapitanNaufrago by your logic a trans kid in a cis household is pressured into being cis....oh wait. That's already a common thing bc of cisnormativity and transphobia lol. But that isn't the case here. This is going AGAINST the notion of forcing a child into a gender they later may not want.

[@nathanieldelacruz7198]

@@jeremywaygay not labelling something is a problem, and forcing someone to change their label is problem too. Forcing Twitter Woking to a child is a problem, its obvious that the parent wants them to be unique for letting them be genderless, even humans have natural gender behavior that can transition to a new behavior.

[@michaeld.j.weinkauf3884]

I think I'll hang out with the Addams family.

[@leahgregory889]

I feel like the kids don’t feel like it’s okay to just want to be a girl , which is sad !

[@Snookie222]

They have a choice...

[@BlueBaeChai]

@@Snookie222 they do.. but their judgment is clouded at the moment being so young, with probably no underlying gender issues, being raised by these people who are self projecting their struggles onto the kids. 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows.

[@artepzerimar9916]

Exactly they're gonna feel like they don't belong anywhere they're just gonna mess them up like them

[@moneyalways7674]

lee sheckler, also known as child abuse!!!!

[@libbyhelverson8261]

i think y’all shouldn’t have kids if you’re not ready to accept them 🙈

[@llisagomez5706]

Notice how they don’t want them schooled publicly because then they will hear other opinions. They want to keep them uneducated so they will be receptive to only what they hear from the parent. This is classic abuse in any relationship. Keep the victim isolated. These kids need rescuing

[@Karmen2010]

And the real world is scary. These kids have a rude awakening when they get out in society and this trio won't be able to stop it.

[@audrasupernova]

Fundamentalist Catholicism and Christianity is the biggest, most documented child s*x trafficking ring

[@adrianharrison5208]

You need to go and talk to some people who are home schooling or have been home schooled, I know a few myself and your opinion is way off the mark

[@skycat1350]

@@audrasupernova that’s different, someone got stoned to death for being a Christian

[@HeidisHereAndThere]

​@@audrasupernova 🤔 How is that?

[@subhashchandrateku2587]

The more i see this world, the more i understand why roosters start their day by screaming.

[@LuluDaDodoo]

Real 😔

[@artyomnuzhdin8711]

100%

[@Drayda6]

😅😅 I’m starting my days with the Roosters for now on

[@jamaicafox]

😂😂😂

[@ashleymroscoe]

😂😂😂

[@BoBoED-d3s]

Feel sorry for the kids, growing up with 3 mentally ill parents

[@lightyagami5317]

Imagine if they lose their child in a public place how will they describe their child as “have you seen a gender neutral child?”

[@jakefryer3071]

This is the best comment so far hahaha. I was literally thinking the same thing

[@tshialab8916]

😂😂

[@lolsamftw]

"Have you seen that non-binary clump of cells running around?"

[@Bookerdevin101]

This comment is gold

[@rt3593]

Omg...LOL!

[@kobayashimaruaikiken]

Imagine loosing the child in a mall and begging for help... "What age? A boy or a girl?" "WE DON'T KNOW!!!"

[@brandonallen3808]

I can see it right now on an SNL skit. Dan Aykroyd and Gilda Radner play the parents and Jon Belushi plays the security guard.

[@godschild483]

@@brandonallen3808 😂😂😂

[@bethw7686]

Or using the they/them pronouns and all of a sudden security is thinking they have lost multiple children...

[@godschild483]

@@bethw7686 😂

[@babys6582]

that’s stupid, they would obviously describe their child’s appearance and have a picture, would they not?

[@lacray3960]

I discovered the definition of the word non binary at my 28 years old. How is possible that a 4 years old decided to be a non binary without the parents not telling nothing... they really talked to her about it

[@thomasc9248]

@@morganandgoose2 You have a horse as your pfp. So you are just as crazy as the family.

[@mahbed]

@@morganandgoose2 literally nothing you said has anything to do with the comment lol

[@descriptivestatement]

@@morganandgoose2 Did you know that feed-oh-files can also think a lot about sew-we-side if they can't really live the kind of life they wanted to live? My point is that just bec. someone became sew-we-side-all bec. they were deprived of the kind of life they wanted doesn't mean that that kind of life is right. So your argument/logic doesn't actually hold any merit. One can even have sew-we-side-all thoughts once they became obsessed with a particular person they can't be with. But does that make their obsession justifiable?

[@nerissarowan8119]

I don’t understand your point. Do you feel that because this wasn’t a term you were familiar with in your childhood, that other people can’t understand it as a young age? I get the impression the younger kid has not provided evidence towards a gender preference at this point, it’s only the older child who has decided to officially present to the world as non-binary.

[@lunix3259]

@@morganandgoose2 You love copy pasting your comments

[@breeeeeeeeeezy]

This is disturbing on so many levels

[@dbcooper1492]

No hate, I just don’t understand.

[@its_me_lucy3355]

Neither who’s is biologicaly the kids Mum / dad

[@shennarice5749]

I don't understand either and I don't want too.

[@ayrenbethancourt9379]

@@its_me_lucy3355 we know the mom. Possible they don't even know who's the father as they are in a threesome relationship.🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@aylinchenbienchen7047]

@@ayrenbethancourt9379 eehm, didn't u notice that one of the moms is a he? So possibly he is the father

[@y_y5734]

@@aylinchenbienchen7047 is this supposed to be a joke

[@юля-ч3у]

Just because a man is feminine doesn't mean they are all of a sudden a women. Just because a women is more masculine doesn't mean shes male. My problem is is that they mistake they're gender for they're personality and traits. For example, I'm a women and I can be into pretty masculine things sometimes. But sometimes i enjoy a lot of feminine things. This doesn't make me gender fluid though. 🤦‍♀️

[@midnightfox5684]

Yeah

[@bossfrog]

Exactly. It's like they expect men and women to fit into this tiny little box of what you can and can't like, and if you differ from that you're something else entirely. Women can like masculine things and men can like feminine things, but it doesn't mean you're trans, or something "in-between", it just means you're a unique human being.

[@isabelfabbri1348]

I 100% agree with this! No hate, you are biologically born with natural traits. What your character is does not define ur gender.

[@oneikascott8806]

these ppl are 100% crazy!

[@nicnica]

I was boyish when I was a kid til I was a teenager, if they were my parents I’d probably have taken hormones to become male lol

[@xyql2541]

So they isolate their kids from fitting in with their peers and homeschool them. Their kids are gonna need therapy in 20 years.

[@amakaamaka2277]

Exactly

[@evelynrea8860]

More like 5/10 years

[@RandomBogey]

""homeschool""

[@mayam.235]

Yeah, that combo just seems like a recipe for becoming a social reject.

[@BrandyRae808]

@@evelynrea8860 .. Maybe sooner

[@matthewalderink126]

The world really has turned into a family guy episode

[@alicet23at]

Would have really liked to hear the other two parents talk more

[@Candicedickinsonllc]

same

[@haesnuts]

They did talk though-

[@morikofki5404]

Did you not watch the video?

[@lyricmoss2090]

@@haesnuts they only talked one time during the whole vid lmao 😂 that’s what her point was

[@nataliew1918]

They all talked. Ari just did most of the talking.

[@Mandenga100]

I am more considered about their education. Not more than two hours a day?

[@ladyjusticia3438]

This!!! They aren’t preparing the children for the world they are going to live in. As if being agender won’t bring them enough bias and issues, simply add illiteracy and lack of social skills to the equation. I don’t know where they live but I think the authorities need to get involved and save those kids from a bunch of confused adults.

[@HITBnn]

2 hours isn't enough ?

[@dethrone_naksam8748]

@PMT schools do better then this family is doing

[@farmschoolchicks1913]

2 hours is pretty typical for homeschool. Most lessons can be taught in about 15 minutes because it’s one on one teaching. This does not account for time getting “homework” or projects or reports done. For example: Saxon math- used in public schools- takes about 5 minutes to teach a daily lesson and then typically the child has it mastered in the next 10-15 minutes of practice and using it. History taught through reading literary works, ideas, and projects only takes about 20 minutes to read the story one day and spend 20 minutes per day the rest of the week putting together a presentation on ancient Egypt or whatever. Science experiments (like turning an egg into a bouncy ball, slime kits, baking soda and vinegar volcanoes, making play dough, baking, building a fire or going for a nature walk) go much much faster in a one on one setting than they do in a 30 on 1 setting. Language arts- 15 minutes reading to yourself, 15 minutes making spelling flash cards, 15 minutes practicing penmanship (when’s the last tome a public school kid actually sat and wrote for 15 minutes straight?), 15 minutes reading out loud while mom does the dishes, etc. That’s just the four basic subjects, it leaves a lot of time for additional things like lessons outside the home- sports or music for example- pursuing interests such as creating a business, building computers, learning a foreign language from an early age, and field trips. I’m not defending this particular family’s education, because I don’t know what they’re doing, but I will say it’s pretty typical to have 2 hours a day for lessons homeschooling.

[@big-onions-and-ogres]

That's not uncommon in homeschooling families, learning takes place more efficiently in a one-on-one environment.

[@nfvy8111]

It’s actually super ironic that they chose to project and impose their own childhood experiences with dysphoria onto their kids, despite the fact that almost 99% of people are cis. Statistically speaking, their kids would’ve grown up just fine identifying as their sex at birth, but now have to live by a set of arbitrary philosophies that really do nothing but overcomplicate their lives. It’s one thing to shift gears if their kids demonstrated that they had gender dysphoria but to indoctrinate them from birth with this concept of “no gender” is not nearly as progressive as they believe it to be. I’m also super curious at how they explained what “feeling like a girl/boy” was like to their kids, as we obviously know that descriptions like “feminine”, “dominate”, “sensitive”, “creative”, etc are obviously not gender-exclusive.

[@latoyambetshu740]

Very very very well said and I couldn't agree more

[@alicehamming4707]

This can only come from someone who never ever had to deal with any of this in real life. You couldn't have been more wrong. Great use of random % too. I'd say that 99% of what you write is born out of ignorance. But it's ok. Judge all you want. One day this will change for all and you will have to accept that gender is only what you teach it to be. Teaching your kids they don't have to fit any box, you call it over complicated, I call it their rights and freedom. Don't be scared of this, try to understand and learn. That's all I can ask of you.

[@thedaileya3786]

@@alicehamming4707 actually gender is not a choice. It's biologically set when the sperm enters the egg. Your chromosomes decide your gender. Xx or xy. And there is no way to change them! Surgery is cosmetic...only. So you can lie to yourself all you want. But science is very clear. Male or female. XX or XY. Simple 4th grade science.

[@thedaileya3786]

@@emibee3335 gender and sex are the same thing. Anything other than that is confusion. And confusion comes from Satan.

[@SpoonfulofCinnamon]

@@thedaileya3786 wrong. Science shows that there is a lot of variation in gender and sex. People can have external features of one gender and different genetic DNA. As many as 1 in 100 babies is born this way as "intersex." That's millions and millions of people worldwide. We all have different levels if testosterone and estrogen in our bodies. That's not to say they will all be transgender, but SCIENCE PROVES THAT NOT EVERYONE IS SIMPLY MALE OR FEMALE.

[@luzlopez776]

Unbelievable..they allow the kids to make adult decisions which is a big NO NO..

[@sea1tie1]

So I'm not straight, but also...this seems just, too extra. Raising your child in an accepting environment should be good enough, but like having your child think about gender at that early of an age? This seems just like for show.

[@amberrendon8520]

This 👌🏻

[@jeremywaygay]

but that's the thing,,,trans kids DO often think about gender when they're young.

[@jeremywaygay]

@@mxraeditz5597 i dont get what harm yall are seeing. the 2 year old doesn't know yet, so they decided to treat them as genderless until they eventually figure themselves out. its not like they're being taken to do surgeries or hormones or smth lol. its just letting kids express themselves without binary/cis-centric barriers.

[@melissateodola1887]

Way in the past parents didnt differentiate their children by gender until they were older. That's why boys would wear the same clothing as girls. Nowadays, baby clothes are extremely gendered when it's not necessary.

[@btbente8143]

Kids know so much more than adults think. Kids can see the difference in a man or woman. And see how people react to that. While seeing all the other reactions people are scared to what happens with these children. While over the world nobody has got it right. Every parent screws something up. Just be open for al the different styles of parenting. And give critic/feedback in a respectfull way

[@bigheadbungo]

Take me back to 2010 where peoples gender wasnt forced to be complicated for no reason

[@CoconutDieded]

Take me with you

[@cazzercarabot2701]

Take me with you

[@wokefromhome7389]

You seriously think there were no non binary children in 2010? Is it your first day on the internet?

[@lesliecurtis8073]

Whether you say "boy, girl, or nonbinary" the bottom line is they're ALL labels, so saying that you're not assigning a gender doesn't really make sense. Just let them be kids, and instead of creating an issue where there doesn't need to be one, just meet them where they're at if they show signs of struggling with their identity. My point is they're creating an issue where there doesn't need to be one! Also, when it comes to the children's education, or lack thereof they really need to step up their game, because inevitably it will hinder the kids if they choose to go mainstream when they're older.

[@Cheybot89]

Yeah those kids stuck at home listening to only their parents opinions ain’t the healthiest option lol

[@moneyalways7674]

Leslie Curtis 💯💯💯💯💯

[@bobbob9364]

Yes ,people just raise their kids ,they are the ones that are forcing the issue ,

[@moby786]

100%

[@Rebecca-tc7mf]

Amen to that Leslie!

[@Sewer_rat_sigma]

I am an ally and a lesbian, but they are kinda forcing the kids to be genderless. You can raise them without gender stereotypes at all, like not even specific colors, but this is quite a lot.

[@pringleswithhair]

I will be back when the comments have done marinating

[@chosenbyGod..]

Lollll

[@Mina-ti9nh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@anthonyfeliciano4261]

😂😂😂

[@ivy829]

You, my friend 😂

[@thestarisntshining]

😂😂

[@truh2392]

A classic example of how parents force their children to be like them

[@imnotfromthisworld5054]

No!!

[@foolishalie]

You meen like EVERY family Christian family’s race there kids Christian, Muslim families raise ther kids Muslim this family chose to raise ther family there way

[@TheBarreraLifeStyle]

@@imnotfromthisworld5054 yes exactly they say they aren’t forcing their kids but are doing the exact same thing as religions

[@b.cheese6830]

Don’t bring religion into this bro :|

[@jadasmith3499]

How they are allowing they’re children to pick which pronouns they wanna go by

[@walker4322]

When I was a kid all I cared about was when I could go to my friends house, or get the latest pokemon game, or go to the pool in the summer, I didnt give a thought to "identity"

[@Pohlmaster]

But others did that. There are tons of studies showing that parents treat babies, toddlers and children different depending on the sex of the baby, toddler and children. For example: Child Gender Influences Paternal Behavior, Language, and Brain Function A number of studies argue that parents treat girls and boys differently, and learning theory proposes that parents model and reinforce gender stereotypes in their children (Bandura & Walters,1977; Bussey & Bandura, 1999). For example, some research indicates that mothers talk more (Leaper, Anderson, & Sanders, 1998; MacDonald & Parke, 1984) and are more restrictive of physical risk-taking with daughters (Morrongiello & Hogg, 2004) than with sons. Other research indicates that western fathers and mothers are more elaborative in autobiographical storytelling with girls than boys (Fivush, 2011). Moreover, parents often encourage gender-stereotyped play behavior and household chores and dis- courage gender-atypical behavior (Lytton & Romney, 1991), and both mothers and fathers are more likely to engage in rough and tumble (RTP) play with boys than with girls (McIntyre & Ed- wards, 2009; Paquette & Dumont, 2013; Pellegrini & Smith, 1998). Related lines of research also point to differences in paren- tal behavior related to child social and emotional development. For example, fathers of young children attend more to daughters’ submissive emotional facial expressions (Chaplin, Cole, & Zahn- Waxler, 2005), convey gender stereotypes while discussing emo- tions with their children (van der Pol et al., 2015), and are more likely to express affection and respond to daughters’ pro-social behavior (Hastings, McShane, Parker, & Ladha, 2007).

[@Pohlmaster]

Or this: ‘You'd Be Good at That’: Gender Patterns in Parent-Child Talk about Courses Abstract This study examined the parent-child dyad as a context in which children's gender-stereotyped course selections are reinforced. Fifty four children from two age groups (Ms = 10.67 and 12.71 years) and their mothers and fathers selected courses for when children reached secondary school. Afterwards, children and parents discussed their decisions. Parents of sons selected fewer foreign language courses than mathematics, language arts or science courses, whereas parents of daughters selected fewer science and foreign language than mathematics or language arts courses. Girls selected fewer science than language arts courses, whereas boys selected fewer foreign language than mathematics or science courses. Although parents' course selections followed gender-stereotyped patterns for language arts and science, their discouraging comments were not confined to cross-gender-stereotyped domains. Instead, parents made more discouraging comments in general to daughters than to sons. Counter to the hypotheses, daughters made more encouraging comments about science courses than did sons while talking to mothers. The findings suggest that parents and children may show gender-differentiated preferences for children before children are old enough to make course decisions.

[@dinuxplay8003]

@@Pohlmaster Well, I understand what you are trying to say. There may be obvious parenting differences when it comes to sons and daughters. But how far that comes into effect, is not clearly mentioned in the studies you mentioned. Of course, there was one with the career choices and how parenting affect it. But that is only one variable which comes into play. When in reality, there can be many other factors that lead sons and daughters to have different career choices. This is often innate rather than influenced by the environment. If you take the most equal countries in the world (Scandinavian countries) where they have flattened out gender norms, you can still see a significant amount of men joining the STEM fields rather than men. So to say that, it is because of "parenting" seems like an unfair conclusion rather than logical. Because what it really comes down is to an individual's innate choice. And whatever the angle you look at it, gender-wise there is obviously going to be differences which are not specifically rooted from societal norms. (Leaper, Anderson, & Sanders, 1998; MacDonald & Parke, 1984) - this study you mentioned shows how mothers talk more than the fathers when it comes it to parenting or on general. Then this comes down to how men and women typically behave and it is true that women talk more than men (generally speaking), so is it a societal construct or is it just how the world works? Women are less likely than men to enter professions that are math related. For example, in 1983, women received only 13.2% of all undergraduate degrees in engineering and only 27% of all undergraduate degrees in the physical sciences. In contrast, females received 68% of the undergraduate degrees in psychology and sociology and 75% of the undergraduate degrees in education (Vetter and Babco, 1986). And aslo, IN most of the studies you mentioned, the most effect sizes were found to be nonsignificant and small. That is why these studies often end up with and maybes. But I do have to say that these are credible sources of information that you mentioned. "both mothers and fathers are more likely to engage in rough and tumble (RTP) play with boys than with girls (McIntyre & Ed- wards, 2009; Paquette & Dumont, 2013; Pellegrini & Smith, 1998)"--- the most common reason for is the biological sex differences between boys and girls. Because there are obvious biological differences that might cause a natural tendency to not rumble with little girls. " convey gender stereotypes while discussing emo- tions with their children (van der Pol et al., 2015), and are more likely to express affection and respond to daughters’ pro-social behavior (Hastings, McShane, Parker, & Ladha, 2007)." this has mostly do with the fact the youg girls tend to be more emotional than boys and there is nothing wrong with that, And also I don't understand how it is wrong to attend to your daughter's feelings, plus, if it is actually gonna be of negative effect, how exactly will it be negative for the girl's future?. Because parenting in that situation doesn't seem discriminatory but it does seems do for the boys. the existence of a sex difference in the activation relationship in toddlers: fathers activate their sons more than their daughters. Ok I am gonna stop writing for now, because I keep on going. (PS: I don't know, how your comment related to the OPs... lol)

[@Pohlmaster]

@@dinuxplay8003 „equal country“ doesn’t equal „less gender norms“ big but common mistake

[@Pohlmaster]

@@dinuxplay8003 Girls are not More emotional than boys. Read the study again.

[@daniela9171]

this is a prime example of parents pushing their belief system on their children. These kids aren't trans, they're being pushed to conform to a non-conformist lifestyle. Let kids be kids. Don't make them your little political pet.