Vintage Wedding Cost Runs High - Rich Bride Poor Bride - The Backup Plan

[@kellicoffman8440]

Is anyone else asking why are these two people getting married and how long will it last?

[@patriciamonje6741]

Jeeze I'm honestly kinda surprised these two even went thru with the wedding. I mean of course I hope that everything works out and theybare happy. It's possible this sneak peak into their dynamic isn't the norm and just from wedding stress but if this is how they always are I don't see them being happy but as I said I hope I'm wrong.

[@b1k2q34]

Huh? This is reality television. Lo lolo ololol

[@carlam4986]

@@b1k2q34 Exactly, a lot of it is played up for the show. Sometimes when you're watching these shows you can see them trying not to smile as they're "fighting" because the producing are asking them to do it.

[@JM-er2yl]

More than likely, it's possible this was entirely scripted, especially the drama.

[@marshhen]

Everybody, pay attention to whether you are passive-agressive, and constantly undermining your partner. This is a sure way to destroy a loving relationship. Like the bride in this show, you might be doing it and not realizing it because this may be how your family of origin communicated. It is absolutely toxic in a relationship and with co-workers.

[@kreh1100]

I love the 1950 theme. They did a great job with the dress and decor.

[@hayleymarie5976]

i know she seems kindve controlling but her groom didn’t get anything done and this seems like he’s constantly making promises he doesn’t complete. She’s paying for the wedding entirely and she probably feels like she has to overcompensate for his actions.

[@britvica]

she'll end up deeply bitter and disappointed...he is a manchild and broke. she can't be both, a husband and a wife. it is sad what the woman won't do to get a baby, a family.

[@NIkki-ox1ej]

True.

[@ayla9905]

Just because someone is paying for the wedding doesn't mean they have total control it's her wedding her day

[@conniebucy2423]

Sorry he's an arse!!

[@MsJubjubbird]

His studies are probably getting in the way. It's not like a job where you just go for eight hours a day and then forget about it. It's a constant thing. He probably wanted to be helpful but didn't realise how much that would involve

[@YoSamitySam]

This couple reminds me of my grandparents and they were madly in love and happily married 60 years. They had shared interests but opposite personalities that somehow balanced each other out. Playful bickering was part of their dynamic and it worked for them.

[@davisholman8149]

Hmmmm - if these two split up within six months, it would not surprise me whatsoever.🤷🏽

[@kellygill4795]

My grandparents were the same way!❤

[@sabrinaford5207]

This couple, are actually really good friends to my husband and I. They are our next door neighbours and I absolutely love them. Will defend them to the end of time.

[@jogermaine8600]

Have you seen Lisa's mother's social media? She has put about 4 filters on all her photos so she looks 30ish. Total catfish. LOL

[@Luvknots78]

My friend married a guy like this. He was so lazy and unmotivated. They got divorced.

[@valerielinares2068]

I don't blame her for standing her ground about the outdoor wedding. I've always wanted a wedding that's all outdoors. That's a hill I'm willing to die on. Granted, her entire wedding wasn't outdoors. Still, I appreciate her gumption!

[@roshnis3855]

When not under stress, he is funny,goofy and sweet she is responsible and loving . That makes an excellent couple. Watch till the end to see that ❤️ that's my opinion 😃

[@sanj5860]

The bride is bossy like the mum. That guy should run for the hills 🙄🤣💪

[@cherryblossom72555]

Did anyone else catch the bride say "we'll have to bring vaccines for everyone"?

[@emmef7970]

Two minutes in and I'm cringing. Could never live like this. Good luck!

[@pamelacoston1142]

I love all your comments. I want to keep reading. A lot of great opinions. 😊

[@lindamclellan6113]

A 28 year old student who can’t work?? How many students work at least part time while going to school.

[@MrsEJV]

I don’t like either the bride OR the groom. Why would you elect to marry someone you can’t get along with? They were still arguing after the fact.

[@sabrinaford5207]

Production is the reason they were arguing so much. All arguments were scripted.

[@kellicoffman8440]

Loved it when the wedding 💒 planner said “Ashe husband wife you apologize that’s how that works “

[@tbush9180]

Five minutes in, I can't stand this bride, she's a bully and thinks it's cute. He will need a divorce lawyer eventually.

[@meganpare8998]

Funniest part of this episode is watching her try to wear the bird cage 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ It doesn’t go over your eyes like that 😂😂😂 its supposed to be set back closer to the bun , lightly off centered and just the front edge of the cage leaning over the forehead, this chick straight up stuck it to her head and over her eyes like its a vail 😂😂😂

[@tracypage9911]

Elope!

[@linexline5763]

I have sern those "bird cage" head pieces before. They aren't my favorite, but personally this was really ugly.

[@orangeziggy348]

It doesnt matter since she looked beautiful in it. Who makes these rules anyway?

[@jodievukmir3187]

Don't forget..she is a fashion designer 😅😅😅

[@Burlykim13]

Second venue was far better and holee crap that dress turned out phenomenal. His vows made me almost cry. These two really won me over by the second half of the episode.

[@janiee7591]

Ugh, not just a bridezilla, a wifezilla I’m afraid. She talks down to him like he’s dumb and she’s sooo much smarter.

[@heavenlymermaid4595]

Dress came out amazing!!!!!

[@brendatroth3860]

This is why my husband and I got married at the Justice of the Peace and did not go thru all of this stuff for a one day event. We have been happily married over 30 yrs.

[@b1k2q34]

Cannot imagine caring enough about a wedding to pay 150 per person for food ?

[@sophienienow4308]

$1.50 pet person!! Still adds up, much MUCH more reasonable than of it was $150 😂😅

[@jilllowman9848]

I would be very surprised if this marriage lasts.

[@shannonobrien9922]

Me 2

[@b1k2q34]

You know that this is all scripted , as in not real. Like......fake. A little too invested there aren't ya?

[@simt1973]

They are, looks like it according to Facebook

[@anettas.1751]

12:35 after THIS is what you say to your friends when they bring you their dresses - you have no friends anymore. byeee

[@joank.0421]

Groom reminds me of Steve Zahn. Best of luck to this couple. ❤🥂❤

[@jacquelyngonzales5635]

Im.sorry this is driving me nuts I'm gonna start planning my wedding this is giving me a stomach ache watching this lol ughh

[@maryamsadr8602]

I wish them Happiness after all.But to my opinion if we respect our parents just for love, it will bring a lot of blessings in our ways... and WHY I say so, that's because I had hundreds time of experiences in my life!

[@jodievukmir3187]

The canoe idea is cool

[@ayla9905]

27:50 dude what do you mean you don't fulfill your promises you don't finish anything at all so what do you mean

[@dannihenson3420]

Ive seen how this most likely ends sadly, she will turn more cynical, he will promise the stars and give a pile of dirt.

[@ayla9905]

27:55 fr like he doesn't fulfill his promises now they are not sure where they are having their wedding all because of the groom

[@julieoldfield5506]

She wants everything her way. Feel so sorry for groom!

[@wmijjministryshow2321]

I love the mother’s expression. 🤣🤣🤣

[@laceypatterson916]

I know the mom wanted a church wedding ,but the bride and groom know what they want and Mom needs to respect their decision no matter what. It's not like God is only inside churches. God is all seeing and everywhere..

[@sharontibbo2510]

such opposites will likely spend there lives fighting, if they end up staying together

[@ayla9905]

The groom is making promises he can't fulfill like shouldnt a wall be standing up and not down like just hire someone to do a prop for the wedding or a balloon Garland

[@lisafreebairn7736]

She is so mean to these other woman about their wedding dresses. Their dresses mean something and she disregards them. Dislike her!

[@ayla9905]

For my future wedding I would want to have a glow in the dark theme neon colors balloons and a glow in the dark decorations and glow in the dark glasses Mickey mouse ears and great food great desserts I want a candy 🍬 buffet also

[@kellicoffman8440]

😂LoL

[@anettas.1751]

38:00 his vows are more intense than hers.

[@maryamsadr8602]

Exactly.

[@rosajessica7405]

I don’t care if it’s under the budget, I’m never going bossy on anyone

[@jacquelyngonzales5635]

And I'm sorry she's bossy and I'm a women AND I FEEL SORRY FOR HIM I FEEL THE HUSBAND TO BE SHOULD HAVE THE EQUAL SAY IN THE WEDDING JUST AS MUCH AS THE BRIDE DOES...

[@shannonobrien9922]

My husband REFUSED 2 participate in details! He had 1 request- he wanted his vest 2 match me and I demanded he pick 1 thing 2 do!!! He picked music in ceremony!! Literally told me " do what YOU want- tell me when 2 show up!"

[@jackiemarshall3711]

The thing about venues especially if they are a big venue and usually stay booked is why don't they have just about anything that a couple could think of for their wedding because out sourcing is ridiculous. And these things shouldn't be that expensive and what is with all the extra fees. Now so you know I worked for country clubs and halls as server and head captain so I know what goes into staging an event.

[@dy9278]

Who in the heck are the people in the post introductory photo?

[@ayla9905]

I mean I understand some people just because someone is paying for the wedding doesn't mean they have a say so in everything how the theme goes and it's about what the bride wants

[@marianbuttiker601]

Why does she want to marry this guy? She really disrespects him.

[@joeblack8478]

She wants to be a princess ,what a stupid idea

[@skaterboy-cz9wj]

This m ight be scripted for drama/ratings/conflict. Yes, she was bossy but he was very immature and really truly had no great contribution (not talking money). I do feel sorry about teh nachos as he seemed to really want that - I was hoping when they switched venues he coud get the nachos. I guess he couldh ave donea tailgate preparty outside for nahos lol But to be honest the canue added nothing but costs. Her dress was lovely bravo to mom. the venue looked nice. I do think some of the other dresses could have been reworked too. One thing that bothered me is that those balls and lanterns needed some greenery. The arch really seemed like it was missing flowers. if money was tight twenty five dollars of seeded eucalypsus accents would have been amazing.

[@cherryblossom72555]

I watched this episode so many times and I JUST realized something. Is she the sister to the pumpkin fall bride??? The mom looks familiar. Or i could just be wrong

[@WaveneyBreeze]

Rain is goodluck 🍀on a wedding day but brides thinks it’s a jinx

[@sandrawright770]

I see a very unhappy beginning to a marriage. I bet they won't remain married. She wants to have what she wants and won't concede anything. She talks down to him and won't take anything he says seriously.

[@orangeziggy348]

Exactly

[@shannonobrien9922]

Ik- I wanna know which couples stayed the course!

[@britvica]

you're right, but this man is just not a man.this is a kid. he is so smart and all about his opinion but he literally did nothing. like she just wants to marry anyone..but this man doesn't look like he want to marry at all.

[@nphipps9406]

i just hate when a woman footing the bill for wedding has to through back in her fiancé face, 🙃🙄when is the oneness in marriage. what will happen if the groom don't get a job right away.

[@guldenakdemir2493]

OMG 😱😱😱. Maybe reconsider marriage, the entire "plan" is a hot mess.

[@franciehartsog7947]

Darling couple!

[@BS-kr3nx]

This was the best of all the 50 other weddings.

[@bootsie1212]

This is just her personality. I don’t think it’s anything personal with the groom. Look at how she treats her mum. She’s that person that pitches a fit if you don’t see things her way. They are the definition of polar opposites. but hey, maybe it works for them. I just see him saying, “yes dear” for the rest of his life. 😂

[@emmef7970]

And, ends up divorcing her when he grows a backbone at around 45.

[@nanibendeliani8056]

he is immature, broke manchild. He is lucky she found the women willing to take care of him. When she will grow real backbone, she will divoce him.

[@ayla9905]

I mean the mom's controlling like her daughter wants to get married outside let her it's her wedding at the end of the day

[@amyliss7567]

Guy is TOTALLY CLUELESS. Bride WHAT ARE YOU THINKING 🤔 RUN. She choose him they don't match up at all. MO NO NO😮

[@romascott6567]

Not eventually, very soon!!!! What a B with an itch! The groom has ALL my sympathy. Sorry Dude! I am a woman and I am disgusted to be associated with such a disgraceful display of so-called feminism. 😲👎👎👎👎

[@kris-tkris-t3271]

This “bride, which I’m sure she won’t b for very long and more than once, is so degrading. She keeps saying she is a Designer, but she should 1st look n da mirror and update what she sees!

[@e113jelly6]

If they wanted to get married they should’ve either A waited into the groom graduated and was able to pay as well B eloped. It’s just weird that the bride will have to fork up all the money for her own wedding😬

[@ayla9905]

I feel like the mom is being controlling like it's not your wedding it's your daughter's wedding like if your daughter wants to get married outside let her

[@lisafreebairn7736]

This bride is so bossy and disrespectful to her mother and to her groom.

[@ddpg9976]

Tom Schartz and Kat Maloney in the early 2000s. Lol

[@janiee7591]

Yes! And I was always Team Tom, even if he was wrong, because of her nasty attitude and way she treated him!! Bingo!

[@linexline5763]

I cannot stand the Bride....for sure! I have to admit the Groom really has good intentions BUT he really, really, REALLY cannot seem to to get anything actually finished!! Sorry Groom!!!

[@britvica]

I just thought nobody can't be this incapable

[@joeblack8478]

She should have married the planner he does what he and she wants the heck with the groom shame the planner is out of line with his touche feely also

[@adelemaclean1882]

You can go to school, and work!

[@ayla9905]

Nachos at a wedding 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ???????what no that's not food for a wedding 😂😂😂😂 150 a person imagine that and they want a fountain pas hodurves

[@dannaseymour8404]

I mean...I'm having pizza and cheese bread so what really constitutes "wedding food" lol

[@sal.....7917]

The man is lazy

[@orangeziggy348]

What happens when 2 controlling people- the bride and wedding planner- team up against the groom. The bride should have married the wedding planner- they are a good fit. But the groom was awesome because he was creative and fun. He is going to be controlled by her for the rest of his life.

[@Karenswalk1207]

I don't think it's cute when women are that bossy. Basically bossy people think their wants and needs are the only thing that matters. I couldn't be around someone like her.

[@amyliss7567]

YOU OWE YOUR MOTHER BIG TIME FOR WEDDING DRESS COULD'VE WENT CHURCH AFTERWARDS FOR A BLESSING FOR YOUR MOTHER AND YOU SHOULD'VE.

[@angiemaggard5089]

Marriage is a partnership, give and take, love and respect and compromise. This woman is a nightmare. It's her way or no way. Acts like she wears the pants in the family instead of a equal partnership. I'm actually surprised he went through with it. She's way to controlling and her entire attitude sucks! I'd be ashamed having this kind of wedding story being shown on TV for the world to see how mean, crass and down right rude she is.

[@stormyweather2773]

Ugh I didn’t like either of them ..all show and no soul , they don’t even seem to like each other …let alone be married for life , if any couple Ed luck to make this work…it’s these two ! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@b1k2q34]

These shows are so fake. So the fact that people comment on either one of them and their relationship is funny. This isn't really "them".

[@ghostdoll96]

"Maybe if it was a good (my) idea, I would listen."

[@freebirdrox7330]

Someone please tell Mother of the Bride, THE EARTH IS THE GREATEST of GOD'S CHURCH!

[@freebirdrox7330]

And I mean Nature and all God's creation, best church ever.

[@graceharris7166]

I. Feel. Bad. For. Him.

[@britvica]

why? I feel bad for her. he is grown up, doesn't have to do ANYTHING. she has to carry all on her back. she'll end up sick with 30, and he'll divorce he and marry a rich 20 something so he can continue leeching off and be happy

[@darlenepaul2918]

This woman will never even attempt to make her husband happy!

[@Sophie_kent]

Why did these two get married. She hates him

[@graceharris7166]

The. Thing. About. Her. She. Talks. To. Much. She. Needs. To listen. Talk. Less.

[@evaheavel5798]

807

[@graceharris7166]

She's. His. To. Controlling.

[@graceharris7166]

She. Really. Hard. To. Deal. With

[@michelehorne4054]

I like his ideas. He might be a little out there. But he does have good ideas ❤