What A Typical Argument Is Like Between Man And His Girlfriend Who He Says Needs ‘Wife Lessons’

[@colinoneill1738]

Dr. Phil ignored the fact that he hit her in front of the daughter

[@SwathiGangadharan]

that is what is v surprising to me as well! what does he mean it seemed under control by then? what is the guarantee he wouldn't do it again? how can she sleep in the same room as him when he has just been violent? pretty huge thing to ignore tbh

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

She hit him too. Why is it ok for women to hit men?

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

@@SwathiGangadharan She hit him too. Why is it ok for women to hit men?

[@SwathiGangadharan]

@@themothaeffinpooch1206 who said it was okay? whoever hits first is at fault. he hit her first. she hit back in self defence. would you have preferred she sat there quietly taking it? why are you justifying this? they didnt hit each other at the same time for there to be equivalence in the situations

[@Zeldagirlartist]

@@SwathiGangadharan I thought I heard a slap before when she told him to leave. I think she hit him first because there was a slapping sound and she would’ve said something if he had hit her

[@jaelyyymar8071]

This is what happens when two abusive people end up together. I hope the child is ok.

[@narcissistninjas9233]

exactly!!!!! so desperate for a freaking man

[@raghavnamasivayam5098]

@@narcissistninjas9233 the woman or man

[@elongatedmusk2537]

This isn't just relationship abuse, this is child abuse. When a child watches their parental figures screaming, arguing, hitting each other, it affects their brain development and can lead to extremely severe developmental and psychological problems later in life

[@andchaos1]

it is stress, and fear for the child, but i realy dont think anythink can influen the brain physicaly development as it codet in DNA, its more a emotional development that is destroyed for the child thou

[@joenichols3901]

It's like two kids fighting. "You hit me" "you kicked me"

[@okankilic5096]

reminds me of my girlfriend and me lol

[@MINEMAN310]

“Can I say something?” “No.” 😂😂😂

[@jhopecreationz]

"that is the way she makes me"... typical abusive saying

[@kendallmuniz5839]

There's a thing called IGNORING people's words. Both of them shouldn't be together. I'll pray for that baby

[@itstenisha8197]

That is exactly what a narcissist would do. Turn everyone against you with your own evidence. I hope she’s ok.

[@wendy.m7593]

But did you see how she kept pushing and pushing his button? Please don’t just blame this on him. They’re BOTH toxic. Your comment is just as sexist as she is.

[@connorm1181]

@@wendy.m7593 dude shes being abused shes reacting to it. dont be dense.

[@wendy.m7593]

@@connorm1181 dense? Please think sir.

[@andchaos1]

@@connorm1181 LOL, she is a manipulative lyer, she provoked a conflict to record it and did kick him out, and then writed to the stufff that he is a danger to her baby, wtf! She is clearly the abuser in the situation

[@totorolover5750]

@@andchaos1 so it's okay then to hit? her yeah no that is not okay

[@virginnocence]

I was on her side 100% until I heard this. This doesn't excuse his behavior but o understand why it's so dysfunctional now. Neither of them know how to resolve a conflict like an adult

[@Notavailableatthistime]

If he is truly a narcissist, her behaviour is reactive abuse.

[@andchaos1]

​@@Notavailableatthistime what did he do so you declare he a narcissist? and what has it to do with reactive abuse? even if, being narcisstic is not abusing others, and reactive abuse means that you oversteping after being abused in any way, and you hear clearly in the recording that she is the agressor

[@michaelweber4705]

True. A good tip on conflict resolution in a relationship. Let the conflict go until it’s a reasonable hour of the day. When no one is tired or overwhelmed. Solve the immediate problem (a crying baby) and work on the bigger issue when everyone is able to put in 100% effort and thought.

[@JaxLittles]

Dude is a child. She is a child. Both of them are awful.

[@mandang3545]

1:23 the recording barely finished and he already opened his mouth to defend and deflect everything.

[@andchaos1]

yea, but from the other site, video editors can cut your video of kicking a ball to make it seem your kicking a baby, so sadly its only short cut parts and not the whole episode

[@Wrestlinggirl48]

@@andchaos1 He put his hands on a pregnant woman infront of their daughter. Game over.

[@andchaos1]

@@Wrestlinggirl48 thx for the info, but i have seen the video and she is the one puting hands on him before he even reacted to her... so what exacly you trying to insinuate here? You cant just dictate something complete diferent to others to what we all just saw in the video, maybe you should watch it before you comment :P She had no remorse for slapping and kicking him in front of her daughter, it was only a issue when he starts defend himself, there is nothing else to say than it is the ugliest double standard ever that a woman can demonstrate.

[@matthewnaberhaus5422]

I used to load his truck in the mornings at UPS lmao

[@EvansSt83]

Are they still together?

[@matthewnaberhaus5422]

@@EvansSt83 i believe so but i dont talk to the guy for obvious reasons

[@blondechick9804]

She won’t leave him. He knows it too why he keeps saying it’s over when he doesn’t get his way. She will say ,why and your going to leave me? I can clearly tell she will beg him back if he did and he knows it too. These two are to toxic for each other. To much has been said and done and he is controlling af which is abuse . They need to part like the red seas and never look back.

[@mm-he5cm]

He is a narcissist. That's it.

[@JaxLittles]

Shes not entirely a victim here either

[@lilwitchykitty6188]

100% and she's the poster child of reactive abuse.

[@okankilic5096]

Yeah and the woman is a angle right?

[@lalamakeuprehab]

You are a damn adult!!! You have total control of how you feel!!! Ain’t no one can make you do anything you don’t wanna do !!!

[@Robin-gv2he]

The baby crying is heartbreaking!

[@malinaschroder2000]

I must say they are not a match.

[@Burps___]

It’s funny how, when he said “It’s over”, she changed and didn’t want it to be over. She rolled over.

[@hugmc]

These two stay single. The child will have more sense than both 🤷

[@jilljohnson6506]

These people should absolutely not be creating children together :(

[@vickiehorowitz1934]

The real question is why do people who clearly hate each other stay together at all.

[@erinleighjohnson1]

I feel sorry for the children who has a father who doesn't even want to put them to bed or get up when they cry instead it has to be a knock-down drag-out argument

[@andchaos1]

also sorry for the children who has a manipulative and lying mother like that one in the video, clearly provoking conflikt to play drama and drain attention from victomize herself

[@kennedy4257]

I hate to be that person but I heard two slaps in the beginning and one of them was not captioned and inclined to believe she slapped him first.

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

Exactly!

[@cynthiaholland13]

Yes!

[@ricardomoseley]

Yes

[@andchaos1]

yea, she also is very manipulative, you see that i her message to the staff

[@user-uh5tb9er4o]

if youre in the role of (the girlfriend in this one) a relationship like this, work towards leaving. The man thinks he is the victim a type of narcissistic trait... no worth it, it will destroy your mental health.

[@manuelmartin8890]

I got an idea ,ummmmm break up and why did they have a child together .why do people put up with each other if that's not what you want .

[@margaretwince2748]

This is why you should live with someone before you get married. This is why you use birth control.

[@Testsubjectn]

I mean, I don't like the woman but this guy.

[@hb9018]

This is just heartbreaking

[@crimsonS94]

He is a narcissist. He was gaslighting her. No she was not provoking. wow I can't believe Dr Phil defended the abuser. Narcissist provoke to the point the victim gets upset. They make it look like it's the victims fault. He hit her. Dr Phil said nothing about it. He should be in jail .He phsycially assaulted her. She needs to run !! He won't change

[@TB-fk4qm]

This man slapped her twice. This lady didn't provoke him Dr Phil!!!!!!! He was the aggressor and then slapped her twice????

[@colleenshea2293]

Actually, there is no help for a couple who talk to each other like this.

[@janedoe7229]

Mutually combative. Yup. 🙌

[@afroxfairyxxx8382]

Except he gave her a black eye

[@ariadneschild8460]

RUN love RUN! Hes only going to get worse!!

[@Angela-ns8ux]

She needs to get rid of him and he needs therapy .. Dr Phil she's not provoking him he hit her !!

[@victoriariariaria6086]

These two are nuts. The only solution here is for these two to break up and not see each other again. The girl should make up her mind that if she still wants to be with the guy, she needs to put up with the abuse etc. The guy will never change. Also, I don't get why these 'guests' asks help from Dr. Phil when he doesn't even help at all. They're only embarrassing themselves in national tv.

[@melindac.flores3991]

Provoking or not, he hit her!! Doesn't make it ok Dr Phil!!!

[@rainyang9478]

Both have issues. They shouldn't be together.

[@cynthiaholland13]

I thought it was just him. They deserve each other

[@krystalroberts1831]

Did Dr Phil just ignored how abusive his behaviour is?? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@adhiraajray]

This is so cool. Where’s the full episode?

[@michaelweber4705]

I don’t understand this fight. Just take care of the kiddo. Not terribly complex. When he said it was her turn; I was mystified.

[@gailwebb9619]

Why on earth does this woman stay with him? Take those kids with you and RUN!

[@janicewoods3072]

Lady, your behavior is as destructive as his, when it comes to the children. Get yourself some help, your children deserve better.

[@ramathanfatima3963]

When he doesn't know what to do he resorts to violence.

[@jkim6871]

Sadly, she's the one with the more serious issues. He is who he is. Her ... there is something very wrong when she is putting up with such odd, abusive, weird behavior.

[@jo8260]

He is who he is.... so that's that?

[@andchaos1]

Agree, she is very manipulative, she provoked the conflict, kicked him out of bed and the room for not obeying her, and then the message that he is a danger to the baby, she is clearly the abuser in the situation here

[@Wrestlinggirl48]

@@andchaos1 no, she kicked him out because he wasn't helping with the baby and she was trying to breathe and de-escalate the situation. It doesn't matter if she calls him names the minute he put hands on her that was it he now solidified himself as a woman beater.

[@andchaos1]

@@Wrestlinggirl48 She kicked and slaped him physicaly - how is that de-escalation? you floating far away from reality :D you can clearly hear it in the video when she slaps him multiple times, it was somehow no problem for her to hit him in front of the child. She clearly staged the situation to record a conflict to slander him.

[@sophian9105]

At the beginning of the episode, I thought it was all him. But in this clip, she’s the one that starts SCREAMING and escalating the situation knowing full well her daughter is in the room. Both of them need serious help!

[@Wrestlinggirl48]

It doesn't matter if she provoked him with words. Once he hit her everything flew out the window. He could have walked away but instead he decided to put his hands on her and assault her.

[@thelimey351]

She’s as bad as him, maybe worse, they need to separate - but I don’t think she is going to allow that.

[@angelopetrozzi44]

Can I say something NOOOO !!

[@charlesw322]

the entire audience doesn't care if she provokes him but they all start clapping as soon as he acts just as vulgar as she did

[@tsilva2183]

I hear you girl. My ex would kick me out of bed to get up w the baby when i was the Only one who ever got up with her. God forbid we hope to get a a little freakin help. I hope this woman leaves that pos he will never change. I'm on my fourth restraining order now with the ex and no one ever cares or takes it seriously. Even the judge is so easily manipulated by him and I'm the only one who sees right through his lies. Take your babies, what's left of you all and Leave him!

[@Fluffimuff]

Why in the world is she even wanting to be with him???? She can't stand him. He seems really obnoxious and victim mentality. Yikes

[@lindadouglass4692]

Hmmm. Maybe she is angry and bullied him.

[@bonnienero9415]

shame on mom; this is child abuse. Leave him; protect your child.

[@carlaburton3970]

She's not married to him why is she staying.

[@bdlimea7018]

Why didn't Dr Phil bring up the fact that he slapped her?? Since when is he ok with physical abuse?

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

She hit him too. Why is it ok for women to hit men?

[@bdlimea7018]

@@themothaeffinpooch1206 Thats true and its not ok for women either

[@Wrestlinggirl48]

@@bdlimea7018 she hit him after he hit her. She was probably pushing out of them room after he slapped her.

[@figgettit]

these people dont like each other. just break up.

[@Angela-ns8ux]

He gets violent I can't believe you Dr phil

[@zeth8300]

Leave him

[@connorm1181]

dr phil knows NOTHING about reactive abuse

[@tammysmom1]

This male person needs a life adjustment!

[@poerava]

She sounds like the instigator

[@stuff1784]

Just break up. Ugh

[@KiiC.]

"You're a puke."🤦🏾‍♀️ Forgive me, but da fuq does that mean?🥴 8yr old name-calling

[@margaretchabot2692]

They need to grow up or get a divorce

[@andchaos1]

So manipulative material 0:35 (slap) 0:37 (slap) - and what about the 0:30 big slap? when she clearly hits him and tels him to get lost because he did not obey her command, then she gets upset after all her verbal attacks are taken lightly by him, you also can hear in his voise that he is clearly sleepy, but she is full awake and agresively trying to dictate the situation to him.

[@amandaforeman7441]

Yea they failed to mention the first slap at 0:30 when she said "Go, go lay somewhere else." Sounds to me like she probably slapped him on the body or leg when she said "Go." I think she is partially at fault here. She isn't 100% victim here.

[@andchaos1]

She is clearly the abuser in the situation, her reaction is like "you dont want to obey my will then get out", and the the message that he is a danger to the baby, realy , how could it be more obvious that it was a manipilative lie

[@rainbowofboxes8021]

they need to get a divorce

[@marchofthepigs36]

They both suck he sucks more but it’s all gross. Love yourselves enough to leave and show your daughter what self esteem looks like

[@T.T.LovesAmbience]

I don't trust either of them, but I don't trust Dr. Phil either. Just sayin...

[@Prieze868]

Take the children and move interstate away from this guy he is bad news just get the alimony check leave him there

[@maxxx12429]

Where do women find these men? God help us all

[@narcissistninjas9233]

he hit her and she still asks why are we breaking up? Duck offff ....do fkn better women

[@ramathanfatima3963]

But I think she's also wrong here

[@merryhunt9153]

never mind the fight. It is dangerous for an adult to fall asleep, either on the couch or in bed with a baby. The adult can roll over and suffocate or injure the baby. It happens all the time. Step One for these people should be reading a book on how to raise a baby.

[@michaelmoore2802]

You people had a child together !!! Grow up....geeeezzz

[@UsernameUnkwn21]

Ughh this guy is a flipping TROLL

[@cynthiaholland13]

Was she slapping him?

[@MrBroadcast45]

She is no better than he is both are childish

[@EvansSt83]

Are him and Cory the same guy?

[@Prieze868]

Girl after the first slap

[@RichardAugustMatthew19Man]

Accountability is kryptonite to a woman. If that man ever gave her what he would give a grown man for committing the same acts, that man would be incarcerated.

[@paulastrong7571]

This guy's a clown!

[@Rat_Queen86]

They are both awful people

[@Prieze868]

He has screwed the jar so far down on her she's got no breathing space as yes that's and he is just no good he needs to be more supporting and my don't worry about the hair dryer go out and get more money get a second job get another job you've got kids you've got a support the woman and shut your face let them have a natural harmonious home life

[@mjb7414]

Ugh, I HATE this guy. I really hope she dumps him. He's a very bad example for his daughter.

[@HeidiWylde]

He is so gross, inside and out. She is so pretty and he should be on his knees, thanking G-d that she ever even looked in his direction let alone be involved with him.

[@Imran-iwnl-Haider]

girl is at fault

[@nikkilandreth5357]

How?

[@MegLeb2010]

Because.....?

[@KaseKranker]

Incel

[@themothaeffinpooch1206]

@@nikkilandreth5357 She hit him too. Why is it ok for women to hit men?

[@natureloverdude]

3:23 freezing cold. And the female audience laughes at him. This shows females enjoy when men suffer. Red pill knowledge saves men's lifes.

[@Wrestlinggirl48]

He hit her. Honestly he deserved to be out of the room.

[@mokhtarbouslimi5136]

The two of em seem like genuinely nice people. It would be a shame if they don't be able work it out