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[@sutekaa]

as a female human we need a woman version of you asap for all the tiktok addicted girls, we need more high quality women as well

[@sally.g.]

I've been thinking about this latley. I can't think of a single (public) female rolemodel. But I think most of Hamza's advice can be applyed by women as well🤷‍♀️

[@AsianSwagMstr]

brett cooper sort of works although she's more geared towards calling out bullshit

[@isabelle6023]

thewizardliz!!

[@ryanbell1025]

Billie Rae Brandt is a good example.

[@sutekaa]

@@sally.g. rip yeah we're always oversexualized and all the "influencers" are where they are because big boobs. its sad to see

[@mark_oth]

I am 19 woman virgin. I feel much calmer and more confident listening to videos like this. People around me and people on the Internet are chasing body count and wanting to lose their virginity, and in this atmosphere I feel very uncomfortable, because I am a total loser by these standards. People claim that masturbating to porn is okay, but I notice that they are deeply dissatisfied with their lives and depressed. I want to say a big thank you to the author of the channel and the guys in the comments who thinks just like me. I believe that a one-night stand will bring nothing but short-term satisfaction and later more sadness. I want to have a serious relationship and create a family with a man I absolutely admire and respect🙏 Thank you for reading

[@timothyufr]

Нифига себе

[@mark_oth]

@@timothyufr АХВАХАХАХ привет🤝🤝🤝

[@geobukhwang2340]

Anesthesia is that you

[@timothyufr]

@@mark_oth что бы встретить тут русско говорящего, да еще и женщину это что то нереальное. Я уверен что ты на правильном пути в своей жизни, так что продолжай улучшаться)

[@mark_oth]

@@geobukhwang2340 i am not anesthesia or narcosis lol :D

[@busybecomingmyself]

I married my first girlfriend. I saved sex til the wedding night. I spent 7 years in a sexless marriage trying to fix things with someone who fundamentally didn't love me. The cost of choosing the wrong woman is really high. Don't ever underestimate how different high quality vs low quality women are. I'm now 39 and dating a beautiful, sweet, kind, intelligent medical student. She is a thousand times the woman my ex wife was. So I agree with Hamza 100% here.

[@hypnogala]

But isn't that also contradicts what he says? Because he said ''don't have experience with women and have experience with your wife'' if you would have experience; you would know to not waste your time with your ex and possibly detect the redflags early on

[@busybecomingmyself]

@@hypnogala you don't need to have sex with women to see examples of healthy relationships. My compass was off from the start. My parents were completely dysfunctional and punished me for pointing out their red flags. My volatile and difficult mother led me to thr conclusion that all women are volatile and difficult and so I put up with abuse because I thought it was what I should expect. Now with a firmly double digit body count, I wish I had had sex with fewer women. Only those who deserved it.

[@hypnogala]

@@busybecomingmyself Exactly my point, you only want to have sex with quality women and learn like that. I'd say Experience makes you better as a man and you need to have experience. Sure, pureness is great too but experience is what makes you a king

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

you sound like a fool

[@adamzoubi96]

If you actually had experience with women and practiced before committing your life to one, tou wouldn't have found yourself in that situation. Hamza is objectively wrong in this video. Ues you should focus on yourself on the come up and avoid women, but you absolutely need to have adequate experience before you marry anyone, or even get in a serious relationship

[@MaxSaris]

There's a big difference between being in love with a person and being in love with an experience.

[@r.pranav9643]

💯

[@paradox7830]

Remember this Bois "Life is not a Problem to be solved but a Reality to be Experienced"

[@sarcoprion]

Your right

[@lalosalamancaenjoyer3321]

you shape your reality

[@TATEHAMZA-vx7zm]

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[@YSV4EVA]

​@@sarcoprion ❤

[@vulcan5982]

I have been going through some really tough times in academics where I have invested a lot of time into this journey and its nearing its fruition and I have been doubting myself that what if I just do not achieve any of the results that I so hungrily desire? So I have been literally blaming all of my past mistakes or all the hours I have wasted in the past when I could have sat down studying, as the cause of my downfall in the future. But this statement really flipped something inside of me. Maybe I will not get the results that I desire. Maybe I will not succeed in my mission. But I have put myself through mental hell to get where I have gotten and I am proud of how far I have come. None of this has been a problem to me, all my pains and everything, its all just an experience

[@mirrimatrix]

I've been through one disastrous year were i went homeless, got fired, got heartbroken, had to leave university to work full time and lost my father. Now I'm coming back to life, went back into studying, working out, playing guitar, reading. You motived me to keep going. Thanks you Hamza

[@michaelb369]

You’re a fucking warrior. Keep moving forward brother.

[@stoicreader]

OMG keep fkin growing! amor fati always

[@thomasbitsch5488]

Motherfucker! You’re one hard shell to crack my friend, respect from Denmark 🇩🇰!

[@samgamblewhite8600]

Holy shit bro Ur a soldier when you come out the sludge you will be a superhuman.

[@orion7881]

Adonis

[@sally.g.]

Dear men, please do not be ashamed or feel less of a man because of your lack of experience. There are women out there who want an inexperienced guy. One of the best qualities you can hope to find in a man is self control. By refusing to sleep with women before marriage you prove that you have it. A good woman will appreciate it. I myself am 22'yo virgin and whenever someone ask me why so, I explain that I want to stay faithful to my future husband❤️ Btw did you know that couples who are virgins until marriage have the lowest chances of getting divoreced?

[@tavares4224]

We're on the same boat! Hope you find a great man to call your's. I think I've already found my girl, thanks be to God.

[@KatarinaCarson]

Yess, I'm saving myself for one person to but it seems it's hard to find a man like that these days .

[@sally.g.]

@ophelia_alexis it is hard. And it often gets lonley. But we can do this! Hope you meet the right guy.

[@discoveringclouds6198]

As a woman who waited for marriage too, I agree. Even though I got divorced, I still strongly believe in only marriage for relationship acts… and seeing the cold hearted boys trying to fish me with their pathetic avoidant style of attachment was hilarious. I want a husband …. And don’t want him to have experience and girls to compare me to!! We can get experience TOGETHERRRRR

[@Sabersect2022]

Haha, thanks for this. I’m 17 and think this is probably the way to go. It feels right so it must be😁 Also, what you said about women wanting an inexperienced guy, that was nice to hear to.

[@lavieenrose7925]

For all you young bucks who question how accurate this wisdom is... I'm 32 and in my late teens/ early 20's I had been a self-protective man and didn't indulge my animal side, and my only 2 relationships were AMAZING. Now that I've had 5+ years of degeneracy, I am hollowing myself out the more I do it. Take this video to HEART!

[@lavieenrose7925]

and the reason I lost those relationships was because I bought into the lie I needed experience. If I could go back and slap some sense into me I would

[@CharleyGriffin]

@@lavieenrose7925 you ended it cause you wanted to be a hoe?

[@kivilo]

if u wanna divulge ur animal side onto something then sports is the place, especially if u take it seriously

[@maximusthegoat8034]

he meant primal sexual urges@@kivilo

[@pre-sage]

Summary/Notes Story: - You will feel left out for not having s*x. It feels like you are missing out. Then you wonder "What if it's beneficial to have s*x and experience this beforehand?" and you might think that is beneficial, but what are you aiming at? Eventually, the goal seems to be to have children and have experience so you can be better with your wife. However, it's actually better to focus on yourself and it is the biggest mistake people make to just play and get experience with women. Hamza says that sleeping getting experience with other women is not a good thing. - Learn from other people's mistakes. Reasons: 1. The less you focus on women the more you focus on yourself. - Let's say you are not having s*x but texting girls. That will sap 40% of brain power; it takes a huge amount of energy. The root to success is to focus on 1 or 2 goals. However, it takes a lot of energy even to THINK about girls. It's delayed gratification to improve yourself.' 2. Practicing with other girls means that fundamentally these girls will be of lower quality. - If you don't want to pursue a long term relationship and just want the experience, it means that these people you practice with will be of lower quality. If you just play you learn and practice the wrong things. The higher quality women don't have the same standards as the lower quality ones. Therefore, if you use the strategies you use to get the lower quality women it won't work on higher quality women. - It's like practicing basketball for football or vice versa. 3. You will fall in love with women than you don't want long term. - You'll have memories with a women that was supposed to be practice. 4. Wanting experience with women is cope. - Wanting experience means that we will use this experience in the future, but you can't use this experience. Wait and don't waste time chasing low quality women. You will lose goals trying to 'practice.' You're going to meet someone who is "the one" one day. And the experience you have with that person will be much more valuable than anything else. - Read the "Way of the Superior Man" - It's not a productive self-improvement; it's pleasure. Accept this and you can escape the cycle of living for the next high. - Worst worst worst case scenario, to satisfy the urge, you can fap once a week without porn. 5. Practice with the women you want to be with your wife. - Women have different styles. So if you are practice with people that have a different style with your wife, your expectations are set in the wrong way. There will be a moment in your life when you want to marry somebody. Why would you practice with people you don't care about when you can practice with a person you do? Learn things with the best quality women not the worst. - Instant gratification never served us well. Think of the marshmallow experiment; you are the person who ate the first marshmallow. There is a level of man who doesn't indulge in women. - The highest quality women have a masculine father figure. This is undeniable. Wait for the second marshmallow. The high quality women will be curious about your history. You can't hide your past. If you practice now with people you don't care about, you will get a person who doesn't care about you. This is about your children too, not just you. Degenerosity compounds through our bloodline. Advice: - Don't date and work hard. - You can tell when a women is wife material. Don't cope. This is easier to do if you haven't had sex with those people. - Distraction compounds. - You don't have to find "the one" they will find you as long as you wait. Hamza you are changing people's lives. Thank you, truly. Do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it.

[@detective3189]

cope

[@violatedevil1583]

Thank bruh

[@amanipk]

thanks for shorting this down it was genuinely effective and well organized I appreciate you heavy❤

[@-_-Girthbrooks-_-]

Gotta appreciate the summary guys. Thank you.

[@nerses7246]

@@detective3189 how

[@danielzwarren]

I am 21 and a virgin. For a while, from about 17-19 I was feeling completely pathetic and like I needed to get experience to please a woman, and I thought the only way I'd be able to do that was to improve myself. So I started lifting, eating better, doing cardio, and during this time I ended up becoming closer with God and converting to Catholicism. I realized that there is no point in trying to "get experience" when I can just wait to find the woman who will be my wife and get that "experience" with a woman who I actually love and who actually loves me. I am currently seeing a girl who I think has a good chance of being the one, and have already set the boundaries with her that I do not want to have sex with her preferably until we are married(or at least engaged despite it still being a sin) as that is what the Catholic Church wants me to wait for. At the moment, my primary focus is to continue improving myself, and hopefully building a good relationship with this girl.

[@Topgangsterrealg]

Get rich

[@catholiccrusader123]

God bless you brother. Keep it up and always have faith in God.

[@Gunblastz]

Hope she has the same boundaries and faith as you too. Not being in an agreement in those two areas will be really difficult to navigate through not just in the dating phase, but also in marriage.

[@ihateweetabix8829]

Love that, hope all goes well

[@302shmed]

I think JP2 said something along the lines of "sex [within marriage] is meant to be a discovery, not an exhibition." This is in contrast to sex in the secular, hookup culture sense where it's all about performing and competing with the other partners a woman has.

[@bigcooldad9905]

Hamza your content on masculinity is so important in this day and age. I met this girl who casually brought up in conversation how she noticed men are becoming less masculine and more feminine and how she liked it. Coincidentally later that night I protected her and her friend from getting mugged and was decisive in getting them to safety. She ended up being attracted to me afterwards which disproves her earlier point. If I was the weenie I was before discovering your videos I wouldn’t have kept us all safe. You’re saving lives. Love you and this new style of content bro. Embrace discomfort

[@sally.g.]

Good job! We love strong, masculine men!

[@evlx1240]

Stay hard

[@kurri699]

Women can't explain what they want by words. Their actions tell everything.

[@zadkovichraj3246]

As someone who believes in God, Jesus, the Bible etc. and also being someone who has been on the lonely but intensely rewarding path of self improvement around the same time I embraced Christ - thank you for this Hamza. I hope and pray God would raise up more men who have the courage and conviction to not just find the truth but express the truth publicly like you have. I can't help but wonder that all the 'experience' you had, as well as your looks, age, race etc. help give you a reach, audience and credibility that many Christians like myself just don't have - but boy am I so grateful that you are so honest and public about the truth. God be with you Hamza, I hope you find Christ one day, and I hope Christian men like myself and others can do even a fraction of what you have done.

[@Jimmy_Mcgill_]

Amen bro

[@allfortv4895]

Can we pray that Hamza comes to Christ. The audience he has can really impact peoples lives. Let's pray that many people come to know Jesus Christ and believe he is the Lord and Saviour. God bless you and your family and your loved ones in the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray Amen❤️🙏🏾

[@zadkovichraj3246]

@@Jimmy_Mcgill_ Appreciate it brother

[@zadkovichraj3246]

@@allfortv4895 I did decide to pray. It is God's will that no one would perish (go to hell). I also want to see as many people go to heaven as possible. For Hamza's sake and also the millions of young men who absorb his content, I hope Hamza would come to Christ and many men (and women) would come to know Christ

[@abirahmed8643]

@@allfortv4895 Jesus wasnt God and he never said he was God, he was a mighty messenger of God just as there were messengers before him, dont worship a human

[@skm8973]

I love that you keep growing yourself. Many people after this much of success just think that they know everything, which is obviously wrong. This is why I respect you bro!

[@myphyxy]

кого кого а русских тут отлично видеть

[@PrishuRathore-fl8bu]

Omg , adones ? Im a big fan Big fan . Ill become you one day , im not fully jeffry , but not half way too . Your my goal 🗿

[@skm8973]

@@myphyxy Взаимно. Мужчины со всего земного шара желают стать лучше)

[@skm8973]

@@PrishuRathore-fl8bu Very good young man, but do not think I am perfect. Do not aim to be like me, aim to be better than me!

[@user-st3xl6dm1l]

базару нет ребят)

[@WanderingWarfighter]

I can not even describe how perfect the timing of this video was. I am a 19 year old male going through this EXACT same conflict. Thank you Hamza.

[@Dominic-ey2ox]

Same. Do you have any advice on how to start making money online in a short time span?

[@timontobolka2699]

I see we 3 have the same life situation rn. Maybe we should connect on Insta or sum🙃

[@timontobolka2699]

​@@Dominic-ey2ox read that pls ⬆️

[@Z3KR.]

Same bro !

[@maliksfd4863]

the same shit bro

[@absentspaghetti4527]

I am far from even good myself, but what I've noticed is that when you are depressed and lonely, your desire to have sex, to get a girlfriend, etc. is astronomically high. Once I got into self-improvement and started thinking about it seriously, the desire kind of went away. I don't even think about starting a relationship nowadays, I see how much improvement I have left to be confident in starting a family. Keep improving, lads.

[@swayammohanty5109]

your age brah?

[@Sharks3000]

Great video Hamza. I’m 24 and still a virgin, never had a girlfriend, never been on a date or even kissed a girl yet. I’ve just been focusing on improving myself for the past few years. Even though I really feel like experiencing all of that stuff to do with girls I feel like it’s best for me to continue focusing on me and my goals. As a Muslim I need to stay from girls until I’m ready for marriage. This video has motivated me to continue focusing on myself until I’m ready to meet the woman that I want to marry. Thank you Hamza ❤

[@antondavidoff150]

You doing good.. however by the time you "get ready" the viable partners for you will be over 10 years younger... And they the majortiy will be hooked on social media and you will have small pool to chose from.. and surely you would not want to be the one who saves girl in her late 20' or early 30' who is not virgin and carry emotional baggage from previous relationship.. so i wish you good luck... it of course meny things depends on your location where u live and situation over there, and it also depends on your looks, race whether u like that or not.. but this is better path still... i suggest still look for "the girl" but do not fucus much on then your self improvement

[@unusedsub3003]

Mate, you're doing just fine. However, don't waste your time on Western women. Look abroad.

[@antondavidoff150]

@@unusedsub3003 Easier said than done.. why... especially if he is westerner himself... people may want to date and marry in their own race.. so for westerner it is very hard because the pool of normal woman is much smaller.. surelly you can marry girl abroad in Asia some place and you would love her and your children but what you really do is "stealing" sisters from their asian brothers and your children will never look like you or barely .. so for some people this is an issue.. not to mention religious and other differences ...

[@unusedsub3003]

@@antondavidoff150 I was thinking more South America.......Why do the children have to look exactly like you?

[@yashjoseph3544]

@@unusedsub3003 Oh my God, you guys seriously can't stop obsessing over Western women by demonizing them. The people who go abroad for wives don't want a real relationship. They just want a sex slave. They are just as many loving Western women as Eastern women and just as many bad Eastern women as Western women.

[@Hoover672]

I’m 26, very limited experience with girls, good looking dude but very socially awkward, this video really helped me Hamza. I have struggled with recurring depressive thoughts on all that I’ve missed out on in terms of experience with women, and the fact that I live in a city where “hookup culture” is rampant and have friends who have slept with many women, these have added even more weight on these thoughts. The fact that you go completely against the grain and come out with a video like this, it is really commendable and helps a ton for people like myself and many others who have gone through similar situations and depressive thoughts. Once again, thank you for this Hamza. This brings me one step closer to healing.

[@ITxc]

loser

[@devankurmitra4118]

Watch man mindset to develop flirting skills

[@qasimimtiaz114]

go to gym or cafes, you will find more women that looking for relationships.

[@newshit7199]

@@qasimimtiaz114 i think the whole point of this is to stay away from women who are actively looking for a relationship. You'll find someone, they'll come into your life.

[@qasimimtiaz114]

@@newshit7199 i mean you find lot of women that have low body count.

[@JanResponded]

I am 20 years old and a virgin. For a while I thought that I had to lower my standards to lose my V card, but since I am hitting the gym and since I am improving myself massively I think I can wait a few more years till I find the one. Watching this video felt really good because it confirmed my thoughts about having high standards and that 'practicing' wouldn't help because of this toxic relationship you have with this low standard 'women'. Thank you for this video, Hamza.

[@AliKhan-xo1eu]

dude. get laid. we all want it. its primal. its in your biology.

[@Abid3-pr4me]

Keep up the good work

[@Inzpectre]

Remember that sex is just like a drug, sure, its enjoyable in the moment just like any other drug, but the people who brag about it havent felt real love. Dont be ashamed, sex is such an insignificant part of a relationship, unless you want children. The people who are only with their partner for sex, do what they do to escape the relationship, not because they care about their partner. Remember that sex isnt as important as we think! Hugging your partner can be just as helpful.

[@Mamala2024]

I knew a 20 year old virgin. He was a good guy a little nerdy in high school. He started hitting the gym HARD. He had no social experience with girls. A girl from the gym CHOSE HIM. She was so attracted to him he legit could not lose. She gave him her number, I gave him a few tips, (she was hot like at least an 8). They dated for around a year, he now has experience and has met a few other girls. When I say he hit the gym, I mean from 18 to 20 he went from Michael Cera to Taylor Lautner.

[@grahamturner2640]

@@Mamala2024 damn, and nice for him. I’m also a 20 year old virgin who was a nerd in high school (and still is as a university student). I’ve been going to the gym for a few months now, lifting weights, and losing some weight. I still have a lot more work to do on my transformation, especially on my diet.

[@bidyanandasarangthem4164]

You just literally cleared up my mind bruh, Sooo grateful that brothers like you exist on the internet. I have been so troubled by these exact thought that I couldn't even sleep properly. I am more convinced now to continue focusing on my goals.

[@cameramanmatt9459]

I'm 25, I'm tired of working on myself and my future without having anything to enjoy now. I went to a mall last Thursday night after work just to see what people get up to. I saw people having fun, I saw plenty of couples. When I got home I broke down in tears. I realise now that by doing nothing but work, more work and exercise, I have no life. I don't think that this path will lead to anything better when I'm 30. You say that you regret most of your past hook ups and relationships, but maybe that was all necessary to get where you are now. I don't want to get into hook up culture, but dating women you aren't sure of doesn't seem like a bad thing. All the "work hard now, have fun later" advice I've received over the years has killed me.

[@steveco1800]

Yes I think it's best to find someone who can accept you for who you are, and then develop and grow together. Sounds like you're at a good stage to find someone and the emotion shows how much you want it. I'm 35 and in a similar situation to you, but had my first relationship a few years ago. She was an older woman around 40 and it was depressing feeling like I missed out on so much of her life (one of many reasons I broke up with her). Learned a lot from it which would have been better learning in my 20s. Wish I had 10 years like you!

[@emirhankizil6556]

We Love U Hamza thanks for everything

[@faouri.]

evrythink

[@gammartageon76]

evrythink

[@danielwyatt656]

+1

[@mayankpaked3401]

evrythink

[@eminemnews3724]

Thangs for everythink

[@jamorant8426]

I’m personally not that experienced but from my perspective it’s good to get experience talking to women without necessarily sleeping with them. Most young men are unable to even communicate with the opposite sex and need experience in the clubs/bars/parties.

[@ARTDEVGRU247]

Facts

[@Qureshi994]

​@@ARTDEVGRU247 agreed bro . Honestly it's the first time in a while where i partially disagree with Hamza... It's definitely important to get experience before marriage but not too much experience. I believe there's a sweetspot basically

[@BrandonsAscension]

I agree but I don’t think the experience you should get should be with women in the bar, club/party scene.

[@BrandonsAscension]

If anything bro, read how to win friends and influence people and the way of the superior man and really try out the things in those books ... You'll be great at conversation

[@ARTDEVGRU247]

@@BrandonsAscension then where

[@huty320]

So fortunate to listen to you, thanks for changing lives

[@hey-go4dg]

One of the most honest self improvement guides out there. Thank you so much Hamza !! Really needed to hear this today. You saved me again !!!

[@zerorepsinreserve]

As a Muslim, I see Hamza slowly realizing that the stuff in his religion makes more and more sense and aligns more with his beliefs and the truth

[@antondavidoff150]

Woman before marrage is "haram" in any religion

[@cellycell8970]

Question did prophet Muhammad know where he was going after he died? Also why did “allah” lie to millions of Christians by putting a “fake” Jesus on the cross why would god lie to his own ppl?

[@Zaid_since2004]

@@cellycell8970 bro it's not God who lied, it's the people who got misguided themselves. You will not find any verses in real bible where jesus himself claims the Son of God.

[@allfortv4895]

​@@Zaid_since2004 Read Isaiah 53

[@Marco-op3cs]

@@cellycell8970 yes all prophets including jesus go diresctly to heaven after they die and all the believers and good dowers go after the day of judgement untill then they stay in their grave where they answer fr their wrong and if all theyre wrongs have been answered to they dont go to hell this for the believers and ppl who didnt get exposed to the message btw. Allah didnt lie to his ppl jesus never said he was god the ppl got misguided and the guy who was put on the cross was judas the rat he was made to look in the image of jesus by allah jesus got raised to heaven alive hes still allive and immortal to this day with his physical body not soul the ppl got misguided and stated jesus as the son of god since his marry was a virgin

[@Auju_13]

I'm 18, I'm working on myself, growing closer to God each day, working out, reading, reading the bible, eating healthier and sleeping for good hours... and I always thinking I need to have this experience with women so when I have that girl in life that I'll be ready.. I'm building myself up to be better and better, but I always thought I had to go out and get this experience with women... This video just opened my eyes, Thank you Hamza.

[@badchinchila9799]

Stay on the path buddy, is it hard but that's when you know your doing it right, temptations will be all around the corner, but God He's with you, as long as you are with Him. May Jehovah/Yahweh (Gods name) bless you

[@modece]

Eyyy, my bro. Keep pursuing the path you see in you’r future. Sometimes the hardest times are what you need to grow. If it wasn’t that difficult everyone would be with sixpacks, full of wisdom and fully trusting the gods. Since there are hardly any people pusuing their dreams is a sign for you, me and everyone else to get ahead of the 99% of the population. I wish you the best and i hope you keep dipping your toes in the hard paths in life cause its only then when you have a chance to grow. 💪

[@XPilotP]

I can’t tell you how much I need this video. Going to rewatch this immediately:)

[@zetagundam20x]

I’m a 27 year old virgin and I questioned why all my life I never deserved sex and I was willing to do anything to get it (even possibly hiring an escort). I was wondering what’s wrong with me when I ultimately realized what I was doing wrong from the start and that was not focusing on myself and fearing the idea of missing out at a young age. I’ve been fasting this year for Ramadan and it has made me come closer to this idea. Thank you for this Video Hamza. You are a God send

[@DaDirtyTroll]

Work on yourself but at the same time approach women. Most of them aren’t gonna fall on your lap. And it’s good to find out what kind of women you want after talking and taking things forward with them

[@fortnitegod2045]

You sir are an incel. All of this body count bullshit is solely on social media. The moment you delete TikTok and Instagram, the issue simply vanishes. Have sex with someone you feel comfortable with, or choose to be a virgin. Quite frankly, nobody cares how if you've slept with someone so long as you don't carry emotional trauma from past relationships. One night stands are never fun. I slept with a woman I was seeing, then she immediately cut me off within days of having sex. No explanation. Dating is simply an experience and something that you cannot get mad about. Just move on and continue looking for compatible partners whom you enjoy spending time with. And focus on being the best version of yourself.

[@darkmidnight818]

​@DaDirtyTroll I'm 25 I'm waiting for women to ask ME out. I'm not approaching anyone. If they don't approach me I'll stay single.

[@YungZone.Oldies]

22:01 no words can describe how truly that is. I fall in love with a Girl that supposed to be just a girl that I have fun with and I will never think about having kids or marry her, trust me that was the most painful experience I’ve ever seen I was broken I was literally at my lowest and lost and I hated myself every time I think about her, she might be f with random man rn these thoughts hurts and no words can describe the pain. I’m finally moved on and I learned a lot and now I’m away from the dating market I started to focus on my music, my jop and my life ( thx hamza ) Value ur life boys

[@AIRWAY26]

I teared up when i got to that part because of how much it described my situation. I loved this girl but I knew she was a Slut and had sex with my enitre friend group before me. I knew it would never last and I still couldn't and can't shake the attachment.

[@user-vj1cw8vf7v]

Still amazed how you just keep releasing "on point" videos. Recently get a dating site account, started chatting. It is incredible HOW MANY of your thoughts and focus you are loosing in the process. You still able to do your tasks, but from time to time there are distracting thoughs like "oh i will write this to her" etc. Friends, keep improving yourself and that's all, dont waste your focus

[@haleynicole7333]

Wow. Every single experience, thought, feeling you spoke about with having an anxious attachment style I could relate to and understand on such a deep level. It literally felt like I was listening to the healed male version of me. I’m really struggling to heal this but I’ve also learned a lot about neuroplasticity so I know there is hope! Thank you for this video, it helped me to not feel so alone ☺️

[@orezeu3720]

im turning 21 next month and im still a virgin. Im the only one out of my close friends who hasnt had any experience with women and was thinking along the same lines as Hamza mentioned at the beginning of the video worried about needing practice for when i meet a girl i genuinely feel a strong connection with. im currently at uni and achieve pretty good grades, ive been hitting the gym for a few years now and ive built a physique im happy with, fixed up my fashion choices and grooming and i notice that i get attention from more girls, its almost like the way they act around me has changed compared to when i was unathletic and had bad acne as a teenager. However, i still struggle with addictions which have led to feelings of depression and inadequacy and im always making up excuses as to why im not good enough to pursue women. This video has changed my mindset - my high standards arent a bad thing and as long as i focus on the positive habits my bad habits will slowly fade away (im not as addicted as i used to be) and my final destination is the best version of myself in a healthy relationship with a high quality woman, however long that might take. Thanks for removing that pressure I was feeling that is always distracting my mind and prolonging bad mental health.

[@sally.g.]

I wish you the best of luck! Seems like you are doing things right! Keep your standards high, be patient and I'm sure you will meet a nice woman. PS.: Feeling like you are not good enough is a universal experience. Only narcissists feel like they are.

[@LondonMoneyCashEnterprise]

Rah, u have a similar story to me except Im 19, being on self improvement I’m slowly noticing things are changing u know

[@Ryan-ji2xg]

Am about to turn 21 am currently on weed withdrawal day 9 which I think is making it worse and having anxiety about the fact I’ve only kissed 1 girl I did it at 16 I think but was drunk when it happened am surprised I managed back then I must have been 18 stone am currently 12 stone lost weight over time from drugs and went down to about 16 stone 10 and from then this past year I went down to 12 stone from running on average 3 times a week cold showers and healthy eating I was smoking grass everyday aswell which surprisingly helped because when I was struggling I took all my negative emotions out on the weed and I controlled my mind to pretend I wasn’t hungry but the weed is holding me back I have anxiety and depression for sure but I think I have mild body dismorphia and possible mild psychosis or schizophrenia I believe the weed is making these issues worse I used to go out a fair amount up till the age of 17 I think was when covid hit then I became introverted and just kept getting high n drunk by myself in my room for about 2 yearsrarely went out but when I did it was with a small group of fake friends which I don’t talk to any of them anymore am all alone and that’s what worries me I only recently blocked all of them and deleted their numbers cause I’ve had enough of the subliminal disrespect which I believe is because I lost all this weight and have been repping self improvement I think they r jealous of me and hate how far I’ve came I work at my dads business night shift interact with few people and that’s y I feel stuck am all alone now trying to get sober I have the weight off yeah but now I have depression and bad social anxiety to deal with amongst possible other things my granny and dog recently died and my dad has been diagnosed with lukemia as each year goes on I get lonelier and more woried about my future I have a lot more hope tho than what I did over that lockdown now that I’ve lost the weight and am on self improvement but idk how am gonna make new mates or get a gf it’s hard on your own and with all the drugs I’ve done always getting high alone not talking with anyone it’s hard to socialise unless am drunk when am sober it’s so bland I can talk to people yes but there’s no personality unless am drunk but with my lack of braincells even then am bad at thinking of what to say tryna be strong and get on with it when these withdrawals pass things will hopefully get alot easier and am gonna try get a new job but this feeling is just terrible my life’s been shit for like 7-8 years now this there where good times but each year just seemed to get harder to cope I have gotten alot more attractive physically am 6ft tall fairly broad and my hairstyle and clothing style has improved I’ve had opportunities in the past with girls and felt attraction from them aswell but past the age of about 17 I didn’t want to pursue because of how much of a mess my head is in I feel like I’d just get rejected when they have a convo with me and get to know me because I’ve been this sado introverted druggie with barely any experience with women even if I explained my past and y am at where am at they would think am just listing excuses and weak or they just won’t understand it’s like on the outside I look fine am prob 5-6/10 in looks but my personality and past just let’s me down am a good person I’ve a good heart but I’ve just been such a mess mentally well anyway had to rant about this somewhere even just made me feel better typing all this down wether anyone replies or not thank you

[@yush_609]

​@@Ryan-ji2xg If nobody's told you yet, I'm proud of you bro. You came up from rock bottom and you're working on bettering yourself. I've been in the same place and here's my advice: 1. Let go of your trauma. Most people pick up an addiction because of trauma. Getting high lets you escape and forget about your problems for the moment, but they'll always come back, usually worse because you put it off so long and because you're abusing your body and mind. Whatever trauma is eating at you, you need to feel it and let it go, no matter how hard it is. Only then can you heal. 2. Positive thoughts. Your thoughts drive your emotions, so you need to stop wallowing in negativity and self pity. You had a tough past and made mistakes, but you're not the same person anymore. Instead of regretting your past, think about what it taught you and how it made you stronger. Stop labeling yourself and letting your past define you. 3. Self love. I know you want to make friends and get a girl but how can you love others, when you don't even love yourself. Let go of judgment, and think about everything you love about yourself. If this is hard to think about, ask yourself what you're grateful for. You have an able body and a functioning mind. You could be in a wheelchair, paralyzed, or in a coma, so always remember to be thankful. This will take time, so be patient and remember to forgive yourself. 4. Train your focus and memory. You're still young and can change your brain. Even if you're older it's possible. Natural foods, good sleep, and getting sun are the minimum you should do. Reading will help you form thoughts and writing will help you organize your thoughts. You should practice talking out loud and with people. Practice makes perfect. 5. Try fasting and eating brain foods. Research the benefits of lions mane mushrooms, walnuts, almonds, etc... I'm recommending these 3 personally since I've used them. I highly recommend you research fasting too. I intermittent fast, and sometimes I'll do a 1-2 day fast, which acts as a reset for my body/mind. Fasting gets rid of brain fog and induces autophagy, which is when the body destroys old and damaged cells and used them to repair and build new cells. 6. Put yourself out there. Make friends at the gym, at work, and start conversations. As an introvert it's hard, but greet people, learn their names, and start connecting more. And stop overthinking. If you see an attractive woman, go talk to her. So what if she rejects you? It'll make you stronger. Lastly, you'll attract the right people when you live authentically and lead with love. Don't chase anyone, and get comfortable being alone, there's peace in solitude. I know it sounds cliche, but believe in yourself. Your mind is so powerful and once you understand that, your life will change for the better. Also be patient with yourself, change doesn't happen overnight. One last thing, self improvement has 3 pillars, mental, physical, and spiritual. Don't neglect spiritual growth. If you want to talk more, lmk.

[@Ryan-ji2xg]

@@yush_609 cheers bro I appreciate it I have been on self improvement properly for almost a year now coming up around September time and although I was smoking weed everyday up until the 3rd of may coming up to near a month sober now and the worst of the withdrawals have passed so I haven’t drank alcohol in 2 weeks today so I have been stone cold sober for two weeks when I wrote that last message I was struggling mentally u know how it is bro but just felt good to let what was bothering me most out thank you for your kind words and support I have been running for almost a year on average 3x a week although there where weeks I took off due to injury and what not I have been eating cleaner and less for the most part and funny u mentioned intermittent fasting I do that from time to time not on the regular tho it is good for shooting weight off fast but I don’t like to do it too much I take supplements such as ashwaganda, iron, vitamin b, calms valerian root, cbd oil drops and cod liver fish oil I also like to drink low calorie flavoured vitamin water I try to watch my sugar intake and take in a fair amount of protein I also do cold showers I’ve acc been doing them more regularly now since am trying to stay sober there’s nothing like finishing a run and getting a cold shower done u feel great after it all it’s a mini high on its own but u don’t feel like a piece of shit because your making the right choices I also practice no fap it was easier when I was smoking weed because if u crave a fap u just smoke another j instead😂 but coming up to a week on that my highest streak was 8 weeks the issue is now that since I’ve lost so much weight I’ve a bit of loose skin it’s isn’t noticeable when I stand up but when I get on my hands and knees I’ve got saggy tits and a saggy belly it hasn’t even been a year since I’ve lost all that weight I started at 16st 10 or 17st 10 I can’t remember which tbh although I did originally weigh 19st 6 in 4th year but lost some over the year due to drug use and cigarettes I still think I might need a tummy tuck when my skin shrinks to its full potential idk I’ll have to wait and c but to get a tummy tuck I need to quit smoking or else they wont let u it messes up the recovery process am actually confident I can do it I plan on vaping cbd until the nicotine withdrawals pass and then since cbd isn’t addictive it wont have withdrawals I just have to get over the mental addiction of inhaling and exhaling vapour but am not ready to quit just yet am focusing on staying sober and loosing even more weight for now because I hear it’s common to gain a lot of weight when u quit nicotine so I feel like I should use it to my advantage for now I want to get in the gym and start lifting weights but I don’t c the point right now because am trying to loose weight so am in a calorie deficit most of the time I have the odd day where I go over my calories to keep my motabolism in check but when I do I try to eat healthy whole foods for the most part but I do cheat from time to time ngl I was eating a lot of shit that first 2 weeks of weed withdrawal surprisingly I had more of an appetite no clue how most people don’t have an appetite when they quit but not me and then when I get my tummy tuck it’ll take months to properly recover so I also don’t c the point in joining a gym for a bit getting a tummy tuck and loosing all my progress from doing fa for so long I have a plan for it all the issue is am human and there’s a good chance am gonna have set backs but I’ll try remain strong and do what needs to be done I want to start dating now and getting on a dating app but I don’t c the point if I’ve loose skin I feel like it would just be a turn off for her and how do I even mention it do I just let her find out and if I do get in a relationship and we do start fucking then when I quit smoking I’ll most likely be a dick and when I get the tummy tuck we can’t fuck for a good month or so because the incision is done right above your dick Ano am over thinking it all but I just like to plan things out in my head am about to turn 21 I already feel behind in life and it just gives me a lot of stress and anxiety but at the same time am hopeful and to an extent confident it will all work out because it has to I can’t keep living my life like this the amount of times I’ve got fucked up by myself or with fake cunts it gets boring after a while and usually just brings me more issues tired of it all like do u think I should start trying to date with loose skin? I think it would only really be noticeable in the missionary position but what am I supposed to do just do cow girl and doggy😂 or wear a shirt then she’ll just think am not confident and self conscious which is probably more of a turn off idk what to do about that one tbh I wanna give dating a try soon but still have shit to do issue is if I wait I might not be in that position for another year or two prob less than two tbf I’ve accomplished a fair wack and it ain’t even been a year idk how I can be so confident and i unconfident at the same time😂

[@yyxo]

i love these longer form videos, cant wait to watch this one fully

[@Randomize324]

Men learn from the mistakes from themselves Wise men learn from the mistakes of others

[@josef_bbc]

Dumb men already know everything

[@yasserbostan7156]

Nice cope

[@houssainespaghetti3210]

I think it’s “smart men” not “men”

[@HJ0007]

Couple years ago when I hit rock bottom my only undeniable goal and motive was to grind hard and get out of my shitty situation ruthlessly Recently I started to look around and I’ve realized that I’m now above average when it comes to looks and mindset. I’ve calmed down more and started thinking about my social life around women. It’s been draining my energy but then this video popped up. So thanks Hamza and keep grinding y’all

[@sharadroy3828]

Boy those pauses. Gave me chills and literally opened my eyes. Always believed in what you said but I started questioning it when I moved to different country and wanted to get a girl.

[@Syr57]

7:50 there were some times when I desired to feel loved, like in a relationship with the kind of woman I want, but I kept on to this "monk mode" because I knew my own self improvement was worth more and that later on, this love that I crave for now will have more value. I have been on self improvement since August 2022 and I wanted to thank you for what you've done for me

[@retiredswordsman3720]

Thank u Hamza. This is the message I needed to hear after so many days with depressive thougts about myself and why I couldn't find a girlfriend. It's not too late for me and Im gonna be my own priority from now on.

[@doomhardt7680]

Hey Hamza, just wanted to let you know how much this video has helped mee get over recent events. I’m currently 17, have a slight stomach but I’ve put on quite some muscle over the past few years. I’ve asked out 4 girls and approached 1 (but couldn’t get the words out of my mouth and just ran away). I’ve mainly done it because my brother (8 years elder to me) told me to as when he went to college, he saw so many grown ass men afraid to approach a woman and didn’t want me to turn out the same way. But this last girl was different, I felt like I genuinely loved her and could see myself spending the rest of my days with her (ik, big talk from someone who’s so young and inexperienced but I’m being honest here). So I asked her out and she rejected me saying that she wasn’t really looking for a relationship right now, but I decided to stay in the friendzone, something which I hadn’t done before because she was genuinely fun talking to plus we shared some of our friends. But my want for her only grew and I saw myself trying to be her boyfriend again over the next few months, I followed some of your tips on how to get out of the friendzone by avoiding her and being cold-hearted, it didn’t feel right but I did it cuz I was told I would get results. It didn’t work and I found us only drifting farther apart. Eventually I realized that I couldn’t keep living a lie and had to get out of the friendzone one way or another. So just 2 days ago, I told her all this and asked her out a final time but she said that she was already seeing someone else at the time. I had never been dealt a blow this bad in my life before and felt inadequate, I was also really disappointed that it didn’t work out because I felt like I could entirely skip this trouble of finding a girl later if I got one this early. But this video has really helped me revaluate my priorities because I always felt like I needed some experience with women to be able to find my dream wife. Btw this is not a dig at the girl, she did lead me on and made me feel really special, like I’m the one for her but I believe that it was from a place of ignorance and not maliciousness. This video has really helped me out A LOT! And I can’t thank you enough Hamza.

[@natecook2103]

We as men need to be incredibly sharp and keen, wise like serpents and innocent like doves, I see too many men in my life struggling with women. There are few men in my life whose wives are satisfied, loving, loyal and respectful and the difference is in who leads in the relationship, point, blank, period. Never let a woman control you even though most women only want control for attention and so they can do whatever they want, because they’ll never be that feminine woman that you desire deep down. Better off being single than to shack with a nagging woman. Become sharp and immovable then most women will ignore you, leaving only room for the good girls but once you get a girl then they wanna take you away from her NOT because they desire you but because they’re narcissistic. Most guys/girls in todays society are fucked up from a young age, better to let the dead bury the dead. I have so much determination for my 15 nieces/nephews and so many goals to help change others that I cannot be contended with by anyone besides God who keeps me in control. Once you decide that your gonna be in full control then they will come to bring you down to their level, but you won’t let them, you bruise their heads while they bruise your heels.

[@d.prymaka9884]

Im 20 soon and god this happened to me when i was 17, hard to recover from... Granted I went insane in the gym thrle past year and got more money etc so I might be ok.

[@bro918]

I dont even know why he made that video to be honest, you cannot 'escape' the friendzone. You werent attractive enough, its the hard truth

[@ahoodieman]

One of the best long format videos I have watched, from Hamza.

[@marofrank]

One of the best videos I have ever seen Hamza thank u

[@elibenson4586]

This content just keeps getting better and better. Life-changing advice, Hamza. Thank you for everything that you're going out here 😎💪

[@cucumber7635]

I really needed this video, it's changed my perspective on dating. Thank you so much

[@manishrathi6564]

My father passed away in 2017 ( I was 17 back then) I fell off and got sucked into the world of degeneracy, I started self improvement in 2020 but the things I am learning from this guy are priceless, He is a father figure for those who lost their fathers or don't have a good one, I have been on the longest no-fap streak of my life ( 9 months almost ) and I almost relapsed 2 days back. Luckily I came across this video today, now I know my path ahead. Thanks for the guidance Hamza.

[@luis_g.s.s]

I'm 13 and learning about these things in that age made me have a totally diffrent perception of life. Thanks for giving one of the most valuable advice that you could give us!

[@adamlovrencak]

bro this is literately me rn i havent even finised the video yet but ive allways been thinking about this feeling left out and considering the degenerate lifestyle just for experience with girls i am so grateful for this video

[@Adrien_A]

cant believe this information is free. amazing.

[@7floppa81]

Hamza , I’m grateful , that you have shared your wisdom with us . Thank you !

[@thisisritzy]

Your character development is immaculate and tremendously respectful, bro.

[@zachs2786]

I normally don’t comment but this video is just so extremely relevant and needed. I really appreciate and admire your growth Hamza. You address both the “realist” aspects of today’s world from the perspective of a young man and aren’t afraid to say what you know to be true despite the fear of being “unpopular”. Massive cheers 👊

[@NetanelColish]

Tysm for explaining this, I agree damn! Mind blowing!

[@rayanptx1042]

You changed my perspective on dating and put me back on track. Thank you brother

[@nitishmanovha]

You need to write a book on this bro, couldn’t of said it any better

[@shennyboi110]

This video really resonated with me. I have been focusing on growth as opposed to women for almost half a year now, after a mutual break up back in 2022, and if there is one thing I have learnt from the whole 3 year relationship and the time i've been focusing on myself, it's that no matter what your relationship status, or what part of our life you're in: YOU should be the main focus. I began focusing more on my gf and it took a toll on me mentally and physically. Ever since we broke up, Ive been meditating, going to the gym, and spending more time on self-improvement and it has been THE most productive part of my life, thanks to Hamza and a few of my good friends & family. To those reading, remember self improvement should be your priority. Thinking about girls can come after you improve upon your mind and body. Thank you Hamza for giving us all this clarity- you've helped me incredible amounts.

[@michaeledmunds8370]

This is exactly what I needed to hear.

[@jandobrowolski2289]

Thank you bro, you are the first and probably the only one thag is telling that. Stay strong brothers 💪

[@im_octa]

This is the type of video that deserved a shorter and summarized version, just so it could reach more people. It's a needed message to a lot of young guys lost out here, thinking they need to do stuff that they actually HAVE to.

[@alexalex7785]

I know maybe Hamza is right. But. He experienced a lot in life, he knows so much. And what he's speaking is literally missing steps of your own journey. He helps us with "what's right and what's wrong" but you can watch every video about this theme and you'll newer understand the true things that's better for you. After bad experience you can improve yourself much better than after moral lectures. Love this channel

[@benjamintutankamonsins4971]

Thats right bro he got every stage . This degenerate stuff is like a phase and every man needs to experience it to get better imo

[@towel9646]

Coping. Don’t make that same mistake and you’ll be further ahead. This degenerate hookup phase is new in modern times and there is a reason for that. It’s bad for you and society

[@benjamintutankamonsins4971]

@@towel9646 bro even virgin girls want a pornstar type guy .No one wants a guy wit no experience. I really lived this situation in past so issa fact imo

[@Abdaaru]

​@@benjamintutankamonsins4971You mean only virgin western women*

[@Alsand78]

Absolutely bro, I agree. Sometimes it’s best to have some experience before a full blown marriage. The relationship doesn’t even need to be sexual, it can be romantic. But honestly conflicting this with “Degeneracy culture” is quite crude. You don’t need to be a full blown playboy, just live life.

[@nickk9281]

No lie. I actually think this vid will change the trajectory of my life. I really needed to hear this best video yet. Cheers.

[@timmy2210]

This video is like a gift, right know im struggling with deciding which path to take, this video opens my eyes Thank u Hamza, as always

[@coletonhansen]

Hamza, Im proud to say this is me. I grew up with great parents who taught me my own worth as a kid and its stayed with me through my teen years. I am a Attractive man and So naturally a lot of girls at my school l try to get with me but i’ve denied 99% of them because they arent wife material and a lot of them get mad at me for not getting with them😂 but I love that your preaching this stuff and you have made my life better in so many ways love you as a brother Hamza💙

[@Topgangsterrealg]

The thought of having a girl by your side is so thrilling and satisfying… I really want to fulfill that dream. Imagine just cuddling and talking about life with a beautiful girl

[@Javier300k]

solid advice thank you hamza for being like a father figure

[@theotheo4177]

Hamza man you've helped me so much brother, just wanted to comment my appreciation for all your work

[@prowessFr]

Thank you for your vids Hamza 🙏

[@vincentvanderbilt1508]

ALL of these recent videos really hit that delayed dopamine hit, being informative, concise, intentional, and raw. Thank you!

[@sanmkalph9763]

really needed this, thank you brother!

[@kaustuvduwadi2761]

Thank you Hamza for making this video

[@gutengutenwastaken]

Man how do I thank i am 13 without you idk where my life would be i was depressed no ambission and obese because of u i improed myself I owe my life it's about to going to be a year on self improvement

[@none1426]

Good Job Brother. I am 16 and just started this journey a few months ago. Keep on grinding and keep on fighting to become a real man.

[@tristandriant4539]

Congrats on starting so early ! I hope you'll keep improving

[@mbzdotdev]

tfw started at 22 🥲

[@frogelpe9871]

as a 19 year old virgin: Thank you so much for this message. Ever since I habe started taking holistic self improvement seriously I have made tremendous progress and just recently started attracting girls. Because of your videos and the "Stick or twist" mindset when it comes to dating, I kept on holding out on the chances I had. I know I can get better if I just stay on the right path and continue my journey towards Adonis.

[@howtoduit]

@@Zblunt No just don't put them on a pedestal or see them as something you want to have sex with. Write down who you think your ideal 'wife' is gonna be and when you talk to girls you will be able to tell if they're your 'wife' material and if they're not, don't pursue them.

[@AliKhan-xo1eu]

@@howtoduit man. Sex is healthy. science proves this. meet women, have intimacy. its amazing.

[@davidhonicky496]

What's stick or twist mindset pls?

[@visualities]

What’s stick or twist

[@frogelpe9871]

@@AliKhan-xo1eu sounds like a cope to me

[@arkaprabhadebnath8905]

What a excellent video

[@hectorluisbartolomei113]

honestly thank you ,i needed to hear this

[@xpuccipu05y86]

I have had this mindset for about a week before watching this video, I am 17 and go to a mixed school. I used to think about girls and conversation starters and stuff... but ever since I am only focusing on my education, on myself and about how girls or anyone in this type of environment really cares about you except from yourself, I have been enjoying school way more, also my confidence has gone up significantly too.

[@xaviersmobilegaming4565]

Great for you brother, once the women see you won’t even have to try to attract but keep yourself for that 1

[@ItsDobbie]

I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels this way. My friends were calling me crazy for passing up opportunities to have sex with various girls, but I just didn’t want to do it with somebody that I didn’t genuinely care about. Even if they were pretty and DTF.

[@UmarKhan34503]

Thanks for this advice I’m been having a hard time understanding how to improve and this helped a lot

[@mlokj9240]

You’re very well spoken my guy. Thanks for the advice

[@Gdxla-su4jx]

I'm 19 and in university. Hamza i just want to thank you for slowly opening my eyes to what a man should be. I've started to read books again because they are the best source of knowledge. I had lost my mother in 2021 and had been struggling mentally to get over it, it feels like i've been alone this whole time and i was slowly drifting away. I've read Deep work and How to win friends and influence people. I started to shead tears after the first 30 pages of How to win friends and influence people because memories had came flooding back. I have ordered Atomic habits and The way of the superior man, so that i can truly understand masculine energy and what it means to be a man and to understand how to be the best man i can be when i find the right woman. Thank you so much!

[@Dominic-ey2ox]

Same with me bro. Stay safe and strong. God is with you

[@Gdxla-su4jx]

@@Dominic-ey2ox Thank you

[@tatemid2505]

R.I.P to your mom and God bless you

[@Yarblocosifilitico]

About chapter 5: Fully agree once again. I'd say wait longer than 7 days, to get those retention benefits, but, honestly, about once per week is what I've been doing. My energy levels and creativity are nice. Could be better, I guess, but, just like with intermittent fasting, one should start with baby steps. I'm hoping to get to once per month sooner than later tho.

[@miguelbtorres22]

Amazing video Hamza, we re heading and entering the right way

[@Godswead]

This video got me, man. It was so good that I actively thought about it during the whole VID. I always knew it, but just hearing you talk about it and actively brainstorming on those topics while I listened was a great experience.

[@Peppipedia]

I am 19 years of age, first year in university. This scenario that is described almost perfectly reflects my situation. Everyone around me is having relationships, some longer than others, and I just feel so weird and awkward when someone brings it up. Thank you for helping me better understand where this feeling came from!

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

Hope you didn’t take the vax

[@helloworld2054]

Same and I'm 23, never had a relationship or sex, only got a hug from a girl in my entire life

[@Slidehhy]

​@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274💯

[@luisliscabo]

@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 I took it twice and now my life span is going to be shaved by half.

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

@adolfsteinberg don’t worry man I just think it affects in some ways if u change your mind u can try a religious exemption, I would just trust in GOD and keep living life but then again it’s not affecting everyone as bad. Goodluck

[@Yarmox]

I listened to the whole thing and I completely related. Im in my mid 20s, had a relationship with a woman like you talked about. Knew they werent wife material, did end up catching feelings, and had to make the right decision. But I still think about them years later. I find myself becoming worried again with finding a woman since the 30s are fast approaching. But ultimately like you said, I am not looking for a bang maid, I am looking for a woman worth starting a family with. Everything resonates, some thing we must leave up to God. The right one may come along, and being worried about it wont change anything.

[@ZimaLion]

going through a similar situation, how has everything been since your comment?

[@Yarmox]

@@ZimaLion Still the same. It seems dating has become increasingly difficult even with the right intentions.

[@ZimaLion]

@@Yarmox At least you took the decision that aligns with your values and instinct. Better to be alone than with the wrong person.

[@ZimaLion]

@@Yarmox I think it will be more difficult to date since nowadays high value ladies are rare

[@Yarmox]

@@ZimaLion For sure

[@toptforareason]

i think you just potentially saved my future and solved a big concern of mine! much love brotha

[@miamicode7117]

Hamza I am infinitely grateful for your work brother. You have no idea how much you have helped me, and many other guys in similar predicaments. I knew I needed to focus on my work and you gave me the confirmation I was looking for. This world creates too many distractions.

[@noahpalmer6653]

This is something that's really eye opening for me. Currently 16. GCSE's finish 16th June. Following that, long summer ahead, prolly going to parties and things like that. It's weird cos my friends have girls, so does my twin brother. I've never been quite sure where I stand, haven't ever been in the party scene, although I'm in a good group of friends and am starting to get invited. It's nice to hear an alternate opinion that you don't need a girl - perhaps it's better without them. But I do feel as though it's a good idea to acquaint yourself with girls, doesn't need to be sex or even a relationship. As you say, if you do find a great girl, it's no longer practise, just a no brainer.

[@SX-ne2rb]

Hamza is very much like the big brother I never had. Thank God we have him.

[@SethuJ]

This is your best video yet Hamza, well done chief

[@Ed_is_sad]

I needed this so much thank you hamza god bless you Also it gave me hope now i've understood that all i need is a true loved one

[@mustaffarahhussein1348]

Ramadan mubarak!!!!

[@samg_107]

thank you so much Hamza, although you don't know me I consider you one of the most important people i have in my life, I was walking down the same path you walked years ago, the path of being a degenerate for "practice", this video saved me from committing the same mistakes you have, although i have been a degenerate and lost my virginity to a girl i was disgusted by just for the sake of "practice", i dont think its too late for me, and its all thanks to you. I promise that all of your sacrifices and mistakes you have committed wont go in vain, you are saving the future generation of young men, you suffered so we won't. Thank you so much bro ❤

[@JUEDU-kf5tz]

Thank you, really thank you Hamza, I tell you this video appeared to me in the right exact moment it should have.

[@damienflajolet9147]

tragically in france with the degeneracy ( sorry if badly written) from social media i think it would be harder and harder to find someone. anyway have a blessed day to all and good bye

[@emperorgiese]

You're really smart and I feel bad for you

[@chrisvsp7966]

Hamza has been a real big brother to not just me but so many of us we cannot be much grateful to have someone like you to have such impact on our lives ,love you hamza

[@Changabis]

Take my experience as a warning, I fell in love with the most recent girl that I was supposed to practice on. Now it’s been about a month and I’ve been stuck up on her. This video is my wake up call to focus on myself until im ready to practice again

[@itslucasmoraes]

hamza thank you so much. truly. i cannot imagine my life without having discovered your channel. thank you so much for helping shape my mindset and beliefs.

[@phenomenal2485]

I think this is one of your best videos yet.

[@user-ot8cj3jk5m]

You cleared all my doubts i have been having recently thanks Hamza for everythings , i am so grateful for you to exist. I have been on self improvement journey for like 9 months now after i went through my breakup with my first girlfriend and we were like together for 5 years. I was doing well in my self improvement journey but lately i am tempted by the thought of getting girls now and i am slacking off literally but now i have a clear head after watching this video and i will attract the best high value woman in my life for sure and for that i have to work hard and focus on my goals instead of wasting my time and energy on getting hoes. Thanks HAMZA for everything you have taught me.

[@spear8403]

You forget to mention the Insane confidence boost you get. If you are able to bag good looking women consistently, those skills translate extremely well when smooth talking while doing business. It's a skill that heavily bleeds into other aspects of life. It puts your social skills to the test to develop. One year ago I stuttered and always chickened out of asking out women, and basicall a social tard. Then I started to go for easy picks but never ended up anywhere. But just simply talking to them, I got substantially less stress talking to the next one and the next one. It is better to be loved then lose that love to never be loved at all (excluding family)

[@danebajalica4177]

I agreed with the 99% with you! Thank you for helping us!

[@ggyyo5099]

I'm 19 male virgin... And I gotta tell you this man is speaking facts and reality that even our parents Don't say to us It is really important for our generation to know such things that life is not only about Love and Relations I feel much better everyday that I've nothing to worry about anyone I'm just by my self doing my studies and improving my skills At the end of the day when you see people appreciating your work it just feel so worth it...