What Does My Family Really Think About My Age Gap Relationship

[@dawnbranche7637]

Such a wonderful story I love the fact that a young black man can have an older black woman and treat her so good and I can see he is genuine

[@trudz800]

This is so sweet. We need to share when our Caribbean men are good and it is such a good feeling.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!💚🖤

[@LashusJourney]

So true, my husband is a sweetheart, we got married in 2016 he was 24 ❤.

[@lioness3030]

I love that her daughter didn’t think her mom dated because her mom didn’t want to bring men in and out her life. I could tell she raised her daughter well. Nice family!

[@soniachapman6359]

@@lioness3030 ❤️👌🏾

[@debbiesmith4219]

It’s a blessing to have a supportive family beautiful family 🙏❤️

[@deliahbernal4663]

Awwww this was so beautiful! Your mom was the realest and sweetest! She was so honest and said she was pissed at first lol 😂 but I love the way she speaks about her son in law!

[@thebonnicks]

☺️❤️❤️❤️

[@hepburnmorgan3934]

My heart melted when I watched this video. One big happy American and Jamaican family. I watched the interview with Kemar's mom and I can see the love. May God continue to be in the middle of everything. Love you guys. Nuff respect.

[@southlondon6759]

Age,race,disability etc...does not define who we should love. True love conquers all! Congratulations 🎊

[@thebonnicks]

Yes❤️❤️❤️

[@southlondon6759]

@@thebonnicks 😁🥰

[@leoniefearon2501]

I am happy as a Jamaican too myself he didn't disappoint them he is genuine wasn't one of the ungreatful ones who were only looking a passage to come here congratulations

[@phyllisbulgin980]

Your mom is tell the truth , she is telling the truth and being Honest❤️❤️❤️

[@thebonnicks]

Yes always, thank you❤️

[@barbettenaj]

Wow. I’m going through this right now. My daughter and I have not talked since the engagement. I so needed this 😢😊Thank you ALL so much! Now I understand 😊

[@thebonnicks]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@donnettarussell8829]

Your mommy said it best… “We need to erase our biases about people” I love your family and their acceptance of Kemar. I love Kemar’s mom as well. May the Lord continue to bless your beautiful union ❤❤

[@selliott3016]

My name is Stephanie and I am new to your channel I really enjoy your story I am in a similar situation as you. Me and my husband were looking for videos about the process of him coming to America. We were married in Africa. I am older than him and we are in love with each other. He is a really great man. You and your husband's relationship it's so authentic and beautiful and I wish you guys the best.

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings❤️❤️

[@jascinththomas1765]

Nice interview!!!! From the go get you can see that Kemar is really genuine and for the marriage to be in the 7th year, that speaks volume. Mom your such a precious soul and daughter too. Heaven continue to shine on your marriage and family. 🇯🇲

[@elfredawright]

Tonya, your mom and daughter are lovely. I am so happy they spoke from the heart and it is evident that they love you and Kemar very much.❤️🇯🇲🇨🇦

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@phyllisbulgin980]

Love the way her Daughter and mother tell you the way they feel, that was very nice, love the vibes,love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@donnastewart495]

So glad this young man didn't disappoint...im glad. Nice family

[@phyllisbulgin980]

Your mom get me crying in NYC, love your mom the way she feel about him❤️❤️❤️

[@thebonnicks]

Awww thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@mariedimples4733]

True words mama . We have to get rid of our biases. Much blessings to all of you🙏🙏🙏

[@cassandrawilliams3414]

I’m over here smiling and tearing up at the same time. Such a great video

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@hyacinthjones1818]

Love this video with your mom and daughter. I love when your mom said, mine u business. Big up mom.

[@WhatJamaican]

OMG! Great interview!!! How blessed you are to have such an awesome support team. I just fell in love with the entire family. Awesome job!!!!!👏

[@thebonnicks]

Awww thank you!!!❤️❤️

[@kingdommoney4739]

Repent don't say God name in vain

[@vashticanzius7864]

I will, (because of statistics) forever tremble when a woman is excited about a younger spouse! But am understanding enough to know that love comes from every direction and see every individual case for what it is!! Love to see love when it's genuine. Be blessed.

[@thebonnicks]

Love the way you stated that, thank you❤️

[@claudettejohnson2441]

Hello Mrs Bonnick...what a lovely interview. As we know, or should realise 'speaking our truth ' is meant to inform and not hurt. Accepting and hearing others who clearly love you is the key. Nothing but truthful love

[@thebonnicks]

Yes and people should be allowed to speak their truth without others being offended. Thank you Claudette!!

[@jenniferduncan4490]

Hey guys, love the sincere convo, Kemar is lovable, you guys are blessed to have each other in your lives.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you Jennifer❤️❤️

[@lisabrannock8182]

I wish you two the best 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲. My daughter was very hesitant about my husband due to his age, and we also had a big age gap. She had me with her most of her life. The same situation. My daughter was concerned about my money being taken. Unfortunately, we separated a few months ago. He apparently just married me for a green card. He cheated on me right after the marriage and a year after he was here, and he wouldn’t pay any rent or contribute to the household. He was living a whole other life and begun disrespecting me and telling me I can’t give him kids and I was old. I never realized how old I was. I thought we cared and loved each other, but I was wrong. His disrespect got worse. We had a beautiful wedding in Jamaica, and I had hoped to have a marriage here with family. Sadly, he was in and out and communication was lacking between us that could have maybe made our relationship stronger. I love your love story to Kemar. Our story is similar, but Kemar is genuine and caring. My husband had been here only 4 years. May you two be blessed immensely 🙏🏾❤️

[@shayscott7498]

I'm so sorry to hear that Sis! A woman did the same thing to my brother over 10 years ago and he hasn't been the same since; he does not trust women. I wish you the best; don't give up on finding love.

[@realchanger8220]

Sorry you went through that but it seems you just ignored all the red flags. I was going to do the same thing but I didn't wait for the red flags to pop up I went looking for them. I also noted how he treated others. Everyone is not the same ofcourse, but the way you described his behavior makes me think he was a fine actor.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you for this comment TiYah, I appreciate her bravery as well. It takes a lot to even share that story, especially with strangers. But if it can help just one person, that’s all it takes🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@thebonnicks]

I am so sorry to hear this. He sounds immature and will one day look back and realize what he had. I know it is heartbreaking and I hope it won’t deter you from having love again. My heart is with you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@thebonnicks]

I’m glad you said this, it’s not just men. My heart goes out to your brother and I hope he can find healing🙏🏽

[@sankhar2484]

This is so nice. I pray that God will continue to bless you all. I really appreciate the honesty of you guys.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️

[@chocolatequeen5953]

I hope y’all not worrying about what can happen but instead living in the moment and savory each day as it comes and don’t anticipate failure ! You both could have been with people from the same background and age group and it doesn’t work ! There are people from sane back ground and age group that there marriage doesn’t last as long as yours ! If he wants what you wants and you wants what he wants it will work ! 🍀

[@thebonnicks]

Yup this is a whole truth! Nope not worried at all. I always say things happen the way they are supposed to and each of us are right where we are supposed to be in our journey of life.

[@thebonnicks]

@Florence Charles ❤️❤️❤️

[@vmcmillan2]

Terry’s my 1st cuzz’n, when I first stumbled on the channel I immediately thought (Terry’s) life and how things transpired in our family. Wish that she would have had this kind of ending! You guys are beautiful ❣️🫶🏽🙏🏽

[@thebonnicks]

I wish so too and I hope it didn’t taint her image of love~Tonya🙏🏽❤️

[@ileenehewitt7132]

Love knows no bounds its all about the heart ❤❤❤

[@patriciabailey9757]

Such Natural, Honest and Sweet reactions. You guys are so close i admire your relationship. ❤❤

[@KevinTheFoodExplora]

Good to learn of your mom's and daughter's impressions of your age gap relationship. The dynamic of your relationship is very intriguing. I watched your video where you emotionally shared your issue with conceiving. What does Kemar think? What plans do you and husband have regarding starting a family on your own. Do you both plan on having a surrogate mom?

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you! We will have to do an in depth video on that.

[@JUSTBEINGPATTI]

I enjoyed this. The reactions were different than I thought and certainly the first thought was different than most people's reactions to finding love in Ja. Blessed be your union. Love Y'all

[@thebonnicks]

Aww thank you Just Being Patti! Bless up💚🖤

[@ms.jackson529]

It's great when both families are accepting and get along. It's great when we can be open and honest about feelings and talk about things. It is tricky when kids are involved and great when it all works out for the better. Great interview🥰

[@thebonnicks]

This is a whole truth! Blessings💚

[@HasSuNabZiYus_2020]

Hello family .. Hope are you doing and how was your weekend? Am Kodark from the west coast of Africa Liberia to be precise, but am currently residing in Germany 🇩🇪 I just subscribed to your channel .. Your daughter is very beautiful, sweet, saucy and gorgeous. Would like to get in touched with her ! I really like her !

[@HasSuNabZiYus_2020]

Ur videos are amazing and you look gorgeous.

[@HasSuNabZiYus_2020]

That guy is eating something clean, sweet, saucy, beautiful, juicy and hot …

[@GANGSTAlKINGjamaicanboy]

@@thebonnicks I married to a white girl as a Jamaican and now she getting me a divorce and I alway wanted to make a KZbin channels but she got low self esteem and it’s just can’t work but your daughter is so beautiful

[@meldasilcott6325]

Your momma is so sweet and genuine.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@sherrybell5650]

Your Mom words of wisdom is priceless, great content. Beautiful family

[@bhun9358]

Love your mom she is so sweet an down to earth

[@thebonnicks]

Bless up, thank you💚

[@leliethcunningham2242]

Kemar is so sincere and so eventually everyone would notice that and just love him for who he is. He knows what he wants or desires. Wishing you all Gods richest blessings and just continue to be happy, love from Ja.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@HiHelloHeyheyhey]

What a lovely family you have! ❤

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️

[@PaulSmith-oe7iy]

I have seen a few videos of you both for awhile back, and start watching again. it is obvious that both of you two are truly in love. may the good Lord continues to bless the union and grant both of you , your hearts desires. and I love the videos.👌

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you for watching!

[@kimewell5714]

Awww, this video is so beautiful, I appreciate y’all being so open . Tonya you have a beautiful family, Your Mom is great, your daughter is truthful and beautiful also, I love your family, big ups to your whole family.😊🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜💜🦋🦋🦋👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾💯💯💯💕💕💕✨✨✨🌈🌈🌈

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you! Bless up!💚💚💚

[@michellepopleyunstoppable7969]

Your mom and daughter is so sweet happy that thy accepted him age is just a number girl love the unity n congratulations just buck up your channel bless up unuh dam self straight

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@josephinehunte1250]

There is nothing more joyful than family support. Great family is accepting of ur husband, I went smthng similar because my husband is from Trinidad 🇹🇹 . 1 of my family members refused to cm to my wedding and gv me away, because his non acceptance of my carribean husband. But it was all gd I still got married & another uncle gv me away.

[@thebonnicks]

Wow!! Happy it worked out. Blessings❤️

[@debbiesmith4219]

Good job guys you answered the questions from your heart 💜

[@No1sProfit]

Let me say this Congrats to the Mother for raising a well educated and loving daughter. All are wel spoken and very reserved. Love the love you feel watching the video. Subscriber

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you, blessings❤️❤️

[@francesscott5321]

Very good interview I enjoyed it

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings Frances, thank you!!

[@izlandsisterztv8792]

Your videos popped up in my feed today, and after binging on a couple of videos. I see a beautiful warm and genuine bonded family……so I had to subscribe! Wishing the family all love and blessings

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@amarshawilliams6127]

Came across your channel and I must say I enjoy all your videos you are such a gem Tonya I pray you continue loving on each othe (Kemar) and your family is such a supportive team love you all💞🇯🇲👍

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you, blessings🖤💚

[@SnickerbarConsciousness]

New sub just came across your channel big up yourself i am Jamaican myself.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@gallen2101]

I could have written this myself!! And also I am glad you addressed the stigma of mental health among black women!! 💖 (My friend is significantly younger and age really doesn't matter)

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️

[@ppowell8791]

I am so very ,very happy.for the Family your husband is a real person and you both are going to do well Happy marriage my dear

[@danavanallen8324]

Jamaican are good people, u say it best grandma, is to know someone. 👍🇯🇲🙏❤️

[@millicentellis4071]

I love this because I'm married to a much younger man but one thing I never care what no one else says it's my life we love and respect each other that's what matters and he is a go getter and successful man 💙 ❤️ 💓

[@thebonnicks]

Yup! Bless up!!❤️❤️❤️

[@leelee5593]

It’s good that you kept your daughter out of harm’s way when she was younger. Glad your relationship is going great

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️

[@saudreawilson7032]

Beautiful family Tonya, just love your mom. He is a good man and he is mature. I have seen older and so immature. You guys rock Keep loving each other Blessings

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️

[@sherryannrichards1355]

I appreciate your mom and daughter's honest response! My adult son is not there yet with accepting my relationship but I understand more now after listening to your daughter! Thanks for sharing!

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings❤️❤️

[@thatansarilife5460]

This is beautiful. I’m so happy everything is working out so well for the family ❤

[@kaycianrichards4115]

Beautiful. I wish you a long and happy marriage. Lots of love from Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@kingskid4804]

Very honest..heart felt conversation ❤

[@lorenesmallsbrewer5665]

I love this. Family respect and love.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@elouiselevy8886]

Wow, all truth and thank for sharing. I Pray for long life and love

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings, thank you!💚

[@maryemurray5204]

Just found and began following your videosl. I Love Your Mom!! She is a friend in my head. She kept it 100! Lovely family

[@thebonnicks]

☺️❤️❤️

[@ChosenLove7]

Lovely three generations story. You're Blessed

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@bernicestocker4100]

Beautiful!!! May I ask how many years older are you? I had a friend that was 21yrs younger then me but I felt that was just to many years older than him for me.

[@janice179]

Beautiful couple the Bonnicks God continuous blessings be with you always. One love from Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@thebonnicks]

One love💚🖤

[@donnajackson5559]

I hope you have many many happy years together.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@karlenebrown636]

I never watch your channel and till today and I love it 😻 I love your mom she is so honest and straightforward and I love that about her ❤

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you so much!!

[@elainestephens6148]

Such a beautiful family blessing 🙌 to you all

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings, thank you❤️❤️

[@elsastuckman6052]

Just great everything about this interview , this family seems really genuine. Blessings to all❤❤😊

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️

[@sonyajames2093]

Yes mama you made me cry. I felt every words you said and I felt the same way about him..a genuine one..yes sir u are

[@thebonnicks]

Sonya, awww☺️💚💚💚💚

[@sonyajames2093]

@@thebonnicks glad u cuddn see the face bout me hollering 🤣

[@thebonnicks]

@@sonyajames2093 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@PC-zg3eo]

I am glad that I’m not the only one who cried.

[@sinaleuluaialii7872]

This is so sweet and awesome video. You have a beautiful daughter also your Mom, very sweet and nice family... God bless Y'all

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️

[@antymuz]

Oh sweet Jesus... I LOOOOOVE this family. So sweet and Genuine. I hope and pray this ENTIRE family stays together 🙏 ❤

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@noamifaulkner2615]

Wow that is so nice may God continue to bless you guys together

[@carollynch4710]

What a nice love story. I’m Jamaican, and I’m so elated about everything. I like this family. and I must say your daughter looks just like one of my nieces. I feel like I I have known you guys for a long time. I was hoping to see a picture of your husband . Very interesting love story. I wish you guys a very successful marriage.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️

[@beverlymorris6200]

Aaaaw!! I love this may God bless and keep you both together forever ❤️ 💖 💛

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@misslottieish]

So nice you get their real opinion. God Bless your family.

[@beverlymyrie9455]

love the vibes, the conversation

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you Beverly! Bless up💚🖤

[@Simpli7cated]

Enjoyed this interview. 👌

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!!💚🖤

[@paulamckenzie2356]

Wonderful interview with the family.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you Paula!❤️

[@soniachapman6359]

3 beautiful generation of women RIGHT up in here.❤️👌🏾

[@outofmanyweareone6429]

Love this conversation beautiful family ❤ To me its not important if the families love each other, yes it makes it easier, but you have to follow your ♥ I love that your families are happy, all relationship take work. One love 🖤💚💛

[@thebonnicks]

Yea totally agree. One love💚

[@PC-zg3eo]

The interview spews honesty. Thanks for being so transparent.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@fabfabeveready5927]

Wow i recently came accross your chanel and i love you guys love your family and how they embraced my Jamaican brother i pray god continues to bless your union.

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings, thank you!!

[@joanjackson7065]

I LOVE YOUR MOM HONEST OPINION TONYA

[@mariagarrick3497]

Wishing you all the happiness in your relationship God Bless you all

[@flowflowoo]

Your daughter is so beautiful i can see her soul beaming out on the outside ,your Mom is very real and I like the fact that your daughter could say she never knew of you dating anyone while she was growing ,(that looks good on you dear)

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@janicejackson9228]

I think it was a little jealousy there too...that's normal. Sometimes you feel like you're losing, but after a while, you realize you're gaining! (Smile)

[@nkshirley1282]

Your daughter and you is like twins I love your mom your daughter and you beautiful family and I love the way you always do you know talking about your husband and your family❤❤

[@thebonnicks]

❤️

[@phylliscarter6215]

Enjoyed this,don't matter weh you from, love rule

[@blossombrown2546]

Love love this Blessings guys

[@77cpolissaint]

Enjoy your video. I actually and married to a Jamaican man and we are 10 years apart ( me being older). We have 2 children together and currently we are separated. As in any relationship people stay were they can benefit from. After he cheated on me twice and me having to change the locks he felts he couldn’t benefit anymore from doing the bare minimum so he left. Not saying this will happen to you. Your husband just shouldn’t get influenced by others to do negative.

[@thebonnicks]

Wow so sorry to hear😥

[@Zulimaayannaiam]

This was beautiful ❤. Thank you for sharing.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️

[@truezladye1893]

Thank you for honest conversation, really enjoyed watching. Personally I don't think age matters. What's important is maturity, compatibility and shared values. Wishing you both the best from the UK 🇬🇧❤️

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you! Glad you enjoyed!!❤️

[@KEKE-p9v]

Just kidding, glad both your family and Kemar's family are ok with the relationship and that you all are are the same page. Bless up Bonnick family

[@sweetdarkie472]

Hey y’all 😊 Great interview Hope u guys have a wonderful week

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!!! Have a blessed week!!

[@paulinestevans5251]

Wow this is so nice I just started watching you guys a couple of weeks ago and I just love.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@carribeanqueenfitts7277]

Tonya ur daughter has ur Calming spirit and voice, she's beautiful 😍 I call my daughter Sweet Pea too!! She's my oldest of 3😊

[@mekowalker7397]

Im Jamaican, im happy of your outcome god is good at least i can say all Jamaicans are not the same thank you the lord!!!

[@thebonnicks]

Yes!! Thank you!

[@carribeanqueenfitts7277]

Your mom is where u guys get that Beautiful Calming spirit ❤ She's funny too, the Pool Boy🤣

[@sharonsamuels9734]

Just came across you guys and am so in love with you both .blessings n more blessings in your Marriage ❤

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️

[@joanjackson7065]

SO RIGHT NOW IM LEARNING FROM YOU TONYA WE HAVENT SLEPT TOGETHER AS YET IS THE WAY I MET THIS MAN IS REALLY FUNNY

[@daliquerust7254]

I am a new subbies, I am from Jamaica that's living in Louisiana, I love your mom❤

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you! Welcome❤️❤️❤️