What Does Our Breakup Feel Like? | {THE AND} Kareem & Courtney

[@Iwish387]

To whomever watching this. Please protect your peace. Remember that: People didn’t break your heart, they break your expectations. When you allow expectations to controls your reality, it becomes condemnation. May whoever reading this, finding peace within their soul. Serenity to their severance. Love to their longing sad heart. Laughter to their scattered world. Joy to their hidden exterior facial mask that they carry on everyday. May you never have to feel the need to have an apology be orally articulate in order for you to forgive. May you let go of the uncontrollable. May you never have to blame yourself for how people treating/treated you. May you never have to ask yourself WHY this has happened to you? May you find clarity to your loving path! Spread love! Walk away from negativities! Live gracefully! Be kind! Be nice! Be more forgiving! Laugh more! I love you and I hope you become the best version of yourself on a daily basis.

[@medoyumi]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@winst]

omg i needed this

[@ciel222]

WELL SAID , WELL SAID

[@Cookiembaby]

Wow this was beautiful and powerful 🙏

[@anele4135]

I needed this so much.thank you😘

[@LionessExplores]

Sometimes we meet the right person at the wrong time.

[@alias6001]

oh then, they were never the right person

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Life lessons.... Wether you are gay or straight.

[@zoraidacastro5403]

Cheating is not okay. I just need some tissue.... These guys are being so honest with each other! Hmmm ok. Just friends.

[@Iwish387]

Oh no baby girl... that’s not true at all. You meet everyone at the right time to teach you a life lesson that you have not yet experienced.

[@ariellegreen6052]

Right person at the wrong time? They met and loved each other. But one cheated on the other. He did wrong thing to the right person.

[@alexhornewer8396]

I just went through a break up and youtube keeps recommending all these break up videos. Thanks, I hate it.

[@TheExclusiveHousemother]

Alex Hornewer facts!!!

[@Enlightened08]

aww that sucks, sorry

[@musakhumalo5424]

You and me both 😂😂😂

[@ckboy023]

Same boat, we'll get through this fine, I believe.

[@murillop8362]

Who cheated on who?

[@xoxoIzzI23]

Maan when he brought up that internal conversation you have of, "do I go back, but he hurt you, but I love him" just got to me. Definitely felt that and I hope he finds healing from this experience.

[@letrice2892]

Yes i think we have all experienced that moment and it truly sucks bcuz the heart wants it but theres always a question of will u hurt me again can i trust u again and those answers usually place us in the position we need to be in no matter how hard it may seem

[@A...LA...LA...A]

Same... literally going insane!

[@A...LA...LA...A]

He said "do I go back again", I started😢

[@Simply_Deanna_726]

Sometimes I hate being an empath because I can feel all their emotions, heartbreak, and longing as if it were my own.

[@yvettebates1420]

Girl I am also an empath and l know you mean.

[@jamesliggins891]

i think that's just called being a human being

[@rachellewizedome6643]

@@jamesliggins891 Not all human beings are empaths unfortunately

[@jamesliggins891]

@@rachellewizedome6643 i mean an empath is literally a creation of science fiction, so i'd probably argue that *no* human beings are empaths

[@rspen2142]

The world actually needs more empathetic people. Don't feel bad for embodying a sense of humanity because feelings are human!

[@ahkingeemooi8919]

I feel Kareem on the last question that he really does regret what he did in the relationship and wants a second chance. However, I’m with Kourtney that there are scars that can never be completely healed. As much as Kareem acknowledges his mistakes, he cannot take them back and a seed has been sown. I hope both find peace and love after all of this.

[@virgosrus5733]

I've been where Kareem is but my name is Courtney (i have a softspot for us) and I've also been where he is. Second chances aren't always all they are cracked up to be. The fact that Courtney wants to remain friends is dope. So yea...real tears...not sure why you spelled our name wit a K tho but yea BYYYYEEEEEEEE ☺️

[@heyheyhey40]

I wouldn’t want to be with someone whom I have to financially provide for.

[@michaelafleming5084]

Kareem reminds me so much of my recent ex. It’s toxic. You can’t hurt someone and see that they’re finally happy and then out of the blue want them back again.

[@KareemJay]

i pray for your healing however it wasnt a out of the blue situation, this spans from years mutually, there's so much unsaid and unknown and iam happy as well myself

[@mockidyy]

Kareem Jay go be with the broad you cheated with and leave Courtney alone.

[@KareemJay]

@@mockidyy smd

[@mockidyy]

Kareem Jay Me nor Courtney will be doing that. Thank you very much.

[@RubiscoTalks]

Its been 5 months...still getting back to normal...I was living a lie

[@TheExclusiveHousemother]

He looks at him with so much love

[@shirumberia5477]

Which one😋

[@TheExclusiveHousemother]

Kareem his eyes speak love and pain...

[@nathanmalik1697]

Who's he and who's him?

[@KareemJay]

@@TheExclusiveHousemother thank you.

[@uniqueLeo08]

I was searching for this comment. I see it too.

[@lisei.2983]

I love when people tryna work on their breakup. So healthy. Courage to you guys 💕

[@NyeziNkanyi]

Courtney is gorgeous 😌♥️ Cheating is not okay! It will literally mess up your partner in such a huge way. The scar created from cheating does heal but it doesn't fade. It is not okay!

[@soblessedsofree1148]

Nyezi Dlamini well said, I might have to use this. If I do #nyezidlamini

[@NyeziNkanyi]

@Joe Ann Save this for your kids🥳

[@chytrim901]

@Joe Ann You are the reason I read a few responses before chiming in. You quoted the best stuff that truly covers it all. All I can add is love yourself first (easier said then done)

[@Mili189]

That was one of the most interesting and deepest yall did - their vibe and body languages spoke a lot more than word.

[@cadetcouturetv]

Mili189 agreeeee

[@nickc3657]

This is what a tragedy is. Totally avoidable, harming everyone involved in it. I truly cannot imagine the pain in this video.

[@33ladyRAM]

Yes it is...there is still hurt on both sides. Really really sad...

[@nathanmalik1697]

Once I see two men on a Skin Deep thumbnail, I click so hard!

[@rh2378]

Same!

[@rbso6]

Me too!

[@virgosrus5733]

And with my name! I stopped everything for it

[@dpcisunbreakable]

This was a beautiful moment in time.

[@brycekahari1741]

Same!! It's always going to be good

[@Salocinist]

It's almost freaky how maturely and clearly these two talk about stuff, so real and sincere. Much respect for handling your feelings like that.

[@dontdomeboo81]

This Chanel with these dayum break ups literally be having me relating and weeping Everytime. Keep up the good work ! Trust I'm not a crier either

[@ckboy023]

Well I think it's easy to see Courtney still loves Kareem, but as someone who recently broke up a long term relationship due to truly amazingly assholish cheating, I think it's even healthier to not even have contact at all again; I understand because I love my ex deeply even though what he did was awful and has broken me in ways I didn't even know could be. No matter how nice the connection, no matter how good the friendship, no matter how amazing the attraction and chemistry is, I think it's overall just healthier for both not to have each other around; for me at least it has definitely helped me deal with my own self-worth problems exposed by the cheating and really looking to grow as my own person after being with a neurotic control freak for so many years. I wish you health for your relationship dudes.

[@michelea2326]

Agree... to a point. I've seen more than my share of couples survive a person stepping out of the relationship.

[@SayPennita]

I feel what you are saying. So many people make it seem as though to be mature and healthy you've gotta just figure out how to be good with people that hurt or betray you. How to be the bigger person, never say anything negative about anyone that hurt you... yawn! I agree 100% your health trumps seeming like a bigger person or being modern. I understand why some people choose to be in "complicated relationships " situationships, but to me that stuff feels so unhealthy and like a game.

[@danielpoleo11]

I also agree to a point. My partner and I have been together 6 years (and going) and we’ve cheated on each other hurt each other and we’ve grown to be more open and honest about all the shit we’ve dealt with. Also I learned to be harder and focus mainly on my happiness while still maintaining our love strong. Every couple and relationship is different from what I’ve seen.

[@yoursurgerysister]

Agreed. Stop doing your ex the favor of befriending them.

[@matthewjones5719]

Really appreciate the accountability in both guys, but especially Kareem, he knows he wronged him worse than he expected or anticipated and prioritises Courtney’s happiness now above anything else.

[@KareemJay]

that was also the problem ...thank you

[@BenjaminBanks615]

I never understood the let’s be friends after the break up scenario. I mean I get it but then I don’t because it seems selfish for a person to want be with me but not BE with me thru thick and thin but still enjoy th comforts of my love. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@TomRenti]

It doesn't necessarily have to be that way. After some time of healing the break up, you can go back to being friends where you enjoy the comforts of their affection AND you're there for the hard parts. Because if you put it that way, all your friends are there only to enjoy the comfort and never through the dirt, which I'm sure you don't think so

[@Wezzie0]

I also don't understand why people need to be friends after a romantic relationship. It's like you still want some company benefits after you have been fired or company has collapsed. Its like not wanting emotional attachments to be severed abruptly and prefer the comfort of a slow death. At se point someone will figure out the friendship is not just not enough.

[@shakawalker5184]

Yup

[@yoursurgerysister]

True. But they always want you back and it’s kind of gratifying rubbing your new found happiness in their face

[@BenjaminBanks615]

@@Wezzie0 I year later and I completely agree

[@leodelrio3458]

This is why it's so important to create a safe space within the relationship to talk about anything that's on your mind, tell each other exactly how you feel, knowing that your partner is listening the same way he/she would like to be heard, cause if you can't talk to your partner as honestly and explicitly as you can, then you're both setting up the relationship to fail in the most basic level. The sooner you establish these dynamics, the better. That being said, I don't think cheating once is the ultimate treason, bad enough to break a great relationship up. But some of y'all aren't ready to have this conversation yet so don't @me.

[@boomboom6577]

Leo Del Río I agree. Cheating is bad, but one can be completely faithful and do bad things. I’ve been cheated on before-that was bad but we patched it up and lasted for a long time afterward. I’ve been in relationships where my partner was faithful, and he still did other things that hurt be irreparably. I think it’s good to have a broad view of the ways you can hurt in relationships, and cheating is not the only or even primary way.

[@christopherrobinson4279]

And they still cheat 😂😂

[@boomboom6577]

Christopher Robinson and that, lol.

[@leodelrio3458]

@@boomboom6577 Exactly! To me it's even more devastating not being able to be yourself 100% around your partner, because unfortunately, often times we assimilate being compliant with being loving/understanding. Although, compromising is inevitable when you're trying to build any type of meaningful bond with another human being, you should never disregard what YOU want, YOUR aspirations, the things that are important to YOU and give YOU pleasure in life, just because your boyfriend/girlfriend is upset. The ultimate betrayal is neglecting yourself and allow your partner to feed from your lack of self-esteem, you'll only have yourself to blame. Being "ride or die" is sometimes setting boundaries so this ship don't sink the fuck to the ground in the long run lol

[@TheeHeadTurnerTV]

@you I hear what you’re saying. My problem is when you create the safe space, you have open, unbiased, calm, cool, collected dialogue. You share, they share. Then they cheat.. you say “hey this ain’t a deal breaker, let’s work this out” they do it again? Maybe somebody just are shitty & it has none to do with anything except the fact they want to do what tf they want to. Or maybe I’m just jaded 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@keisimusic]

Why do people cheat ? I honestly can’t wrap my head around it, there’s no plausible excuse for it. It feels horrible.

[@Tullece]

Probably for a variety of reasons, give in to their sexual desires, feel trapped in the relationship, stop feeling love towards their partner, aren't really suited to monogamy.

[@grujose551]

My ex cheated on me because i wont do some things in bed with him. Ironically he's the one who told me that those things doesn't really matter and he didn't care much even if i wont do it with him. Clear it does matter and i wish he told me the truth instead.

[@toyaJM]

As someone who has cheated,in the past,it filled a need that wasn't met and also signified to me that my relationship was over, but it happens for a variety of reasons.

[@krissydrake3528]

There are a plethora of reasons. It’s really not black and white. I read a sex therapists book about her clients and it helped me see that.

[@darceyeagle]

Cheating is just a symptom of unaddressed problems in a relationship or within oneself so it could be for many reasons. You would hope people could talk before it happens but not everyone is that in tune with what they’re feeling or is in a relationship with a healthy form of communication

[@MrPlayInFace]

You never know what you have until it’s gone. I’ve been in this situation and I’m still living in it. Different reasons for the breakup but I always til this day of what could have been..... This hit home to the core.

[@alexxolo]

They look like some people I've seen. Which is so so important in the making of these videos

[@Ilovetheword921]

Without skin deep we wouldn't have a inside look on relationships, I 💖💖💖it

[@christinasanders7130]

I’ve cheated before and it took a long time to forgive myself for hurting someone to that degree. People cheat because they want to there isn’t anything that can’t be talked about or as simple as walking away.

[@virgosrus5733]

Accountability is a beautiful thing

[@christinasanders7130]

Virgos R Us it is 😌

[@christinasanders7130]

Johari Larosa and of course there’s always that one hating ass bitch that isn’t reading between the lines 😂 it’s called owing up to your mistakes and realizing you could’ve done better. Like how you could’ve picked a better profile picture 🤣

[@freddyjafar1490]

Wow. So, it was a choice you made. But why?

[@christinasanders7130]

@@freddyjafar1490 because I simply wanted to...

[@ohpleeaaase]

“Do I go back again?” 👀 I wish you complete healing.

[@paulamarii1899]

To every heartbroken person, I hope that you may one day find peace and heal.

[@Ilovetheword921]

The tears, the questions, the people 💖💖💖

[@abigailr.7487]

black love 😭 favorite content

[@yoursurgerysister]

This was black cheating lol.

[@cic7594]

yall are on to something! this was too close to home!

[@patricewoodbine7013]

Watching things like this make me so much better about me being the way I am. I feel I am incapable of loving someone they way I want to be loved and I’m often scared to give my complete 100% of love to someone because I often EXPECT for them to mess it up at some point. That way for me when they do I can detach myself from them because I KNEW the worst would happen.

[@poplife123]

It's the broken dreams that's so sad .....we've all been there .....

[@CeCeMe1]

Both are so handsome. Listen guys, both, protect your peace. Walk away, this was a lesson.

[@tremorman4412]

CeCe Moore walking away is not always the awnser

[@quashe2752]

This was raw and beautiful! Thank you skin deep

[@suzystone244]

Hi guys. Thank you for this upload. It is very important to talk through a breakup. Being friends is a healthy way to move forward. Stay positive the both of you❤

[@letrice2892]

Courtney is over it honestly u can tell he was hurt but has healed and moved on he wants to remain civil but i dont think he will get the friendship aspect from this bcuz kareem seems as if he wants to reconcile and thats going to cause a problem especially when courtney isnt interested so friends for these two are a major no no just wish each other well and move on with their lives individually

[@happinesssamuel5643]

That feeling when you love someone so much but you know love is not enough....

[@virgosrus5733]

When I see fellow courtney's my heart always melts.

[@stevenm5193]

I can see the heartbreak in Courtney’s demeanor.He truly feels betrayed that not only his boyfriend would betray his trust but also his friend.I know that too well😪

[@Nickster7]

Mr Debonair yeah, it is truly painful.

[@janairemiller5634]

Wow, the emotions of these two! Kareem is still so in love with Courtney, he can't see anything or anyone BUT Courtney! How he could jeopardize that love by cheating is beyond me but he's now living with those consequences. Courtney is completely over the situation, his body language says it. Him wanting to keep Kareem as strictly a friend will never work. I've tried it. The only difference is that there was no cheating done, only he wasn't ready for a real woman and what comes with that. I said all that to say that people are like a tree. The true blue are your roots and branches, the leaves stay for a few seasons and the fruits or flowers here for s season.

[@jenjen12345653]

Janaire Miller see that ready for a real woman! I relate so much. That’s what’s going on with my situation!

[@jethrobodineus]

Lesson learned: value something because nothing lasts forever! 😢

[@jojoradford3203]

Honesty real conversations to each other is the most important thing for a long term committed relationships will last forever

[@barrycahope9460]

I felt it 💔 😭 a person who knows your weakness is love for them they keep breaking you they keep hurting and cheating knowing we would forgive them million times 😭 Please don't take love for granted one day they will lose interest in you cause we can't bear the pain 😭 anymore ... My love will slowly fade but you feeling nothing for me when I was ready to die for you will( this feeling of regret/or the nothing feeling you had for me will last forever) I know you're watching this ... Dedicated 🙃

[@joejohnson1361]

This was pretty interesting. It’s about time a conversation is had that sparks a part of self that tells a story of growth. It’s powerful. It’s like a pathway or a journey of who and what I am from where I’ve come. Amazing!

[@vincelenalexander7732]

For a minute when Kareem teared up...the LOVE for Courtney feels came through!! I think Kareem could win him back...it's gonna take a lot of work!!! If these two could clean the slate and start over...I feel they'd have a great relationship. It's some love still there between them! Wow...a follow-up would he nice!

[@theserenedreamfactory3551]

Wow that made me cry. Give it another shot guys. You both truly love each other. The eyes never lie

[@Queer_Black_Blessed]

Kareem was hurt that Courtney didn't wanna date him again.

[@MegaDanceaholic]

you coud see it when his face dropped you could see the sadness

[@KareemJay]

Lol

[@ghettofab511]

Self respect and clarity Courtney found by learning that he’s worth more than Kareem (regardless of how strong their connection) will be with him much longer than any man

[@briafx]

You guys made a beautiful couple and I honestly believe Kareem deserves another chance because clearly you both still love each other!!!

[@Second_Son1990]

Awwww. So much love to them both. The healing and courage is breathtaking

[@heyheyhey40]

When he said that he wasn’t bringing anything financial to the relationship, I knew then that is why the other guy cheated. It doesn’t seem like they realize that. There is soooo much resentment and pain involved when a grown man isn’t contributing to the finances.

[@jbyrd9118]

That question about, “would you date me again?” It takes so much to be at that point where you feel the chapter is closed and to say that to your ex. I still haven’t talked to my ex in person since I ended things. The way Kareem answered made me choke up. Everything I ever said to my ex was via text when ending things, but once upon a time I cherished him.

[@samjackson7341]

Jessica Claire you dumped him over text? Ouch

[@xptoo]

I would never keep a cheatter ex as a friend of mine. Just: bye bye.

[@hanberrya]

I would think a relationship stems from a friendship not from sex if they are good friends but a bad life partners then just stay as friends.

[@xptoo]

@@hanberrya GOOD friends don't betray each other.

[@Some_No_Mai]

xpto What are you 6? Humans aren't these one dimensional things.

[@WhoDykeJones]

Jeremey B. Boy shut up. "Friends" don't INTENTIONALLY try to hurt you. Cheating isn't some accidental mistake, it's betrayal. People like you love normalizing shit behaviors and masking them as "people aren't one dimensional!!!! they make mistakes!!!" like, no.

[@specimen3338]

@@hanberrya I agree. Fuck off piece of shit.

[@keithforestt]

Yikes, his eyes dimmed so sharply when he said he wouldn't try with him

[@Queer_Black_Blessed]

Mhmm

[@angiebee5948]

You both truly love each other....Relationships are not perfect but if you can remain friends then you can work out all the rest..Don't listen to outside forces because they will never understand your situation...If you both want to go back then make it right❤

[@KareemJay]

thank you theres so much ppl dont know.

[@angiebee5948]

@@KareemJay Trust me I do understand......Love Respect to you both

[@DRwoy]

Kourtney can’t look in Kareem’s eye for up to 3 seconds.. he regrets it🥺🥺

[@indigo6485]

Yes i need more LGBT men based videos in my feed

[@rspen2142]

In no way does anyone deserve to have their expectations in another that they commit to brought down. However, in life we've got to always keep in the back of our minds that it will be a possibility; not always a reality, but a possibility that people will inevitably fail us. I always tell myself to save enough of myself for myself and place more faith in myself not to fail the most important person to me, which is MYSELF! Because, when everyone else fails me; whether intentionally or unintentionally, it is I that must again turn to that little bit of reserve that I saved for MYSELF! I hope that these brothers can move on as friends and that this video will be the last time that they dwell on past mistakes in order to find what truly makes them whole.

[@brujalinda]

Omg he just triggered my last breakup when he asked “ what did our breakup feel like” 😔😢

[@mysterygurrl301088]

Classic case of not knowing what you had until it's gone. Hopefully if he is ever lucky enough to find this again he will know to cherish it.

[@shakawalker5184]

Yes it's hard. I want love again. But I feel bad for me I cheated I guess because I cheated on him with a bottom and I was a bottom in the relationship. Something about him topping me mad me jealous. My truth.

[@mysterygurrl301088]

@@shakawalker5184 What i would recommend is giving it time. I know it's cliche, but yes time really does heal. What happened, happened and there's no changing no matter how badly you may want to. You have to just try and learn.

[@shakawalker5184]

@@mysterygurrl301088 okay

[@oliveblair9476]

@@mysterygurrl301088 Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back permanently

[@oliveblair9476]

@@mysterygurrl301088 Whstapp him

[@eriqglyptis8816]

Two incredible men. Keep growing.

[@DonKe32]

These videos be making me sad as hell but I keep watching em 😭

[@teathepot525]

Classic empathic and Narcissist co-dependent relationship. Its So bitter sweet.

[@benz2010e320]

I think deep down the love is still there, you can see it in there eyes, especially Kareem. But, for Courtney the trust was destroyed to the point that he can’t allow himself to risk being hurt that deeply again..

[@phoebericker2280]

their intimacy & honesty.... wow 🙂💛

[@kellymichelsen2003]

Thank you for sharing; so sad, lovely and beautiful.

[@TimmellDontrell87]

I went through a recent breakup in Sept 2019. Would have been 5 years this past January 2020. I thought everything was going well and was open to a poly then turned open relationship. This was something he wanted and I want make him happy but, I got the short stick... left me for someone I knew... whew ok. That’s all..

[@truckingwithcorageearchive6675]

Timothy Daniels damn! I’m sorry 🥺

[@LindaTinahTV]

It's the closure the guy with the dreads has for me. He seems at peace with himself about how things went. Not many people find that.

[@Nicorwallace]

See, this is the price of cheating. It’s a valuable lesson to us all. You gotta know for sure if being in a one on one committed relationship is for you.

[@Biscuitplease]

I think people hold on to the wrong things for too long. I feel like the friendship is a guide for opening up the past. There should be boundaries but when both people are hurting you become blind to the truth. If you love someone despite their faults you must reconcile with your truth. It was so brave for him to say you were the one.

[@shakawalker5184]

I feel bad for me I cheated I guess because I cheated on him with a bottom and I was a bottom in the relationship. Something about him topping me mad me jealous. My truth.

[@freddyjafar1490]

@@shakawalker5184 really?

[@shakawalker9921]

​@@freddyjafar1490 yeah like I topped my ex once when I was the bottom in my relationship and then he didn't want too go back to doing it again but I don't know if that makes me verse or not.

[@ChicagoDaisyFlower]

It's interesting to see a normal conversation between two people who used to love each other. But one thing that I always asked myself is, why are people cheating? I'm 32 years old and I have never ever cheated someone, never. If I would feel that the relationships isn't working, I would sit down with the person and say "I'm sorry but I just don't feel a connection anymore, something happened that changed my mind, am just not feeling happy, how can we change it, what should we do?". But to just turn around, cheat and be with someone else while you are already in a relationship? I don't know, I really could never do that to someone because I know how it feels.

[@oliveblair9476]

Hello Mr osekhametalor He can recover your relationship back permanently

[@oliveblair9476]

Whstapp him

[@oliveblair9476]

[phone]

[@Nordic_E.T.]

Damn I understand this on such a deep level.

[@ariellegreen6052]

Why did you cheat on him in the first place if you are going to want him back? That doesn't make sense at all.

[@KareemJay]

i will make a video response in the regard.

[@christopherrobinson4279]

@@KareemJay the people want a response

[@Nickster7]

lol, still waiting....

[@Nickster7]

One can see Courtney was really hurt by Kareem and has put in the work to get to a better place and doesn’t wanna mess it up. Kareem’s crying though, it is too late, he’s left someone with eternal scars. Cheating is the most selfish thing ever, especially if you have someone who care so deeply the way Courtney appears to have loved Kareem. Those crocodile tears mean nothing now.

[@pierrebutler7224]

Awww I'm over here in a whole tear... so much to say and no words....

[@memeb8337]

To all of my gay men, I love you so much!💛💙❤💜💚 You all go through so much!

[@KareemJay]

we love u too

[@shakawalker5184]

Thank you

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Yeah once you gain clarity, get pass your own disillusion you get pass the situation. Then there’s no going bk

[@tremorman4412]

Lisa Quaye depending on the situation

[@AnthonyMooreGodsChild]

This was a good one.

[@Rodtel408]

Minus all the “likes” it was a really deep and heartfelt conversation.

[@Iconickhalif]

Beautiful video! ❤️

[@mateobanda6808]

They Both Look Like People I Have Met Before.

[@shakawalker5184]

Yup

[@garbles1970]

Relationships (gay or straight) are about emotions, connection, and vulnerability....sex is 10% that's enhanced if the the previous things are in order

[@ericad.3263]

God , I haven't been through a breakup in over a decade. I don't wish that void on anyone. I wish my ex was mature enough for him & I to have a 1 on 1 , because I learned a lot from it.

[@doelala6679]

Do I go back AGAIN? That hit close to home

[@shakawalker5184]

I feel bad for me I cheated I guess because I cheated on him with a bottom and I was a bottom in the relationship. Something about him topping me mad me jealous. My truth.

[@johnnysmith9205]

getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I got my ex back with the help of Mr osekhametalor

[@johnnysmith9205]

Whstapp him

[@johnnysmith9205]

[phone]

[@MM-tx7gi]

Wow that was amazing. So honest!

[@FeedMeJuice]

At 2:25 he’s not even crying and I’m crying 😭😭😭 why tf am I like this?! Idk these ppl!

[@impishishere]

I don't get it. They were dating for 6 years or they broke up 6 years ago? I've seen it on the other breakup videos and have been deeply confused by the wording. @TheSkinDeep which one is it?

[@vonmorris5948]

I’m going to assume that in this case they dated for 6 years. I say this because they stated that they were cohabitating and had a daily living routine. That would only really happen after a long term relationship. Also, Kareem said that he had to start over and basically he accustomed to being alone after so long. Lastly, they are working through their breakup like its still fresh (no more that 2 years).

[@pm4594]

How long they've known each other. SInce they first met till this session.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Hi thanks for commenting, 6 years represent the amount of time the participants have known each other for, from their first meeting until the time the session was recorded. Since the status of relationships are always subject to change, the time period we put on our title cards indicates the duration of their time together (friends, dating, and exes), not just their time as exes.

[@MsBaldhead1]

The Skin Deep Thanks...I’ve always wondered.

[@rodo4360]

"I always wanted the frienship"

[@laroncorbins4084]

Idk if their are any other empaths in these comments, but I felt every emotion right along with them 😢

[@KareemJay]

yes

[@33ladyRAM]

Wow...this was beautiful and yet sad. I'm glad they are able to come back and be friends as sometimes some people literally burn their friendship to the ground and can't recover. Kudos to them 👏👏😗💜💜💜

[@Mona-mp1kn]

Where can I purchased these cards from

[@TheSkinDeep]

All our relationship decks are available in our online shop: www.theskindeep.com/shop 😊

[@toyaJM]

You won't regret purchasing..I bought the family, long term relationship, and dating cards for me and my husband and also our kids (we have a blended family) and they are great conversation starters.

[@A...LA...LA...A]

Rihanna said, "what's love without tragedy"

[@shakawalker5184]

Red lipstick

[@welikelethabo]

An unhealthy relationship

[@Ohkeh640]

@@welikelethabo agreed

[@iwasbeyonce]

Nowadays I'm kinda sick of TV dramas with gay relationships, but this series is REAL.

[@dpcisunbreakable]

Well now you know how gay people feel. Every fucking day of my life I am consumed with heteronormative propaganda, and I make this series a part of my media safe space. Maybe you should consider the space you're invade before parting your lips to complain or offer backhanded compliments.

[@shakawalker9921]

Damn 😊

[@elleguamuertelove1849]

Wow this was needed

[@andyd3447]

To me there is nothing a relationship cant overcome besides cheating. Obviously you can forgive someone but the trust is completely gone after that!

[@michaelafleming5084]

Andy D Cheating and abuse.

[@andyd3447]

@@michaelafleming5084 i already said cheating but I do think a relationship can survive abuse if the person gets help with their anger management and obviously it depends on how bad the abuse is.

[@Neenaross214]

What if the person admits to the cheating themselves and you don’t go find out from someone else ? I think trust can be restored that way

[@andyd3447]

@@Neenaross214 That depends on the person. If cheating is something that you consider an ultimate betrayal of trust then I don't think the relationship can be restored. If you just consider it a "mistake" then it can be restored. There really is no right answer.

[@T412-r2h]

That’s true for you but it may differ for others

[@TheeHeadTurnerTV]

I realize how immature I am watching this. All I could think about is if this was my ex & I, I would be yelling, and that I’d have producers & people behind the camera trying to peel me off of him while I’m tryna beat his ass. I couldn’t do this 😩

[@camronwu]

God bless both these beautiful souls.

[@deebo5475]

It's kind of hard to remain friends with someone who has cheated or hurt you so deeply. True friends don't do that and it'd be too hard for me to overlook that even though I do know that we all make mistakes but that's too big of mistake for me 💔

[@voiceofreason1613]

💯💯

[@thomasclarrett1918]

I AM BORN AGAIN NOW , BUT I SUFFER WITH POST BETRAYAL SYNDROME ,FROM A 30 YEAR OLD RELATIONSHIP .I THINK I NEED TO SEEK HELP

[@demre8490]

How people sit down and talk about issue like this with answer from the heart and not get back together right away...

[@rosenoir30]

I'm heartbroken 😢😢😢

[@anzathiba]

I just dont understand why you would cheat in the first place if you know it will destroy the other person..especially when they are your bestfriend. i wouldnt forgive you shem!