What happens when you GHOST a narcissist

[@vikkilawson27]

I ghosted my narc husband of 29 years with no contact since. He went to work, I packed what I needed, and he was served divorce papers that evening! 😊🤭 I am in a safe place that I was planned weeks in advance. The 1st time I will see him is next month in divore court. Pray 4 us guys!

[@alisachaise3]

Good for you girl! I. Your case you did the right thing and planned for a reason. Your narc is dangerous and you are aware❤ Prayers

[@alisachaise3]

I put in 22 years and did the same thing you did. You cannot tell them, he threaten my life when I tried to leave before when he knew. St safe and don’t tell them! If you’re strong enough to not tell them you’ve found indifference and you’re ready to go!!! 🎉you’ve validated yourself good for you you got this❤

[@HumanOobleck]

Prayers for you sister❤❤❤

[@staceystrukel1917]

Wow! Bravo. Are you nervous?

[@MentalHealness]

🙏

[@loulou9978]

You owe a narcissist the same consideration they gave you which is ZERO!!!

[@MentalHealness]

‼️

[@heavenlygrandma9992]

Exactly. Zero consideration and zero empathy.

[@NatzTalk]

So this💛

[@SpiritDwellSacred]

Ghosting the narcissist is the most effective way to end the drama. Truth is, this relationship isn’t going to work-end it. Letting go is the bravest, most powerful act you will ever take. Thank you for this space.

[@MentalHealness]

thanks for being here

[@lindseyjohnson3577]

I’m watching these to understand my ex, who I just ghosted, he’s definitely freaking out.. And HE DID insist I found SOMEONE ELSE AND I DID… That person IS ME❤🎉

[@MentalHealness]

🙏 stay strong

[@jayybaines3220]

I felt "That Person is me" part you go girl ❤️💯

[@lindseyjohnson3577]

@@jayybaines3220 girlll I was feeling so petty I wanted to say that to him!! I’m so proud I didn’t!!🥹🥰

[@cletiawilliams1436]

💯❤️

[@mysecret0406]

I hear you! Yes!!

[@Cynthia-ul4uh]

Every time you go back, things get worse. The best thing to do is stay gone forever. These people are monsters

[@erykahhoney588]

So true

[@mkb7013]

For the FIRST time in my life; I have been able to ghost a narcissist. It feels soooo fu(king good.

[@MentalHealness]

Stay strong

[@mkb7013]

@@MentalHealness thank you! 🙏🏻 I certainly am doing a good job of that. And thank you for sharing your insight. It’s very educating.

[@tmichele8922]

That part

[@jasminecampbell9105]

It does. So peaceful. 😊TGBTG

[@NatzTalk]

It really does.

[@venuspsychicmasseuse]

Cutting of their supply that they can't get ANYWHERE else like they've gotten from you. Disturbs them.

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@shwonbrooks3802]

I ghosted mine May of last year, blocked and deleted him. It has been one of the best decisions ever!! It has been sooooo peaceful.

[@JaLa248]

Oh how I know that feeling!! 😊

[@brucewaynebanner482]

Why would someone not block you tho? U blocked I understand to. Why would someone not block someone tho? I believe I’m a narcissist. I deserve her to leave. I hate myself but I deserve it. I lost it as he said in vid. Since she left. She hasn’t blocked. N kills me. I wish she block me.

[@michellebrown6580]

My ex narc, told me I would never find anyone like him.. I told him Thank You Jesus!!

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽🙌🏾

[@salomeclaire7663]

Ha, same exact words from my ex narc, and same reply from me.

[@XSummer388]

😂❤🙏

[@carolyncoppin8488]

My ex told me the same thing .

[@swapnilapraharaj3493]

Same old same old!!!

[@tarakonjolka5140]

People don’t realize how truly dangerous and deadly these toxic narcissistic people can be. I know from firsthand experience that when you hurt them, they will do anything to hurt you back for what you supposedly inflict on them.

[@MentalHealness]

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[@Elysion404]

The sickest part is, they will punish you for making them feel bad AND for making them feel good. Especially if they feel vulnerable too. My ex used to cling to me at night like a lost child and loved it when I ran my fingers through his hair and cuddled him because he said it made him feel safe. My guess is he never got the affection he needed from his mum as a child. But! He would punish me the morning after by turning his back to me, ignoring me, giving me the silent treatment, barely looking at me all day etc just because I made him feel vulnerable and in his twisted mind, that was just an evil scheme to get under his skin because that's how THEY think.

[@post_cancer_beautycandyjon1049]

Yes! I am so afraid to post ANYTHING about what ive been through because I am do afraid they're going to see it and "expose" me and ruin my life like he said he would. How do you take your power back when you still live under that fear? And yes, he thinks ibe found someone else Smh.

[@thnkspiritual2851]

Stop giving them so much power lol 😂 they will do the smart thing if they don’t want to go to prison. If you’re that scared of the narc leave evidence of him threatening you and saying who to question if u disappear

[@thnkspiritual2851]

You didn’t make him vulnerable. He felt vulnerable. There’s a difference

[@spiritualistdestiny76]

ALL threats being made NEED to be taken seriously...FRFR!!!

[@kiaalexander5191]

Ghosting my narcissistic Demonic Ex, saved my life. It was the best thing that I could've ever done.

[@MentalHealness]

Protect your peace

[@Cynthia-ul4uh]

Me too. The best thing that I ever did for myself

[@mylesheyward]

FACTS

[@crystalclimenhage7159]

@@MentalHealness lee...one of my ex popped uo in my life. He is saying he is earning large amounts of money i think he is lying

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

I'm dealing with a demon right now and I'm loosing unfortunately

[@MsAmazonAmazing]

I ghosted mine 1yr next month. He has reached out via social media, fake profiles, contacting friends and all. I went and applied for my license to carry. He chose the wrong one. Truly, The hell with him!! Always choose you

[@ajajames5368]

After he broke up with me a week later he came back wish me Happy Valentines... can we talk. I said no and take care of yourself and then blocked him.

[@basicinfo2022]

Mine was clever and lied to me that he was suddenly moving out of the country to get me to see him again....

[@debbysmith5346]

I think my narc has finally realized that this ride or die girl is GONE FOR GOOD

[@DNCT]

SAME

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽

[@almosthome5971]

They NEED their egos fractured...sometimes if a broken leg was never set, and the person can't walk right, the leg needs rebroke to be fixed. Baby steps....😁

[@MentalHealness]

😵‍💫😮

[@sarahcole7804]

This is a great analogy:)

[@jasminej5078]

My ex narcissist basically held me hostage in his house when I tried to break up with him like a mature adult. He would physically prevent me from leaving, threaten my life and his, hide my car keys, hold on to my car door handle when I’m trying to drive away, etc. I made a plan to escape quietly. I left and he began stalking me and took things so far that I had to get a restraining order against him. Just run, don’t negotiate with them. Stop listening to their lies and save yourself from a lifetime of chaos and misery.

[@MentalHealness]

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[@MelaninTeeTee]

Yess he held me in the bedroom a few times because I wanted to go with friends

[@ursulagates3106]

Me too🙋🏽

[@debbiegalica2992]

I'm ghosting the covert narcissist. There really isn't anything to say anymore.

[@MentalHealness]

🙏

[@gigicooper1759]

It is amazing the power and strength you gain when you go GHOST/NO CONTACT. Staying safe is priority #1, they will retaliate....my EX beat me, put me in the hospital, broke me body & soul. Watching Lee's videos helped me understand who he was and find power within...F the Narcissist! Trust your gut feeling and NEVER give them a second chance.

[@erykahhoney588]

They’ll never admit to cheating, lying etc. 🤭

[@robbiewooden5067]

100 % true.

[@robbiewooden5067]

Thank God my kids are grown and they know about everything.

[@loriann1283]

You get stalked relentlessly, sneak attacked, and assaulted. Severely. Sometimes even held against your will for days on end..Whats crazy is they never even wanted you, in the first place, but will torment you thinking you have someone else..When they do.

[@MentalHealness]

😞‼️

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

Yoooo I told mine u never loved me and I know u dnt like me for a fact.. at one point we were arguing and he tried to call me ugly lol I told him yes speak ur truth! U don't want me so stop pretending!

[@katiriasantos8001]

Them mofos are crazy af! On God, they are psychotic😂

[@alwaysrighton]

If only they put a fraction of the post breakup attempt into loving you or trying to meet a couple of needs they were in the business of disregarding… How lovely life would be! 😄

[@deec1601]

So funny Lee .. you do make me laugh 🤣I ghosted a narc friend, he would often use the silent treatment when we had a disagreement, and the last time I just disappeared. This was three months ago now. He attempted to contact me from fake profiles, withheld phone numbers, he was relentless. I felt guilty at first but several months on, I realise now I dodged a bullet! 😊

[@MentalHealness]

Wow.

[@deec1601]

@@MentalHealness Your podcast and your sense of humour have helped immensely so thank you and Happy New Year to you and your family (from the UK)

[@615drop]

Facts

[@karinam4115]

Gods protection over all of us! Psalm 91 out loud , talk to God ! God bless everyone! 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@tammykinstrue9849]

The comedic impressions are hilarious! 'I know I lied, cheated, and stole from them, but they just gave up on our relationship ...' 😂😂😂

[@MentalHealness]

😂

[@-blahblahblah]

Thank you for being responsible by warning of the physical danger of leaving.

[@shadora123]

“They gonna make you swallow an Airtag.” 😂😂😂 I can’t 😂😂😂

[@MentalHealness]

😂😂😮‍💨

[@jsav9979]

@@shadora123 I knowwwww😂😂😂😂😂 hilarious

[@zachphillips3681]

You are so hilarious and you help bring a smile to my face I haven’t laughed this hard in a long time. Thank you Lee

[@MentalHealness]

You’re welcome. ☺️

[@izzypaynee]

lmfaooo

[@nmd33]

Really needed this video! I (accidentally) ghosted a narc this year. I thought i got discarded after noticing some red flags, but it was just a silent treatment for 2 weeks. The scary stuff is that he kept hoovering for longer than we dated! He was so consistent in trying to reach out despite no reaction, that i started to wonder if i am not horrible for ignoring all attempts. So thank you! God be with you

[@Nina2598-k5x]

He probably was trying to come back to hurt u 😢they're evil

[@nmd33]

​​@@Nina2598-k5xyep, some are truly evil soulless beings. Usually the longer the hoover, the bigger the danger. Stay strong and safe 🙏

[@MentalHealness]

You’re welcome. Please stay safe

[@stronggirlNhorie]

How many days to be totally ok after the no contact?😢😢😢

[@nmd33]

​@@MentalHealnessthank you really! Keep up the great work, best wishes

[@_ChasingDestinee]

Ayooooo… I know this is serious, but you funny AF! 😂😂😂 “Blowing his last bubbles in the ocean” lmaoooo

[@MentalHealness]

😂😂😂😂

[@AnnieRiv-nn7ym]

You bring comedic relief to a toxic situation… thank you!! 😂

[@MentalHealness]

😂

[@larryivey8118]

Stay strapped or get clapped is my motto

[@tacheleharris7406]

Lee you’re absolutely right! Sadly, I kept going back playing into his games! He ended up attacking me in my after my mouth surgery! Then shot at me in my car 6x when I tried to drive off in 2022! He passed after pledging guilty to an F2 felonious assault! Had his funeral the day before sentencing. I been single and minding my business since…I’m still shocked I survived it with a small graze 🙏🏾

[@emc8020]

Count yourself lucky, babes. If it wasn't him, it was supposed to be you. Thank God you're okay. I got chills reading your story. Stay safe 💜

[@retroplank]

Your comment could save a whole lot of people including myself. It's SO easy to keep going back. So sorry for what you went through!!

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

He just randomly passed away?

[@tacheleharris7406]

@@bodakdacreatormusiq2024 yes, they said a seizure.

[@Soadmm86]

Yeah man… she tried to be friends and I tried it but I started catching on to her being a bad person so I told her I don’t think I could do it anymore. Tried to set some boundaries to our friendship and she didn’t like that. Tried to say it was my fault we kept going back and forth so I called her out on the whole timeline of how she acted. I got radio silence which I figured would happen. So I left her alone. A couple months later when I started dating someone else I got a random “hey how are you doing text?” From her. I ignored it for most of the day and she text me later in the evening “nevermind “ so I just gave her a thumbs up and told her how my life was getting better without her and I was gonna block her now 🙏… right after I hit send I blocked her everywhere and it felt great. Stay strong folks

[@dm-sikkunt1561]

Its useless to spit the truth about the narc behaviour, they are not able to see the whole situation from another point of view. Happy your life got better since you left her, im sure that sooner or later everyone of us will be great

[@MsSpatchzrus]

Wish we could block irl permanently

[@Byebandit50]

I’m a woman and I find narc women to be the most dangerous Plus you were upfront and mature so that probably made her more angry

[@Livinglife704]

Thank you for what you're doing. The things I didn't see in the past 5 years have started making sense.

[@MentalHealness]

You got it

[@staceystrukel1917]

It’s crazy when the fogs starts to clear. You think, damn! How did I miss that?! When you put all the pieces together you finally see the full NPD picture.

[@pameliahooks2741]

Lmao 😂😂😂 creek bubbles lee you makes me laugh 😂

[@glendaanderson1119]

Nailed it! on not giving out your address or even slipping on posting anything with your address! I took him seriously when I discovered he slashed my luggage. Exactly BE SAFE!

[@MentalHealness]

Have to be safe

[@SpecialAgent-zn1vv]

Thank You Lee. Ugly Truth. One that is suicidal is also homicidal.

[@dorothyroby1833]

I ghosted and blocked that 19 yr relationship and I feel so much peace of mind, I still think about him and be glad when he fade out my memory. I will not go back anymore, I think about all the hurt break he brought to my life and I know my self worth. Thanks 🙏🏽 Lee for all u do, God please 🙏🏽 keep blessing us to continue to help us…

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

[@littleangel18]

I ghosted my ex best friend narcissistic w psychopathic tendencies and she is still hovering and online stalking after 11 years later. I am so glad I cut her off and no contact is the best way to move forward.

[@karrisaleonard993]

I needed this validation today. I've been asking myself if it's me, if I'm the narcissist for just up and leaving.

[@yhwhtlc9217]

I had 2 Narc early in my life. 1 was my sister, who I disowned when I was 45...I went no contact/ghost, she tried to get back with me for 2 years, it stopped when I sent her a cease and desist letter..... The other was an ex narc...he dumped me over the phone, I called his mother, she told me stuff I never knew about him but at least she heard my side....I immediately went no contact/ghost....he then stalked me for the next 3 years, it only stopped when I caught him...

[@jennatracy8025]

I did it to protect myself even it was hard for me, but I keep reminding myself that he only loves me if I keep giving him supply.

[@MentalHealness]

Be safe

[@jennatracy8025]

@@MentalHealness I'll be safe and I'll be careful.

[@aimenhoodle666]

Agreed! If I had ghosted my abuser instead of trying to handle navigating breaking up like an adult, I wouldn’t have been strangled or beaten in a public parking lot. The public isn’t even safe. Nobody will call for help. Protect yourself… they can and will hurt/kill you.

[@MentalHealness]

😮💯

[@Aromaofchrist]

🙏🙏🙏 glad your ok!!

[@lynetteewell2410]

Oh my God!

[@AnointedbyGod5678]

LEE!!!! Thank you for EVERYTHING you do! You’re helping us EVERY SINGLE DAY!

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@SN-bl6xm]

My narcissistic family members stole my part of the inheritance I got from my dad. They thought I would be okay with it. But I was not and I’m fighting to get that money they stole from me. So they ghosted me and kicked me out of the family. I am convinced they thought that that would make me say, okay just keep my part of the inheritance if you please let me be a part of the family again. But I didn’t do that. I am done with them and now I am ghosting them since several years. They are so mad with me, that they are really trying to ruin my life completely with smear campaigns and threatening me. It’s a huge mess!

[@MentalHealness]

😞😞😞

[@Lizzzzet11]

YOU ARE SOOOOOO ON POINT THOUGH!! They do not change. 🚮

[@MentalHealness]

appreciate it

[@sedingburg]

I was with a guy for 3 years I thought he was my potential husband. He told me he had a baby girl on the way but he had no contact with the mom. Soon as the baby was born and got back in contact with the mother he changed. I had no problem with him being in his daughter life but one day I looked in his phone I seen him texting her asking her can he perform oral sex on her but she never responded. So when I confronted him about it he telling me I didn’t see the message she sent him so I told him I didn’t care what she sent you supposed to be with me why would you ask her that? Fast forward she was buying him clothes he would start arguments with me and go over there but come back they had a fight he was driving her car to work and tried to convince me she wanted him back she’s making trouble to break us up. He got her pregnant again then after their son was born he married her and didn’t tell me I found out by finding the marriage certificate bottom line he made me believe it was me being insecure he was abusive in ever form. But the Baby mama got the worst of it. So I got tired and I officially broke up with him and from that moment I felt free. Be careful of the Narcissist they will take you to HELL. This man is right Ghost them.

[@jl9769]

Perfect episode for my situation. Keeping boundaries of no contact. They use the term “ghosting” to make you feel guilty for keeping your boundaries. Especially if you explained why your boundaries and what. I made that mistake of explaining why. They just bang on the front door of my house now. 4 or 5 times a day. Thank goodness for my Ring doorbell! If you have a trusted person on your video bell you can share with, share. The more people who know you trust the better. When a toe crosses the boundary line, I’m done , no contact. I’ve had to file a restraining order before- don’t be afraid to do that either! I took her statement “ the police won’t get here fast enough,” last year as a threat and I am never alone with her. If she tries to get me to answer the front door, I don’t. Oh and a few weeks ago , “ I’m going through my stuff before my kids get a dumpster to throw it out after I die. “ Thats when I blocked her for good. This is my MIL. Her son refuses contact with her as well. Like I was gonna cry to him about what she said. 😂 She is awesome at guilt trips. Thanks again Lee.

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome. stay safe and protect your peace

[@robinchilds7492]

I ghosted him after he came back from Florida because I found out he took another woman with him.

[@lyndamorrissey2492]

My ex narc left me 2 years ago, it was so hard but a blessing, he kept texting me, and when I said I was seeing someone, he got nasty and said I was his and had no PERMISSION to do anything..how dare I , after everything he did, he messaged me last month, I ignored..hope that's the end of it...thank you for your videos...much appreciated,❤

[@PriscillaD-ie2jq]

You helped me so much when you said, "they perceive your depth's of empathy/compassion -- and they weaponize it for their own best use of you (manipulation)". You are thinking, pour understanding, your love and compassion on them will help heal that damaged, traumatized child within them. They are seeing a sucker to use. If both the narcissist and love interest seek self awareness counseling with sincerity, like Lee did with his wife -- then together a life as a couple can be hammered out seems to me. If you have a malignant narcissist who thinks he is the hottest thing since matches were invented.... RUN, get away as fast as you can and do not look back. Then stay away. Thanks Lee for the teaching. I will chuckle all day ove the robootic thing chasing the car, staring ahead not blinking with words coming out but not heartfelt/connecting. LOL. When you play both sides of a narcissistic couple.... what a hoot. I laugh and it is so refreshing to see how silly we are involved knee deep in bullshit as a victim.

[@deborahanderson4211]

And I love it Lee! I want his azz to think that I have someone else.

[@MentalHealness]

protect your peace

[@kebbasda]

He said your favorite Narc! The only Narc around is you, Lee! I thank you, for the laughs and the uplifting words too as they often carry me through my day!!!!! 😉

[@mitch201211]

Honestly I believe anyone who has kids with a narcissistic person, the best thing thing would be get out with the kids , an have no contact, even if that means the kids no longer see the narcissist

[@faithabovefear1172]

Thank u, I've been going back & forth with this & its confirmation for me.

[@bonetajohnson6897]

I wish, he will take me to court because they rather have control than to be known as a deadbeat dad

[@faithabovefear1172]

@bonetajohnson6897 soooo true, I did 100% of the parenting but as soon as I broke up with him now he wants to see his son & even threatened to remove him from me. God didn't give us the spirit of fear so I'll let the threats fall to the ground!!

[@bonetajohnson6897]

@@faithabovefear1172 I just had to block mine because he woke up and decided that I was a terrible human being

[@crazyfunnyusavideos88]

My husband took my son from me on January 2 and never came back. I do not have this disorder. My heart is broken. He won't talk to me or let me talk to my three year old. He does this to me a lot. I stay at home and wait to see my son. I miss him. I hope I get to see my son again soon. I would never keep my son from his father even though he is doing this to me. I feel sorry for my son. I know he misses me too. It is now Jan 13. I hope I see my son soon. I love you Mason ❤❤

[@knoxx1111]

Thank you so much for all these videos. I'm so happy I found your channel. ❤ It is helping me to stay strong and not talk to my abusive narcissistic ex. You are so funny. Love your impressions of the narcs. 😂

[@aprilpatten6047]

You have helped me survive my last abusive relationship. I was able to see and understand what she was doing and able to get out. Thank you.

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@meganbrain8870]

Lee thank you so much for your videos you've helped me so much it's unbelievable that I have come so far and don't feel completely broken anymore its a good feeling to not be totally hooked and sucked in the "hoover," black hole

[@MentalHealness]

Stay strong on your journey

[@brendaperson3890]

HAPPY NEW YEAR, GHOSTING IS VERY NECESSARY PROTECT YOUR ENERGY.

[@MentalHealness]

Happy New Year

[@headrickwife]

I left my husband back in July and he’s still having these “manic” episodes, not sleeping, and trying to sabotage my living conditions and how everyone supporting me thinks of me. It’s extremely exhausting.

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

Man me too calling all my family and friends saying the worst things u can ever imagine

[@cassandramesser4922]

I called him out on a lie…he threatened the relationship but said he would talk to me later. Texting. I texted a couple times. For clarity. Nothing. He has one of my blankets and my fenty body scrub. I asked if he could bring my stuff with work with him next time he worked. He said “yeah” He works at a gas station 4 blocks away from me…he worked all that weekend. I heard nothing. By Sunday I just started looking little things up, and ran into your videos, and lots of articles online. And I just lost it. I kept seeing “GO NO CONTACT.” And I’m like…this POS thinks he can just leave me hanging?? Nah. Blocked and ghosted on everything. Haven’t heard from him. But I think calling him out caused a “narcissistic injury” and he was embarrassed 😂 felt SO good to win in the end! ❤❤❤

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽♥️♥️

[@cassandramesser4922]

@@MentalHealness It’s been three weeks, I’m staying strong! That man was the devil, I swear.

[@krystalcandy69]

I think when you call them out they call us crazy and play victim just fuels them more. We can't will the only way is silence we are more mature then they are.

[@lynetteewell2410]

Thank you Lee for sharing your insights to help us maneuver from the tragedy of being with a narcissist!

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@likitadevi]

I cut them off, they started a horrible smear campaign. It's been a year and the smear campaign is still going on.

[@MentalHealness]

😫

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

Omg I'm going through that now Idk what to do I'm already in a dv shelter

[@Mermaidlife97]

😂 The impression of “plz just let me know you’re ok” ON POINT!!🎯

[@heavenlygrandma9992]

I ghosted his sorry covert self in March of this year. I packed and saved money covertly for 3 years. He went camping one weekend and when he got home, I was GONE. I had a very dear friend that I was trying to talk into leaving her husband and she was going to give it six more months. The last time I talked to her, I asked her if she thought her husband would hurt her and she laughed and said he would never hurt her. The next day she was dead. He shot and killed her in her sleep and then killed himself. Oh, how I wish I had pushed a little harder, but I was afraid I'd push too hard. She was the sweetest person in the world and a hypnotherapist and now she is gone.

[@MelanatednNature]

😢

[@nicholecornes1915]

His covert self lmao 😂😂😂

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

Wow

[@vic008]

thanks for sharing, sorry for what happened to ur fd...

[@heavenlygrandma9992]

@@vic008 Thank you. She was the sweetest, most kind person I think I've ever known.

[@jamnoise72]

I'm binge watching your videos. I came for the info but I'm coming back for the humour now! You are fkn hilarious 😂❤

[@cobeany]

Your accuracy is amazing 😮

[@MentalHealness]

Appreciate it

[@tawnyasterling5875]

Yep yep. I ghosted that pathetic sorry dark cruel specimen for ME! I Tried many times, foolish me. I'm DONE DONE. I HAD TO RUN, TO SAVE ME! Hallelujah! I will never lose myself again, to be subjected to cruelty and more! I remember his brother telling me many decades ago, "Never let anyone break your spirit!" The narcissist told me, "My brother/family would never say that about me!" Ha, He did😂 Another fact Narcissist refused to believe. Thank you for your channel. I loved watching Casper the Ghost and I have no qualms about ghosting him. I had to unclamp that situationship!🎉❤

[@unomeecj]

Spot on every time I want to make my own decision. Go visit a friend and tell him hes not my father. He's my husband he Always says there's somebody. Else? I know it? I said maybe you reflecting on something you're doing

[@NBA.Ka5hMeRe]

I enjoy watching you. Being a survivor, watching your videos, the topics are so serious & so real but your delivery always keeps me laughing uncontrollably. I guess it's a combination of your sense of humor & being able to laugh at the pain I've endured from the familiarity of the topics.

[@lauratoto9973]

“Swallow an air tag” 😂😂 This is so spot on and I love your delivery!

[@MentalHealness]

Glad you enjoyed!

[@BaileyMyLife-203]

​@@MentalHealness I am very interested in your 1 on 1 counseling secession. How can I register for these secessios.

[@missjazzyb5409]

Thanks for your honesty. While you teaching us your also growing through your own healing process.❤.

[@MentalHealness]

♥️

[@meganmurray2203]

So true. First time I left him he tried to k*ll me. Next time I knew better and to make a plan. I’m out now! :)

[@SincerelyDanielle974]

Man, that’s a lot to digest, but it all makes sense. Nothing I went through felt genuine, and I know I owe myself better than that.--honestly, I think ghosting, in most cases, reveals cowardice more than it does any justification. However, there can be a few valid reasons, although they’re rare and should be approached with care. For instance, if someone genuinely fears for their emotional safety due to toxic dynamics or feels overwhelmed by circumstances that keep them from clearly communicating their feelings, then stepping back might be a self-preserving act. There’s also the scenario of someone realizing they’re in a relationship that simply doesn’t align with their core values and beliefs-if they’ve put in the effort but see clear red flags, sometimes, rather than prolonging an unhealthy situation, they choose to vanish. But that should be communicated!

[@tarakonjolka5140]

Thanks for always being on point and making very important points with an amazing sense of humor. You def r my favorite narc !

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@GodHelpMe369]

When there’s a disagreement, someone will inevitably, most likely, be disappointed in me... So I engage in any and every disagreement in a way that ensures, that the person disappointed in me, never ends up being me! I aim to never repress, never suppress. I aim to never lose a part of myself. Radical honestly only: 100% of the time. Always, all ways.

[@MentalHealness]

🥺

[@debbielotus1073]

I had to get a protective order and fled across the county after 27 years of marriage. It has been a nightmare for me.

[@MentalHealness]

😫😫

[@myriambarrera-montes4732]

I appreciate your vulnerability, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so happy that you and your wife found your way back. Thank you for finding the courage to seek help, and turning around to help others. I went no contact. It's been over a year. Your story helped me get through.

[@MentalHealness]

stay strong

[@TemporalOasis]

Most everyone I pulled away from was given a final message like I am going to be keeping to myself in this next stage of my Journey. Be good! ✌🏼

[@MentalHealness]

You got this!

[@post_cancer_beautycandyjon1049]

Thats exactly what happened. He hoovered me for rhe second time, i was literally not allowed out of his sight, even to go to the bathroom unless it was in public and he was waiting right outside. I felt like i was kidnapped. Not allowed a phone, not allowed to work, it was one of the scariest things ive ever been through.

[@MentalHealness]

😞😞😞

[@reginapolo3357]

Ghosting my exhusband saved my life. By the time I left, I had put one and one toguether and figured out how he was paving the road to do me in......he was prepping everybody to make it look like self defense!!!!

[@emc8020]

Omg! That's sad. I hope you've moved far away from him. He could still come for you.

[@reginapolo3357]

@@emc8020Im ok honey. I moved far away and I just found out that he has lung cancer.

[@youareIndenial981]

I was w a narc 13 years not married. 10 years in i learned the game, the whole relationship she never got away 2 it. Ive always lived by eye for an eye, and she never ever came out on top, she suffered terribly from narc injury. But, when i went no contact. It literally took her a year to learn i was for real. She is still in shock 18 months later.. that is the definition of SATISFACTION.

[@MentalHealness]

protect your peace

[@blackdiamond181]

The narcissist should not cause a person to want to ghost her/him. I will not hide from a narc but I can guarantee you that if a narc think they are Billy Badass, I will introduce them to Billy Badass and hand them over to their maker, believe that. They can harm themselves all they want and I'm going to do everything in my power to protect ME. I never leave home powerless (semiautomatic-Smith & Wesson).

[@MentalHealness]

stay safe with whatever you decide

[@alwaysrighton]

That post will be used in court when you fire that weapon. Be safe & Keep that in mind.

[@blackdiamond181]

Just don't come for me and everything is peachy cream, frfr

[@alwaysrighton]

@@blackdiamond181 Oups… You got the wrong person here. I have no intention to cause any kind of violent conflict. I hope everyone is safe and happy. 😊

[@mdriggins832]

I got nervous when he kept asking me did I get a new car. I blocked him from my phone. already had him blocked from social media. I have seen him make threats to others. I am not waiting to find out if his raging turns towards me.

[@VGH1967]

I agree with Lee. When I told my ex that I did not want the relationship anymore…He started fighting me, I ran outside of the house and he ran me down and started fighting me again. I had to act like I didn’t want to break up and he and I could work it out. When he left the next morning…. I moved back home and cut off contact with him. He wanted to talk to me again and I was afraid because I knew he could get violent. I listened to my cousin to go talk with him because she “had my back”. In short, I ended up with a broken nose. I learned the hard way.

[@pathfinder6993]

Scary! Why did your cousin think you should talk to him??

[@cassandraallen7493]

My Sister died however I’ve just met him 1yr ago he’s known her all the time I was away39 yrs but didn’t come around my Family because I Discarded him first!! Just a Piece of --.! Dude I Love your channel!!

[@MentalHealness]

Wow

[@Nina801]

This video is full of truth bombs 💣 👌🏽

[@MentalHealness]

I appreciate it

[@TheKbeltre]

It is time i email you and tell you my story. this is so good sir because you're so right!!!!!!

[@lisaia7877]

Srr bro but as she’s my mother - and I’ve tried every healthy approach to resolution and begging her to see me or trying to bring something up to hash through and even tried to ghost in the past bc she wouldn’t respect my boundaries and she kept coming at me w all her tactics and flying monkeys- til I answered and I gave her a big chance again and she continuously smashes me into the ground - I am planning on a ghosting when I have all my ducks in a row - and if it hurts her as much as she’s continuously hurt me over my whole life including my stolen childhood - fking great. That’s fabulous. I want nothing to do with her. If that makes me a narcissist to want her to hurt at least a little bit compared to the 30+ years of pain she’s caused me - then so be it. I wouldn’t do it to anyone otherwise and this is me at my limit.

[@jayjellobean]

The T1000!! My new motivation. I really thank you for your content and truly hope that you and yours have fullfilling and healthy relationships.

[@bobbietarr1267]

Some people do not understand that at all. Mainly, the people who know nothing about them think you are wrong for ghosting them. Mine went to many in my family. Crying to them and left out lots of the story as to why I even left. Like an idiot, I ended up back with him and have been trying to go for years now.

[@mylesheyward]

Get out gang

[@philippagrimoire5968]

I ghosted mine and I feel fine 😂 My peace and mental health is more important than his widdle feelings! A black hole without a heart won’t feel hurt for long. Their ego will be bruised but don’t worry, the narc will invent some crap to make you into the villain again so leave him to his delulus

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

​@@philippagrimoire5968yes! Mines made up some crazy fucked up shit about me putting me in a dangerous situation

[@renaissance1763]

Not the AirTag and bubbles under Lake Minnetonka 😂😂😂😂 but you’re so on point that’s definitely a Cancer humor 😂

[@dianaschramer5065]

Lee, I am not making light of this very serious topic. But I just have to tell you that you are absolutely hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣

[@MentalHealness]

😆 thanks

[@AbsMommy]

Just came across your channel i just left my narcassist of 14 years last night watching your videos make me feel better cause u r funny its ginna b a hard road but i just couldnt forgive him this last time

[@nykidd3423]

I ghosted my ex of ten years because it's the New Year and I need a clean slate. My ex is the reason I have trust issues in new relationships.

[@MentalHealness]

stay safe

[@PaulClipMaster]

Phones have a block feature. Use it. That way you don't have to worry about "giving in". You simply cut off their ability to directly communicate with you.

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@tawnyasterling5875]

Make you swallow an airtag😂. Thanks for the humor!

[@MentalHealness]

😂 you got it

[@tanilovesallpeople8473]

Hey Lee i just want to say im so proud of u keep up the good work u are helping so much people out here god bless u and i love your content its very encouraging to me and others

[@tjtanner9311]

I've no contact with my narcissist ex for over a year and a half now. He's trying to contact me. I'm definitely not answering or responding!

[@MentalHealness]

‼️

[@sandrahicks5620]

I know this is a serious subject, but your humor is hilarious!! I was laughing so hard watching this, that I had tears rolling out of my eyes 😂🤣😂. I havent laughed this hard in a long time. Thank you for the humor and the informative content. 😊❤

[@MentalHealness]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Funfearlessfemale120]

Confession time Lee…. When I met my ex-narc we were having such an amazing courtship I was SMITTEN! And then he told me he had gotten out of prison 3 months earlier for stalking. Class C felony. but… it was HER fault, then came the long story and I believed it! I kept the secret from everyone. My family loved him. We were “Twinflames” Yuck!!! Fast forward….it was serious incident. And there were other serious incidents. I would say more but this is a public forum. I’ve been listening to your videos since going no contact since 7/2/23 and they are instrumental in keeping me strong 💪🏻 I can’t thank you enough for what you do for us. ❤🙏🏻

[@MentalHealness]

🙌🏾🙌🏾 stay strong

[@Shanana8]

I blocked him on all social media and moved over 600 miles away. He knew where I worked.

[@bodakdacreatormusiq2024]

How he find out?

[@Shanana8]

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