Top 3 reasons why a narcissist WANTS YOU BACK!

[@MentalHealness]

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[@nicholecornes1915]

But he filled for divorce I'm confused

[@romansepiol]

​@@nicholecornes1915normal tactics They always need to win

[@Bengal-BoyRyu]

Mentally torture me (1,2,3) DESTROY MY HAPPINESS (1,2,3) Spend my money 123 Ruin my friendship 123 Cheat on me Steal my cat Lie to me 1,2,3 anything and everything evil and hurtful can be used to describe a narrassist. I have a question and could use so advise or suggestions please? My ex went to New supply and keeps coming back to me. He cheated on her day 1. Do I tell her? She has no clue what or who he is. Ive been w him off n on for 22 yrs. I know his family. She's never met his mom or dad. Yet he shacks up w her because I left him. Then we got back together then he left me. Do I mail her proof of things she will know im not lying about or making shit up with a little letter telling her what he really is, what he says about her. I have all his middle of the night I miss you pics so she can't deny her furniture. If nothing else she will be forced to soul search when she sees our text conversation how he is using her until I take him back, he'll never love her. He's only loved me for 20 years and she doesn't smell like me and he's craving me, pics of him crying that he can't live w out me. I truly think I should and not out of spite. No one deserves his kind of torture.

[@hindwidad2723]

They miss you when they fail to replace you!

[@beckyriggs1869]

VERY well said!

[@MentalHealness]

😧

[@cindymcdonnell2119]

Yes😉

[@ItsSoarTime]

um-huh! PEACE!!!!

[@cindyadams194]

Sadly true

[@gigicooper1759]

It is definitely NOT because they actually love you….they miss what you provided for them - pls don’t take the bait. Learn, heal and move on. No Contact, therapy and self love!

[@MentalHealness]

😩 stay empowered

[@SherryG370]

@@gigicooper1759 I didnt take the bait. It's about "mind over matter" thinking. Im not going to even invite the negative words my xnarc said to me about who i was. Id rather feel what a "prize" he lost. And he knows it.

[@IsabellaPiesch]

🎯

[@ItsSoarTime]

EXCELLENT!!!! i'm doing EXACTLY THAT!!!!! AND MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PEACE!!!!

[@MeganRodecker]

Hell ya bye

[@ani2756]

They try to replace you but when the new/old supply ends they try to get their exes back…whoever agrees to take them back is the loser of the next round

[@cletiawilliams1436]

💯absolutely

[@MentalHealness]

😧🤔

[@Sarah_2905]

Totally true.

[@whyYUbee]

Yup 😂 exactly what's happening for me now. He had a girlfriend after I broke up with him and after few more months he starts hoovering me back online. Ain't gonna happen dude lmao

[@ItsSoarTime]

uuummm-huh!!!!! PEACE!!!!

[@londontyler6598]

Everytime they try to hurt me, My God ALWAYS intervene and get him. Vengeance is mines, says the Lord.

[@latishaschultz6200]

Amen to that!!!!

[@tramekn]

They want you back to take another shot at trying to ruin your life.

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@gma729]

@@tramekn EXACTLY !! 💯 THEIR PURE EVIL

[@googleuser2480]

My narcissist wanted me back because 1. He wanted me to drop the charges 2. He was comfortable 3. Free labor 4. A second mom 5. Free housing 6. Free food 7. A personal chef 8. Someone to abuse 9. To suck energy from 10. I was the only person in the entire universe to tolerate his BS and stupidity

[@DianeMatlock-v6y]

🤔😏🫡💯

[@theeclecticlady1846]

You are describing me me MEeeee😂😂😂

[@ms.berryfearless8120]

You are describing exactly what I went through..

[@trudythornton]

3 reasons….. supply supply supply.

[@MentalHealness]

🥴

[@ItsSoarTime]

um-huh! um-huh! um-huh!!! HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CARING ABOUT YOU OR ANYTHING that has to do WITH HUMAN feelings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PEACE!!!!

[@Coolgirl1309]

Reasons why My Ex-Narcissist Wants Me Back: *Wounded pride, Control and Supply*

[@MentalHealness]

🙌🏾

[@samonem7926]

Yep!! 🎯

[@cletiawilliams1436]

💯💣

[@kiasunray]

This‼️

[@ItsSoarTime]

UM-HUH!!! PEACE!!!!

[@CNeal73]

The anger part is the main reason why I won't let him back in. They are very hateful, vindictive people. 😫Sometimes they want to finish you off!

[@GlobalKoinoniaTV]

I'd give 100 likes if possible.

[@ainahaga]

Never ever go back to an ex!

[@MentalHealness]

😩💯

[@SuzieQue42]

❤

[@constadia4206]

There's a good reason they are exes

[@ainahaga]

@@constadia4206 yeah but many actually go back to theire exes (they havent found love in themselves!)

[@ainahaga]

@@constadia4206 going back to exes can even give you dementia. Im not kidding you. And beeing with a narc definitly gives you dementia - with time.

[@angiebrown6524]

They don’t want you to move on trust me.

[@MentalHealness]

💯‼️

[@angiebrown6524]

@@MentalHealness The true heart of narcissism is control and dominance.

[@mcleo9935]

@@angiebrown6524 exactly. Am dealing with one,everytime I try to leave he pull me back

[@queenofphillyshoagiessubs8456]

He can miss me with all of his BS ! Why would anyone want to go back to the very person that broke you . After 30 years , I finally filed for a legal seperation/ divorce & our court day is in August of 2024. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@MentalHealness]

🙏 stay safe

[@SherryG370]

May I ask....why did you stay 30yrs? You must understand why people stay.❤

[@SherryG370]

I'd like to think the main reason is.....They miss my "pure love". And yes Lee you are right....narc will hurt you more every time you go back.

[@TheVerbalAssassinFAFO]

​@SherryG370 Exactly. She stayed 30 doggone years and saying why would anyone go back??? I'm finally done after only 6!

[@never4saken165]

Same here, 30 yrs 🤦🏽‍♀️ I feel like I was sooooo freaking naive. 14 yr age diff, I was 18 when we started dating . My ex was a covert narc. I genuinely loved him, I saw all the red flags but that man refused to leave. I moved to another state 9 months ago to get further away. To keep from kicking myself, i think of the good times. And binge watch TeaonNPD to remind me of all the reason I left.

[@imbalancedstatus8824]

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, can't get fool again

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@ItsSoarTime]

UUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMM-HUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EXACTLY!!! especially NOW that i KNOW about this mental disability!!!!!! hell no!!! PEACE!!!!

[@deehyatt5173]

Sadly I’ve been fooled 21 times so far 😢😢😢… I wish I could just remove him from my home, block him and walk away .. I have no strength left 😢😢

[@imbalancedstatus8824]

@@deehyatt5173 One day at a time... you now have the knowledge to handle him or her

[@deehyatt5173]

@@imbalancedstatus8824 thank you🥹I lost it again last night.. women calling via FB msg.. I have to find a way to let go and be free. I’m truly losing my mind😭

[@R.Francois]

That's why i will never ever go back to my ex, he has so much hate in him, keeping away indefinitely!!!!

[@MentalHealness]

‼️

[@Candy-o1z]

That’s exactly what it is…they are filled with hate…

[@londontyler6598]

My strength he hated, however my strength he needed. No one will ever tolerate that mess as long as I did and survive

[@SachaPerry-r5l]

Don't be so sure, mate! Be well.

[@mandyhimesm2154]

I can absolutely relate to this about your strength!

[@GwendolynPorter-w6c]

Know the feeling; I'm glad the punk left!! He hated my strength! Everytime he sees me he stares! I've lost considerable weight and the glow up is ON!!! I DON'T WANT HIM CLOSE ENOUGH TO KISS MY GRITS!!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@TraceyBettencourt-it9th]

I have tolerated his abuse for 6 years and now I miss him like crazy. It’s like my life is over and it’s just him. What am I supposed to do, we did everything together. Now I’m alone and wondering what I did wrong. He loved me in the morning then broke it off again that night. Help

[@SachaPerry-r5l]

@TraceyBettencourt-it9th If you'll accept sympathy from a stranger, you have mine. It's not easy, and I assume this is still recent, and raw. The one thing I CAN say is that REMEMBERING the nonsense you suffered at least ( eventually! ) puts things in a certain perspective when those moments ( or days ) of that feeling come ( which they indubitably will ). Absence is often not easy to handle in the physical sense; perhaps yours was ALSO absent in many other ways when the thing was happening?😐🙂

[@forgotthepassword2636]

The toxic person want you back for all the bad reasons 1- they miss the power/control 2- they want to hurt you as payback 3- they think you shouldn't leave them 4- you should stay the dumb naive victim So you choose how you want to be treated

[@CameraShii86]

Sometimes they come back to hurt the person they left you for. When people have enough they will move on.

[@Stephanie.101]

He must’ve run out of money already and wants me back so that he can steal money from me to pay his bills and pretend to be financially stable grownup 🙄 pathetic

[@amanda4realsosoa]

That sounds about right 😐

[@cletiawilliams1436]

😂exactly 💯

[@MentalHealness]

oh my

[@DianeThompson-nx2gv]

@@Stephanie.101 you too same here he stole my money and my heart really bad getting out healing now

[@la-keyawilliams6872]

Thank you so much for saying this

[@samonem7926]

It has been a year for me being no contact whatsoever after leaving my ex narc, changed my number, moved over night and deleted all my social media and changed my routine on anything he might’ve knew and cut off flying monkeys 🥳🥳🥳🥳 it feels so good my goodness 🙏🏼

[@MentalHealness]

👏🏾 🙏

[@azashukura]

The fact that you have to uproot your life like that just to get away from them is insane. There's a special place in H*ll for Narcs.

[@deehyatt5173]

@@azashukura… I wish I actually could get up and leave. I feel like it would be so much easier to let go. But I have to agree, the fact we have to change our entire life to get away from the abuse and stay safe is sickening. There really needs to be laws to stop them .. really there does😢

[@azashukura]

@@deehyatt5173 I absolutely agree. Smh

[@4WallsDesigns]

Seems like a lot to ppl who’ve never been thru it with a Narc! But this is real life survival tactics!

[@LS-fs6nc]

Everything in the narcissist's mind seems to be calculated... 😳

[@MentalHealness]

It’s wild

[@LS-fs6nc]

@@MentalHealness 😢

[@IsabellaPiesch]

@@MentalHealness They know what they want and from whom they can get it. Isn´t it?

[@deehyatt5173]

😢😢.. it is for sure 😢

[@meeks1201]

Cuz they were benefitting off of you somehow, they don’t care about you as a human being so it’s better to just pretend like they never existed 😂

[@tequilajohnson4772]

Yesssssssss😂totally EXTINCT from my life

[@KimCox-v9q]

Their goal is to continue to have control of your every thought and every action. If they can succeed in seeing you unhappy for ANY reason it would be their greatest joy!

[@MentalHealness]

💯‼️

[@GwendolynPorter-w6c]

My STBX tried that control ish! I told him that marriage is a relationship not a dictatorship! I'm glad the mf left!!! They hate people with inner strength and integrity!

[@majorsolutionsllc]

“They miss the power and control.” Whew!😮

[@MentalHealness]

‼️‼️

[@MegaRose1958]

" No the hell Lee did not say that"😂😂😂😂 This is why it's important to never forget what you experienced with them.

[@MentalHealness]

😂

[@joannturi3968]

To keep on using and abusing you. To suck the energy out of you. To feel more in control.

[@michellehendrickson9652]

They think THEY DID NADA NOTHING AT ALL ...GTFO

[@MentalHealness]

🏃

[@deehyatt5173]

He said “I did nothing wrong” …😢

[@CameraShii86]

@@deehyatt5173same! My ex told me he didn’t hurt me! Like…what?!

[@DR-rv5lv]

I wish I had known this 15 years ago. I was divorcing my husband but allowed him to love bomb me, not knowing anything about narcissistic people. I rescinded the divorce papers and gave up everything that had me happy after living apart in another state for 8 years. I thought, “finally he is listening to me.” Moved and went back to him in the other state and it has been a living hell emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. 😢

[@vibekes2416]

Get away from him again 😢 You need to put your self and your health first

[@cynthiapereira8403]

This is true - they want vengeance.

[@fahimashuma]

Even they have new supply, they are obsessed with you! They never can let you go!

[@teresat9100]

100%!!

[@LilinChildSL]

Another top reason is they want to use you for your resources (money, friends, materialistic things, family, connections, status etc.).

[@JayDoubleyoo]

I now understand why his ex ran and never turned back.

[@fransinclair3356]

They either want to continue to devalue u or idolise u. The cycle always happens with idolise devalue discard and they will do it but it doesn’t have to mean discard physically. It is an emotional discard and a person can feel that especially someone who is sensitive

[@ŠimenS-v8o]

Needed to hear this. 3 months no contact. I get calls and mails daily. Almost gave up. Now I won't.

[@MentalHealness]

stay strong

[@empressb444]

Take all of that proof to the court and get a no contact order against him

[@GwendolynPorter-w6c]

Act as though they are invisible! My STBX had the nerve to speak to me ! I kept walking! I don't give that mf a centimeter of supply!!! The glow up is gonna kick his azz though! 😂😂😂😂

[@londontyler6598]

He’s so angry with is Mother, he told me I reminded him of her, once I began to think about the pain that was inflicted by her, the trust, childhood trauma, it scared the mess out of me.

[@allthingsjana7870]

Hoovered me with an 'accidental' whatsapp to then just suddenly go silent on me. Truly toxic. No comijg towards me with integrity and offering a sincere apology for past behaviours, nothing. No closure , when I had wished him the best. Silent treatment thinking I will chase. Thanks to these videos I won't be.

[@MentalHealness]

💪🏽💪🏽

[@Blessed591]

They will NEVER give you closure . . Forget about them totally . . . Stop wasting your energy wishing them well . They simply DO NOT CARE . . .

[@tequilajohnson4772]

Thats exactly what they want you do is CHASE THEM LIKE HELL NO😂

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

Mine did that, too. He 'accidentally' sent a text about moving things. I had to leave most of my belongings behind. Oops, he meant to send the text to a friend. 🙄 He felt the need to include a selfie, but I never want to see his face again.

[@sambam9129]

⁠@@Orquet-qj2nf a selfie 🤣 I believe my ex narc is holding onto my belongings too so I have just blocked him and let that stuff go. May I ask how that happened w you?

[@melaniedawn4256]

So true! He misses my cooking and the s-x, but he has to keep all the sidekicks. So he can eat out and wash his own dishes while the sidekicks fall flat.

[@melissaharnish9094]

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and experience. It took me a long time to finally realize that it wasn’t me, that there wasn’t anything wrong with me and your videos have been a part of that process for sure. I spent 15 years in a relationship with a narcissist, and it took almost 22 years before I finally fully got out from underneath his thumb. Did a real number on my already not so great self-esteem, but hearing from you has helped me to really solidify that it never was me. There was not a damn thing wrong with me. He was the problem. And there is nothing I ever could’ve done to fix him.

[@MentalHealness]

Stay strong 💪

[@ShelleyKing-mq8ho]

Good going, I'm recently broke up with him.

[@trayle1220]

Wish I never wasted this much time but didn’t know what a narcissist was and started to think it was me

[@MentalHealness]

time to heal

[@sth1399]

Especially the last part sounded so dangerous

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@monicaperez1578]

Everything you’re saying is so true. The person I was with always tried to control more and do bad things they have never done before. Their jealousy really comes out too.

[@la-keyawilliams6872]

The way his family encourages/encouraged this behavior was so heartbreaking. Thank yall for speaking up. Thank God for this video. I gotta trust I will rebuild over time

[@SonjaSmith-qi8hd]

It's all about supply. They miss whatever they suck out of you.

[@RS-ww8jo]

New supply fails Money Sex Mess with your head Try to keep you stuck so you don’t move forward The guilt might get to them Come back to finish your ass off Plus many many more. Lesson learned

[@katvond6346]

Top 3 reasons why we DONT' miss the narco: Crazy,crazy and crazy!

[@MentalHealness]

🙃

[@azashukura]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 FR THO!!!!

[@kurtrinamckinnon4214]

True 😅

[@cletiawilliams1436]

Indeed 👏👏👏

[@Yarrg]

BATSHIT CRAY CRAY

[@geenazallah2749]

Lee, I have to give it to you. The part about ownership is pretty impactful. Thank you for the excellent work, brother.

[@kaylasanders8353]

I applaud you for being so honest and giving us who have no idea how to handle a narcissist the fighting chance to really understand them and how to love them without the emotional draining energy trauma. Drama. So thank you.

[@neoarchangemon3460]

This recently happened and I foolishly entertained it as a friendship. Then they went left field on me after I made what I thought was a joke about our past relationship that they abruptly ended out of nowhere. I’ve been ghosted since then and I now see it for what it was. I provided a comfort of sorts. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@janicemoore7288]

I’m so stuck in this hurricane idk what he wants but to make me delusional and look crazy playing the in and out game

[@ladycancer9330]

He broke up with me. When I went no contact, got a message from him about how much he misses me. Didn’t respond.

[@Mockduck2020]

He’d always complain about how his ex wife would complain about him and eventually I started understanding where she was coming from. Then for some reason he brought over the custody papers where he was paying only $200 a month to her for 2 kids…and I pretty much lost all respect for him.

[@kiasunray]

He’s taking out vengeance on my youngest daughter. She made a hasty decision and damaged his property. He’s filed a police report against her. He now wants us to pay for his window. I’m furious. Trying to contain my anger. My kids were persistent in their efforts to protect me and get me away from him.

[@wookieiam1]

I am so glad I watched this.. They miss you but will abuse you more..

[@GodHelpMe369]

You’re more than a Queen. Not that a Queen is limiting because that’s the highest highness of a most intelligent courageous beauty amongst women. You do embody a perfect emanating expression of a Queen. The icing on the cake is your Divine limitlessness that is in tune with her being. You’re evolution. Thank you for sharing and expressing. I sense your passion for yourself and your passion for standing for justice of your worth. I’m grateful for the love you have for yourself. You’re badass.

[@MentalHealness]

🙏🏽

[@angielaprade3649]

The supply that I gave him. A roof, food, listening ear, to have me be submissive but his idea of submissive is total control. Plus money. To name a few. He is bored with the current supply and situationship.

[@crystalclimenhage9980]

This is the reason I won't go back....I'm afraid he will hurt me even more and his only reason for asking to talk is to devalue me

[@Crystalblack-u9v]

True every time I take him back it’s worse. He told me I’m with him for life no matter what

[@lolxd9396]

My narcissistic player expects me to chase him. Not happening, I know he will treat me even worse. Because I went no contact, which means to him, losing the power control over me. Not in this life time will I give him that chance! Thank you Lee. 🙏😎

[@loitongbamjanjitsingh2083]

She told her friend “ i do not if i can’t find anyone who can love me like he does to me “. She wrote something to herself in a note : “ you have started and you have to end it “ i knew she planned already . One day she told “ i know your life would be much better without me, but i do not know about myself “. “You do not know how hard i try to act normal sometimes “. I ghosted her first . I still feel bad for her , she is young and i fear for her future .

[@majorsolutionsllc]

“They’re angry as hell!”😂Narcissistic pound of flesh! Damn!🔥🔥

[@MentalHealness]

🤭🤭

[@MeganRodecker]

Why is it when you go no contact that some how say that you’re the narcissist, and you discarded them? lol they try and project themselves on you!!

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

Mine says he's afraid of me. Because I stopped speaking to him. I had told him years prior that when he's angry, I get scared. He tried to throw my words back at me and do the DARVO thing and claim victimhood status.

[@GodHelpMe369]

*it is truly a most bizarre characteristic of humans, that we smile when we are in pain.*

[@michellehendrickson9652]

Bc they need something from you Other supply left or off no importance

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@michellehendrickson9652]

Ya they miss what you can do or have them

[@MentalHealness]

That’s how it goes

[@Melvina1975]

He don't want me anymore! lol, I stuck firmly on my boundaries💪💪💪

[@Randyama5]

Your courage to share these videos is amazing! Sending love and respect to your wife - she's the rock in your healing journey. Your son is lucky to have both of you. I noticed you seemed a bit nervous in the video, but your authenticity shines through. It's clear you're speaking from your own experience with this condition, and that's something I really admire. I hope more people struggling with narcissism can find the strength to grow and find their true selves. I recently got out of a 4-year relationship I couldn't escape from, and it ended up affecting my new relationship because of the toxicity. It's been tough dealing with the emotional abuse, but I'm working on healing. I'm hopeful that his new partner can break free too. Your insights mean a lot to me. Thanks, Lee, for being a positive force in this world. Sending you lots of love and support.

[@sandramiggins9268]

You are so right, I have experience just what you are talking about.

[@erichoben4125]

Thank you for the information. Nailed exactly what I went through and currently going through.

[@MrzShonny]

This is true with all narcissists, on all relationship levels….friends, significant others, associates, family members too! NOT JUST THE ONE LEVEL WHICH IS ALWAYS COVERED. Idk how & why I got so BLESSED to be surrounded by the toxicity of blatant narcissism. lol. SMH. I am locked in on keeping my distance & being more cautious, so I won’t continue these tiring, negative patterns.

[@MentalHealness]

You got it

[@lanikinlywalker4596]

Needed to hear this. Ex just reached out after 2 weeks with words of affection but her actions don’t match at all

[@themaster408]

My ex is unfortunately a 50/50 coparent and she sends messages on appClose all the time about how 'you'll never be rid of me' and hateful messages. I ignore it unless it's an actual question about the kids and then she gets angry that I'm not responding.

[@IsabellaPiesch]

To use you for things they can´t do themselves.

[@cassmartinez-lo5it]

I will never go back to the life of being locked inside my house. With kids suffering for friends and a life

[@ms.huntincrybabies3980]

This hit home! I had left him been gone for a couple of months he kept trying to get me back. Went so far as to try to demand I cancel my vacation to see my daughter and grandson unless he could go too or I would have to take same amount of time off work when I got back to spend with him. But always said he wasn’t trying to control me. I almost went back until he made those demands

[@MentalHealness]

You got this!

[@peachydandy2570]

He probably wants you back when supply is low.

[@ojallanancyjacobs1911]

I will never go back. Thanks for this

[@MentalHealness]

🙌🏾💪🏽

[@christinaromo3906]

Can you make a video on how they feel when you stop needing them? Love your content Lee! Thank you! ❤

[@Ivanamus]

For these reasons I cancelled the wedding, lost money & moved on. Little by little you can rebuild your life and get back on your feet… MENTALLY! Please seek counseling work on yourself.

[@MentalHealness]

💪🏽 🙌🏾

[@nicolebeard6051]

My ex-husband misses having a place to live 😂😂😂😂 and other forms of narcissistic supply.

[@GwendolynPorter-w6c]

So does my STBX husband! I know he's going pillar to post! Ask me if I give a filth flaren filth! If not that he's with an uneducated female! That's what he likes! I don't fit the bill! 😂😂😂

[@TheSeekeroftruth1]

My ex wanted/got his first wife back, after she left him, so that he could divorce her i.e. so she didn't have one-upmanship over him = competition and revenge.

[@PEGGYKEEHN]

BINGO!

[@laurieottman6905]

#1. Because the arrogant coocoola has temporarily run out of supply and; or… #2. You’re now showing absolutely no interest in them and; or… #3. Out of Convenience!!!

[@devbrooks9988]

2/1/2 year failed relationship and kept taking her back after all her lies. Burned me bad and we didn’t speak for close to two years. Recently pops back up and finds out she moved from across the country and right into my neighborhood. Foolishly entertained her for six weeks before it failed miserably again. After love bombing the crap out of me and the day before we were finally going to therapy, caught her with a man at her house. Which she had the nerve to tell me “was the final straw for her”. The person was her ex between us, I’m not even sure who was the side piece this time, me or him. This new supply comes from money, maybe that’ll keep her away this time because that’s all she cares about

[@SherryG370]

@@devbrooks9988 my xnarc lives in my neighbourhood also. I will never get back with him, but having to see him around everyday....its like a bee in my bonnet. Im being bullied by his x main supply also. Stay strong !!

[@deehyatt5173]

Money won’t keep her away.. They want US to sit there waiting for them .. They carry on, while we try to pick ourselves up 😢😢😢they are the cruelest most sickening humans on this earth😢😢😢😢

[@devbrooks9988]

@@deehyatt5173 unfortunately my experience as well. Always minimizing, no real apologies, and never real closure. But that closure will have to be letting their actions speak for them

[@SonjaSmith-qi8hd]

They can be very cruel. They will seek vengeance and treat you worse and worse as time goes on.

[@MentalHealness]

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[@karaashcraft6097]

Mine just came at me out of nowhere because he has not had his feed. He also tried to use the dog against me. The Six hours of texts and drama, that I refused to engage in was crazy. He threatened my well-being multiple times, including in the phone in his bank. His cockiness scares me. I have a tow week reprieve, but I am trying to stay one step ahead.

[@empressb444]

Take those texts to the court and get a no contact order against him immediately! Take to the police station as well and see if you can file harassment charges against him too

[@abengdemariceyvonne5451]

Spot on!! Excellent video as usual. Thanks Lee.

[@DenaKaye13]

“No da hell Lee didn’t” 😂😅

[@MentalHealness]

🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@Lotusawj]

Mine would hide stuf like glasses, iWatch and then “find” it weeks later, sick 😏

[@janebraun4482]

We never even met, he got mad at me, a fan via SM, and re-arranged the Universe to get to me, me thinking a connection, no! Just wanted to hurt me, I seemingly discarded him, or so he thought, I did not, knows who I am, doesn't respond or DM me, just wants to secret message, draw me in, then hurt, me (as I hurt him), as he' s weak. Oddly, but trying to hurt me, he shows his own vulnerability, which is just what I had exposed that made him, wish to hurt me. Not a good strategy.

[@jennylopez9146]

Thank you once again

[@trishamenard3432]

Another reason they feel like you owe them your life ! I wasn’t allowed to have no mind of my own… he wanted me to cut EVERYONE off!

[@TM-te5dp]

After 3 months, my ex narcissist emailed me 😅. He was blocked everywhere else. And of course, he was apologizing, and long story short, I rejected him! And it felt soooo good being able to get some things off my chest and to reject him! @Lee, how do you think he is feeling or thinking? Mind you, this is the first and last time we have broken up. And I'm very serious when I say last. I feel good and fine without him. I refuse to give him another chance to betray me again, and it be even worse.

[@StellasTarot1111]

I have a question. Why does he like to say I was shitty too and there were a lot of things I needed to change as well? When I wasn’t lying or cheating on him? The “shitty” thing I was supposedly doing was accusing him of cheating and lying when he wasn’t, even though I could list several examples of the lies he told and examples of emotional affairs and cheating behaviors. I never could fully prove it. I also would ask if something was going on, or ask if he was cheating. I never outright accused him of anything. He’s told everyone that I’m the narcissist and used him for money and did evil things to him. He lived in my house rent free for 8 months. Then, only paid less that half the bills when I pushed him to pay rent. He insisted on going on a vacation with the kids and I after I took him back the first time. I told him he’d have to help pay for it if he was going, otherwise I’d pay for it and just take the kids. He insisted on it. Then later said he took out a loan to go and I took advantage of his money, when I paid for half of it! He told ppl I never said thank you, which is wrong. I always told him thank you. Then he denied that he ever lived at my house rent free. Ppl believe him and actually hate me for breaking up with him a second time after I found out he was hiding our relationship status on FB and still liking other women’s photos when we talked about it numerous times and he promised to change his online behavior. He said I was a hypocrite because I’d like a mutual friends photos, I was only liking memes and photos of his kids. Then he said I didn’t set a relationship status on my second Facebook account which is an author/ business account. Which I would have been happy to do but it didn’t occur to me because it’s not an account where ppl know me in real life. It’s a persona. Sometimes I wonder if I really am a shitty person. Sorry to rant but I’m still confused about all of it.

[@Sirena-p2z]

THIS WHAT MY NARCISSIST BOYFRIEND DID, HE CHEATED ON ME AND I CHEATED BACK, AND HE KNOWS ABOUT THE CHEATING, HE CAME BACK AND BEHAVING AS IF IT'S ALL GOOD. AND WHEN I GAVE HIM BACK THAT CHANCE, HE JUST WALK OUT ON ME AND IN 3DAYS HE'S BACK WITH HIS EX! THAT HURT ME THE CORE! 😢

[@jessicahewlett9297]

They will also punish you for walking away and coming back , the fact you walked away cause them stress sad truth you take them back you will suffer yess

[@latashahumphrey769]

I believe everything you said especially just to hurt u

[@MentalHealness]

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[@latashahumphrey769]

@@MentalHealness 💯

[@moniquepeerboom2196]

so happy with my 2 grown up sons 🙏 they scare him! 😅

[@ItsSoarTime]

i CANNOT believe the last part where he talked about some just laying eyes on you start BELIEVING they own you!!! NO SIR!!!!!!!! NAW!!! UNH-UNH!!!! FOR REALS?!!!!!!!! that's some SICK A-- S---T!!!!!

[@scorpionmish]

My ex was an abusive, serial cheater with possible mental illness and narcissistic traits. We broke up 12 years ago and he harassed me for 3 years after that. He finally left NYC and I thought I was home free from seeing his dusty behind. He has kids now and I thought established the life he wanted down south. Well his kids mom (one of the many women he cheated with) moved back to their old neighborhood so he comes up for visits. He came by my mother's building looking for me. We haven't spoken for 8 years. He texted saying he's ready to settle down with me NOW. That dude not only wants the supply back but he's mad as hell. His life with me was good but he refused to stop being a hoe and then would abuse me if the other women acted the fool. Now that he's 45 and washed he wants to go back to the soft life he had with me plus make me pay for letting him go ( he was very clear every other woman he was sleeping with was better than me so I disrespectfully bowed out). Every time I took him back years ago he one-upped his mistreatment and abuse. I know for a fact dealing with him now would be apocalyptic.

[@shawny979]

He Monkeybranched, but wished me a happy birthday, and wants to be Friends. What the hell for? Is this some sick game they play?

[@SusiB123]

No no no no no please don’t take them back it’s reaping the whirlwind if your out stay out because they will in no uncertain terms make you pay everyday

[@melissabrzescinski494]

He discarded me because he doesn’t want a future with me after two and a half years. He said he was dissatisfied in the relationship out of the blue. He won’t be back.

[@MentalHealness]

Stay safe

[@SonjaSmith-qi8hd]

Consider yourself blessed!