What I Wish I Knew Before I Became A Parent

[@chelspanda927]

it's so refreshing seeing you experiment with your storytelling style! thanks for being vulnerable about what this chapter of your life has been like for you. you are also glowing 💕✨

[@waverlyyang9963]

It’s because of you, Jenn, that when I was feeling panicked and not jumping for joy with my positive pregnancy test, I didn’t feel too guilty because you were brave enough to be vulnerable about your reaction in your pregnancy vlogs. Every time you share your experiences on parenthood, you take the words right out of my mouth and make me feel so seen. So thank you ❤️

[@MeteoricMarlin]

I dont have children but one thing my friend has emphasized to our friend group that was a game changer for her kiddo was switching to old kids shows. She only lets him watch shows she grew up with like Mr. Rogers, Big comfy couch, old episodes of sesame street etc. Her son responded really well to them. He's no longer over stimulated.

[@marjoriesage613]

Hayao Miyazaki films were my staple growing up ❤ so soothing. They were my Disney and so much better in my opinion. I’ve heard that new kids shows are so overstimulating

[@funxuyilee1417]

No one's ever ready for parenthood. It's a learning process Jenn and you're doing great!

[@wildpasta]

Yes no one's ever 10000% ready for parenthood, but that isn't an excuse for completely winging parenthood on the go when the child is already born. There's so much innerwork that people have to do before they parent a child.

[@lebre.]

Yesssss to calling out KZbinKids!! As an influential KZbinr, you are doing your job well by influencing in the right direction 🙌 a perfect example of what an influencer should be! Thank you for not being afraid to speak out ❤️

[@hailey9750]

better help is terrible. these repetitive sponsorships from better help is getting too much!

[@Anniebeeee247]

You have perfectly described being a new mom!! Took the words right out of my mouth. I was travelling, eating at michelin star restaurants, going out, etc but it all started to meld together and I couldn't hold specific memories of many things I was doing. Then we had our daughter and BAM, new life is breathed into everything around me. Love this video

[@bambaolina]

thank you for shouting out lennon's nanny jenn! i was a career nanny for five years and i so often felt like the families i worked for wanted to hide me away and were embarrassed to have a nanny, for whatever reason. i'm sure lennon's nanny feels so lucky!

[@HelloKittyFreak96]

Motherhood feels heavy, never ending and tired but the love I have for my daughter literally gives me energy to focus on the details and do my best. I would do anything for her and that’s a love I didn’t know I had in me until she came along. She’s my heart outside my body

[@shingvang4690]

I’m currently 33 and pregnant with my first baby. The road to parenthood is filled with so much anxiety for me. Thank you for sharing your raw experience. ❤

[@shristib]

I felt the same! My daughter is 2 and a half now and things have gotten better but postpartum can really rock your mental health if you don’t have a good support system. I hope your pregnancy and postpartum is a smooth one!

[@solagratialife]

I was pregnant with my first baby at 39 and gave birth couple of weeks after my 40th birthday. Hard as it is to do, the more you let go of control the smoother things go and your mental health managed better than if you give in to the worries and fears. Congratulations!

[@nomadnatasha]

Thanks for sharing Jenn, you put so much heart and soul into your work. One day, I'm so excited to be a mom but some part of me is afraid to be "invisible" once I have my child. I love my career and the life I have now so the thought of change can be scary. This new perspective gave me a lot of insight!

[@tgrrl5]

i really love the way you've been formatting videos lately! it feels like education like also feeling attention grabbing and real.

[@feedevelyn]

As someone who is absolutely frightened of having kids and believe I don’t have a single maternal bone in my body … your video made me reconsider. It’s refreshing to view your transparent perspective. Thank you for sharing, as always ❤

[@baloneyfoo]

Seriously as a new Mom and someone who’s followed you for years and years I needed this so much. I almost never comment, but I just have to express gratitude for talking about such a vulnerable transition in life. ❤thank you.

[@melissapthai]

4:34 "Your kids will bring a light to yourself... like one long acid trip" most prolific quote about parenthood i've ever heard 🤣

[@sleeplessfarewells]

it was because of your motherhood + pregnancy videos i didn't feel soo alone when i jumped into it a year and a half ago. thanks so much for making the journey so relatable, because me and my husband don't have a village and have to do so much alone. it's been the most amazing experience so far and i so look forward to when our son gets even older and we can share new things with him.

[@divinelyguidedalways]

Hey Jenn, Thank you so much for this video. Parenthood seems overwhelming. This really helps! You are an amazing Mom, your son would be so proud of you.

[@boatlifedoctormom]

I ❤ this video. I did an intense residency and a fellowship in epilepsy surgery but after I had my son all I wanted to do was to be present for him. It was and is such a struggle, the mom guilt and career. Just like you my most precious thing in my life is my son. I’ve been watching your videos since 2011, I got married in 2017 and my son is 5 now and I’ve enjoyed your content in this parallel journey. Thank you for articulating it all so well.

[@irisr3898]

That was my reaction as well. Even though I was married (5 years in) it was so refreshing seeing that it’s ok to not have the “jumping for joy” reaction. Thank you for your vulnerability and helping us feel validated.

[@__linnduhh]

The last minute of the video is by far my favorite part of your video Jenn! I too had tunnel vision and did not see babies/kids/parents around me prior to having kids. And now I have three! You’re absolutely right, I now sympathize and have so much love for any parent/child who comes along my way LOL 🥰🥹😆

[@bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbee]

as someone taking up early childhood education, THANK YOU JENN for that beautifully written spiel on KZbin Kids. grown ups really need to start protecting children from those types of videos.

[@EllenDocker]

7:41 pregnant with my second and crying because up to this point you have beautifully articulated why having children is completely worth it

[@theunbrokenpiece]

I absolutely love that you take your time to produce content now and came back with an outstanding cinematic superb storytelling about something so important - reflection on parenthood. I will always look forward to your takes on different phases of life which im slowly following after ❤

[@lebre.]

The storytelling and cinematography!!!! ✨👏

[@ensignquinones8300]

Jenn, it's amazing. From watching your make-up tutorials for my prom to now watching this video about motherhood, I still trust your opinions. I still get excited every time I see a new video. I got married 6 months ago, and I'm waiting patiently to be a mom. 😊❤

[@miahuertas8012]

This is the kind of content creator that imparts a lesson from your own experiences we should all support and invest our freetime in. I’m no longer interested in vloggers that just shows their everyday life as is and those vain haul vlogs that just influences other mothers to buy useless stuff online. We should dig this kind of content! Thank you Jenn for putting in so much effort and wisdom on all your recent vlogs especially this one. I learned so much from it and looking forward for more.

[@itsphuongly]

My baby is 3, and i never regret taking almost 1 year not working to focus on her ❤

[@puruen]

I want to mention that your previous parenting videos really helped me a lot- i watched it over and over. It made me feel like Im not alone. Forever grateful

[@EmilyFangYuanyuan]

I’m 38 this year, and for most of my life, I’ve resisted having children because I haven’t been happy in my role as a daughter. I’ve always doubted whether I could be a good mom (I might be a control freak😂, haha). But seeing how your joy has transformed into true happiness over the years makes me genuinely happy for you! Wishing you all the best-you’re truly amazing!❤

[@loveinae1111]

Thank you for sharing all of your thoughts about this topic. I honestly needed a video like this. I'm past the first year, and I'm still feeling overwhelmed. I like the idea of a fixed schedule. Love you and your videos! Thanks for being there during my journey into momhood!

[@allisonmyers5874]

Thank you for this! I gave birth 3 month ago and it’s crazy how much your life both changes and doesn’t change in such a short span of time. Your pregnancy announcement video really helped me accept all the emotions that come along with finding out. I wasn’t immediately excited and felt so seen in seeing your reaction ❤ now that I’m a mama I love it and her so so much.

[@jackiec860]

I love you so much Jenn. You have been my online big sister and I'm so grateful and proud to see the way you have developed.. you inspire me. Thank you for sharing as you do.

[@alhamdahanifah]

you really DESCRIBE everything that i feel about motherhood, THANK YOU. it feels like you read my messy mind and made it into a complete paragraph ❤

[@ellengraceroxas3628]

This is so true and so relatable… I just love the look in my child’s eyes the first time he experiences something and you just can’t explain the love you feel for them! I didn’t know my heart could love this much..

[@GoingScuba]

So glad I’m going through motherhood around a similar time as you, Jenn! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on parenthood thus far. Feeling every word! What a wonderful video to mark your reflections on motherhood so far. It’s been amazing following your journey.

[@Zetta333]

I’m not a mother and don’t plan to be, but I still love your perspective and this video was awesome!

[@321leigh321]

Beautiful and artistic storytelling. You took a common youtube subject, and made it SO unique. Loved this.

[@milikoshki]

this was a super engaging edit :) also I started watching you back in the 2010s as a lonely college kid in my dorm, seeing you in baggy jeans is a trip lol

[@simplyashleyseol]

The narrative and editing reminds me of something you’d see in a movie 🍿 love this Jenn!

[@nicolesoliven276]

Much needed. Thank you for sharing your thoughts - wisdom - on motherhood. All of the things I’ve grappled with for the last 2.5 years or so in this life-altering change, you summed it up perfectly. What a crazy ride it is, and worth everything! ❤

[@huyenbui520]

I love this video so much! You really hit the nail on the head here, and everything was so well articulated. Parenthood is incredibly special, and nothing can ever fully prepare us for it. We just have to live through it and learn as we go. Ever since I gave birth, I have felt an immense responsibility to be the best mother to our children because they are the future. It's the most important and the most rewarding job in the world, in my opinion. ❤ Thank you for sharing this video! Your storytelling and editing skills are top-notch! 🙌

[@luhannatalie]

so proud of you! Lennon is so loved! as a fellow petite girl I would also love to know where you're jeans are from

[@Abiasnail]

First time viewer here - this video was joyous and brought a big smile to my face. I have had many similiar experiences since becomeing a parent. Learning how to lean on friends/family has been a big one for me too - and one I was suprised to enjoy, having spent my whole life trying to never need help!

[@AmallieGames]

I was definitely the panicked woman when I saw the 2 lines. When I found out I was pregnant my boyfriend had just moved in with me 5 months before. In those 5 months, a handyman had caused our kitchen ceiling to collapse and an F2 tornado hit our house. Literally everything was chaos. Also, my boyfriend was on a trip when I did the pregnancy test (I should have waited but I felt so sick and had missed my period so I had to know). It was the worst timing, but now 2 years later our son is so precious and we're better people and a stronger couple for supporting eachother through this. But it has not been easy and often it hasn't been fun lol.

[@deartincagayatE]

It is so true, no one is ever ready!!!! YOU ARE AN AMAZING MAMA! BEING A MAMA is TOUGH, but we are here to help one another.!

[@sabaitide]

I love the reflections you shared in this video and the cinematography! I'm currently a mommy-to-be and it was encouraging to hear what you have learned so far from being a parent ☺

[@wannnnah]

I’m glad you recognized the aunties and uncles! There’s not enough love shared for them. Especially ones that are chosen family, no obligation just pure joy and love! I’d never felt that instinct to have my own kids, and I’m so grateful that I get enormous fulfillment and connection with the little ones in my life! My 2 yr old niece and 3 yr old nephew are my besties 🤍 it also makes me feel good to see my husband be an amazing uncle, I often feel guilt for not wanting what most people do. Thank you for also speaking on the purpose portion, I’m in community health work and helping people and improving myself are my purposes :)

[@Cookerywithyu]

This is one of the bestt video of explaining of parenthood. And also the storytelling was another levell , love you babe, you are doingg awesome ❤

[@Pepepipipopopupu]

I can relate to this video so much, beautifully made and well written. Thank you Jenn for sharing. ❤

[@RhianneLaventure]

I am 3 weeks postpartum with my first baby and obviously in the thick of a huge transition but I already relate to everything you are saying. It started for me in pregnancy, I started seeing people from a different, more compassionate perspective and and the world, especially because I have a daughter. I want to make this world better for her. I want to cherish these moments with her being so little but I can't wait to watch her grow.

[@fireflythinking1290]

Idk if I ever want kids (I'm 25) but for me the best part would be seeing them enjoy everything for the first time, to create magic and fun playtime for them !

[@celinepope]

Im a nanny, and I love the child I care for. But I never want kids of my own. I just know it's not my journey. I am certified in child development, and I adore children. Just having a child is not for me. I want my mother in law to understand but I doubt she will.

[@rmmr1168]

No one needs to understand but you boo.

[@summeryafi5148]

she’ll let the idea of it go eventually, keep ur head up

[@etoile.2154]

Thank you so much for sharing with us, Jenn!!✨ It must be not easy to speak out your thoughts like this. Not thinking of having a child yet but since my surroundings are starting to have children, it was really a sensitive subject and your voice spoke to me. much Love from your Japanese girlie

[@21shinaicox]

My son is 3 now too and I’ve been experiencing motherhood the same time as you so its been so nice going through everything with you 💛 I’ve been watching you since your college fashion days and have been growing along side with you. You are an incredible mom and love your real and raw perspective on motherhood. I can 100% relate! Thank you Jenn for sharing 💕🫶🏼

[@kdramaaddiction]

me too. I appreciate you so much Jenn! shoutout to our September 2021 little ones 🥰

[@kimberlyduarte9371]

Jenn 🥺 this was the perfect video! I’ve been watching you since 2015?? and it’s like we grew up together.. i have my 6 month old daughter now and it’s a fog.. thank you for being so real always 🤍

[@EllenDocker]

14:13 yes!!!!!! I love this KZbin kids section. You are so so right

[@Elodie-g7n]

Love your motherhood related content Jen. So helpful and relatable x.

[@liannamay]

Love watching you grow and take what you’ve learned to share with us (your audience!). Enjoying the new video style and lessons ❤

[@chiaradelia829]

Thank you as a young woman I feel like seeing this type of narratives around parenting and motherhood is so so important ❤ hope to be a parent to one day! 😊

[@samanthahu4803]

this was an amazing and accurate depiction of it all. my girl just turned a year and a half and what you described is spot on ❤. oh and your voice reminds me of lindsey lohan haha

[@sanaamin5651]

Finally someone who shares the positives of parenting along with accepting it's challenges ❤

[@sofiassr]

I have followed you for sooooo long (used to watch your outfit videos) and have actually grown up with you, and I'm now also a mom of a 2 yo girl ❤ I must say your videos just keep getting better, I don't know how you do it, but just keep doing it for as long as you enjoy, because they are TOTALLY worth it! 🙏 I was wondering if you use a specific app or page for TV cartoons that are not so overstimulating! thank you!!

[@msschenn]

I love your videos Jen! And hearing you u talk, your thoughts and feelings definitely come through !

[@AllThingsGina]

Absolutely love the creative approach of this video

[@MalinaCC]

Only a minute or so in and I just gotta comment on the creativity of this video!! There’s a concept called matrescence that’s often not talked about (the term for the physical, emotional, hormonal, and social transition that a person goes through when they become a mother/parent) and that is what comes to me while watching your video. I’m approaching my 30s and becoming parents is on the horizon for my husband and I now that we’ve basically accomplished what we’ve wanted in our 20s. I have gone through and done many hard things I’ve never thought I could do or get through but when I did, I learned so much and became so empowered and even closer to my people because of it. I know having a child is hard af but a massive part of the human journey of life we want to take and experience. You seem like you have so much energy and clarity on the life you want to live now at this stage of motherhood which is amazing ❤. I love your perspective and appreciate you sharing your thoughts.

[@virginiawu2896]

Jenn, I love your movie directing style. So impressive!!

[@giovarodr]

I just decided to try and the doubts and fears are endless. But this was great, like speaking to a friend. Thank you

[@sujanijayaram5272]

Amazing editing and video Quality !!! Very Nice, Proud of your work and growth

[@maikendao]

Thank God that you’ve found such a good place in parenting! I remember my heart ached when I saw your reaction to your pregnancy test. Isnt that funny, how we can be so scared of one of the best gifts we can have in our life. Parenting is such a humbling and rewarding experience, and its the best job in the world ❤

[@azyz1699]

I needed to hear this. U truly spoke my mind, my heart. Everything I cant put into words ❤

[@jadealexismorter4567]

As a career driven, type a who grew up with fertility concerns and is now 6 months pregnant unexpectedly, this was PERFECT timing. Thanks Jenn

[@nars2467]

This was truly beautiful Jenn, thank you for sharing 💖

[@ZaieN13]

Same experience for me when I found out I was pregnant. Anxiety and shame because I wasn't married yet. Not exactly a positive experience for me but my daughter is a blessing and I'm glad I have her.

[@RelaceHawaii]

I really love this video! Thank you for sharing such valuable insights with us aspiring parents.

[@Jordè1222]

Good slow cartoons free on KZbin; Little Bear, Franklin, Bearinstein Bears, Magic Schoolbuss, Leo the Truck, Curious George, Wild Kratz. Shows like these in moderation can be a nice break for parents and you don't have to worry so much about your child's dopamine being fried like with coco mellon! Also nature documentaries are great with Steeve Irwin and Coyote Peterson! If you have any more suggestions please add to the list :)

[@tamraya23]

Pocoyo, Sarah and Duck, Miffy and Friends, Ben and Holly’s Little Kingdom

[@maryannepadel4442]

Jen!! please write a book.. you're an amazing story teller!

[@darcives]

yess

[@PriscilaSilvaTV]

YES, this video is just wonderful ✨ I’m so happy to see you explore your creativity again, talking about topics you truly care about 🙌🏻

[@samirah278]

I love this positive outlook you have on motherhood! I want to be a mother too one day but it also really scares me

[@Ariadne-n2r]

I'm really proud of being a mom, it's a new and amazing journey🎉❤

[@webgirl]

The beginning feels like an indie movie Jenn. I’m sobbing. Thank you for always helping me in every era of my life. ❤

[@zanesustika1885]

Thank you for sharing it ❤ I have two kids 7 and 6 years old And it's been and still have challenging

[@LoveNotesTo]

We were pregnant around the same time and your videos were so helpful during that journey. Loving this new form of storytelling! ❤

[@Cynthiamhuang]

Thank you for sharing!!❤ I’m weeks away from giving birth and becoming a mama to a baby boy too (!!) - anxious but excited for this next chapter! Thank you for sharing your pov & advice. I resonated a lot with your points about leaning on your family and friends and trying to not put so much pressure on ourselves to be as productive as we used to be or be that “ideal mom”. I find myself already doing that so it’s a good reminder to just let go of that pressure and just enjoy every little moment! I can’t wait to experience everything through his eyes like you mentioned!

[@samanthasy1195]

this was actually so positive and countered all the negativity surrounding parenting Thank you

[@eileenashley10]

Your words speaks lights! i’m a mama of two and your words totally nailed everything 💕💕💕

[@helenatube]

I'm not even a parent, and I love these kinds of videos. This type of heart-to-heart, insightful content on being human is so refreshing and needed on the Internet. Thank you for being an awesome source of content after all these years, despite the challenges parenthood posed upon your ability to KZbin. I will keep watching for as long as you make content like this.

[@ginchieng]

I had to share this on social media because this video is spot on. Loved this video ❤

[@Nutritionbyanni]

I have hardly ever heard someone express it like this - I relate to all of what you say...a LOT! :)

[@missmegs37]

I loved this video! Tysm for sharing your persoective. Im in my third trimester ❤

[@JellyDeMonBelly]

I love this content Jenn! Give us all your wisdom ❤️

[@laurenesquivel]

Thank you for this video, Jenn! Much needed this week. Completely agree about overstimulating kid's programs. The PBS Kids app is free and has a lot of great content for littles. It's go to in our household.

[@LifeExps]

This is why I fell in love with your video, your storytelling style!

[@puruen]

Ty for more parenting episodes! It's so nice to relate to another parent! ❤

[@akemikochan]

Your video production and transitions have gotten really good. Nice job

[@shannonk7812]

I love that you are able to frame being a mother in a positive light, and this may be an unpopular opinion but I wish you stated more of the negatives and hardships of being a mother as well so we get the other side.

[@HerInnerweb]

jenn! I missed your youtube presence so much! this video is so wholesome！

[@sinweichow]

This is how I felt when I got a dog

[@chodingkng4637]

im learning so much from you, always feel like you’re my sister from YT🥹💕 im sure lennon would so proud to have you as a mom💕💕

[@sarrasghaier384]

That’s so mindful and beautiful what you’ve said in the end ❤

[@magicianmana4]

Loved the storytelling in this video!