What INFJ's love about ENFP's

Welcome to my first video where I profess my love for ENFPs, in my own INFJ way ;). Hope you enjoy it! If you want to see a collab video of my best friend and I, leave a comment or thumbs up!

[@giselletauro9942]

As an ENFP I have a natural attraction towards INFJs. I feel I bond really well with INFJs. Everything about them intrigues me. The little things, they way they speak and the way they do the things they do is all so beautiful. I love love INFJs!! Such a wonderful video!! New subbie

[@infjAJ]

Aww! I agree it is the little things I love too about ENFPs. Sometimes it's like this little sparkle or sense of wonder in their eyes and other times it can be the way they're telling a story and catching their minds go down a different rabbit hole. It's super neat 😊

[@silentgrove7670]

Tomorrow I will see an INFJ. It is odd how strangely enchanted I am by her.

[@6KIWIDino5]

They're so carefully and wonderfully worded!!

[@Swusdee]

I'm a certified INFJ and I can confirm this girl is an INFJ. I love how you find your way through the words and thoughts every time you look around. Like the pieces are all there in front of you as you put them together. I look back over my own broadcasts and find that I do the same thing. It's nice to see some of myself in someone else for once. We can be quite the elusive type. Often trapped somewhere in our headspace, indeed. - A Male INFJ

[@infjAJ]

The thought comes somewhat quickly, but being able to express it as clearly as it is in my head is a true challenge at times haha. Making videos like these can feel awkward, but ultimately it allows me to share what floats around in the headspace and never gets a chance to make i's way out. I'm happy to know you relate to what you see :)

[@vicpariah3444]

Are you referring to this? kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZqiknX9vbtt3pJY

[@JPowerMMA]

officialparagonmusic that’s exactly what you have in common with the enfp

[@Candellina]

Finally! An infj confesses us infjs' love for our beloved enfps. I'm an infj and I have a brother who is an enfp and a great friend who's also an enfp. They're my favorite people in the world.

[@Tristen501]

Oh my gosh... the contrast in this video is beautiful. Green / white, dark / light, clean / messy lol. - INFJ here, awesome video!

[@Artnotforthesakeofart]

As an INFJ, I'm glad other fellow INFJs feel the same way about ENFPs. I feel ENFPs are the best people to exist. No matter how proud I am of being an INFJ, I honestly think ENFP type is the best! I can write a whole book on why we love them! XD In a nutshell, you guys are intuitive (we love that), positive, warm, just happy in general and balance our stresses! I hope we (INFJ) contribute to your life too. I should write an open letter to ENFPs..hmm...

[@visionarycatalyst18]

Thank you! I'm an ENFP and I ADORE INFJs. I literally think so highly of you guys and I am so appreciate for the sense of safety, calm and stability you offer that I wonder what I have to offer you! It's mutual. We need you and love you!

[@keithmustanggt]

Im an INFJ and my fiance is an ENFP, It's like were opposite on everything except the stuff that really matters and i think the reason those 2 types work so well together is that the strengths of one make up for the weaknesses of the other and vise versa which balances each other out and helps each other grow.

[@saging08]

My boyfriend is an INFJ and I'm an ENFP. This is the most mature and healthy relationship I've been in and I'm in love with him despite our differences

[@denisemacalino8274]

I’m an ENFP and my boyfriend is an INFJ and you described it so well haha! He does exactly what you do, kind of gathering concepts and making sense of them. And I’m a firework with my ideas all over the place. I think we make a great team. And omg YES I’m always telling my boyfriend that he has to stop caring what other people think and just do what he knows he wants to (so now he’s moving to japan hehe). And YES my INFJs are the people I trust the MOST with my harder emotions. I’m always genuinely surprised and comforted by their insight. I literally have to talk to myself the way I think my INFJ boyfriend would when I’m having anxiety and I can’t ask him for help. Thanks for this! It also makes me understand the INFJs in my life better.

[@infjAJ]

Aww! I am so happy you both have that type of connection and strong bond. I also speak to myself in the way I think an ENFP would or my ENFP friend does when I am trying to solve my own problems or have anxious thoughts as well. So neat.

[@junierousseau6124]

I'm an infj

[@devongibson4161]

ENFP here :) To help expand on the Se/Si dynamic, one way that that can manifest is a general disregard of things like household chores and hands-on tasks like paying bills and such. Everyone has a different relationship with those tasks, but as ENFP’s and INFJ’s we can tend to work together to avoid those things we find mundane. We can actually even get a sense of enjoyment out of talking about how we’re not going to but probably should do those tasks. That often brings more satisfaction than actually doing it - having someone to discuss not doing it with, haha.

[@infjAJ]

Yes, so true!

[@Jo8Nathan]

As an ENFP I can also really feel this special attraction to INFJ. Both to male and female INFJ. And I kind of get this by just your facial expression and eyes. I can kind of see your soul through that, more than any other type (even other ENFPs). And that kind of connection is very obvious in the video you did with Kenzie. That is the exact energy I strive for in my intimate relationships.

[@Veegzee]

ENFP here. This is wicked interesting to listen to. Not just to hear your thoughts of your ENFP friend, but also just how you think in general, how you act and sort through your thoughts. My best friend / boyfriend is an INFJ. There's a lot that I think that we can relate to in regards to you and your friend, and to hear someone else (especially an INFJ) outside of our relationship talk about their own INFJ/ENFP friendship is both wildly intriguing as well as educational. Thank you for making a video about this.

[@6KIWIDino5]

It's so funny you say you didn't like each other at first. My INFJ and I HATED each other at first, but once we sat down and had a real conversation that switch flipped HARD and the next week we were planning a roadtrip

[@6KIWIDino5]

Well, SHE was planning I was suggesting places to go and the things we could do and being the moral support 😂

[@evearho8077]

I love your silent , kind energy! =D I'd like to see a video made by you and your ENFP friend

[@CierraHoulihan]

Fellow INFJ here; It’s crazy how INFJs have similar mannerisms to each other. Is this how people see me when I talk? Lol. So calm. I related to everything you said in this video 💗 my husbands an ENFP.

[@infjAJ]

Haha I’ve always thought the same thing! It’s weird to look back at old videos like this too and to perceive yourself. I always feel like I’m observing another person talk. I wonder if that’s an infj quality or not

[@shikhasuman871]

@@infjAJ It is. Literally, us INFJs are known for our calm nature. And unfortunately, for our internal turbulence too lol. 😂

[@dseer13]

you get there through journaling about your feelings. without starting to contol it. So your fe is expressed through written word and you can analyze it as you would with someone else. its very powerful tool for infjs.

[@juliano9862]

really dont know why infj (my wife) loves me (enfp) but i love her cause... the only person who see behind the mask of " magic unicorn" that i use...

[@juliano9862]

never feel alone again... even be with a lot of people around me..

[@AM-jn9cy]

I guess I never considered my "magic unicorn" part of me a mask. It's just another side of who I am that I prefer to keep front and center most of the time. It's still me though.

[@artemtsarevskiy2785]

@@AM-jn9cy It's absolutely a mask in my opinion, and when I don't have the other sides of my personality equally expressed, I feel like a depressed entertainer.

[@139G20]

@@artemtsarevskiy2785 I'm an ENFP and I know for sure the magic unicorn is a part of me, some people just see that part and I don't feel like the magic unicorn is accepted and embraced enough but what most don't embrace or even realize is the deeper philosophical part and we ENFPs need that. INFJs usually understand those layers.

[@DenisDolisy]

Yes, ENFP's are just that magical complimentary part to us INFJ's. It's even pretty noticeable that you spent so much time with an ENFP in the way you are. It's amazing that you're so open and well developped at that young age. I'm 36 now and only slowly catching up to the point you are already at. But I've discovered MBTI only a couple years ago and never have been exposed to ENFP's until recently.

[@MelodySaleh]

I could listen to you fOREVER!. The way to talk and your calm is so mesmerizing. Listening to you is like a therapy. Salut //Enfp girl, 2w3, who is also sx(/sp/so).

[@smashahn6905]

Hi there beautiful little soul!!! I'm an ENFP (if you cant tell from the picture

[@infjAJ]

Wow. This comment made my day. Thanks for sharing your experience with me. All of the ENFPs in my life (not counting my younger sister) seemed to have found and adopted me, and I couldn't be more grateful for that lol. That said, I'm sure that when you do meet an INFJ in real life, you'll know instantly it's a different kind of connection from others you've had in the past. One thing I didn't mention in here is this kind of unspoken energetic connection I have with them that flows effortlessly and makes me drawn to them magnetically and intensely. This is just platonically speaking to so I can only imagine what it's like romantically. Being in touch with your introverted functions probably has leveled you out and is a healthy way to be and when you do meet that INFJ you'll have an even greater influence on them because of that :) I was in a long term relationship with an ESFP so almost your exact dynamic with your ex. They helped me to come out of my shell a great deal and live life to the fullest, but my heart still longed for that deep connection and understanding found with my ENFPs so I couldn't settle for less than that. It hurt a lot in the beginning, but I have this feeling I'll end up with an ENFP later in life. Thanks again for commenting and feel free to ask me any questions you'd like answered in video form, kinda stuck on what I want to put out next or what would interest people watching!

[@smashahn6905]

@@infjAJ Thanks so much for your reply! I'm glad I could make your day 😊 Its weird, I have a pretty vivid picture in my mind of the depth of such a friendship/relationship, it will be really cool to see how reality fits into my mind picture (or vice versa.) Sorry I didnt have more time to think of a question, but i will think on it more over the next few days. Definitly want to provide some brain fodder if I can 😃 Dont know of its really vlog-worthy but there is one theory I have that ive never really been able to bounce off of anyone (anyone that was intuitive enough for it to make many sense to.lol) Over the years I have noticed patterns between different types and their facial features. Like I can look at someone and usually tell from their forehead lines if they are intuitive or sensing. Or that the shape and size of the eyes for feeling vs. thinking. I can usually tell by the eye lids and hands if they are musicians. And by the upper lip if they are a driven/determined sort of person. I can see chronic depression, or deepseated repressed anger, loneliness in a confidant person, all in the facial features, even before I speak to them... Of course this is not %100 accurate with every person, but I just wondered if you or anyone else has ever noticed or caught onto these patterns? Have a good one Angie!

[@david_oliveira71]

This was so real. Thank you. (INFJ)

[@afro-groworganic-veganhair9628]

Lol Enfp's can go from one idea to 20 ideas . That's me.

[@silentgrove7670]

4:58 Fi Fe difference. Fi can be rather intense in ENFPs. I have been told I have a strong personality. This can manifest in many ways -- pure enthusiasm being one of them, really annoyed can be another. Not everyone can handle it. It is possible it is seen as manipulative by others though I do not feel that is true. Its raw passion. I have even seen me infect rooms with this on occasion. Depends on the group. I have seen it mostly in positive ways and once a sad way. I do not get chances to discuss FI Fe connections. I wish I had MBTI friends,

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

We're natural camelians, but it's about other people not us. Either people get us or the don't and I'm learning not to take that to heart. Since we're planners it's hard to do self adventure, so we love people who bring this into our lives.

[@michaelvey3978]

Wow you’re a lovely infj you combined your words accidentally “querky + dorky =quorky” I do this very often and unintentionally. -Male infj

[@BeWater.MyFriend]

Also an INFJ and I do it too, broseph. Just the other night I sat on my couch watching something and I combined 2 words a character said because they fit so well and I sat there laughing all by myself. Had to pause and finish before I could keep watching 🤣

[@Daviar715]

Gooood damn! I can TOTALLY relate how you smile while rolling your eyes, being there only physically, cuz you're miles away, re-living the memory you're describing. Another Gooood damn here, that sentence was so messy, but I guess we understand each other. Damn. My best friend is female ENFP, and everything you said is so (yes, another one) damn true. Listening to you, watching you as you think and all this other "micro" stuff is insanely satisfying, cause I can totally tell (although I probably wouldn't put that into words, ENFP's role anyways) how you felt. YUUUUH I can relate so much. I totally don't know what to say, but I just want you to know how deeply I *put an emotion consisting of pathos, inner happiness, constant smile and deep understanding here* this. INFJ listening to INFJ. God. Off topic, you're incredibly attractive(?). Idk, it's something more like of an aura you create. Your style is also great. Have a great fun developing your KZbin stuff here! *grins*

[@Orhneeyou]

This is the best infj video I've seen. I'm a fellow infj too and I can't relate more 🙊💕

[@jt_norway9129]

Lol ! :D you just described my own bestfriend relationship with my own bestfriend. Only difference is that we both are males. Ive had the friendship with him since fourth grade in elementary school, which means we have endured eachother for almost 20 years ! :) im an ENFP and he is most def an infj. It shows alot when we decide to do stuff. For instance he like to plan ALOT on forehand and i like to JUMP right into things and go with the flow of it :D He is also quite shy and im the one who pushes him out of his comfort zone and makes him often open up to new things :) Alot of what you described is really similar to what kind of dynamic ive experienced in the relationship with him, made me feel real WOKE about the whole thing :D

[@raechristensen3801]

ENFP here! I find it really interesting how you move just like my INFJ best friend! Even simple things like the way you move your eyebrows and your speech patterns!

[@Mike-mw7ow]

Nice video :) . As an INFJ I get on very well with ENFPs and I am pretty sure that one or more of my best friends is definitely an ENFP. Perhaps for an idea for another video you could interview your best friend or another friend of another type.

[@lifecoachingtoronto]

The corky fun crazy side inside of you that comes out with you're with an ENFP, priceless! :p - ENFP here :)

[@Braddibwai]

Me ( Infj ) & my best friend since we were like 11 met online and been friends since and finally met and started going to the same school eventually we were always the goofballs. EVERYTHING you said about how the relationship between the two was exactly like mine & is 😭😭. It opened my eyes to see this whole time we would share one brain when we were together. I love this video. Thank you. -from and INfJ

[@MeganGandee15]

I’m an INFJ and I get it a lot that I’m intimidating, I feel like you might get that too. I wish I could say that you remind me of myself but I just realized that I see myself as so many different people because I’ve had to be so many different people to fit into different group dynamics. I don’t know who the hell I am.

[@infjAJ]

I have gotten that I am intimidating from the intensity of conversations I have or because of my passion for certain things. I also relate strongly to the shifts of identity or perception of self depending on the environment I am in.

[@whyme8848]

lol -shout out to karl jung

[@shiva_689]

Male Infj here, I can find myself in many of the things you're saying. I would love to watch a video with you and your best friend. I don't comment often on videos. I can definitely feel into what you said about extraverted feeling. I usually don't voice my opinions unless someone prompts me to do so and I'm very reluctant to cause any commotion by bringing up controversial ideas. My best friend is an Infj too and he has reeaaally good taste in music and sometimes at house parties I used to ask him to play some of his music but he would be very uncomfortable with that unless everyone there wants him to do that

[@ArtyMars]

i would definitely trust yourself and Lean into your extroverted intuition in those moments, i'f your whole body and soul is screaming to say or do something, an NF is usually definitely always right about it hahah - what others think doesn't matter, thinking is arbitrary in those intimate social situations that really only require soul and heart and vulnerability

[@shiva_689]

@@ArtyMars I couldn't agree more, very well said :)

[@allbeing24]

as an infj everything u said a can relate and agree with. thank you for this. :)

[@6KIWIDino5]

I saw your organizer on your door and I was just yup! Totally an INFJ cause mine has one too 😂

[@sarabovo2151]

This is so accurate. I'm an infj and I just get on a lot with infps. Also quite scary because I've only dated infps lately... they are just wonderful creatures to me

[@mcleodbw8915]

As an ENFP, I could marry you today lol. You seem amazing and I love your insight on the mind of us (ENFP's) and your friend

[@ArtyMars]

It feels like im losing my INFJ when you guys mirror other people, it, sorta scares me because it feels like your not gonna come back or that what i have with you isnt real either :/ - so it's been stressing me out lately too until i realised what was going on in the INFJ mind haha

[@victoriousjoy9338]

Are you ENFP?

[@allkindofshorts4940]

@@victoriousjoy9338 Probably.

[@jemooistepadkids6354]

I can relate to this! My feelings and thoughts go like: where are you ?!! Can’t feel you right now.

[@justinketchum6869]

Lol!!! This video is literally so on point! I’m and enfp and my last girlfriend was an infj and this is literally exactly what our relationship was like haha! Really awesome video super good job on explaining how enfp’s and infj’s work. Also, one question I have for you as an infj. Do you ever feel like you know something is gonna happen before it happens? The girl who I dated that was infj would tell me all the time after something happened or we went somewhere that she knew in her head it was going to happen. Just wondering from another infj if you felt the same way. Super cool video will be watching anymore you put out!

[@jennabrule3847]

I'm an INFJ and I find that I'm very good at predicting what people will do. Not so good at predicting events that don't have anything to do with human nature though. My boyfriend is also an ENFP just like you are!

[@infjAJ]

Like Jenna said, I feel I am better at predicting things that people may say or do rather than other life events. I think this comes from a lot of subconscious processing INFJs do where we are picking up on patterns we find in the people around us and then attaching those behavioral patterns to the outcomes they usually lead to. However, we may just see the outcome right away and not be able to pinpoint what exact pattern lead us to believe it. Which is why it may seem like our hunches may come out of thin air at times and we may have a hard time explaining this process to other people. People do still surprise us though :) but more times than not I have learned to trust my intuition. I'm glad you could relate to the video!

[@svndvs]

I predict stuff, and they are always right, I guess it’s an INFJ thing to be a psychic, I just usually calculate things or “insights” about someone/something in my head and come up with a scenario and it happens

[@michaelvey3978]

Awww 🥰 “that’s like me” My enfp girlfriend is so impressive she has a ton of Ni though

[@Shidensen23]

ENFP here, great video :D thank you for sharing. you guys are the best!!!

[@mrphotobox2254]

This video really made me smile especially with the samples at the end hahahhaa totally resonated a lot with me and my infj bf :)

[@izy164]

Enfp here. I can really relate to all of your comments on yr friend's personality. ❤️😋

[@maddy1548]

i have never related more to an infj video in my life, its so interesting. thank you for making this :))

[@infjAJ]

Aww! That's amazing! Thanks for watching :)

[@angelicatampilic7460]

Anyone here who've read the book stargirl by jerry spinelli? I have a kind of feeling stargirl is an enfp too ♥️🌻

[@alanaflynn8878]

Angelica Tampilic I've thought very similarly! Stargirl is one of my favorite books. :) I think I've read it three times since I found it.

[@peacefulruler4491]

Oh god you just unlocked a memory I had forget :O

[@naseemkates5476]

Chess game (mental mindset🤔), camouflage (blending in), KZbin newbie (classic😂), people are research projects to INFJs 💯. Bulldoze... I do not see a bulldozer, so 🐃🦏🐗🦈🏊🏾‍♂️... I of these emojis should do. I spent a lot of time looking for emojis or just on this comment. We’re counselors... we want people to confide in us. We do become attached or glued to our thoughts to the point that we feel stuck in our heads. “Um” is our go-to word. Everything that I have said, you also have said and it is true. My request for other videos will probably be on your experiences in a education environment, (High School and or College {Preferable}), specifically on (Participation {Preferable}, Feelings after social interaction, or your circle of friends.) Were you shy? Popular?... Stuff like that. I am in college now, so I just wanted to know if our lifestyles our similar. Plus, a video possibly on how you detect personality types... I was trying to rebel against the concept of it, because it might be a waste of time but it won’t hurt to know who I am conversing with. I took at least 25 minutes to watch and comment on this video. This is a great video 👍🏾😎. Male INFJ

[@infjAJ]

LOVE those ideas. College was a huge time of self-discovery for me and my social capabilities. I graduated last year and the real world is more challenging for sure. Looking back, I think of college now and smile. I hope you savor all the little moments and push yourself out of your comfort zones when the moments arise. I'll make a video on this topic in the very near future. Thanks for the comment!

[@naseemkates5476]

@@infjAJ 👍 Thanks for the advice and the future video, 😎 even though it did not happen yet.

[@flookie6283]

whoaaa at 15:45 I finally pieced it all together. I had that “AHA!” moment and I realized what it’s like to see an INFJ through an ENFP’s perspective.

[@scottfeeney695]

I think the creative stuff as a way to be in the moment is a major thing for infjs.

[@35mm.Famous]

pretty cool watching this as an enfp ! thanks for the perspectiveeeeee !

[@doct1554]

I'm INFJ male and close to a ENFP female at the moment .. hope it ended well cause I don't know when I can finally be her one that she looking for

[@waterbender19]

I've just watched most of your videos and they are all wonderful. I am an enfp and I loved seeing your and Mackenzie's relationship :) im really curious of how you use Fe to understand your own opinion, as an ENFP I have always wondered this and thought, like you said, that you would somehow need to acquire Fi? I would love to see a video on that if you still want to make one!

[@infjAJ]

Thank you! And I love the video idea. My understanding of it is that I have a core to who I am that is unshakeable for the most part and a lot of that is from Ni, my subjective reality. So I think that makes it easy for me to form my own opinions and idea of myself, but I'm more out of touch with how I personally feel or process my own emotions on a matter. Even though they sound like the same thing I think there are certain differences to each statement which I could try to explain in a future video. Thanks for watching and commenting :)

[@Nesallienna]

The other day I was in a discord server for MBTI and I was talking in voice chat with this person and as I was thinking wow I really like this person we get along so well, they revealed they were INFJ (I am ENFP) and I was like ooooh, now I get why they say we click.

[@jennabrule3847]

One thing that I have trouble figuring out about my INFJ type is that I'm very good at figuring out my own emotions and other people's. I wonder if that's because I am almost borderline ENFJ. My best friend is a very introverted INFJ and she has such difficulty figuring out her own emotions and the real reasoning behind her actions but I have no trouble figuring her out at all.

[@infjAJ]

That's interesting. I would say I'm much quicker to realize the emotions of others around me than I am to notice my own. For me to really understand what I'm feeling and why requires active work and removing myself from the presence of others. It's something I have gotten better at overtime though. In the presence of introverted feeling types, this has always made me feel like a T type. If I had an INFJ friend though, maybe I would come to understand myself/the way I deal with emotions quicker by observing these same patterns in them. That's sometimes how I feel when watching videos of other INFJs. It helps me to understand and connect with myself more in a strange way haha :)

[@mysterroniouscherry326]

Wow I'm ENFP and my Bestfriend is an INFJ too.

[@Byteable]

I want a cute ENFP in my life.

[@christopherj5780]

Im intrigued by ENFPs though i keep thinking they have all that energy and people around them. But to hear ENFPs the popular kids at the party are drawn to INFJs. Another one of our weirdness.right infjs?

[@GrafinVonHopper]

Pois é. Até hoje fico imaginando o que faz com que pessoas tão extrovertidas e tão cheias de energia se sintam atraídas por pessoas quietas e por vezes, tímidas.😄

[@duycao9250]

ENFP-A here...wowww you are beautiful!!!!...:)...hmmmm?!?!?!?

[@rayanelina4248]

nice video, you are so beautiful, n i love when you smile ❤

[@jesusarnias1992]

Since second 5 I knew you are an INFJ, 'cause me too 😅

[@Sullyandmel]

Love u gurllll I miss u but idk yaaa oofiee- an infj

[@heliopijpe]

Nice hair (ENFP)

[@thisispi1491]

Girl, you could be my TWIN!!!!!!! 😱😱😱😱

[@atab7734]

Speed up 1.5x for easy watch

[@jemooistepadkids6354]

Typically ENFP I af mine on 1.5 too 🤣

[@ikeysokol7344]

The Money Store

[@michalp1]

Do you have other INFJs as friends?

[@infjAJ]

I have a cousin who is an infj. Haven't seen her in years but we always 'got' each other when we were younger

[@michalp1]

I think I have an ENFP or ENFJ close friend from a totally different culture but we have a lot of fun. Hes all touchy feely but very open and popular with everyone but somehow he is entertained with me and im entertained with his spontaneity. We have done some crazy stuff that I would normally not do. Both of us have become more forgiving of one another. Hes leaving to move back to his country and I will lose a good friend, not forever but it will be long distance. I think sometimes Ive jumped from INFP and INFJ, at the moment Im INFJ.

[@srabonx]

ENFP here. I absolutely adore INFJs. ENFPs you can literally pour love and affections on them.