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👉🏼 DO YOU PULL AWAY IN CONFLICT? Avoidant/Dismissing attachment style often stems and began during your childhood when your parents or caregivers most likely work consistently unresponsive or neglectful. You most likely suffered a significant loss of emotional connection in attunement with your primary caregivers. You learned that people are not dependable. How you coped, how you managed that void, was by not trusting others for your emotional needs; you learned to rely on self-soothing techniques (video games, books, school, etc.) Most likely now you struggle with emotional language connecting with emotions sharing emotions, especially in intimate relationships. In conflict, you most likely manage and navigate by pulling away emotionally, possibly numbing, or withdrawing physically entirely.
👉🏼 The good news is it’s never too late to heal. There is a process called “earned secure attachment” where you can heal any time in your life by retraining yourself by healing from past wounds hurts and traumas.
‼️ One quick exercise, a starting point, if you relate to this and if you feel you connected to this is the following:
- Think of a moment or a memory where you did feel connected to someone. And then ask yourself these questions, how was it for you when you felt seen? What did you notice in your body?
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