What is it like Marrying Indonesian Man?【Eng Sub】嫁给印尼男人是什么样的体验?

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Halo Vera

Halo Vera

Күн бұрын

Hi, Heart to Heart Talk.
What is it like marrying Indonesian man? good or bad?
I certainly praised my Indonesian husband a lot because HE IS MY MAN.
Cross-cultural marriage is indeed not easy at all. I always feel grateful about what I have, I don't want to take my life granted.
If you don't like my video, I am sorry, I just want to record my thought time to time. if you like this video, please subscribe and give a like.
Thank you very much.
hi, 聊聊心里话。
嫁给印尼男人是什么样的体验?好还是不好?好在哪儿?不好在哪儿?
我自己男人我肯定会夸的。跨国婚姻不容易,眼里多盯着好的地方,心里多想着伴侣的优点,生活才会更美好呢😁。如果你不喜欢这个视频的内容,对不起让你闹心了。我只是想记录下我自己的想法,多年后回过头来可以给自己小孩讲故事。
感谢你的支持。

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@ernestinkiriwang8152
@ernestinkiriwang8152 2 жыл бұрын
Bos saya dari China daratan pertama ke Indonesia komplain nya adalah setiap pegawainya rata2 bisa izin sakit minimal 1X dalam sebulan, belum ditambah istirahat makan siang yg panjang jam. Tapi baru 2 tahun di Indonesia dia sudah paham 😁. Udah nggak banyak komplain lagi, udah pasrah kayaknya 😂.
@nelichairi3922
@nelichairi3922 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣👍
@bayuerisgi9165
@bayuerisgi9165 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@aryos6179
@aryos6179 Жыл бұрын
Udah ikutan kebawa santai. Sama kayak orang Jepang yang lama tinggal di Indonesia, bisa makan nasi padang sambil kaki naik kursi
@gwebangetforever
@gwebangetforever 2 жыл бұрын
To get a better health, it's highly recommended to be 'mobile'. Don't be static at bed or chair too long. Go taking a walk, sport, homework, anything that makes you dynamic, either at home or outside home. Good luck.
@virtuous8
@virtuous8 2 жыл бұрын
not enough walking or movement. too much sitting for long causes poor blood circulation which causes frequent illness.
@stevenlimbara2754
@stevenlimbara2754 2 жыл бұрын
我本人也是印尼华裔。去了大陆留学有差不多5年,我能感受到像你说的那个996/007等。真的挺让人闹心😂😂😂有时候会问是否中国人真的像机器人一样不需要休息享受自己生活的样子。灰尘过敏是因为印尼空气不是像新加坡或其他国家那么干净。masuk angin的意思就像感冒一样,这个是普通人的说法。那个'头晕'的意思大部分是正在表达已经感觉到很烦了的意思。
@sofias3733
@sofias3733 Жыл бұрын
👍
@griffinina
@griffinina 2 жыл бұрын
In Indonesia, people try not to ask the grandparents to take care of the grandchildren. The logic is your parents already raised you, so you don’t want to add their burden now that they are in the stage where they should lead a peaceful life. Your husband’s attitude towards earning money sounds similar to my family. I have always been told that earning money is important to make sure you have all you need in life, but don’t be too greedy. Wanting something too much is never good. Aim for “hidup sejahtera”. If you look up on the dictionary, “sejahtera” means “prosperous” and the word “prosperous” is often synonymous to “wealth”. But when my mon says “sejahtera”, she meant: have enough money to have a roof over your head, to have proper meal on the table, to take care of your family, to raise your children properly and send them to good school, and to have enough saving for the rainy day, and if along the way you happen to accumulate large amount of wealth then it’s good. But there’s no pressure to be super rich. The main message is don’t be too greedy that you’re willing to do anything to acquire wealth and neglect your family/your health/harm other people in any way that could earn you bad karma. I’m Indonesian Chinese too, btw.
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
wow, can relate a lot. I do like this kind of attitude.
@erwinlee2842
@erwinlee2842 2 жыл бұрын
Many Indonesian children are raised by their grandparents. The high cost of living, the needs for both husband and wife to earn money, the economic inability to hire a nanny etc etc. Of course everyone does not want to burden their grandparents, but reality sometimes kicks you.
@sayaorangkaya221
@sayaorangkaya221 4 ай бұрын
kalau disana kan gak bisa asal pakai pembantu y wajar dititipkan orang tua karna mereka harus kerja
@marlenelim9382
@marlenelim9382 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed! Very supportive and family come first. But my Indonesian husband don't get sick easily. I am the one pusing easily. Lol. I am Singaporean btw. Just subscribed to you!
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
thank you Marlene. wish you all the best in Indonesia.
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
Most of the Indonesian men that Chinese girls are married to are of Chinese descent. I rarely see Chinese girls actually married to indigenous Indonesian men like Javanese, Sundanese and Dayak etc. But I see quite a number of Japanese girls married to indigenous Southeast Asian men like Filipino and Indonesian.
@joecoppen-kairouz9067
@joecoppen-kairouz9067 2 жыл бұрын
@@jackjackyphantom8854 so? there's nothing wrong with that
@joecoppen-kairouz9067
@joecoppen-kairouz9067 2 жыл бұрын
@@jackjackyphantom8854 my mom is chinese indo and my dad is pure javanese, u definitely need to go outside more
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
@@joecoppen-kairouz9067 I'm talking about girls from China, Hong Kong and Taiwan. Many Indo Chinese are mixed, born to Chinese father and indigenous mother.
@ha836122
@ha836122 2 жыл бұрын
Cici sepertinya bahagia banget.. Suami Cici orang Chinese Indonesia, tapi budaya laki laki orang Indonesia banget. Semoga suaminya sehat selalu.
@bima0205
@bima0205 2 жыл бұрын
Woi bro jangan panggil dia cici bro nanti dia marah, soalnya dia belum tau budaya 🇮🇩,yg dipanggil cici itu menurut dia orang Cina original itu yang pantas saudara nya atau kerabatnya
@bima0205
@bima0205 2 жыл бұрын
Dia itu bukan cindo kalo lo panggil dia cici pasti dia bilang gini "嘿该死的你是谁"
@tisonmarlen4246
@tisonmarlen4246 Жыл бұрын
@@bima0205 kita memanggil dia cici adalah bentuk penghormatan yang bersifat akrab dan sebagai wujud kita tidak membedakan orang👍
@sayaorangkaya221
@sayaorangkaya221 4 ай бұрын
​@@bima0205teeus mglnya apa ? mba apa tante aja?😂
@jackfan9797
@jackfan9797 3 жыл бұрын
哈哈哈,感觉你很幸福,由内而外的那种,国内女孩结婚后都会非常累,工作家庭都要照顾,祈祷国内家庭妇女活的越来越轻松。
@MaarifSuryadi
@MaarifSuryadi 2 жыл бұрын
It's very true about your "dizzy" statement. I'm Indonesia, i feel dizzy frequently when it's hot, sleep unweel, drink less water, and working too long.
@Kobenoz
@Kobenoz 3 жыл бұрын
As an Indonesian father of two, I can tell you that most of the points are true (with slight differences and explanations)! Salam buat suaminya, bilang; banyak minum tolak angin... =)
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
oh i know this "tolak angin" is the magic syrup. 😁Indonesian MUST have at home.
@Kobenoz
@Kobenoz 3 жыл бұрын
@@halo_vera Yup, the magic syrup... 😜
@tonyeclau
@tonyeclau 3 жыл бұрын
Tolak angin is very good. I've forgotten about it. A friend brought some to Thailand. Some of the Thais said it is very good too!
@j.pmuliartha1142
@j.pmuliartha1142 2 жыл бұрын
Masuk Angin.... Tolak Angin / make sense
@sofyan_hadi
@sofyan_hadi 2 жыл бұрын
@@stampeldewa wkwkw.. 😂
@mamatgaol7819
@mamatgaol7819 2 жыл бұрын
Your husband is Chinese Indonesian, so they still have lots of old Chinese cultural custom especially for weddings
@elokmutiara276
@elokmutiara276 2 жыл бұрын
Orang Indonesia sering "masuk angin" karena sering "kerokan". Apa suamimu sering "kerokan"? Setelah aku lulus sekolah, dan pergi ke luar kota untuk kuliah & kerja, aku hidup sendiri tanpa keluargaku. Di tahun pertama, aku sering masuk angin, tapi aku cuma istirahat, minum air hangat / teh hangat / susu jahe hangat sesering mungkin, dan tidak kerokan. Aku tidak pernah melakukan kerokan lagi semenjak hidup sendiri, dan dalam kurun waktu 8 tahun itu, hanya terhitung 1-2 kali saja aku sakit "masuk angin". Aku berpikir mungkin alasannya karena aku tidak pernah "kerokan" lagi. Aku juga baca di internet bahwa "kerokan" dapat membuat pori2 kita semakin besar dan mudah membuat kita "masuk angin" lagi. Aku harap informasi ini membantu.
@novrahadi8568
@novrahadi8568 2 жыл бұрын
Most Indonesian men prioritize their family, so they don't work so hard like Chinese men and Korean men. That's very common in Indonesia.
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
Most Chinese girls only marry Chinese men in Indonesia, but they look down on men of indigenous ethnicities like Javanese, Sundanese and Dayak etc. But I see quite a number of Japanese girls married to indigenous Southeast Asian men (mostly Filipinos and Indonesians).
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know why but it seems that many Japanese girls love Austronesian men.
@sho9214
@sho9214 2 жыл бұрын
@@jackjackyphantom8854 many Japanese women married foreigners not only Filipino
@tatosetiono2832
@tatosetiono2832 2 жыл бұрын
Nice Share Cici, i like it, btw just fyi, housewife in Indonesia is the highest job for wife carrier, why? Because in our religion, every women will be a basic foundation for their children ... In Islam, we must loving "mother" 3 times than father ... 💖💖💖
@sho9214
@sho9214 2 жыл бұрын
I think her husband is not Muslim , cos he’s Indonesian Chinese ?
@j_indonesia
@j_indonesia 3 жыл бұрын
漂亮姐姐谢谢您拍片跟大家分享印尼!已将您的频道加到我们的首页「印尼KZbinr精选频道」,谢谢您的视频与付出,辛苦了!
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
非常谢谢你,小傑。我也有看你的视频。我们一起加油。
@j_indonesia
@j_indonesia 3 жыл бұрын
@@halo_vera 做视频是很累人的工作,漂亮姐姐要坚持下去,我挺你!
@susanvilla3442
@susanvilla3442 3 жыл бұрын
不要換成印尼護照,中國護照將來關鍵時刻有用。
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
China has bad international image. I don't think Chinese passport is going to be useful anytime soon.
@abcabc-bu9wn
@abcabc-bu9wn 2 жыл бұрын
I agree that when i was in indonesia, I felt sick easily. now that I live in singapore, I almost never fall sick, maybe once in 3 to 4 years I have since came to conclusion that it was caused by food and air cleanliness if you observe indonesia food, curry here, curry there, everything doused with santan, everything is deep fried (bebek goreng, tempe goreng, tahu goreng, ikan goreng). delicious! but toxic in another way I have also observed, in comparison to clean singapore drainage system, you can see all the black dirty stuff, complete with faecal matter inside the drain. then gov worker clean them by scooping all the matters from inside to the roadside and let it dry. so the air became very dirty so in my opinion, why our body get sick is because it is our natural way of getting rid of all this toxin either from food or from the air that we inhale.
@yennyyang3155
@yennyyang3155 2 жыл бұрын
不是每个印尼人都很会生病。我和我老公几乎都很少生病的。
@indrawanpenyok5773
@indrawanpenyok5773 2 жыл бұрын
Menurit saya resiko membuka dialog ke netizen ya seperti ini , pasti ada yang dewasa dan juga ada yang kekanak-kanakan..., tapi cobalah jangan sampai rasis , karena tidak ada manusia yang sama dan sempurna
@Firman_Ir
@Firman_Ir 2 жыл бұрын
If you divorce, you will divide your wealth in two, including your children. your ex-husband has to pay you some amount of money, depending on how long you've been married. so this is a long process through the religious, civil courts. its pain in the....
@raimitodd
@raimitodd 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing. it's very interesting to know your view towards the cultural & habitual differences of people from different backgrounds. stay safe and keep your family safe & whole :)
@tkhchief
@tkhchief 4 ай бұрын
I thougt its depend on his personaity and you selera or taste...hi...?!!😂all depend or your family valùe baby...
@anangyunanto4619
@anangyunanto4619 3 жыл бұрын
Masuk angin, I think just Indonesian local man that got it, but Indonesian Chinese man too? 😁 may be you rarely sick because in your country have 4 season, so you adapted better than us with the season / weather changed. But that just my opinian, by the way I never got masuk angin disease for years . Just influensa sometimes. Thanks for the sharing Experience .. Gbu 🙏
@luweiwei1050
@luweiwei1050 2 жыл бұрын
嫁来印尼最大的好处就是女人不用干家务带小孩,因为有保姆。但是相比国内,户外游玩娱乐网购等真的太少了,而且出门交通真的堵车堵到心累。个人感觉日常消费相比国内贵,总体来说,嫁来印尼,会很想家,远嫁的姑娘真的不容易。
@ysoignoran1028
@ysoignoran1028 2 жыл бұрын
I think it’s because Indonesian men rarely do much exercise, most of the Indonesian men I know are like that as well, cars and maid, by the time they are in their mid-30s, we have grown a “spare tire” 😂
@OnStages
@OnStages 2 жыл бұрын
Simple word for you all, if you want to marry an Indonesian (male/female), you're not marry to him/her only but his/her whole family. So, prepare yourself.
@張雍-z8p
@張雍-z8p 3 жыл бұрын
結婚那裡人都好! 因為相愛而結婚,有什麼不好呢!對不! 但基本上是要有充足的麵包給老婆及家庭!
@張雍-z8p
@張雍-z8p 3 жыл бұрын
印尼人男女, 老少都很容易生病! 也許是體質,及營養問題! 但90後的小孩已逐漸改善!
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
哈哈哈,是的呢。赞同👍。
@kaslie6461
@kaslie6461 2 жыл бұрын
@@張雍-z8p 这个看地区吧,哈哈哈。我个人一两年多没发烧了,顶多只是一点不舒服。至于“Masuk Angin" 这个词,在我住的城市是不存在的。我去了雅加达后才知道有这样的说法。
@momihutomo1231
@momihutomo1231 2 жыл бұрын
terimakasih kontennya, 👍👍🇨🇳❤️🇮🇩mantap Indonesia itu surganya dunia, selamat berbahagia dan bersenang senang bersyukur dan be Happy 😊😁🙏
@Penangist
@Penangist 3 жыл бұрын
你好!我来自马来西亚槟城的华人,我们马中关系很好!希望疫情结束后来马来西亚玩
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
Only Chinese in Malaysia have good relationship with China for obvious reason. Malays and Indians don't have much affinity with China. Not to mention that the gov are mostly Malays and u even have Malay Monarchs. Don't think u can represent the whole Malaysia.
@adityaghozali538
@adityaghozali538 3 жыл бұрын
kalau masuk angin, mungkin beberapa orang indonesia tidak terbiasa dengan udara/suhu dingin, apalagi kalau orang yang begadang malam-malam, lalu paginya bekerja
@Sharon-Hsu
@Sharon-Hsu 3 жыл бұрын
內容講的跟我男友(印尼華僑)說的一樣🤣以前跟台灣人交往都不知道原來有人結婚可以過很爽~(有傭人、司機、要不要工作隨你、印尼房子又會比台灣大很多)如果跟台灣人結婚估計要工作、要顧小孩、要煮飯、要打掃、要跟公婆住,然後我男友也常常「身體進風」,以前第一次聽到滿頭問號❓還去google什麼是身體進風🤣
@chenkezhen5363
@chenkezhen5363 3 жыл бұрын
@@halo_vera 这我不认同,98年过去才不久,不要忘记防人之心不可无,不可松懈危机意识,无论如何都要把华语和中华文化传给下一代
@赤い猫-c3o
@赤い猫-c3o 2 жыл бұрын
@@chenkezhen5363扔掉你的消极想法.. 印度尼西亚是一个维护和平的国家
@chenkezhen5363
@chenkezhen5363 2 жыл бұрын
@@赤い猫-c3o 那为什么到今日印尼华人还不可以全面学习自身的华语?
@kaslie6461
@kaslie6461 2 жыл бұрын
@@chenkezhen5363 不可以吗?从哪里知道的?
@chenkezhen5363
@chenkezhen5363 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaslie6461 你是不是印尼人,如果不是就自己去查,如果是就不要在自欺欺人
@knightproject6641
@knightproject6641 2 жыл бұрын
Yeay.....proud to be Indonesian Man 😂🙏👏
@raionhato-v1c
@raionhato-v1c 2 жыл бұрын
Hiiii! Nice video, thank you for creating this! I'm sorry if this comes across as personal or sensitive, but did you have to covert to Muslim or could you have free choice on what religion (if you have any) you want to believe in? Thank you so much and if its uncomfortable you don't need to answer my question but I will really like to know how it was like for you, 谢谢姐姐! 💕
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
hi,dear. Thank you for watching.🤗 well u know most Chinese don’t have any religion if living in China. But My husband is Christian, so I am naturally tagged with his religion, attend activities in his church, currently it is like this.
@raionhato-v1c
@raionhato-v1c 2 жыл бұрын
@@halo_vera ohh I see 好的, 谢谢姐姐! 💕
@radenpollux
@radenpollux 2 жыл бұрын
Masuk angin are a unique disease that only exists in Indonesia 😁😁😁
@prime1555
@prime1555 2 жыл бұрын
U look like Riyo Mori, Miss Universe 2007 from Riben
@bungkar
@bungkar Жыл бұрын
Adakah yang bisa bahasa indonesia
@xana6696
@xana6696 3 жыл бұрын
Wkwkwwk😂😂 No.2 Not That Ambitious, memang orang Indonesia santuy2
@tisonmarlen4246
@tisonmarlen4246 Жыл бұрын
Mungkin karena kita hidup di lingkungan tropis dan agama samawi kita juga mempengaruhi kita untuk Santai dan hanya sedikit bekerja👍
@宋J-o5u
@宋J-o5u 3 жыл бұрын
運動量不足, 易生病。
@跳动的音乐
@跳动的音乐 3 жыл бұрын
印尼真的太了了啊
@林虤
@林虤 Жыл бұрын
老公是华裔人士吗?看长相有点
@hendyhuang2989
@hendyhuang2989 2 жыл бұрын
妳嫁給印尼人. 妳老公是那一土族還是華人? 土族和華人的文化完全不一樣. 印尼華人也是印尼人,不是中國人. 妳嫁給印尼人加入印尼藉.已是印尼人或印尼華僑.不再算是中國人了.
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
个人原因没有加入印尼籍,谢谢。
@Hht58
@Hht58 Жыл бұрын
男人经常生病 体力透支
@sofias3733
@sofias3733 Жыл бұрын
sakit kepala
@andia968
@andia968 3 жыл бұрын
I am indonesian chinese and interested in marrying a mainland girl, will there be many culture shocks? esp with a girl from northern china?
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
it depends, depends on your girlfriend. of course there are culture shocks, but as long as you are open minded, and take it easy, u will be fine. wish you and your girlfriend all the best.
@billlee6
@billlee6 2 жыл бұрын
印尼人的饮食不够营养,喜欢吃炸的。好好的新鲜鱼也炸,好吃是好吃,但鱼的营养都被炸坏了。然后懒得走路,不够运动。我本人也是这种爱吃炸食物和懒运动的印尼人。
@tunjungwangisekarasih2217
@tunjungwangisekarasih2217 2 жыл бұрын
you met a very nice man, there's a lot if Indonesian men who's not like your husband. but yeah every Indonesian called Masuk Angin for every symptom. you've got a cold? masuk angin. you've got a headache?masuk angin. everything is solved with the mighty 'KEROKAN', even my co worker said that i need to have a 'kerokan' for my masuk angin, just because i walked a little limping after a bad stretching
@narutodanboruto8984
@narutodanboruto8984 2 жыл бұрын
Apakah saya sendiri disini yang ga bisa bahasa Tionghoa dan bahasa Inggris? Tapi penasaran dan mencoba memahami 🤣🤣..
@yohansenhansen9025
@yohansenhansen9025 2 жыл бұрын
Not really.. actually im try to understand her language just like u.. i dont really understand what she say..
@sofyan_hadi
@sofyan_hadi 2 жыл бұрын
Buka google translate ngap 😂
@tkhchief
@tkhchief 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Piao, so where you choose for stay on Indonesia..?? Im Tom from Solo. Central Java...
@wimastatanzil3566
@wimastatanzil3566 2 жыл бұрын
所谓的Masuk Angin 用中文表达更适合是叫 “上风” , 因为睡觉,开车,去商场常常吹空调有温度的变化所以容易上风,而不是 “进风” ,进风听起来怪怪的
@mamangmomentum7317
@mamangmomentum7317 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, masuk angin is very common. I don't know how other countries don't have this.
@Indo.Barefaced
@Indo.Barefaced Жыл бұрын
我认为嫁给一个印尼(中国人)男人是一笔财富,他们非常支持他们的妻子和理解。
@littlewomen8563
@littlewomen8563 3 жыл бұрын
印尼人比較有禮貌
@hendyhuang2989
@hendyhuang2989 2 жыл бұрын
沒錯. 最有禮貌的是印尼人;但最沒禮貌的是大陸人.
@mangayubuwono4726
@mangayubuwono4726 2 жыл бұрын
Try to exercise regularly so your husband can avoid " masuk angin" 🤭😁
@hendryanfield84
@hendryanfield84 2 жыл бұрын
Anda harus buat ulang konten ini dengan bahasa Indonesia
@justfortrollpeople8531
@justfortrollpeople8531 2 жыл бұрын
dia masih kesulitan dalam mengucapkan jadi dia prefer subtitle.
@gohkhenglong9493
@gohkhenglong9493 3 жыл бұрын
进风我只会用在肚子,因为饿肚子就会涨风嘛。另外确实生活节奏是较慢的,为什么呢?因为急不来嘛哈哈哈。一个人急有什么用啊,其他人都不急,所以冷静和耐心是“陪练”出来滴。看地方吧,中国就不一样了🤣
@homework3558
@homework3558 2 жыл бұрын
Your husband is Chinese descend or native Indonesian?
@LemillionBoy
@LemillionBoy 2 жыл бұрын
Happy Paskah Jesus Bless you
@hyenasang7756
@hyenasang7756 2 жыл бұрын
jika suami anda sering masuk angin , maka anda harus bisa yang namanya Kerokan
@kwokholuk8723
@kwokholuk8723 2 жыл бұрын
阿飄, 你嫁了個好丈夫, 有一個幸福的家庭, 但不是每個印尼男人或每個印尼華人男人都是好丈夫吧! 不能以偏概全吧! 我看你的丈夫是印尼華人吧, 因你曾說你和公婆以普通話交流, 印尼華人仍保留着不少傳統中國文化。
@jackjackyphantom8854
@jackjackyphantom8854 2 жыл бұрын
When the girl said that she married to an Indonesian man, I had already guessed that it's probably Chinese Indonesian. Because Chinese girls don't usually marry indigenous Indonesian men. But in Singapore and Malaysia, there are still local Chinese girls married to Malay men.
@psloboy7134
@psloboy7134 2 жыл бұрын
Indonesian want to to enjoy what is available...what fir we have a lot of money, a very good house, but most of the time you are in work place, very intens, stress, has no time to enjoy your beautiful house, can not enjoy your money..your money in the bank, bankir who enjoy it,
@fendyvin3998
@fendyvin3998 2 жыл бұрын
Thats true...
@aisyahihromi3069
@aisyahihromi3069 2 жыл бұрын
Agree about very easy to get sick 😅 I even discuss it with my sister in law since her husband is my husband's brother and he also easy to feel unwell lmao it's almost 5 days a week
@ankaagriya1553
@ankaagriya1553 2 жыл бұрын
Masuk angin? Cara mengatasinya sederhana....rutin olah raga
@billlee6
@billlee6 2 жыл бұрын
印尼男人一般不喝酒。
@tisonmarlen4246
@tisonmarlen4246 Жыл бұрын
Kita tidak minum alkohol atau jarang karena kita hidup di lingkungan tropis👍
@宋J-o5u
@宋J-o5u 3 жыл бұрын
进风是受凉。masuk angin 受凉后身体都会出现不舒服
@guoyuanfa8290
@guoyuanfa8290 2 жыл бұрын
我建议您老公每天游泳半个小时,大概三四个月后体质就一定改善。
@guoyuanfa8290
@guoyuanfa8290 2 жыл бұрын
我以前也有类似情况,我去游泳游哇试,半年就好了。
@verrychandra8710
@verrychandra8710 2 жыл бұрын
Kok gak ada terjemahannya?😔
@siscaw.rudolf194
@siscaw.rudolf194 3 жыл бұрын
Betul banget cici ❤
@TeoZTV
@TeoZTV 2 жыл бұрын
我们印尼男人压力不太大。
@luweiwei1050
@luweiwei1050 2 жыл бұрын
Masuk angin, 进风😅
@aaronhu6552
@aaronhu6552 3 жыл бұрын
最近也有考虑娶个印尼老婆。。。
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
印尼女孩子很温柔善解人意啊 可以的哈哈哈
@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼
@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼 2 жыл бұрын
“女性的第一位是家庭”其实当你说了这一句话,跟那些说女人工作太努力不顾家的人没有什么区别了,只是同一个意思在不同语境下的表达罢了。 印尼信的是伊斯兰教,听你的描述你老公应该是一个高素质受过高等教育的人,你的婆家人也很开朗。但是在大环境下印尼的华人在印尼政治力量薄弱,经济实力强大,宗教信仰与社会主流不同,简直就是政客眼中的肥羊。中国强大了他们不敢继续排华,你的家庭环境优越也看不到歧视华人的印尼人。 作为同胞我也希望你在海外的生活越来越好,但是还是希望你不要放弃中国国籍,因为当出现紧急情况时,保留中国国籍就可以求助中国大使馆,那时候国家就是你的后盾,假如没有中国国籍,那么就算国家想帮你那也是鞭长莫及。
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
谢谢您的关心,谢谢您的评论。 不过我看不懂你第一段想要表达啥。我视频里表达的是,在印尼,社会共识是不管男女,都是家庭第一位(视频内容第二点专门讲了印尼男人把家庭放第一位),只不过男女分工不一样,完成自己的角色任务基础下,干啥都行。但共识也只是共识,人口那么多,也不是每个人都按照共识来,多的是工作的事业女性,也多的是不养家的男性,也还有很多能平衡好工作和家庭的男女。我猜你是想说努力工作的女性比努力照顾家庭的女性优越?想表达女性要独立些不拘泥于家庭比较好?还是别的啥🤨 第二段第三段,这里真心的感谢关心,陌生人能能苦口婆心打这么字,你对我的善意我真的感受得到❤。谢谢啦。你说的这些都是我和我老公的共识,我们的孩子也保留了中国籍☺。 因为你打了这么多字,所以我也回复多一点字数以示尊重😂,感谢阅读。
@khoirullahhasibuan3248
@khoirullahhasibuan3248 2 жыл бұрын
Orang orang seperti anda yg memicu kebencian ras,. China sudah menguasai ekonomi dan anda juga ingin menguasai politik indonesia, rakus sekali anda ini, Apakah anda ingin etnis uighur mengusai ekonomi dan politik di negri china dan menyingkirkan etnis han ?..Jadi jangan jadi rakus dan jadilah orang indonesia yg baik yg berjuang untuk Kemajuan indonesia...dan untuk catatan indonesia tidak pernah takut terhadap negara china.....
@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼
@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼 2 жыл бұрын
@@khoirullahhasibuan3248 Uyghur memang terlibat dalam politik di cina. Pemerintah pusat dan lokal memiliki pejabat uyghur. Warga uighur merupakan bagian dari warga cina, dan warga han memperlakukan warga seperti saudaranya sendiri. Orang indonesia tidak menganggap orang yang mempunyai kewarganegaraan indonesia sebagai anggota keluarga mereka sendiri. Ketika anda mengatakan bahwa sebagian orang di indonesia hanya bisa mengendalikan ekonomi, itu sangat kekanak-kanakan. Cepat atau lambat, orang rasis akan menghabisi diri mereka sendiri karena alasan picik.
@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼
@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼 2 жыл бұрын
@@khoirullahhasibuan3248 Seluruh dunia, cina, tahu apa yang terjadi di indonesia pada tahun 1998. kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGiQY4xtm7eCh5I
@khoirullahhasibuan3248
@khoirullahhasibuan3248 2 жыл бұрын
@@叶文洁不爱吃胖头鱼 anda itu picik dan pembohong dan juga rasis,. Warga keturunan china diperlakukan sama di indonesia, boleh menduduki jabatan politik dan punya hak yg sama dengan etnis manapun di indonesia, semenjak repormasi indonesia sudah berubah, tidak ada lagi pembatasan untuk etnis tertentu di indonesia jadi anda jangan menyebarkan kebohongan...
@boinloho8919
@boinloho8919 2 жыл бұрын
Suaminya mana?
@nieqh
@nieqh 3 жыл бұрын
You follow Huang hua's footstep.... She is happy wife now
@hasanhalim7986
@hasanhalim7986 2 жыл бұрын
很喜欢你的视频,这样就好,说中文放字幕,再加印尼字幕更好 this channel will grow
@Enny-sr5jm
@Enny-sr5jm 2 жыл бұрын
👍
@ulatkupu
@ulatkupu 2 жыл бұрын
I think your husband easily get sick because he doesn't eat or drink healthy foods, or doesn't sleep well??
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
don‘t know,i feel he is lacking of exercise.
@sofyan_hadi
@sofyan_hadi 2 жыл бұрын
It's a common disease in Indonesia, enough rest is already cured 😂
@pidikwahono8888
@pidikwahono8888 3 жыл бұрын
In Indonesia Marriage mean" New world" . Different than past. No friend, no hangout etc
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
😭welcome to the "real world".
@林世育-g9d
@林世育-g9d 2 жыл бұрын
覺得的情況不一樣~你們應該經濟狀況良好才請得起保母吧?
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
普通中产都可以.
@indragon31ify
@indragon31ify 2 жыл бұрын
But your husband is Indonesian chinese, not the real Indonesian actually
@polapopinstudio8640
@polapopinstudio8640 2 жыл бұрын
Who are real Indonesian?
@KURINBILQISSALWA
@KURINBILQISSALWA 2 жыл бұрын
Aduh komennya jgn ada unsur rasis dong... Kenapa kita harus membeda-bedakan sementara ktp kita sama2 indonesia, lahir dan besar juga di indonesia... Sebaliknya, kalau anak yg ortunya wong jowo tapi lahir dan besar di negara orang, sangat jarang merasakan secara langsung budaya indo, bahkan bicara bahasa indo juga agak2 gak ngerti, what you would call that?
@indragon31ify
@indragon31ify 2 жыл бұрын
@@KURINBILQISSALWA Hmm? Bukannya mereka sendiri yg ogah ogahan membaur dan lebih bangga kalau mereka chinese daripada indonesian?
@KURINBILQISSALWA
@KURINBILQISSALWA 2 жыл бұрын
@@indragon31ify it depends on the people? Setidaknya chinese di sekelilingku ga kek gt sih... Ga baik juga ngejudge yg lain hanya karena beberapa kaum ya kan
@林世育-g9d
@林世育-g9d 2 жыл бұрын
容易生病?是想放假吧嘿嘿~
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 2 жыл бұрын
天气比较潮湿确实更容易生病.
@alhazriewijaya5745
@alhazriewijaya5745 3 жыл бұрын
Very good
@mohamadllchoyumhh5338
@mohamadllchoyumhh5338 3 жыл бұрын
Ow kakak menikah dengan tionghoa Indonesia setelah saya lihat video hingga akhir saya tau nama suami kakak xiao pang wwhh
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
LOL, "xiao pang" means "little chubby kid" in mandarin. 😅
@mohamadllchoyumhh5338
@mohamadllchoyumhh5338 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry my bad.I didn't know that hh
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
@@mohamadllchoyumhh5338 oh don't feel bad, actually in mandarin it shows affection.haha. no worries.
@gmsaikonoltd6853
@gmsaikonoltd6853 3 жыл бұрын
Bagus
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
makasih 😁
@stephaniesalim479
@stephaniesalim479 3 жыл бұрын
我比较好奇你和你老公是以什么语言沟通的呀😂
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
我们用英语😂 我还在学习印尼语中,我老公只会数1-10的中文。。。
@GThinks
@GThinks 3 жыл бұрын
@@halo_vera 靠第二语言了解彼此,不简单欸,好佩服你们! 😄
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
@@GThinks 😂😂没办法
@zzni8327
@zzni8327 3 жыл бұрын
大屠杀忘了吗
@halo_vera
@halo_vera 3 жыл бұрын
您更让人难忘。
@khoirullahhasibuan3248
@khoirullahhasibuan3248 2 жыл бұрын
Holocaust apa maksudmu ?..apakah apakah pembunuhan masal saat revolusi budaya di china atau pembantaiyan jepang di nanqing atau persekusi etnis uighur....
@fendyvin3998
@fendyvin3998 2 жыл бұрын
@@khoirullahhasibuan3248 suku Batak jangan ikut campur dengan masalah Chinese..kami lebih mandiri dari Batak...
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