What Is Sex Like for Straight Men? | Sex Ed

[@Anonymousek8]

My heart goes out to the guy who told the girl no, but she didn’t listen. Girls need to be more aware that we can coerce too.

[@muslimresearcher6806]

@@yes.5142 No you

[@reyxx777]

@@AreebProductions bruh shup

[@AreebProductions]

@@Alexjamesfreirik1556 bruh! Get a life

[@bossytweed6664]

So true. I realized that I did something similar in a past relationship and looking back now I regret it wholeheartedly. We definitely need to be more understanding and accountable of this.

[@sub-harmonik]

coercion requires some threat. It isn't just pressuring. You can pressure someone into sex or rape someone without coercion tho.

[@lassmallieber7569]

Dude in the dark blue hoodie seems like a really nice person

[@mirrorball1]

He's smart, getting good vibes from him

[@cynthiaisako]

Yup I agree

[@aufaforfun1191]

Ikr

[@ryanissa3353]

He was in the biden voters spectrum video

[@martinda7446]

Was absolutely enchanted by him. The people closest to him must be really proud. I would be proud to know him too..

[@kaylynnklinges8374]

the fact that the men were so perplexed at the thought of their partner asking them for consent was heart breaking. and for the man that was raped, made it even more clear how much consent is needed for both parties

[@rebeccamace1534]

I felt the same way. Broke my heart. With both of the sexual partners I've had, I've asked for consent, even if they were the initiated it. could never touch someone intimately or do anything intimate without their consent.

[@Luxembourgish]

@@rebeccamace1534 Everyone is different, some communicate consent non-verbally as things heat up (Woman grabs his crotch to signal escalation, man grabs her crotch in response). It's always good to ask to make sure, but once a couple knows each other non-verbal communication can be okay too.

[@calliestreet1178]

I think it's because people don't automatically assume that lack of consent means rape- meaning rape is a violent, painful act. But that's only in certain circumstances. Rape isn't always physically painful, but it's still damaging either way. Just like you don't have to hit someone to abuse them. Sex is an intimate act for everyone involved, so therefore everyone needs to be respectful. This doesn't just apply to men, it also applies to women. I once had sex when I was too inebriated to consent, I couldn't even voice the word no let alone get him off me. Was it painful? No. It even felt nice at times (from what I remember) but I felt dirty and trapped. The awful thing is, I don't even think he realized what was happening, and that's because we aren't taught about consent. Our view of rape is usually a worst-case scenario so the rest gets swept under the rug.

[@Luxembourgish]

@@calliestreet1178 Would you agree that a new word should be made to distinguish intent? Like Negligent Rape, in cases where "The awful thing is, I don't even think he realized what was happening, and that's because we aren't taught about consent" as you said.

[@Nat-tx7xi]

same. I agree. very sad....

[@NiniZim]

I didn't realise how much I just love listening to men talk honestly and vulnerably. And it sucks that men are portrayed to be sex-crazed and down to do it with any woman. That can lead to harmful stuff.

[@smendes2004]

Yeah, and it is really ironic to just realise that women are the real sex-crazed gender, not men.

[@NiniZim]

@@smendes2004 I think that's harmful too. We shouldn't assume anyone is sex-crazed. Most people enjoy sex but not all the time and not with anyone. That's the take away.

[@sire1169]

@Amazing World 💀💀

[@isabella6075]

They perpetuate that stereotype the most 😂😂

[@WillPutYouToYourPlace]

@Amazing World Are you tryna prove her wrong? Lmao

[@lillpill5644]

The guy in the blue hoodie needs to be protected at all costs 🥺🥺

[@Ez-qz5bq]

@@almondchip3490 what how

[@indubitably7906]

@@almondchip3490 do you mean the guy at 8:39?

[@chosa6158]

I had the same problem and it was emberresing but when i learned to reacts and the right ones came it was easy

[@ghostyens]

@@almondchip3490 you're confusing him with a different person. you mentioned the omegle jubillee video in another comment, but that's not the same guy as here.

[@99suad]

There's two guys with a blue hoodie, which one?

[@jordanserumula3036]

Interviewer: Can you name all the parts down there? Guy: I’m not a scientist

[@janette5284]

That made me laugh 🤣 I was like bro 😂

[@brialeah7351]

Lmfaoooooo

[@karennqz]

I am laughing so hard right now 🤣

[@jamielynnwallace1125]

I never knew any woman who could name all the guy parts correctly either...they might have known the “ street name”, but the medical name was out of the question.

[@KaylaSteen]

@@jamielynnwallace1125 yeaaaa but they keep our parts in global and national conversations. My thinking is that you ought to know how it works before you go chasing or trying to control it. lol

[@alexandramurray8018]

Guy in the blue hoodie seems like the most caring partner a girl could wish for. You a real one, man.

[@thesenate9455]

thank you for typing dude and not black man etc, a lot fo people express it that way and I feel like it is unecessary

[@jlt131]

there are two men wearing blue hoodies. but I think these are all pretty dateable dudes.

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

@@shaun1364 that's your preconceived notions talking

[@Lonzology]

@@shaun1364 hes gay or bi

[@siyakolisistanaccount5378]

@@Lonzology I don't think so. Masculine gay men and bi men exist. I think he's straight he's just not the typical masculine man and that's ok.

[@ArinaMkrtchian97]

“I mean how much stuff could be down there” that killed me. THERE’S A LOT OF STUFF down there

[@tink6225]

that whole segment I was cracking up

[@Falalalalalalala]

I’ve been scrolling for this comment!😳🤯

[@JustLindaThings]

I was dying at that bit. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@angieang26]

What's down there

[@klara4285]

i was like 😀

[@CTR_ALT_MAKIMA]

"How much stuff can there be down there?" Alot. It's like a map of disneyland 😂

[@AxxLAfriku]

WARNING I am the unprettiest human YTer worldwide. Take the hint, dear wai

[@susancan978]

Babies are made down there- how could he think there isn't a lot of stuff T-T

[@pretty948]

They were all so clueless

[@confidentlilbean]

I’m a woman and I (!!!) don’t even have a clue. Lol. Hope that makes you feel less uneducated.

[@zaniyahgordon2040]

the whole pacific ocean

[@uuuuuuuuiiiiiii]

It sucks that men seemingly are forced to act like sex is the most important thing to them even if it isn’t

[@user-mz3ni8yu4v]

Well said

[@bzuku9554]

yeah, and some of them believe it's true and it matters if u a virgin or not

[@Moesie]

Sex is important, love too

[@tomasomalley3872]

I can relate so much to this comment, it's incredible

[@user-mv1hv5ce3b]

Agreed! And men as a whole are portrayed as sex-focused in lots of media, making it a stereotype that some feel they have to live up to if they wanna be seen as masculine. Sex is important, but only a part of life!

[@joannakeysha2367]

I’m so sorry for the mexican guy that was raped. people need to understand that consent goes both ways, it doesn’t matter the gender, no consent is ALWAYS rape.

[@hoesmad3225]

racist

[@mayooo1516]

@@hoesmad3225 How is it racist? The guy himself said he's Mexican. So it's not like op is assuming his ethnicity.

[@starlightpoppy741]

Which guy?

[@hoesmad3225]

@@mayooo1516 its a joke foo chill😂

[@mayooo1516]

@@hoesmad3225 I am chilling, I just didnt really take it as a joke cuz calling someone a racist is pretty big deal

[@sarahsherrill5159]

THE GUY WITH THE GLASSES AND THE SEPTUM IS SUCH A KING OMG

[@siyakolisistanaccount5378]

I need his ig handle. He’s so fine 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@sawbhagyaperera2899]

@@siyakolisistanaccount5378 yesss someone pls 😂😂😂

[@seynpurrp]

he reminds me of kid cudi XD

[@thatguy580]

Jubilee has actually taught me more about society than my actual school

[@lefunnyN1]

bro momento

[@mirabella2154]

School is not supposed to teach you about society in the first place...

[@user-pn9zf2lj4c]

@@mirabella2154 school is a form of socialisation...

[@niamh8154]

Ikr

[@sprinklesandwrinkles]

@@mirabella2154 us schools doesn't teach about society? Thats ruff. We go through all kinds of stuff in society. History, government, elections, newspapers, how law and order works, sexual education.. and so on. Lots of stuff regarding society.

[@CourtneyDixonDesigns]

It's good for women to see a male POV and vice versa.

[@sandra4347]

@Joshua Barnett down bad

[@jethroteece4750]

Women (feminists especially) won't listen to this sadly

[@saharaasher8959]

@@jethroteece4750 that’s flat out untrue. Misandrists wouldn’t listen, any real feminist would

[@CourtneyDixonDesigns]

@@jethroteece4750 As a feminist, I listened to it. Try again.

[@CourtneyDixonDesigns]

@Joshua Barnett Relevance?

[@medinab6035]

The black man in the blue sweatshirt NEEDS to do voiceovers ! His voice is sooo soothing and cool😭

[@alexx980_.]

Fr

[@oxstrangelyrandomxo]

He def my fav

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

It's that lovely whistle in the S

[@nolancoulombe1950]

He has the best answers

[@fatuuwest407]

He sounds like Jamal from on my block 😭

[@nathandkreosote9917]

"Do you care if a girl is fully shaved down there?" Guests don't get to redecorate.

[@hollycumming]

Best line ever haha I'm gonna use that if I ever need to 😂

[@DreamerxPunk]

i love how the guy in the beanie said he didnt believe it was his place & i wish all had that mindset.

[@danielorlovaquinn]

Also it's so wierd like is she a child? Why do yall want it fully shaved

[@bobbirdsong6825]

@@danielorlovaquinn smooth skin feels nice i won't lie. i'm a guy and i get rid of my own hair down there. although i don't care if they have any if they want it

[@peacheillo2641]

@Bob Birdsong Even when I've shaved mine, for some reason it's only smooth the first few hours - then it's all prickly and itchy and horrible 😬

[@schwambibambi6492]

The black guy in the blue shirt is so cool, he's just so relaxed

[@Be1smaht]

Gayest straight man Ive ever seen

[@arirubenstein6548]

@@Be1smaht ???? this phrase makes absolutely no sense

[@Marozaaaa]

He lies about his sexuality. As a gay i can tell. Unless he doesn't know that yet.

[@r.b7979]

@@Marozaaaa you may be gay but im sorry , you do not speak for all gay people. He seems perfectly straight to me, he just doesnt have a fear and sense of masculinity

[@makenziej8632]

@@Be1smaht such stereotype

[@giulia5308]

I felt so sorry for the guy with the bow tie when he said that he couldn’t make his girlfriend come even though he tried his best and did a lot of research. So, to all men out there: not all women can orgasm easily - some don’t even orgasm a single time during their entire life. But whether they orgasm or not doesn’t necessarily depend on you. It also depends on them, on how good they know their own body and on whether or not they communicate what they like. As always, communication is key. If you’re not sure that your girl is enjoying it, just ask her what she likes and how she touches herself. And to all women: if you didn’t come but still enjoyed it, tell your partner that the sex was good! Sex doesn’t necessarily have to end with an orgasm - it just has to feel good

[@lifeisshørt_420]

As a guy can I ask a question, is about 5 inches good enough for most women?

[@giulia5308]

@@lifeisshørt_420 I can’t speak for all women, but I can tell you this: sex is not only about penetration. Many women need clitoris stimulation (rather than penetration) to come or to experience pleasure (I hope KZbin is not gonna censor my comment lol), and speaking with some female friends of mine I’ve realised that several of us don’t even see penetrative sex as the best part of a sexual encounter. I’ve also got some male friends with bigger penises who told me that it hurts their girlfriends to have penetrative sex with them. So I’d say you have no need to worry about your penis size. If you want women to enjoy sex with you, try to ask them what they like and focus on it, and don’t take for granted that they want to have penetrative sex. And if they do want penetrative sex and think that your penis is too small, you can still have fun together with dildos or other sex toys

[@anirbag]

@@lifeisshørt_420 honestly i would say yes. as long as you're in tune with what your sexual partner likes and dislikes, size is inconsequential.

[@hyrunnisa997]

One important thing to consider is if a woman is not in tune with her body or if she has some sort of mental blocks it can really stop her from enjoying sex or having an orgasm. Im reading this book come as you are and some people have a really hard time because that's just how your brain works....and I think that just means doing some personal work and maybe seeing a sex therapist or something.

[@user-my8qj]

"Sex doesn't have to end with orgasm, it just has to feel good"👏🏻

[@yarahowell5646]

It's so sad that most of them have never been asked for consent by their sexual partners, and one of them has even been assaulted. This is not okay

[@lawrencelim9331]

To be fair, the person initiating the sexual act usually should be the one asking for consent. Most of the time thats the guys so it makes sense that they were the ones asking.

[@ifunanyaosuorah3883]

@@lawrencelim9331 exactly!! Like if ur already on top of me.. I’m kind of gonna make some assumptions

[@okplay9446]

@@lawrencelim9331 Usually, guys are expected to initiate the sexual act, so I think they often neglect their own desire for consent. Probably due to peer pressure.

[@DaisyHaize]

They could have been the ones that pursued and initiated sex with their partner, usually it works that way.

[@karlyg.e.m.21]

"If you're on top of me, I'm gonna make some assumptions" imagine if the one using that argument was a man. It's simple. You said you don't want to do it, your partner should stop. I don't like how these comments imply that nothing happened and he's exaggerating

[@mikea6289]

I’m a straight woman who’s a hardcore consent advocate, and I have to say that these men’s responses to whether *they’d* ever been asked for consent really opened my eyes! Without realizing it, I think I had to some level unconsciously swallowed the cultural assumption that “men always want it” (though logically, I know that’s not true). Will definitely be mindful about asking next time!

[@jacksonh2083]

Nothing wrong with that. I am a straight guy and I seldom want “it,” and, well, you did kind of just assume/stereotype; _however_ , you did acknowledge this and grow, so imo there is nothing wrong with that and you should actually be proud of yourself for being so willing to change.

[@DKMetcaIf]

Pretty sure everyone is straight here lmao

[@JustLindaThings]

There's a definitely a stereotype that society tells us that men want sex 24/7. That they think about it all the time and that they always want it. I'm sure there are women who think about it all the time too and want it a lot. I think about it a lot and definitely want it a lot but I want it with somebody that I care about. I do agree that consent goes both ways. It's unfortunate that there are people out there who say "fuck consent" and will stop at nothing to get what they want. Bottom line is: Consent is hot. Rape is not.

[@DKMetcaIf]

@@JustLindaThings we don’t think about it 24/7, more like a couple times per day

[@JustLindaThings]

@@DKMetcaIf I'm sure some guys do though. Especially the perverted ones who will take everything you say and make it dirty.

[@hakamsingh1618]

At 11:58 you can clearly see the guy admitting that he was sexually abused....Just look how his expressions changes and how nervous he is to talk about it. I pray he is doing well.

[@ASimpleBall]

I feel so horrible for him. His demeanor changed, his body scrunched up, his voice became shaky :(

[@CubanPrincezz3]

That part hurt my heart. Definitely praying for him. 🙏🏾🥺

[@pyrokatarina]

its probably humiliating for him coz of the fact that he could get judged by the internet

[@nikkisumesh]

🥺🥺

[@bluebell8557]

the guy who was raped gave me so much anxiety when he reacted to that question cause he had all the nervous, panicked ticks that almost threw me into a panic attack.

[@katlaurel6929]

yes! his shoulders especially were so tense

[@daph101101]

I thought it was just me

[@rue.eudoxie]

@bey which one? Could u please tell me the minute

[@sharonzhong]

I almost cried when that part came in. Not bcs of I was empathetic of what he’s going through (not that I’m not), but bcs that all of that ticks is just so uncomfortable

[@claireegoetz697]

@@sharonzhong could you elaborate? i don’t want to misinterpret your comment

[@goodtimes8229]

The amount of respect I have for these guys is huge. They all seem like deep, respectful, well-spoken, thoughtful men. I really enjoyed hearing their perspectives, and I hope they are successful and validated in whatever it is they are setting out to do with their lives.

[@jordana6702]

Amen

[@chanelghostin6060]

the two guys that pressured girls into having $3X? such thoughtful gentlemen!

[@goodtimes8229]

@@chanelghostin6060 I wrote this comment before I finished the video, and did not think to edit it. At the moment I don't even remember most of these people anymore, but I think it goes without saying that I don't condone that kind of behavior, and would be an asshole if I did. I do recall that at least one of the men who did this said he regretted it, and I can only assume that he was telling the truth, and has changed his behavior. I also have to say that I don't know the context that this happened in, but I automatically assumed that the men were already in a relationship when it happened (I may be wrong there), and this is the kind of thing of thing that many partners, male and female, have wrongfully done. If that's the case, then while it's obviously a shitty thing to do, it's not the kind of thing that (like rape) automatically makes you a horrible person. You shouldn't pressure partners into sex, but if you have done it, and realize you are wrong, regret it, and hopefully change and somehow atone for it with your partner, it is forgivable. From the way they were speaking about it, this was my automatic assumption. It didn't seem like it was anything as serious as rape, or blackmail. I thought they were saying they had pressured a partner into it, which is still wrong, nonetheless, but its just not the same thing. The men who did this did express regret for it, and so I assumed that they knew they were wrong, and had changed. I do not believe in holding something against someone if they have done this (although in many cases there should still be consequences; I understand that), which is perhaps why I did not think to edit my comment. Nevertheless, I may be wrong about the situation, I may have misinterpreted, or I may need to watch the video again. So if, after reading this, you still have a problem with my comment, please let me know, and share your perspective with me.

[@boboboo8684]

@@goodtimes8229 rape is rape.... and it does make u a horrible person no matter what circumstances. Just bcz theyre in a relationship never makes it ok

[@sasha44486]

@@goodtimes8229 i get where ur coming from but since u arent the victim i dont think its your place to forgive this

[@judricklafreniere2323]

As a 18 yo virgin male who has never been in couple, I found the pressure of the society overwhelming. Every time I meet a person that i didn’t talk for a while they would ask me if I had a girlfriend. Or my friends who are joking around with the fact that i’m a virgin. They don’t really understand that I want to learn to love myself before wanting to jump in a relationship that needs me to love someone else.

[@Nikki-gt8hz]

You are heading to the right path. ☺👍

[@mollys1439]

that’s definitely the best way to go, love yourself first.

[@LisaBre]

One of the best comments I’ve read. Keep on this path and don’t let societal pressure get to you. 💛

[@franciscakikakika9527]

The same. I believe everything happens at is own pace.

[@Krimnorr]

I'm in your shoes, although I'm not sure I'll ever be ready for a partner. My advice is to be proud of your choices instead of being ashamed; after all, you're making a wise decision. The pressure to get a partner quickly ultimately ends in a broken mess of a relationship.

[@Kamerenhigdon]

I am so truly sorry to the man who was raped. So so so deeply sorry. I hope that you are able to heal. You matter. We see you and we support you. Your story matters.

[@jxckedgell3821]

Lol

[@priscahermene9107]

@@jxckedgell3821 ?????? Are you a real person??

[@Ace-uc5cj]

What is the timestamp?

[@rockyblak2]

@@Ace-uc5cj 11:48

[@Ace-uc5cj]

@@rockyblak2 thx

[@bookwrm]

The curly hair guy has such a hot way of expressing himself

[@Bimtavdesign]

He's super attractive

[@swisdom9117]

@@Bimtavdesign right?? x.x

[@nandisams]

He's FFOOIINNEEE

[@Crochetgirl01]

I KNOW RIGHT like he’s so charismatic wow

[@tiegz9770]

For me it's the guy with the light grey hoodie

[@mateobanda6808]

The Guy With A Nose Ring And Glasses Is So Handsome.

[@okiedokie2840]

yes

[@annemcdougall919]

As a comment section, I think we have collectively named him blue hoodie guy, but I totally agree. He’s also really nice 😍

[@the61stbookworm78]

The more sensible things about sex he said the hotter he got lmao

[@omegachaos32]

@@annemcdougall919 Thank you for drawing the connection so I don't have to rewatch the video to figure out who "blue hoodie" or "blue shirt" guy is. Saw 3 top comments about this person without having any clue who was wearing what. I'm watching their faces. Unless their outfit is insane, my brain doesn't even register their clothing.

[@st4rgirl251]

yes fr

[@MKNRMUSIC]

The guy with the nose ring is so real, he shares a lot and I appreciate his honesty and openness. He knows himself and says things respectfully and objectively. I like his approach!

[@breannajoseph2018]

why is no one talking about the guy with the long curly hair??? he’s gorgeous and so genuine!!

[@josuesorto3453]

Thank you!

[@elenol1310]

@@josuesorto3453 hope you are doing good!❤

[@josuesorto3453]

@@elenol1310 thank you! I hope you’re doing well too!

[@alessa.haj.hassan]

he is so under rated ! and the guy with the cap , are they siblings or something , pure charisma!

[@eenchantress5113]

He’s fine asf

[@aaplayroblox7930]

This is actually really interesting to watch as a women 😂

[@taylorpyrtle4717]

Periodt, literally 😂

[@laurtary]

They really are so confused on female anatomy lmao

[@myidentityisamystery5142]

*woman

[@mastermonke1177]

@@laurtary and women are confused about male anatomy

[@wowie8283]

it really is!

[@bethanyheyde805]

Honestly, this might be an unpopular opinion, but I love how the blonde guy with the glasses owned his mistake. He owned the fact that he had pressured a partner for sex in the past, and doesn’t feel good about it. Good for him. He’s becoming a better, more mature person.

[@victoriavincent498]

Yes! His maturity is so poignant and touching

[@no_lino]

And I love the fact that he didn't blame it on his age

[@stopbeinginsecure4786]

Lots of men did that in the past because they themselves felt pressured to “get bitches” “lose the v card” etc. the pressure on men to be manly hurts women, but also men! Glad he realized what he did was wrong and owned up to it. I’ve been coerced a lot in my life, I wonder if the guys that did it recognize that it’s wrong like he did.

[@EX0ticPanda1]

@@stopbeinginsecure4786 this! I feel like not enough people are aware of how bad pressuring men into being the s3xual and manly standard it's harmful for us women as well. Or these phrases like ''when she says no it means yes, women like to be chased etc'' these are such harmful stereotypes for both . Also I'm so sorry you've been through coercion

[@nassira0508]

why should that be an unpopular opinion lol

[@itskaraelizabeth]

8:10 the guy saying that men also look at porn and think “i can’t compete with that” was something we needed to hear and blew my mind

[@etvscandalfanpage2011]

True

[@fella999th]

Tbh, I had no clue women thought like that at all

[@Bayo106]

men think that way more than women do ......

[@2crisp63]

@@Bayo106 study?

[@artthounasty5877]

@@Bayo106 How would you know that? Have you been in both positions? People compare themselves to other people all the time regardless of gender.

[@joohoney7032]

the worst pressure is when someone is basically asking for no0ds and they try to make you feel guilty for being uncomfortable.. do NOT be afraid to say no and block that person. (i’ve done this just recently)

[@Zee1226_]

Yes!

[@cottoncandace7704]

Absolutely, never send noods to anyone He/she could exploit you later, you never know (But if you must, hide your face)

[@jialian93]

How do you define pressure in this scenario? For instance, if you ask "why" but you accept that they arent going to do it, is that pressure as well?

[@kdvn1]

Never ever send nudes unless ur comfortable and it’s someone you’ve known for a long time / ur significant other cuz ppl are crazy

[@Olivia-hg6gc]

@@cottoncandace7704 must?? Lol. If you "must" send nudes-- definitely get out of that situation if you can tf- Also, people can send nudes if it's sexy to them , like yeah be aware of the dangers but if someone still wants to send nudes, that's on them .

[@sabrinaellis2135]

Yeah I think a lot of people needed to see this cause there's tons of coverage on women but I think we forget men feel pressures and have issues too (not to downplay or invalidate the womanly struggle) but this really provides a deeper understanding for people and another point of view. Thank you so much for this video Jubilee. Back at it again with the bangers. Edit: Also the asking for consent!!! All partners should be asking for consent Lets live it up on removing the double standard wagon!! 💖😂💃

[@LemanRussx]

Word

[@flyingblind5677]

100% agreed

[@poocrayon4588]

Men dont "forget they have real pressures" - women and feminist media do. The problem is men and women see consent very differently. For instance feminist women believe that someone who willingly consents to sex while intoxicated even with another equally intoxicated person., can retroactively withdraw that consent or not based on how they later feel. To a man this is a absurd idea because it would mean consent was decided later purely on the basis of emotion. It basically reduces adults to children who are incapable of being responsible for their own decisions. Of course the only way this could work is if it is only used against men - as otherwise every other persons in clubs and bars tonight would be a rapist - but of course it would be pathetic to see men as responsible for womens willing choices. However many women apparently do.

[@poocrayon4588]

@Wakanda And here is yet another comment which somehow circles absolutely everything back around to being the fault and responsiblity of men.

[@ghoste470]

The fact that you haft to say “not to downplay or invalidate the womanly struggle” when mentioning men having issues also is proof that society is truly disgusting🤦🏾‍♂️

[@chelseawatts7265]

Listen, if glasses and nose ring guy is ever on the east coast, I would cancel everything to have coffee with him

[@kiarag4225]

ughhh i know right

[@deborahsike]

Yess

[@audreymai2773]

I wish you could. Such a wholesome comment. You could have said something dirty, but it was such a real and pure comment. Love that. ✌😊

[@Chiffawndue]

Same. And his voice is just 😩👌🏻

[@ithielpitt7525]

or peg him lol

[@ifeellikeastar9052]

I thought I would be cringing my way through this video but these guys gave genuine answers and really opened my mind to the male perspective when it comes to sex. I learned a lot from this and it was overall fun to watch.

[@leandrog2785]

You didn't cringe at the answers about the female anatomy?

[@ifeellikeastar9052]

@@leandrog2785 Don't get me wrong. There were defo some moments I cringed at but overall not as bad as I thought.

[@llap476]

A Lana Stan !

[@vanillaggl]

that sexist to assume things only because they are men.

[@pythondrink]

Why did you assume that? Bcoz they're men? Haven't answered.

[@kinzakuroi]

Man, preppy guy is such a pure soul. I hope one day he'll succeed in making a woman come.

[@sophiapetrakis8509]

😂😂

[@oxladealex9369]

damn did you just indirectly roast the guy?😂😂😂

[@seryna6036]

He’s not. We’re just going to disregard that he would put pressure on his girlfriends to have sex? 😄

[@A2Lettuce]

@@seryna6036 so trying to convince your partner who isn't feeling like it, is bad?

[@notky848]

@@seryna6036 pressured how?... asking her?

[@StJiub]

Respect to the guys that were honest about pressuring someone into sex.

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

why should we respect that?

[@onlyhousestarklivesmatter]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 for honestly realising their mistakes, taking responsibility for it, speaking out about it and regretting it... they probably taught a lot to young single men watching this video. We need to give people the chance to change and do better.

[@StJiub]

@@fionagallagherapologist5968 You will never solve a problem if you bury people in shame for their mistakes. Them admitting it shows hope for change.

[@fionagallagherapologist5968]

Only House Stark Lives Matter that actually makes sense, thanks for clarifying :)

[@StJiub]

@@onlyhousestarklivesmatter Yes, well worded :)

[@picklepop44]

“ however theyre packaged i’m w/ it “ best comment said

[@craneoflores]

I wish I'd heard more of that mentality growing up. Society in general tells us vaginas are gross (usually to sell us some product or service), and being a straight woman I believed them. I didn't realize people can find it attractive regardless until my second serious relationship...

[@moshroomba]

Quotes*

[@picklepop44]

@@moshroomba That was a year ago chump, my grammar is better now, thanks.

[@moshroomba]

@@picklepop44 what? im sorrry if i dont get the joke but i dont understand what you meant

[@Andrew17B]

Black dude with the glasses and septum piercing seems super chill and down to earth.

[@c4mboy]

As a gay person I love how some straight men these days are more open and confident about their sexuality that’s a good trait tbh women love that being comfortable enough to know your own self

[@JSaunOfficial]

I think Jubilee is a false representation of the average man. It's a very left-leaning politically correct, tolerant channel. Which isn't bad or good. It just doesn't represent the average.

[@anonspectre1796]

@Tara but its not..and you're not a man so its not a debate to be had

[@kingloaf]

@Tara it really not.

[@dee-jh3bl]

@@JSaunOfficial Being tolerant isn't good or bad to you?

[@JSaunOfficial]

@@dee-jh3bl Being good or bad was irrelevant to the point I was making. It was a factual statement, not a judgement call.

[@laurtary]

It's crazy that everyone dismisses r*pe when it's a woman doing it. That guy who talked about being forced into something when clearly stating no. I feel so bad for him.

[@yoyoissleepy1175]

I agree. We need to talk about it more

[@unfortunateson5016]

@3D Animation Geek wtf? You are the problem dude

[@terra5857]

@3D Animation Geek bro...

[@BJo-jj2uk]

@3D Animation Geek it’s comments like this that allow r*pe to still continue today. I’m 5’11 and stronger than a lot of guys I know. It’s absolutely possible

[@gusiontrashtalks2819]

@3D Animation Geek Talk about ignorance

[@fiaa.6539]

The guy in the black jacket has such a tender voice

[@imasa___]

Yeaa, he's such a sweetheart

[@Alex-hj1vk]

Ikr

[@DefineMorena]

I like his curly hair 🥺

[@lacehidalgo]

Which one with the maroon shirt or blue?

[@abriannaraquel9567]

@@DefineMorena yess he looks like richard ramirez kinda lol

[@sac_destroyer]

All these guys make me feel safe. Each is so comfortable with their sexuality and it makes me so happy to see them take the questions seriously and answer them genuinely. Make this the norm. Also the fact that most of them have not been asked for their consent made me want to cry. I personally have never asked cause it never crossed my mind, but after this, i am fs going too start. Love this content

[@olivd909]

This made me think about how we basically have the stereotype that men always want to have sex. I don't think I ever came across a situation either in real life or on the internet/ silver screen where the guy refuses to have sex. It never crossed my mind to ask for his consent... It's mindblowing how many aspects of our lives have been mistreated and overlooked.

[@sonialuna5604]

Edward Cullen kept refusing Bella sex in twilight lol

[@DeanithForeverYoung]

It's beacause the general rule is that guys usually approach women more often. They are the ones who ''make the question " in a way.I don't know how else to explain it.

[@potatopotatoeOG]

@@sonialuna5604 it's not like twilight was played on every tv screen for decades👀

[@LinneAzalea]

Yeah, I think it's because men most of the times are the initiators. So they naturally have already given their consent. But I definitely think it needs to be taught out to women and girls too

[@paranoid-v3q]

honestly, to me, men aren't so different to women. Cuz we are all human, so of course we don't always want to have sex. Plus, consent is wayy better. I don't like doing something without consent nor do I want to be involved in something unless I give consent to my partner.

[@imjustheretocomment9478]

the fact that the guy in the blue top was so open to have that discussion with himself on his sexuality and stuff, that is very attractive to me because that just exudes confidence.

[@leliza8477]

This! All my exes have been similar actually, very open and explored their sexuality in the past before reaching a conclusion. I think there’s something about those guys that I’m drawn to every time, even before I know about it

[@anaisyasmine2039]

now you won’t know why I got that many likes&replies lol

[@braeden9606]

Honestly

[@marojiyam2258]

Forreal

[@anaisyasmine2039]

@@almondchip3490 what video?

[@jamelbruu2482]

@@almondchip3490 wait huh?

[@knightshadow2994]

No such thing as perfect awnser just preference and opinion

[@rozzsrabi8418]

“I think I did my due diligence and as such I think I came to a definite conclusion. I’m team vagina definitely.” DUDE that got me weak!! That guy is my favorite

[@Mameliorer]

I really liked how respectfully they all talked about this.

[@bestconfederation6774]

Agree

[@user-uf7ve4sr4r]

the bar is on the floor.

[@JB-ys2cp]

Not really, the guy with the bow tie basically admitted that he forced his ex to do something she wasn’t comfortable with and he didn’t seem sorry about it at all. He even justified it by saying it was fine because he knew her well

[@sweetpotato1794]

It's normal to be respectful 🙃

[@dylantd9189]

I'm a straight male and I'm almost 22 and I'm still a virgin. I'm not afraid to tell people. I'm waiting until marriage. Not for religious reasons, but because I personally feel sex is the ultimate form of love, so I want to save it to my wife who is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I think there's unfortunately alot of pressure on men to either lose it early, or to regularly have sex. And alot of pressure on women not to have sex, and if you do, you get labelled these horrible things. I wish society would stop plastering sex everywhere. Its a personal and private choice. Nobody's business but the two consenting adults involved.

[@tirayoobileye3878]

i respect this .. it's your body and it's your choice

[@supersaturn956]

Respect

[@_mangostudio_1911]

This is a very mature decision to make, respect to you.

[@KaIubka]

Personally I wouldn't want to marry someone if I don't know whether I'm sexually compatible with her. Good luck!

[@dylantd9189]

@@KaIubka does sexuality compatability hold a great weight when deciding a longterm partner? For me it doesn't at all. I'm not in a relationship for the sex, and we could have the worst time having sex but I'd be committed to the relationship regardless.

[@passiondanae9483]

This comment section did not disappoint. I love how you guys were so open I applaud you guys for that.

[@Luxembourgish]

The comment section is horribly disappointing because they're falsely accusing the guy glasses and bowtie a r@p!st

[@sadiet8105]

@Anon, I think you might be reading this wrong because it’s saying that he has been raped. No hate though...I just think you might be seeing things wrong...

[@Luxembourgish]

@@sadiet8105 Thanks for being respectful! Not talking about that guy, I'm talking about the guy in the bow tie. If you scroll down enough some are falsely accusing him of r@p3, for convincing his GF to have s3x one time. That's not r@p3.

[@hanmira]

@@Luxembourgish How isn't that rape tho? Just curious, no hate. I'm just confused

[@sirmister9099]

@@hanmira If you have only experienced one night stands and tinder you probably wouldnt understand

[@itsnemosoul8398]

I can't say enough how horrible it feels when you partner keeps trying to convince you to have sex even though you said no already. You feel guilty and sometimes push yourself to do it. It sucks.

[@kemyaali2056]

the guy with the blue hoodie lives in my head RENT FREE

[@PenelopeSnowe]

Omg same. Sure, he doesn’t pay rent but he’s always baking cookies and it smells so good in here. Worth it.

[@Dana-koc]

I'd even let him live rent free in my apartment with me 😁😍

[@TheRealTact]

@@Dana-koc he don’t want you 💀

[@gaby9502]

AAA IKR SAME

[@Dana-koc]

@ended era daddy issues? 😭 your parents didn't love you? 😆

[@chloeguy2675]

The gentleman in the blue shirt is soooo sweet!!! I can tell his mama raised him right!

[@klutchenca1]

@3D Animation Geek but he said he is straight so why are you so concerned about his sexuality bro??

[@nala6846]

@3D Animation Geek well I'm sure he doesn't care how he comes off to guys cuz he's straight 😊

[@jake78441]

@3D Animation Geek straight guys are better 😝

[@almondchip3490]

He is racist and has shown it on this channel on the Omegle vid

[@chloeguy2675]

@@smalleballe7636 that isn’t true y’all need to stop. Everything that he said is how I judged him. And he seemed to be a fine gentleman.

[@CuddlePhantom]

The open honesty is astounding to me. This is amazing.

[@poocrayon4588]

They are only representative of a very niche crowd of woke men who would appear on jubilee

[@CuddlePhantom]

@@poocrayon4588 yeah. I know. Which is a mix of positive and negative depending on how you look. I appreciate them regardless of whether or not they are a minority

[@poocrayon4588]

@@jchapfly5422 No - this is the minority of dudes. It has nothing to do with being great or not - this simply isnt representative of the way most men think about sex - that doesnt mean men that dont think like this are a problem. Well I guess to some types it does.

[@jchapfly5422]

While jubilee sample sets are often a bias representations, I disagree with the proposition of these opinions being the minority. To the data Analytics I go.

[@littlefishiesinthese]

"I'm not a scientist or a major in anatomy" BRO YOU DON’T GOTTA BE

[@majaashour-ciszak53]

To watch this as a woman was quite an interesting thing to do.

[@majaashour-ciszak53]

@Joshua Barnett mhm

[@yazzy3177]

@@majaashour-ciszak53 so no?

[@majaashour-ciszak53]

@@yazzy3177 no, I am straight. Don't think that matters though.

[@majaashour-ciszak53]

@@foetusdeletus6313 so???

[@diggiepigeoneer6543]

Yeah. It's interesting to see how we view things different. I am a gay man instead of a straight woman, so me watching this may feel different from how you feel about this video, however, the premise is still there. Seeing how different gender identity and sexuality affect experiences is a very interesting topic that I would definitely want to delve into more. (Sorry for the large amount of text lmao)

[@ayandampofu282]

this was so refreshing to watch. kinda heartbreaking but so refreshing.

[@marloesk9753]

yeah i'm looking for more of this

[@tommylus3672]

1,000th like :)

[@shawnjames5481]

The Male pressures when it comes to sex is not a topic that is talked about a lot so thank you Jubilee for this!

[@joshuaking6534]

True

[@vanadiumoxid3902]

Consent is a two way street. My bf and I constantly ask eachother whether we are comfortable with what is happening. And contrary to the stereotype, he has turned me down once or twice. Because he is also human and sometimes doesnt feel like havig sex and thats fine!

[@Luxembourgish]

Consent can also be communicated nonverbally

[@stupidcupcake8066]

@@Luxembourgish no tbh . It would kinda create problems because you know some people consider flirting as a yes when sometimes it's not . So it's better if we VERBALLY ask the other person before doing it

[@Luxembourgish]

@@stupidcupcake8066 It's considerate to verbally ask, but couples who choose to initiate s3x with nonverbal communication aren't lacking consent.

[@bluestatered6699]

That's the most cringe thing I've ever read. Lmao.

[@DKMetcaIf]

Just walk up to him without da clthes and that’ll get him 🤣

[@itsjenna247]

To the guy that got raped . I’m so sorry you went through that . You are not alone and we ALL LOVE YOU . It’s important to share your story and be you as a person . It’s important to educate people . Thank you for this video

[@prometheus_78]

Timestamp

[@madvillain8372]

@@prometheus_78 11:46

[@siyakolisistanaccount5378]

I like how the black man in the blue sweatshirt and nose ring says that he is straight but people think he is gay. I wouldn't say he's feminine but when a man is not masculine people like to assume that he is gay or bi. Masculine bi and gay men exist. There's a difference between expression and sexuality. Look at Prince and Michael Jackson. They were not so masculine and they were straight. And I have seen men that are gay but are masculine af.

[@marymother1090]

Michael Jackson had a marriage but was Gay asf. The trauma his father caused stunted him in more ways than one. If you looked up the pyschological stressors that pre dispose people to homosexual behavior you'll have abetter understanding.

[@anniemcmahon6778]

@@marymother1090 I wouldnt say that being gay is from being “stunted” ....

[@wckd4u]

@@marymother1090 Can you please expand on this. What are some of the psychological stressors?

[@tyraalleyne4975]

@@marymother1090 michael jackson was not gay. please cut it out. trauma in his childhood caused him to see women and sex a certain way but the man was attracted to women

[@totalpefectionisto]

I can't be sure, but I think that most of the ppl that accused of him being gay were Black. As a gay, Black man, the pressure to conform to the standard of that hypermasculinity is universal and those that don't are judged.

[@nooffencebut8175]

I’m surprised that other girls don’t ask, if a guy asked me if I’m comfortable I’d just kind of ask them back like “yeah are you?”

[@apo.7898]

And if he does not?

[@poocrayon4588]

Men dont want or need to be asked. We just dont think like that. Fact.

[@sxblime_]

@@poocrayon4588 what are you talking about? We have feelings too bro 💀

[@LA-cm9uo]

Wtf, untrue ?? Guys get uncomfortable too ? This is not a gender thing.

[@mynameisuju]

@@poocrayon4588 AND THAT is how rape happens

[@Ndemlaughs]

love the vulnerability everyone is presenting. it's hard to be this open with others for many people. Appreciate them all being so open.

[@elcocoloco3200]

When I was a sophomore I was talking with a ‘friend’ about his sexual exploits when I told him I was actually abstinent. He was horrified and then told me if I was still a virgin by senior year he was going to take it. When I told him I wasn’t going to give it to him he then replied, “I never said you would. I said I was going to take it.” I told him that was rape and he just smirked. Yeah. Never spoke to him again after that. And before you ask, yes. I kept my virginity intact and gave it to the man who is now my husband.

[@Rabia_Burak]

you did absolutely right, that a$shole who said that to you, must be a psycho.. wish you a happy married life💙💙

[@0glassrose0]

Eewww good for not talking to that creep again. He probably got a (or a couple) of cases against him

[@mynameisuju]

This was why I hid being a virgin when I was. Anytime a guy heard it he would immediately jump to "you know we cant have that right" so i just lied and said I wasnt until I actually wasn't. I hope you're ok ❤

[@2armylife]

The guy with glasses and suit. He says he’s only pressured his current partners to have sex, not anyone else. Just would like to point out that partners can rape partners. Just because you’re in a relationship, or married, or whatever, doesn’t mean you have full consent. And pressuring your partner to do something they don’t want to do, is still considered sexual assault/rape, no matter the gender

[@tytronamazon7442]

@Aaron McGill yes it is man. Don’t be a misogynistic arrogant person. That is rape

[@rwxox]

Honestly I don’t think he meant that. Every couple will have days that one is feeling it and the other isn’t and sometimes you give in and say ok just quick fine whatever. It’s not rape you just aren’t super in the mood ...

[@mayram6961]

I personally think that everyone has done this at least once. At that moment you might not really think about it but later on you are like damn I really did d that without even knowing

[@tytronamazon7442]

@Aaron McGill oh dear god. What is the definition of rape? Doesn’t matter who it is. Someone heavily persuading someone else to have sex who doesn’t want to have sex is rape

[@rwxox]

​@@tytronamazon7442 There is a difference between not CONSENTING and not WANTING or in the MOOD for sex.

[@avidanime158]

There is a double standard with consent honestly, like I'm not saying that you don't have to ask consent, like you should ABSOULTELY ask for consent, but it usually is only asking the woman, not asking the man if he's comfortable with it. I think we should start asking men tbh, because they can experience sexual assault etc and we shouldn't just let it happen.

[@Orynae]

Agreed. Whoever initiates an action has the responsibility to ask the other person for their consent imo. It doesn't matter if it's the guy or the girl or the enby initiating, and it doesn't matter who initiated whatever other previous action.

[@flyingblind5677]

All of the answers the guys gave whenever they were asked if they had been asked for consent before were depressing. Always ask for consent, no matter who you are

[@only_fair23]

Usually, the guy asks the girl for sex. If that's the case, it's kind of implied already that the guy wants it.

[@surpremier]

that’s not an excuse

[@Marozaaaa]

@@MS-sr6mj what statistics are those? How many boyfriends broke up with you becouse you were saying misandryst stuff like this? Huh?

[@mythsna]

The curly hair guy with the jacket is absolutely so gorgeous. He looks like those fairytale boys who come and take you away far from all the sufferings to pleasure land. Gotta manifest to see him irl at least once in my life

[@oliviab1049]

I can’t even name all the parts of lady. And I’m a lady.

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

That's a problem, babe. Learn your body, knowledge is power.

[@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784]

@@dianeaishamonday9125 Not really though. As long as you know that one that can be badly affected by external factors immediately like the vagina

[@agathachris9722]

Exactly

[@aisleshic2721]

@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 thats why you need to learn, its ironic society really forbids woman to explore their sexuality even tho its THEIR OWN BODY, tell me, did you know that woman has 2 holes down there? not just one for pee and birth.

[@CMHMom23]

Sad. Omg get a mirror and learn it!

[@funkydinosaurs4033]

septum piercing guy and bow tie guy both seem so confident in themselves and their sexuality and it's so hot

[@Zee1226_]

That’s what i was thinking 😩❤️

[@hiyesiambanana2310]

They both seem gay lol

[@Zach-eo8ru]

@@hiyesiambanana2310 you can’t pick and choose how they seem.

[@hiyesiambanana2310]

@@Zach-eo8ru definitely a vibe

[@Zach-eo8ru]

@@hiyesiambanana2310 another one of the comments you made said “he’s definitely gay”. You can’t just assume that about someone. That’s not okay.

[@jazzstudywithme]

the words ‘clean’ and ‘shaved’ shouldn’t be synonymous with each other bc shaving down there does not mean you’re more hygienic.. it just means you like to shave. edit: i’m not responding to the guy in the video saying ‘clean cut’.. i know what that means... i’m just making a separate point about the misconceptions regarding female body hair (and the body hair on all people, but especially regarding women as the the taboo nature of body hair is often emphasized on female bodies) because them discussing it reminded me of certain lies we’re told. Moral of the story is: To everyone of every gender identity.. do what you want with your body and don't let anyone pressure you into changing how you look based on their weird preferences that have even weirder origins!

[@oxladealex9369]

Clean cut = Clean shaved, it has nothing to do with hygiene smh

[@alanilynn2304]

@@oxladealex9369 People make it about hygiene all the time. That's what the point was. Especially when talking about women.

[@Tala-rd8bw]

Noooo what the hell are you saying????? Hair down there increase risk for infection and dirt to stick to it

[@jazzstudywithme]

@@alanilynn2304 yeah that’s what i’m saying. i’m getting a lot of heat for no reason 😭

[@alanilynn2304]

@@Tala-rd8bw Aw well actually it doesn't. Pubic hair isn't actually unhygienic. Like other hair on your body, your pubes trap sweat, oil, and bacteria. So, they might have a slightly stronger odor than other areas of your body. As long as you wash regularly, this shouldn't be cause for concern. Pubic hair offers a natural barrier to keep things clean, to decrease contact with viruses and bacteria, and to protect the genitals, particularly the female genitals :)

[@sakuragurl88647]

They picked a good group for this conversation. 🙂 I liked their answers and it was eyeopening in a way. We really do live in a sex crazy society where if your friends aren't pressuring you the world is.

[@supersaiyansalamence]

Do you care if your partner doesn’t finish? Bruh that’s the ONLY thing I care about!

[@TheZcarekrow]

Same, some women find strange that their pleasure is what pleases me

[@arinahfatini3161]

@@TheZcarekrow I think (for me at least) it's because we're not sure if it's something you care about like if it's a hookup then it's every person for themselves I guess... but in a long term relationship, some days we aren't sure...

[@ritwikreddy5670]

@Kiki I think that is more due to biology and less that men don't care.

[@sarahwaters8262]

@@ritwikreddy5670 As a 40 year old woman, I strongly disagree.

[@lorikaisirfogle2903]

Dw if u or ur partner don’t, it’s all a learning process. You’ll learn about what each of u like and don’t like so in the future it’s just enjoyable.

[@GadiAllTheWay]

"in my first long-term relationship, my girlfriend never had an orgasm. AT LEAST FROM ME." Oof.

[@user-my8qj]

It's okay every woman is different and remember sex doesn't have to end with orgasm, it just has to feel good❤️

[@GadiAllTheWay]

@@user-my8qj I was just pointing to the fact that he implied his girlfriend at the time may have been cheating on him.

[@By.daniieel]

@@GadiAllTheWay yeah she's going around the block seeking the pleasure he isn't capable of giving her

[@lisahomann8819]

i don’t think he meant that she cheated on her, more likely he’s talking about her masturbating

[@GadiAllTheWay]

@@lisahomann8819 That's a reasonable interpretation. He probably meant that, honestly.

[@SicksThirteen]

I love the transparency and honesty with such personal questions.

[@Vicky300699]

When one of the guys said he had pressured his girlfriend it hit me hard. I was pressured by my boyfriend and he always justified it by saying we were in a relationship. And like the other guy said, even if you say it clearly some people don't stop.

[@joannakeysha2367]

i fell in love with the black dude in the blue sweater, he’s such a gentleman and well educated ughhh

[@LifeWithPaw]

People watching this like :- - in bed - not in a full screen - reading comment

[@aishagaia7136]

So accurate 💀💀

[@felithem8166]

Are you stalking me ?🤣

[@queenv794]

How dare you call me out like that.

[@gabrielasasantos1481]

you got everything right lmao

[@KittySnicker]

Nope. On my TV on Chromecast

[@reallyi2132]

“i’m definitely team vagina, for sure” lmao i am a fan of his attitude!!

[@sharavila616]

At first I thought that I had never asked for consent with a partner and then I noticed that I have always asked for consent and I feel proud of myself! We are never taught to ask if a male partner wants sex, we are taught that they ALWAYS want to do it when in reality, there are times where they don't wanna do it and that is normal!! Thanks for sharing this with us! :D

[@chaila6688]

My heart goes out for the guy who got sexually assaulted. His experience is just as valid as women’s experiences❤️

[@trippytofu]

i think i see more men invalidating women getting raped more often than i see women invalidating men. i haven’t seen any woman make a comment like “well women get raped too!!!” or “not all women” in response to this man sharing his story. i’ve ONLY seen men do that to women, saying the classic “not all men”. i think it’s usually men in general who are the ones invalidating other men (and women) for sharing their rape stories though, 100%.

[@_biomacromolecules7782]

@@trippytofu i agree, because maybe women know what it feels like to be invalidated. Also i see MEN in this comment section saying "its not serious" or just "lol" at the sympathetic comments others have left. Disgusting!

[@Mellyburr]

@@_biomacromolecules7782 They wouldn’t ever admit it though. It’s an oppression war of who suffers the most

[@_biomacromolecules7782]

@@Mellyburr sadly it is true because they dont know what it feels like to have their voice taken away

[@voodoo5553]

@@trippytofu while i homehow agree with what u said abt that and not many women in the comment section to invalidate the guy , u by pointing that out, ironically enough, invalidated the guy and turmed the conversation abt women So yea u are one of the "men get x too"

[@josuesorto3453]

Wassup Viewers! I’m the dude with the curly hair and black leather jacket. These comments are killing me 😂 they cut a lot of my answers :( I knew the female anatomy 100%! Anyway, thanks for watching!

[@yarahowell5646]

Thanks for clarifying 😂

[@josuesorto3453]

@@yarahowell5646 it was the part I was excited to see myself do and they cut it 🙁 so I was sad

[@ariahazelwood3842]

Hi Josue! Don't worry, I have faith in you 😂😂

[@josuesorto3453]

@@ariahazelwood3842 i won’t let you down! 😎😂

[@jazijeza4778]

you seem nice :)

[@janetDT1904]

"I'm definitely team vagina, for sure" hahahah Loved that!

[@slimstockholmsyndrome119]

@Hayley Bagels what?

[@lorymichelle4838]

@@samuel3238 5:40 lol

[@ChristinaLoveletting]

I’m seriously falling for the guy with the long curly hair.

[@heenakaur7330]

The black man in the blue sweatshirt is outstanding! So eloquent, proper, well groomed, a walking talking example of great grammar. I don't want to be friends with him... I just want to be graced with his occasional presence at a coffee shop. You know? That way my love for him never dies! Yeahhhh!

[@glogigli]

what is it with guys in blue hoodies? love them.

[@MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl]

Idk, but now that you say it my crush used to wear a blue hoodie too👀

[@ClaraRodriguez16]

my favorite sweater of my partner it's actually a navy blue one. he is so handsome🥰

[@hmalik2498]

lol my crush wears a blue hoodie a lot of the time

[@206-k2r]

I don’t know why , but people who wear a lot of blue are most of the time amazing people to talk to. Lol

[@MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl]

@@206-k2r Thank you in my and my crush's name

[@briterry4961]

This was really interesting. I respect the hell out of all of them for being so vulnerable and honest. I hope we move toward a future where it's the norm for men to feel comfortable speaking emotionally about sex and ditching the locker room talk. This is so much more attractive.

[@DNj800]

Lol no.

[@CelestialExility]

maybe if they weren't judged they'd act like this more often.

[@namoa8202]

@@DNj800 I understand you brother

[@natasha5553]

@@DNj800 cry about it incel

[@boodiddleydum927dumdiddley4]

11:10 I like that he was honest because so many guys are pushy and would never admit it

[@toxic2208]

We learn more here then in sex education

[@Cyn1yah]

I love how the Asian guy with glasses was so honest

[@opheliarathmore7829]

I come from a religious family that never ever talks about this stuff and doesn't educate us about safe sex and sex ed. I love watching these vids to safely educate myself , it's a great series! thanks jubilee!

[@deanbuck7985]

Im so glad you spoke about consent and sexual pressure from the mans perspective because this get oevrlooked way too much.

[@ivancalvetmanso4204]

These are the kind of straight guys that I would like to hang out with.

[@siyakolisistanaccount5378]

These are the type of straight men I would date. Too bad they are not that common.

[@nandanie3239]

it's unfair how the dude got forced into sex and it's "not a big issue" what the hell

[@poocrayon4588]

Well its not

[@nandanie3239]

@@poocrayon4588 why

[@luzelenaserrano1236]

Yeah

[@seidilamcai2095]

@@poocrayon4588 Well it's not for women either then .

[@mystory3998]

@@seidilamcai2095 wtf just bc someone invalidates one problem doesnt give you the right to invslidate other problems. Ur just as bad two wrongs dont make a right

[@chloegleeson6827]

Okay the part with the man who spoke about being assaulted gave me chills, it’s something that needs to be spoken about sm more

[@juanpablo8886]

It happens very often. My friends and I have also experience where if we say no then the woman starts shaming us, calling us gay or try to emasculate us. Or the times where I am tired and I just do not feel like it and I would say no not right now and they would say something like, you say no but your other part says yes so then we are put in a position like ok just do it and be done with it so you can continue with your day. These are just a few of the most common things that men that I know have gone threw.

[@Mellyburr]

@@juanpablo8886 That’s terrible wtf.

[@mollyd3489]

alright so everyone has a crush on the man in the blue hoodie now right?

[@wo_lf506]

And the long curly hair 🤣

[@luvv.bj89]

yep yep

[@autumnmansfield1304]

I really appreciate the guys that admitted to pressuring. It's really tough to be pressured. Even in a relationship. In a relationship you don't want your partner to feel rejected or unwanted, but damn sometimes you're just not feeling it.

[@Luxembourgish]

It's near impossible for people to admit to pressuring these days, because these commenters falsely equate it to r@p3 which isn't the case in these situations. The law states that consent is valid so long as there's no threats or blackmail. That said, a pressured "yes" is still problematic, though not a crime. People falsely conflating it with the crime of r@p3 stifle any discussion or self growth from the mistake.

[@autumnmansfield1304]

@@Luxembourgish I definitely get what you're saying, but sometimes threats can be more subtle. Sometimes women will give in to the pressuring because they don't know what will happen to them if they say no. I don't mean like he might just get upset. Sometimes there's a dangerous current in the air like pushing back would be the straw that broke the camel's back, and it will tip from pressure to force. By the letter of the law no overt/verbal threat/blackmail has been made , but it's still not really consent either. It's definitely a hard topic because a person can feel harmed even from the underlying threat. It's difficult to explain if you've not experienced it and definitely a hard topic in general.

[@Luxembourgish]

@@autumnmansfield1304 Absolutely! Definitely above the scope of the average KZbin commenter. I think in relationships where there's the constant feeling of a looming danger, even if it hasn't been expressed, it's best to abandon that relationship altogether.

[@RavenPendragon14]

​@@Luxembourgish Because leaving the relationship doesn't guarantee the danger is gone? Especially if they still have contact with you through your kids or family.

[@Luxembourgish]

@@RavenPendragon14 If they've threatened you, restraining orders are options and perhaps even charges if the threats are severe enough. If there's no threat and it's just a feeling, it's not fair for someone else to be punished for one's own internal fears.

[@elysian179]

I feel for the guy who said something sexual happened even though he didn’t want it, for me it just felt like “I said no..but maybe because Im a guy I really do want it” being told me that Im a guy so I wouldn’t mind anything as long as I fuck felt weird so I convinced myself that yeah I guess maybe that how its works, even if I feel awkward throughout the whole thing

[@ilincabogza]

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I hope things are better for you now.💗

[@priscahermene9107]

That is not how it works:/

[@kimwilliams5165]

That is wrong. Consent is like the guy said in the video all parties being enthusiastic about it. I want people to dig deep here and realise when we talk about how society is, we are really talking about how sexisim and toxic masculinity have these negative effects on men too. Sexism says men always want sex, toxic masculinity says you're a guy so of course you should want sex at any given time otherwise are you a guy. Both of those are wrong and form a toxic cycle that harms both men and women.

[@ellinorandersson663]

I think the "pressure someone into sex" thing is happening so often without guys even realizing that they're doing anything wrong... especially as other guys pressure them to do it

[@lujorom9172]

This! As a girl I don’t have a lot of experience with guys, but in my case three out of four have pressured me actually. And I bet they didn’t know it.

[@P0cahontasV]

I love how honest these guys are. It was a breath of fresh air to see these guys express themselves and answer these questions with an open mind.