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Triangulation is a common and sometimes destructive issue in relationships. You see this in families, among friends, and in working relationships. When a conflict arises between two people, one person will go to an uninvolved third-party, looking for comfort, encouragement, validation, or just to ease their pain. We're not talking about a counselor here. This is often a friend who may be compromised, biased, or have an agenda of their own. This can reinforce a problematic dynamic known as the Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer Triangle. So what is it, and how can we avoid it?
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