How the Guilt Cycle Holds You Back | The Dr. Cloud Show - Episode 150

[@godnuggets9148]

Thank you Dr. Cloud for what you do. As a former Army Nurse and single momma you have truly blessed me with your KZbin Videos. Bless you Sir.

[@conservativemovement]

Even most Christians don't realize the degree to which the devil redefines sin and then employs false guilt to enslave us.

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@conservativemovement]

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[@Vi7ible]

You are now grown and or your own words of wisdom forward after adolescent years

[@gracekennelly8534]

I’m so happy 😀 to have found your channel Dr. Cloud!! Need it so much…. Hope to learn a lot from you Sir.

[@chelseajoy254]

"Just because there's an accusation doesn't mean there's an offense." Wow.

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@chelseajoy254]

@@ryu7408 So true! And it's the ability to start recognising how that inflicted guilt tortured our souls for me. I am SO glad that I am not only able to apologise to myself for partnering with the guilt, but to also reframe the experiences and keep calling myself the opposite of the accusations. God led me to write a list of confessions about a week before I bumped into this video, I recite them to myself after every 'incident'. One of the things we wrote was: 'It is okay for me to be a different identity from the woman they say I am'. In essence, just because they say I'm rude doesn't mean that that is who I am, or that that is who I have to be. And even when I am rude, I forgive myself faster acknowledging that it's simply me having strayed from my true identity.

[@ryu7408]

@@chelseajoy254 I'm happy that you are on a good path. Keep being you, then you are on the right path. I ended the cycle of self torture. And when I did I send my text to as many as I can reach. I'm happy that you already are on the right path. Blessings to you 🙂

[@laurenlaenen5852]

Thank you. Just thank you.

[@robinmccatty7662]

Guilt vs. Godly Sorrow. So powerful! We want to promote life through remorse vs. feeling bad, unworthy, and stuck. Thank you Dr. Cloud🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@theresabennett6491]

This is a message of freedom.

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@andrealmoseley6575]

Love the hat

[@CC-ze2ky]

Awesome work! Thank you!

[@kimlec3592]

Love the hat ! Classic !

[@Gigiyoungerme]

Thank you Dr. Henry Cloud 😃

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@ld3418]

In Catholicism, or the universal "catholic", once we confess, we are "freed from our sins" by the words of the priest, for all eternity (as long as we do not commit the same errors). We obviously will commit error so we go back and get freed again. To cling to the guilt of our sins is a sin itself.

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@Terrobul]

I believe I developed migraines from an over sensitive conscience due to the sins of my past…I actually thought God was giving me them to guard me from myself. Basically fear that engaging in gray area behaviors would draw me back to the old fleshly life. They’ve been going on 8 years now and don’t know how to get rid of them. I’m hoping they will resolve someday 🤕

[@rebekahguilder602]

I will pray that God heals you. God bless.

[@Terrobul]

@@rebekahguilder602 thanks 🙏🏼👍🏻

[@peladoclaus]

When God forgives you, he says he puts it behind him.. means he doesn't see it anymore. Guilt is only useful for stopping you from doing something again. If it's stopping you from moving forward, it's no longer useful. Harder for us to forgive ourselves than for God to forgive us.

[@Terrobul]

@@peladoclaus 1John 1:9 one of my favorite verses 👍🏻🙏🏼

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@glennavelilla156]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@poulfriis4103]

Dr. Cloud, thank you very much for this present. Right here at Christmastime😉

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@grafxgrl8030]

We lose life until we have a clear mind about grace. Otherwise old voices of condemnation just speak in different ways. It’s a self protective mechanism, not malice. It may come across as malice but it’s self preservation.

[@JesusSaves77799]

I feel more guilt for standing up for myself. Does anyone else feel that way? Thank you! 🙏

[@quezia-philemonmabry9391]

Love this!

[@iCa11]

Thanks

[@olympics1234567]

Thank you for this message! I needed to hear it.

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@alimrashid9765]

Coffee in hand sir 😌

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat]

❤️

[@ehill1229]

What is the difference between guilt and shame?

[@olympics1234567]

You may sometimes confuse shame with guilt, a related but different emotion. Guilt is a feeling you get when you did something wrong, or perceived you did something wrong. Shame is a feeling that your whole self is wrong, and it may not be related to a specific behavior or event.

[@ryu7408]

I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.b

[@countrydarlin8212]

Love this!