What is wedding appropriate?!?

[@Ms-cz8fr]

2nd & 4th are the most appropriate dresses. Simple and classy.

[@tikimillie]

Feel like the 4th is perhaps a bit too neon

[@chris492549]

The goal of your outfit at a wedding is to look as good as you can WITHOUT DRAWING ATENTION AWAY FROM THE BRIDE!

[@Bumblebee_honeycone]

@@tikimillie it’s neon?? option 4 looks like a pastel purple to me

[@tikimillie]

@@Bumblebee_honeycone what i meant was that it was too strong a color. I wouldn’t call it pastel though, would have to be lighter than that.

[@elizabethfortunato3371]

True. It shocks me to see so many of these young women who were never taught proper dress etiquette for weddings.

[@yourstepmom5982]

1 and 3 are probably the ones you shouldn’t be wearing 💀

[@kaitlynnogueira]

seriously😂😂

[@alexa_monroe]

Yeah she looks stunning in them but you don’t want to bring more attention to yourself than the bride

[@candace200]

yeah, she should keep them for sure but NOT wear them to a wedding unless she gets the OK from the bride. Bride would have to be fun and spunky and have a funky colorful themed wedding.

[@adriennea1348]

1 because it looks like she's wearing a towel robe, and 3 because it'd be hella uncomfortable to sit in that dress...

[@fathiyyaaz]

😂😂😂😂

[@connief9797]

Option 2 would be the most appropriate.

[@Giraffes_20]

Agreed

[@toodleloo2253]

Yes, the black floral dress is perfect for you & flattering. Key Rules are *NOT* to "Upstage" the Bride, or wear white!!- (& I've been to a lot of weddings! :).. Have fun!-

[@Mrsatsu]

Tbh I think the last one is better but the second is good

[@donnaa2180]

2 or 4 would be great choices

[@tracim3080]

That will depend because some people don’t consider black appropriate for weddings, so it would depend on the colour scheme of the wedding and how formal or informal they’re supposed to be otherwise it be option 4

[@ResinAlchemist2024]

Option 2 & 5 may be the safest. I personally decided on a wedding guest outfit by two guidelines. 1. It's classic and suits my figure as well as the season or theme. 2. It doesn't distract from or out shine the bride.

[@daughteroftheHighest.]

Absolutely!! ❤

[@nikkiv3169]

"I don't know if I know what appropriate wedding dresses are" Me, out loud, as soon as the first dress shows up "NOT THAT ONE THAT'S FOR SURE"

[@vvlovesbts375]

That was literally me, my jaw dropped😂

[@rubeinspired]

And 1 or 3 is her best pick 🤣

[@cassandracain9736]

Oh my god! Those are the exact words I used 🤣🤣🤣

[@bhaviniscookingshooking7723]

The 4

[@kayleesummer9777]

that’s exactly what i said!

[@katysmith1258]

“I don’t know what appropriate wedding dresses are!” Yeah, we can tell

[@emilie8356]

I’m sorry but it’s true 💀

[@lilly_star_night4558]

Yeah lol

[@eveningstar8581]

Righttt LOLLL

[@jessicahight8450]

You are being very mean!!!!!😡😡😡

[@snteag]

🤣

[@stellaconnor7093]

I think the last one. Very classy for a wedding.

[@ladymire]

It’s way too bright, so she’ll stand out. That’s what you DON’T want to do.

[@stefaniebraun3319]

​@@ladymire It will be fine, if it is a spring colour or pastel theme. The second one is a bit on the dark side and all the others are just - no, non, nee, nein, never ever.

[@akemi2929]

​@@ladymire You guys lack faith in your bride and your groom. Obviously they will be the center of attention. Duh. I find these Non Asian weddings so weird... Like, why do you guys always have a problem with ladies dressing up?? Are your brides that insecure? I never seen groom have any problems with their male friends shining and looking good.

[@SimulatedRoses]

@@ladymirenah standing out in a wedding is bad now? The bride and groom will 100% get all the attention even if you practically have a very shiny dress, trust me

[@Sigita989]

@@ladymire how bad brides looks in USA if you can upstage her with dress?

[@CactusYellon]

The last one is classic and elegant. Appropriate for weddings.

[@EmmarainePink]

saw the first dress and i immediately went, _"No."_

[@sethuparvathy]

why

[@poohbear6021]

@@sethuparvathy wym why? its bright pink and furry

[@icey5684]

@@poohbear6021 to short you would be the turn off attention by how short it is

[@poohbear6021]

@@icey5684 ik. i was agreeing with the person who said no

[@satisfyingvideos3992]

Same

[@BrittnanyBart]

When going to a wedding a great rule of thumb is don’t attract attention to yourself

[@deli5194]

thats literally the opposite of what you should do. maybe its white people wedding rule but for desi brown black weddings you need to outdo yourself

[@Lea-im3wr]

@@deli5194 But you can't go fancier than the marring couple can you?

[@LIROSTRAWBLES]

@@Lea-im3wr honestly in desi weddings I've mistaken so many people for the bride at times...overdressing just isn't a thing at some wedding 😅

[@mukulhariharan4715]

@@LIROSTRAWBLES I’ve been to a couple of weddings and there are some unwritten rules like the bride wearing a silk saree and the regular people wearing regular cotton but that’s just my opinion

[@LIROSTRAWBLES]

@@mukulhariharan4715 yup some desi weddings do have some sort of arrangements but some don't have a dress code at alll

[@kimcheng5210]

Option 2 was clean and simple. Also elegant ❤

[@toodleloo2253]

Yes, I wore dresses like that (floral/long/black & white pattern) to at least 5 U.S. Weddings & it was a HIT!!- (Also, I always avoid wearing something too fancy, flirty, lacy, shiny, or anything all-White!!)- Have fun!~💗

[@leela5247]

2 and 4 are the most appropriate. But they're all super pretty

[@Lin-rh6qs]

"1 and 3 are living in my head rent free" great! Wear them ANYWHERE but at a wedding...

[@ayaya7002]

-and church*

[@ffreya.]

@@ayaya7002 and funeral*

[@TheHouseAlways_wins]

@@ffreya. *and work

[@ifrahismael781]

and outside

[@simply.bellexx]

@@ifrahismael781 😂

[@joegomez6656]

The second one is the most wedding “ Appropriate” because of its subtle feel

[@Shoe_sisters2]

Yeah that'swhat I think

[@Leahpollard]

No 3

[@D4borah_sam01]

Ya

[@freedombawden7458]

You can’t look sexier than the bride might, gotta ditch the best for the 2nd best, because you’d want someone else to do the same on your day too, lol.

[@dyllankey]

Its black though you're not suppose to wear black or white

[@rxtro_rainbow]

i’d say 2- you want to give the bride the attention, but you also want to feel yourself!

[@MateusMarques]

The last one is amazing and elegant

[@LanaR4Y]

2, don’t be flashy, the wedding isn’t about you. Let the bride shine

[@asiahappy]

I was going to say the same thing

[@taaliyahratana3766]

Yeah 2 is most appropriate and elegant

[@gwneenrandompersoon3302]

I think same

[@rhondalee5087]

Yes, option two. Appropriate and beautiful. I agree that the bride should shine on her day. Option one was a hard no for most weddings,I think🥳

[@avaraney]

Bro why do u sound so personally offended 💀

[@Clara-uo9lj]

Most of them scream "I'm the hot ex girlfriend invited by the groom's mom cause she doesn't like the bride"

[@emilypotter4094]

No, because that person would be wearing a full on wedding dress

[@100realgigapeppa8]

💀

[@faded6089]

Haha so true

[@Toc_agirl]

🥲

[@mohammedanwar2222]

4

[@BadgerBabyBoy]

I love the last one 60's/70's vibe

[@candace200]

I'd say 2 for most weddings. 5 for a spring wedding or a garden wedding.

[@SeonaleeSobermati]

2nd is my most favourite so far also lavender satin one was gorgeous!!! Gimme please 🥺

[@danicaboswell]

When I saw the first dress I went: “oh no.”

[@cherrykamino]

Fr

[@rbaggett2439]

Same

[@alyssa-maeluxford7388]

Same

[@baboboiE]

Fr

[@amira6300]

Sameee like miss girl abt to steal the show

[@stephanieward4205]

Option 2 is the best option for a wedding. The others are too distracting…which the bride will hate. Never upstage the bride on her wedding day!

[@bwap7037]

she wouldn't upstage her lol everyone would get distracted by how tacky she looks 🤣

[@rttnmlk9013]

Not all brides care about that and would hate that

[@Sk1tty3_9]

Option two I agree!

[@h.e.l_e.n.a_03]

No option 2 is so ugly it makes her look like my great grandmother

[@hotchocolate2509]

Nooooo i love 3 it’s so cuteeeeeee

[@xxazrexx]

2 would be perfect. 4 is also a good choice

[@nstj4399]

I really liked the last one its more elegant

[@Vanna_09]

So the second dress is the most wedding appropriate one it’s simple yet elegant

[@crystalllama1288]

Yeah in some cultures it seen as rude to dress up fancier or more loud than the bride, so yeah, probably option 2. Option one and three are still pretty but they’re just… A little loud 😅

[@Bl00782]

But it’s black, on weddings you’re not supposed to wear black unless you’re in a suit

[@cindyflores8857]

But it’s black you are not supposed wear black at the wedding

[@placeagoodnamehereplease2828]

@@Bl00782 is that actually a thing? I though the no white except for the bride was the only rule(ofc if the bride gives permission)

[@christineantonio9641]

Yeah, and it's so pretty on her

[@maceygoddard6905]

The second one seems the most wedding appropriate and it’s cute!!

[@emmanuelaadebayo8591]

Ikr

[@Sophie45555]

Ikr

[@bog4543]

ur the only person i’ve seen who said this respectfully

[@pannajohns5255]

Omg thank you I have no idea why the top comment is saying the opposite, I think the first one and the third one are WAYY more eye-catching (especially the first one), the second one looked the least eye-catching but still really pretty and perfectly suitable for a wedding

[@praeliora]

But it's black, a bit of a no go for a wedding

[@anthonywhooley]

Option 2 is my favorite for the wedding 💍💒

[@debotri547]

watching this after knowing she’ll be getting married soon just hits different

[@lisajohansson655]

Wedding guest rule of thumb: you’re not the one who’s supposed to shine. The fact that most of the commentors understands this gives me hope

[@Clvsterfuck]

Not in my wedding, y’all can wear whatever you guys feel like it, shine brighter then me Idgaf

[@princesspastrami]

@@Clvsterfuck appropriate username

[@Khawlii7]

I never really understood that about white weddings. In our culture, there’s no such thing as “outshining the bride” lol sounds the most childish shit ever. The bride and groom themselves would feel very offended if people didn’t try their hardest to stand out and look the best on their wedding day.

[@okaynetflix8705]

@@Khawlii7 rightttttt same here in Sri Lanka 🇱🇰

[@lifeaftermidnight6132]

@@Khawlii7 Oh what's your culture?

[@arabicabean3350]

The second, please- all the other ones scream “I want the attention”, which is not what you want at someone else’s wedding. It’s all about the bride and the groom.

[@Eden-yl1sk]

I feel like 4 is okayish

[@arabicabean3350]

@@Eden-yl1sk Yeah

[@CherryBlossom13579]

The 2nd and fourth ones

[@simplifiedscene1917]

even as a bride the second one is a great choice

[@OraclesOrchids]

3 is my personal favorite, but 2, 4, 5 most wedding appropriate.

[@bubblewrapstargirl]

Option 3 or 4, both those purple dresses are 🔥🔥🔥💜they're all great dresses!! But do not ever wear the first one to a wedding. That's totally inappropriate. But it's a very fun dress for a party!

[@coolnewpants]

The #1 rule about weddings is "DO NOT DISTRACT FROM THE BRIDE". It's her day, not yours.

[@femkemouton8879]

Yes and dont wear shite like the bride the bride must be the center of attention

[@gracepotts5234]

Facts

[@amiraheart9187]

You cant never outshine the bride lol

[@mahalak4383]

Please...dress your best.

[@Weedee220381]

❤

[@LizBizEEEE]

Definitely dress 2, you aren’t supposed to be the centerpiece the bride and groom are. Dress number 2 isn’t too flashy and has a subtle elegance

[@dishuuu112]

Yess!! I agree!

[@Notiravgsarah]

Agreed it’s also just the nicest one

[@hargunkaur1295]

Agreed!!

[@apologyapocalypse8693]

​@@Vanilla_Girly_ You shouldn't wear white to a wedding not black.

[@Notiravgsarah]

@@Vanilla_Girly_ you can wear black to a wedding. You’re not supposed to wear white to a wedding

[@shanyavirasinghe8591]

2 and 5 are probably your best options as you don’t want to upstage the bride

[@traceyedwards6193]

The last dress more fitting for a wedding.

[@jiannabielby434]

the last thing you'll wanna do at a wedding is outdo the bride, so id go with maybe the second or last one

[@cherrybommb1268]

I would also probably go with a second or last. But in all honesty I just wear something a slight bit dressy. Not like casual casual wear but something a little bit nicer. But don't outdo the bride. You said that right

[@Mhk_04]

desi people : oh try me **wears their own wedding dress**

[@piazee3460]

last one

[@aribamarium13]

Indians can't relate 💀

[@scarcat666]

The second is great if your bride is smash bang gorgeous, but otherwise the last one does work as it is a rather safe choice for a wedding, don't outdo your bride. Also try to match your brides color scheme if she has one, if you can, it's always a nice gesture of friendship

[@allie8379]

“I don’t know what appropriate wedding dresses are” Me: Obviously

[@RiTzCrAcKeR584]

idk if that was meant negatively but ok

[@st4rsf0rem]

@@RiTzCrAcKeR584 probably is but I think she did good

[@user-gn5gb9pn1n]

LOL

[@aquathyst2075]

Underrated comment lol

[@lisecarolina]

I think dress #3 is perfect! I love the sequins and the color and it fits beautiful on you. I don’t think it’s “too loud” or inappropriate. Maybe it’s because I associate weddings to be held at night and be a formal affair (at least that’s how they are in my culture). If the wedding is to be held in the afternoon, maybe something more like a “tea party” dress would be more fitting. I don’t know. Maybe context would be needed.

[@lizcastellanos7410]

The second one is most better than the other ❤

[@fluffypineapple790]

Now I know she knows that 1 and 3 are definitely not wedding appropriate

[@thickthickly]

I guess if you don't think the bride should be the center of attention and not you, then maybe you wouldn't know lol 😅

[@fluffypineapple790]

@@thickthickly considering it was probably the bride and groom who invited you, that kinda mindset is still confusing 😭

[@letsstartadialogueeh7692]

@@fluffypineapple790 I mean that's like getting invited to a birthday and grabbing a slice of cake first. Everyone knows that's a no no haha.

[@monie3558]

@@thickthickly even still, people don’t dress like that outside in general let alone an event 😂

[@the_easiest_briezy5179]

@@fluffypineapple790 you’re getting invited to celebrate THEIR day because they want you there, not because they want you to be the center of attention

[@kyoriijae]

It’s either the last one or the second one. The others are giving “Ex of the groom that mom invited because she doesn’t like the bride”

[@snowwhite5887]

Agree

[@immarat2000]

Agreed

[@mariacastrovidela]

Agreed wooyoung 😉

[@agenshinweeb5100]

Diddo

[@andrej2932]

BYE THATS SO TRUE

[@natmccallion]

I loved the last one. It was the most chic and fashionable 🖤

[@the_real_pennelle593]

#2 IMHO that dress is the prettiest for a wedding.

[@MsNoPixel]

The second one was the most wedding appropriate, as well as it was the cutest.

[@sophieleynes2913]

Agreed 👍

[@kagoyamargret3442]

i agree

[@_Forestry-]

Agreed

[@ryleekyle6945]

Yes just logic

[@alexwonderwomen8581]

Agreed

[@valkyre420]

Rule #1 for weddings: Never try to outshine the bride.

[@Straw_berry_671]

Depends on the wedding

[@valkyre420]

@@Straw_berry_671 No, it does not depend on the wedding. It is #1 rule for all weddings - DO NOT try to outshine the bride. Don't do that - it is very rude. It is not your day to shine. It is the wedding couple's day to shine. So, dial it back about 10, and don't do that - Be respectful to the wedding couple. If they wear a burlap sack - you better be showing up in a Hefty bag dress.

[@Straw_berry_671]

@@valkyre420 I don't think you get but not every wedding has this rule especially if it's the brides choice and all cultures are different and we shouldn't disrespect it.

[@valkyre420]

@@Straw_berry_671 You don't know what you're talking about. Don't be lead astray by this person, she's looking to create bridezilla content.

[@Straw_berry_671]

@@valkyre420 I have no idea what your talking about all I'm trying to say is that not every wedding has this "rule" and can make up other rules to follow maybe you have to wear all black or wear a really pretty dress it's all up the bride. Also in different cultures around the world you can even look/dress up prettier to the bride but it's all up to the brides choice once again

[@Priyanka-sl8hs]

She's in minecraft with that lilac one😂 Seemed cute!

[@skillissuelol-df1yh]

All the dresses are appropriate, you look stunning in anything!

[@stuck_in_an_acorn]

You don’t want to “out show” the bride so DEFINITELY the second option

[@k-kaepjjang1876]

The last too could work

[@hireathlavender1073]

@@k-kaepjjang1876 true, but not alot of weddings are like tea party like lol,

[@AS-xj2rs]

You picked the wrong dress and have no confidence if you feel your guests will outshine you lmfao seek help

[@ccb3519]

3

[@missserenity1090]

No black isn’t usually okay to wear at weddings, though the dress is acceptable. The last two are the best. The last one can also be dressed to look classy without making her look like she’s an old lady.

[@Mothyave]

2 and 5 are the only ones in which you wouldn't look like you're trying to one-up the bride

[@theskyisfalling493]

Yeah 2!!!

[@anaghaashok5598]

Right!

[@taylorgayhart9497]

Also 4! It was simple and not flashy, but still pretty. I have one similar in a different color and it’s so nice!

[@leahpanya57]

I think option 5 is saying 'i had to wear something horrible to not look prettier than the bride.'

[@stadot1427]

​@@taylorgayhart9497 I would agree, but with the front cutouts, it's just a bit too revealing. Of course, that kind of depends on the crowd, but you don't want to be flaunting too much when it's someone else's special day.

[@inganishimuradosanjos4576]

The first one is just 👌

[@kayak1981]

Oh wear the purple dress that reminds you of your childhood dress! That’s so sweet and it looks great!

[@Inanothertimeandspace]

2 and 5. You don’t want to be louder than the bride. It’s not a time to shine the brightest: it’s a day you go and celebrate someone else, so it’s best to not be flashy.

[@jungwonscactus9425]

@@kkqq8037 no…you underdress compared to the bride ALWAYS.

[@taaylorr21]

@@kkqq8037 its just common sense to not wear something flashy or white out of respect for the bride. also common sense not to wear flip flops or jeans. set rules is where the bride and groom request all guests to be in one specific color.

[@t.o903]

This is such outdated thinking.

[@argentine9731]

@@t.o903 so being respectful is outdated thinking? damn what kind of life have i been living

[@t.o903]

@@argentine9731 Thinking only one woman can shine at a time is outdated thinking.

[@Downtowngirlinspo_]

I’m still processing that she was considering wearing the first outfit

[@crybebebunny]

Not if it's a church wedding.

[@desertrose3511]

@@crybebebunny if it’s a stripper wedding, but most strippers don’t get married I’m sure lol

[@ChristmasDarkening]

yes wth

[@Iloveyoursmile]

I would. She looks gr8 in it.

[@imnotellaa8896]

lmao 💀

[@annalouiise2282]

Options 1 and 3 looks like what a child would wear to a wedding.. After screaming and throwing a tantrum because the parents said no.

[@farah6258]

The last dress, elegant

[@userisunavailable12]

2 or 4 looks the most “wedding appropriate”

[@idioticbagel2833]

I agree. Unless the married couple tells you otherwise always go for the more subtle option. Now if they tell you go ham, wear whatever you’d like, take that as you wish.

[@heinz57channel39]

The bride would Be pissed with 1 or 3

[@iwanttosleep6414]

The 5th one is ok too.

[@myyou7335]

@@iwanttosleep6414 5th looks too serious. It would probably work if the y were in a english garden wedding

[@iwanttosleep6414]

@@myyou7335 It’s at least not offensive for a wedding like the 1st and 3rd. I doubt she would step on anyone’s toes wearing it even if it looks a little out of place.

[@jayzmeen_.]

"I don't know what appropiate dresses are?" It shows.

[@aleenaa436]

literally..let the bride have more attention then you-

[@jenniferlopez8961]

She wants to desperately get as much attention to a wedding that’s not hers and she’s doing in this stupid video. Such a blonde.

[@SadChip]

It shows that you guys don’t have logic sense she does not know she’s not taking the spot light and the pride is definitely wherein something better then that and it’s not her fault she has barely been to weddings and you quoting it wrong. “I don’t know what appropriate dresses are” are wrong she added wedding dresses so ur saying she has no style what so ever? Or was it a mistake?

[@samholmes7030]

I always suggest sending photos of them to the bride and letting her decide. If it were my wedding, that first one, the pink one, I would encourage you to wear, because you are rocking it and its a fantastic color on you.

[@Shutitnavi]

2 is the cutest and the most approproate in my opinion😊

[@EileenBokat]

2 or 5. Wedding attire usually shouldn’t be too “flashy”

[@Just_watchingyoutube]

Yeah I agree

[@josiecamilo7098]

The last one is most appropriate it's bright and classy. Other dress is more party dresses. The second is gorgeous day party or going out on the town.

[@Victoria-lx4gy]

I say 2

[@syedazehra3490]

Laughs in Indian 😂😂

[@Ally-ve3ip]

I say 4 with a few sewing skills xD

[@Apple-Pie-]

2nd dress definitely, you never want to stand out in a wedding unless you’re the bride or a bridesmaid

[@lowkeyyHarper]

Yea

[@spacetofu5306]

Definitely, unless if given permission from BOTH Bride and Groom, then don't wear anything that stands out.

[@emanuela4223]

@⋉Starbebby⋊ Lol but to me wedding is a fashion show. U might even find your future husband lool🖐💀

[@AsmaHt]

Meanwhile arabs showing up to weddings like it's a fashion show ✨

[@marytc2714]

@@AsmaHt ikr ...americans are crazy😂😂

[@borahaebts1227]

I just loved the purple one and the black one💜

[@karlangas1981]

Thanks to you I only buy clothes from there now. 🤣🤣🤣

[@katejohnson3598]

Weddings are pretty much the only time you need to attempt to not stand out love

[@minsugafan8748]

Real

[@SpottableBus]

And maybe also funerals lol. But yeah

[@charliebone8335]

European weddings are like that. For Indian weddings, even if everyone wears their fanciest dress (and they do. It can't be too plain for weddings), it is literally impossible to upstage the bride.

[@lenared2322]

And that’s why western wedding are so boring

[@144sanskrutishah4]

@@charliebone8335 cause white women are insecure about themselves

[@VincentGiza-Composer]

I’ve been to around 50 weddings (a lot of Italian relatives) and I have a good amount of experience in this department. Dress 2 and 5 are probably the most appropriate. Dress 2 probably more so. The last thing you want to do as a woman at a wedding is outshine the bride or draw attention away from the bride. It’s HER day, not yours. Wear something simple, modest, and NOT too extravagant. Basically what I’m saying is that dress 1 and 3 are extremely inappropriate to attend someone else’s wedding with. Hope this helps!

[@HowDoYouSpellDummb]

I'm Italian and have been to a crazy amount of weddings too! I also thought option 2 and 5 were the best.

[@jadynnewsome390]

she definitely needs to see this comment...

[@SaraMartinez-lw3eh]

I completely agree!

[@wehearttaria]

@@jadynnewsome390 I think she was joking about wearing the big poofy and sequence dress 💀

[@maevetaffe1713]

I fully agree!

[@joywilkinson3931]

You are beautiful and can literally pull off anything. I would always stick to feminine dresses for weddings and nothing too wow. Don’t want to piss of the bride. The last two dresses are very appropriate. Also the second one. Keep the third for your birthday

[@angelinadakkan9849]

2nd and 5th are the most appropriate ones and they are actually all pretty but those ones are the most appropriate❤❤

[@danielladahoui888]

Option 2! Other dresses are fun, but this is the most appropriate for a wedding.

[@amideska]

@@check2653 All the other dresses are inappropriate for a wedding, like the pink one was too bright, the purple one was too loud and the other purple one showed off too much skin. The reason number 2 is appropriate is because it is the simplest (out of all the dresses) and not distracting. The reason people won't wear colourful or fun dresses is because it outshines the bride - which you never want to do. The bride is supposed to be the most beautiful, and showing up with a dress that outshines hers is rude.

[@sparrowwilson4514]

That dress was awful, are you kidding?

[@OrchidBlossomplayz]

@@sparrowwilson4514showing up to a wedding in a bright pink dress is the worst idea ever

[@marniemacke454]

Cardinal rule of dressing for a wedding: You do not want to be drawing more attention than the bride! Big no to the faux fur. No to the sequins.

[@eoz27]

Although it’s a bit old school, you’re technically not supposed to wear black to a wedding either. So that leaves the last two! I would vote for the last one because it’s less showy but still cute. I would wear that with some little heels and some delicate jewelry and you’re good to go!!

[@RoyaleDaria]

yes! dont wear something that brings more attention to you than the bride so number 2

[@payalswamimap]

Haha. It's funny to hear that so many brides are insecure of themselves that they'd be intimidated by the guests. In india we appreciate all the overdressed guests 🥰

[@rosalie6418]

@@payalswamimap it's not insecurity but just being courteous, it's her big day afterall.

[@Kezeth20]

@@payalswamimap that's really cool 😁

[@jessjustreacts]

definitely the purple one! soooo cute and different!

[@ktharuni9645]

4th is appropriate cuz 1st is for cocktail or bachelor party, 2nd one is for the picnic or family get-together wear, 3rd is a reception or after party wear, last one is an office party wear or tea party wear.

[@RainbowRoyalty96]

Definitely #2 I don’t even know what to say about the other dresses LOL

[@Xx_Aracely_xX]

I think option 4 was the best LOL. The pink one looked like you were ready to work at a car wash and the purple one that you mentioned you had when you were five looked more of NYE dress than for a wedding

[@u2004157]

Yes!

[@saravaneerde6164]

Silhouette of 2, don’t wear black to a wedding unless it is black tie or better dress code or specifically requested in the invite. Some consider it bad luck. The time of day of the wedding could impact the formality of the event.

[@stvltiloqvent]

#2 looks a bit too casual, the tea party one works great

[@haloo_haybay]

I’d say option two is the safest option, but it also depends on the wedding’s theme.

[@check2653]

Do weddings have themes ?

[@sallycinnamon5370]

@@check2653 Some do. Not most. But I have heard of weddings with a disco or hippo themes. Those would be the only times I could see the 1 and 3 dresses not being ridiculous choices.

[@PaolaGonzalez-mb3ev]

What do you mean by safe?

[@sallycinnamon5370]

@@PaolaGonzalez-mb3ev Least likely to someone having a problem with.

[@haloo_haybay]

@@PaolaGonzalez-mb3evWell, it’s definitely the most understated. You don’t show up to a wedding and out dress the people getting married.

[@lorikowalsky1996]

Last dress is gorgeous on you!I order from Asos too.. It's hit or miss, but they have some unique items that I love!

[@user-zs6hy5ry7q]

I think 3 or 2 and 4 are the most appropriate for wedding ...and cute

[@its_ur_gurl_letti]

Just remember that when you go to someone's wedding dress appropriately,comfortably,according to dress code,nothing too fancy and never wear anything that outshines the bride/groom

[@knza880]

In our country everybody wear like full glam and lots of glitter and the wedding takes place in the night so it'll be like a club or smthg so they overdress to the point that u cannot spot the bride 😂😂

[@lipstickissist._746]

@@knza880 the aunties and everyone be wearing full glam with kgs of gold 🙈

[@DestinyTries]

... Don't come to my wedding like this bro😭 Oh wait I see it says according to dress code... nvm then. You're invited🤣. Especially if u coming on theme. We dressing up up, then we having like an Indian or African type reception. They know how to party 💃🏽💅🏽✨

[@arsh6027]

in india everyone goes all out, the only way you know who the bride it’s is because she’s the only one wearing red 😂

[@bjkl9936]

@@arsh6027 its just white ppl that dress casual

[@elisewinchester5624]

2 or 4, the other ones scream “Look at me!” And you don’t want to be that guest.

[@Dragonraiser11]

Same I like those two the most. I like the others, but those 2 seem the most appropriate to a wedding.

[@ThisUserPassedAway]

I think 5 is fine too.

[@Dragonraiser11]

@@ThisUserPassedAway it is.

[@elisewinchester5624]

@@ThisUserPassedAway it is, but it looks like something my granny would wear.

[@VoiceDivine]

No they don’t….she’s probably going to a wedding of someone her age…so no people aren’t gonna give her attention…y’all got some outdated ideas on women. I’m Fr gonna elope god.

[@andreiliver9295]

Last dress is the most appropriate.

[@SoLuVaBle299]

I think she knows exactly what she’s doing😂

[@Kaylamartin483]

Rule no.1 of weddings attire NEVER outdress the bride

[@casiedomingos5197]

How would I know if I will outdrew her tho 😭💀

[@YunaMiyamoto]

​@@casiedomingos5197 just don't wear anything, that could bring attention to you like too much skin shown, flashy colors or over the top accessoires Just something neat, something formal (unless specified otherwise), something simple

[@144sanskrutishah4]

​​​@@YunaMiyamotono way . If someone is pretty they will attract attention even if covered head to toe . So if you are prettier than the bride you are going to be noticed even in a potato sac😂 and its her wedding doesn't mean i should look bad. I wear something as per my taste , if the bride's taste is bad she will look bad so do i dress bad for her no way. Western brides are too insecure , all girls in india dress best for weddings but they can never outdo the bride and also no rules like that to put the pomp and show down rather other way round even the bride wants the guest to show up in their best clothes . Just be confident in yourself as a bride and all sorted

[@YunaMiyamoto]

@@144sanskrutishah4 it's totally ok, as long as the couple is fine with it. Sure my statement is based on western tradition, I don't deny that. But if the bride wants to be the most beautiful girl at the celebration, let her be (of course as long as she doesn't demand longlasting changes to your body like dying or cutting your hair) It's totally fine if the weddings you go to allow all to dress how they want Just do what the couple wants the celebration to be, because they're the ones being celebrated

[@144sanskrutishah4]

@@YunaMiyamoto no only if they specify a dress code if not you wear anything good and modest ya I agree not too revealing but it doesn't mean I can't be glam just cause it's her wedding. If so insecure then don't call anyone and stay locked up indoors lol

[@GraceSquad13]

The second one makes you look formal enough for a wedding, and it doesn’t take attention from the bride and groom.

[@GraceSquad13]

@@reiinU yes, exactly. The other dresses were flamboyant and would take attention away from the bride. That to me seems like a more appropriate dress to wear

[@Psy_duckling]

@@reiinU I’ve been to a ton of weddings where people wear black people don’t think of funeral attire or get offended by that unless they’re crazy

[@chrissiefannin7235]

@@reiinU it’s flowery. Not the funeral type of black dress. I think it’d be fine for a wedding, coming from someone getting married soon

[@harlomints7727]

people to telling you you're wrong is a war? damn some ppl 😭😭

[@chrissiefannin7235]

@@reiinU lmao it’s not like that, just sharing my opinion too 😂

[@krickett100percent]

For sure 2 is the most appropriate and number 4 but I love them all in you as always so beautiful ❤️

[@Ash_Coyote_On_Pawz]

If I saw that first dress at my wedding I would start laughing than start crying 😭

[@xomsicxompk]

The second one , at a wedding you’re a background character not the lead

[@boethia7367]

Exactly...

[@psychosama]

Also I think it was the nicest one . Plz I can't with the first and third , although the third one is link with her childhood memory .

[@mahd1yaa]

@@psychosama ikr, the last one was good too though!

[@psychosama]

@@mahd1yaa a bit too floral for my taste still cute

[@mahd1yaa]

@@psychosama don’t worry same but i think it fits her vibe yk

[@juliabroad5677]

the only thing you have to keep in mind when it comes to weddings is that you dont want to steal the spotlight from the bride. So I think options 2 and 4 are the most appropriate

[@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy]

Am I the only one who thinks the whole “I don’t want my guests to steal the spotlight” thing is literally so narcissistic?? Like wouldn’t you want your friends and family to look great at your wedding too as they’re there to support you?? Why would you want them to deliberately dress not as nice as they potentially could? Getting mad at guests wearing nice fancy clothes to weddings seems like such a bridezilla thing to me. Like as long as it’s not a long white dress so they don’t get mistaken for the bride, I don’t see any problem. Random rant but yeah, wedding culture in the west is so wierd to me.

[@maddieh8598]

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy well i don't think it's about being narcissistic.. even if the bride herself doesn't get mad at someone, i think it is basic manners to not to try outshine the bride herself.. it is their wedding,the most special day for them,they should be the main focus.. so going to a wedding wearing something "too much" just seems very ill mannered to me. And i don't think it's a western only thing either. I'm Asian myself, and I would never wear something that would outshine the bride.. that feels super weird and rude to me

[@BookishCat]

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy It’s definitely not just a western thing, it’s basic respect in my culture to wear something that doesn’t resemble a bride’s dress or something flashy that will outshine the bride. Just common sense and respect, like how you wouldn’t wear a wedding dress to a wedding

[@Rebellescum]

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy it’s more narcissistic to think that it’s ok to take the spotlight away from someone else’s day, seeing as they’ve invited you from a free party and free food

[@owochocolate9298]

@@FirstnameLastname-zq8oy dude it is their special day…it is nice to be selfless once in a while you know? It is just being considerate of other’s feelings

[@rebeccamakin9368]

Last one was beautiful ❤

[@chrisdobson5892]

The last one is far more suitable for a wedding

[@jkdonnie23]

Option 2 was definitely the most wedding appropriate but it honestly depends on what the wedding theme is.

[@kevinboylan6172]

Its the closest thing to a funeral before a funeral

[@Year85]

What are you guys wearing you funerals?-

[@craamby]

last one tbh 🫥

[@jasperjazzie]

don't they usually tell you what to wear anyway? i always thought they gave you a dress code, a color and theme and all that

[@Name_760]

@@jasperjazzie i don't think so mabye not that much.

[@RosiePosie-db6lb]

The second dress is perfect for a wedding

[@millie7713]

I aggree

[@Yumekosaie]

2 and 5 for sure, they are nice and modest, 4 is also a good option, it would be nice for a beach wedding

[@amiehueble1880]

all of them are wedding appropriate except the first one, and the 3rd one would have to fit the vibe of the wedding but it could definitely still work

[@check2653]

You seem to be an expert, have you been to many weddings ?

[@misskita4601]

Second one is most wedding “appropriate”.

[@brokebaddieboutique]

I’d cry if somebody wore that first dress to my wedding

[@sajaayesh481]

From laughing ?😂

[@ominous973]

I’d ask them if we hired them as a rug

[@bhuvanakeertu209]

Same

[@alitasledz9786]

It’s like if Cruella DeVille had a thing for Muppets instead of dalmatians.

[@laurencastillo2445]

Same

[@shantelbarnhill4222]

#2 for the wedding. I love #1 but hate the sleeve. Needs to be a 1 shoulder dress. Love the pink!!

[@i_kpop_fan]

Either option 2 or 5. American wedding rules: When going to a wedding, do not wear white or any really pale color. Don’t wear a gown or anything overly beaded or ornate. Don’t wear something that shows a ton of skin unless it is summer, but even then make sure it is tasteful skin, not a minidress or your boobs hanging out. The point of the wedding is NOT the guest or the guest’s fashion. So don’t wear something you may wear to a club or a party. Think, something you would wear to tea.

[@vic23894]

2 and 4 are the best options for a wedding, you want to be classy and elegant without putting to much effort into your look, it’s about the bride not you

[@janaeva2307]

You're definitely not arab 😂 In middle east arab weddings We tend to deal with a wedding as if it's the Oscars of the met gala or something 😂 Every girl picks the most standing out shimmery shinny glittery huge gown and make ultimate make up so she's not even recognizable anymore and the hair they make huge hair styles and even though the bride stands out more than everybody else in her huge white gown no one steals her moment or something.. but yeah I know we tend to really over over our looks in wedding unlike western people Even Asians like Japanese tend to have simple dresses and nice quiet romantic music It's just us in the middle who are really really load in how we look and in our music and dancing are extremely load too

[@diehard8615]

​@@janaeva2307 This is true in Asia too 😅😅 Girls NEVER wear the same dress they wore for one wedding, again to another 😂😂

[@janaeva2307]

@@diehard8615 yeah exactly 😂

[@Just.there123]

That’s what I was thinking

[@supurnasinha6124]

Which wedding have u been to?

[@lorihannon-theaker4660]

The 2nd one, definitely. Remember: it’s the bride’s day to shine. 🤓

[@Loanwa]

I agree. Or even the last one would work for a wedding.

[@myamazinglife4401]

i completely agree

[@ellaryan282]

2nd for sure

[@milenak.3306]

2nd or last i think

[@Tesjhkyayy]

@@Loanwa well, but it's in a black colour, so maybe that's also not the right one. Black is for furnerals.

[@johrecko61]

Do not, under any circumstances, wear option 1 😂

[@user-br3dh4ix9b]

Either 2 or 4 I would say btw those dresses are so beautiful!!