What is wrong with modern women?

How coddling, solipsism and status has affected women's ability to find good men.
“Effects of sexual dimorphism on facial attractiveness”, D.I. Perrett et al. Nature. 1998, NIH website (www.nature.com/articles/29772)

[@robertwhiteley-yv1sy]

I was talking with a girl from work who has been single for a very long time and she was complaining about how she can’t find the man she wants. She probably a 5 in attractiveness and is 33 but i couldn’t believe something she said. She said she wants someone who looks like Henry Cavill, she was quick to clarify that she didn’t want Henry cavill in superman, she wanted Henry cavill in the Witcher! Her bar for partner is so high it’s entering fictional planes of existence.

[@Michael_RareZebra]

It's an epidemic. It's a result of our fake society and the (empty) compliments many women receive across the board. They view themselves through a different lens then wonder why they're still single.

[@natashadickson4819]

No one's problem

[@robertwhiteley-yv1sy]

@@natashadickson4819 I’m a bit slow, I’m may need a bit more context to figure out what you mean.

[@paulbucklebuckle4921]

Half the problem is we call her a girl at the age of 33 , she's practically middle aged .

[@natashadickson4819]

@robertwhiteley-yv1sy She's not a problem. She's free to want what she wants, do what she wants, wait for a Henry Cavill type, if she wants.

[@uberlupe1]

Women want two things: "More" and "Something Else".

[@annarboriter]

*more and what she sees that another woman has

[@HaydenYoshi]

so true 🤣🤣😂

[@sunkillsmoon]

They want one thing.... Everything

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

There's even women singing songs about wanting everything 😂😂😂

[@Mikolaj1334]

Which is oddily like watching porn 🤔

[@ka0t1k1]

There are two tragedies women face: not getting what they want, and getting exactly what they asked for

[@willbass2869]

"not getting what they want.." is not tragedy. That's called: "Welcome to adulthood" But your latter observation rings truer

[@craigsmith2755]

The best strategy for men is to not give a shit what women want. They are not the prize.

[@nikolayordanov3115]

Isn't that called a paradox? Wanting two things that exclude each other. I think that the problem is that women are a bit like hermaphrodites. I mean, the clitoris is basically a tiny penis head that is only used for pleasure but at the same time they have a fully functioning vagina.

[@user-yw8qf8cc3t]

A d having to decide 😅

[@devonjenkins6829]

​@willbass2869 we know it's not a tragedy but the woman will consider it to be so

[@PhilipTikka]

Nothing is wrong with modern women, women have ALWAYS been this way. The main difference today is women have the freedom to act out without repercussions like yesteryears.

[@fnd111]

Exactly.

[@AnteLene]

They don't want men to know that because they'd rather have us long for the past which was actually not kind at all towards men and boys.

[@najmerkamil]

But I would add, that today this is even promoted.

[@AnteLene]

@@najmerkamil Lack of accountability and consequences for women relative to men has always been promoted throughout history.

[@najmerkamil]

@@AnteLene nothing in history compares to today's social-media degeneracy promotion

[@WardDorrity]

Women got what they wanted. But they do not enjoy the consequences.

[@natashadickson4819]

That depends on what the individual wanted. Not every woman is dissatisfied with what she got. Different women chose different things.

[@balitangkamatis]

@@natashadickson4819 most.

[@natashadickson4819]

@@balitangkamatis Not a problem

[@balitangkamatis]

@@natashadickson4819 for now

[@melkerner]

Women get what they want, and 5 minutes later, they want something else, then 5 minutes later..... But CHAD or TYRONE gets whatever he wants while dedicated, honorable men get sh*t on by the women that supposedly "love" them

[@Terrapin47-s8y]

I’ve come to the conclusion that women hate reality.

[@lucywucyyy]

everyone does dude reality is cruel to all of us but societies gender fuckery really isnt helping

[@jd8184]

Men are 3 times more likely to self delete. More likely to have no friends. Are falling behind in education, from primary to collegiate level compared to women. They just aren't rising to the level that women are growing to in all aspects of life It seems men hate reality

[@aetherland1883]

Even on a perfect world they would find any little imperfection to complain and be insufferable about.... Pathetic......

[@alanbradley9621]

An experience that develops into hatred of men/man has been a more than once experience. I do not know the why of it.

[@najmerkamil]

Then they dramatise about everything and start cheating for compensation.

[@Rocky-or4rz]

Women consider men as accessories. Not as life partners.

[@j.3566]

Don't know about that one. A lot do probably, don't get me wrong.

[@John_Wood_]

disposable

[@alpacacomentadora413]

Just as men consider women as objects

[@MidnightMark12]

@@alpacacomentadora413 That's what happens when they toss all womanhood into the trash.

[@artylheira]

Men and women do this. Every day an idiot and a smart person leave the house. When they meet there is always business!!!

[@basedmanaf8100]

In a relationship men are in love and women are in business.

[@mastermindrational1907]

Women think they are better than they are.

[@nerychristian]

This is the main reason society has been ruined. Feminism and propaganda have made women believe that they are the fairer sex, and that they can do anything a man can do. Women are constantly being flattered and told how wonderful they are. Everyone is afraid to even mention that women have flaws and that they can't do everything a man can do. Women have big egos and very little empathy for others, especially men. They are like children, who have been spoiled, and were never taught to think of other before themselves. Ancient societies had things right when they had arranged marriages. People back then were smart enough to know that women are weak, and should not be given power over a man.

[@sumairshirazi]

Exactly women forget how powerful men are.

[@de14jabs]

All because the struggle to survive doesn't exist as nature had directed for millennia. Bring back real survival stresses, they will seek help.

[@mr.t993]

@@sumairshirazi No they forgot that they are biological programmed to deeply long for an intimate connection to a competent leading male in their lives. They want to be more powerful but they are doomed if they achieve it, because then they are doomed to be in the lead all their lives, wich makes them miserable. Women can become more powerful then men, but only at great costs wich they dont realize. They have to give up everything wich makes them happy and in return every man who enters into a relationship with her is also doomed to be unhappy because he cant live up to her standards. We started living the lie and people are starting to notice.. Sadly we are not allowed any more to say what we really want. Women think masculinity is toxic and Men think women who want to stay at home are gold diggers.

[@hurricane2053]

Problem is men don't understand women are not the prize. The man is

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

Once upon a time a man proposed to a woman. The woman said no. The man lived happily ever after without the risk of losing his money, house and kids.

[@will7its]

I love that fable......🤣

[@BehindThe8]

@@will7its it's not a fable... it's reality

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

@@BehindThe8 Facts.

[@jd8184]

@@BehindThe8 yeah that's why men are like 3 more times likely to commit suicide, are falling behind in college enrollment. Report higher rates of loneliness and having no friends.

[@ccjohnson6251]

AND the women he fell in love with and thought he would share his life with.

[@prschuster]

Men tend to have more status, but women garner more empathy and protection, while men are expected to risk their lives and safety for the well being of women. It's a trade off. In short, feminism wants women to gain the status of men without sacrificing the empathy gap that has always prioritized the comfort and safety of women.

[@johncarlson6472]

Great point. I feel exactly the same. On another note, I believe we men are ok knowing were the "disposable sex," so to speak, but when your own society paints you as a violent, toxically-masculine patriarchal sh*tlord, roaming the land, looking for women to oppress and children to abuse, it's time to step back and re-asses the situation. What an insult. Being creatures of logic, reason and ethics, I believe more and more men are looking at the situation dispassionately and adjusting accordingly. This is why we're seeing more and more men saving their money and just getting the hell outta Dodge and migrating to Countries like Philippines and Thailand, where the women make far superior mates and their societies still have a modicum of respect and admiration for men.

[@theyawningowlbear6758]

Ladies, we don't care anymore. Leave us alone. Seriously, leave us alone. Winter is here. Enjoy your cats, boxed wine, and the draft that is coming.

[@Rockownz5150]

In what sense do you want women to leave you alone? You mean you get hit on often, chicks send you vag pics in your dms?

[@hippo-potamus]

If you were the Chad and had countless Stacies throwing themselves at you, buying you things, showering you with praises, would you remain stoic or would you not just like the women you despise also turn into a skan k? Do you not see the hypocrisy you stand on?

[@ZomboidMania]

​@@hippo-potamus that's a weakness of character, and it's best not to assume someone is a weak character

[@hippo-potamus]

@@ZomboidMania So what you are saying is if YOU were on a deserted island with nothing but hot stacy-type models, YOU would only limit yourself to one partner because you have such "good character?" You are full of sh8t mate. As most will read there is a cognitive disconnect in the modern male mind so strong that they cannot even see the hypocrisy when laid out for them on a silver platter. Its no insult to agree to the truth, it is what it is.

[@terohyvarinen4358]

I have more than once said that women care about dogs more than men. That was perfectly ok for the women hearing my opinion. Then I asked about dogs and women's sexual needs. Well, I got what I was begging: rage. But basically, a woman's life is easier if she replaces another human with a pet. A dog usually don't oppose. A woman don't expect a dog to say much anything, listening is enough. Dogs are happy for everything given to them, as long as it is not rage or violence. Men get frustrated. Men get even more frustrated if they are treated like dogs.

[@michaellombardi5831]

Men desire women. Women desire things.

[@RagTag-N-Bobtail]

UG UGG, ME A.T.M. MACHINE, UG UGG!!!

[@MathewMargolis-qe6hz]

Women desire attention. Men desire objects.

[@wmasterss]

Not true. Who's picking a woman over their favorite car?

[@StarFox85]

@@wmasterss 🤣

[@paulfri1569]

Or Men value love and Women love value..

[@lookupthereupinthetrees9860]

One of my favourite things I like asking other men is "so how long do you think think the relationship would last if you treated her the way that she treats you?" The typical answer is "about 2 days." The women have the power in the relationships, they know it, and therefore it's open to casual abuse.. There's no position of power or respect if your partner treats you as an option or an employee or as someone who's obviously standing on shaky ground.

[@hipreference]

What? Why not go where you’re treated best? ✈️✈️✈️

[@ghost46857]

So, if men stopped allowing this kind of behavior, and actually left the relationship, then perhaps women would learn. The ultimate power is to walk away.

[@VaronPlateando]

@@ghost46857yes, certainly so, as for the latter. things is, though, xx.s can’t really learn for their better, because time is running iut for all of them alike, with no rejuvenating travel-back-option to any point before. qst.n is whether they still may fare well with some rest left, but most seem as obnoxiously compromised | handicapped | malignly infested as to not be capable of enjoying alike.

[@steventipton5130]

In my experience men treat women ten times better then the women treat the men and that is why so many men have walked away

[@lookupthereupinthetrees9860]

There's no going back now. After 100,000 years of human evolution we finally completely understand how they think. Thanks to social media most of them can't STFU, and so it creates the self-confirming cognitive bias that fuels the red pill movement. As for myself it only took me 20 years too late to get good at ending relationships. It amazes me even how low even I've set the bar in terms of expectations, but once they can't even meet you half way in terms of basic respect it's over. It's like there's this unwritten expectation that a man should be or tolerate being someone's emotional toilet and this is somehow a part of being sensitive and new age etc.

[@pakenhamin]

Men need more than just the responsibility of society. They need the authority that goes with that responsibility.

[@erinbyrd5377]

Agreed

[@michaels4255]

@@divusgamer853 NOT true. Women were indeed convicted of war crimes by the Allied tribunals, and some of them even got the death penalty. And the standard of evidence was not very high in some of those trials either.

[@pakenhamin]

@@divusgamer853 Nothing has changed except that men have had their authority taken away from them. Society still expects them to carry their responsibility without the authority. That is slavery.

[@tw4143]

men need to protect this woman at all cost.

[@hippo-potamus]

The male is only a creep if the women finds him unattractive.

[@504cp]

Nope. She said men can't lead wmn any more. They don't need us

[@beerman204]

We may be reaching a point where an intimate relationship with the opposite sex is just too damn problematic...

[@erinbyrd5377]

I know, and that's a serious problem. Not just mental-health wise but the population is due to collapse.

[@piotr004]

@@erinbyrd5377 And women are destroying it. It's so ironic that women are destroying the civilization that has granted them the biggest privileges in the human history. The civilization that will come next (probably by the power of sheer numbers, higher birthrate) will definitely not pamper women, as they wouldn't want to repeat the same mistake. The only loss I would be worried about would be men-mostly probably men would be forced (like in all wars, conflicts, etc.) to defend women during the clashes of civilizations, but women won't be worth to defend them at all. In fact, conscripting all "strong, independent women" and send them to, for example, Ukraine's war front would be beneficial for both men and the rest of sane women. Those "independent ones" would have a REAL chance to prove themselves (no empty talking), and, if by any miracle, they succeeded at war, that success would be beneficial not only for those "independent ones" (they should be happy they proved themselves, right? They shouldn't care about dying, just like they don't care about Ukrainian men dying), but for the Ukrainian men and the world peace in general.

[@Texasno420]

⁠i am honored to be in your presence. I only wish i was as masculine as you are feminine

[@cuteface88]

@@erinbyrd5377 Problem? Our oligarch overlords sure don't think so :)

[@erinbyrd5377]

That's incredibly sad

[@mrgreyman3358]

I observed female behaviour in primary and secondary school. As soon as I finished high school at 14, I disappeared off the face of the earth, went Droving livestock. then joined the army. Retired from the army and have lived a wonderful peaceful life. all the girls I knew in school, have all been married and divorced multiple times.

[@TheBearNecessitiesofknowledge]

Lovely to hear mate, I wish and hope you have peace for rest of your life thank you for your service.

[@alanbradley9621]

So sick of hearing how dissatisfied all these women are. No incentive for women to be decent people.

[@dmp1520]

and what, you had sex with cows or the boys in recruit or what?

[@larrywhittemore9362]

You made a great decision, pussy is way overrated, and really all mans headaches can be traced back to a desire for pussy! I'm 75 and know that as true...

[@RealQueenBowsette]

Damn done all that? Impressive! You go my dude if I would live in the USA I would say or you know what thank you for your service even if I live in the Netherlands you guys are the real ones keeping us safe too! If I could pay for your flight to come here for a bit we be smoking a joint since I don't like to drink.

[@AvitaBeckling]

There is no one on earth that's a 9/10 or a 10/10 by looks alone. Women think they are special when they have a decent job and pay their own bills. Wow welcome to being an adult like everyone else.

[@jeffreybright8119]

As Bill Burr said .. Women are forever patting themselves on the back 😆

[@Hope_Boat]

A descent job is not a job providing money. A descent job is a job creating value. People making the most money rarely create anything valuable.

[@conanthebarb9194]

Bingo! Literally doing the bare minimum to keep a roof over their heads and food in their bellies but yet, “I’m a strong independent woman” lol.

[@Genjutsu238]

Onlyfans

[@jamesgrange9774]

Women are attracted to chaos, if it's not chaotic in her life, she will make damn sure it will be.

[@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff]

Bottom line; Chicks are each other's worst enemies.

[@bootscooty]

This brat case in point

[@_munkykok_]

Who would have thought? #Competition

[@bobgriffin316]

Someone said that men don't understand women. Women do. That is why they hate each other.

[@Dave-oo1sp]

And their own

[@christopher6759]

That's why matriarchies don't work

[@tuinov6286]

There is nothing wrong with women not wanting men. Just don't cry when life gets harder.

[@dg271]

It is a problem because they are still depending on men through government benefits and infrastructure support but their modern version of solipsism makes them ungrateful and oblivious. (Well, they are not so oblivious to trashy scumbag chads). It's also a problem because if this continues the population will plummet. Actually, maybe good riddance to this degenerate society after all.

[@shanesmith5198]

nice point

[@tensevo]

when all the trades have either fallen into vice, self-rejected or suicided themselves, who will do the plumbing and carpentry?

[@tuinov6286]

@@tensevo No one. Thats why i said they should not cry when men walk away. Its sad but women will never care about average men. And average men won't care about society in return.

[@27qwljrob2]

@@tuinov6286 Yup. I'm reminded of an African proverb that says, "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." Despite my best efforts, I have not been successful in finding the source of this quote.

[@CSPaffy]

I have never seen a person more utterly ageless. You could tell me she was anywhere from 15 to 55, and I would 100% believe it. Elven energy

[@jameswillard-brown6697]

Your paper, despite having some valid predication, does function normatively in large part. Men haven’t become too weak to lead. Women have become too insufferable to be led. Men ARE restoring themselves and leading by checking out and rejecting modern women. Also marital contracts MUST be re-strengthened prior to abortion privileges being revoked or it will only serve as another disproportionate burden on men.

[@ApexGaming100]

Society needs to collapse first and rebuilt by strong men, thats the only way I see things changing.

[@aldenduffieldIII]

Bingo!!!

[@roygbiv6935]

Can’t wait

[@patrickmcfly3264]

@@roygbiv6935 Not in our generation

that ain't happening anytime soon.

[@logicaestrex2278]

​@@roygbiv6935I'm not waiting and neither are my brothers, we're doing it now

[@easter_sunday]

The best option a man can employ as far as modern women are concerned is avoiding them unless dealings are necessary. There are no long term benefits, and too many social and legal risks.

[@manumaster1990]

this. we need to be as rational as possible.

[@user-ih5vg4xk3t]

I live in a small rural town in the South and you wouldn't believe how many women offer ball draining services here! They will even come to your house and none of them have pimps to deal with! 99% of them are White and under 35 but they would rather live as prostitutes than marry and live responsible lives. You couldn't pay me to marry a White woman these days! They will give you an STD and take half your stuff LOL! The only good thing I got from my White woman is my Son, he makes me proud every day.

[@organikproductionz9347]

So true, why risk getting my heart broke, cheated on, lied to, losing my home, money, and mental integrity, having to reinvent myself, hating myself because the person never liked me, losing custody of my children, dealing with disrespect , Ef all that

[@ZomboidMania]

Orrrrr just find the right women LOL

[@easter_sunday]

@@ZomboidMania that’s no small thing when a man is one accusation away from a prison sentence. Besides, I actually have better things to do than to play the mule for the mistress that’s cruel. The kind of woman that’ll make a man sit in his car in the driveway, weary and wary of a false sanctuary while he leaves one battle only to arrive at yet another…

[@venvnco6259]

Men marry for love. Women marry for business.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@venvnco6259 Not all women

[@danielhammond3218]

@@erinbyrd5377 i’m not totally convinced that women are capable of love. The ease from which they walk away from a 20 year marriage is astounding. And besides, how many love songs are written by women?

[@giannisnikoloudakis5647]

I fed up of modern society and culture. I prefer to be alone that to fight for a lost cause...

[@JohnSwayne]

I don't agree that a woman is a 10 only based on her looks. A 10 at meeting can quickly become a 5 based upon their actions, for some men. The issue isn't that women aren't expected at all to have good personalities. Rather, the problem is that there are many men who are desperate for validation from women, and thusly jettison their personality standards.

[@stripedrajang3571]

Well said.

[@HellCat_Kenny]

Hard agree.

[@prizeking1647]

How many times have I seen a 10 in looks and then she opens her mouth and starts chatting and all of the sudden she goes down from 10 to a much lower number.

[@jth_printed_designs]

Depends what scale you’re evaluating her on. If you just want to put your piss pump inside her then it doesn’t matter if she’s a criminal. If you’re looking for a spouse, then yes the character traits matter

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

Women should be evaluated on a 30 points basis. 10 points for looks, 10 points for sexual abilities and 10 points for personality/values. On the sort term, the first two criterias are easy to grade whereas the last one is not so evident. Yet if a relationship is to last, then the last criteria is more important because good looks tend to fade over time and sex may become less important while personality/values will remain over time.

[@huggybear539]

Everything you said was intuited by anti suffragettes in the 19th century when women were striving for the vote. Anti suffragettes said if women were able to vote and get jobs, they would become overly masculine, pushing away men and driving a wedge between the sexes. Marriages would start failing and become more infrequent resulting in the breakdown of the family unit where mainly children would suffer resulting in the ultimate breakdown of society. The most amazing thing about this realization is that the greatest majority of anti suffragettes were women.

[@alleygh0st]

and some people took note of that and turned it into a system

[@huggybear539]

@@alleygh0st What do you mean?

[@WyldStallion-bs9oo]

Repeal the 19th amendment! young women especially are not informed voters. They are very very very vulnerable to propaganda. Why do you think "The View" has been on for so long. Also I think young women have driven tik tok and instagram to be so big.

[@WyldStallion-bs9oo]

@@huggybear539 I think he means that a whole industry has been made from using feminism to rake in power, money, etc. I think the colleges/universities are a big example of this. Between the 19th and 26th amendments the college campuses have become politized so much now due to them. Honestly I think most amendments passed since 16A have sucked. 16A sucks, 17A sucks, 19A sucks, 23A sucks, 26A sucks.

[@iamLI3]

@@huggybear539 perhaps he is referring to the cultural marxist womanist infiltration of all facets of our western civilization to institutionalize the disparagement and degradation of men and the male energy in every way

[@F13077]

Your final point is the most important piece, men are beyond demoralized and defeated to act at this point. Unless women make a collective effort to remoralize and uplift men, not only nothing's going to change, but things will keep getting worse indefinitely.

[@erinbyrd5377]

Women got us into this mess. They're responsible for getting us out of it.

[@F13077]

@@erinbyrd5377 Anyway, it has to be a collective effort. You should reach out to other female content creators if you're interested in starting a movement and your number one goal should be reaching a female audience, because we men already get it. It also needs a catchy name that encapsulates what it's about, which is restoring gender relations and shutting down this gender war. If you think about it, feminism would have never truly taken off either without it's brand recognition.

[@OktoPutsch]

Behind every great man, there is a woman. They tend to ignore this. The responsability of women is to push men to make the best of themselves, not to effortlessly pick up the best option like a lazy kid. The main problem is maturity. Listen to the average women complains and you'll learn a lot about themselves, their soul or subconscious speak truth and straight about who they are, it's just introspection in disguise.

[@ShayPatrickCormacTHEHUNTER]

@@erinbyrd5377 This was Gods decision to acomplish it. No one will stop it. No man, or woman will change the course God determined for this society.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@F13077 Have you met a woman before? lol, they can be stubborn. They're raised in this weird paradigm where they're told that men think they're inferior but secretly they're superior, it's weird.

[@AG26498]

Now I understand why religions and traditions placed so much importance on restricting female nature.

[@GackFinder]

Yep, and J.D. Unwin proved that three generations after those restrictions are taken away, societaI coIIapse is inevitabIe. History shows it's gonna get way worse before it gets better.

[@hippo-potamus]

Do your standards also apply to the male Chad? or does your hypocrisy only flow one way?

[@AG26498]

@@hippo-potamus yes. I am very traditionally raised. Something more parents should do

[@hippo-potamus]

@@AG26498 Perhaps you are a male unicorn. However I feel that if the rolls were reversed only a de minimis number of men could resist what the modern women now has ie constant never ending attention, validation, gifts, help, praises, and an endless choice of sexual encounters with the cherry on top of which after partying and partaking also gets to eat the cake by settling down with a beta provider. They cant lose. Its the god loophole ie when something goes good its his doing and when something goes bad its the devils fault. You win both ways. So perhaps you have never been tested or most likely you like 99% of men do not fall into the Chad category and therefore your positions have never had to face the challenge.

[@Brookspirit]

@@hippo-potamus "Chads" are a tiny minority of men and they can only behave like they do because so many women let them. Most men are invisible to women and never have the chance to act like "Chad". Most women can get a man without much effort.

[@xagonent4942]

Women have bears, so they seem fine to me.

[@KalaAltheaBalik]

And what variety! There are teddybears, grizzlies, pandas, blackbears, polarbears, p3d0bears.. all kinds.

[@elonever.2.071]

Don't forget Wade Wilson.

[@Hope_Boat]

Not beats, a bear. And his name is Minimum. They meet the bear Minimum.

[@Bacon_Is_Medicine]

Let them have bears.

[@ProtoIndoEuropean88]

And bears have a meal.

[@Defathomize]

"There are less men to choose from" or "women are too picky about men at some point"? There is a lot of very weird behaviors in this: they want to work and make money, but not to provide, for status. This is sick honestly. It's downright disgusting. It feels like as men we are told to be nice to girls our whole lives by everyone. Then when it comes to women they don't even think twice about not returning the favor in any type of way.

[@piotr004]

Exactly. It's like women are egoistic and selfish by default.

[@sergiug2837]

sick is right but they really know how to play the victim too, and what better disguise for such disgusting, vile acts than to claim that you are the victim, when, in reality, you are the perpetrator, the abuser. I think it is way beyond sick. It is down right evil.

[@craigsmith2755]

It's 50 years of brainwashing and manipulation. It happened so gradually but very deliberately, all government sanctioned of course. It's only through experience that men wise up. Thankfully I learned through other's mistakes and never got married.

[@halominder]

I think one aspect is that a lot fo women didn't have any money of their own - it was all in the hands of their man and he had the last say.

[@Defathomize]

@@halominder 70 years ago maybe. It has to do with their natural instincts. Naturally they always look to a strong partner, stronger than them, financially. But their pursuits in careers is very unnatural to them and mainly pushed on them by social media. The result of that however, is a collapsing society. Double incomes means double prices (they don't want men to stop working so they can provide, unfortunately), no time to raise children, less children in general. Less taking care of their families. The ideals will eventually go extinct on their own and be replaced.

[@EnwardJim]

I know that there are caring and honest women who want love out there, but it's depressing how hard they are to find. Modern dating feels like walking a minefield while a guy on a megaphone asks me psychology questions.

[@FilthyVarmint]

Just never fall into the trap that there aren't ANY good women left, that will lead you down the incel path, which will guarantee that you never find a good woman. For what it's worth, the south (the southeast of the US, just in case your aren't American) being slow to change means that there's still plenty of traditional women here who want to live a life with typical gender roles. Even the more liberal women I've dated were into it. (Though I am noticing more and more of the feminist types lately) Just something to think about. Might be worth taking a vacation here and seeing how well you click with the women.

[@crankfotton]

A woman's brain has two parts. One is for shopping, the other is not used.

[@erinbyrd5377]

Hilarious

[@wrelow]

Na other is for fantasizing about your best friend

[@sergiug2837]

you're clearly an idiot who should stay off the internet

[@gglehteswhtemnAdChrstns]

@@wrelow love it 😂😂😂😂. It’s only funny because it’s true.

[@svartvist]

They just can't make up their mind which part to use for the purchase.

[@mckeeasdf]

As long as the legal system remains entirely one sided, the smart men will simply avoid all women out of a sense self preservation. The policy makers thought that by favoring the women to the maximum, it would be good for them. This lack of concern for long-term consequences has backfired. Now, the refusal to admit they were wrong, will cause the system to remain broken.

[@tjvista8177]

Even if the system gets rebuilt from the ground up, there woukd countless opposition from people that exploited the system, as they wanted the benefits without responsibility for their actions.

[@atrainradio929]

Avoiding all women is a psychotic thing to do and only serves to further degrade society. What could you possibly gain from avoiding women?

[@alleygh0st]

no, it was the desired effect

[@johncarlson6472]

Great post. It's glaringly obvious how entitled, demanding, insufferable and impossible to please women have become in the West. You're right. There's an invisible line that's crossed where "help" or "assistance" moves from appropriate and beneficial to destructive and unhealthy to the recipient(s). Hense, "spoiled child syndrome." It amazes me how most folks would agree with this, yet if you tried to assert that this is what we've done with modern women, the backlash would be immediate and harsh. IMO, smart men know the die is cast, there's no turning back. This is why we're seeing more and more men saving their money and just getting the hell outta Dodge...migrating to Countries like Philippines, Thailand and some Latin Countries where the women make far superior mates and their societies still have a modicum of respect for men.

[@philaman1972]

When you go on dating apps and check out women's profiles, they all follow the same template regardless of age: a) mandatory photo of them in the mountains; b) mandatory photo of them at a restaurant; c) writing about taking trips; spontaneous trips; d) mandatory photo of them in the gym; e) mandatory photo of them with a dog/cat The other startling thing is how *many* women aged 40+ have never been married and have no children -- at least that's what they put down. To me, it seems they are all chasing the same thing -- an illusion. They are leaning-in on their aesthetics to seek out "perfection". Meanwhile, time marches on. So what happens when they cross milestone birthdays, ie. 50, 55, 60 and their "prince" has still not come? Meanwhile, the mirror does not lie. What the above means is that there will be many, many men *and* women who will remain single and even never-married. "Hey. I just turned 60 and I have been on this dating app for years! Please get me off this app. Are you out there?"

[@LordHasenpfeffer]

Following my 2nd no-fault-divorced experience in 2015, I proceeded to date 3 women, all in their early 40s. All 3 of them were never married with no children. 2 of them claimed to be virgins while the 3rd claimed being "almost a virgin". There were no obvious reasons for me to doubt them... although I've never been convinced they weren't flat-out lying to me for whatever personal reasons they'd have for doing so. Nevertheless it struck me as odd at the time that this "common pattern" seemed to be emerging. And then after Hottie #3, I said, "That's it!" and called it a wrap for life. That was in 2018 and I've refused to date anyone else again. There's no hope of ever having genuinely legitimate biological children with these women so, I'll just be a family man without a family from here on out. I invested 25 years of my life to 2 marriages and came away from both of them combined with nothing more than I had when I was a teenager. Gotta draw the line somewhere and I did.

[@Butcho22]

So true about the dating app profile template lmao

[@minnesotajude8447]

Women got segsual freedom and blew it.

[@Wong-Jack-Man]

The 2 people that took the most out of my life was my mom who used and groomed me as her retirment plan and then my ex wife who made out. Women dont love me , they love what you can do for them.

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

And the male ATM better be filled with cash...

[@michaellombardi5831]

Modern women refusing to even give a man a chance that's under 6feet tall, that alone will leave about 80% if women alone. By the dating apps stats 15% of women are all that would even give a sub 6 foot man a chance, anyone want to tell them the avg height onpf men in the USA is about 5'8-5'9? Wait till they discover what the average income is. 😮

[@gwillis9797]

Women outweigh men, too. Oh, Sorry, in the 70s, we ate normal. There is no store on every corner, and people walk. Thick Beefy Women are the norm now and accepted. Yep, it looks good in yoga pants and jeans weighing in at 180 pounds, but leaves you with a job to do, right? You now have find out about health both mental and physical because of yoga pants obesity.

[@hurricane2053]

Men have to realize that the man is the prize, not the woman

[@off6848]

@@hurricane2053 Thats delusional bro. Powerful men are desired and if you say "well become powerful" ok lets say you do 80% of men are still out of the game because not everyone can be powerful or wealthy because if they were then no one would be its basic statistics. In reality women are the prize for powerful high status men and they always have been, even the girl you're deeply in love with is just another powerful guys future prize his reward his relief of his nether regions.

[@hurricane2053]

@off6848 delusional to you maybe but everyone wants to be a multi millionaire. Only those that put in the work make it. So if you say you can't then you are right. If you say you can and put the work in then you right

[@off6848]

@@hurricane2053 I don't believe even most people want to be a multi millionaire because most people understand the sacrifice isn't always worth it. I think most men want to be able to exceed in a useful field and raise a family in a nice home like their forefathers did. This mindset of only millionaires deserve basic maslow needs is not only impossible its also pretty dumb because society will and is falling apart when average to somewhat successful men cannot get what their forefathers had for centuries. Think about it how can nation even defend itself if it cannot raise an army because only the millionaires are reproducing or experiencing any happiness? This is leading to a break down of national pride and men increasingly feel no connection to the current society

[@user-kg2ez1eg2y]

Do you feel lonely? Just call the bear. Hundreds of lonely bears are waiting to meet women. Hatred and contempt for a man are the essence of modern relationships. Marriage for a man is an official guarantee of his destruction. They need someone to pay for their desires and entertainment, and they were free from everything. They don't need a man, they need a walking ATM that will solve all their problems for them.They don't grow up, they don't try to understand the consequences of their actions. They are like little children just doing, and then crying from suffering, although all this could have been avoided. Too late, faith in the relationship burned in the flames of hell. Burned souls don't want pain again. No thanks, my life, my rules, my wallet, my FREEDOM more important to me

[@HellCat_Kenny]

1-800-BEAR

[@junetaylor8396]

You have made poor choices and now you have to pay your debt. Simple.

[@user-kg2ez1eg2y]

@@junetaylor8396 Work girls, the sun is still high. Be happy and pay your bills yourself. There is nothing free in this world.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

​@junetaylor8396Most women these days are a poor choice for sex or relationships.

[@Jasmijn1]

@@user-kg2ez1eg2ymost wonen de m these days have jobs and earn their own money, what are y’all talking about? I thought men wanted women to be traditional?

[@DarthZeromus]

"Women experience reality more subjectively" is a very nice way of saying they are, on the whole, a bit touched.

[@jasonlee186]

You just gave the most empathetic, educated and nuanced breakdown of the issues of modern women and a solution. And that’s sadly exactly why most women will ignore this 😢

[@PassionateSpirit88]

It's crazy how I as a man have turned down sex from many women but I can't find a good woman who has done the same.

[@narutofan4545]

Lmao what you look like Moses

[@Tiasung]

I mean they exist. But women like that are so rare they ar 99.9% of the timee: already taken, dead (likely from being guilt tripped by envious/jealous women), or are social recluses/hermits that dont leave their home.

[@RealMcDudu]

What do you mean? Women turn down sex all the time 😅

[@PassionateSpirit88]

@@RealMcDudu Do you not understand....most of them have high body counts nowadays even when they turn down lots of sex...

[@peterjenei1619]

Most of them are simply unable to plan ahead for more than 2 days.

[@tom-vx1lp]

There should be an incentive. I met one girl around the suburb and ended up with a harrassment criminal charge. For saying hello!

[@tjvista8177]

The justice system needed to be rebuilt from the ground up due to blatant corruption.

[@UnderWorldOfDarkness]

They're doing that to little boys in the 1st grade. The people running our government and courts, and police, are all engaging in insurrection.

[@MyThoughtsBelow]

powerful line about motherhood and maturity but this doesn’t account for the women who DO become mothers and still behave in the same delusional and “solipsistic” manner in the modern era.

[@erinbyrd5377]

Maybe it's because women don't stay home with their babies for long before they return to work. The process of raising an infant to a toddler to a teenager is supposed to be done by the child's mother and it's through that process that they become mature.

[@aizakku8399]

True, they "appear" mature, but are still en masse immature in essence. Most of the time they children while still being in a narcissistic stage of development and let their sense of entitlement go from single to entitled mother.

[@ShayPatrickCormacTHEHUNTER]

@@erinbyrd5377 mother + relatives. No one raised children alone in the past. The nuclear family is unnatural

[@hippo-potamus]

A woman's natural purpose is reproduction and nothing else. A relationship is just a cherry on top and not necessary for her to be actualized. By contrast a male's natural fulfillment comes for attaining female validation to which such an endeavor is a constant process.

[@schwaaard]

"An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels." / "It's better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife."

[@cjh36]

When the "chosen" rule you get jewelish woe-men.

[@GreedosGoldmine]

I love the connection to narcissism and consequences. You describe my ex-wife spot on sadly enough. Her inability to live above feelings, control, and lack of total accountability destroyed our beautiful family completely. I can say, at least being a domestic violence survivor to my ex, I have avoided the alimony and such to date. Even won custody in the state of CA believe it or not. But you nailed the maturity deal. Even at 33, said individual acts like a middle schooler at best, while funny enough being promoted to positions of power and influence in a local college near by us. Once the custody order went through, they of course could not handle the reality and pulled a huge deal that involved loads of lawyering to work out fairly. Even the justice system lets these types of women off for legit crimes and creating abusive home lives for both children and spouses.

[@Slitspop]

It was never beautiful to begin with.

[@GreedosGoldmine]

@@Slitspop The relationship may not have, but family is sacred to all but the insane, including my ex and her family. There’s not a day that goes by I wish I married someone different and saw the signs in their family, but what I had with my kids until the manipulation and such… priceless and yes beautiful. That’s the crime in this behavior. Alienating kids from their father simply due to differences in morality based on one side going head into modern toxic feminism, the other sacrificing for the wellbeing, looking at life more traditionally more so, and taking the major hits in life is the unfortunate cost to what we allowed and even promoted in the past couple generations. You’ll put yourself through hell and back to protect them when you have that and if your a good father. What your crazy ex has to say and how they played it means little beyond their own s*** character.

[@dante19890]

If your wife has those traits it's mainly your fault for wifing her up and put a baby in her. Guys need to screen their girl hard to see if she will be a good wife and mother. Most western modern women are not

[@LiberPater777]

We don't have a justice system. We have a _legal_ system, beyond redemption. Justice has not a thing to do with it anymore. Family court's proven this. And speaking of getting letting off: Look up the bailbonds _person_ who "pewed" an unarmed man in the back, point blank, on camera, in front of her son. Subjected to no penalties. Got away with 'merd hur', scott free. Oh how sweet it must be to be the "fairer" segz.

[@tjvista8177]

Sometimes I wonder if federal institutions want men and women fighting each other instead of the ones who started this mess in the first place.

[@vyassathya]

theres nothing to fix theres no incentive for women til its too late. this is forever how it will be

[@LiberPater777]

Kali stomping all over Shiva comes to mind.

[@PipPuffin]

Men need to stand up and say no, take the option off the table. Stop letting people in your life use you as a door mat. Have some Self Respect Guys!!!

[@Alazar654]

*theres no incentive for women til its too late.* Correct.

[@takumifujiwara4503]

Well there is a chance that after the first proper AI-girlfriends will be created, they will stop the simp industry and generally become a competition for women. Maybe then they will be less entitled.

[@Hedgehog3342]

That's a defeatist mindset that ends up becoming destructive.

[@Randomy5428]

I am in the 18-24 bracket soon to be 25. It is not easy when you are constantly being ignored by the world around you.

[@SPACEDOUT19]

take the blackpill

[@victorleonardo3451]

me too man !

[@Randomy5428]

@@SPACEDOUT19 I’m good 😂Going to take a trip to my home country in South America. Blame my parents for moving me to America when I was a kid. This place sucks.

[@SPACEDOUT19]

@@Randomy5428 nice, i bet south america is a lovely place, would love to visit it there, people are more down to earth and normal than in USA

[@Pandcakes936]

It's American culture. We're raised to not care about anyone but ourselves because "that's how it is out here". Instead of breaking the cycle, balancing resilience and love/compassion, they're raising more self-centered people. Doesn't make any sense.

[@Alessandro1983]

She literally just read an article online and is pretending like she cares about how men are ridiculed and women are praised in today's times

[@Phillip_McCrevis]

Men need to focus on the aspects of their lives where the time and effort they put in will actually pay off. Friendships, health, career, hobbies, meaningful life experiences, etc.. Unless you're in the upper echelon of men, dating and relationships will be a slog. Dont waste too much energy on it.

[@AaronP369]

its always wat men gotta do, never the women that are needing of improvement huh.

[@flechette3782]

Feminism promised happiness because women would have more choices in life. What the feminists didn't say is that none of these choices guarantee happiness. Thus, when a young feminist makes decisions and they are not happy, they blame men. When women don't succeed in their careers it not because they aren't as good employees, but because "patriarchy".

[@TheWeekendYogurt]

Being single as a dude sucks in 2024.

[@ronburgundy3172]

If has always sucked no matter the time period you are born into 😂

[@ufopilotFPV]

No man gives a 10 based on looks alone, that is a female misconception that is still ruining everything. You might get some men back if you change now, but those of us over 40 are pretty much lost.. speaking personally, its too late. Im staying single.

[@ufopilotFPV]

I want to add a thought: this has been done to you women on purpose, you have been divided and conquered, with half of you pulling towards the male ideals and the other half pulling hard towards your looks and ultra feminity. This is what men can, and did protect you from. This is what we have battled for centuries. We watch with heavy hearts. It is our role to protect, and we will do it again, if you swallow your pride and let us. Let's restore balance and be one again 🙏

[@Temporalplace]

There are two separate value scales for sex and for wife.

[@jrd33]

@@Temporalplace Men are attracted to women based on looks and mannerisms, but those are not the criteria used to select a life-mate. Women think their attractiveness is far more important than it really is. Most men will sleep with any women of average or better attractiveness but they don't choose who to marry based on appearance.

[@ronburgundy3172]

In almost 30 and I feel is too late for me I don’t enjoy going out and my taste doesn’t match that one of modern women so I guess I was designed to die alone from the get go oh boy

[@sala320]

Financialization has made men seemingly disposable in a topsy turvy economy

[@natashadickson4819]

Men disposed of old wives for younger ones and still do.

[@natashadickson4819]

That's because men viewed women as disposable.

[@nimapocalyse9569]

@@natashadickson4819 how is that exactly?

[@paulfri1569]

Yeah.. the Alpha male predator class created this system for a reason.. They got the best pick if the women for sex and lots of it with many average women who would in the past be contempt with marrying a average man..

[@BehindThe8]

@@nimapocalyse9569 all women look at men as a walking wallet - so be it - the result is I look at women as a car - trade in for a newer model every few years

[@kendreamer6376]

The most important thing you said was that society tells women everything they need to do to appear beautiful outwardly but not one thing about appear beautiful inwardly. That alone speaks volumes

[@kristindhawkes]

I have been a silent viewer for most your videos! I am glad to see your channel grow and getting the recognization you deserve :)

[@asdfasdf-dg2qx]

You'll never fully understand this subject if you don't view people as just another animal. If we do view humans that way, the behavior starts to make a lot more sense. An animal implies a lack of foresight. An animal implies a more instinctual way of reasoning. "If I like thing, than thing good, if thing hurt me, than thing bad, etc." There is nothing "wrong" with modern women. These are features of the human animal, not bugs. We've just been living in societies for so long that we've forgotten that we're not these social constructs we call "human beings". We are the human animal, we may have left the caves but our instincts still dwell there. Women are instinctually driven to seek out and mate with the most ideal male possible. If not kept in check, this innate desire consumes all and everything due to it being so important for species regulation. We've cultivated a society that not only stopped regulating these desires, but outright promotes and rewards them. We've forgotten the truth; that society primarily exists due to the fact that it provides men the ability to gain a mate, and start a family. Once you destroy this incentive, society has lost it's primary function, and will thus shortly after cease to exist. Don't believe me? Look at who (literally and figuratively) keep the lights running. Is it women with their daycare job? Is it female teachers? Is it female clerks and nurses? No, it's men who go out and maintain the roads, the powerlines, the sewers etc. Women have all the freedom and luxuries to pursue "chad" on tinder, to order food online and have it be delivered by a man from the comfort of their homes with running water, electricity and internet. What's in it for the guy? For the delivery driver? It used to be that this guy, just two generations ago, was able to use that same job to provide for a family all whilst saving money for his kids to send to college, and pay off a home. Something that's completely alien to 95% of men nowadays. I don't want to be disillusioned and a man "sent his own way", but sadly , society hasn't given me a choice in this regard. It has deemed me unfit , unnecessary and most importantly , unwanted. I do not have chad genetics, I do not come from money and I do not have the right "personality" (delusion) to motivate myself otherwise. As time goes on, I'm going to withdraw more and more from society altogether , because participating will become a net-loss for me as time goes on. More and more men are catching up to this fact. Society's days are numbered, all because men simped, and allowed female nature to run rampant.

[@shannonsexton8921]

Your totally right, but don't forget single income family is economically unviable for most, so average Joe appears less appealing...

[@roderickcortez138]

Men's attraction to women is what has kept women alive for thousands of years. But it will ultimately be what destroys society too. The relationship between human males and human females can never work.

[@extended_e]

Well writen, I have been sayong exactly same. Most ppl see problems only when catastrophical level has been reached and it is too late. I have already optimized myself in positio where society burning itself doesn't affect me. It is sad that ones that warn about these thing are hated, as it is said 'no good deed goes unpublished', so why suffer for society that hates you and your effort.

[@hipreference]

Bro chill out, first off take a deep breath. Second off, just completely erase everything you think you know about women and just go overseas, just for a while. Get off the dating apps, change your mindset, and quit labelling and defining yourself by these things that clearly do not serve you. Even if they really were true, which is a giant question mark, you identifying with these thoughts is not going to serve you, you’re better off being charitable and gaining some perspective. Also, you should definitely think outside the box and try lots of different things and always keep growing and bettering yourself. How can you say you’re so “unfit” if you’re not even half the man you could be years from now. Isn’t that worth striving for just to say you did it?

[@roderickcortez138]

@@hipreference Are you being sarcastic?

[@CastleHassall]

one really sad thing too is that i know so many really good hearted, good company, guys who have not even had a date in years and many who have never had a woman want to be in a relationship with them EVER (And they are in their 40s).. then guys get attacked for being "incels" etc when it's really cruel as how would a woman feel if men mocked her because no one wanted them ever i think a big issue is that now people have mobile phones most women get a lot of messages every day from guys who are acting really friendly so there are many women who do not treasure a guy who wants to be with them as they have about thirty other guys sending them supportive messages and kisses every day and jumping in to be supportive every time there is an argument or the woman is having a bad day so they keep thinking some other guy will be better or don't value the one guy they are with and if a guy says he does not like all these men messaging her every day we get angrily told we are being jealous (but the one time a woman wants to talk with me there is instant anger from the woman I'm with) I'm so tired of it all

[@extended_e]

This. Simply this. And then you get demonized by just being yourself. Being good man is punished so badly in current society that it leads even best good man Figure alternative ways to live, and many of them are not good for us good men. For example I have become play boy and feel it is fair after all it is only way I get attention for opposite sex, they say they want good boys and discard them. You give them play boy and they like it, but still pretend to be moral and all that stuff. Crazy society we live.

[@victorleonardo3451]

being nice to a women doesnt change a thing, you can give your best and they doesnt recognize(and most of the time they bang with they guy who threat them like shit) the best way to deal with this is not dealing with it.

[@jth_printed_designs]

The functional equivalent of an incel is a slut. A woman that sleeps with everyone and because of this has ZERO chance of getting married. What’s the difference though between a slut and an incel? If you call a woman a slut you’re a horrible person and you’re “slutshaming”

[@indridcold4982]

Hey, this is one of the best videos I've ever seen on the topic. Succinct, researched, and well-spoken. Thanks for it.

[@DavidVandemark]

So basically, my chances of ever having a loving and happy marriage are plummeting by the year. Why am I even trying anymore?

[@lochnessmunster1189]

Don't worry, mate. It's all overrated anyway.

[@DavidVandemark]

@@lochnessmunster1189 it didn’t used to be

[@lochnessmunster1189]

@@DavidVandemark But even older guys will tell you not to do it.

[@mysmartphonechannel]

Can women change things? You should look up Karen Straughan. She said the same thing. But she faced the same problem men have. Feminism has been quite smart, they've made it so that they receive tax money and have their position in every company with DEI officers. That's a resource advantage that's comparable to the US army vs. Iraq.

[@gaararulesall]

Karen is the goat.

[@poopingwhilestanding5801]

@@gaararulesall Janice Fiamengo and Karyn from The Happy Wife KZbin channel. Dr. Helen Smith, Camille Paglia, Erin Pizzey as well.

[@Rev_GC]

Indeed. Proof that feminism has infected the minds of the vast majority of women and a small majority of men, and is and has always been essentially a psy-op by the; globalists, bankers, kabaalists, etc, otherwise "collectively" referred to as "the internationalists".

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

Women now have power and won't relinquish it voluntarily.

[@ronburgundy3172]

Companies now are more or less legally obligated to hire women even if they don’t qualify for the job whereas men get rejected on their lack of qualifications or pooor social skills so yeah clearly they are the disadvantaged sex right now 😂

[@OnderHassan]

I disagree. If women were all different, they wouldn’t respond in the exact same ways by players and chads who know the right things to say to get them into bed.

[@neverzackdown]

Skill issue

[@Alazar654]

OnderHassan, precisely. All women have the same nature. Hence, chad and players getting them into bed.

[@off6848]

@@neverzackdown Maybe but it doesn't change his point. I can get women to sleep with me I just show up in lots of cases. But if I care about society as a whole it won't get better just because I can get laid its going to go to shit because most men will be unhappy and eventually destabilize the system

[@Krelian4400]

It's not about what a Chad says it's about how a Chad looks.

[@oreoolafgaming3756]

so in germany we have this saying: "kennst du eine, kennst du alle" which means "if you know one you know them all"

[@JenyaIsJustChilling]

Your ideas are intriguing to me and i wish to subscribe to your newsletter. Also, i rate this video five stars and probably going to share on my personal blog.

[@erinbyrd5377]

Thank you for the kind words

[@angelcandelaria6728]

What a great video!!!🎉 thank you for that ending! Wow my ears perked up the last few minutes. ❤

[@davidbrinnen]

5:30 I take issue here, "society was designed for men", it formed that way as a consequence of the environment, the most you could say is that it was "designed by men" - but not with the intention of excluding women, they also had their parts to play. To understand the problem in its simplest form, most older successful men will happily marry a younger attractive woman, who has a menial job and no education to speak of. Now consider the reverse of that situation, would most successful older women seek to marry a young attractive man, who has a menial job and no education to speak of. Obviously not. There lies the asymmetry at the core of the problem for modern women. They have become the men that would have married them and, in doing so, displaced many of those men from those jobs. Modern women are now in the position men were in the past, but for whatever reason, want all the privileges of that status without accepting they need to lower their dating standards to take account of the higher status they now occupy. Oh... you go onto explain this.

[@VaronPlateando]

well... first of all, society wasn't designed but evolved as viable in functional terms, which included decisions being taken, too, and following up on them, eg in power. as we are | shall be | seeing rather shortly, though, gyn.cent social order isn't viable, due to its inherent emotionalist xx.pathies. and lots of xx.s are paying for this with their very lives and happyness already. I guess quite some gents are beyond worries for latter now, in the least.

[@bunnystrasse]

Yes

[@melkerner]

Society was designed to protect Women - they have taken full advantage of that - insisting on the historically established protections and lack of accountability while simultaneously demanding equality or even superior treatment while falling back to societies protections and inherent coddled treatment of Women when it suits them. we have created generations of Misandrists and psychologically unbalanced and narcissistic women.

[@davidbrinnen]

@@VaronPlateando I agree with your "first of all" - I said "the most you could say is that it was "designed by men"" more as an olive branch to the original concept - otherwise, it might look like I have simply not listened to the ideas being put forward and dismissed them out of hand. I am of the view, as Donald Kingsbury put it “Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the problem has mutated or disappeared. Often it is still there as strong as it ever was.”

[@VaronPlateando]

@@davidbrinnen ... thnx for bringing this to attention. besides, as for structuration in | of society, my frame of understanding has been impacted strongly by sociological systems + communication theory as per n. luhmann et al. (german stuff) as well as harrison white ('identity & control' - for concepts laid out, not for the maths founding them (which I couldn't dig into sufficiently deeply)).

[@maxwillson]

I laugh at women who say they are boycotting sex because of the abortion laws. That's literally what Conservatives want you to do LOL

[@dycedargselderbrother5353]

"I'll show them! I'll stop having sex outside of marriage!" LOL.

[@r.morris5589]

women who want abortion other than for extreme medical reasons, are selfish and murderers. Today's women are very selfish.

[@blairdurward4324]

Yeah that really did make me laugh, they were all commenting like “good, that’s the point!”

[@CC-jl7jz]

What? How is it that "conservatives" don't want women to have sex. I would say rational people want men and women to have responsible sex and accept the full consequences.

[@captcrunch4205]

Um.. no, they are getting their tubes tied.

[@Mrnumber]

What she said about women changing after they become mothers I've seen first hand. I met my friends girlfriend when she was 19 and she seemed very much like a teenager, but a few months later she got pregnant and nine months later her son was here. Let me tell you the change was quick, she became a woman at that point and she acts so mature even though shes so young

[@benjaminstevens6043]

This is the sort of thorough analysis, critique and prospective solutions we can all get behind. Clear thinking like this is a strong step in the right direction.

[@anthonywilliams7052]

No, attitude makes a huge difference, and when most women say NOTHING when we are shown CONTEMPT, or JOIN IN, they are showing us they are the SAME. So never help, never approach. Not worth it.

[@city_of_coompton6832]

Lol true. I was working with a female coworker a couple months ago. I like to ask questions and feel out what my coworker's politics are without revealing my power level. She seemed reasonable. We were working outside, but some guy drove by and yelled something at us I didn't hear him. I think he was making a joke, whatever people do that sometimes when they see us working by the side of the road and think it's funny. Then she says "I don't talk to strange MEN" with such contempt and hostility in her voice. I was like "uh oh better keep my distance from this lady she seems to have man hating tendencies" lol

[@tensevo]

talk about how companies literally train men how to "simp" which is why the women in companies have zero respect for men.

[@RagTag-N-Bobtail]

Movies, music, holidays... society... your own mother..... I had a few female 'supervisors' at UPS... This redpill boy got his respect... "I HAVE INFINITE LAYERS!" -Patrice O'Neal

[@Nickel_Coin]

what do you mean by companies teaching men to simp?

[@tensevo]

@@Nickel_Coin dignity at work, inclusion etc. are what is known as "simping". essentially pandering to whims of women, which, when you do pander to the whims, the demands increase, and your respect is lowered not increased.

[@tjvista8177]

I'm starting to think it might be common in Asian countries as well (particularly Japan) as workers are expected to be loyal to their corporate bosses, no matter the consequences.

[@tensevo]

@@tjvista8177 yes they are simps, and "the west" is moving in that direction.

[@joejarvis2497]

Women shaming men for wanting sex with a woman that is healthy is everything you need to know about women. There is nothing wrong with living a healthy lifestyle so you can be attractive to your mate. The women I’ve dated and the one I was married to for 25 years didn’t want me to stay healthy. It was so she could live an unhealthy life and make me unattractive to other women. The insecurity in women is the problem in society.

[@erinbyrd5377]

Insecurity is huge

[@danieleccleston7928]

I appreciate the time you took to try and understand what some guys are experiencing and their thoughts, even if you didn't agree with everything.

[@purplesprigs]

Ecclesiasticus 25:24 - "Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die." Nothing has changed in 2,000 years.

[@Alazar654]

Absolutely correct.

[@sadgoy.]

Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and whose hands are as bands. Whosoever pleaseth god shall escape her, but the sinner shall be taken by her.

[@brendansullivan3408]

Maybe go back to: In the beginning..." and get a clue. You will die because you are alive. See the connection yet?

[@sadgoy.]

@@brendansullivan3408 Mortality is obvious. What point are you trying to make here?

[@brendansullivan3408]

@@sadgoy. My point... q Quotes that blame the state of humanity on women are stupid. The fact that it's from the bible is just another layer of stupid. And we've been around a lot longer than 2000 years or 6000 for that matter.

[@wmasterss]

I disagree with the notion that women are 'more desirable' than men. In what criteria? If we're talking sex then yes it's men from a biological standpoint. But it's women who desire men overwhelmingly more for commitment. That's what equalizes it.

[@dante19890]

Women are far more selective than men for a mate. Most men would fuck most women. But most women would not fuck most men

[@nerychristian]

The only reason we see women as more desirable is because our minds have been over-sexualized. We grew up seeing ads with beautiful women, or watching porn. For most of human history, men and women would get married at really young ages. So the men hadn't had their minds tarnished by porn. They didn't know about this modern concept of "romance". Society knew that women were actually a liability for men. That is why they didn't have many rights. People knew that having a woman was like having a child. Someone you had to take care of and provide for. They were weak, not too intelligent, and were useless for manual labor.

[@RagTag-N-Bobtail]

"Women can only offer you three things... Sex, children, domestic comfort and companionship." -CRP

[@de14jabs]

A woman who does not want to have kids is a third as valuable to society as a man who does not have kids. A man can still work and go fight. Neglecting the ability to bring life to the world is a failure of a female. Literally their one job in the grand scheme of things.

[@swayp5715]

This is no longer true and so many women are going their own way also.

[@yohanwijesuriya3348]

I'm so glad I came accrossyour channel. Simply love it!

[@RandallvanOosten-ln5wf]

Erin, I recently discovered your channel. I am a pastor who works with men, hence, I have become pretty well informed on your topics through reading and also watching KZbin content. You do an excellent job of presenting information in a balanced way that avoids name-calling and negativism (i.e. being Black Pilled). Thank you.

[@stevegrady5134]

Excellent take on a complicated and multi-faceted subject! This is an area where I would love to be able to say that I am optimistic but the truth is that I am not. I think of the legendary story of the emperor Nero standing on the terrace of his imperial palace and playing the fiddle whilst watching Rome burn. Imagine some day not too far into the future where a society is burning whilst two young guys watch from a safe distance on a hillside. Guy 1 looks at Guy 2 and asks “Should we continue to just let society burn?” Guy 2 just shrugs and says, “I don’t know. Are you still cold?” If men have every reason that they possess to actually care about society removed from them, then they won’t. Likewise, if women tell men to go away enough times, then they will and most of them won’t come back. This fact is where MGTOW gets much of its resiliency. When Jordan Peterson first heard of MGTOW years ago, he scoffed and said it would last until men got lonely and horny. A few years later, he admitted that he was wrong and that a real, structural shift is in fact happening in society. You may also find Jack Donovan’s writings interesting for a deeper understanding of how men rank and value each other. His book ‘The Way of Men’ is absolutely foundational. KZbin deletes comments with links unfortunately but if you paste into the search field ‘A More Complete Beast’, you’ll find a lecture that Jack gave a couple of years ago that also includes a quick overview of the Way of Men material, especially the four universal masculine virtues, which makes up the nucleus of the book.

[@Adrian-yi8fl]

This isn't a man/ woman problem. There are plenty of men who have the same anti-life ideology. We are fighting against sanity versus Insanity right now.

[@Level_Eleven]

You’ll find the ratios unequal. There are more insane women than insane men right now.

[@dcschess05]

Satan vs Jesus

[@balitangkamatis]

the insane blokes you speak of? the basement dwellers, those in solitary, blue collar doomers, nerds/dorks and the incels? yeah, I'd rather take my chances with them than them insane broads.

[@VaronPlateando]

disagreed, sincerily. idea of nurturing of blank slates is evidently inviable cræp, and evoking intellectual offense.

[@wingnut71]

These are the pandering type of men. The ones who seek women's approval and who also share a dislike for being responsible or accountable for their actions. There are plenty of them of course but they don't drive the whole degenerate movement. They are just followers. The women are in control.

[@RaffertyMBTI]

Your videos are just so interesting. So much Chase Joseph philosophy here, although I haven’t read his sources.

[@alkarnes3446]

Unrealistic in there expectations they want the perfect man the problem is he doesn’t really exist !!! We are not all Ken dolls

[@realitycheck4746]

Beware of the Chameleons

[@erinbyrd5377]

Duly noted

FACTS! But men are such...SUCKERS! They'll cape to chameleon women as long as they agree with their plight. I wanna say something about these guys but my comment will get blocked

[@129jasper1]

@@erinbyrd5377 I think his concern is that you are the chameleon. Just a hair dye away from being another Sarkeesian.

[@erinbyrd5377]

@@129jasper1 No need to hurl insults

[@129jasper1]

@@erinbyrd5377 I'm not. I'm interpreting the other guys comment. He may be right or he may be wrong by that reading, but I'm generally ok with what you're saying in your videos that I have watched so far. Since you're here, do you think that having the "dream catcher" in the house is a good idea?

[@mustardseed738]

Wow. As a 54 year old male speaking. You got it. Very good. Well said. Problem is the vast majority of women is still drunk from the Feminists kool-aid but it's very refreshing to hear some Wisdom from women like yourself to articulate the problem and then gives the solutions to it.

[@jeffreybright8119]

Sadly, there is no solution to it all, women will not give up this power trip they think they have . This is what they have strived for ..for centuries . It is going to take something pretty bad for them to change their bad choices. Like sleeping with whoever`s turn it is.. and divorcing out of the blue. I have watched this for decades, slowly getting worse, and the Internet is their Best friend for all of this.The only thing that changed , was Men taking action to protect themselves. Get used to it Guys.. and no woman will make them change their mind`s .. they are too selfish for their own happiness and need`s.

[@benw3290]

Thank you so much for taking the time to make this video, It's very good content and quite accurate, I hope more women have the mindset that you do

[@user-jm7kc4bm8m]

Erin, you've surpassed yourself! Simply outstanding work!

[@HansAaraas]

You really summarized the core issues brilliantly. Well done 👏🏻

[@unlimited971]

"Solipscism is not as nefarious as the rp makes it" Typical horsecrap from a woman

[@VaronPlateando]

specifically xx.ine narcissistic solipsism, coupled with relentless hypergamy, are at least as detrimental as RP has established, utmost largely.

[@nikodimus86]

Nah, even Rollo says solipscism is a feature of a woman and not a bug. Just as it's ingrained in men to seek young fertile women for sex it's also part of the hardware for women to think of themselves first.

[@erinbyrd5377]

What I'm saying is that solipsism is a result of perception, and there are two types of perception - introverted and extroverted. Nobody can control which kind they have because they're born with it.

[@VaronPlateando]

@@erinbyrd5377 this does give more context of (your) thought... and I do assume you to imply that it puts more nail into 'blank slate(r)s' coffins, too...

[@unlimited971]

@@erinbyrd5377 i agree with the claim but not the sentence quoted. Have you ever hear about the tale of the frog and the scorpion?

[@Zflayre]

I love how hard you tried to be as unbias and transparent as possible. Thank you. Keep it up!

[@miller4980]

Fantastic video. Traditional men must have purpose to have meaning. I remember an old Russian nuclear engineer sobbing, "I am not needed" years after he and the rest of the Chernobyl families were retired to their new lives in a new community built for them. They were supposed to be working on more nuclear programs, but the state simply retired them to live out useless lives. It's also important to note that social problems, no matter what they are, are largely orchestrated by the worlds "benevolent" rulers.

[@aztekenen1]

Finally someone (and a woman no less) who's actually aware of all the issues the modern man faces and acknowledges them too. Now if only society, the media, politics and young women would follow before society inevitably soon breaks down as the statistics are looking dire. one can only hope...

[@de14jabs]

A hard technological reset would need to occur, because women are unruly because their survival needs are met. Take that away, and they will quickly change their behaviour as their survival depends on it. It's that simple.

[@Жестокий-Новый-Мир]

Funny talk ) Talk talk talk, but we all know restoration of man's value will never happen.

[@tw4143]

Feminism is a blessing to man. It has exposed the true nature of the woman. Now, until the dawn of time, men will know. This is a courageous woman. The epitome of the type of women men need to protect/desire.

[@gentkamberi8533]

Absolutely brilliant Erin . “You can’t lead anyone that doesn’t want to be led “ . Thank you for you transparency and kindness.

[@dhickey5919]

Thank you, Erin. I think your point on dimorphism and attractiveness is spot on. It's not difficult to get short term attention but lasting mate attraction has more in common with dimorphism. I hope you don't get a bunch of angry comments, but I imagine it might happen. I'm reading that women who focus on motherhood get plenty of anger directed their way as well. It seems there's hostility toward pretty much everyone who isn't a cookie cutter version of accepted feminism. I'm not a mathematician but that doesn't add up.

[@kiekiek]

One of the best video's I saw in a while. Thanks.

[@DarkSpartan343]

Nice video essay, well put together.

[@doncarlodivargas5497]

2:08 regarding power, i have been in the workforce for ~45 years and at times worked with people/colleagues high up in organisations, with a lot of influence and power, i know positively one of them crushed others carrieres if they disappointed him, but, they where all, including that last guy always very respectful and kind of patient, they took time to discuss and did not rush decisions, this is qualities not found in women with "power" to me i get the impression women with power and influence misuse their position

[@TONERAVENTUNES]

Being in my 40's era,I am on a quest,and am fascinated by the Male/Female dynamic going on in me.I think growing up in a broken home I ran from traditional marriage,and now I'm figuring out moment by moment ,how to come around to finding a traditional relationship.I really feel like it's what I've wanted all along at this point in my life! Tone Raven

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

Great comment! I am 50, but get mistaken for a 30 something. I have truly loved only 2 women in my life. And I really loved taking care of both of them. The first one died in 98' in a car accident ( Danielle LaFond of Richmond BC) The second was my best girl, she flaked in 2016 and branch reached for a fairly dull, but good man. I like to think I still have a partner out there somewhere, but have put that in the "fantasy realm".

[@RagTag-N-Bobtail]

Haha! You picked a hell of a time to discover this about yourself... [ Quest Start: "Finding a piece of hay in a stack of needles." ]

[@TONERAVENTUNES]

Tell me about it!Better late than never.She's right around the corner! Tone Raven