What It Is: Extra | Kandi Speaks On It and Tamika Brings the RECEIPTS!!

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[@ebonylott531]

The way I almost fell in the shower to “make a mighty fist, makes a mighty blow!”😂😂😅😂

[@erikaqueencoco]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@r.r.russell7437]

Chile, I screamed 😂😂😂

[@jacquerenee4182]

😂😂😂

[@sierramanning9276]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@QueenNTheMaking]

I wasn’t expecting this video to include the Tamar tea but I appreciate it 😃😃

[@ladyt9505]

The Tamar tea 🍵 was good lol

[@QueenNTheMaking]

@@ladyt9505 it really was 😂😂 I hope she throw more gems every now and then when she does videos haha

[@kennnz]

I honestly thought after what happened to Traci that Tamar would have a wake up call. Truth be told it’s evident that she don’t care and didn’t learn no lessons.

[@meannoharm1561]

I’m not going to feel bad for what I’m going to say. Tamar had been posting and singing for a while before Traci passed but when Traci passed it seems like Tamar used it as redemption and people were having sympathy for her loss. She started posting sexy videos even in her green outfit she wore when her family celebrated Traci birthday. I can’t do Tamar ever

[@Missbrica30]

When I tell you I cracked up when you said Big Mama didn’t get her leg cut off for this 😂😂😂

[@ms.niecey2953]

😂😂😂

[@MissN77]

I felt that in my soul lol

[@destinystarr3837]

I'm proud of Tamika for finally standing up for herself ❤

[@BridgetWilson-hi2uo]

So proud of her too❤❤

[@Nappy2theRoot]

Yeeessss I agree

[@monetmonroe4644]

Yesss

[@Chyrise]

I’m so glad Tamika finally has found her voice and is standing up to her sister.

[@erikaqueencoco]

I’m so proud of Kandi and Tamika for speaking up.

[@NiecyDee]

What’s crazy is Kandi did not want to do this reality show. Her group members felt she always said, “no” to everything, so this was going to be her year of saying, “yes”. LaTocha cannot blame Kandi for her downfall.

[@rochellesmith3948]

Iyanla was the only who talked about the toxic traits of Tamar the braxtons, I never believed Todd would attempt to manhandle her. I am sorry that Tamika has to go through this

[@geneaj15]

And Tamar showed all the way out when she did it.

[@ebonyevaughn]

Lol 😂😂😂😂 when you said EFF family the first thing that popped in my head was Soulfood “Funk family, family funked my husband.” (That’s my BET Edit)

[@kellygreengables3936]

"BET Edit", girl, thank you for making me laugh 😅

[@niax782]

😂😂😂

[@ebonyevaughn]

@@kellygreengables3936 lol 😂 I’m trying to keep it cute in these innanet streets.

[@don.castor]

Ashley Can we talk about the entitlement and jealously of ladies who consider themselves to be “better” singers. They are upset because they are NOT where they believe they should be in their careers. Now they want to look down on someone who they don’t consider to be as talented. When Tocha formed Xscape she never expected Kandi to have so much success without her and she’s never been able to swallow that pill. She was suppose to be the one with all the success. Tamar can’t handle it either. She thinks she’s better than Kandi and her career doesn’t reflect it. I honestly feel like this is the root of a lot of this negative behavior.

[@monetmonroe4644]

Wheeeeew all of this !!

[@ddubbaby3]

Preach!!!

[@rellie_90]

Let’s talk about it, because that’s exactly what’s happening here!

[@IAmMsGoldenT]

Facts

[@LeShay0214]

That part.

[@sweetnovember7925]

Real friends aren't yes ppl...call yo friends out on they shit periodt. If they can't see your love for them in the verbal unacceptance then you need to remove your self from the friendship! I respect all you stated Ashley!

[@garymanuel20]

I never clicked on a notification so fast, let’s go Ashley! 🙌🏽🤣

[@kaylataylor8597]

LITERALLY! 😂😂

[@ElleinadB]

It's so sad that Lie-Tocha has always manipulated Tamika 😢 her video was too much! It brings to light how toxic sibling relationships can be when the mother favors one child over the other. My mom did this, and my sister and had a horrible relationship. It's terrible

[@Rachel71]

I had the same issues. My sibling relationship was very toxic with my brother (RIP Rich 6/4/22). My mom always used the word Jealous all the time, but I was never jealous of my brother, he just wanted my mom to himself. Since he's passed away, my mom is really leaning on me now, because her and my brother hung together everyday. 🙏🏾

[@zingan.o.1435]

Lie-tocha 😫😮😅🤣😂

[@aliciathimo2038]

Same thing is going on with me so I cut them off..

[@ashleyrogers1930]

I always knew Tocha was a liar but I really knew it when she sat up there and said they had to stop filming because Kandi was crying. Clearly she never watched RHOA.

[@Redstatehell1]

We even know Kandi crying style. Like 4itsrox says “here come Kandi with the ole broke up cry” 😂

[@rellie_90]

Chile, whenever Kandi cries it becomes a whole topic lol

[@vanitysmirror]

Thank you Ashley for the inside information.

[@NoLaGurl18]

100% on point. You said everything that I felt!!🎯👏🏾

[@Lafromda757]

Somebody said Latocha and Tamika mama need to go to Shady Pines 😂😂😂😂😂

[@hadijatkubrat3580]

LaTocha agreed to sign on the show to bring her music and solo record deal. It was to use the show or her group to advertise her single or music. She knew what she was doing.

[@AshleyMillerTV]

And it’s backfiring

[@LeviStrauss777]

@@AshleyMillerTV like hot sauce did Pops otw to pick Craig up from Dae Dae house!!!!

[@iversonmonie]

Sad part, she could do both. Her being sneaky about the deal is the issue. I love that New Edition gives it all to the fans

[@shamay4893]

@iversonmonie rocky got her thinking she's better than everyone

[@meannoharm1561]

Tocha would have been really in a good place if she would have been honest

[@wilkersonarielle]

Not "raise you the truth with receipts", ooo I like dat😂😂

[@iamdynez]

Youre the first person I heard address the "phone number"....cause the first step is havin a conversation but Tamika cant do that without a workin number!

[@Durale2013]

Its sad to see the pain Tamika has been going through for as long as she has but im glad that she is now standing on her own and taking no shit from none of them. She checkmated them. Lets see them deflect and lie they way out of this one.

[@harrietturner]

Ashley 😂😂😂 I'm 1:33 into the video. Had to stop because I'm laughing so damn and the smoke came out of my nose. Not Big Mommas' leg. Ok...let me continue.

[@lawandachase-jackson5003]

Ashley... you are so bomb!!! 💐🌟 I would have a ball with you as friend!! Your spirit is so real😍 Love the video ❤🥰

[@Creativeambitionz_LLC]

you would think things between Tamar and her sisters would be good considering they took a huge loss with losing a sister.

[@iamaminow]

Kandi resume is crazy, The Chi, RHOA, Grammys, Song Writer, the Piano, the all male play, Hallmark movies, etc

[@trinabellz1985]

Latocha & Rocky Need To Be Quiet 🤫 After This Cause Ain’t Nobody Finna Buy That Album…It’s A Wrap

[@kayg260]

I've been watching Queen's court and I saw firsthand how Tamar is. A guy on there mentioned something that she said, and she denied that she said it, got mad at the guy and he was eliminated from the show. They even replayed her saying what the guy said she said. Tamar is a trip.

[@BriaJanaaee]

Yes!!! I was waiting for someone to talk about that. That made me so mad because she lied about that and made him seem like he was something he wasn't.

[@BriaJanaaee]

Also she did gatsby dirty too. Yea he was a bit much but when he called her out and pretty much said she had already made her choice in picking the white dude. She got mad and played victim and made him go home but she did pretty much have her mind made up since day one.

[@ayanajackson4404]

Yes I saw that too, but I think he self eliminated his self before she did, he knew it was coming…With that fake ass kiss at the end. That man gonna see what he got his self into if he didn’t already…

[@myasayshi]

I remember the twitter issue with you Tamar and the scorpion show. All facts!

[@spiritualkei9293]

I remember her taking makeal “have serval seat” saying and didn’t give him his props

[@antonyware]

Ashley you said that!! Kept that ish real as Hell and I SOOO APPRECIATE IT!!!

[@ScottyByNatureTV]

Spill the tea ASH!

[@liteeyes1882]

Ashley, I'm glad you finally spoke out on the Tamar drama!!! We all see that Tamar is problematic and she causes all the drama in her relationships, family and friends!!! Tamika needed to speak her truth because she's been holding it in for years!!!! Nobody wants their family drama to be public but I don't think any of them expected all the skeletons to come out, especially Latocha and Rocky!!!

[@ArielUpshaw]

It's my birthday today and I decided to click on this video to see something good to start the day and you just gave me my 1st birthday laugh when you said, "That mighty fist!" Ashley! You are a gift. 😂😂😂

[@AshleyMillerTV]

Happy birthday!!

[@lovelove-ho8hf]

Happy Birthday ♈️ 🥳my bday 4/1 enjoy your day/week ❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹

[@ArielUpshaw]

@@AshleyMillerTV Thank you!!!🥰

[@ArielUpshaw]

@@lovelove-ho8hf Thank you!!! Happy birthday in advance to you!!!💖💖💖

[@Cya1124]

Happy Birthday

[@oncebitebysquirrel]

Well Damn Ashely! You had enough! 😂

[@DKDAY26ALLDAY01]

😮 Ashley finally telling it all

[@MultiChris234]

Lol your so funny Ashley. Tamar just sounds like she’s so exhausting to be friends with. Tamar definitely could have left that situation between her and Kandi behind doors. I love that Tamika took a stand for herself and her mental. Tocha is wicked as hell to do her own sister like that. Then the way her and Rocky roll togetherrrrr… seeesh wickedness !

[@MiMis8212]

I LOVE ME SOME ASHLEY ❤❤❤ ASHLEY SPEAKS MIND 😂😂😂 AND I LOVE IT

[@myasayshi]

Tocha was trying to get them To take out the part about the money. That’s why after she kept saying the issue was with Kandi and Tamika disrespecting their mother. She did not expect the money part to air. Rocky led her on a path of destruction especially with the Tasha K interview

[@lonieboi1]

i love when ashley starts to read lmao

[@dance4kryst]

I’ve been a subbie for a long time. I remember when you used to hang out with Tamar. You and the Skorpion. You KNOW her know her. I remember when she fell out with him too. You’re saying what you know.

[@mishab1180]

Listen, I have been waiting on u to say something, something… Love ya Ash Thanks for keeping it all the way real…

[@questionresearch8721]

👏👏👏👏 Ashley thank you these What It Is videos. We are getting three. Yay.

[@Nada07able]

Tamar hasn't changed at all sadly and continues starting childish drama for attention. I really thought she would try doing things differently after losing Traci. Latocha and her husband are truly horrible people for stealing Tamika's money and him trying to blackmail her with that sextape , which is a crime. Not annihilate her and finish her 😂🤣😂🤣! She had all the receipts of everything they did.

[@lyricistdean]

I love you Ashley. You remind me of my daughter and you’re sooooo Chicago. I be feeling like we sitting here just talking like buddies.

[@TheLifeOfNewBall]

Man, I think I need therapy thank God for this episode cuz baby ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you

[@reneewilson267]

Baybeee you gave us some good tea and I'm sipping water. Sending healing vibes to your Mom

[@jasmineslaughter9972]

Ashley:I could tell yall some stuff Me: TELL IT! TELL IT!! cause we the people wanna know 😂😂😂

[@debsworld9530]

Listen, Ms. Diane been bringing her chocolate layer cake to the cook out for years! And she's on the serving committee preparing the children's plates. When she said what she said, IMO, case closed.

[@IAmJustR]

Miss Diane said all yall my babies! 🥹🥰

[@CrookedSmilez83]

I wonder why when they interview Latocha they don’t ask her “So Mama Diane made this all up?” She knows without Mrs Diane she wouldn’t have had no money and Mrs Diane may find more money in the future. But that’s what i would ask her

[@tan_ya_]

You always right on time. You my friend in my head.

[@iHarmonize7b9]

I couldn’t wait for you to say something 😂😂😂 I never clicked so fast

[@cristylovejones]

80/70 is the gift that keeps on giving😂

[@1CristylJ]

I agree with and see 👏🏾e👏🏾 very👏🏾thing u said!!! Tamar is exhausting!

[@leeann2831]

Wonder why Tocha just couldn't do both? She could have been performing her solo songs while on tour with Xscape. Pretty sure the ladies wouldn't have minded. And then when the show came out could have used the show to further promote her project. Why not use Xscape to your advantage? Why isolate yourself from your bread and butter. And to think this all really began because Tocha left Tamika in Vegas when she was locked out her trailer. Tamika wouldn't have exposed her if she wasn't in her feeling about being called out for what she did and the fact that Kandi liked Tamika's text message. It's sad seeing a family broken and a group in such disharmony when its enough room out here for them all to win.

[@backpackmami]

Ashley ur skin darling!!!! Is glowing!!!! And I agree, this needs to be the last we talk about this. I’ve been off it I just need them to tell me when and where to get my tickets 🤣😭🤣

[@AshleyMillerTV]

Ok!!! Because Xscape has a whole tour about to happen with the three of them and I want to go because they do put on a good show

[@backpackmami]

@@AshleyMillerTV Right!!! Tocha has a beautiful voice but Tameka, Kandi and Tiny can put on such a good show without her. Back in day I was rooting for Tocha but from jump she always seemed like she didn’t want to be in the group which is fine. But to show her character like this in this show…is a whole nother problem that like…if I hear she decided to show up to the tour I might not go. Lol She reminded me of a childhood friend I once had and that personality type…nah…I can’t lol. But thank you for the review! Thank you for the extra insight on Toni’s lil sister 😆

[@emaclin4054]

I'm out here walking Ashley and you giving me inspiration spot-on with everything 100% correct

[@keibae9893]

That soul food big mama reference😂 u ain’t no good 😂 love it 😂😂😂

[@hope4me847]

The way I was clutching my imaginary pearls during the whole time Tamika was talking. I agree people acting like SWV really mad. I don't think they cared that much, but people just dragging.

[@meannoharm1561]

SWV keep doing lives. They do say they don’t want to be messy but they end up right where people want them, messy. Xscape has not been saying anything bad about you there was a question and obviously something business related that fans don’t have a clue

[@hope4me847]

@@meannoharm1561 and what has SWV said bad about Xscape. It's not wrong for SWV to say what they feel just like Xscape/ Kandi is. All they are saying is it was always supposed to be a coheadling show, and it is probably true that Mona did not come to them asking them to open for Xscape.

[@morethanawomabn75]

Ashley you came with-it and I LOVE it! the Tamar info was a bonus. I live for your videos ❣️

[@aliyahburnette8018]

Good video Ashley.

[@dmoody4628]

Happy Tamika put the receipts out. I wonder how Tocha gonna respond..

[@MzMJ77]

Sorry you went through that situation. Building friendships is rough. I have been saying that it was a pattern of behaviors that Tamar has. The immaturity is a big thing. I forget she’s about my age because the behavior is not appropriate for the years.

[@ms.niecey2953]

This is so sad how this all play out on TV. Praying one day they can get this together

[@Nappy2theRoot]

They did get it together, Tamika is standing up for herself & leaving her trifling sister in the dust. Problem solved

[@OfficialHeyRico]

Not even 1 minute uploaded and I’m here!!!

[@oliviabarbee541]

This was so entertaining 😂 I love u Ashley

[@ThePbrowne89]

Ashley your smile and laughs be making my day ❤❤

[@joyallen2922]

Excellent, Ashley. You are the best! Have a great day❤

[@AshleyMillerTV]

Thank you! You too!

[@LeviStrauss777]

You popped up the same time as SNOWFALL came on…. But HERE I AM!!!!!

[@regina-kk2mf]

I'm glad Tameka is standing up for herself...and Tamar is and will always be a hater .. Tracy RiP try to tell y'all about that hefa...

[@kellygreengables3936]

Hot tea right from the kettle 🍵😆 I appreciate hearing your take on these things! Imo Tameka needs to sue her sister. Tamar needs to stay OFF of social media and reality TV, focus on her music and wellness.

[@travpowell1986]

Ashley you are right, she was also friends with Kevin and Makel. And they also had a fallen out due to her antics. She does put her nose into things don’t concern her.

[@briannalove4521]

I do remember when K Michelle had them issues with Rasheeda and the crew, Tamar was also linking up and going against K Michelle. She intervened and got called a muppet..people forgot all about that

[@darcellesmith6940]

“Y’all be blowing me” Definitely Chicago lol

[@VonnieVonVonX2]

Tamar will always be Tamar

[@44bosslady]

🤔I think Tameka didn't want to keep the s*x tape in her home because it was probably made with her first husband, & she didn't want her current husband to find it.

[@RADKING02]

Not big momma leg!😂😂😂😂 naw fam thats a violation😂😂😂

[@tammyquitman6991]

Hey Ashley 👋 👋 👋 👋 thanks for the review 😊

[@cwatson2190]

Nah he did the same thing too R. Kelly 😳 heyyy Ashley👋🏽

[@realmccoy108]

Girl so much drama, but thank you for the inside information. All of these is sad. Tamar too old to acting like that and I already believed Tamika before she dropped the receipts. Latocha is so unlikable and shady. Thank you Ashley for the video

[@starmikadavis4920]

Another great video Ashley

[@greeksun369]

The person who called you biased was probably tamar from her burner account. Lol

[@rellie_90]

After Tamar played with Iyanla, I said yeah I can’t fool with someone like her lol.

[@zakiyyahwilliams48]

Omg, you are soooooo freaking funny with your comments😂😂😂. You are so spot on about Tamar and her attention seeking behaviors. It’s not even necessary.

[@TheSaintb23]

Tamar was looking at you to be a super fan. She sounds as if she wanted your friendship to make her look good and when you didn't do that you became a problem. She's her own issue and I hope all works out for her!

[@jwalt8019]

Tamar seems like she is stuck in the mindset of a 14 year old girl, arrested development. Strange.

[@LeShay0214]

Oh wow I said this on another post. Because she does the same thing over and over again. She was messy with her sisters on the show.

[@DGrassE]

Hi Ashley I’m new to your channel I found you through this xscape saga but I’ve defiantly seen your face before… for the last week I have been up and down youtube from video to video I’m complete sucked in.

[@-savannah]

Kandi gospel album from years ago will reenter the charts , and latosha will go nowhere

[@AshleyMillerTV]

Her song has already re-entered the charts

[@Neicywoods]

Omg I watched the Waco Apocalypse too & I was like I hope this lady still don't believe this stuff. 😂

[@SharekaStrange]

One thing about Kandi she NOT going to lie🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@funnyfoxbird]

This review had me 💀😂

[@Miss_Itty-bitty]

Ashley girl i been looking at your videos since the beginning of love after lockup Monica and Derek and I’m just now realizing that I haven’t sub. I’m so sorry but girl I’m on point now

[@whoisk4050]

Been waiting on you!!

[@LeshaFBaby]

Tamar is very childish and that is very much the reason I do not like anything about her. Focus on your music and not the drama (K.Michelle, Toya, Monica, Iyanla, Vincent, Lashawn, Kandi, Nene, Loni Love, Traci, Gabe, David, Tiny, Soulja Boy,Kevin, etc...we're they all lying?) You do petty stuff and throw unnecessary shade..remember "Paperback Toya" well she been doing better than you these days

[@blackhumphrey]

Soul Food Big Momma😂 Rocky and LaTocha threats and lies

[@brokenheart1976]

I love your posting thank you have a great week

[@06van]

Erica and Tina would nevvver do this! 💀 you’re crazy! 😂😂😂

[@terrenceconaway2267]

I am glad other people are saying the same thing I have always said about Tamar being so childish at her older age!!! I can’t stand her as a person but you can’t deny her singing ability. Latocha and her husband are sick and evil people who needed to go to jail!! I really hope kandi tiny and tameka vote latocha out of xscape!!!

[@Nicole0131]

The Tamar 🍵 is hot and consistent with who she has been since we were introduced to her on BFV. Chick is needy and bi polar. It’s clear this grown ass woman’s growth is stunted. I know Toni somewhere like… 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄🫣

[@brandit5046]

Ashley thank you ❤

[@novelettemartin-mason3219]

Love love the commentary