What it's like Leaving America for the Philippines, people will not understand

When you come to the Philippines to become an expat or digital nomad no one will understand why you are leaving the United States of America.
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[@coldragon2001]

I'm a Filipino lawyer who lived and worked in a western country. I realized that dueing my time abroad, not all that is shiny is real. After a few years, I went back to the Philippines. My income may be lower but my life is more peaceful.

[@peter-pg5yc]

I retired at 47 now 64 my life is very peaceful.. But with real comforts. medical clean streets lots of foods.. san jose aint all that bad.. but still looking for the next place..

[@bluegirls388]

I admire u for that sir coz im still working

[@nadadebraga7981]

@@peter-pg5yc did you ever even hold a decent job ? most of you guys are either destitute , have weird habits that are not acceptable in civilized societies .

[@johnp9890]

@@peter-pg5yc at 47? That is early. What kind of career allowed you to retire at 47?

[@johnp9890]

What western country?

[@cyberoffense3808]

I visited the P.I. when I was 17 back in '69. I always remembered how great the people and the culture were. When I got ready to leave the U.S., I kept being told I was having an escape fantasy and I would never leave. Just before the big day, I gave my gun collection to a close friend. I gave my guitar collection to my son. That was 11 years ago and I've been living the good life here in the Philippines since I arrived in 2011. I have not been back since and I have no plans to ever return to the U.S. I'm now a legal resident. Maybe one day I'll apply for Philippine citizenship.

[@XanderRillo07]

Wow! good for you. I hope you consider taking care of your health. You could buy health care insurance for only around $450 annually which covers $3,439.81 of health care assistance for each sickness annually.

[@joseadureza4255]

God bless your plans, Pursuit of life and happiness is being an Amenican.

[@zephdo2971]

you should. it's your duty when you live here for a long time. paying taxes is important

[@javapua]

Wow! congratulations! Wishing you good health...

[@junvsantos]

CyberOffense, do you know the vlogger called 'Hungry Syrian Wanderer' and 'BecomingFilipino'? They are both a Filipino Citizen. Stay safe and healthy Bro. God bless.

[@daspicer1]

I retired from the military in '95. My friends and family had opinions about my moving here in early 2007. Some may have even thought that I was crazy. But they were looking at it from their own personal perspective, certainly not mine. I was quite used to this. I've never had a single poblem here. My daughter finally visited in 2019, and she now understands.

[@DrLawaytravels]

That is Awesome! I think when folks see it with their own eyes it changes everything.

[@mickaelabianca5232]

Welcome Home To youradpoted Country Sir Thanks for your nice Decisions

[@jerrywilliams408]

It’s difficult for many people to consider the perspective of others.

[@ronsloat7725]

I moved here 10 months ago. Better people here.

[@EliyanahAmber]

...and less random shooting incidents (I said "less" even if I can't remember a particular incident really happened in the the Philippines).

[@ndl6827]

I have been here for 20 years now. I left the US Army in 2002 ( not retired) and settled here with my wife (Filipina). Took me 10+ years to convince my mom to come here. She spent her last few years on this earth with her grandchildren in comfort and luxury (compared to the US). I have no desire to ever return to the US.

[@popiekalangie8624]

For all my life i hv watch n see western life everywhere (tv n stuff), so im also wonder why people wants to live their life in less attractive place. I'm from Indonesia, i figured Philippine more less the same

[@peter-pg5yc]

wait until you need medical.. and you will..

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

@@popiekalangie8624 I am not sure if you will receive many answers to your question because it is very complex to answer. First, for God sake, don't believe all you see on TV or Movies. Sometimes that is fantasyland. There are attractive places in the U.S., and also very ugly places like in many countries. They go to the Philippines for many different reasons: tired of hectic demanding lifestyle; too many rules; looking for a Filipina spouse; want to retire and have a higher standard of living in a tropical climate with lower cost of living. An apartment in the U.S. could cost me $650 to $1,300 a month, but only cost me $300 - $566 in the Philippines.

[@popiekalangie8624]

@@user-DrJoe-Future i see

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

@KingPlayzRBLX Yep!

[@michaelatoz580]

My last trip to the Philippines to see my wifes side of the family was so stress free and enjoyable trip I ever had. I had 21 days of peace away from the rat race in the USA. The last 3 days of my 24 day vacation the stress level went to 100 I did not want to go home back to the rat race that USA has become. I look forward to my next trip back soon this time i hope for a longer stay.

[@kitakitzFarm]

We moved to the Philippines for THREE reasons. #1. My wife's family of many nieces, nephews, cousins, etc. #2. Our retirement funds last the entire month with $$ left over. In the USA it would last only a few days. #3. Year round summer season weather. Unfortunately I have lost track of 95% of my USA friends & family they also thought we were nuts to move here.

[@TurquoiseSunsets]

Moving on with life and making new friends is a good thing. The old friends can really hold you back if you let them.

[@cebedojames]

Im born in Philippines. Live in USA since I was 11. Im 40 now. I go every year to visit Philippines for 2 weeks to 2 months, also lived there during pandemic for 1 year+. Everything in the Philippines is the complete opposite of the United States. USA= cooler weather, PH= hot, USA= bigger space cities, Philippines= smaller space/crowded, USA= more rude people, PH= less rude people, USA= lots of impatiant peopke, PH= lots of patient people, USA= individualistic mentality, PH= collectivist, USA= less down to earth people, PH= more down to earth, USA= most live to work, PH = most work to live, USA= high cost of living, PH= low cost of living, USA= big average income, PH = lower average income, USA= fast paced life, PH= slow paced life, USA= efficient/fast way of business, PH= not efficeint/slow way of business, USA= lots of complaning people, PH = very few complainers, USA= not friendly to strangers, PH= friendly to strangers, USA= masculine women, PH= feminine women, USA= like to get a tan, PH= avoid the sunlight. There are many more, but almost anything I can think of, I dont even think there there are any similarities other than the basic human needs like food and shelter.

[@LeahandBlair]

You are right!

[@keith4826]

Funny and true 🤣

[@myendlesslove5120]

😂😂😂I like the avoid the sun. Its so true.

[@kanointhephilippines8082]

Iv'e been here 6 years now and my friends and family thought this would only be a short term move. You are correct, they really don't fully understand all of the reasons why. I'm retired military and spent a great deal of time in this part of the world before the move so it was fairly easy. Like most expats we come here with a suitcase and a carry on bag and build a life from there. The Philippines is far from perfect but for me it's a good fit. So grateful and blessed to call this place home.

[@usersubscriberSC]

Plus your pension goes a long, long way here. Continue to enjoy your retirement here.

[@fugak-han0072]

You have the second family here in Phily. Welcome HOME !

[@i.am.zosa.channel2660]

Thank you sir this our country ❤️

[@FSVR54]

how do you make money out of a suitcase? how does a visa get approved to live full time?

[@denverchin44]

I am sorry if I hate your government but honestly, I like the people like you. Without war, we can truly be having a paradise. With war, I am sorry to say but I really hates the US government and of the giants weapon manufacturer. Stay safe and enjoy your life here with us, Sir! I hope, you'll become more successful in life and live happily with your family here.

[@rfbos]

The stress levels are not just high in the states, they are over the top. The biggest challenge for me was to sit back and chill. Filipinos have their own methods of doing things and it's never really in a rush. Took me 5 months to realize, hey, I'm retired now, why am i in such a rush. So much happier now. And, I don't care what my family thinks, I moved here for me, not them.

[@AmFFFers]

I'm a filipino nurse here in Philippines I once had a patient who's 80+ years old he has a filipina wife in her 40s. She takes care of him even though he's old bedridden and the doctors already given up on her husband. The Doctors told her that she should just take him home to save money. She looks for money to pay for the bills and I for myself really knows that she loves her husband. while she's away finding money in welfare her brother is taking care of the patient and I for myself really sees that her brother takes care of him too. Good luck finding that kind of woman in US.

[@John-ds6jz]

True

[@calvinclark4311]

I left Salt Lake City in August 2017 and settled in Northern province of Cebu. People in America can't imagine how relaxed and beautiful it is here!

[@velocirapture89]

How does Cebu compare to Manila?

[@cavemanabc]

Hey there from Canada! I was told the exact same thing from friends and family when I was in Mexico, Israel, Burma, and Kazakhstan. I’m hoping and praying to go to the Philippines soon

[@bobgman8604]

I enjoyed your video and yes, it is true. I made the decision and I came to the Philippines. I retired early, sold all my things . I came here five months ago to marry my LRD lady of two and a half years. I am happier than I have been in years. I had never been out of the USA , never been on a plane.... But I took the leap and it paid off by the grace of God. Great video

[@ralphnadler3825]

Just returned to the philippines, was Doing the 6 month USA and 6 mo Phils. Just emptied my North Carolina home and in the process of renting it out. I am here for good now. Funny how everyone says they miss you but few are willing to visit me in PI. Been coming here for 25 years and love it. Sorry but the USA is now the third world country. Comparably better people, healthier eating and so little stress Slice of heaven for not too much. Good to hear from you Doc. Cheers

[@ZoePlaysInCanada]

Nothing quite like the Philippines,Simple living , Happy Life , Friendly People and beautiful places.I feel much safer in the Philippines than here in Canada.

[@dawood121derful]

Canada is as bad as the USA.

[@Purowalangkwenta]

Spent 18 years living in Los Angeles. Bought a house, started a business, etc etc. 2019 is the year I went back home "Philippines" with my son and wifey. Sold everything I have in the US and I can say for sure that I made the best decision coming back home. Life is more relaxed, safe and most important of all. We are happy.

[@rhettgee2869]

Sounds great😊 … what do you do for work ? I want out of LA so bad.

[@kelvinham8576]

Watching this while drinking a rum and lime on ice overlooking Libaong beach here in Bohol Philippines. Important thing to get use to, lots of singing coming from the beach on weekends haha. As for those stuck in the suburbs in the west, better stay there, paradise is probably not for you!

[@anthonymiriello5029]

My Pinoy wife ,kids and I moved to CDO city. Been in Philippines about 8 times so far. Longest stay being 90 days. We decided to try and make a go of it. Ever since COVID-19,things have gotten worse all over the world. It doesn't seem like affordable living will ever be a reality again. So there are definitely pro and cons of each country. We definitely felt more lonely and isolated in the USA. It seems to be all about working more and more to provide a better lifestyle and then being tired, stressed and becoming more unhealthy. Bottom line, pursue a life of that yields the most peace and happiness that you can get. Life is short and don't bank on retirement, because you might never get to that point.

[@zenaidahunt1848]

Honest experience and advice about life in general. A wake up call for those who are hesitant to make a change.

[@spencermorningstar9204]

I'm from CDO too! My wife's from USA too and now she's living here with me. She's bringing me to the states to study but we'll be coming back here after we've earned enough.

[@sagittariuswoman6005]

Kaway2 sa cdo jan 😃

[@whitepouch0904]

@@spencermorningstar9204 I’m from CDO too 😅

[@chrisnkai4073]

I currently live in CDO with my fiance. I am very happy here. Would love to chat with any Americans living here!

[@kbyon37]

I am very lucky my family and friends could tell I was unhappy in the US. They were and still are very supportive of my move to the Philippines. Just finished my first full month of living in the Philippines there have been challenges along the way. You just need to be flexible and have patients things are not the same as you are used to dealing with. My wife had issues opening her bank account even with a Filipino passport and national ID. Almost lost it a couple of times just had to walk outside for a bit.

[@romephl]

Right, I’d probably feel the same as you. Living in the Philippines is a challenge. But it feels kind of a milestone when you’ve finished dealing with long queues and getting what you went there for 😊. Always plan for a nice place to eat thereafter.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

I agree, the bureaucracy here is nuts. My Fiancée had to get my PLDT Internet, it was too difficult for a foreigner here in Cebu City to obtain regardless how much money you have. I can only get the lowest level Gcash account, so I have to live with that. I wait 1 to 2 hours in line to pay for my groceries and melted ice cream. I asked the Philippine Retirement Authority (PRA) to help me obtain a Driver's License , and they will if I fly to Manila with all the papers to have them process it for me. I've been to 3 DMV offices in Cebu with limited results. What is important here for Expats to do is to calm down, stop running around, and do some intelligence gathering and research to see what is going on in the Expat Community Philippine-wide, and listen to Philippine news. I was reading my DoD news traffic, and accidently stumbled upon an American in Manila who wrote his Congressman about some US Policy impacting retired expats, and I investigated that string that helped me out by solving a problem I had. So take time to do some strategic and tactical intelligence of your new environment, it will help.

[@DrLawaytravels]

Flexibility and patience are critical, totally agree. It is the difference between frustration and happy!

[@conraddevera]

I was able to open an account with ubp (Union bank) with just an I'd and my phone if I recall. Didn't even have to go to the bank. Side note, yes please be patient as things are different and some things may not seem to make sense. Appreciate the little things.. Learn to adjust a D you'll be fine sir

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

@@romephl You got that right! Victory is sweet! I think I broke a national record in Cebu City. Normally, I am lucky to get 1 or 2 tasks done a day in the Philippines, and that is really good. Some tasks may take me days. But one day my Fiancée and I started early in the morning and actually accomplished 9 major tasks on our list of things to do driving around Cebu City -- which is incredible if not impossible, and we went out to dinner that night for sure! In fact, if we get 2 or 3 major items done in a day, that warrants dinner out!

[@toddcrumpler4117]

I arrived in the Philippines on 4-23-22 and have been welcomed with open arm's by the friendliest people I have ever had the pleasure to live side by side with. All of my family friends have been very supportive the recurring statement has been that I got out at just the right time. As an American my dollar goes a long way here. The exchange rate is at a historic high. Living large on 1800 🇺🇸 a month with again the finest hard working people I've ever met. My advice would be GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY. It's a big world with yes greener pastures.

[@TheObeseDuathlete]

1800 USD a month is considered rich already. lucky you. many of us lives on USD 10 a day

[@Hard_Car_Life]

@@TheObeseDuathlete - by American standards, that's barely making it, if not poor. One cannot live on $1800 a month in America. You would have to live in your car or RV to get by.

[@keith4826]

Some things here are just as expensive as they are in the states. Food for example. But after being here a year… it feels like my money is worth 3 times as much. 2500 feels like 7500 a month. It’s much safer. The people are very kind and polite. The weather is nice. No car. I walk everywhere. Take a taxi if it’s too far to walk. When I get the run around with some things I just remember I am a guest here. A very patient and happy guest. With plenty of time and no stress 😎

[@user-dm9cy5br8h]

Thank you for your message. I've been wanting to move there for a few years. ??? is sixteen hundred dollars enough for a single man to get by on

[@rollymcomics9370]

​@@user-dm9cy5br8h You're rich here if you have 1600USD in a month, even if you have a Filipina wife.

[@Dapper_Dean]

I was born there in Philippines. But was raised here in the Bay Area U.S. Then I moved to Hawaii on 2000. I can definitely say, that Philippines is like a gigantic Hawaii. But without the expensive costs. What really turned me off about the U.S., is the divisive politics and news of never ending mass shootings. Can't wait to move back to my birth country.

[@davetherave4599]

I'm coming up on retirement and ready to make the move. However, my Fillipina wife of 30 years standing won't hear of it. Go figure. So stressful and expensive where we presently reside(Israel), that I might just go it alone. It's that bad. And yes, I've been to the Philippines. Loved every moment of my stay there. Best, nicest and friendliest people on planet earth. Thanks for another inspiring and thought provoking video.🙂👍

[@mr.dreamboy8259]

Do what your heart's desire. Don't mind your Filipina wife. They're stubborn 😂 most Filipinas married to foreigners act either authoritarian or childish in which they can't do on a Filipino husband. Many of them are manipulative.

[@davetherave4599]

@@mr.dreamboy8259 Right, and on all accounts. You nailed it. And yes, I WILL do as my heart desires. Spot on insight. Thanks.👍

[@jojokrako7818]

You absolutely nailed it sir!!! I lived there for about 4 years on Mindanao and loved it, and am biding my time to get back there. I caught exactly all the same flak from my friends and family(some of it arrogantly harsh) about leaving the sacred soil of the U.S. to move to a "3rd world country", or "lesser country". I consider the Philippines as my home and wouldn't trade it for anything. Love it there and the people also. The simple life out in the rural barangay of my wife's family reminds me of the simple farming life of my youth in Georgia! As far as catching heat over moving from the U.S., I always think of Teddy Roosevelt's "Man In The Arena" speech for inspiration! Great video, and thank you for the encouraging words to those who have in mind to get out of the boat, as it were!

[@hazelynmagbanua2732]

Watch "Becoming Filipino" KZbin channel his a Canadian living in Mindanao and also " Kumander Daot" the British guy also living in Davao

[@derekgrovesldr7917]

Omg I’ve been in Mindanoa for six months now and you hit the nail on the head with all yours reasons I’m from Mississippi and saw it coming I love it here , thanks for an insightful video for the naysayers

[@davidgoodell4298]

I am about to move to the Philippines from Ohio USA. Leaving in about 6 weeks. The wife is Filipino and we have a house there. My limited family does not understand it but I am still going. We will be living off of savings until we can both collect FULL social security in about 3 years. I am really looking froward to not driving to work in the snow this winter...

[@doneown503]

I'd like to wish you well , my only worry there , was needing medical attention or catch a mosquitoe related disease OR , getting heat related problem(no AC). Best of luck to you both!👍its awesome!!

[@terrysphilippinejourney9347]

Hey David .. I’m near Dayton Oh … hoping to leave in January …. Cebu then Ajuy

[@davidgoodell4298]

@@terrysphilippinejourney9347 Terry - I hope your trip goes smoothly. Its a very long flight. Aww Dayton - been there many times for the HAM radio Ham fest...

[@davidgoodell4298]

@@doneown503 My wife was born and raised there, lived there over 50 years - she did ok. I am not all that worried about it. Our house does have AC in the bedroom. Its nice to have when needed...

[@1966bluemax]

The US can be boring. But, it’s swimming in money, unlike the Philippines

[@rudes440sb]

I just retired this past June at 55. I fly out of LAX in 10 days to the PH. Many times I've walked into Walmart / movie theater wondering if somebody was gonna lose their marbles that day.

[@DrLawaytravels]

Safe Travels Rudy!

[@chellemincera4015]

welcome

[@anglumangsiklista]

Your hit it straight to the point, man. My country may be poor, but its mostly peaceful here. No shootings, drive bys or religious wars. We are tolerant of other people's beliefs, especially foreigners. God bless!

[@telcobilly]

Just got back here to the PI from the US last week for the 5th and final time. It's getting crazy with inflation, crime & societal decline in the US. It's becoming unliveable with the cost of living and loss of freedom, not the America I grew up in (I'm 63). I grew up in South Africa, '68-'79 so I'm used to and prefer foreign countries. Thank you for confirming my experience with the PI.

[@jameswick2479]

So true my friend our country is no where near the same I will be 63 this year and I’m moving there myself I have a place there already and look forward to going back

[@davidroberts9037]

Much is the arrogance of much of the people of the USA. Other countries and other peoples are so beautiful with new eye opening ideas. New freedoms

[@ryanramsa7093]

I'm in rhe Philippines for the past 6 months. And I agree with you 1000% , the Philippines is not perfect but it's the closest to the perfect comfortable life you can live, based on where you go , I'm not planning to leave here, this is home now, coming from the Caribbean, this is so much safer. You can live a simple realistic life here with everything you need groceries clothes etc ..so people need to stop thinking that America is heaven, I've been there twice...it's not....

[@zepher664]

Canada is far closer to heaven than the US.

[@matthewgonano636]

Canada is as bad if not worse then the us. Because it hides behind a veil that it's safe. Shootings here everyday in the GTA. Some guy murdered a cop and went on shooting spree the other week. Canada is not a safe haven it's put up to be. It's a joke

[@miokujou]

People think america or any other first world countries is heaven because of the opportunity to work and better pay, that's the reason why so many Filipinos leave the country to work abroad. If you are receiving regular income/pension from the US then you'll be able to live comfortably here because of how powerful the dollar is compared to the peso. For the locals it's a different story.

[@velvetbythesea5671]

@ryanramsa exactly! Here in USA, all i do is work… I miss hanging out to my friends and the whole neighborhood

[@melbadelute2226]

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[@williamgood6299]

Thank you for this video, it hit me on many levels. When I moved from Ohio to Florida in 2016 people told me I was making a mistake and Ill be back in a few months . I always felt Ohio wasn't my home, When I starting talking to my to Filipina that became my wife. I visited the Philippines for the first time. Something inside of me told me I was home. Told friends and family about my plans and I get the same thing I did when I moved away from Ohio.

[@Carina-ql8eu]

Good job! I think it's a wise decision to retire in the Philippines. Money does not matter if you're always unhappy and stress about your work. I believe that as long as you have a bit of something in the Philippines, you will enjoy living in the country. Being happy is better than having more money but unable to enjoy it. God bless

[@randomyoutuber308]

This video is so true! I've been saving hard to retire early and move to Asia where I can just rent a house near the beach and enjoy life. My coworkers always tease me that I'll be moving to a third world country and living in a cardboard box so I can retire early. I don't think they understand I can rent a house nicer than what a lot of them own here for less than what they pay on just property taxes. I think a lot of people have a perception of a lot of countries in Asia and South America based upon how the poor people there live, but in reality if you are somewhere like the Philippines with a 2k a month budget you are probably living better in a lot of ways than people in the states living off a 2k a month budget.

[@katv1940]

Truth

[@zzz-hj4yh]

You will be living comfortably in PH with 2k usd a month ,rent+bills+ groceries included still have leftover hahaha

[@RandomKiddo160]

damn 2k a month. you be able to live like a king here.

[@charlieong5636]

You can live comfortably in the phil for only just 1k usd!

[@zhaskisback8925]

here 2k USD a month is insanely huge you can actually do almost whatever you want with that much money here if you convert it to PHP

[@myhappyfarmtv9208]

Philippines is like Hawaii without the BS and pressure of America.Then it felt more at home.Very welcoming and relax.The vibes and energy is very happy.A lot of people smiles a lot.

[@jonnieinbangkok]

My response for over 20 years has been "Why would I ever return to the U.S.?" Yeah, during the great toilet paper and alcohol gel shortage of 2020 & '21 in the USA, I was sending pictures of shelves stuffed full of the stuff from the supermarkets I shop at in Thailand 🇹🇭

[@DrLawaytravels]

That is great! I love it!

[@JG-bi3he]

Because in the US most people use toilet paper it's sold out versus Asia they don't so of course you have it well stocked lol. In the Philippines for example people uses water or stick not toilet paper. Plus most of the people cannot flush tp down their toilets like US toilets does.

[@thomasauslander3757]

We need to return to the USA to form the expats homeless clubs.

[@martypoll]

@@JG-bi3he While you are correct that we use bum guns here in Asia it was also strangely the case that the amount of toilet paper on the store shelves doubled/tripled here in Thailand during the great US Covid toilet paper shortage.

[@rafaelluisflores9556]

@@JG-bi3he I'm from PH and (1) Basically everyone I know buys and uses toilet paper; (2) Around 99% of all the toilets I've used in the cities and the provinces can flush down toilet paper; and (3) I never heard of using a stick to clean one's arse in this country. (Whoever told you this must be trolling you.)

[@stevendavis8636]

I am a new expat to Philippines (sept. 15) and retired on savings and some SS from USA. Last big adventure for me. Relying on Filipino wife and her family. Lot of uncertainty but interesting challenge. Love the people and the food. Feel safer here than USA. A lot of misinformation on internet so have to pay attention to your sources for information...Ignorance is prevalent but can be corrected with information. Stupidity is permanent. Trust your family and deal with problems as they arise. Life is always an adventure and there is never certainty.

[@MickeyMishra]

Death and Taxes. The only two things we can all be certain off. 😉

[@theglobalvagabond3074]

In my 20s, I decided to go skydiving for the first time. It was fantastic and scary, and right before I jumped out of the airplane, I wondered if I was stupid for taking this risk. It was a turning point in my life on many levels. I told a fellow skydiver that it is near impossible to find any of my friends to do this with me. He looked me straight in the eyes and said, "then you need to get different friends." This resonated with me for decades. I later came to a conclusion, based on experience, that most people don't want you to leave them behind because they will feel inadequate on some level. Today, I call it the "friends and family plan." These folks are the ones that will hold you back, if you let them, more than most people you will encounter. Great video. Thank you.

[@bliss6495]

Amazing perspective. I agree 100% with you. I had tried to get different friends but to be honest it was very difficult to find ones we would love to be with.

[@katc3297]

Our family both in the US and Europe thought it was a great idea for my husband and me to retire in the Philippines a few years ago. They all love to vacation here in the winter.

[@RD-kq3ml]

Born and raised in the Philippines and currently have traveled to 72 different countries. You are right, the US is one of the most dangerous places on the planet. Still can't forget my experience during my very first visit to NYC where I was robbed only on my second day. Never in my life, have I been robbed back in the PI but only a week during that visit, there was a break-in on my sister's home(Dallas TX). I also have not only traveled to Europe but also have lived in Norway, Sweden, and the Netherlands these past few years, and I can clearly say that the US is a Third World country wearing a Gucci belt.

[@glycerinemarie5237]

U.S wearing a Gucci belt, apt description for big Ol' US of A.

[@bgsab7912]

' The US is a 3th world country, wearing a Gucci belt.' Hahaha. I like the expression,but I think it depends which of the 50 states you have visited. I think that the moment President Trump will take over things will change (again) and the US will show their full potential. It's so sad that the actual decisionmakers, like Biden, are empty headed. God bless America.

[@runningseagull5413]

Plus shooting happened in private places like schools etc.. lots of casualties which involved kids and minor...that never happened in Philippines..

[@romeoETmike]

@@runningseagull5413 You know why? You'llbe thinking otherwise. In the Philippines, if you hurt/kill a member of their family, most likely they hurt/kill yours too when they get a chance. Filipinos hold grudges for a long time and even for generations. Most of the time, they will put the law in their own hands just to get even. Good people but don't cross them.

[@John-ds6jz]

@@glycerinemarie5237 true

[@loveandparty4118]

Aww I'm glad you like the Philippines... It's refreshing to see people saying great things about the country...

[@hiighflyer13]

I got this in spades from my family. Glad I'm not alone and my family are just operating out of the stereotypes and ignorance everyone else's are

[@DrLawaytravels]

You are not alone, very common with expats.

[@wilfredmacdonald8245]

Ask your relatives "how do you live with such fear"?

[@blx9670]

I'm moving to the Philippines next month and everything you said is 100% correct. Everyone is acting like I'm walking into a deathtrap or something.

[@onetruepatriot6718]

I have been there a few times to visit my wife. The best thing for you to do is start your own business.

[@blx9670]

@@onetruepatriot6718 We were planning on doing exactly that.

[@onetruepatriot6718]

@@blx9670 great, I wish you the best! Take care. I am heading back to Cebu in October for a month can't wait to go back, also spend time in Bohol.

[@garrylafferty100]

The death trap there driving

[@DrLawaytravels]

It is very common in the expat community for friends and family to react this way, especially if they have never travelled.

[@torowudang]

I never imagined that there would be so many Americans leaving the United States to go to Asian countries, I am surprised, I admire you, I just subscribed to your channel, it's good to know that there are brave, honest and brave people, I want to learn from you how to lose fears that have been instilled in us for years and explore new lands, congrat's, here you have a friend

[@glstka5710]

I moved from LA Calif. to Cebu Philippines in 2010. I never did the digital nomad thing but just settled down in this tropical paradise. You are sitting there in another part of this tropical paradise just stating the plain truth. Philippines is HOME for me now.

[@anniesimborios3751]

God bless❤

[@glstka5710]

@@anniesimborios3751 God has blessed me with a sweet wife Prov.18:22 Filipinas are so much better than American females who don't know how to be REAL women.

[@jillesguzman3333]

It's different for me. I am a young professional and want to move to the Philippines to work from there. Already visited the country. Ever since I told my parents about the plan I get nothing but emotional abuse. They don't like the idea and constantly voice it in very hurting manners.... It's pretty heartbreaking to be honest. Nevertheless, I will do my thing.

[@MakaiIELTS]

Good luck on your move here. My advice is try to get a job there first, an online or remote job so you can get a US rate. Just like what Black filipino channel did. He applied for an online job before going here in PH.

[@tca666]

Gogogo find your happiness 😎😎😎

[@reinaldogomes8666]

Just stop telling people about it, and keep it going with your plan.

[@jasperpike242]

Get a job here first. You will get PH wages! Filipinos get first dibs anyway. Come with no job in the bag and you WILL regret it

[@jillesguzman3333]

@@jasperpike242 I already have a job. For a European company. And I can work from anywhere. It's just the move to PH that I am getting crap about

[@porquepine]

Thank you so much for this video! I am retired military, and my pension is very good. I have 5 ADULT children and have been scorned for wanting to live in another country. My children are all over the country, and I see them on Facetime. I am like, what is the difference if I am in another country??! I can fly and visit once a year or whatever. I want to be there so bad!

[@mcimd8229]

Yes they want you in the US but they don't have time for you. I am sure they will not take you in to their homes to live with them permanently.

[@e.s.5872]

Just do it!

[@DrLawaytravels]

Dealing with Adult children is even harder than parents or siblings, I feel for you. I have two one understood, and one was not happy.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

Nothing wrong with living out of the country, but do your research. What will you do for medical? Medicare does not work outside the U.S., and Tricare Overseas sucks. Where will you live? Do you have patience? Are you in good physical shape? Look at everything.

[@porquepine]

@@user-DrJoe-Future im retired military. Tricare is over there big time along with a VA clinic in Manila. I have zero worries when it comes to medical, dental etc. i know things are different over there. Maybe this is another video idea for him to make. 😁 Tricare and other insurances.

[@TropicShade]

I spent many years in this part of the world when I was much younger and in the military. I knew early in my life that this is where I wanted to live. My family back home never could or will ever understand. 🌴😎

[@Endofroute]

I’ve been living here in the US for 8 years now I truly understand why Dr.Laway is 100% right the stress level in this country is too much and you’re doing the same thing again and again work sleep work that’s all. I cant wait to go back home in the Philippines and 1 of my friend who is American now he’s living in the Philippines and I’m still here!

[@omathitis8498]

Ironic, right? We'll only know once we get there. For some, returning will prove hard, almost impossible. Sad, really.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

On average, people work really hard in the U.S., it can be very demanding and stressful work. Yes, the money can be high, but the work complex, demanding and stressful. Just driving to work can be stressful in you live in or near a major city. I know people who are highly paid, but travel 1 to 2 hours + to and from work every day. Some use their car as a mobile office. Work is only one element of stress, then you have your daily living, paying of bills and taxes, fighting bad weather, etc. Then there may be a crime problem where you live, and that adds to stress.

[@zenaidahunt1848]

You are right! That’s the boring routine life living in the US especially you only make ends meet with your monthly income. I am a Filipino but ready to move /retire back to Philippines and live/build in the property I purchased in Bohol island. 😃

[@nikkikindinger2718]

Even moving to Canada from the US, it seems like the pace is slower. Maybe that's because I'm in Quebec, which is like living in Europe.

[@tempzslay2652]

I can't wait til December. Your definitely right about taking a leap of faith. And family not being supportive for u. I literally had to explain everything and took months. They just say ur gonna do whatever u want. So I support that. And I'm so happy they understand.

[@fusion09a]

I have lived and worked here in the Philippines for over 20 years. I feel I have had more opportunity here to grow in my work and in other areas then if I stayed back in the US. I can tell you the daily stress level is a quarter of what it was in the US. I do miss some conveniences back in the states but even though my PH salary is not even a quarter of what I could be making in the US as a Director in my company, I have really enjoyed life here. I have never felt unsafe, and even in the covid lockdown I was never short of anything I needed. Great place to be. The US is not all that people think it is.

[@mariaadriasola1965]

Hi. I am just wondering what you do for a living. I am a FilAm, and sure living america is good, but here ih Philly is where my heart is. Are you working remotely (Home based)m

[@fusion09a]

@@mariaadriasola1965 I Regional Director for Content Development in a global company, But started out as a Trainer for new employees in 2004. Currently I work from home here in manila

[@dennis.teevee]

Philadelphia? isn't it kinda dangerous there?

[@Hard_Car_Life]

@@dennis.teevee - "Kinda??!!". No, it IS dangerous there!!!

[@MickeyMishra]

@@Hard_Car_Life Even The fresh prince had to leave! LOL 😂

[@deboraharnold9501]

Love this,, thank you for taking the time to do this video.. it really expanded my awareness and helped to to gain a greater understanding a nd ultimately my perception shifting it into a deeper more expanded level of thoughts I'm glad you brought to attention.

[@lalab2304]

Thank you, i needed to hear this❤

[@rnesmith1959]

Ditto, ditto, and more ditto. I have lived abroad three times. I still travel for periods of time. My brother said to me, "I'm not about to travel overseas where I can get my head blown off." Then he said, "What do you think about that?" I said, "Well, that sounds to me like an American who has never before traveled outside the country." You have to do what is right for you and sometimes that means accepting that most choose to live in the dark. :-/ Fear of the unknown is a powerful but deceiving force.

[@xiaph2581]

This is the advantage of being Filipino! We are not afraid to travel yet we always go back home most especially the Christmas season!

[@DrLawaytravels]

The mall yesterday already is filled up with Christmas trees and lights LOL in September

[@johnc5915]

@@DrLawaytravels When ber month begins, Christmas season is in the air in the Philippines. Philippine Malls can't wait. Lol! See, there's more fun really in da Philippines!😁

[@jeffreyteorica1937]

@@DrLawaytravels Because the Philippines actually have 3 seasons. Summer, Rainy and Christmass.

[@marsbates9234]

@@DrLawaytravels yeah and you will see that until January 🤣🤣

[@sheilaalmanzor8373]

hahahaha

[@Tom-ob8yb]

WOW. You have a powerful message. Clear, and coming from a good place and heart. All the best🙏

[@unique1_4u]

Great video. I've experienced this mindset from family back in the U.S as well. Now I just keep my plans to myself and wish them all the best. Sometimes it's better to remain quiet. Majority of folks can't get off the hamster wheel

[@robinconnelly6079]

Yeah, I'm on my way to the Philippines. I live in South Africa and SA is seriously going down the tubes. When it gets to the place where the police are just organized crime with a badge, it's gone too far. I think it's all gearing up for Chinese takeover in the next 20 years. The Philippines is nice. The people are gentle and helpful. It's a very different culture from the rest of Asia that has a hard "2 eyes for an eye" type of legal system. It has a lot of American influence and the people are very Christian. I'm going to find myself a Filipino wife and live happily ever after.

[@MickeyMishra]

Its been going that way for a LONG time. Even in the states.

[@gilleslaviolette8147]

Awesome talk! Go for dreams! Keep up the positive vibes!!

[@englishideaschannel]

Thanks for sharing! Wish you all the best.😊

[@zacstephenson3734]

Once I figure out how to make money, I’m going right back to the Philippines. I have never felt more peaceful than when I have visited there 3 times and I just barely got back last week and felt all of the stress return the moment I walked through the front door

[@shaneross7428]

I love your videos I feel the exact same way. I'm a crane operator in the union here in California and I've gone to Thailand twice, memories I'll never forget. I'm trying to maneuver my life into short refinery projects with lots of hours then travel half the time til o retire. The Phillipines has been my next destination for years. Thank you for all the information in it.

[@mikhailangel3258]

Thanks for your perspective.

[@reddy0102]

Very well said brother. I salute you for you bravery. Im sure youll gonna make it what ever you want to achieve. Keep it up. I am a fan.

[@Stagger-One]

Excellent topics! Thank you so much. It really hits home at this point.

[@DrLawaytravels]

Glad you enjoyed it and thank you for saying so!

[@DaveV173]

I would never worry whether people understand or not , find your dreams & make them happen, Am heading back to the Philippines myself again soon from the UK 🇬🇧 & life is so much better the moment i arrive.

[@waynegruber-hj1kh]

Thank you for your kind message

[@rodcortez4834]

Amen Bro! thanks for sharing your opinions and ideas 😎👍

[@gerardoguzman5083]

Appreciate your courage and truthfulness. Wish you the very best and success with your current and future endeavors

[@DrLawaytravels]

Thank you so much

[@GlassicGamer]

I went to the Philippines back in the 90s for 39 days. I ended up traveling to Davao city and out to Gen San. While I was there I found the people were very friendly and respectful. Most people speak English where ever you go. While I was there it was 58 paso for one US dollar so everything was super cheap, it felt like the mall was a dollar store. My rent for the apartment was only $90 for 39 days so yeah that was cheap accommodations including electricity. Just make sure you watch where you are going many items in shops and malls are not made for people who are 5'8" or higher so be ready to duck :)

[@fugak-han0072]

Lol i found your last statement hilarious. But it's true! We filipinos are short, tiny beings but with big hearts 🇵🇭🤣

[@oilairnalo]

Oh oh... I am a local, 5 ft 9" and no duck.

[@0mega.mechan1c.]

Words of wisdom. I am on my way.🖤👍🏾Thank you, sir.

[@Jop300]

You made me love my country more! Thank you! Love your content

[@danielpasterp5837]

Since I discovered the Philippines I been feeling so disconnected about the western world. I can’t wait to become an expat!

[@neilgonzalez551]

Hi, I hope you find your peace in the Philippines. Peace of mind is important when it comes to overall health for your mind, body and soul. Find your peace my friend where ever it may be. Good luck and take care.

[@rufinodionisio879]

Great advice Dr. Laway, you talk a lot of sense. Thank you man. God bless...

[@khamdengmalymaly963]

New subscriber, Well said and done. I understood you completely.

[@destinationphilippineschannel]

Right again Doc. I feel so much more comfortable and safe in Koronadal than I do in Seattle. And Mindanao is supposed to be unsafe. Thanks for sharing.

[@joebombero1]

We live in Cavite, outside Manila. My wife's family is from Llanao del Norte hahaha - about an hour from Marawi. We know literally everyone there. One of my wife's cousins is the Barangay Captain. Yeah, I know exactly how you feel. But I still like Cavite hahaha.

[@miaya3898]

To be fair Mindanao is 75% Christian and has 4 progressive areas: Davao region, cdo, South Cotabato-GenSan and Zamboanga City metro. most of Visayas is probably as miserable as the non-progressive areas of Mindanao

[@renniey9701]

I agree with you 100%. Living in America today is a pain the a^^ and really a joke now. Life is too short. Enjoy and be happy where you want to be....definitely not here in the US. I'll soon be living in the Phils very soon too.

[@marcuslloyd8218]

Oh wow wasn't expecting a video on that topic as an expat but! It's exactly what I was looking for! Very very good information thank you so much.

[@MarcMF23]

Bro thank you for this video 🙏🏽 I want to go to the Philippines so bad. Best of luck out there!

[@vincentemendez938]

I truly enjoyed watching this video. I have traveled to the Philippines many times and since my first trip knew I wanted to one day live there. I researched ways to find how to get myself to live in the Philippines after every trip I was more determined to find a way to make my dream come true. Well fortunately after making a drastic career change a couple years ago to become a banker, my boss told me the company can help me relocate to work and live in the Philippines. My family and friends think I’m crazy of why I would leave this amazing country. My parents who immigrated here and bought a home decades ago, still talk to me about the American dream while complaining now about the high cost of living in California. My boss has been very supportive along with our market director and VP of relocating, they say there’s more opportunities for me in our corporate offices abroad. I’m going back to the Philippines next week and can’t wait to relocate. But it’s true family and friends only look at it from there perspective and they never traveled the world, I’ve traveled to many countries because I’ve always been curious of life outside of my town in California. I have an amazing manager because when I started to believe the doubt my family had of me finding success abroad, my boss said I’ll find success if the new job position is not the right fit the company will find me a new position and I can always relocate to another country or come home.

[@jinglebells6864]

I am a Filipino, worked in the US as a nurse for close to 20 yrs. Retired early and moved back in 2013. Our lives are simpler but definitely happier and even healthier (high BP, back pains, insomnia, migraines are all gone). We only have electric bill and wifi to pay every month. We can still eat steak, burgers, sea foods, etc. every time we want to. Not like we're starving here, haha! I'm sure my colleagues in the US are wondering, but I'm happy and I really don't care what they have to say anymore.

[@katv1940]

Agreed kabayan... 100%,

[@mar_x686]

Same here I worked 26 years in EU and need to get back to PI due to plantair fascilitis that doctors can't cure but after 6 months here I can walk like normal. No more rushing to go to work only to pay rent and bills. Now life is a slow pace.

[@ireneundan6691]

Can't wait to go back home too!! Still working as a nurse here in the US. I'm 51, I'm looking into 4 more years.

[@jinglebells6864]

@@mar_x686 So true. Driving through rush traffic to get to work on time. That in itself was a source of stress. I am smiling now, not having to do it every morning.

[@BigTroubleD]

Hope to become a nurse, make good money then retire in PI too 💖

[@maloupenalosa7483]

Thanks for sharing your innermost thoughts..hope your family come to visit sometime.

[@adamhastings750]

Thank you for this!! this showed up at the perfect time for me... I have been wanting to pack up and travel for a few years now, then c19 hit and kinda crashed my plans, well long story short I was in a motorcycle accident this past spring not my fault so I'm looking at a decent check from the insurance company and that will fund the start of my travels... Subbed to see more of what you have to say, maybe I'll see you out there someday!!

[@Dadsezso]

I moved to the Philippines nearly 7 years ago and exactly as you described, my family was freaking out telling me everything bad imaginable is going to happen to me. They still ask me when I'm moving back. My answer...🤣🤣🤣. I have lived long enough to know never say never so I won't say that will never happen but, I definitely don't plan it. My wife is Filipina and we have a 7 year old daughter. I am so glad we're not living in what is happening socially and politically in the US now. I don't have to worry about our daughter being indoctrinated in school with leftist and gender ideologies. I'm happy to be here and enjoy the hospitality of the Filipino people. Probably the most friendly and polite people I've ever met in my world travels.

[@nubee.pkunite]

unfortunately, we have some schools here swarmed by catholic hypocrites and leftist indoctrinating our youth

[@Dadsezso]

@@nubee.pkunite I hope the people here are able to stop the infiltration of the education system by leftist ideology. It is how they have destroyed society in other countries and if the people here don't stand up to it and stop it early, it will happen here too.

[@jedi_mapperp4073]

Just as many of us happy to escape the right wing MAGA side.

[@anniesimborios3751]

God bless ❤

[@Hard_Car_Life]

@@jedi_mapperp4073 - Wow, "escaping" people who are trying to SAVE the U.S. from your disgusting lefty socialist commie ideology agendas!. I hope you moved to Yemen!

[@AKAAAK]

Damn that first 30 second view of the ocean and your surroundings looks SOOO peaceful. Unfortunately when it comes to friends and family, they are very naive about leaving the US. People have become too complacent about their lifestyle and can't see what is happening within their own country besides what's in front of them.

[@fugak-han0072]

Bull's eye!🇵🇭

[@rhoelg]

Very well said sir, well done and all the best

[@arnoldsandiego5377]

I am glad you love my homeland. Thank you for posting this video.

[@lermapabillan4188]

Good you love and choose our country. Please be careful though there are many good Filipinos out there around but there are also few opportunist that are just watching. So be careful to whom you trust. I hope you will see the beautiful places in our country stress free and enjoy your visits and eat our delicious food too. Keep safe and God bless you Sir.

[@jowelMD1]

Can't agree with you more, brother. I am Filipino- American and had spent most of my life in the United States ( since 1972). When I came here, it was like a culture shock to me. I am filipino by birth but didn't really know Philippines until I lived here. Been in the United States most of my life and I know how hard it is over there, working most of the time and not making ends meet and always in debt. I remember seeing my parents trying to make ends meet and having a hard time at it. Had to work multiple jobs as a 16 year old teenager to help them. The important thing is you need to make life decisions that will make your life easier and not put you in a predicament where you will feel tied down and not move on. Life is too short and leaps of faith are few and far between. Be happy and content. Don't expect too much and all your surprises will be pleasent ones. Cheers and good luck to you.

[@kinoestanislao358]

i really love how you give your point of view to the world. its enlightening. keep up the good work. you have our support Godbless

[@carlitovencilao2538]

Thank you Sir for loving my country the Philippines. As aFilipino I am flattered with your comment. Mabuhay ka Sir.

[@Yogijay123]

Depends on what part of the country you go.The majority of the places here in PH the locals are very friendly and will always be willing to help when needed be. Be it a foreigner or a filipino tourists. I'm proud of my country and proud to be a Filipino.

[@markledesma2396]

after living in the Philippines for some time, I see the US as a mini-vacation to stack up on supplies from factory outlets and go to the places I used to frequent but to live there is out of the question, having lived in apartments for so long I like my house in the country with trees and miss my dogs plus have a maid 24/7, this is the good life, while I don't make money here, the cost of living is low, no stress, I can go the beach daily if I want to, I seem to have more freedom and I can always travel plus save a fortune on bills. i retired at 45 as i was a frequent visitor at ER's for chest pain plus felt like walking on eggshells at work, my 11 mile drive to work takes an hour whether I use the freeway or surface roads plus another hour going home, always multitasking at home like watch TV, laundry, have breakfast and check e-mails simultaneously.

[@420marco420]

Awesome content! more power to you!

[@patdavis4327]

New subscribers! Live and work in 🇺🇸 . Good information. Keep up the great work.

[@RealGaryGibson]

My whole family is giving me grief about moving to the Philippines. But my friends are very supportive. Nobody is offering me financial assistance or housing to stay in the USA so no reason to stay.

[@tman5634]

I don't understand the 'offering you financial assistance or housing' Do you expect it? Who's offering it you elsewhere?

[@RealGaryGibson]

@@tman5634 If my family wants me to stay then they need to make it worth my while. Money is a good motivator! Talk is cheap. They know I'm moving to the Philippines for it's low cost of living. I can't afford to live in the US on SS.

[@thomasgordon1792]

Wow I hope you have a steady income source to support yourself in the Philippines my friend there is no social programs there ! Good luck

[@RealGaryGibson]

@@thomasgordon1792 Haha, no social programs for me in the US either! At least in the Philippines my SS income goes further. Thank you!

[@thomasgordon1792]

@@RealGaryGibson well at least you have a stable income and yes it will go further there wish you the best of luck!!

[@laverne1121]

so many foreign tourist vloggers that traveled the Philippines are still alive and doing fine after going back to their country. Philippines is not that a very dangerous country but tourists must be always smart enough to deal with locals to avoid getting scammed.

[@kierolarte4906]

Those are some kind words of yours, thank you for coming here brother have a great life here take care.

[@ninjichris7708]

yo! welcome my dude! with love from PH

[@joebombero1]

I moved my family here to Cavite in 2018 and never looked back. I go back to Texas every 18 months or so, for practical purposes, renew Drivers License, renew ATM card and Credit Card, load a couple of balikbayan boxes. One of the first Americans I met shook his head in astonishment when I told him I go back every 18 months or so. He told me, "I never want to go back. I'm never going back!" I immediately understood. He is balding with gray hair, 60s perhaps early 70s. I am sure he has a girlfriend. This is an amazing place. The schools and inexpensive health care is what keeps me here. Our family is 4 adults and 2 children (6 & 4) with a third baby on the way. Our budget is around 90,000 pesos every month, usually we stay below that. I did live in Nagoya, Japan when I was a boy back in 1977, so a diet based on rice and fish seems natural to me.