What Machiavelli Has Taught Me

Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature, and most recently, The Daily Laws.
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[@lupmindscape]

Who else wants a full video where Robert shows us his books on the shelf behind? 👋🏻

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Yes!

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Just say his book shelf *

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@@bestleader8294 that’s a better and more efficient way to express yourself but I wanted to put it my way. Appreciate the reply nonetheless!

[@MichaelRuddock]

Robert Greene masterfully distills complex ideas into clear, actionable advice.

[@user-zx6dg5vx2e]

AGREED!

[@Jean_Gersalia]

I'm a 22 y/o college student here in the Philippines, I discovered "The Prince" by Nicolo Machiavelli and "Art of war" Sun Tzu last year and "48 laws of Power" by Mr. Greene this year and I can say that this really changed the way I think of life and the way I think about politics. I really appreciate the fact that this era even if you're in the other side of the globe you can have an access to this kind of knowledge and be a better version of yourself.

[@user-zx6dg5vx2e]

Very well stated

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[@mtn4140]

I have these books downloaded, which would you recommend to read first and last in your opinion? Thank you!

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I think the attractive book for you comes first ​@@mtn4140

[@KevinvanAs-li2uk]

​@@mtn4140 Defenitely the 48 laws of power.. reading this book Will give you a better understanding about yourself and others and learns you how to defend and use certain tactics to remain powerfull and happy in your life

[@user-du1qc5hv2l]

In a world full of masked people you were there to teach me how to stop their harm I am grateful for you

[@digitalduch1111]

I've first heard about Machiavelli when I was 18. I overheard a conversation of two people, during a trainride, and one of them stated that everyone who reads "The Prince" would understand the modus operandi of modern politicians. A year later I got the chance to read that book, but was frustrated by the ancient translation. A few years later I heard about your first book, and it was mentioned that the Machiavellian menthods inspired this. So I bought it and also The Prince in a more modern translation. Both books changed my life and way of thinking drastically. And yes, one can understand politics and politicians when reading them both. Thanks Robert and Niccolo ❤

[@ProGamer-wj3oj]

Name of the Modern translation please. I'm trying to buy The prince also

[@CharlesRey-hs1ow]

The books "The Prince" and "The 48 laws of power should be read once every year, the more they sink in your brain, the better.

[@AliSultan-pe6yj]

Out of millions of authors , philopshers and thinkers over the course of centuries you want to limit yourself to one. How lazy are you ?

[@zackkunkel9495]

@@AliSultan-pe6yjbro just wants to read these 2 books why do you care and how does that mean he’s lazy

[@AliSultan-pe6yj]

@@zackkunkel9495 exactly my point I read so much that I was able to get the sources from which he used and did not mention in bibliography. Laziness will lead to superficial understanding . If a book is considered a yearly read if should 100 be worth it.

[@leleo5019]

​​@@AliSultan-pe6yjumm honest question... did you understood what charlesray said?

[@jamesneal7762]

Agree! Plus we’re constantly changing so it helps with a tune up.

[@joselpepo]

People will read your content 500 years from now too.

[@danielkay9757]

Oh yes Sir

[@tonyrobbins2558]

Robert Greene should be respected. 1000 years from now he’s still gonna be talked about cus of his books.

[@little_muhammad82]

Definitely

[@tuckerbugeater]

@@little_muhammad82 why would they read his revisionist history?

[@captainboom6445]

Underrated comment

[@elto888]

Happy 65th Birthday Robert. 🎉

[@calterego]

“Dear Robert, I humbly believe that you are the Machiavelli of our era. Thank you for so much wisdom!”

[@DouBBy-The-Great]

I finished reading all your books, and I'm sad to move on to other authors😭😭i wish you had 20 more books

[@jromeshaw]

Why not read them again?

[@SIGHING777]

And then again and then write your own response and why not read the bible ​@jromeshaw

[@DouBBy-The-Great]

@@jromeshaw I do, sometimes... But i have to face the reality that i must keep expanding my mind with more material, so it's not that easy to go back

[@amalrajpr6800]

Read psychocybernetics if you haven't

[@DouBBy-The-Great]

@@amalrajpr6800 thanks

[@RodCornholio]

_The Prince_ is a playbook, still in use - or instinctively used - by politicians. They either learned it (from, say, the book) or figured it out themselves. Both possibilities are scary.

[@tsukikosora]

I try to survive from my narcissistic mother. Robert , you are saving my life.

[@mizginavale22]

I am not sure why you didn't show up on my radar until this year. I had seen you in passing but never knew the wealth of information that you possess about the human animal. You couldn't have been more right about how as a child you were so turned off by folks that lie about their character while knowing they are nothing of what they claim to be. My mother was the perfect example of that and I was disgusted by it. Because of that, I learned to maintain my own authenticity as I grew older with only a window in my 20's were I deviated from that path but regained it again. I have already known for a while that people tell you everything you need to know through their actions (without reading any book about it, but through painful observation). But you did teach me to notice micro-expressions in people to see how they really feel and have taken that knowledge into my daily observatiosn. Thank you for sharing so much with the world.

[@levlupirl]

same here, i thought he was just another alpha male influencer, who wrote a book, but holy shit i couldnt have been more wrong😂

[@daniel_najar]

“Upon this a question arises: whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? It may be answered that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, it is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with. Because this is to be asserted in general of men, that they are ungrateful, fickle, false, cowardly, covetous, and as long as you succeed they are yours entirely; they will offer you their blood, property, life, and children, as is said above, when the need is far distant; but when it approaches they turn against you.” This is my favorite quote out of any book ever written. Shoutout to Machiavelli for the brilliant work and for inspiring the great Robert Greene 🐐 🐐

[@iuwenmfu]

how do you deal with defeat like losing a fight and losing all your aura?

[@SweaterSwagg]

Sounds very miserable and misanthropic lol

[@RickC-rs7ny]

Without love, the world quickly turns bleak and hostile. Trust vanishes, and negativity lurks everywhere. Even the smallest things can become sources of suspicion, and the fear of betrayal looms over every interaction. The lack of love leads to loneliness, bitterness, and a constant sense of unease, as anxiety and distrust become the norm. This extends to the point where even basic acts of kindness, like sharing a meal, are fraught with doubt. One might wonder if their food has been poisoned. The absence of love leads to loneliness, bitterness, and a pervasive atmosphere of anxiety, distrust, and fear because that which we sow, we inevitably reap. True power lies not in instilling fear but in inspiring reverence through a balance of potential for harm and a commitment to justice tempered by love. By adhering to the golden rule of treating others with the same love and respect one desires for oneself. From a survival standpoint, it's good to have claws to produce some fear to be able to protect yourself from bullies. But once you're established in self-defense, never choose fear at the cost of love where relationships and trust are better rewards, as opposed to enemies, desolation, and all negative emotions. Ultimately, you cannot have one without the other. That's the difference between the good king, tempered with wisdom, as opposed to the corrupt tyrant, who exercises extreme fear. On that note, both extremes are bad and inevitably fail. You need a touch of fear, with a whole lot of love. A king has to reprimand and cannot be all love, especially in the face of wrongdoing.

[@damin1916]

There are five thinkers that I have learned great things from when it comes to understanding the great power-structure and social-ecosystem that is our world, these thinkers are: Machiavelli, Nietzsche, Jung, Hegel and Sartre. What I find so amazing though is that time and time again I can tie the ropes back to Machiavelli, absolutely crazy how much his books contain if you read 'in between the lines' so to speak. I enjoy your work very much Robert, thanks for everything!!

[@Taylor-lp4vj]

I come to Robert Greene's channel whenever I need a dose of someone who is calm, rational, and authentic... which is often nowadays! Thank you Robert!

[@yohannesbisetegn8547]

‘Before all else, be armed.’ - Niccolo Machiavelli

[@Phoenix_Arise_J]

I know this sounds crazy but I had this sense while listening to you, that you might’ve been Machiavelli himself in a past life. I have purchased the 48 laws of power and the laws of human nature and though I haven’t got the chance to complete reading them with joy yet, I am so excited to get your book Mastery. I am always happy to listen to you on KZbin, when I read your books I can hear your voice reading the lines to me with the same tone setting. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@GangsterReviews]

The Book "The Very Hungry Caterpillar" really shaped my life so i can relate 📚🐛

[@julianterris]

The 48 Laws of Power is *must* read, Machiavelli revealed the truth behind the mask of power, and I'm grateful to him, and Robert for his wonderful work. #ThankYou.

[@user-gj2oz3qj6g]

Im not sure how I came across Machiavelli but I did when I was going through some stuff at work. As a manager I really needed to hear some cold hard truth with my own actions. I would of rather be loved than feared and it created a work environment where they didn’t gaf. I learned to be stern when dealing with people and pretty much not gaf what they thought or what gossip they spread. Now I have gained respect from my workers but I also have created a fear in them by being straight up with them. Not only did you, the 48 laws of power and Machiavelli helped me but my kids too. At home I was stern as hell and my kids knew right from wrong and to be completely upfront with me when making stupid choices. I learned to be my full self at work as well. It’s like everything at work had to blow up for me to see where I was hidding myself away! Thank you!

[@isaquebezerra4629]

A verdade crua e nua trás a tona a nossa essencia e nos ensina a viver de verdade.

[@cartomancycarmen]

Keep posting videos of you talking! Your voice is so soothing to me!

[@freespirit4809]

“the human animal “ I like that expression ; before I thought i was the only insane who think that , now that the idea is blessed by mr Greene , i will adopt it from now on , i will always add - animal next to the word human; for the simple reason that “ people pretend to be what in fact they are not “ & that they play the game of “ fake it ‘till U make it “,… YET , i still have hope & believe in human nature can change for the better, since humans are victimized by ignorance & the surroundings 🕯 ❤ 🕯 .

[@DestinyJenae]

i’m not sure if you’re open to astrology, but i looked up your chart & Machiavelli’s chart and i am absolutely FLOORED… when i saw that you both have Sun (identity) in Taurus, i was like okay, cool coincidence. but because both of your works have such a huge focal point on power, i of course had to look at Pluto-the planet symbolic of power, influence, and subconscious control (among many other things). but to understand how insane and meaningful this is, you have to know that Pluto is a very slow-moving celestial body. in the charts of most people, it acts as a background sort of force unless there are mathematical configurations to other planets that suggest otherwise. both of you have the exact same sign of Pluto. it takes Pluto well over 500 years to move back into the exact same sign. and to think how big of an influence he is on your work blows my mind. the fact that you both have Taurus Sun / Virgo Pluto, with a positive aspect (the mathematical configuration i mentioned earlier) between them, and focus on similar things just can’t be a coincidence. you have to be his reincarnation or something 😂

[@ericleiter6179]

I love how Robert addresses Machiavelli as his good friend...as if he is still alive-which of course, he IS when you consider his writings and the very real and ever contemporary influence they have on people through the decades and centuries...I feel that way about Nietzsche, and also Robert's own work, which will have a timeless impact down the line I'm sure...the 48 Laws of Power is his The Prince, and 300 years from now, people will address Robert as a good friend too

[@producedbypodcast]

Always find your content incredibly helpful, valuable and interesting. Cannot wait for the new book. :)

[@Aaa-dv3oi]

I love this because my love for Machiavelli is what has sparked my interest in you!

[@christopherthrawn1333]

I read it and still do Excellent work Mr.Greene. 👏🏿

[@dariokamyar]

OMG. I was waiting for this video for so long!

[@hughjass7914]

The OTHER invisible hand. Not infrequently, it holds a dagger. 🗡️

[@itsnotbloodborne1237]

I love that ur intro is just various examples of you saying what’s what xD love this content

[@luismendez3090]

Robert ... you are getting better by the day...your communication skills are so powerful.... it is like squeezing an orange ... your knowledge just flows...thanks.... and I bought the 48 Laws luxury edition and I recommend it to anybody who wants to see an original presentation with Machiavelli,s face showing up

[@et_bell]

I think Machiavelli's goal in writing the Prince was wider than people assume... The Prince is completely dramatized, it reads like a good 'novel': and here in lies Machiavelli's fox, he had his revenge by letting the people know the degree to which autocrats go to maintain power; all accomplished in the garb of prince's compassionate servant!

[@SARugby1]

The Prince wasn't written to be read by the public and was published posthumously. The real goal of The Prince was to inspire it's reader, the Medici ruler of Florence, to unite the Italian city states and wage war against the Foreign empires, France, Spain and the HRE, who had meddling in Italy's domestic politics

[@acougueiromatador]

Just bought Mastery and the Art of Seduction. Before that I bought 48 laws of power and the 366 daily laws, there's so much to learn from your insights. Ty Robert.

[@tjsahara]

Expressively deep~ Thank you, Robert... for sharing your passion and beautiful knowledge as so. ❤

[@hayoureit]

Thank you for sharing what's worked for you.

[@mezmeralda1]

Makaveli in the background @ 00:17

[@mubaeng]

Life cycle u taught me alot thank u for ur wonderful work

[@dillonhanel]

Great work Robert

[@BAKRA1773]

you are my inspiration Robert ; just love the way you speak and the way you do everything i see.

[@yegneshpv2658]

Happy Birthday sir..Wishing you a prosperous life ahead, Love from Kerala, India

[@willhosun]

Happy birthday, Robert.

[@luDJac007]

Dear Robert, I discovered 48 laws of power in my early 20's, and for the last 10ish years (I'm old, I know) your books have been a constant guide through the trials and tribulations of my life. They have helped in developing my personality and improving my habits (including developing a general reading habit). They have also saved me from making numerous mistakes, which thanks to improved foresight I have managed to avoid. For example when I meet a "problematic" person in my life: whereas earlier me would get annoyed or frustrated with their behavior, nowadays I smile and think "Wow! Exactly as in the story/chapter xyz that I read in Robert's book!" My only regret is that I have not discovered your work in my teenage years. Oh, the drama and confusion I need not have had!

[@HimansaGeethmi]

I thank you Robert, as 20 years ago I got your book, 48 Laws of Power, and it has helped me navigate my life in a much better way. I have been able to use the laws to my advantage in life to get to a better place in difficult situations and to survive.

[@stevenfilippi6917]

You look good Robert! Great recovery from your stroke.

[@SanjayWest412]

Green definitely went through the same things Machiavelli went through. He exposes the tactics and strategies of powerful people, he reveals how the world really is, and people hated his work and HIM for it. While he and Machiavelli were just being realists.

[@TheMan00000]

I am 16 and the 48 laws of power opened my eyes. Thanks for your lessons❤

[@SiriNoloc1012]

Love your videos so much Robert! It’s always a pleasure to hear you speak…. I wish you would post videos everyday lol can’t wait for your new book!

[@Mrchickenshlt]

Inspiring others to think for themselves is a powerful ability that is a self driven aspiration in nature.

[@user-rb5vz9ci8j]

the irony of you using the same principles as Machiavelli did to make your influence among people like you mentioned in 33 strategies of war is so damn brilliant. prob one of my fav living authors

[@wanghaowang5790]

Thanks for sharing

[@saidspace9526]

Before watching this video, i read a some part of 48 laws of power. It was very clear the deep influence of michiavelli ideas on the book.

[@ThePablo505]

Once again, thanks Mr. Greene.

[@Primetiime32]

Thank you Dr Greene

[@zinzino5827]

The Book of Seduction is just what I needed from a great writer like you, i say"Thank you" as you love it..

[@LifeofFana]

Thank you for intellectually adapting me Robert. I hope you know how much you’re creating people’s character and view of life.

[@Antonio_Gallego]

That ending was very touching,

[@thegoat1261]

You’re the greatest living author Mr. Greene I can’t express how grateful I am for you❤

[@sajadmohammad5545]

Mister green is a real living legend i thank you your work helped me a lot

[@DamienMuto]

not to be all up in peoples business, but 0.33 Mr. Rob is moving the left hand even more! continue to get even better, and more well! POWERFUL Mr. Rob!!!

[@genuineethiox0914]

It is an amazing to have you in this age.Long live Mr green.🎉

[@doncorleone3901]

Thank you my good friend Robert Greene. In my head, you guys are the best friends i never had It is a rainy night here in India. I wish i could pour you a single malt and debate through the night about why humans do what they do.

[@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic]

Love this 😊

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I love Roberts Greene box with passion ❤❤❤

[@abnercoronado3279]

Genius robert respect and suport

[@jaofrancis]

I'm happy to have live during the time of Robert Greene.

[@Pompomgrenade]

That's a good video, glad I watched... that Man is very sharp minded.

[@scottyoung1489]

“Vlad the Impaler” is considered a national hero, a man on the white horse in Romania. Was recently in Romania and was fascinated with my discovery that “Vlad the Impaler” is a National hero in Romania because he is seen a symbol of resistance against foreign invaders, specifically the Ottoman Empire. FYI, Prague in Chez Republic, Brasov & Bucharest in Romania are 3 amazing cities, extremely rich in history, culture and extremely friendly to North Americas, plus most everyone speaks at least some English, and absolutely amazing food and beverages, something for everyone.

[@la8076]

Amazing how i just finished reading the prince for the first time last week I always learn something new when you make a video on these philosophers (i know machiavelli isnt regarded as a philosopher but whatever)

[@suplemenvideo]

Happy birthday Mr. Greene, all the best for you

[@realitycheck-th6tw]

Love from Iran. Your books are translated into Persian. Whenever one of your books is published, translators and publishers compete over releasing it sooner than the others that is why I am hopeful of my country. Iranoans know what to read! Listening to your KZbin videos become my morning ritual.

[@gnosticallyspeaking3544]

Think the thing that many get wrong about Machiavelli's writing in the Prince and Discourses is that it's not about the 1% who may use tricks and fakery to get what they want. It's about the 99% who are sheep and, for whatever reason, willing to be lead around as such. Think one of his quotes is something like, "anyone who who has the desire and ability to deceive will always find an audience that will accept the deception". Machiavelli taught me that I have to spend a lot of time thinking about me and how and where I might be blind and being taken advantage of. Helpful is the old saying. "If you're sitting at the poker table and you can't identify the sucker mark. Then the sucker mark is you." But this cuts both ways. World seems based much on takers and takees. Not a lot you can do about it. So it's a question of knowing you're being taken and aggravated versus totally ignorant but possibly content.

[@DavidOkikiAmayoJr.]

I hope to be able to speak with as much confidence as you do someday, especially because I think our minds perceive things quite similarly, albeit from different cultural backgrounds.

[@timetoghost1289]

I first discovered Machiavelli in Assassin Creed and then I got curious about his character and then one of my friends let me read one of his books to learn more about him

[@EcomCarl]

Robert's reflection on Niccolò Machiavelli's influence is a testament to the timeless wisdom found in Machiavelli's writing. 📚 It's fascinating to see how Machiavelli's insights on power dynamics continue to shape our understanding of human behavior and leadership.

[@Msal19]

Robert Greene's books and the internalization process of them have elevated my philosophical and psychological games to a whole a new level. It did take a couple years to really process all the information and turne it into my tools in the arsenal but damn it was worth the effort. Subtleties are everything!

[@Shrewd745]

Fascinating ❤

[@luciegoodvibes9883]

You're a start Robert. Your wisdom opened my eyes on soooo many things. I ow you so much. I like that you're a Taurus, as a pisces with a 2nd house (Taurus house) in scorpio (known for depth, loyalty, power). I find myself connected to taureans on a deep level

[@Ankitasharma26]

I finished The Prince a few months back only. It gives a lot of valuable insight into the minds of rulers. I have my grandfather's copy which was published in the 1940s

[@Apxllxn]

I love how you refer to him as he was alive and somewhere out there. Im sure he would really appreciate it

[@MabVerse1]

Thank you Robert you are doing gods work you changed my life and millions of others you'll be remembered till the end of human kind

[@iconic.greatness]

This video just proves why everyone listening to Robert Greene has to read the 48 laws of power book. if you haven't read it, read it then read it again and learn all 48 Laws by heart. Which I did. It's worth it. Because all ads, commercials, marketing and newsletters use many of these methods. Everything outside of ourselves is constantly trying to persuade, and influence us.

[@yo_andersen608]

I love Robert Greene and his books

[@Adam-qz9ec]

Never outshine the master has been one of the most useful laws I’ve learned. Thank you Robert. Learning about human nature from you and Machiavelli actually makes me more optimistic about the world, because despite the manipulative nature of humanity, we have still progressed somehow into a world with historically low violence and poverty, when you compare it to all other times of history.

[@dominicsoore8967]

Great man

[@ItAllBeginsWithSelf]

Studying Machiavelli reveals insights into politics, leadership, and human nature, emphasizing pragmatism and human motivations. However, his teachings raise ethical concerns about manipulation. Balancing his lessons with integrity is crucial.

[@TheUnseenPath]

Exactly. It’s one aspect of human nature.

[@MrB831]

Back after he wrote The Prince, Machiavelli also wrote stage plays anyway long story short they accused him of being the actual 'Devil' an accusation not granted to many lol.

[@professorrobertphd]

Wow. I have never thought about Machiavelli in that way Master Robert Greene. If his ideas are still vilified in 2024, just imagine how they were in 1500s. What a legend

[@tebogomoloi2874]

Happy birthday Mr Greene

[@Beatszzz]

“Exit 2Pac, Enter Makaveli” -linear notes for the “Makaveli” album…2Pac was a well-read artist who was ahead of his time.

[@GroundbreakGames]

It's funny, Robert is one of my all time favorite people to listen to, and I just started looking in to Machiavelli by a series of random coincidences then I see Robert has just put out a video about him. I love shit like that.

[@dimitriosfromgreece4227]

"I love your videos brother" ❤️ I find you informative - And at the same time funny "and entertaining" .... SUPER MEGA LOVE FROM SWEDEN STOCKHOLM!!!!!!!!!💙❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙❤️💙

[@user-zx6dg5vx2e]

Robert G. Is a very intelligent , fascinating man

[@laiwong221]

Absolutely love how cringey Robert can be at the end but he completely owns it. True demonstration of confidence

[@rina.3232]

Unfortunately I haven't read Machiavelli's work, though I've read three of Green's, which changed my views towards the world and people. I'm not enough smart and masterful to use all the laws, however I've learnt how to quickly distinguish other people's true wishes, actions and thoughts clearly. So, I'm deeply grateful for such chefs-d'oeuvres.

[@8bitstriker138]

Hey Robert. Thanks for you great work. Mastery is a Master's piece ;) maybe you feel like making a video about it, and for that I propose exercises for a flexible and adaptable mind. Best wishes, and looking forward to you next book and the one on human stu...

[@ivanleelivingston4902]

My teen friends thought my mother was Mary Popins but she never believed that children need a hug, love, reasurance or a bedtime story.Even when I was terminal at age 11 she was cold and undemonstrative for those 3 months and I faced death and her silence.

[@expatlaura6531]

Wow, I love how at 15 you were drawn to this book. Even from an early age this was your calling!

[@HumanisT-Advocate]

Robert Greene "whereever you are, I think you" too.

[@bagadi9917]

Robert, thank you for this. As we become more understanding, how do we navigate narcissists while being nonviolent if that is the path we choose? A follow up if we want to be more empathetic, how can we reconcile this with a statement like recognize and avoid all narcissists? The Dalai Lama says even angry people deserve love. I’m really curious as I can see I have a fear of running into one or getting enmeshed with them but I still want to maintain my values.