You’re the man Coach Lee! Everything you say is 100 percent accurate! I Followed you’re advice, and my ex reached out to me a few days ago, so everyone out there reading this, be patient and stay focus, NO CONTACT WORKS!!!
@listen28982 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@joshmcgowan43762 жыл бұрын
How long was it before reach out
@Kissthebottle682 жыл бұрын
Sloppy seconds
@thehavoc63312 жыл бұрын
How long was the no contact?
@louise25282 жыл бұрын
how long was the no contact??
@shea88barbie4 жыл бұрын
Prayer circle. I’m praying for everyone going through heart break in the world & their healing, and everyone who’s dating & in a good relationship I pray their love and happiness continues.
@theresamischeski714 жыл бұрын
May God bless you sis ❤
@shea88barbie4 жыл бұрын
Chris Johnson sure!
@nasym40964 жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@meosoukasene8204 жыл бұрын
I week nc im losing faith lol .just focusing on myself now . Lowkey. By the time she come back i dont think i want her by then
@PatrickDKing4 жыл бұрын
Just prayed for all of us...to relieve our stresses, our anxieties, our chemical addictions (love/limerence), heal us, and make us stronger.
@jenlaird1gmail5 жыл бұрын
If you love someone, let them go. If they come back, it means no one else would tolerate their BS either.
@rawone91585 жыл бұрын
I love it.
@wildanS5 жыл бұрын
But if THEY broke up with you, it means YOU did tolerate their BS, otherwise you would've left first.
@meoislearningagain36155 жыл бұрын
This is really funny.
@williewill12375 жыл бұрын
Cold blooded
@rileysmiley95855 жыл бұрын
Cool analogy 🤔
@SS-iz3qp4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we don’t want ex to come back ... we just need them to realise their mistakes and change for their own good ..
@FreedominLove7114 жыл бұрын
Sumithra S I agree with you
@rebeccajohnson56583 жыл бұрын
Yup true my one ex has issues that need to be fixed.
@bellayergashewa76763 жыл бұрын
On GOD
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly why I wanna contact my ex. Just to let her know all the mistakes SHE MADE! I blamed myself when her and I talked last and this is eating me up but I'm getting better. She thinks she's so self aware but she's not, she turned out to be more selfish than I initially thought. She did take some blame and said that she's not pointing the finger at me.
@zofiafredro9550 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@alexandrulupu7254 жыл бұрын
“You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.” - Thich Nhat Hanh
@ifyify60734 жыл бұрын
Please, how do you mean?
@Kaioshin90004 жыл бұрын
Coach Corey Wayne
@phillipsmegan77644 жыл бұрын
The process of understanding how to get your ex back does not need to be complicated. Usually people can figure out how to do this without creating a lot of stress for themselves. Reading the other person with respect and dignity is very important when trying to accomplish this particular goal. Visit *MyExLove. info* If you want to get back your ex back
@alexandrulupu7254 жыл бұрын
@@animone2711 indeed. Amir Levine - Attachment
@linc1313133 жыл бұрын
@@Kaioshin9000 Ha, yup! 😉
@harrydurent89885 жыл бұрын
Somebody somewhere is looking for you and will accept you just the way you are ; never force someone to be with you, for their appearance or for what they can bring, someone wants to go let it be, she or he wasn’t yours. It’s when they leave you they know what they have lost.
@TyB-BT5 жыл бұрын
Harry Durent damn bro that first part really got me✊🏽👍🏽👍🏽
@TyB-BT5 жыл бұрын
Something my ex doesn’t care what she lost either, my motto is move on & move up. They’ll eventually see what they lost!
@TyB-BT5 жыл бұрын
Something well to tell you the cold hard truth, it doesn’t matter what he thinks anymore. He did his damage to you, and burnt his trust with you. I was in a similar situation, I fell in love with the perfect girl and she told me she loved me and broke up with me within the same couple of weeks. The best thing I learned was I didn’t care what she told me, or what she thought of me and I’m doing my best to move on. There’s always better guys out there and I can promise that.
@ozerilhan15 жыл бұрын
No! dont really aggree. Relationship needs some little sacrfice from each sides comfort zone.
@professormey20824 жыл бұрын
@harry durent would you take your ex back if they changed ? And become more emotionally mature
@PieterDeyzel5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos. Not necessarily to get my ex back but to deal with the break up. Your advise is worth more than gold.
@mariyamfathima8814 жыл бұрын
Worth a life
@prizescu4 жыл бұрын
And, have you dealt with the breakup?
@leesteal44584 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@marlenengasia53004 жыл бұрын
My ex told me he needed a break and after the break the few weeks past and he was on and off hot and cold, after our last conversation I started the no contact rule and ten days prior to my no contact I hear he was in a car accident and I just send a text to ask if he was okay and he told me what happened and told me thank you for looking out I appreciate it and nothing from there, was it wrong from my end cause I feel like an idiot for even texting him, plus I still have his apartment keys which he never ask for or pick up? I need to understand what's happening here.
@LiLgPnoy154 жыл бұрын
Same here man. These videos help me sooth my anxiety
@oneputtsteven4 жыл бұрын
What makes an ex come back? They didn't find anyone better and they were unhappy.. Proceed with caution.
@papichulo4022 Жыл бұрын
That grass ain't greener on the other side
@tashajuliett27095 жыл бұрын
Okay so I’ve watched your videos. Guess freaking what. My ex wanted me back and we got back together lol
@RealCoachLee5 жыл бұрын
Tasha, awesome! I’m thrilled for you!
@cccspwn5 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, it looks like its only working for women. Only seeing success stories from Women. Congratulations though I'm happy for you.
@molleechisholm92064 жыл бұрын
How long were you in no contact?
@melina13374 жыл бұрын
u must be happy as larry...so what the latest...come on tell us..we want to know
@paullebosh4 жыл бұрын
@@cccspwn It happened to me for my ex a few years ago, took around 4 months. I'm hoping that it'll happen again with my latest ex!
@chonkybenetgods3 жыл бұрын
I wanted my ex back but as I saw him move on, so I let him be. And in the long run, I realized that I needed myself back more than my ex. Self love first!
@robertoperez22225 жыл бұрын
6:00 so true, but her dumping me made me stronger. Highlight my hair. Going to the gym. Letting her know i didn't lose her she lost me.
@ShL5485 жыл бұрын
...
@michaelmiller84555 жыл бұрын
@@ShL548 What does your ambiguous ellipsis even mean?
@franczsolijon23414 жыл бұрын
@@ShL548 *
@marcoaslan27143 жыл бұрын
Did you get her back after working on yourself?
@robertoperez22223 жыл бұрын
@@marcoaslan2714 heck no. Sometimes we men that are faithful lets say, only think that theres no one else for them, i wanted Asian but not from the states most seems to have an attitude i was going to the Philippines till my flight was canceled all the time so i gave that up.
@iCamzie924 жыл бұрын
I’m losing hope on attracting my ex back. Instead, I’m more focused on working on myself and attracting my future guy hoping he will finally be the one who I will end up with. ❤️
@shkrsimpson443 жыл бұрын
I'm not gonna lie. I'm starting to feel like I don't even want my ex back anymore to begin with lol. I feel like this is coach lee's plan all along. To either find yourself again and realize YOUR value or just get over the ex in general and them coming back is just a consolation prize, a bridge that you can decide to cross when you get there.
@joshwilliams65172 жыл бұрын
That’s when it starts working lol
@brandonohara4122 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@hollydrucker84165 жыл бұрын
Remember, you had a life before them....Make new friends ... and keep a log of your experience with your breakup it sure has helped me. I wish you all healthy and happy relationships. Thanks coach Lee.
@joshmcgowan43762 жыл бұрын
The only thing I hate is I found these videos too late ... I wish I could time travel just after listening to coach Lee
@77dris5 жыл бұрын
This is all true, but it also shows just how messed up human mating is... the whole "game" is kind of ridiculous.
@lemotheemonemo5 жыл бұрын
Just don't even bother playing the game. Be aware that their are games out there so that you can tell when someone's playing them, and then walk away as soon as you detect them. Healthy relationships are not created out of these games.
@sharamrock25804 жыл бұрын
77dris Amen to what you said dude.
@sharamrock25804 жыл бұрын
rawrafied I want and must agree with you as well. I definitely don’t wanna be under the impression that all descents human being are all playing undercover games.
@beamartino68804 жыл бұрын
@@sharamrock2580 agree. Walk away from someone who seems to be playing the games. We all have faults and imperfections, illness, etc. Dumping someone when their situation changes is not love. It's something else.
@tacobelle694 жыл бұрын
I hate playing games. They are so immature...
@prranauvb68095 жыл бұрын
Hey Coach Lee and others, This is just to inform you that no contact rule works. I got my ex back. "What you think is what you get". So be positive, radiate positive vibes. Coach Lee's video has really helped me a lot. I just followed the rule for a day. However it changes from person to another. But it will definitely happen. I want this to be the motivation to the people out there who are going through Coach Lee's video and doubting about it. At the end of the day you should be POSITIVE
@moonstone_motivation4 жыл бұрын
When did you get a text from your ex after getting into no contact
@ifyify60734 жыл бұрын
Thanks fo the update man! Hoping mine comes running back
@tellysantos23924 жыл бұрын
k so it worked for u, how long was u in contact?
@nathanb21673 жыл бұрын
I was positive she came back asking how I seemed to be moving on so quickly thinking I was not upset when she was very upset
@prranauvb68093 жыл бұрын
@@ifyify6073 did she?
@Tempcitz5 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say man, your videos are the only thing that has put everything I've been going through in a positive way. It's finally given me a light at the end of the tunnel.
@waynesalisbury3 жыл бұрын
Stay stronger brother
@crist_toro4 жыл бұрын
I think people come back mostly because they feel lonely or sad and want an ego boost. Most of exes do not come back to have a relationship again with you, but because they are looking for validation and to boost their self esteem thinking that you are going to beg and plead again.
@llo94913 жыл бұрын
I'll except her back, but it'll be awhile before I give her my heart again.
@lateashaevans45792 жыл бұрын
Yup
@bobsmith962 Жыл бұрын
Very good point.
@lala44615 жыл бұрын
Absolute best relationship coach out there. Different perspective from the others. Everyone else just repeats exact same thing. You actually give sound advice and tools to implement reasonable outcome.
@ayazmalik52605 жыл бұрын
I totally agree ;)
@KiKi-te9yd5 жыл бұрын
Also agree!
@suryaananda83625 жыл бұрын
This Is Not Happening Very True. An he doesn’t charge the Earth for one on one. I think I’m going to go with Coach Lee & get his guidance. I’m in such a mess tho :( So low.
@princhipessa19695 жыл бұрын
Agree! All I ever hear is “work on yourself” we get it.
@erosvera99455 жыл бұрын
BOV hahahaha yes we get it. Lee is the closets to earth.
@graciousqueen84633 жыл бұрын
Breakup is the most painful thing. U feel like the heart is being ripped apart. U think U won't make it to the next day. However it gets better with time. Stay strong actually don't want them back they will come to ruin your new self and leave again.
@DanielleAshlyn2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is already on his way back to me! Just a matter of time 🌍🙏🏽🌈😌
@adoliowoicho4642 жыл бұрын
Dr Steve Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him...
@margesherwood51035 жыл бұрын
I'm the prize.
@casiiebunnie5 жыл бұрын
I made my ex feel exactly how you said, trapped, I would get angry when they didn’t spend time with me and would ignore him because of this. And I feel so dumb, because while in the relationship I didn’t see it. I just wanted to be “sufficient” and everything he needed, without realizing we needed distance, and freedom. I hate myself for that. I don’t think he will come back, and now I realize all of this. We had an amazing two and a half years worth of love, and I started acting insecure for about 6 months. That’s all it took for him to get tired and break up with me. So devastated. 😔
@randilatislaw44204 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I did over the last 3 yrs to my husband but I didn't realize it until just now as I watched this video and I hate myself for it too because after 20 yrs of marriage I found out he'd been cheating on me and lying straight to my face for almost 2 months and as I cried and begged him to come back home with me or to at least make her leave because she and her two kids, 2 dogs, cat and hamster had moved in with our 28 yr old daughter because they'd just met one week before where they both worked and she and her kids were homeless after leaving her kids' dad so my daughter moved them into her apartment where her dad (my husband) was living while on house arrest after Just getting out of jail... so he chose our daughters 32 yr old "best friend" that they'd both just met over me his wife and mother of his 3 children. And all 3 of our kids knew that he had moved her into his bedroom with him and that he was lying to me about it for 2 months but neither of them said anything to me about it and they even took his side about all of it. So now she basically took my place in my own marriage and family while I'm left to fend for myself by myself after being a stay at home mom for the last 20 yrs and he's paying for his and her share of the $900/month rent, utilities, food for her, her kids and her 4 pets. So yeah I fucking hate myself and I wish I'd never even met him because it hurts soooooo fucking much worse to lose the man of my dreams when I know that I had everything I'd ever wanted, needed and more and I'll never get it back because my daughter put her friend in the small apt with my husband who can only leave to go to work and then get straight home each day and she intentionally put herself in between my marriage and refuses to leave so I didn't and don't even have any kind of a chance to try to fix things between us.
@THISSHOWNEEDSMORETITS3 жыл бұрын
Did you send an apology to him? If you recognize this now you could send it
@whitneymiller51393 жыл бұрын
Same here! Praying for both of us
@mmm8473 жыл бұрын
Update?
@naiko67003 жыл бұрын
I want to apologise but I also don't want to break no contact...
@jenlaird1gmail4 жыл бұрын
I just want to remind everybody to be careful what you wish for. You might just get it. (And you may be sorry you did.)
@moonstone_motivation4 жыл бұрын
I broke no contact after 2 months and just came to know that she been dating another dude right after the breakup and that hurts so I'm on a permanent no contact forever! I'm done. Hope you all get your loved ones back🙏 *Update* She contacted me after and kept checking on me every months once while i was on no contact, after i had moven on and didn't find a problem i normalised with her and she kept talking and came closer ..... Then this months she said she wants to be just friends until we meet,she wants us to mot get close bc it will hurt one or the other ...so i decided not to talk to her and go for a no contact till I'm over her completely. Ik i made a mistake but i really care for her and she actually needed some emotional support so i never left ...i hope she be doing good. Idk what's in fate! But no contact definitely works!!!!
@garypfleegor16342 жыл бұрын
I'm going throw that now Dude. I was so pissed I wrecked his car
@moonstone_motivation2 жыл бұрын
@@garypfleegor1634 😂 you need to learn having self control! Trust me it will help you your whole life ❤️
@carolp32795 жыл бұрын
Only thing that eases my pain
@29mirstudio3 жыл бұрын
After 10 days of no contact my ex just “liked” one of my LinkedIn postings. I’m not going to do anything about it. Liking a posting is not enough to start a conversation. I’m not that easy, she’s gotta do a lot more than that. I have my dignity.
@anachristopher29735 жыл бұрын
Absolutely invaluable advices i'd make my rules. I'm not tired of listening you on repeat. You are just the most sensible person I have ever came across. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@fernandogonzalez61404 жыл бұрын
What I love about your videos is that you are the only one that Focuses on self love and to make them experience the loss. And I think that is the key about all this.
@annetteincairns35284 жыл бұрын
I am the prize! I’m loving your advice. Sooooo very helpful. I now have clarity. Many many thanks for sharing your wisdom. I really don’t want the relationship with my recent ex, I just don’t like being alone and lonely. I’m bouncing back to the strong individual I’ve always been, thanks to you. ❤️
@sharamrock25805 жыл бұрын
I’ve done years of studying psychology and I am beyond amazed by coach Lee. I hope that his viewers truly appreciate the knowledge Lee is providing in his videos. Even though I’ve studied for a long time, I assure you that I have made the very basic mistakes that I could have avoided, and that’s why I admire Lee’s reminder. My girl and I never really argued or anything... she became cold and distant after being constantly brainwashed by her horrible “friend “ that somehow somewhere I would end up being a horrible person DESPITE THE FACT THAT I TREATED HER LIKE MY QUEEN. It hurts... then I finally decided to apply the no contact... haven’t spoken to her for about a 7 days... and that’s something that we never stop talking for more than 2 days. It’s crazy and I don’t expect everyone to understand our situation.... she started to show interest in me and eventually I let her in my heart... until the jealous friend of hers started to affect my girl’s mind and attitude towards me... we were fine, we didn’t even fight or anything... I miss her, but I know that I have to continue the no contact and regain my pride.
@roshawngreene70694 жыл бұрын
This is my situation with my ex-gf exactly!
@olmanclifford2184 жыл бұрын
That perfect relationship is what caused the breakup
@bahakam774 жыл бұрын
Haha, going through the same process, because of different religions and cultures, hey friends kept talking shit to her and we didn't fight or anything, i tried taking to her and get an explanation but she seemed confused and didn't want to bother to explain so i just kept it normal in our last meeting and walked out and didn't contact her since then, she views my Instagram stories and i have been doing lots of things lately luckily for me, it's been 8 days now i heard from her after 2 days of the no contact she texted me about a video i posted and i give her a short reply, and since that day we both didn't contact each other, it was all good between us she is sometimes caring and sometimes won't bother to do extra but her friends kept at it, i met her mom and brother and they liked me alot i did want to engage to her after 6 months of knowing each other, anyways we are on the same situation haha just thought it was funny
@HeDeRust4 жыл бұрын
Some update?
@phillipsmegan77644 жыл бұрын
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@gilliansanderson48305 жыл бұрын
You talk a lot of sense . Feeling free is a human need
@geoffreychege50805 жыл бұрын
Your priceless advices have worked for me. Thank you.
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@campingforayearrenoheart59084 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee , these videos should be watched before a relationship, such great advise , prayers for all the people confused and in pain
@campingforayearrenoheart59084 жыл бұрын
Why do I want my x back ? Sure I can give them space and they come back but it usually doesn’t work, best thing is learn your mistakes and move forward there are plenty of fish in the sea
@lesliejohns9874 жыл бұрын
What I Love about You!!!! Is You don’t make getting a Ex back a Scientific Project.. ! You are THE BEST ! You Are EXCELLENT!! The VERY BEST ! 🙏🏻❤️
@gerardoromero84945 жыл бұрын
This man is telling the truth I agree 100 percent.
@kellzc.4664 жыл бұрын
I could watch these videos all day. You need a talk show!
@hollydrucker30114 жыл бұрын
That is exactly what he said the reason for our relationship ending... There is no future for us. Once again you are spot on!
@robertoflores4546 Жыл бұрын
Again, Coach Lee. A life saver.. we have "broken up" a couple times. I lean heavily on him and have learned a lot from the Emergency Break Up Kit. I believe I have become more secure because of Coach Lee and have been able to handle myself better. Even after watching these videos after getting back together, they're STILL valuable lessons in learning about my relationship with the love of my life.
@RealCoachLee Жыл бұрын
Roberto, thank you for your comment! Would you be willing to email your story to Amber at myexbackcoach@gmail.com? We would like to use an alias of your name and your story to encourage others.
@robertoflores4546 Жыл бұрын
@@RealCoachLee I will when I'm at a computer and can better focus. Our relationship is still a work in progress but seems to build and get stronger with even more emotional connection after over coming these painful bumps, though they become less painful when you put things in to the perspective that you provide. Certain things in your Emergency Breakup Kit are very key I've found.... as you've taught me. Probably the biggest thing you provided for me is confidence. Thank you for being there.
@lorainebejar28373 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping me motivated in staying in NC. Your videos are great and giving us strength during tough times. Blessed you. 🙂🙏💞
@sharamrock25804 жыл бұрын
As I have wrote it before: Coach Lee is perhaps a blessing for people who have opportunity to listen to him. Not all cases are exactly the same. The “No Contact “ that coach Lee talks about is something that the person whom has been broken up with HAS TO APPLY IN ORDER TO SHOW SELF RESPECT SELF CONFIDENCE PRIDE After a certain amount of time, perhaps the “dumpee “ might have to re-reach out because the “dumper” might not have the courage to reach back out. I might have known certain aspects of how to behave, but listening to coach Lee: reassuring me that I am doing the right thing was PRINCESS. Thank you Lee. You DO KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT and the fact that you are willing to help others in pain, makes you an amazing human. Love & respect to you. God bless you.
@cocochannel89322 жыл бұрын
“AN OPEN DOOR, is a closed trap.” took me years to figure out what my mother was saying. No truer words have been spoken!
@lanarudyk5 жыл бұрын
I love what you say about freedom here and hope very much to become a person who can learn to respect that aspect of another person. Your videos are very helpful, thank you :)
@marcyallison59965 жыл бұрын
You are so right about emotional attraction and making them feel free! I so needed this! Thank you!!
@mathewsquires38965 жыл бұрын
Everything I’ve heard in your videos is exactly the things she’s said to me while I was begging and pleading, for weeks I did this. But, I didn’t listen, I was trying to control the outcome and over analyzing and looking for the good and running with it. Thinking I was making progress when clearly she said “I would tell you”. It was me being selfish and letting my ego control it. She’s been in a rebound since about a week or two after our break up and today I have finally decided to start the no contact rule. And it is so hard. I’m gonna try it though because I feel like I’ve done everything else to no avail. I appreciate your videos and I’ll keep faking it till I make it. I hope it works because i do love her. But I need to learn acceptance and other things. We had a good relationship and it was only the last three months things went sour. And the break up for weeks was bad. I hope I haven’t lost my chance.
@jerrylisby53764 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee the No Contact Ninja!
@christopherstahler53765 жыл бұрын
I was with my ex for eight years. Most of our relationship was great, but then for maybe the past two years I became very insecure and did everything he described in this video. I don’t know why I started acting that way. But my ex has said many times I was smothering her and making her feel trapped and I was trying to control her. Now we broke up 4 weeks ago because she jumped straight into a rebound relationship. I’m doing EVERYTHING I can to change my bad behavior and become an even better version of the person I was when we first met. I hope it works to help get her back.
@twisted42075 жыл бұрын
Same here my last relationship lasted 5 years the first 3years where awesome but the last 2 something changed in me i was very jealous and also neclected her and our sexuality were gone the last 16 months.. I guess there no hope for me getting her back she changed a whole lot when i see her i almost dont recognize her. She broke up 2 weeks ago
@twisted42074 жыл бұрын
@Elaine nicholson if u aksing me? Shes in her second relationship now since 3weeks changed completly and hasnt reached out to me yet. I moved on let her live her life hope she finds what shes looking for if it wasnt me
@twisted42074 жыл бұрын
@Elaine nicholson well there no other option for me i still think of her on a daily basis sometimes more sometimes less. When i first met her she was the cute gaming anime girl kinda shy and wont really go out partying much now she changed to the complete oposite she looks totally mainstream by now goes out partying all the time and so on. For me im 25 i reconnect with old friends started with new hobbies (kickboxing, downhill moutain biking and learning to play guitar) Feeling somewhat decent few psychlogical problems though when it comes to dating new girls cause theres interest in me but they are not interesting for me i somehow always compare them to my ex when i first met her. But maybe i just need a little more time
@BxJerseyShorefan4 жыл бұрын
Christopher Stahler update?
@NintendoFan88774 жыл бұрын
Christopher Stahler I was that pouty person whenever he went out and we’re in a ldr so I’ve got no hope
@jacquelinema81373 жыл бұрын
ive been watching everyday just to find comfort here, even if my ex doesnt come back, im feeling okay and can move on with my life
@sujatakhatun91192 жыл бұрын
I know he will never come back 💔
@EmilieWangHF5 жыл бұрын
such good advice, and can i say that the background music is very soothing as well? thanks so much coach lee, for helping me think things through after a sudden break-up.
@omgurheadsgone4 жыл бұрын
What background music lol?
@maximilianomorales17734 жыл бұрын
@@omgurheadsgone bro I'm deadd
@Vibenuggets3 жыл бұрын
@@omgurheadsgone 😂😂😂🤣Am also confused
@youtoo22334 жыл бұрын
Glad you talked about long distance relationships. I think it's one of the main reason my last relationship fell apart. We had plans to meet for the first time, but this Corona thing caused her so much stress and depression to the point she ended us.
@ailyndagatan54994 жыл бұрын
Relate
@jazzyjaz01052 жыл бұрын
Did y’all make back up?
@youtoo22332 жыл бұрын
@@jazzyjaz0105 we sure did, thanks for asking, been together two years now
@jazzyjaz01052 жыл бұрын
@@youtoo2233 oh that’s beautiful! Congrats! 🎉 I pray my ex has a change of heart 🙏🏾
@youtoo22332 жыл бұрын
@@jazzyjaz0105 I'll pray for ya🙂, sometimes God will definitely change someone's heart through prayer
@wadecahill31965 жыл бұрын
coach Lee, you are the only person that has given me the best advise ever, I only wish I saw your video 10 months ago, I would have had my ex back by now, what a shame !!!! my biggest regret is not seeing your video earlier
@thismyworld2225 жыл бұрын
Why what happened bro?
@jasong69675 жыл бұрын
My guy!!! Coach Lee... We had an amazing relationship and didn’t miss a beat when we were together. I really want to reach out because she’s stubborn as hell. Should I or should I not?
@wislerdesir50805 жыл бұрын
I really like this guy for what he does.
@cosmicchaos10905 жыл бұрын
You're full of Knowledge
@josephgioia49475 жыл бұрын
What about when u have to speak to her about the kids ,
@summerbreeze65474 жыл бұрын
If they leave you once..they would leave you again! They dont deserve your love..go find someone new!
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
Not true.
@angelliew1943 жыл бұрын
So true
@katiebryant89153 жыл бұрын
I just had it happen for the 2nd time.
@phill74872 жыл бұрын
I have watched so many of these videos, not to get my ex back but to comfort my own mind about how I was never really the issue in my relationship. Just your words about how WE are the prize, motivates me to move on. My ex has been clubbing, going out constantly (because our friends of friends tell me without me even asking) and I just know she will eventually hurt the way I did when she broke us up. Thank you Coach Lee.
@jarrodoberg2078 Жыл бұрын
Did she ever reach out?
@phill7487 Жыл бұрын
@@jarrodoberg2078 hi, no, completely moved on
@carmenfigueroa40844 жыл бұрын
I wish you had a book 📖 you are the best coach ever thank you 🙏🏼 saint coach lee
@AnnetteWalker45695 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found you. You really are the best relationship coach out there. Always such great advice!
@SuperFata5 жыл бұрын
I will follow the advice, your videos made me see clearer. Not only about myself, but understanding the whole thing from her perspective. If it turns out a happy ending, meaning we reunite down the line, I´ll let you know. Best coach out there by far.
@ellietrosales-parsons49403 жыл бұрын
So I’ve been following your videos for about 2 weeks now. I’ve struggled with my mental health, and my ex came home and packed up all his stuff while I was at work and broke up with me when I got home. The best relationship of my life he just lacked communication, and felt I wasn’t putting in as much effort, which was true due to my depression. We broke up about a month ago and I could not do no contact but I did back off and tried responding only when he did. At one point I asked him how he was doing and he stated he was having a hard time and didn’t want to talk about it. I asked again the next day if he was doing any better and he said a little bit but I’m still going through it. This was late at night let me remind you. I jumped out of bed and went to the store and got him all of his favorite snacks as a care package and brought it to him. Since then he’s been talking with me constantly and we have a date on Friday. Figuring out what the problem was and working really hard on myself (going to therapy and back on my medications after the breakup) I think is proving to him that I’m putting in effort. Wish me luck and Thankyou for your videos.
@johannoble1743 жыл бұрын
M.e.s.s.a.g.e m.e o.n W.h.a.t.s.a.p.p👇👇👇
@johannoble1743 жыл бұрын
+447520607071👊
@ovigavril71912 жыл бұрын
Update?
@YanoLima5 жыл бұрын
Hey all. She reached out again and this time i said “id love to see you when im in town” and she said “Awh yeah i would too!!!”. Just know she will probably reach out. That doubt will always be in your mind, but she will probably reach out.
@Haitiancowboyhtx3 жыл бұрын
Update
@emmacarla17525 жыл бұрын
Been following you always Coach Lee. Love all your videos.❤️
@missa15893 жыл бұрын
I broke no contact by humbling myself down..only to get disappointed in the end. NC for two mos. Now and everything is clearing up. What an ass! Can't believe i let myself be fooled for the nth time
@mariel91805 жыл бұрын
My ex said multiple times, 'what if my parents don't like you' I learned during the relationship that his mother and ex wife had an argument, he took his wife's side, and his parents went totally silent and no contact with him or 3 years! No wonder he was petrified if they would even like me . Pressure on me or what!! 😫
@alisonquadros66744 жыл бұрын
This helped me understand a lot thanks a million keep putting up more videos like this
@markjoggo78744 жыл бұрын
I’m on 5 days no contact , very hard , she won’t come back , very stubborn plus she thinks she’s a princess , just watched Forgetting Sarah Marshall on tv and made me 75% better , good luck to everyone who are suffering , we will get thru this 😀
@favourarinze93684 жыл бұрын
Mark jog go, will come back to you but you can not do it by your self
@favourarinze93684 жыл бұрын
When I was in a problem like this before it was a friend of mine that introduce me to a very Powerful Man that helpe me
@favourarinze93684 жыл бұрын
Have my fiance back and restore our relationship and we now couple as I speak now
@markjoggo78744 жыл бұрын
Early days yet , I’m committed to the 30 days , lost weight , 2020 is going to be a great year with or without her , life’s goes on
@favourarinze93684 жыл бұрын
@@markjoggo7874 don't feel discourage ok WhatsApp The number I gave you him can make your life better
@vanessalopez9704 жыл бұрын
You are amazing!! I got results and I'm still barely applying everything from your videos and imagine I barely started watching your videos . Thank you and I am in the whole.process of still continuing to work on myself
@jamesg26094 жыл бұрын
Videos I have listened to on KZbin this particular one makes the most sense. I have been pining over my ex for 7 months. 17 year relationship 9 years being married she left one day. I understand the attraction level is extremely high on my part and was on hers for years. I know there is nothing I can do and if anything's going to happen it will have to be from her. Thank you for all that you do for us though it's heartbreaking I totally understand now.
@tsu12469 ай бұрын
Listening to this, it sounds like I did everything right DURING the relationship, but she still left me. I gave her complete freedom to do and hang out with whomever she wanted and never expressed jealousy or clinginess, definitely didn't make her feel trapped. And I never invested more than her, in fact one of the reason she gave me for the breakup was that she felt like I didn't invest enough and she felt like she always fought hard for me but I didn't fight for her. Maybe I just overdid it on accident.
@membering5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another great video! ❤ I need to play your videos on repeat.. lol...actually not kidding.
@rickidoyle78425 жыл бұрын
membering same here every one of them every day, to ease this horrible inside pain. 😔😢
@BambiOnIce193 жыл бұрын
Honestly, i think it all comes down to how much the other person values you. If you are of no value to them in some way, they will not want you. If someone doesn't value you, why would you want to be around them?
@yourbestversion39425 жыл бұрын
"Some philosopher i think his name was Wayne! Corey Wayne haha i love your videos man i just know corey always nails that quote and its a good one no matter who said it. Information is value nutral once you get it you decide if its worthy of any implementation in your life or to just disregard it. But if you never hear it then what? It doesnt matter who tells it to you it only matters if your awareness is at its peak and you truly know how to use your intuition and heart and trust in it. You dont know what you dont know so how can you ever really perceive new unknown information as true or false if its new? You're inner voice the eternal one that has always been in your heart and always will be. When words can be miss leading and compronised via literature or speach then what must you turn to for absolute authority. Its always you're higher aspect, god, you, i am, us, totality, wholeness and balance vibrations peace pimps
@0110ahsh4 жыл бұрын
I have been watching your videos all day. I met a girl around 2 weeks ago, everything went very fast, I recently became 18 and she is almost 16. She is my first and as silly as it might sounds I fell in love with her, so I drived 8 hours to meet her and I did, after I told her I love her and that she loved me. So we met and I hired a hotel room and spent the best days of my life with her, it was so real and I felt undescribebly connected to her. Before I drove on my way back, she kissed me, hugged me and everything was just perfect until the curse occured, she blocked me on everything and My heart was shattered to peaces. I made a new accounted and asked why and I want to die and all that sad stuff ( I digged a very deep hole). She told me all that it's me not you whore shit and she still has feeling for her ex and I should move on but I do love her for real. I am broken and I don't know what to do. I stopped sending her messages but do you think there is any slight chance of her coming back to me? I am sorry for this long story but I am just lost, sad and having suicidal thought, please help, I trust you.
@tiinamettala11314 жыл бұрын
I have been listening to you daily since my break up. You cave given me the strength to go on. This video is one of your better ones- it talked so directly to me and is bang on what happens in breakups. I love your work coach Lee.
@dihya44024 жыл бұрын
same
@dihya44024 жыл бұрын
@@chrisstella4820 how?
@dihya44024 жыл бұрын
@@chrisstella4820 yeah how to get the help
@adj26063 жыл бұрын
Doing no contact works sometimes but its entirely situation dependant. Once she is gone, its likely thats it, she is gone.
@priscillasantin92672 жыл бұрын
What will help is getting up taking care of your self showering 🧼 eating 🍽 being happy not acting like your not fazed but like your okay with the breakup
@akaril55383 жыл бұрын
My ex did everything under the sun to make me feel insecure and jealous - lies, cheating, "disappearances". I was very reactive , needy, desperate. Admit these are my tendencies, but I was never like this in previous relationships... It sucks that I lost control of myself. With all of these things, I still miss him terribly.
@Tangeroise19863 жыл бұрын
Why you beating yourself up for what your ex did to you? Please don’t! Wishing you lots of blessings 🙏🏻
@emelkarincaoglu3 жыл бұрын
You're not the only one
@itiswritten94232 жыл бұрын
@Akari L By now you should realize that the things that are mostly bad for us are the sweetest and what we want the most. You need to be disciplined and let it go. Your self worth is derived from knowing that God, the creator of the universe loves you and that he was willing to give himself for your salvation
@joeo80704 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this you are exactly right and I made a mistake with that
@apmagic85235 жыл бұрын
Used no contact, after about a month texted her to get my stuff back when she poured her feelings out to me. 2 days later we were making out in a parking lot. Still talking and figuring things out, she’s scared she might feel the same way as she did when she wanted to break up- in a few months. But just playing everything cool, thank you for your help
@lettyrodrz99405 жыл бұрын
The question is how we can develop and maintain emotional attraction.
@beautybyO5 жыл бұрын
Omg this is the reason why me and my boyfriend broke up. He said I was too controlling 😢
@thomaschang25045 жыл бұрын
Working on it.. 4 years toghter long distance. Im doing a 2 week no contact and it hurts O__O but its all for US gl on yours dude
@Hey.its.Lala953 жыл бұрын
Same can u update
@kennethjohnson94463 жыл бұрын
You're beautiful, but are you controlling?
@terrifinaboo46763 жыл бұрын
He broke up with me about 3 weeks ago but i didn't do NC rule so started like 3 days ago. I can do this not only for myself but for him too. To realize that what he had with me was good. But i love him so much n hope he realize it! Good luck to everyone who is doing NC rule. I feel u guys
@Shivani257 Жыл бұрын
Update??
@kitaradepena67534 жыл бұрын
A lot of times your ex wants what they can’t have.
@RealCoachLee4 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@K.buildingthings4 жыл бұрын
Wow , I had the exact same long distance relationship break-up... However I tried visiting over for 3 weeks we broke up. Her reason was she felt very responsible .... Wish I saw this video before I went over ..
@kennypalacio70353 жыл бұрын
Wow I needed this because am having a hard time letting go of her because I love her so much..
@jkim12414 жыл бұрын
For all the people counting the days or even worse, MONTHS of NC, you arent ready to be in a relationship with anyone. Learn how to live happily by yourself. Spend time with friends and family. Get sexy for your own self confidence. Dont live your best life just in hopes that your ex will see you doing well and be attracted to you again. You need to want to be the best version of yourself FOR YOURSELF, not a girl or guy who decided to give up on you. Whats crazy is if people made lifestyle changes like they do during breakups DURING the relationship, things probably would have worked out. Its like people feel their self improvement is only worth it when there is something to lose and its sad to see. Not saying Im not guilty of doing the same, but it makes you wonder why we live this way.
@ofwolfandmanii5 жыл бұрын
They all come back
@ZooomaCW5 жыл бұрын
No they don't, unfortunately.
@evelyncregan48985 жыл бұрын
thanks coach Lee that's really helpful. God bless you more.
@godschild41624 жыл бұрын
Off topic, but your hair looks healthier than mine🙈😍
@joselynp10075 жыл бұрын
Wow this video is so good thank you🙌
@rupertojrrivera44994 жыл бұрын
Yes
@vanessachiunda72623 жыл бұрын
Yea we're in a long distance 😔
@stevieray11875 жыл бұрын
Great advice, she contacted me sooner, but I have to work on contacting her too much during our reconciliation.
@supriyamane48834 жыл бұрын
Coach Lee, you are so right. I made all these mistakes when I was in the relationship with my boyfriend and he warned me many times to not to do those mistakes but I was so blind to see the consequences and it resulted in break-up.
@yaldap944 жыл бұрын
Same.. he told me many times he didnt feel free but i couldnt love him differently.. how are you dealing with the break up rn?
@lovingme68964 жыл бұрын
Me too dude i messed up badly
@martamanno224 жыл бұрын
embrace your uniqueness do not allow others to instill in you a sense of guilt for who you are how you act what your standards are their attempt to shift blame / fsult on you you are who you are they have been hiding their mistakes by pointing the finger at you first keep it up, friends of Mr Lee's community thank you Coach for the good job 👏
@naiko67003 жыл бұрын
Same.. and he broke up with me twice... I'm making the steps to change but I don't think he's coming back..
@supriyamane48833 жыл бұрын
Patience is the virtue. Nothing else works best for self-healing. Anything which is meant for us will come to us. No need to wait or manifest. Just be urself and love urself. Universe is watching us, listening us and working for us. So trust the process.
@AstridME15 жыл бұрын
Thank you for a really good video! I told my ex that I wanted him to be happy and do what he thinks is best for him but then in the meantime that we shouldn't have any contact. And I said that so that I also can focus on me. Was it wrong to say that we shouldn't have any contact?
@santmanu14602 жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Lee, my ex didn't come back, it's been five months, your videos, helped me to stay strong and not contact them, I feel better now, the world didn't end after all :)
@dusenstrahlverfahren7 ай бұрын
This video summirizes all the issues of my broken relation. It is good to know, though it is too late for our relation.
@cleopaehua93375 жыл бұрын
That hair is just so extra! Love it
@creativebeauty1005 жыл бұрын
Cleopaehua i just noticed it .. 😆.. that hair is quaffed and well behaved