What Shrinks At Menopause - 142 | Menopause Barbie

[@jeanetteraichel8299]

Your presentation is what keeps women watching and them telling their friends to watch!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Oh, thank you so much! I know I hose to embark on the most unpopular topic on earth. But, I will never stop this mission. I love knowing you support it.

[@neyisek6928]

MUST MUST get this series seen by more women. It is SO helpful . I've felt so lost and confused hate to think of others feeling the same. Thank you for being there for us

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are so very welcome, my dear. I am trying my best to give all women the menopause education they deserve. The problem is that menopause is THE most neglected topic on Earth, so most women don't know they need an education on it. I am the first and the only person to ever provide one. My dream is for ALL women to get this education in their 20s! Just imagine how much that would improve the lives of women everywhere.

[@charlottemann3352]

Great info as always. Each new thing makes me realize how much women have just been left in the dark, shrinking up, drying up and being miserable. How unfair to be so misinformed or uninformed. You truly are a one of a kind blessing! Many, many thank yous!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are so very welcome, Charlotte. I love seeing how you realize that everything makes sense as you learn more and more. My goal is for all women to wake up and take control of this. The deserve so much more than they've ever had.

[@kathycook1234]

I'm 68 and I don't have many of the issues described. I do advanced weight training and have for 30+ year. I've competed since I was 54 in national physique competitions. I don't eat any sugar, flour or fast food. I had a CT scan and the neurologist said my brain hasn't shrunk. No osteoporosis or bladder leakage. Perhaps my lifestyle is staving off some of these conditions?

[@skilla1010]

And you are positive too. It's so important to be positive. As the law of attraction says we attract what we are not what we want :)

[@leejennifercorlewayres9193]

How often and for how long do you lift?

[@pertelote4526]

Gym Gal I believe that the information in the video is of a general nature and does not apply to the same extent to all women. We all know very intelligent and mentally sharp post-menopausal women who are successful scientists, writers, politicians, businesswomen etc.in their sixties and seventies There is a theory that what you start with is crucial; if your physical and mental condition is very good in your forties and you are determined to take good care of that capital in the following decades, the decline on both fronts (which is probably inevitable) takes longer and is less noticeable.

[@kathycook1234]

@@leejennifercorlewayres9193 I weight train every other day. The other days I do cardio.

[@kathycook1234]

@@pertelote4526 That makes sense.

[@lizzielonglegs1980]

You are fabulous so glad I have found you at 52 years old and menopausal x

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Welcome to "Menopause University," my dear. I am so glad you're here, getting the menopause education you deserve. If you start with video 1 and watch them all in order, you will understand everything. If you watch my videos randomly, you will sabotage your entire menopause education. And if you ever want me to tailor everything specifically to YOU, just schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME

[@halcyon-cg2eb]

I am surprised that nobody commented on the shrinkage of interest in making others happy. Heck yes, this is so true! I am done pleasing everybody and they can jump in a lake lol

[@malihajung6531]

That was a brilliant presentation and explanation ! Thanks so much!

[@kaceystewart5049]

I so wish I had learned all this sooner. Keep on with your Menopause Revolution Dr. Taylor. I am on your team and trying to enlighten other women. The next generation of menopausal women need to know this, and they are not going to learn it from their doctors and the insurance companies aren't going to cover necessary HRT until we demand it. Thank you again.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Exactly! Until women demand more, they will not get more. I hope to wake them up.

[@phyld6491]

I think that the. friend selection we do after menopause is a good thing.

[@demetevans7249]

1st! Loving your work! Can't thank you enough for making these amazing tutorials. Your the best! From me, all the way in the UK. x

[@jayneread2178]

I totally agree Menopause Taylor is the best, also from the UK.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Thank you so much Demet. I love making them for you. It's the education you deserve. I respond to these comments here on KZbin daily.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Well, I'm so glad you're here, my dear. This is the education you (and all women) deserve.

[@demetevans7249]

@@MenopauseTaylor Ou, I've come over all of a flutter and unnecessary because you replied to my comment...blushing! Love your bones! I'm your number 1 fan Dem X

[@MenopauseTaylor]

What a sweetheart. Thank you so much. Keep watching.

[@clueless_orange]

You are the most funny doctor I ever met. I learned so much and still am. Thanks to you I am now actively managing my menopause and regained my life. And it is super interesting to learn all this too. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I am so glad to know that the education is helping you, my dear. I love making these videos.Keep watching ... in order, of course.

[@julietorres5227]

I love you analogies! You’re a hoot! Thank you for clearly teaching us the facts of menopausal life.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are so welcome. I know that you remember things by attaching the information to a prop, a story, a funny thought, etc. So, I think laughing and learning is the best way all around. I love knowing that you're getting the education you deserve.

[@vbtouray]

You are SUCH a blessing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Well, thank you, my dear. I love making these videos for you.

[@lizzielonglegs1980]

You are so awesome could listen to you all day xx

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Well, you'd probably get pretty sick of me!

[@lizzielonglegs1980]

@@MenopauseTaylor haha no don’t think so ! X

[@suecone2198]

Well that explains a lot! I am sure glad I didn’t delay with HRT. Thanks 🙏🏻

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are learning so much! I as so thrilled and proud of you, my dear.

[@muhlenstedt]

Thank you for helping me to understand the changes happenning in my life, to understand that not everything different or even negative is caused by my own fault.HRT has been a solution for imsonia and its consequences.I have learned a lot from you.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You make my heart sing. I love helping you. Thank you for letting me know it's working.

[@sunnywilliams421]

I’m loving this WHAM series

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It really helps to put it all into perspective, doesn't it? Of course, I'll give you tutorials on each and every thing individually, with all the possible management options. But, seeing the big picture is sooooo important, and most women never do.

[@yvettebennett6170]

What happens when you dont get enough sleep? I get tired, cranky, and get a horrible negative attitude and mindset. Its horrible. I can relate to so much of this one. I am so over trying to make everyone happy. I am finally saying no without feeling guilt. It's been challenging. I didnt know that my lack of social relationships and my not caring about certain things was due to lack of oxytocin. So interesting. Thank you for this education and stating these fewlings are normal because I do not feel normal. Lol.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

This is going to be your new normal ... including letting go of any guilt you have for not wanting to do all the things you used to do with and for other people. Now you get to focus on YOU! It's YOUR turn.

[@pamelafaulkner3903]

U R a God given GIFT 2all us hormonal Woman. Thank you

[@whiskersBOOSTER2]

You're amazing! I think this more and more with each video!!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are so very kind. I just ant to do whatever I can to give you the menopause education you deserve.

[@OlisticarioED]

Always furthering my education with you! Such a precious gift you are. Ciao Dott. !!!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I love it that you're here, and love it even more that you realize how important this education is. Keep watching, my dear.

[@RWMHUBBARD]

Hi Dr. Taylor. I'm on estrogen patches now and feeling much better, thanks to you. Due to vaginal atrophy and a 13 year hiatus, intercourse is impossible. I asked my doctor about supplementing the estrogen patches w/estrogen suppositories to help revitalize my vagina. That was beyond his field knowledge and he wasn't able to say.

[@yessicalizeth98]

So my grandma shes been done with menopause for a long time now & she's still sexually active , she's 65 years old and she told me that her partner said she was very small down there and that it was almost to the point where they could barely engage in sexual activity and that they get stuck , does that sound like vaginal atrophy?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It IS vaginal atrophy.

[@elizabethbarranon622]

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

[@lauriehoer8605]

I've been on 1 mg estrogen for the past 5 years following my hysterectomy and still have trouble sleeping, have hot flashes (not too bad), brain fog, and some joint stiffness. Doing all I can (eating a WFPB diet for the past 7 years, life long exerciser) so I hope I'm doing enough to keep my brain and bones in shape!

[@marlarangeloff5163]

I went up to 2 mg of estradiol after being on 1. So far so good.

[@termal12345]

so sad yet so true BUT being informed is the key.......... Thank you as always for this time that you give us xxx

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Exactly. I want you to be able to deal with reality and succeed.

[@a4dd4a]

Based on your earlier videos, I've been on bHRT for a year now (great advice and SO understandable), but at 55, I'm still stiff and not as nubile as I used to be. Rest of me feels waaay better. At the not putting up with crap much any more -- I'm actually enjoying that part.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You make me laugh. It is somewhat freeing to let go of all the tethers that bound you before, isn't it. If you want to schedule a consultation to be sure you're doing what you need for your joints, don't hesitate. I find that, sometimes, it's a very simple solution.

[@Livingthedream88888]

You are so correct ❤

[@m.westm.2644]

Thank you for the education and your frankness, You are so beautiful!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

And you are ever so kind. I love educating you, and I want you to know everything you need to know in order to manage your menopause your way ... successfully.

[@morganjen1962]

Informative video, I always learn so much. You can probably add "shrinkage of bank account", due to retirement. lol

[@irinasztukowski]

You ARE simply Z BEST :) !!!! Many thanks!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Well, thank you. But I think this is the education you deserve. And I love giving it to you.

[@robinswaytoday]

Really good information. I'm glad I found your channel. xoxo

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I'm glad you found it, too. I love making sure you get all the facts and understand everything. I respond to these comments daily. And if you start with the very first video and watch them all in order, you'll definitely understand everything. Welcome aboard, my dear!

[@MsChicaamy]

Thanks Barbie, as always very informative, some light bulb moments with your explanation about hormones deficiency with behavior and physiology.

[@corina4966]

Hello Dr. Barbie! I love your channel - great content and really well structured. Since I’ve been following it, I started HRT and also became a vegan 6 months ago - a healthy eating vegan - no processed food at all. Yesterday I did my cholesterol test and was very happy to learn that my LDL decreased dramatically, almost 50%, to 92 ml/dl. However, my HDL decreased too and my triglycerides increased. Also my hemoglobin decreased. These are my concerns and I wanted to ask if you have any tips for keeping these at good levels too, as a vegan.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Can you have a consultation with me? This is the kind of thing that warrants one. You're trying to make this a simple fix, and it isn't Unfortunately the ramifications of not understanding clearly what matters can result in a heart attack. So, if you can schedule a one-on-one consultation, I'll be able to really explain how all this works AND tailor everything to you personally. I can't do that here in this comment box. I do congratulate and applaud you for what you've accomplished thus far. Every little bit helps. But I want you to know the whole story. I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works: 1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone. 2) I would confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I would need all these things at least 1 week before your consultation with me. 3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points put the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are 25 - 30 pages. 4) I will send you the document by email at least 24 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth. 5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed. 6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use. 7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and balance their options. The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got form the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request. So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively).

[@foxxygyal4913]

Everything just either shrinks or decline. My docs think my left ovary shrunk and is somewhere unknown, that's why they couldn't find it during hysterectomy, lol geez

[@Corrans]

This explains a lot! No wonder I don't care about socializing anymore.😂

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I love it when you understand the physiology behind your symptoms and preferences.

[@pattynunez1785]

I love your passion yo inform us ❤️

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Thank you for appreciating my efforts and my enthusiasm, my dear. I love giving you this education.

[@justinesidhu3160]

I have lost a lot of friends through not being able to cope with their antics! How do we make friendships better after the menopause?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Well, actually, most post-menopausal women assess their friendships and decide which one are really working, and they distance themselves from the rest. At menopause, I think you know yourself better, and you are better able to choose friendships that are better for you. Set limitations. Tell people from the start what you will and will not do. Don't try to be all things to all people.

[@poojasoni8917]

Love u barbie... Can't thank u enough... U saved my life.. Bless u🙏

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I love you, too, Pooja! Keep watching, my dear.

[@Ad-zk8nz]

You talk so cheerfully and charmingly about negative things like menopause.. that I still have some hope about it :) By the way, my sex drive was always low.

[@svgilkog8181]

Dear Dr. Barbie, I asked this question in one of the previous videos, but probably it was missed. Does estring help with the shrinkage of the vagina or only with dryness? Thank you for everything you are doing for us.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

The Estring helps with all your vaginal symptoms: dryness, shrinkage, itching, burning, even urinary incontinence. BUT it does not help at all with any of the other symptoms of menopause or prevent any of the diseases associated with menopause. It does not travel into your blood stream. And, I'm sorry I missed this question previously. Sometimes, it's KZbin glitch in which I simply can't get to the comment.

[@living_water3532]

Lord help us!🙄

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I'll help you, too.

[@susangj300]

Oh crap. I have bilateral ovary enlargement that was discovered at my screening through rectal though not vaginally...my heart sank a little when you said that about the ovaries. I'm on HRT .05 estriadol via patch and have been for over a year.

[@thefunctionalfarmacista7790]

Suzy Quzy926 I thought the ovary info was very interesting too! My mom and grandmother had (discovery age late 70s) ovarian cancer (benign) and both had to have removal late in life.

[@jolenehedstrom8221]

Brilliant!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Well, I just give you the facts that you deserve to manage your menopause.

[@denisebucknall1591]

Great video 👍👍so so true💖 The joys of been a women

[@karenwilliams8977]

I feel that my breasts are losing fullness. It is not due to weight loss. Any suggestions on how to bring my fullness back?! Any herbs or hormones? Thanks!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

This is different from woman to woman. It's the kind of thing I an help you with in a consultation, where I can tailor everything specifically to you. If you want to schedule one, just go to MenopauseTaylor.ME.

[@beverlytheartist425]

I feel absolutely hopeless...I have all these symptoms at 61 and just started low dose hrt but it sounds like it's too late for me...everything is shrunk and dried and permanently destroyed.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Beverly, Schedule a consultation with me. You needn't be hopeless. This is precisely the kind of thing for which I do one-on-one consultations. You definitely need one. I cannot tailor things specifically to you in a comment box. It requires much more information than you can give me here, and you deserve much more information than I can give you here. No two women are alike, and addressing your situation requires tailoring all the facts specifically to YOU. I do them all via online video conferencing. You can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I look forward to meeting you and helping you.

[@ceciliafreitas1961]

Hello I was wondering if you could do a class on lichen sclerosis of the vulva. One more thing for me to worry about lol

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I will cover this in the unit on Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause (GSM). It will start on November 4, 2025, consist of 23 videos, and end on April 7, 2026. (I'm always at least 2 years ahead in shooting these videos.) If you want to address your personal situation, it would require a consultation anyway. So you might want to go ahead and schedule the consultation at MenopauseTaylor.ME. That way, you don't have to wait 2 years. I do them all online.

[@ceciliafreitas1961]

@@MenopauseTaylor thank you so much

[@lipstickkonniption7527]

Thanks Dr. 💋

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It's my pleasure!

[@kimmychouki7398]

Excellent video! My dr just told me I was in menopause. I’m going to be 50 in two weeks. Other than vacuum and vitamin D what should I do right now? I exercise, eat a clean diet and am very healthy with mood swings and sleep issues, but no hot flashes. Thank you!!!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

If you really want go about this the right way, schedule a one-on-one consultation with me now. I'll teach you everything so that you can do everything your way with a full fund of knowledge. The earlier you so that, the better. It will save you so may frustrations and mistakes. The biggest problem is that most women are absolutely clueless. They have had their heads stuck in the sand until menopause hits them over the head like a brick, at which time they are completely unprepared. And it's downhill from there. I can change that. I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works: 1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone. 2) I would confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I would need all these things at least 1 week before your consultation with me. 3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points put the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are 25 - 30 pages. 4) I will send you the document by email at least 24 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth. 5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed. 6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use. 7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and balance their options. The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got form the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request. So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively).

[@yesicanasso7016]

Thank you so much 🏝🌴🤗

[@petrapiciacchia2456]

Dr. Taylor can you do a video about HRT and migraines with auras. I'm reading if your are on transdermal estrogen you are at a lower risk of stroke. Correct or not? Thx. This video explains so much especially the low oxytocin.

[@marinac.5564]

I am in perimenopause. My obstetrician says that she will absolutly not ptescribe me HRT because migraines with aura is an absolute contraindication. Another doctor prescribed me vaginal estrogen twice a week and it really helps but i am confused with this information about HRT a d migraines with aura. What should we do? Love, from Italy

[@bonnieblackmon7783]

@Sheebles J FOR ME!, my migraines have almost completely dissappeared once i got on HRT. I only take over the counter meds for my headaches which have gone from at least twice a month to maybe 1 every six months or so.

[@bonnieblackmon7783]

Sheebles J my dr never used Any of those terms, but I’ve had them since I was a teenager until my hysterectomy at 45 if that tells you anything. They didn’t really seem to be related to my cycle, just kind of random thru the month. Hope that helps

[@bonnieblackmon7783]

I am on Vivelle dot .05 and Premarin twice a week. I’m 57 now and plan to take estrogen for the rest of my life😊

[@bonnieblackmon7783]

Sheebles J I did have the zigzag thing going on and lightning type flashes and nausea. Maybe a consult with dr Taylor would be helpful. I would never advise against what your dr says is in your best interest tho!! Just sharing my history. My estrogen dose is the lowest dose I believe. Hope you get some helpful results!! It’s tough sometimes. All of my drs just kept telling me “your not 25 anymore”. So I finally found a dr that actually listened and found my fibroid ovarian tumors and endometriosis !! So keep working on your health management!

[@chelleychelley8299]

Oh, my goodness! you described me to a T! Wow!!!! Thank you Menopause Barbie!!!!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It's always good to understand why you're experiencing.

[@RosemarieSKikel]

So depressing......anything good about menopause?

[@gayemarianesfox2405]

Not that I’ve seen! Maybe not getting pregnant but I’m still not at ease with that lol

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Actually, I think menopause can and should be the best part of your life. Just think: You have so many options. Never before could you choose how to manage your hormonal life. I know that this video didn't deliver the good stuff. But I'll be giving you all sorts of options in every category for managing each thing your way. You all an make the rest of your life the best of your life. But it requires education. I call it "menopower."

[@RosemarieSKikel]

@@MenopauseTaylor OK thanks I think I am going from depressed to optimistic .... menopower !!!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You make me smile, my dear. I'm here to help you.

[@pamelafaulkner3903]

Thank You. I appreciate your expertise and what you are prepossessing to me. How much would it be for this consultation you describe?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

My consultations are $200 per hour, and you can schedule it at your convenience by going to MenopauseTaylor.ME. My goal is to provide this education any way you want it. So, I've written a book for those who like to read, have these videos for those who like to watch and have the time to wait for a weekly video, a radio show for those who like to listen and have the time to wait for a weekly broadcast, the entire education on DVD if you want it all at once, and the entire education as 15 individual chapter-by-chapter webinars. The consultations are great for tailoring everything to YOU.

[@smartanajones4u]

Dr Taylor, i love your videos! But what do you mean that the work place isn’t accommodating for menopausal women? I run a business and I understand the ADA obligation as an employer but how do you suppose an employer is supposed to make the work place accommodating for menopausal women? Im curious

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are correct. But menopause is a completely neglected entity ,.. by women themselves as well as by the workplace. If only it were considered equal to all other conditions covered under the ADA.

[@shannonlynnmomof3]

Question that I seem to have trouble finding, I have your book and have followed the KZbin channel and even found you on spotify. Along with that I have so many books on menopause, my question specifically about the peri phase being 48 and still having a monthly period but beginning to gave intermittent symptoms, not many books about peri phase but the menopause books that I have that address peri phase and still having a monthly period say do not use HRT yet and to wait until actually skipping cycle. And I am confused if someone takes HRT while still cycling monthly, what happens to the period? It still keeps coming until the transition happens or the HRT takes it a way?

[@ElizabethGamez-jm2br]

Taylor how can I stop being jelouse of this lady that my boyfriend said she was smaller down there than me.. but she's also way older than me she's 66 and I'm 24 so I don't know if that has something to do with it also, but he did hurt my feelings saying I was bigger than his ex , and that she was so small to the point he could barely get in her & he gets stuck . I don't have those problems with him.

[@susandrake7180]

I think I've watched all of your videos and they are fantastic! Thank you!! Did I miss it or is there one where you comment on what the differences are between cyclic and static HRT? Was reading about the Wiley Protocol, wondering if it was worth doing. Is there a benefit to cycling hormones?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Video 41 addresses the different regimens for HRT. There is absolutely nothing special about the Wiley Protocol or any other type of bioidentical option. It's just one company marketing their product a certain way. There are many things to weigh and consider with regard to cycling hormones. That's precisely the kind of thing I can do with you in a one-on-one consultation because the biggest factor of all is YOU. In a consultation, I'll tailor everything to you, which will be the very best way for you to decide what's right for you. I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works: 1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone. 2) I would confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I would need all these things at least 1 week before your consultation with me. 3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points put the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are 25 - 30 pages. 4) I will send you the document by email at least 24 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth. 5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed. 6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use. 7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and balance their options. The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got form the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request. So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively).

[@victoriabalbutin9889]

Every word you say is true… I have these deepest sadness that I have inside. My husband told me he wished he listen to his father and marry the woman his father fix for him. I told him if only you listen to your father she would be the one you assaulted with your herpes and not me. He act like he have many choices, I continue to tell him get a divorce so you can marry that woman you wished to marry… his in here looking stupid while his mocking my perimenopause. He told me also he love cris the ex wife… I said oh ! That! The one you told me she’s just a Who you pick up at the bar and she spread her stinking v for you..!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I am so sorry about all this, my dear. But I am very glad you are here, getting the menopause education you deserve.

[@yessicalizeth98]

When they say the vagina could even close up does that mean it can never be open again?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It all depends on the degree of closure.

[@yessicalizeth98]

Is high cholesterol caused by menopause/low estrogen?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes! That's why heart attack is one of the 3 fatal diseases of estrogen deficiency. Rising cholesterol is one of your body's ways of telling you that you do not have enough estrogen. This is why tailoring everything specifically to YOU is o important. If you want me to help you ensure your goals, schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I do them all online.

[@yessicalizeth98]

Are cataracts a complication of menopsause?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

No, they are a complication of aging.

[@prettypwz1915]

Question for you. I had sever vaginal dryness to the point i was tearing. I went on HRT. And now enjoying life again. As long as i i stay on HRT will things remain the same.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes. That's the whole point. Vaginal dryness is a sign of vaginal shrinkage. HRT prevents vaginal shrinkage. As long as you continue taking it, your vagina will not shrink. If you discontinue it, the dryness and shrinkage will start all over again. It's that simple.

[@SophiaGuzman-h6j]

I was wondering what is the cause of trichomonosis in postmenopause because my doctor prescibed me metronidozole and it went away but before i knew i would always get itchy and with a grey discharge, do you get it on its own or by someone? And are you more at risk after menopause?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Your vaginal bacteria ("microflora") changes drastically when you lose your estrogen at menopause. And you are more susceptible to all sorts of vaginal and urinary tract infections.

[@VickyGoss]

How can you keep high estrogen levels without an increase of breast cancer?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Vicky, You have a lot of misinformation. Maybe you should consider scheduling a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. There is no way to even begin to address this here in a comment box.

[@CeciliaCarleen_Stories]

DR M BARBIE AFTER COVID PLEASE DO A TRAVEL COMEDY SHOW ABOUT MENOPAUSE YOU ARE AWSOME, FANTASTIC, FUN AND A GREAT TEACHER LOADS OF BLESSINGS AND ❤ YES, YES I WILL BE THERE. THANK YOU SO MUCH

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You are so kind and funny. Thank you for your confidence in me.

[@thefunctionalfarmacista7790]

I sure wish I could take some oxytocin! 🌺 (already on a biweekly hormone patch...and my family is thankful...and I am happy too! 😄😄😄).

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Many women say that. Others just rejoice in the comfort of not having to put themselves last anymore.

[@lf8238]

When you hug your loved ones or pets, you make oxytocin. ☺

[@thefunctionalfarmacista7790]

@@lf8238 a good friend of mine said “you need a pet”...thank you for telling me...I currently don’t have any pets...I think I need one. 🥰

[@christinealix7664]

I can see why most women might like this aspect of menopause. I love that I care about others but people tell me I'm too nice and they're right. I put off my own needs to often so someone else feels ok when they really were fine to begin with. Like my neighbor's fried chicken I need to let them handle it and not take advantage of my time and energy. To compensate for oxytocin I eat red or purple plants.andall the dark chocolate I can afford. I let.my husband know he's awesome and the best oxytocin support of all is our sweet crazy puppy.

[@richricogranada9647]

Could vacina shrinkage be reverted?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It depends on how much shrinkage has occurred. It can always be improved, but not necessarily completely reversed.

[@deboralove3986]

Will Kegal excercises help in any way.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes ... but only to a minimal degree. definitely do them, but don't expect them to be magic.

[@yessicalizeth98]

So my grandma's done with menopause for along time now and she's 69 years old but she doesn't have Alzheimer's does that mean her brain is still the same size as before menopause or no?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

You won't know until Alzheimer's has already destroyed 40% of the brain. This is why it's so important to know that Alzheimer's is one of the 3 diseases that are due to estrogen deficiency at menopause. They are all silent until it's too late.

[@yessicalizeth98]

@@MenopauseTaylor okay thank you ☺️

[@ElizabethGamez-jm2br]

When you talk about vagina shrinking is it just the opening that shrinks or the vagina canal shrinks aswell?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

The entire vagina shrinks and can even close up. But this is all preventable if you get this education and learn how to prevent it.

[@raeanolson5221]

Enjoy your channel hoping at some time you will share positives about menopause if there are any thank you and have a great day

[@MenopauseTaylor]

The whole idea of this education is to teach you how to make the rest of your life the very best of your life You can't do that if all you have is fear and ignorance. When you know the facts, you have the power to use whatever options you wish to accomplish your goals. If you haven't been watching my videos in order from the start, you may be unaware that I absolutely love menopause. And my goal is to make you love it, too. I will be teaching everything about it, both positives and negatives. But I'll teach you how to turn any of your negatives into positives.

[@raeanolson5221]

@@MenopauseTaylor Thank you for all your knowledge I truly enjoy your Channel

[@MenopauseTaylor]

And I love having you here. You deserve this education.

[@olenashelest4248]

OMG...I turned 40 and what next to come scares me to the bones......(((( I feel super now but obviously that won't last...is there anything we can do to be less miserable at menopause??

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Absolutely! That's what this education is all about. If you learn the facts, and you learn ALL the options for managing your menopause, you will have more control over your menopause than you ever had over any other aspect of your life. The problem is that most women know nothing (or they think they know everything but know nothing, or don't realize that everything they THINK they know is completely inaccurate). If you watch my videos from the start and in order, you'll see that there is great power in the knowledge I[m giving you. And I'll e giving you options in every category for managing every aspect of menopause ... your way.

[@olenashelest4248]

Menopause Taylor 😊 thank you! Sure knowledge is a power! I do want to carry on my lifestyle and feeling good at any age...Even though it seems I won't ever experience those symptoms, but I better get myself prepared now.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

The earlier the better. The only way you won't have to deal with this is if you die first! So, why wait on getting the information that will prepare you for the inevitable? And not only that; Once you're menopausal, you will remain so for the rest of your life. That means you will spend HALF of your life as a menopausal woman!

[@larneyful]

Please at some stage explain the role of hormone deficiency in Anomic aphasia. Thanks again for another informative video.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

This is something I would address in a one-on-one consultation, not a video.

[@yessicalizeth98]

Is vaginal atrophy & vaginal shrinkage a medical condition?

[@yessicalizeth98]

Does all the vaginal rugae and folds go completely away after menopause?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

They do!

[@darlenehayward8109]

Hi Barbie, Just a quick question. How come guys don't experience all these problems that are attributed to low estrogen?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Men never lose all their testosterone. Men can father a child until the day they die. That's why they don have a menopause.

[@darlenehayward8109]

@@MenopauseTaylor I didn't pose my question properly. What I meant to ask is why to disease protection and the "fountain of youth" benefits from estrogen like skin, nails, joints, hair (okay, maybe I understand the hair), but testosterone doesn't do anything for collagen production, joint protection, or shrinkage of organs. How come they age better than women in general?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

@@darlenehayward8109 Testosterone does for men what estrogen does for women. They DO age as their testosterone levels fall. They just don't have a sudden drop in testosterone so they age more gradually. And they never lose all their testosterone, so they don't have nearly the rates of osteoporosis or Alzheimer's that women have. Does that answer it?

[@darlenehayward8109]

@@MenopauseTaylor Yes, thank you. Bummer!

[@MenopauseTaylor]

@@darlenehayward8109 Perfect. I always want you to understand everything.

[@prettypwz1915]

How can we boost oxytocin

[@yessicalizeth98]

Does vaginal shrinkage after menopause happen to women who had c sections only or have given birth vaginally too?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes. It absolutely does. It is due to estrogen loss at menopause (which does not change just because you've had babies).

[@foxiefair123]

My tolerance shrunk to basically nothing, lol. I have zero patience for the most basic things. It's kinda funny. And I'm a B. That's kinda funny, too.

[@elmienvandermerwe3060]

I have been using premarin 0.625 for 4 months now. Ive been so great. Untill the past week i have been getting symptoms again. I also noticed my vulva, vagina opening and clitoris shrinking. I am so terrified of vaginal atrophy😭. And my breast are getting larger, but they okay. Not tender or sensitive at all. Should i up my dose?

[@rebecca75588]

@elmienvandermerwe is your premarin made by Pfizer?

[@yessicalizeth98]

Does the clitoris and labia shrink aswell?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes, they do.

[@pamelafaulkner3903]

Can u please tell me if I have not had a period for 14 years and I have not done hormones for 4 or 5 years should I NOT DO ESTROGEN? I believe a I’m pass the 10 years u teach about. But I’d like to start progesterone again. U R Simply Amazing. God bless you

[@MenopauseTaylor]

If you have not used hormones for 4 - 5 years, you are still within your estrogen window of opportunity, which is 5 - 10 years. If you want personalized help with any of this, just schedule a one-on-one consultation. It will be the best thing you can do to know all your options, tailor all the benefits and risks of each TO YOU, and succeed in getting what you want. I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works: 1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone. 2) I would confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I would need all these things at least 1 week before your consultation with me. 3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points put the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are 25 - 30 pages. 4) I will send you the document by email at least 24 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth. 5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed. 6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use. 7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and balance their options. The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got form the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request. So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively). Your comment about wanting to start progesterone again tells me that you are very confused. Please, please don't stay confused.

[@ElizabethGamez-jm2br]

Does vaginal atrophy come with gray discharge and odor?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Not usually. It sounds like you need a consultation to assess your situation. You can schedule at MenopauseTaylor.ME. I do them all online.

[@m.westm.2644]

How much of the brain shrinkage in Alzheimer's occurs over time versus post-menopause? It runs in my family.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It starts at menopause when you lose your estrogen. If it's a common family disease, it may start a lot earlier. This is something that you definitely need to avoid because when you see the very first signs of Alzheimer's, your brain is already 40% gone. Please, consider this your greatest priority. There are a lot of things you can do to help prevent Alzheimer's. If you schedule a one-on-one consultation, I'll tailor everything specifically to YOU, and help you avoid it. You need to know this stuff NOW. I'm in the business of educating you about everything you need to know and do in order to get exactly what you want for managing your menopause your way. So, here's how a consultation works: 1) You would schedule a one-on-one consultation at my website, MenopauseTaylor.ME, choosing a time that is convenient for you. I do consultations on Skype, FaceTime. Facebook Messenger, What’s App, and the phone. 2) I would confirm that you are scheduled for the stated time, and invite you to send me as much information about yourself as you please. You can make it brimming with details and tell me about your reproductive life, any gynecologic problems you've had, your symptoms of peri-menopause, and your symptoms of post-menopause. You can include all your fears, concerns, and goals for your menopause management. You may also send me any labs, mammogram results, bone density results, etc. that you would like me to include in designing your protocol. For instance, if you want to adhere to a certain category of management options (herbs or diet & lifestyle, or whatever), you should tell me that. I would need all these things at least 1 week before your consultation with me. 3) I'll get busy creating a document that gives you all the education you need to understand absolutely everything, points put the pros and cons of each option, and tailors it all to YOU using the information you have provided. The document will be loooooong. Most are 25 - 30 pages. 4) I will send you the document by email at least 24 hours before your consultation. You will benefit greatly by reading it in advance. Light bulbs will go off like crazy, and if you're like most women, you'll feel that you've already gotten your money's worth. 5) During your consultation, we will review the document and address any issues you want to fine tune everything and determine your best options. I'll tell you exactly how to find the right kind of professional, how to have the conversation in order to get what you want, and the nuances of things like guidelines and insurance. I leave nothing unaddressed. 6) You will go to a professional of your choosing in order to get the actual hormones or whatever you choose to use. 7) After the first consultation, I'll hold your hand (forever if you want me to). In other words, you'll be able to schedule mini-consultations (15-minute or 30-minute, in addition to full consultations) whenever you need to. I'll keep records of your situation. Most women schedule mini-consultation whenever they go to the doctor and don't understand what he or she said, or why. I translate. I make sense of everything. Most schedule mini-consultation whenever they have a new test and they want me to explain the results. And all schedule mini-consultation whenever their situation changes and they need to re-weigh and balance their options. The time you spend with me will make everything about working with any other professional so easy. And they will love the fact that you have an actual education rather than a bunch of misconceptions that you got form the Internet. If your initial hormone regimen is not right, you'll want to consult with me before going to your doctor. I can prepare you for what to expect and what to request. So, that's my role. And nobody else on earth does this kind of thing but me. So, I hope you schedule a consultation and let me hold your hand (figuratively). Plus, we've both already declared our desire to meet and be friends!

[@m.westm.2644]

Thank you soooo much for your kindness. I will try to make a consultation happen soon.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Please do. You'll get much more than you expect. That I can guarantee.

[@paulamajor1841]

My Dr has got me started on Estradiol vaginal cream. My question is could this medicine cause my lips to swell, hurt and get rough patches. (My lips are not chapped I just noticed this symptom after I started Estradiol.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Paula, Please schedule a consultation with me at MenopauseTaylor.ME. That's the only way I can apply information specifically to YOU. And that's what your situation requires.

[@yessicalizeth98]

Do all menopausal women experience vagina shrinkage if they don't take estrogen?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes, it's just a matter of degree. Estradiol is vital to any vagina.

[@DirectorCFD]

2years after a hysterectomy and oophorectomy I started using .05 estrogen patch to help with disease protection. Will this prevent vagina shrinkage also?

[@MenopauseTaylor]

It should. However, your vagina is the most selfish part of your body when it comes to estrogen. Even when all your other needs are met, your vagina may still want more, more, more. That's why there are so many product that are specifically and only for your vagina.

[@Arabella9292]

This just proves that God made us just to have babies and when we’re done we are of no use.

[@christinealix7664]

For me oxytocin is certainly present but appears very selective. Mostly for my adorable puppy and of course my husband. Other people not so much these days. We have a beautiful community kitchen and my neighbor asked me to help with his dinner. There's plenty to share but I never fry my chicken and suggested some spices we have around then I said yahoo recipes and then I was done being nice and said to ask his girlfriend. Another time I was followed off my job site by a Spanish speaking man who asked if I was hungry. I needed to eat but not around there. I said no. It wasn't easy to understand each other but we both tried. Then I smelled the alcohol. I immediately said, "I don't drink dude have a good day" as I walked off. I just don't want to take the time because they have nothing better to do. I kinda like this behavior. Without disrespecting anyone I no longer find myself spending time I don't have doing things that have no relevance for me while trying to pretend I'm not annoyed with the situation. I do enjoy helping others and meeting people as long as I see a need or good reason.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Yes, losing oxytocin is one of the things most women like about menopause.

[@Jamie5762]

Just wondering, do those French presses make good coffee?

[@foxiefair123]

Uh, yeah,lol,they do.

[@MenopauseTaylor]

I have no idea! I don't even drink coffee. For me, they just make a good prop.

[@susanholl5994]

Joint mobility :( I was looking forward to less painful mammograms but sounds like menopause is going to suck. I like to do yoga, rock climb, run. Really don't care if I need to pee more often but I need my flexibility to be happy :(

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Please know that my goal with these videos is to teach you how to make the rest of your life the best of your life. And the very first step un doing so is to have a complete education about it. You can definitely stay very flexible, and I'll be giving you plenty of videos to teach you all the ways you can accomplish that. This one was just to show you the common theme.

[@brandimoore1247]

Menopause just sucks! And what stinks more is if you want to do something about it it’s ridiculously expensive! On a more positive note, your blue blouse or dress is really stunning on you. Thanks for all you do, Even if it is depressing sometimes😐

[@MenopauseTaylor]

Brandi, I can help you find successful, affordable solutions if you need me to do that with you. That's the kind of thing that is perfect for a one-on-one consultation.