What the Looks, Money, and Status Crowd Never Address

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[@loveincorporated9658]

Keeping that wallet closed will expose the women for who they are

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@assaa5069]

Money just makes you more of what you already are.

[@RomWills]

It's a tool.

[@targetegrat]

I will never forget the conversation I had with some of my female coworkers at happy hour. It confirms what Rom said in the video. Most women believe it or not are looking for a man with a fun personality. Having money is cool but as my co-workers mentioned you just set yourself up for gold-diggers. It makes sense because if you notice when a CEO, athlete, entertainer's wife cheats on him its always with the security guard, driver, maintenance man, etc.

[@RomWills]

Speak on it. I'm trying to tell men.

[@GamerGee]

9:20 I'm the same way. If the first question is what I do for a living or how much I make. I'm already turned off.

[@RomWills]

I don't trust them.

[@intentionalgreatness]

Personality is essential. The inability to have a succint conversation of depth is like the plague right now.

[@RomWills]

You're right about that.

[@newdeep6086]

intentionalgreatness So true.

[@Malik_Hoff]

I'm told i have tons of charisma. But you know what's better than Charisma & Sex.. Money and free time lmao

[@RomWills]

Free time is important.

[@josephBC3652]

SOZZYLAND you know that right

[@megatron5047]

the one thing i always do,is to pretend i don't have money,and go from there thanks Unc.

[@RomWills]

Take it out of the equation.

[@thevizkid]

megatron

[@ryanfrederick508]

I believe that I'm boring to most women, but I honestly don't care because I'm so caught up in to my purpose I don't time to entertain women. Women nowadays get bored so quickly that for me that's too much energy being expended, most women don't consider typical things a guy might consider fun anyway (video games, working out, billards, etc) so a woman thinks I'm boring, cool I'm not bored though.

[@RomWills]

Ultimately it's about living your life.

[@mysterynumbernine6795]

If you live a drama free life most women will find you boring.

[@raw5889]

Maybe your not bring yourself around them like you do with your friends.

[@MrEOM41]

Right it’s almost like they want you to put on a show for them

[@planetzeb1]

you talked about this in your book.. this video gives me an idea.. ive never thought about developing my charisma as an introverted man. this way i can be myself and not have to pretend to be etroverted because thats not me.

[@RomWills]

Charisma is simply drawing people to you. You can be quiet and do that.

[@targetegrat]

Charisma is your overall presence. Something as simple as having a positive vibe. Think of George Clooney. His not flashy or loud but his laid back personality is a big part of his charisma.

[@theknowledgeconsumer5158]

I can relate to this. I've received more attention as a bartender than I ever had working in corporate jobs.

[@Wharbuckz7]

The Knowledge Consumer bouncers too! Both position hold Power in those social environments!!!

[@RomWills]

Bartenders know how to deal with different people. They got game.

[@The_Equalizer23]

The social environment is too heavily focused on how women feel and what they think they want at any given moment (feelings are fleeting thus aren't as reliable as we want to believe). Women need/want attention and appreciation... Charisma feeds their vanity/feelings. But I always wonder, what do they bring to the table... credentials (excluding vagina and physical features). Who are they and what are they DOING to earn anything or any part of me?

[@RomWills]

Make them feel good like you giving them a drug. They will give it back.

[@1titans]

I've been told by several women that money will boost a man's attractiveness. Also having a nice fit body, this worked for me when I was younger. I attractive women off of physic alone. . You can't do anything about your face. You can do something about your economics, your body and your ability to talk to women just by talking to women. Those three things alone and you are golden.

[@RomWills]

Money as a secondary tool is a good thing but should never be the primary attraction.

[@marcb2raw]

If she can get wet without you having to display your social status or bank account then that’s some game.

[@RomWills]

That's the core of real game.

[@byKevinSamuels]

Tell em the truth Rom.

[@RomWills]

I'm trying to tell them. There are millionaires who have trouble getting women. Who do people think pay for high end matchmakers and dating coaches?

[@johnseb5856]

maybe people ignore charisma because, the others you can work for. charisma, is hard to get especially if youre over 30 or too old to change

[@lordzethzetaomega9223]

I stay broke in between jobs but the charisma is the key

[@RomWills]

Charisma is no joke.

[@christinabernat9681]

I really hope all hear this. Another thing to point out is that happy couples are around us but (caps for emphasis not to scream) THEY LIVE QUIETLY, making no waves, so they stay under the radar - they are not putting themselves out on u tube or tv shows or what have you unless their profession is consulting in this area.. Because of that many think they do not exist. Do not be fooled, they exist.

[@RomWills]

I try to tell people that. Great couples are just living their lives.

[@newdeep6086]

John Doughboy 👏🏾👏🏾

[@newdeep6086]

Christina Bernat Absolutely!

[@supremevision631]

“Let me see what rom talking bout” (thoughts before clicking)

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@ericrobertson7589]

Charisma is correct. That's what we possess and that's what we're hated for... there comes forth the word Player-Hater. They hate us because you can't buy what we have... Charisma.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@RobsterCWell]

Remembering a girl's name is one way to get charisma. That's how I got mines.

[@RomWills]

Any person's name is their favorite word.

[@C.Douglas777]

SPEAK ON IT OG..!! Long term success U experience with women is based on how U feel about U and how Authentic your Energy and Vibe is... these are just 2 things that help breed RESPECT.

[@RomWills]

That's how a man has to to deal with women otherwise they a man as a trick.

[@dannagaskeeteythegreat8433]

Dropping gems big homie

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@TheSincere20000]

With me even if it's a beautiful women if we aren't compatible, I leave it alone. I studied women and you waste alot money trying make someone like you. If she dont laugh at any my jokes need to easy to a smile or vibe on a subject I let it go. I have always tried to watch a few women shows. Stay up on any news.

[@RomWills]

Good game.

[@dapperblue1764]

Very solid advice, nice video!

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Charisma... the Most Known Unknown...

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@Keith_J.]

Well brother Rom I believe that looks is the most important thing above all else, far more important than money, status, and most definitely personality. I’m just speaking from the most harsh rejections apon the first approach.

[@RomWills]

Looks matter but not always good looks. It's the look of a man as many women like rough looking or even ugly dudes. When most people think looks they think it's always handsome looks. Even with that many women will say, "he looked good until he opened his mouth."

[@kelvinrice7872]

Another Classic video fam! We've actually talked about this on several occasions, like I've always said as well as yourself, men need to get off that just money, looks and status shit because that won't get it! I can literally say that I've been blessed with charisma and personality but laid back at the same time and considered very handsome by a lot of women. By me not being where I want to be financially, I still attract good looking women now, quality ones because I have personality and charm! When I get my finances up to part, that's going to be a plus, women won't even know that I have money unless I choose to share certain things which I don't do anyway! I've told you a couple of my stories with women I've experienced now with my current financial situation. I had one woman in church, man she was strapped, nice legs, feet, she had a red dress on that came right before her knees with a black dress coat and some black slide in sandals, she was classy, she ask me where my wife at, we talked for a minute, she didn't ask me what I did for a living either, she was telling me about her occupation somewhat, she told me about her son. She gave me her personal number on a business card and said, call me, this wasn't that long ago! This girl I see at the market I go to near downtown Detroit, I see her everytime I go and when she see's me, she just light up, we speak and talk for a minute and I bounce. Even if I don't go over there to by anything, she told me make sure you come and speak to me! I know she feeling, she invited me to come to her party last year at her uncles club on the westside Detroit! I didn't go, I could've went but I really didn't have any money, even though it wasn't about that, she just wanted me to make my presence known! I just don't like going to certain places with no money as a man! Another thing too fam, she told me about her daughter, she only have one child, I told her that I don't have any kids as of now unfortunately! She told me, I'll give you one, laughed, she was serious and smiling too! I'm experiencing this now with no money, I could go on tell you more stories. See I know a lot of people who talk with their pockets all the time. My godbrother is one of them, he brags about how he screw women, how they be moaning which I believe them women puts on a lot for him because of his ego and women are good at acting and faking, not necessarily saying he doesn't please them but I know he pays for it and his cousin does too, pay for pussy, they're tricks with no game or charisma at all, that's why my godbrother is so jealous of me when it comes to women, I know it, I see it. Charisma and personality is powerful and if you don't have that as a man, you'll never experience those real pleasures with women without it being about money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

The real key to the game is charisma. As we know looks and money are cool but it's the charisma that really gets women hot.

[@darknova7863]

Anyone can reach a lvl of charisma if you talk to enough ppl and observe, especially if you doing sales or sampling. In order to be good you gotta lvl have some charisma/personality. Last not all people with charisma can reach every person, but damn when you develop it people in general will vibe better with you.

[@RomWills]

Very good point.

[@SimeonToko]

REal talk Rom. To know me is to love me. Women love being around me, talking to me and the highest compliment I could ever receive is when a woman says she can be herself with me and they love a brother for that. Ain't got shyte to do with a face or a six pack. And for dudes who spend moeny. You are both right and wrong. You must spend on a female to want you but it's quality time that they want you to spend the most not money.

[@RomWills]

Good way to look at it.

[@Keith_J.]

But I continue to watch your videos because you inspire a lot of hope within your videos by agreeing to some degree of what I’m talking about and telling me how other things matter at the same time. Keep making these videos because you have the ears of many men as well as myself who want to believe that it still is possible to attract women.

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@toteknowledge]

" _WITH YET ANOTHER_ " ...excellent video!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Wharbuckz7]

Balance!!! I'll slide through the trenches and then go to the burbs and have a geopolitical conversation over brunch.

[@RomWills]

LOL! That's how you do it.

[@Dose561]

Damn uncle Rom dropped a gem

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@leoscarpoli1nonly]

Quiet as kept, charisma and personality is the most important part of overall attractiveness.

[@RomWills]

True.

[@Kyofitnesscoaching]

Great video per usual uncle!

[@RomWills]

Thank you nephew.

[@hunkgolden5584]

Wow... I'm a 6'3" guy and while LMS helps I have to agree charisma is the x-factor. But if you look good and are charismatic even better. Awesome video Rom!

[@RomWills]

Charisma is the x-factor.

[@henrygarner4649]

Church! Another classic, Bro Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Most of the time i trigger women with my face. Definitely my eyes do the most work. Men believe in yourself and you will find what you want in life.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@levisnclarks380]

Thank God for Charisma. I definitely rely on that.This is good game .

[@RomWills]

The only real game.

[@caribbeannites8461]

Another gem

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@schoolshiiit1409]

Glad I stopped by, good show...

[@RomWills]

THank you.

[@dreadedp4611]

REAL is RARE

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@rahkeemthegreat360]

Great video , Very truth

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MarcMan901]

Facts on Facts. A strong mouth piece. if you can make her grin, you're in... Never fails.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@munajmursheed1238]

You are right uncle here in my country all males are tricks including me but i found you youve helped me a lot keep going

[@RomWills]

It's the reality in most of the world.

[@christinabernat9681]

what country are you in, if you don't mind saying?

[@munajmursheed1238]

Haaa haa do you want to find a trick? Here in south asia

[@henryholden6072]

How can one develop their charisma can you do a video on that ?

[@RomWills]

I may do pay per view on that one.

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

just keep tellin urself" i have charisma" say it 100 times every day

[@tercial]

The struggle is real i feel if i looked more average I’d probably look less intimidating to women

[@RomWills]

Some men's looks can indeed intimidate women.

[@tredhill5787]

what are signs that a woman is intimidated by a man's good looks?

[@A.Nel2684]

Uncle Rom your my guy but you said something that I get tired of hearing from women ''he's boring'' that's the whole crux of the Educated Lames debate of last year a ''stable'' guy is boring. So yes I agree chrisma is necessary but ''boring'' is subjective. A guy like me who is ''Educated Lame'' is interested in evolutionary biology, evolutionary psychology, sports (NFL & NBA), sampling and creating hip-hop music, reading books and geopolitics (because of BGS IBMOR's awesome hangouts) I'm considered corny by most girls (Black Women in particular) and even BGS has said girls considered him boring. So when girls say ''he's boring'' to the Educated Lame and Pookie and Ray-Ray is fun because of the danger, rebel nature is my issue do you think I have a fair gripe or will ''chrisma'' fix that?

[@RomWills]

Women are moved by their emotions. Their emotions are tied to their wombs. When they say boring or nice they mean they are not being turned on sexually. The key is simply knowing how to make them smile. Many educated men know how to do that.

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

Charisma and personality is Everything to me...I’ve met guys in the past that in the beginning I didn’t see what women saw in them. But once I had a conversation or was just around them I could see why women were attracted to them. And it always had to do with their personality and the charisma they had. It’s always a turn off when men lead with money.

[@RomWills]

Many men don't understand that when they lead with money women will only see the money.

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

Rom Wills exactly!

[@newdeep6086]

paige ryan Yes indeed

[@tercial]

Also the fact other women wanted him drew you towards him

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

New Deep thank you

[@Jahfariinternational]

I would LOVE to see you Rom debate TBA or SWP on this topic. Dudes swear up and down all you need is a little money to get any woman you want.

[@RomWills]

I'll do it. Too many broke dudes have harems.

[@GamerGee]

8:47 say it again!!

[@GamerGee]

2:08 they only as loyal as the last meal. In that situation.

[@Josco31]

Preach!

[@RomWills]

Amen!

[@ruminantmelanoid5444]

You have to have personality to have *platonic friends.* Common sense should tell people that personality should be a requirement for a romantic/sexual relationship, even if you have a 13 inch joint. Plus one could make the argument that personality/charisma is an absolutely essential component of game.

[@RomWills]

Charisma really is the game. The outer things are just the lure.

[@lsporter88]

Playa Professa Indeed.😎

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MackeyDeez]

I found that some women don't deviate too far from the type of men they prefer. There will be dudes they'll take a liking to who they may dabble with. She might like the way he looks, the way he talks, the way he walks etc. He could be the total opposite of what she usually dates but, she may take a liking to a him enough that she might even let him hit it.

[@RomWills]

What women say publicly about what they like and what they do privately is two different things.

[@GamerGee]

2:40 facts. I tell dudes this all the time. Even if a dude is dealing with prostitutes or chicks he's financing for sex she gone get your money and have all the restrictions versus a female that's really feeling you. It's gonna be free and full of blissful excitement lol

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@bonus12345457]

How do I get that Charisma? Id love to get women that are into me and not into my resources, trick marriage stuff.

[@RomWills]

Develop your personality and stay positive.

[@thomasvogelsinger4007]

women are visual and emotionnal you need a good body and a fun personality it is not deeper than that

[@charlesmerchant4762]

Bust that bubble, Rom.....

[@RomWills]

You know how I do.

[@josephlambert6453]

Nothing but da freaking truth!

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@DanTheMan4477]

I believe that what bothers those guys who uses his money to attract women. He doesn't understand that those guy will never have a woman's soul. I deal with this all the time. I don't even bring up the money or nothing. Charisma isn't something taught it is an entangible skill

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

how does an introvert be charismatic?

[@RomWills]

Just be a cool person. Read the Midnight series by Sister Souljah.

[@SmallsGang_773]

R. kelly contagious fet. Isley brothers

[@RomWills]

That the song.

[@edwardmayfield9394]

My knowledge came from working an honest job in the hood

[@obi9065]

Uncle Ron kickin that ice cold game...

[@RomWills]

I do what I do.

[@gtddawg]

Preach Uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

Amen.

[@Jxo901]

That’s a bad trend in Rap Music now.

[@goku92son4]

Rom, i'm short and not to bad looking. I have charm and a sense of humor, women love a good personality. Hell, my father is short and bald headed but has charm and sense of humor. Women don't want a up tight boring ass dude!!! That looks, money, and status shit is some straight up Eurocentric stuff.

[@RomWills]

The Pimps would agree with you.

[@Quincy82AAC]

Rom you are peeping the game brother. I rather be broke and poor,but have personality and charisma to attract women than have money and status,but be boring as fuck.

[@RomWills]

Best way to do it.

[@Timoteo4]

If you look at a lot of the guys getting called out on these sexual harassment and assault/rape beefs, they're pretty much gameless dudes that needed to use their status (money and power) to threaten women into giving it up to them. They only have wives because they're wealthy and powerful, and they only get sex using that. Most never developed game/charisma. Aziz Ansari, as a 30 year-old, was acting like a horny, eager teenager. That isn't a crime, but if he had some game and smoothness about him, he would have gotten anything he wanted from that girl, and she wouldn't have gone home crying and feeling like he TOOK it from her.

[@RomWills]

Exactly. That smooth game is increasingly becoming a lost art.

[@BrooklynMoor]

Rom Lacing us wid some Playa-Pimp azz Game! Kinda of a rebuttle to another new younger game advisor on Ytube ruffling feathers.Its not all image status and money face/looks although height wins majority of the time i believe and where I came up short since birth. Its a curse.There is always more 2 the game than meets the eye though.

[@RomWills]

It's not a rebuttal. My first KZbin video in 2014 talked about this. It's been a constant point I talk about every few months.

[@ericrobertson7589]

Players are born

[@RomWills]

My father believes that. It would make an excellent debate.

[@ericrobertson7589]

Rom Wills Do a show on it

[@ericrobertson7589]

Rom Wills It's true. Do a show on it.

[@lamarking9362]

Game101

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@mrj9224]

What about those boys in schools those teachers are banging they got money or charisma ?..

[@RomWills]

What high school dudes got money? Think on this.

[@jawara.d.king-authorof7books]

...good lookin' out. What's the proper definition of status?

[@RomWills]

Status is trying to impress who don't care about with things you don't really have.

[@browser37]

Women want men wit money and men want women wit beauty plan and simple.. nun new here

[@RomWills]

Naw fam you ain't hearing me. Women are leaving their status for broke dudes. Some are evening paying for men. If a man is paying women see him as a trick no matter what she says otherwise.

[@christinabernat9681]

you have not heard a single word he was saying have you? He is saying (caps just for emphasis, not to scream) AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE going for women just based on their looks, AND AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE the women who are just into men's money. Rewatch this vid for a year if you have to, until you GET this - and hopefully save yourself tons of misery. :)

[@assaa5069]

Christina Bernat truth

[@assaa5069]

Rom Wills exactly

[@infestchristopher1457]

It's all about being an alpha Male period.

[@ultimateonyx]

Y'all better listen to him!

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@REDDPET]

💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@queenofallusa5391]

There's nothing wrong for dating and marrying strictly for resources

[@RomWills]

What about spiritual fulfillment?

[@queenofallusa5391]

@@RomWills find a way to fulfill yourself spiritually and not defer to your partner. No human can fulfill another human.

[@quasimoto5656]

Queen Of All USA that is gross.