What Turns on a Black Woman About a Man, Part 1

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[@KUROSHURA]

A deep, rough voice is an indication of optimal testosterone levels. It reminds women of their fathers and that calming, soothing, protective stability that Fathers bring. That’s why they always looking for “Daddy”

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

Omg I LOVE a black mans smile! It is one of the most beautiful things on a man. His eyes and his confidence are also a plus. Does he look you directly in your eyes when speaking to you. Does he look through you? I’ve only had one man to look through me. I love him to this day... I melt every time.

[@shawnhazel8208]

paige ryan I tell men to look thru a woman all the time - I don't think they understand tho...... great point

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing that sis.

[@leviellerbe]

Well that work 75% of the time

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

FLY ONE you’re absolutely right

[@FlowPaigeRyan]

levi ellerbe of course nothing is ever 100%

[@bagley232]

when I was 11 there was an aftershave commercial with the actor Jack Palance, at the end of it he said "confidence is very sexy" I took that and ran with it

[@MackeyDeez]

I remember this one dude back in high school he was flabby, not athletic, and ugly but, he was lively. All of the girls would be sitting at his table during lunch and they was crazy about him because he would crack them up. Humor is the best mating strategy around.

[@RomWills]

Humor is an equalizer.

[@757bigj]

But were they really trying to get with him or just using him for his humor?

[@MackeyDeez]

@Busch light Probably but, you never really know with women.

[@theemperor2017]

@@RomWills •So true. However, that skill set (sense of humour) only works in high school, young ghals (20s) and the minors. As ya sexual market value (SMV) increase. Youll need more virtues, purpose better techniques & the 5ps (protection, provision, providing, purpose) to tame those HIGH VALUED MEN (9s & 10s).

[@donaldchristopher2810]

Sexual confidence and expressing and embracing sexuality is the best mating strategy to me. It shows confidence and authenticity. Sexual confidence can be shown through your body language and other non verbal, just expressing sexuality alone can show sexual confidence. Trey Songz is a great example of that.

[@itstayaaa8280]

To be real looks are 20 to 30 percent of attraction with women . Mindset and confidence are more important than looks .

[@RomWills]

That's about right.

[@assaa5069]

Truth

[@krysnm1981]

Tayfattz Yep... give me confidence over great looks any day!

[@tweetyslife253]

Even before listening to your video, I must say confidence. Nothing like a confident man. A confident man can have any woman do as he please. I know because I was intimidated by how confident he was and still is.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing that sis.

[@Donono84]

I have braces to fix the gap in front. Funny enough, I've gained more confidence to smile now that I have the braces. I'm 33 years old and it's never too late guys for improving your looks.

[@Tareaque]

I support u Rom wills. Your platform is as real as it gets. It's comfortable it's mature and it really test our intelligence to help us as black men. And the real part of your platform is that u don't ask for donations. U drop jewels from the heart and that's what it's all about.

[@RomWills]

Thank you fam.

[@Tareaque]

No thank u Mr. Wills you inspire me and give off nothing but positive energy we need more leaders like u

[@megatron5047]

if i might add uncle Rom.the only thing i can say is keep working on your self(body,finance s,social skills,and status)then we will notice more,and more women will be checking for us.thanks Unc

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@Tareaque]

Well as far as a thot woman it's a man confidence status and money. For a real black woman it's his heart motivation struggle pride and intelligence

[@RomWills]

Well put.

[@MrRashid1990]

All people are unique to some degree but there are universal turn ons for both men and women; also some overlapping turn ons for both genders.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@EJChevy]

Preach Mr. Rom, just like you said in a previous video some women you attract are a reflection of yourself..

[@RomWills]

That's how it is.

[@rollandcurtis874]

I've been told that I have a nice smile, but I honestly hate smiling. I don't mind smiling while laughing, but smiling to greet or to take pictures turns my stomach. I'm in my 30s and I don't know whether or not I should force smiles.

[@RomWills]

Just be yourself fam.

[@targetegrat]

I laughing reading your comment. In my mind I see you walking around lce Cube in the 90s mean mugging for no reason

[@keithlamont8208]

R. A. Bro real talk same here what's funny is I'm an insurance agent and we take annual photos for updated web pages and I was just standing there feeling weird trying to force the smile for the picture

[@SimeonToko]

You hit it hard on the voice and sense of humor thing Rom. YESSIR

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@marcb2raw]

In Jamaica we have a saying for women that goes “ laughy laughy love lie down”.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@ms.mahoganylibra6513]

Interesting video! Glad you touched this topic....looks, confidence, humor, top 3! But then a man that smell good along with the way he looks at me....Turn On!

[@RomWills]

Thanks for sharing sis.

[@MrKevin1144]

Needed to hear this, Thanks.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Good Breakdown video Rom! The best thing for a man to do is be the best version of himself. Keep building yourself up to become the best version of yourself and be comfortable and confident in who you are, that alone will attract more women to you than ever. Don't try to come out of your comfort zone to become someone else you think women will like and deviate from who you really are! Women will also see through that too when you're not being the real you! We talked about this before, stop trying to go out your way to please every single women because you can't. That's why when you see average looking men getting multiple attractive women is because they be themselves and they're comfortable in their own skin and they're displaying the best version of themselves with confidence! Whoever like it they do and whoever don't, oh well, that's they mentality. Like when you've mentioned about the comedians and how they get a lot of women because of their since of humor, they're being who they are and that's what each individual man had to do! Never come out of your zone to enter some body else world that you're not normally in to please certain women because of what you think they like based upon what another man did on his behalf to win women over because that's who they are. Understand and learn that you'll catch more bees with honey than vinegar! Even though the things that you've mentioned that's significant to turning women on is true, you can still have those qualities within you in your own way, just continue to build yourself up around those qualities in a way that's satisfactory to your own style, not nobody else's and that's when you'll overstand out and get serious attention from women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

Great comment as always.

[@kristenglamour4023]

Yes the way he looks at me right in the eyes like he wants to tell me his secrets 🔥

[@spacelyman9482]

Great Topic Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@azoladder]

Excellent video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ennobleone]

Eyes are key. They say love at first sight. There’s way you look into a person eyes puts an imprint too.

[@RomWills]

That's true.

[@damonm.]

Like Biggie said "Heart throb never, Black and ugly as ever However, I stay Coogi down to the socks Rings and watch filled with rocks..." Biggie even said he got Faith because he made her laugh. I find myself attractive I'm not going to say I'm ugly. I make up with a lot I was slacking when I was younger was my wit, confidence and charm. I suggest people to read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Found out that I have 2 seduction types: The Charismatic and The Charmer. Great video.

[@RomWills]

That's how you do it.

[@richfishing92]

Damon M taking you up on this suggestion ! Appreciate it my guy

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Eyes and your presence that turns women in general on. Women will always try to look in my eyes for no reason. It's kind of funny.

[@RomWills]

That's how they do.

[@myronreed8542]

So about the smiling thing. I've been told I don't smile enough, but when I do it seems like people don't take me seriously. That's me on the cover of a magazine in my avi and a broad who I'm dealing with now said when she saw the cover (before she met me) I looked intimidating. But then when I smile it seems like people take me as soft. That always confuses me.

[@RomWills]

Women can be intimidated by men who don't smile.

[@chrisdjohnson314]

Mr locario brought me here.salute to my game advisers..rom,loc,and kflex

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@xoacatl]

on Point again Uncle ROM

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@100footsie]

Ill definitely be tuning in tomorrow same bat time same bat channel. Lol . By the way that thing about the eyes is so true. As I have mentioned before I seem to have a lot of chemistry with Latin women and the main thing they compliment me on is my eyes because for one I have unusually long eyelashes and before I gained weight my eyes were very big for my slender face. But sisters at least 2 in particular have complimented my eyes so that eye thing is 100 percent real.

[@RomWills]

Women love some eyes.

[@NICHOLASANDCARS]

Classic 💪🏾

[@popsmokeandghost2416]

I can't read minds, sooooo.......Lol

[@itstayaaa8280]

Morning Unc ROM

[@RomWills]

Morning fam.

[@AfricanSurf]

You should do a vid on How a man can Maintain his Confidence Consistently.

[@RomWills]

I cover that in many videos.

[@AfricanSurf]

Rom Wills indeed appreciate it Uncle ROM keep giving us Young Cats this game some of us really need it 💯

[@christopherduffy1703]

Even with looks there are variations of what people find attractive. Ex. When some women like the look of a dark skinned man others may think it's ugly.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@chewbacca4778]

They say "the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice." Darker skinned men are like gold.

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Depending upon the woman. People have their own preferences.

[@christopherduffy1703]

@@dennisrobinson8008 All you did was reinforce what I said.

[@krysnm1981]

Truly appreciated 7:42 though around 9:05.... VERY TRUE!

[@RomWills]

Thanks sis.

[@nyheemmckoy5331]

Got complimented on the eyes a few times in the past.

[@RomWills]

I'm tellinh.

[@nyheemmckoy5331]

Rom Wills but I need to get them worked on soon 😭

[@joinmyjourneyitsmylife9951]

I like a man who is smooth

[@MamaWhit87]

Just subbed lol

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@melindasaddler559]

Comfort, making you feel safe and feminine. 🥰

[@claraht.6999]

Hands. Soft buttery hands. Clean nails always.

[@RomWills]

I feel you.

[@dmoney5340]

I say this goes for all women 1. Is good looks, which is basically your face, height, body and you’re hair cut 2. Is the clothes that man has on to know his fashion and swag ect 3.This is the last one which is having a sense of humor which is probably the most underrated. Unless you are like 5’3 or facially deformed Go the gym and work on your health and build some muscle, buy some nice clothes to feel good about YOURSELF and having a sense of humor, being able to make a women laugh and smile then you’ll eat Not really that complicated

[@RomWills]

It really isn't. Dudes make it more complicated than it has to be.

[@assaa5069]

Truth

[@darrickbrisco5016]

They want 4 baby mommas a stint in da joint and a daily weed habit loud preferably lbvs unc where da car at Man U was pimping

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@TheMackone66]

That's Game!!🤗🤗😎

[@levisnclarks380]

Rom,these rich white folk are reminding me of my"place" at my cushy job on Park Ave.As a result,I have no provocative comment/story for you this time.But I make women laugh easily,I have "pretty"eyes,I can cook,always had my own dwelling,and my bedroom game has never been lacking,and I`m not a tall man,and never been "ripped".Never needed a dating coach or advice.Peace

[@RomWills]

Work with what you got. If it's working for you do you. All men have to find what works for them.

[@TellyTingz2000]

I love voice too, clean cut beard and facial hair is #1 attractiveness to me. I LOVE eyes, not just the color but the shape and the aura thing coming from the eyes and spirit, I love hairy men too, on the arms legs chess, and I like the V shape in men big at the top. I love ARMS nice and vainy 😋 and a handsome face of course

[@tmantman6896]

black women don't know what they want they should want an smart intelligent man that is about his business. making good life choices these women these days want sisyfied in and out of jail punkified men not men with good values god like men the man should be the prize not the women. men think with logic women think with emotions that why an women should be quiet

[@MOE-uo4wm]

Facts

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@SubwayFan83]

This is gonna be interesting...lol

[@RomWills]

Always.

[@CashCowz962]

@ 11:45 ROM ..you are spot on....if 10 guys have the same sense of humor, a sista in this case can still choose a few and say the others are wack...even if they delivered the jokes in the same way etc etc. Bottom line is that the same way folks say cologne smells different on different folks is the same way this thing with women is...So here is the deal...BE THE BEST YOU...AT JOKES..STYLE...WALK...VOICE..HUMOR...CHARACTER...SPEECH...VALUES etc etc..YOU WILL BE ATTRACTIVE TO SOME WOMAN AT SOME TIME......this is because if you are one of those 10 guys delivering the same joke in a controlled environment...and you have 10 sistas as your audience....just based on the universal statistical odds...(mind you sistas or women have no control over this statistical law..or else mankind will perish)...you will find a couple sistas that will swing in your favor...FACTOR in that with the given time of the month... if they are in their ovulation or actual pre or post menstrual cycle...they might judge you differently...so basically speaking the same woman can judge you differently each day out of 30 days a month....and then also familiarity does build attraction....THANK GOD THESE LAWS ARE UNIVERSAL AND CANNOT BE CHANGED BY WOMEN or else 'AVERAGE LOOKING' hardworking dudes will be wiped out of existence...and the narcissists will procreate and infest and infect the planet with lazy self absorbed weaklings whose ego only seeks validation from women based on their OWN PHYSICAL looks and also can't be mentally tough enough to compete against other men and the forces of time and nature....LOL...I have gotten some sistas that i knew for a fact would have turned me down on the regular..but again like i said it i all about the odds...

[@RomWills]

Very good points.

[@rgonzalo511]

rom new subscriber here this is a weird question but what are the demographics on the people who watch your videos are they mostly black men or is it mixed are they older or younger men, maybe both, just curious about who consumes this type content.

[@RomWills]

Mostly Black men but I have people from all over the world.

[@MegaSolopolo]

Pale skin

[@RomWills]

Dang.

[@The_Equalizer23]

Lol

[@MrBenji1059]

lol what do you mean by this Chris?!

[@TheEnigmaticBM39]

Benjamin white is right

[@MsDesiree39]

Really stupid comment ESP since most bw are with bm! Ya'll been dating out much longer and I dint care but u call bw all kinds of names . Foh, the world ain't just got blck pple so mind your own damn budibess

[@qazzy]

Eye color may play a role but it may be a rare occurrence. Girls always talk about my eyes.

[@dukethadon6170]

What's the name of that song at the end of the videos

[@RomWills]

It's called "Pulse to the world."

[@MrOrlandodh12]

women are twoface forreal, they married one day and the next day kissing up on you like they didnt say they was married no wonder men get frustrated with the direction of these women.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

what made do this video?? LOL did guys not get taught this stuff or was it in prior comments? I'm not big on eyes. eye color yes. I'm a sucker for a great voice lord not the deep james earl jones voice but something in the middle! i'm big on scent too... i noticed that at 17.

[@RomWills]

Just letting the dudes know that it's not always just looks though some women focus on that more. Other women look for different things.

[@brwnhilarybanks9953]

rom wills+ good they need it!! next you is gonna be we are not all chasing thugs and getting fucked over lol

[@Allmusic876]

So right about the voice thing Rom, most women that flirt with me always start off with "I love your accent, where you from?" That's my experience and most of the time they take my number, just something I noticed.

[@RomWills]

The right voice gets a woman wet.

[@mrj9224]

First TGIF!!!!

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@heckybaby]

Hey Rom, is there a such thing as being “too good looking”?

[@RomWills]

Yes. Many women don't want to be around a man who looks better than they do.

[@heckybaby]

Would you say that there’s a way around that?

[@RomWills]

You have to put them at ease.

[@martelthomas5561]

Uncle Rom, is 6 ft, tall?

[@RomWills]

Naw I'm 5' 11".

[@jessekirksey1980]

Unc Rom what do you think about the so called simp or lame guy that understand the game that women run and use it against them. In other words Beating women at their own game.

[@RomWills]

That means they are not really lame.

[@Lovebrix99]

Actually the average black woman nowadays especially those in my age range(early 20's) are dating with a variety of races of men some are even like me who only mess with nonblack men. Also most black women(really most women regardless of race) want a man that has a sexy face, nice fit body and be at least 6'2

[@RomWills]

Some men who aren't those things are getting theres though.

[@Lovebrix99]

Rom Wills I agree the same way many men don't like overweight women or super skinny women. They're getting theirs as well. There is someone for everyone

[@hkbluntful]

fashion23 housestogo The sad thing is most people dont realize that when you say you dont like your genetic other half what your really saying is I dont like myself. Visit Brazil, Dominican Republic or South Africa. Its the same menatality where they literally have color classes and especially in brazil most of the blacks live in shacks and have no food or running water while whites have all the resources. Black man dont lie to yourself or let a black women lie to you about preference when the truth is its all over the globe. White racism is just that, white racism and the biggest losers who project back the hate are black people and especially black women because women are held to different standards because of their beauty. I hope you heal.

[@The_Equalizer23]

Women are like locks. Part 2... Women's primal nature (Director's cut)

[@RomWills]

LOL!

[@SmallsGang_773]

How do I get me some sistas Im puerto Rican

[@RomWills]

Try to find a sista who wants what you represent.

[@deannabarnes3771]

By simply being your true, honest self. ..