These people are just insane crazy! They literally make trying to destroy a person their life’s goal and that’s just EVIL! Tu Andrew and I appreciate all u do 💯🙏❤️✌️
@hazeleyes2381 Жыл бұрын
The new supply was part of our lives, knew we were married and took great pride and joy in hurting me and my kids. They deserve each other.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯💯😉
@krissymarie5270 Жыл бұрын
They won’t last. Trust.
@angelalewis4213 Жыл бұрын
Maybe two narcs. Good riddance. My heart goes out to you.
@marinz4life Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your pain. But there are several things we can be sure are in play here: 1. The relationship between the narcissist and the the new supply is doomed. 2. The narcissist planted lies to convince the new supply that YOU were the demon; which laid the groundwork to consummate their fateful union. 3. In spite of the pain you’re enduring now, the new supply saved you a lifetime of pain. Count it all joy. ❤️
@hazeleyes2381 Жыл бұрын
@marinz4life Thank you for these kind words of encouragement. I'm four years into post discard and I'm in a much better place. I blocked him and went no contact. My kids and I have grown so close and the peace at home is a blessing.
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
My thoughts and prayers go out to Anyone that gets involved with the Narcissist 🦋🌟❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏😌🙌
@Bianca-sw5id Жыл бұрын
❤Thank You , the lies I was told and the discard was overwhelmingly physically painful
@jennifernewton4637 Жыл бұрын
Hey there Andrew!!! 🙌❤😇☺️🥰 Watch out ladies, he just gets more handsome EVERY DAY!!! 😉😉😘
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
😊
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
He's a good soul glowing with goodness
@janetroberts5140 Жыл бұрын
Andrew is a good man. I already met my good man in February! Yes 16 weeks ago I met a wonderful friend I can trust! He's an Empath!!!
@janetcampbell5678 Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY 💯%!!!❤❤❤
@Tigers_Eye_Lady Жыл бұрын
Yes 😊
@mariefrancebourget1749 Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to the new supplies because i know that they won't have it easy. They don't know whom they will have to deal with. Hopefuly the relationship won't last for too long. Have a wonderful afternoon Andrew ❤😊
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌😌
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Hi Marie France. I also feel sorry for the new supply. I doubt if they're still together. Have a great day..⚘️🙏😃
@mariefrancebourget1749 Жыл бұрын
@@jannlewandowski5540 Have a great day too my friend. 😊🙏💜
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
@@mariefrancebourget1749 Thank you so much! Very peaceful today.❤🙏
@bradmcewen Жыл бұрын
Going full circle with a full load of knowledge collected is a great place to be. Once you're back to yourself , your intuition will see, hear, smell and gut instinct is never doubted again no matter how much repetitive Illusory Truth Effect you're exposed too. Bye bye projection, transferance and triangulation.
@TheSeekeroftruth1 Жыл бұрын
So many on here seem to say they feel sorry for the new supply, I don't. The new supply knew my ex was married to me and in my book anyone who can go steal another woman's man doesn't deserve pity (even if he is a Narc). However, I see things from a spiritual lens, which indicates that the new supply was an answered prayer and gift from God, as it was the only way that I could get rid of him. My mum always used to say, 'if you give someone enough rope, they will hang themselves!'.
@HamletsMill1969 Жыл бұрын
I hear all those singing birds encouraging you to love where you are right now Andrew!! Celebrate TODAY! 🎉
@CreativeCCookies Жыл бұрын
The manipulator is also using plenty of intimacy to get the new target quickly attached to them.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯💯😉
@barbarajarvis7441 Жыл бұрын
From what I have observed, the new supply can also be a narcissist. As they both age and encounter health issues, they find themselves in a race to see which one of them can outlast the other and thus inherit the estate. Muddy, mucky waters!
@michelineverret2871 Жыл бұрын
It may be possible but I don’t think it would work very long! A PN: Manipulates, lies, steals, wants « to destroy the other» So, if each of the two are the same and wants the same, have the same goal, They won’t be able to stand it! The PN prefer an empathetic, innocent, naive person who will fall for them!
@sarahrayne4808 Жыл бұрын
What’s worse is when your the child of narc parents and they weaponize you agenst the ex AND the new supply it becomes a battle of the fittest and only the strong survive this one I haven’t seen any of them in 11 years and there talking to me like the past is now and blackmailing me with sextortion it falls between incest and there new relationships it’s a sick bunch of people oh and should I say I think they were helping them the whole time untill recently I saw the new supply is homeless and my exs daughter wants to be me she’s dressing like me spelling her name like mine it’s really creepy they all are and also the estate they wanna split it up and apparently him and his child get my percent I told them I don’t like the exploititation it’s wrong I want nothing!!!!!!!!!!!!
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Hi Barbara, yes indeed. I heard all about the AGING narcissist! 😢
@stellab3828 Жыл бұрын
So true!! My ex had 2 new supplies (not at the same time), and they both turned out to have BPD and NPD!! Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic PersonalityDisorder -- the same things that Amber Heard has!! He annulled his marriage to the first one THE DAY AFTER THEIR WEDDING 😲 and is currently married to the second one. Both have an intense fear of abandonment. AND THEY PHYSICALLY BEAT HIM!! The first one wears Rx glasses; when he tried to break up with her (again), she actually beat her face with her hands, broke her glasses, and threatened him to tell everyone that he did that to her!! The second one not only beats him, she throws lamps, plates, vases, whatever is closeby, at him!! Twice, he fled the country to get away from her,, so now she hides his passport. 😂 She expects him to pay for everything and keeps her paycheck for herself, and then throws a fit if they get an eviction notice. *He never had to worry about bills when he was with me because I took care of all that AND combined our income because that's what a marriage is supposed to be.*
@doin_nayfin7284 Жыл бұрын
This channel has been dropping videos everyday. And everyday has been a different battle with a topic corresponding with what I'm feeling. Thank you.
@OreliaLatrice Жыл бұрын
Hello Andrew! This video is so good! I was in a non-romantic friendship with a woman from my job. I’ve learned a little while ago that she is truly a narcissist. I broke off the friendship November/2022. Before I broke it off, she met a guy that she likes. She met his family & friends, talked about marriage & having a son with him within a matter of weeks of meeting him. It didn’t make sense to me at the time but it all does now. This guy is the new supply. She became hyper vigilant to have a son with him because he only has one daughter, no sons. Something that is important to her new supply. Wow.. I hope he learns what he is dealing with sooner than later! Since I’ve cut the connection, my mind is clearer.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 🙏💯😌🙌
@OreliaLatrice Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone welcome 😊
@Felipe-Gonzalez Жыл бұрын
Yes, i was warned but didn't didn't know enough to over-rule my heart. Took two years to before i break free. It took a lot longer than that to begin to heal but the sun shines most days now so the future is at least there 😊 🙏🙏
@katashaluckey-prince8823 Жыл бұрын
Anyone…that gets involved with a married man…..(she knew and joined in with the pain of another)….. will not escape karma….they deserve everything coming their way.
@wiseasaserpentgentalasadov440 Жыл бұрын
We're not even divorced, and he's taken two trips with the "new supply" who's been married twice already. They visited her adult children in Texas and Colorado, one just had a preemie baby and the other is a 40-year-old woman who is having her eggs frozen, as if he cared about them and their lives. He just wants the sex from the fat ho.
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
100%
@mirih6463 Жыл бұрын
It seems like they are aware of their actions, which makes it even worse 😢
@missawful Жыл бұрын
We are a tribe, yay, how cool is that? ❤🙏 thank you so much!!! It's always very soothing to watch your videos. Easing the mind.
@darleenmcbride8900 Жыл бұрын
Peace 🕊️ and blessings Andrew 🙏
@tobytopaz921 Жыл бұрын
Yup actually.. love his SMILE at the end..! thanks for all you do . Andrew🦋
@saltlightandjoyministries4138 Жыл бұрын
Any woman who takes up with a married man has rocks in her head! Once I discovered that my husband had been cheating on me for years, I could hardly wait to leave. I withdrew emotionally, became a grey rock, and made plans to leave with the help of my friends. I've never regretted leaving even with this broken heart, the pain, and all of the years that I tried to make the marriage work.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💪💯💯
@sublimeguy Жыл бұрын
Somthing it took me a while to learn you can have a body that transcends space and time in beauty, but if that soul is ugly it shines brighter then all else.
@janinesmith369 Жыл бұрын
The narcissist just lies lies lies. The one I know tries to be very convincing, because there's a house involved, they just can't be honest. They don't care how miserable you are, they just want what they want and do or say whatever it takes to get it. The new do can have him and find out the truth later.
@michelineverret2871 Жыл бұрын
They just want the POWER, the CONTROL upon you! When this is not a house, it’s your children, the money they owe you etc…
@janinesmith369 Жыл бұрын
@@michelineverret2871 exactly 💯
@stainless1175able Жыл бұрын
They never pass up an opportunity to lie. It's funny in a way, after you've healed anyway.
@artluvr6170 Жыл бұрын
I am so thankful to be on the other of the narcissistic relationship and the trauma bond. I am now looking back with clarity. It makes me sick to stomach that unsuspecting new supply is getting sucked into the abusive cycle. 🤑🤢🚫☢
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏😌
@marlaalbert7906 Жыл бұрын
The new supply lasted maybe two years...she was a narc and discarded my narc when a brighter shinier ship (victim) passed by. (I heard about it from my stepson years later) I realize that I was with the narc at the top of his game. Looks, career, lifestyle...he had an international presence and a strong reputation. We traveled frequently on business. When he divorced me, he shot himself in the foot. I came to realize his work partners were NOT impressed with his behavior and shortened his leash. And shortened his leash...until he was gone. What he had not counted on: reputation matters in his field...and he had played such hard ball against me, that it came back at him. He never recovered. He works in a small and tight knit industry...people who matter know the truth. I never said a word.... Time...heals...slowly... perspective comes ☀️🌷🦋🌸💜🙌🏻🙏🏻💪
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I had to recheck your name to see if you were, perchance, one of my Brothers Xs! I am sorry there are others in this world - one is too many. Blessings and powerful healing.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏😌🙌
@lisaannlundun Жыл бұрын
My narc ex was a pro soccer player and he brags about travelling to 31 countries and how cultured he is. He love bombed me and said he loved everything about me without hardly knowing me. He future fakes and breadcrumbs to who knows how many women around the world. He would always try to impress me with money and gifts but I'm a simple person who would like to live off grid if I could 😂 I just wanted time with him to get to know him better but he was much too busy for someone he "loved" so much. The scary thing is I'm sure there are many women who take his bait.
@christmaslady1447 Жыл бұрын
Good afternoon Andrew thanks you very much ❤
@helensmith4126 Жыл бұрын
I remember saying about my ex - i feel like youre the same person as me but the opposite gemder. I literally thought id met my soul mate
@JenniferxxxJoy Жыл бұрын
I broke the trauma bond the day after he made me cry. Living alone and protecting my peace for years after the divorce I had no reason to cry. Then I allowed myself to let down my guard and become totally infatuated with him. Thought he was the real deal. The one I should have been with all along. After all “He” loved his dog and always sent pictures of animals and baby birds. All the things I love. Feeling important, special, and safe again had he lived in the US I would have had him move in. Thank God for COVID travel restrictions. His capacity to cut me to the core with the cruelty of his comments I just didn’t see coming. When he attacked my very character applying a hurtful label indicating excessive neediness, after all the nights and long hours I listened to his life grievances on calls, talked about dreams, thoughts, life to have him accuse me of being the needy one broke the camels back. I blocked and went no contact. The strange thing was we were LD friends for 5 years and this side of him only made itself apparent after our relationship graduated to romantic. Very sad.
@janetsmith9958 Жыл бұрын
Very sad x
@marmeg1118 Жыл бұрын
How did I break the trauma bond? I sat down on month 5 and had this horrible thought. If this is month 5 what will a year from now look like, 2,3 or more. That nightmare film that went through my mind was enough for me to say OH HELL NO. If this is already bad and really uncomfortable, confusing and totally whacked, no way can I do this to myself. Hope this helps someone to play this scenario in your mind. It’s a no brainer! Get out to never go back. Best wishes to all.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌💯
@denieseransom2380 Жыл бұрын
The new supply has left her husband and two children for the narc I was involved with. She has a tough future ahead of her.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌💯
@texasrefugee7888 Жыл бұрын
When my narc ex got new supply he made sure to tell our kids to relate to me... "You're jealous of dad's new GF!" I said sincerely oh no kids i feel sorry for her." This is how narcs use children for vindictive revenge. Putting kids in the middle as weapons, pawns, spies. A narc can easily alienate the kids and even worse, alienate you from your kids. A narc can make you want to get far far away from your children like this. Btw his new supply he plugged in for the courts to get custody stole his checkbook forged checks and then dumped him after he got custody 😂
@carolcoates2736 Жыл бұрын
How much did you pay her..?! 🤣
@texasrefugee7888 Жыл бұрын
@@carolcoates2736 😜lol You know I really wasn't jealous of her. I was humiliated that he chose someone like that to replace me. I could have predicted she would do that but I didn't want to say anything. I wanted them to be together so he would leave me the h*** alone
@carolcoates2736 Жыл бұрын
@texasrefugee7888 my daughter is struggling to get her narc husband out of her life which will never be complete as she has 4 children 7 and under, we are so lucky she lives close to us so we can protect and support her and the children. From personal experience of his behaviour to both her and ourselves, I can't help but wish he would find someone like your ex's wife, then getting him out of our lives would be so much less torturous and upsetting esp for her ❤️
@empressboateng7098 Жыл бұрын
I am speechless Andrew, its so true ❤🎉🎉🎉🙌👏👏👏👏
@BradConroy_guitar Жыл бұрын
They begin to plant those seeds of doubt from the get go. "My friend said this about you, my sister thinks this about you, etc."
@annaconcepcion1249 Жыл бұрын
Currently fighting off the trauma bond... I hope to break it soon... Taking one day at a time...
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌🙌🙏
@annaconcepcion1249 Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Glad you're hear. Whenever the trauma bond is telling me to reach out, I sit and let myself feel my emotions, and then I go to your channel. Thank you for all that you do, Andrew 🙏🏼♥️
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
Me too. It's rough
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
The truth is, I know the narcissist is quite miserable. Before I got the education, I felt sorry (empathy etc) and would pray for them and all associated. What a whirl of a cycle THAT was too 😓 no thanks. Not anymore. All energy for me and who and what impacts I feel is best to spend that energy on. Like now I pray for education and healing for those coming in. That’s right Andrew, the ledger 📒 on the positive side of narc abuse awareness is growing everyday because of you. God bless you. ❤❤❤
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Heeyy Chelsea, my ex narc was surprised that he fell for a blonde. I heard that for 5 years. Well, the new supply has dark brown hair! If he's still with her! ❤ Have a good evening@ 🙏💕😃
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏😌😊☀️
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
@@jannlewandowski5540 🤭 🙄 these narcs and their masks 🎭 It’s such hypocrisy Have a fantastic rest of your day. You sound high energy and I’m so glad for you 🤗 💖🙌🦋💖💕
@andron967 Жыл бұрын
I came extremely close to actually killing the new supply. This is maybe the most frightening memory in my life. I had no idea what my female narcissist was or what she did to us. Or my own flaws that had me open to her lies and games. Those flaws had me open to other narcissists. So I've experienced these devastating women several times over many years. And I was also open to narcissistic abuse from males in the form of employers. I had a very damaged childhood. It probably looked privileged to most outside spectators. Interesting that my mother who I stepped up and was caregiver to actually woke up just before the end of her life. She told me that she never knew me ! Wow ! What a wonderful gift from this very elderly old woman who was my mother. She did her best to be a good mother to me. She worked hard to give me a good home when I was a child. But I think she was also a narcissistic victim in many ways. I never expected her to wake uo but she did to a point. And she left this world while giving me a little hope. God bless her.
@cajuncrackerranch7990 Жыл бұрын
On target! 🙏
@marinz4life Жыл бұрын
This is a SCARY-accurate take! I encountered every element of what he described. Prayers to all who are recovering from this horrific experience. I am a 4-year survivor (5 year relationship) and today I count this lesson as a blessing. One thing this can do, if you allow it, is bring you into the realization that evil quietly lives among us. ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙏😌🙌
@michellepurcell8703 Жыл бұрын
I always wonder if they ever get tired of going from person to person, starting again, in their trail of manipulation and emotional exploitation. This would exhaust most of us, getting into new relationships without any real love or reciprocation really sad I think . What a dysfunctional way to live . Thanks again Andrew 👏
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
What exhausts us is actually invigorating to them. I think a lot of it is the desire to compete and win. I've watched how my Brother manipulates and gets energized by his conquests. Dysfunctional! Definitely. Pathetic! Absolutely. Destructive! What the heck to they care! They keep plunging ahead leaving ashes and tears behind. They don't see that - don't want to see it. It's their wreckcreation!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙌🙏😌
@ms.k7487 Жыл бұрын
This is how they avoid dealing with their reality. They avoid all accountability by running away and never dealing with the fact that they are the problem. I have no idea where they get this never-ending energy or drive either.
@marihunt431410 ай бұрын
You described my relationship to a T! From beginning to end! I’m so glad I’m out of that nightmare!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone10 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@kathleenbotelho3307 Жыл бұрын
Thanks again❤😊
@leef8063 Жыл бұрын
I grew up in the 1960's. Watching crap on T.V. shows how families worked. I believed that crap. My parents could have pointed me in a better direction, but they didn't know. I see now, and have reviewed my past work and personal relationships. I am still bitter that I gave so much, and how dumb I was. But the bitterness is receding, and I know I am getting better. And I can see more clearly. Thanks.
@bradmcewen Жыл бұрын
I agree. Even the comedy shows of the 80's ,90's are appalling now as it should be. I loved some late night shows but holy shit they were prejudice as hell producing what emulated life as they knew it then.
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
@@bradmcewen Follywood - couldn't expect better! That's why I did away with TV in the early 60s. It's just a screen now to watch a good film once every few years. I don't know why I still have it! Sorry you went through this shocking reality! God must have spared me by putting an early life disgust for the tube in me! Thanks for letting me know what I never missed!
@carolcoates2736 Жыл бұрын
We were so innocent, gullible, hopeful ❤️
@dubaiedge Жыл бұрын
Same. Right on the heels of the 1950s, a very, very different time & climate. We didn't have options but what we saw around us. None of the education that's common now. We were set on a fated path & bought the dream that if we were good, decent person & worked hard, we would have a good life. It didn't work out that way in just about every last category (at least for me). Integrity is what I was left with & not much else. Crap on TV shows, those 30 minutes again & again with the insipid lies about a white picket fence & happy ever after.
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
@@dubaiedge Integrity is all you are left with? That's gargantuan! That's a RARE quality today! You'd be SO impoverished without that! What a treasure! I am shaking your hand like c-r-a-z-y!
@lourdesecheverria6209 Жыл бұрын
Andrew, again so on point! Thank you! OMG! The new supply is in for the "ride" of HIS/HER life! I have nothing to say, other than, I hope they find out who they are in a relationship with and get the education from channels like this one before their life is "extinguished" and/or the damage is too great to ever recover from it. I am super thankful to have found the strength to endure and find the education to save myself. No contact, blocked and never again. I am working on the third version of myself and will never again go back. Blessings to all in this amazing community of survivors! ❤
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
Lady, you're amazing!
@gailyhanna510 Жыл бұрын
My ex narc was getting a procedure on his leg when we were dating for about several months. When it was time for him to let me know how it went and if I was to pick him up, he was nowhere to be found. He later told me that he *accidentally* blocked me on his phone, and thought that I actually blocked him. He said this made him feel very sad. At the time, I knew that he couldn't have accidentally blocked me because we have the same type of phone. It was a huge red flag, amongst many others, that I chose to ignore. I have such disdain in my heart for someone that can be so deceitful and cruel, lie right to your face and swear on their on mother's life in the process. Thank you, Andrew, for all of your videos! I don't think you realize how much you really are helping people❤❤
@marybarton5651 Жыл бұрын
Knowledge equates freedom
@liveyourlife0508 Жыл бұрын
Hello lovely people, I saw my ex narcissist girlfriend the other day. The breakup was quite traumatic the way it ended, the trauma bond and all the smear campaign... you name it. Bottom line is, I didn't have any emotion when I saw her. Very proud that I become so strong and better person after all that pain. I'm a new man, I work on myself and my goals every day. Just want all of you to know, you will heal and you will see the beauty of the life !!! It is real and life is beautiful🙂, just stay strong !!! Bless you all🙏 Andrew, thank you for helping 🙏 Your wisdom helped me the most, just keep sharing it 💪
@john24gold14 ай бұрын
I hope this happens to me one day . I’ve already changed and bettered myself so much . I never even yelled at my ex or had an actual argument . She was super covert and I was an early in her dating. Life . I’ll get better and focus on the future. Next I see her I imagine she will have gained weight and will still be in the same position living with her mum . As she has two dogs she isn’t going to be finding a new place anytime soon by herself ! And she planing to go to Thailand . She works part time so I don’t think she is moving anywhere better .
@paulag7108 Жыл бұрын
Great video Andrew😎Thanks so much 🫶
@marybarton5651 Жыл бұрын
Great video Andrew. I pity and pray for the new supply. 🙏
@amandaserle3343 Жыл бұрын
Yes it was a ding!! Ding!! Moment when I discovered I was dealing with a narcissist, can't remember how I got on to researching narcissists. I'd never heard of a narcissist before believe it or not I know now. Definitely a ding!! Ding!! Ding Moment.
@cc1k435 Жыл бұрын
Good luck to them. It WAS once me. ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯💯😌
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
👍
@jilliana.7593 Жыл бұрын
Andrew I cannot believe this !!! The poor new supply is my situation is smitten and when I said congrats when he reached out to me he response was “MEH” !! Could you please do more videos on new supply’s and the narcissist trying to make you think things are going well when the new supply is posting pics of them together saying how smitten she is … it’s so insane !!! Why do narcissists date and hang out with people they aren’t even interested in … this poor Girl is smitten and he is feeling meh… I finally get it … all these videos were you always speak of this kind of thing happening.. but I’m so confused I just don’t get it.. I rather be alone than to hangout with someone and make them think I’m Interested if I’m not.. these narcs are bad ppl good thing I didn’t fall for it I didn’t even respond … unbelievable
@brankalightfoot4471 Жыл бұрын
Aww thank you ...have a good day too...
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌😌
@leviwhite3553 Жыл бұрын
It is exhausting to think about the victims of the past and present with the narcissist. It makes you question everything and look back at people you thought were abusive to the narcissist. Every single word they speak becomes another question you'll never get answers for. Until you find yourself here.
@mrybst3 ай бұрын
I just hope she gets out safe just like I did
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 ай бұрын
💯💯😌
@theguynextdoor4978 Жыл бұрын
The new supply/primary object doesn't know that they are dealing with a snake-oil salesperson of love. Give it some time, usually a few months and you'll see that: 1) The mask dropped, and the supply dumped the narc. 2) The devaluation begins, and the supply develops a trauma bond and stays way too long until the relationship ends. The narc will either discard or get dumped. 3) The new supply understands narcissism, and bails before it's too late due to noticing the red flags. The bottom-line is that it usually never lasts with a narc.
@lindaallotey6257 Жыл бұрын
This is your field, it’s such a blessing you went through this, I’m sorry but that’s how I feel, every single word, your expertise on narcissist, narcissistic behaviors and disorders, their manipulation, the flying monkeys, the trauma bond, their triangulation and fake ego ( sad on reality) is all on point, been following and you can see you have educated me well, I wish to meet you one day, empaths should try meeting, how great 👍 it will be , such an icon you are, keep the topics flowing, I will comment on them all so you know how much some of us truly appreciate ✅💯
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 🙏🙌😌
@sanjmalik6282 Жыл бұрын
The ex ended up with another narc as his new supply who is just as evil and maniputive as he is from what I've heard. It will be battle who is the stronger one. Poetic justice.
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
Same thing my husband chose
@sirg-had8821 Жыл бұрын
Oof... You laid out my former narc relationship by chapter and verse. Now I get to use her as a training dummy and a chance to heal and better myself.
@catlady6938 Жыл бұрын
I felt sorry for the new supply, the narcissist told me she was just a friend but I knew that was rubbish. When I finally left him and if I run into him he would usher her away he was scared I would tell her what he was. She wouldn’t have believed me anyway I’m sure he told her I was another one of his crazy exes. She did eventually realise and left him too as did all his other supplies he was cheating on both of us with. I still felt sorry for her knowing what he would have put her through. Evil man.
@justChrisjones Жыл бұрын
Its a new perspective i am listening from my sons perspective. He married a narcissist this sounds like his experience. He has actually died doing this same thing. You are correct. She is the mom to my 2 Granddaughters. Im broken to the core. Its been almost 5 years since he died.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏🙌😌
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
Oh I'm so very Sorry for your Loss, sending love peace and strength,now and Always and prayers 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Nyc99 Жыл бұрын
Condolances mama, sad to hear, hope you get to see your grandkids... stay safe
@angiehayes7397 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss 😢 other than that, we share the same story. Although I DO believe she caused his diabetes! We have zero family history of it. She is the most wretched witch I have EVER known! Makes my Mom look like a saint in comparison and that's saying something!!
@justChrisjones Жыл бұрын
@@Nyc99 No, Im beginning to see from a distance its not going to be safe. I need to pull out completely. If I want to live. It is really insidious and cruel.
@radzhurl8711 Жыл бұрын
Namaste 🙏 Andrew.
@nrosa4051 Жыл бұрын
So true
@coral8313 Жыл бұрын
This is one thing I struggled with I’m a very forgiving person I do believe the ex met his match as she new that he was married maybe he told her lies about me unsure what truly matters that I’m outta that nightmare.🙏💕
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌🙌🙏
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
Same here. My husband discarded me a month ago for the secretary at his work
@lauraantic1384 Жыл бұрын
If here on our planet would be more people like Andrew there would never be abuse and so much pain ,great man and teacher
@camille9803 Жыл бұрын
Wow. This is soooooo accurate, it's uncanny. When I was the new supply I was wary and had doubts and questions which my narc-ex (I called him the Svengali, he hated that) gradually convinced me of how wrong I was. He had a string of exes and it was always because they were so bad and he was so good. He moved in with me while he was moving out of his ex-girlfriend's. He convinced me I was the problem for thinking he was moving too fast. Well, he's now onto his new supply. He made sure to hurt me before he left. I don't think he ever wanted me to get over him. So glad to be free. Truth is, I was miserable the whole time I was with him, even with all the wining and dining.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💯🙌😌
@1zebracrossing Жыл бұрын
..... The name of the book was: The new Supply doesn't even know they're the new Supply........ it's very true the new Supply doesn't have a clue(rose tinted glasses) I tried to warn them......I didn't know I was the supply.... I had to change it to: Narc 101....... Then the general public would catch on easier..... You are right on Andrew...
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌🙌🙏😉
@Tommytwostroke Жыл бұрын
The new supply knows very well She’s just a drunk just like him two Narcs! Good riddance
@kathleencondit1660 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Blocked six family members the other day, and it was a relief.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Welcome 🙏🙌💪
@angiehayes7397 Жыл бұрын
As usual, you're spot on!! Thank you!! Is there any way you can talk about the narc daughter in law in relation to mother in law? I'm her biggest target
@nrosa4051 Жыл бұрын
So true !!!!
@BJBlaskovichGaming Жыл бұрын
I think it’s more like she has this expectation that he will complete her. The old boyfriend from 15 years ago. I don’t know if he experienced what I have, or is experiencing it now. But if he supposedly had another girlfriend behind her back all those years ago, as she told me, why would she go back? Narcissist or not. She said she’d never do another long distance relationship after me, but here we go again with another one! I saw a video recently that said the narcissist LOVES long distance relationships!
@barbarakrall1184 Жыл бұрын
The new supply will probably not have the wisdom to see his insanity! Everything you said has been correct. Thank you for your videos.
@n-Lee-zt9hb Жыл бұрын
Didn't we all Google NPD when we figured something wasn't right in how you felt.
@jennifernewton4637 Жыл бұрын
All you can do is feel sorry for the new supply. 💯 They _have_ to go through this just like _we_ did. It was meant to _be_ that way as there’s a lesson in this they need to learn. Everything we experience… good, bad, or indifferent teaches us something, and it’s up to _us_ to figure out what we can learn from it! GREAT video, Andrew, as _always_ !!! 😁👍👍😉♥️🩷💜
@gratefultobehere Жыл бұрын
I definitely felt sorry for all suppliers 😔
@alimccreery755 Жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely right 👍
@sandracaezza7234 Жыл бұрын
My history with this person was 24 yrs relapse/recovery. I did not know for 4 yrs after marriage. I know now he uses women to cover his bisexual appetite. Signed my divorce papers yesterday. He gave me everything……. Why????? I had 3 months of social media info To the victor(me) go the spoils ( new supply) I was there once “ we love, we learn”
@nillarohr9872 Жыл бұрын
You are so emphatic I listen with my healing hart ♥️ and Im acting on your advice!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏😌
@susanruggiero589 Жыл бұрын
TY Andrew. Great content right here. Namaste 🙌🏻💙🙏🏻🌊☀️💪🏻🌻
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Namaste 🙏😌🙌😊
@blessedstar747 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I never introduced him to my family and never wanted to meet his family when he asked. My discernment told me don't tell him where my family or friends lives.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😉💪💯
@storminateacup9791 Жыл бұрын
I never knew what a narc was until I was discarded for a new supply and found these videos. It is 💯 my ex. Every relationship he'd ended was the other person's fault.
@priscillathompson77 Жыл бұрын
All the time
@BK-lb8uh Жыл бұрын
An ocean of narcissistic sewage. Completely clueless until I was discarded. I just knew something was off for years.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😌🙌
@lindanorris24557 ай бұрын
Apparently the new supply kicked the NARC. in my life to the curb. Came back needing EGO SUPPORT! after not speaking to me for months!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
😌😌💯
@alkaholik7924 Жыл бұрын
Hey man I just wanted to say your videos are helping me stay sane daily as I avoid my covert narcissistic father and his manipulations. I'm trying to get away from him but can't find a job but I'll be gone soon. Hanging in there for now. Thanks for all you are doing.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙏😌🙌
@carin5767 Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you ... Having a toxic father is so sad, I was there discarded every day, week , month, years. I reached the mountain top of indifference and wish the same for you. How are you doing today? Sending love 💕
@dvalore Жыл бұрын
A year after being discarded, I went into a bar and sat next to a woman who wound up being the narcissists' (very) new supply. (He's on his 3rd woman since last year). We got to talking and she asked me if I knew him and I replied "no". A part of me wanted to warn her that he's not the gentleman he appears to be at first, but I didn't and quickly left. I'm wondering if I did the right thing?
@frankdavf4599 Жыл бұрын
Thanks 4 UR dedication to educate the world in this modern whiplash to society. And by the way, beautiful forest sound s in the background! Cheers😃🤗
@valarierowe1020 Жыл бұрын
THIS CYCLE MUST BE STOPPED!! I wish someone would have stood up and stopped him before he got to me. I have to do something to stop this insane cycle.
@lynnfincham6839 Жыл бұрын
The new supply does not realise they are one of many people who the narc will use and abuse. The green shirt looks great on you today andrew 👍
@carlosgiron1246 Жыл бұрын
Great video Andrew. Well i only knew about the new supply a couple of weeks before I was discarded. And i saw him on the day i got discarded they drove away. Well all i can say is that i have no ill will towards him , but i wish him luck with the parasite he inherited. He can have him and keep him, i want no part of that monster anymore. I'm working on myself and healing and making myself a better person. Thank you everyone for your kind words and thank you Andrew.
@flowerpower4944 Жыл бұрын
💪💪❤️❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏😌🙌💯
@collegegirl201418 Жыл бұрын
hi andrew I got my blood drawn 3 times today not fun😢 hope you are well today love you prince charming 😊
@stellab3828 Жыл бұрын
My ex-husband narc's new supply, who I didn't know, got ahold of my phone number and one day, out of the blue called me in tears. (Apparently they had another fight and broke up for the umpteenth time.) She said she's heard so much about me from him, and she has great respect for me from all the stories he told her (we were married 24 years and share a daughter). He was obviously trying to demoralize her by comparing her to me, *which I thought was so odd BECAUSE HE WAS THE ONE WHO LEFT ME FOR A YOUNGER GIRL, not her, another one, because I "was such a bitch."* 😮 So what she wanted to know was how to make him love her. "WHAAAAT?" I said. "I'm the last one to ask because obviously I failed!" 😅 Then she asked me what she should do. I very firmly said, "Turn around and run the other way." 😂 But of course she didn't, because she was already trauma bonded. Months later, I heard they had gotten married in Vegas, had a huge fight on their wedding night, and he annulled the marriage THE VERY NEXT DAY!! So much drama! Oh, the reason I only found out months later is because he told my daughter and all our mutual friends who attended the wedding NOT TO TELL ME HE GOT MARRIED! What's up with that? No, it's a serious question. Why do you think he didn't want me to know? I wouldn't have cared one way or the other.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏😌🙌
@asiasmith6924 Жыл бұрын
Lol, sounds like my ex. He got married and on their 1st wedding night, he took off for a few days to be with another new supply and continued to meet new supply in different cities and at his job. He was such a good manipulator, he could have been a top sales person for anyone… It’s a never ending cycle with them and it’s really sad these kind of people exist.
@martevanderzee74404 ай бұрын
Shame, pure shame. He didn’t want you to have a frontrow seat, looking at his shitshow whilst eating 🍿😉
@nani.9754 Жыл бұрын
A couple of years after our split,i met the new supply and we became friends. After a whilei tried to warn her because i didnt want her to suffer what i did... She stayed eith him and its been 10 years since then. She id still with him as he tries to love bomb me snd hoover me daily. Hes blocked by me so he shows up here since he cant message me or message me. Life goes on and i dont want any part of this life style.she and i still get along but i dont get involved with their life. He is her problem now. Not my circus. Not my monkey. 🐒
@janetsmith9958 Жыл бұрын
🎉 so funny....😅 saying dig their dirty fangs into you. Good example. 😂🎉
@sinjinmonsoon9055 Жыл бұрын
I'm having a real bad day ruminating about all the abuse I've endured. My mother was horrific. And she's been dead for years but no worries. My 2 lying theiving promiscuous sisters make her look like a girl scout..God help me please
@jannlewandowski5540 Жыл бұрын
Sinjin, I will pray for you. Try to go into another room, read a book, but keep your mind occupied. That's what I do. 🙏🙏💕💙
@sinjinmonsoon9055 Жыл бұрын
. Thank you..your so kind..
@donnahalsted7718 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for you!
@juneberry1286 Жыл бұрын
Hi ask a councillor or mental health therapist about EMDR therapy for trauma. Don’t suffer. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing is what EMDR. Stands for. Much compassion 😊
@backgroundsounds8529 Жыл бұрын
I'd re-frame the sisters as history. That's what has helped me as most of my close relatives turned out to be narcissists. I feel safer with strangers!
@katashaluckey-prince8823 Жыл бұрын
The NS…..is doomed….😂😂😂😂
@shandagause1585 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@elainechurch519 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad to be one of our tribe my friends! And I didn't just marry a narcissist, I married my stalker of three years!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
🙌😌🙏
@elainechurch519 Жыл бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I appreciate you!
@jrelevates1574 Жыл бұрын
I like how you prompt me to remember, it was not fun times, the new supply is most likely feeling that now, I choose empathy for them (the new supply) they will end up like I did, but with a child. I hope they are strong enough and find your information.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
💪🙌💯
@amandaserle3343 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting video thanks Andrew. Thank goodness my gut instincts were telling me throughout theres something very off about this person. Lost two stone in weight hair loss from the severe anxiety he caused. I can't imagine what he would have done to me regarding my health if I'd got together with him. Lucky escape thank you God. 🙏
@ritadoran5039 Жыл бұрын
Hi Andrew Man u described that stage perfectly and they do settle in and change after a few months goes from eating out dinners, movies, to lets cook at home and chill 😅 good luck they are in for a wild ride. Happy weekend all
@HellasGD88 Жыл бұрын
Narky told my daughter he needed a roof over his head that's why he married a wallflower.
@arelisasteasuainzarra6220 Жыл бұрын
It was once me
@rubyjet9513 Жыл бұрын
Hey, hey 😃❤️!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@Leesa1303 Жыл бұрын
Andrew even though my comments are all over the place I am truly glad to be 6 months no contact with that leach ....have a wonderful night....