What to do Before/When Dating someone | Attachment | What no one talks about | Rules

[@francestheodore]

Let me know what tip you related to / learnt the most from

[@TochiEmenine]

Letting ur expectations be low, related to that one well

[@Hnaomi180]

Dating is different from a relationship Because baby!!!! Everybody be getting things twisted

[@missliz1131]

This made me kinda want to cry because I’m in a relationship and it’s draining.. I’m always crying, he’s always blaming me for everything, constantly reminds me of past stuffs I’ve been through yells at me, it’s clearly See finish Something I talk to him about when I feel like talking to someone, he brings it up when he’s angry and rubs it on my face He wants me completely submissive but has a bad temper and is so bossy I really don’t know what to do anymore We’ve been together for almost 3 years and its not getting any better I can relate to EVERYTHING you’re saying

[@francestheodore]

I’ve been in your shoes, and you lose a bit of yourself each time you let him disrespect you. I walked away from that kind of relationship and my life changed for the very best. Kindly choose yourself

[@Captainfanez]

@@missliz1131 Dear you need to walk away from that relationship. To be honest it’s hard and difficult but it’s very possible. There are things that can help me get over a guy. First you need to have a support system (a group of friends that you can hang around when you’re feeling sad they will help you get over it quickly) Second go out go to parties Third you need to get busy and focus on something probably learn a skill or something. I hope I could help if you still wanna talk I’m here xoxo

[@roberrt_solomon]

The “They say you should always wake up and grind ( even if it’s pepper) hit me!!!! Gurrlllll you’re on FAYA!!!! 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@francestheodore]

Thank you!!

[@doreenagyemang2357]

Don’t be too available part hit me so hard. I swear it’s so true!!!

[@francestheodore]

I’m glad!

[@onyiieze1405]

Girl this is so brilliant, you're so knowledgeable and it shows. Your vlogs are always so enjoyable cuz you take your time to produce good quality videos.

[@francestheodore]

This means so much. Bless you

[@celebtea7075]

I swear

[@omaokanu2124]

Honestly she is so intelligent. She reminds me a lot of my friend.

[@isa-sn3ng]

To be honest, I have the highest expectations for people. I have high standards for myself, and I treat people how I want to be treated. So I have very high expectations because I know what I deserve, as soon as I realise someone isn’t giving me the same energy back or not meeting my standards, I leave immediately. Therefore, there’s no chance for me to get disappointed. It’s a hard skill to master, but as soon as I notice the first red flag.. I LEAVE. even if it’s very very small.

[@Omo_no]

At this point write a book or start a podcast😍😍😍

[@tori_temi]

PATTERN OVER "POTENTIAL"!!! That point ehn, needs to be crafted in my head, cause when one catches unnecessary feelings like this you'll start seeing unnecessary vision

[@francestheodore]

Haha you so right. Best of luck

[@divarlyasmr]

😂😂

[@LifeofRachelJulius]

My mom and I watched this video and it’s beautiful and educative like Frances wowwwwwwww😭😭this is so helpful

[@blessingtenumah3756]

Be with someone that makes you better❤️🥰 ...learnt that

[@wisestsolomon]

Francesca Theodore! this is so insightful! anytime you talk it feels unreal, too much wisdom for a 23-year-old!!!!!!!. you are my favorite KZbinr and I love you soooooo much! I am really hoping to meet you in a mall or somewhere. Love you! 😘

[@onyinyeanigbogu8380]

'See finish is the act by which someone sees you finish'😂😂😂😂

[@francestheodore]

The only explanation I had loool

[@Joyledi]

See finish is an Act by which someone sees you finish.. honestly you speak Truth

[@elizabethonwuli908]

Your the perfect definition of beauty with brain

[@cynthiapeter3289]

Omg this video is everything!! Write down who you are, and who you want because to be honest it goes way beyond looks

[@francestheodore]

It really does!

[@offorcynthia6524]

Your puns are on fire😂😂😂 You legit said “I’m researching even if you’re stalking your ex all na research”🤣🤣🤣 Loved and enjoyed this Hope to see more contents like this❤️❤️❤️

[@Tiana608]

Each time I watch a video of yours I see so much of myself. Loved watching this♥️♥️♥️

[@Big_Mims]

See finish is the act by which someone sees you finish 😂😂😂 I'm laughing so hard🤣

[@ogo-oluwatoluwani9793]

You've gotten me hooked on your channel, FT. Found you a few days ago and I've been binge watching

[@everythinglayemi__]

‘MVisualizing the future when you are dating and always being available that’s so me😩😩😩.. I actually need to stop it😪

[@Bibzthebarb]

I don’t even take anyone seriously until they pop the question

[@Kelceee]

I'm waiting for you to have a podcast, because like whattt !! 🚀❤️

[@danielskenneth2988]

Thanks for the tips tho.. Scarcity is Value FT 2021✨✨✨

[@francestheodore]

Word!!

[@sandraaddai275]

Literally the best video I’ve watched ina while. Very educative

[@Somaga_u]

Girl you're so funny and intelligent. Love you tons

[@francestheodore]

Thanks so much

[@Keji386]

This is literally my favorite video here …watched more than 3times🥰🥺

[@LifewithVee2]

Girllll you don’t know what you’ve done for me, thank you 😊

[@ginikaokonkwo6177]

I loved every word you said dear. I can truly relate to most of the things you said and I have learnt the hard way in some situations and I know better now. Thank you dear for this amazing video👌🏽

[@francestheodore]

You’re always welcome. I wish you the best of luck

[@mathewokafor]

Being too available makes most guys bored of you true, I can relate

[@francestheodore]

Big facts

[@Being_mayree]

This was helpful Frances💯 see me reflecting on the past and reasoning alot of event that has happened 😞… I downloading this right away!! Thanks for the knowledge shared💛

[@francestheodore]

Anytime love. X

[@womenwhodate7643]

"The potential I always tell you guys to watch people's pattern and not judge their potential. Why? When you watch pattern, you actually see who they are." Yo Frances, super valuable and interesting content. Keep it up!

[@daniediabasi9632]

People generally lack conscience. There's nothing wrong in you treating people the way you want to be treated and there's nothing wrong in expecting. What's wrong is when the other person doesn't even make the least effort. In short, go for someone that values you, when you meet them you would know, they would literally treat you like an egg. So open your heart out for good things. You attract who you are. Best of luck 😴

[@danielskenneth2988]

Honestly I love the way you speak so fluently

[@francestheodore]

Thank you

[@pauchidon]

I could really relate to every single one, not just in dating or relationships but also in friendship...... don't expect much from anyone cause they're human

[@francestheodore]

True facts

[@Dabbyfa8]

This is really just for me and I learnt a lot here babe thanks 🙏 for this key points Cause it’s really helps us to place our values right and know that the actual goals and obligations that stands with us.

[@francestheodore]

You so welcome love

[@Drealyou25]

This was really helpful to me, I have been listening and watching your KZbin videos and I must say they are very educating and interesting too. God bless you .

[@toluwanitoluhi]

Wisdom basically oozes out from this babe abeg

[@francestheodore]

Bless you

[@sandranwachi]

Omg you're IGBO . I didn't see that coming! This is the first time I'm actually commenting on KZbin. Girl, I love you!

[@ogbobenidebra5272]

Girl I feel this you talking to me directly This message is on point💯💯

[@francestheodore]

I’m so glad!

[@michaelsharon9584]

I’m glad you did this OMG 🥺🥺🥺i learnt so many things from this video 🥺you always speak sense 😩😩thank you so much

[@francestheodore]

Bless you!!

[@Warrisfinest]

Honestly speaking.. I really needed to see this 😍 All the points made so much sense and I can totally relate, and then the edits , the ads , the natural and chic vibes 😻 Girllllll you da best 🧡🧡

[@francestheodore]

OMG thank you. I’m glad you did!

[@comfortchika9837]

Okay so me and my bf have been dating for like a few months now And rn we are kinda distance cause of my work So his birthday yeah is before mine and mine is like the next month so for his birthday I like put in effort to get him something he really likes Normally when I like someone like aloooot which barely happens I buy them stuff to show that I appreciate them So now my birthday comes and no gift yeah and like this is an entirely diff month no gift too and like it made me feel somehow cause I’m an intentional person so I could randomly gift you and do stuff for you And like should I bring this up or I should just let it slide Mind you this is our first birthday together

[@daniediabasi9632]

I've been there, even if you bring it up, he would come up with excuses for the next time. People generally lack conscience. There's nothing wrong in you treating people the way you want to be treated and there's nothing wrong in expecting. What's wrong is when the other person doesn't even make the least effort. In short, go for someone that values you, when you meet them you would know, they would literally treat you like and egg. So open your heart out for good things. You attract who you are. Best of luck 😴

[@adwoablossom4741]

FRANCESTHEODORE OMO 😫❤️I’m obsessed 😍

[@Havilaheyo]

Omo This is crazyyy!!..it's this being relatable and accurate for me❤

[@_Valerie]

Frances!!! Can we get a makeup tutorial?? Because….🤩🤩

[@francestheodore]

Aww I’ll definitely give that a lot of thought

[@Tiana608]

We don’t skip ads over here

[@okponyiaprecious9392]

You are so brilliant I learn a lot for you and feel like we can be bffs😂😍

[@nicoleatuhaire8303]

Thanks Frances 💛 Great advice 👏 I really need to lower my expectations cheiii 😂

[@morrisdavid9063]

Your vlog can never be boring to me keep it up dear🥺😍😍❤️

[@francestheodore]

Thank you so much!

[@shethemoment6957]

How can I like this video twice?😩

[@ayomidekoledoye7164]

“Wake up and grind if even if it’s pepper” word🤌✨❤️

[@comfortchika9837]

This was so knowledgeable tbh

[@innerpeace9824]

This was my first time watching one of your videos and honestly it was such a breath of fresh air! New subscriber already!!

[@carolinenimbyen9595]

Scarcity brings Value

[@blessingajeh4851]

God bless you for these tips. You've said it all❤

[@africangirl189]

Far from thinking about dating am just thinking about going to back and living my life ...this dating thing still not in me.

[@vinehenshaw420]

Scarcity adds value… IKDR!!!

[@SpotlessTalk-c3k]

The audio quality is top notch love,do you mind sharing the make of microphone👏🏻

[@maryjanefidelis4915]

Omg!! Babe you're so real... Honestly this vlog is everything 💖

[@eliocosmetics2315]

It’s the shoot your shot giving James Bond vibes for me 😹

[@francestheodore]

Looool I had to be dramatic

[@theangelehis9307]

You’re so insightful 📝📌

[@pauchidon]

I really loved this video Frances, it is an eye opener👍👍

[@shethemoment6957]

The lemme just calm down part killed me 😭

[@cedric_erasmus]

Scarcity is value

[@YaaAntwi_]

Rushed from ig 💃🏽❤️

[@francestheodore]

Heyyyy

[@aisosaomoegbee5844]

You spoke so much sense

[@chiamakailomuanya1692]

And that's that on that on today's TEDtalk.

[@francestheodore]

Yesss loool

[@emmanuelrosemary8970]

just imagine someone who knows ure in d office working and expect u to be available for him. like can call u more than 10times when ure in office. when u dont pick the call probably he start having imagination...maybe she is cheating. like i dont know if its obsession, love or insecurity. sometimes i get tired of the relationship and he comes up with the if i leave him he is going to die or hurt himself and its going to be on me. he is caring ye and sweet too. buh he just too everywhere. because of him i dont have friends and cant even mingle with anybody. i cant go anywhre on my own...he must go wit me. if i go on my own ...he will find me to where i am and possibly bug me with plenty calls and video calls.

[@spicy_winnie5823]

Omo that's obsession 🙂

[@TochiEmenine]

17:04 YESSSSS !!! FACTSSSSSSSSS !!!!! the last one is most important.

[@francestheodore]

Yessss

[@enwukwefavour7691]

Wish I saw these earlier not still late ngl love it ❤️❤️❤️

[@yemisido]

I am for this energy 😍🔥 Sweet points 👌🏾

[@nmesomaihunna801]

DAT daydreaming shit always get me😂😂😂

[@everythingandanythingchann1257]

What do you think ...about calling.How much calls do you think should be done? And the times..I dunno just confused

[@Omo_no]

Editing 🙌🏿💯💯💯💯

[@favouralo171]

I wish you made this vlog earlier, because I got ghosted by the guy I was dating,but then I'm glad I watched it .......I've learnt a lot thanks Frances. God bless you

[@francestheodore]

God bless you too b. & kindly don’t blame yourself for people’s actions. Something better will come by

[@SandraMensah-z1s]

Preach on sis

[@lisaskepe_Amisu]

Sooo informative thanks Gal and much love😍😍😍😍😍

[@symplytovia6970]

I literally love you

[@bella_d_gem]

All the points are so valid and reassuring that I’m doing some things right and wrong... thanks boo.

[@francestheodore]

You so welcome!

[@johngift1265]

Girl l legit learnt a lot from this video thanks a lot 🙏💗

[@francestheodore]

You so welcome

[@Xtephernie]

You are smart and you speak so well ❤️

[@sofiyataminu1139]

Hahaha research na research😂😂.. even if I’m stalking my exes new girl. Noted👍👍

[@u__oma]

Always giving us bangers while looking so pretty 😍😍😍😍

[@chadiaxo]

Really loved and enjoyed your video💯❤️, but that star sign stuff is BS

[@_Valerie]

It’s when she brought the food in place of cane for me 😂😂

[@francestheodore]

Haha enjoyment

[@shethemoment6957]

I needed to hear thissss

[@kikiemma__]

Pen and paper out📝 let’s jot down!💃🏼

[@emmanuelrosemary8970]

what do you think of a man that is obssessed about you...want to take u to work and bring u back home. always calling you 247. very insecured that he forced u to leave his call open when u done having a conversation so that he can be sure no man is flirting wit you. check your phones almost everyday...i mean all social media platform. get angry if i have a friendly chat with any guy on my social media. also abusive with words and trying to change you to be the person he want and thinks its a favour.

[@morrisdavid9063]

Girllll you’re so goood like 🥶🥶😍😍

[@hoyin_a]

I'm so glad you did this Very needed

[@TochiEmenine]

To find the right person isn't easy but it's good to try. I've said my own 😂.

[@francestheodore]

Before you try, you need these insights

[@TochiEmenine]

@@francestheodore exactly. Yes

[@VeraNdoe]

I really love this ♥️♥️♥️ Thank you 🥰

[@darlenenelson8151]

Nice. You believe so much in the star sign, is it always accurate?

[@spicy_winnie5823]

Yes it is

[@folajay8280]

Pure facts..I LOVE this!!!🔥❤💓

[@Kanyinsolax]

I love love this videos!! These points are so helpful!0

[@emmanuelrosemary8970]

i really need advice..how do i pull out of this whole situation because im no longer happy anymore. i want to be free and i love to be free and he has taken that from me.

[@sylviacitlali1179]

I was always available to my ex, always making efforts and everything,he disrespects me , I settled for less even up to when I broke up with him,he never owned up his actions, even disrespected me too, I just regret it I have blocked him though and moved on but I feel used and stupid 😔

[@bubba283]

Same here when dating my ex gf, I was never enough, we eventually split. I later started dating a guy soon after that I'd met, so far everything is going good, it's just tough hiding it

[@roberrt_solomon]

IF YOU WANT CRAZY, I WILL SHOW YOU CRAZY!!!!! Yasssssssss Queen!!!! Yassssssss!!!!!!!!

[@francestheodore]

Hahaaaa y’all like crazy

[@lolaasha]

There is no lie here like you said the fact I usually look at potential than pattern and things get ugly cuz I later regret when I later look at the patten and see that it's not for me month and years wasted

[@francestheodore]

I pray that doesn’t repeat itself. You deserve better

[@stellainyamah2904]

Loved it and it was quite brief

[@gracee2935]

You're like my big sis!!!!.. Love

[@francestheodore]

Love you x