What to Do When A Stranger Approaches You At a Gas Station

[@larrysfarris]

Excellent advice. This happened to me (us) in Dallas. My wife was filling up the car; I was the passenger. Guy (young fellow) on a motorbike pulled up to the pump behind us. I don’t know if he didn’t see me or what but he approached my wife, asking her for money to put some gas in his motorcycle. I didn’t really think anything about him (he had pulled up to a gas pump as normal) until he engaged my wife, asking for money. I immediately hopped out of the car and uncovered the shirttail concealing my holstered EDC and made sure he saw it. (You can do this in Texas, without worrying about “brandishing” because Texas allows concealed or open carry). I loudly warned him to back away from my wife and that we had no money for him. He saw the holstered pistol and immediately began to back away... all the while claiming, “Hey man I just needed a buck or two for some gas.” [I suspect he had a purse grab & snatch planned as his motorcycle faced in the direction for a fast and seemless get away; full face-covering helmet on the whole time]. WMart middle of the day.

[@twodogs9961]

When they approach you ask them for something first. Cigarettes, cash, food, doesn't matter. This will really confuse them, and it's fun.

[@JorgeRojas-ut3wj]

LOL Perfect. I'll have to try it sometime.

[@bonesely9858]

@@JorgeRojas-ut3wj You're going to try to get mugged?

[@JorgeRojas-ut3wj]

@@bonesely9858 Are you off in the head, boy? A liitle slow in the noggin? Because I see no other explanation as to why you'd extrapolate that from what either of us said.

[@bonesely9858]

@@JorgeRojas-ut3wj don't take to much offense from someone on the internet when they reply sarcastically to you, it exposes your insecurities.

[@JorgeRojas-ut3wj]

@@bonesely9858 My advice to you; wit is not one of your strong points. It didn't come across at all, so don't use it.

[@tarpusable]

Happened to me in the middle of the day, downtown Wichita, KS. Two guys watching me across the street use a credit card to fill my car up...one goes around the front of the car the other approached me from around the back, both hands inside his coat. "Got a dollar"? They weren't there for a dollar, they were there to jack my ass. Simply reaching around back and putting my hand on my weapon (4:30) they both stopped right where they were and of course acted like I was the one out of line. Close as I have ever come to drawing a gun on someone and couldn't stop shaking the rest of the day. Make sure you don't get tunnel vision and focus on one, they often work in pairs.

[@slundgr]

Good thing you were paying attention to your surroundings. Thankfully nothing else happened. Guess Wichita is not like it used to be years ago.

[@armadasinterceptor2955]

To bad you did not kill them.

[@ryanestes7331]

@@armadasinterceptor2955 killing someone for the suspicion of a crime? Not a good look pal

[@armadasinterceptor2955]

@@ryanestes7331 It was lining up perfectly, your just to afraid to pull the trigger.

[@dubnr3d]

@@armadasinterceptor2955 You're suggesting murder. You're a bad person.

[@paulpugh2480]

Its a big inconvenience to top off your tank when its half full but you pick the station and then time instead of the car picking the time and place. Try to think ahead.

[@humblebeginnings8328]

This is smartest comment I’ve read. Avoid the creepy stations by getting your gas even when you may not necessarily need it. Common sense.

[@DougHinVA]

keep the tank full in case you are stuck in a traffic backup and your fuel pump works less with a full tank than with a tank 3/4 full of air!

[@SgtHulkasToe]

This happened to me last week at a gas station 1/4 mile from my shooting range. My left hand went to my jacket pocket, and my shooting hand went to my hip. The guy got the message real fast.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Glad you came out of the situation safe, SgtHulkasBigToe!

[@sksman71]

USCCA I live in ca.Just a question so if I don't brandish my fire arm out of the holster and just go to the position.Would that be legal?

[@USCCAOfficial]

Sksman, where do you live?

[@sksman71]

USCCA I live in CA.

[@sksman71]

USCCA I'm a USCCA member I just joined over a week ago

[@Shinobi1Kenobi]

Been there...done that, but in broad daylight with my wife and we were nosed into a parking spot in plain view. He actually walked to the back of the SUV and tried to approach me from the blind spot. Same response from me as your friend. His eyes got big, he apologized, and backed off showing me his palms until he was about 30 feet away.

[@MrRebelcowboy32]

Taking the time to read the replies, I've realized I've been in this situation several times since I started driving a truck for a living. The only thing I've noticed and my brother had pointed out most won't approach me because of the way I carry myself when I get out of my truck. He says the way he felt was I wasn't in a good mood and it would be best to just leave me alone. He was on the truck riding with me when we had this discussion. Since then I guess he's right because after he mentioned it I started watching people closer and I've noticed the ones that would approach had no ill will but they were extremely cautious approaching me and wouldn't come within arms reach of me without permission. I guess when you carry yourself in a manner that let's everyone know that you don't have time they tend to stay back.

[@doctorartphd6463]

That's why I exercise and pump iron (for last 50 yrs ) as I am in mid-60's. Look strong, carry yourself well, have confidence, stay armed, no worries. Besides, working out with weights is good sense all around, anyway !! Stay tough, everyone !! Veteran - Montana.

[@slundgr]

@@doctorartphd6463 Totally agree. I’m in my sixties and still hit the weights and walk my dog for about an hour each day. Body language is important. Semper Fi

[@doctorartphd6463]

@@slundgr Semper Fi, my brother.

[@slundgr]

@@doctorartphd6463 I'm your huckleberry. 😀 Love the profile picture.

[@larrysfarris]

@@slundgr At almost seventy and after four hernia operations (the last one taking five hours), I tend to not “pump iron” anymore like some of the other commentators. Basically, I just have to depend on situational awareness and my LTC/EAC. Good luck to the OP’s truck driving brother; hope he keeps awareness of his surroundings upper most in mind! 👍

[@robertl.hartleyii6008]

"No cash man, no cash" it has work for me literally hundreds of times

[@Hydehunt]

I ALWAYS say I dont carry cash, sorry.

[@randyjones2721]

Watched this about 10 minutes after my wife left to visit family near Chicago. Last thing I told her was remember to start looking for gas at a quarter tank so she could pick a decent place. Also reminded her to gas up along the interstate at a large place that had a decent number of people there. Avoidance. Otherwise all good advice.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Definitely good advice Randy. I seem to recall a USCCA trip to a convention a year or two ago where we had to stop for fuel in a neighborhood that was on hard times because we took the wrong exit. Let's just say that we were definitely situationally aware there. :)

[@Julian-bq9qv]

Yes - I tell all the women I know that if they are under a half tank, I will be happy to give them enough to fill the tank. I think all women should maintain at least half a tank at all times.

[@Julian-bq9qv]

BTW - at one time, driving very late at night on an interstate, a truck had jackknifed and the few cars on the road were all being diverted by police to an exit ramp, and told to get back on the interstate at the next on ramp. But where we got off - wow!!! It was a very nasty area, there were groups of men drinking wine on the corner - this is about two a.m. - and there were traffic lights every block. Houses with windows knocked out, poor lighting. I was not paranoid but I assure you my .45 was in my lap the whole time. I felt MUCH relief when I was out of that area.

[@TomRolfson]

My GF (to her credit) is fanatical about not going below half a tank. I on the other hand...well, I don't run it to the warning light coming on, but will go to an 1/8th and base my stops on convenience rather than safety. Just because of this video, for HER comfort I'll likely start fueling a little sooner.

[@TomRolfson]

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[@deebee4575]

I always carry pepper spray in my left front pocket, append carry my G19 on the right. If they don’t stop approaching they get sprayed. The rest is up to them. ALWAYS carry a non lethal option as well as a lethal one.

[@carbonr6r410]

Non lethal are them hands

[@deebee4575]

@@carbonr6r410 You go ahead and get all dirty and muddy. I’m not getting my clothes all mussed up and bloody. I got things to do.

[@rangersmith4652]

Your best non-lethal option is using good judgement that allows you to avoid situations like this in the first place.

[@Chuckwagon524]

This is very common how carjackings happen in Detroit. I would add to put the pump or your car in between them if possible. Sometimes gas pumps have large cement or metal supports to hold the awning up and protect the pumps. This would also provide cover. The important thing is when you are approached like this, is that many times the person approaching you may be a distraction. So be alert for other cars and people. I've seen many robbery and shooting videos where people were distracted or ambushed from behind.

[@MrRebelcowboy32]

I've never had an issue in Detroit but I think for me is my reputation when I was young and dumb. Since driving a truck I have people walk up on me Panhandling all the time. Usually I just look at them as they're walking and let them see I'm not in a good mood. It usually turns them away. When the look doesn't work, I just tell them turn and walk away it's best for everyone. My calm tone and my look tends to make them leave me alone.

[@GaveMeGrace1]

Thank you

[@goldeneye8702]

Just happened to me last Wednesday in mid town Harrisburg Pa. I was approached by would be perp when going inside to pay cash for gas in broad daylight. Perp; in wimpy drugged up voice, “sir can I ask you for something?” Me, “No!” Perp, ok, thank you, and went on his way. Your demeanor, how you carry yourself, has a lot to do with how many of these encounters play out.

[@robbie9118]

Unless my vehicle breaks down, I do not have to stop anywhere. I always keep the fuel at above 1/4 tank. Avoid has worked for me numerous times. When approached by a panhandler, I tell them I have nothing for them before they get too close. Many times they will try to get closer and your friend's technique works great.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Great tips, Robbie! It sounds like you like to stay prepared!

[@gayle3860]

Good scenario. Eye contact and loud, strong command to stop.

[@SWOLLACE]

This happened to me not too long ago. I feel communication is the best thing to do at first. Just talk normal and try to deescalate the situation. If the person makes a gesture or remark to become a threat then it comes down to your training of a fast draw and movement to get ready to defend yourself.

[@jasoncook7431]

There's a lot that can go wrong by doing this. If this person continues to approach you, he/she has called your bluff. Now what? You can't pull that firearm without probable cause. Now say they attack you and you shoot them. They turn out not to be armed. As John Correia says, carry OC spray for those times between a harsh word and a gun and avoid doing something you may regret for the rest of your life.

[@theodorecendejas1343]

In CALIFORNIA in the BAYAREA OAKLAND. THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME..

[@yru435]

I think it is a great idea to train ourselves to look for options, to look for solutions to scenarios. It seems like a good state of mind, and complements a situational awareness attitude. Obviously it isn't always possible to avoid bad situations, but people need to make travel and location choices with safety in mind. I think it needs to be said: make it a point to not put yourself in situations like the gas station late at night, or convenience stores at 2:00AM, or the shortcut through the sketchiest part of town. Do the things in your life that help you stay out of potentially dangerous situations.

[@robinl6659]

Absolutely! I discuss this regularly.

[@rangersmith4652]

Never get below 1/4 full, and avoid fueling at night if you have a choice--you almost always do. Choose a station that's well-lit and attended, preferably one where other cars are being fueled. When you get out to refuel, lock the doors behind you. If someone approaches in a manner that gives you the willies, click off the pump and quickly head inside. To reiterate: Don't ever get so low on fuel that you can't be selective in where you stop, and never refuel where there's no inside attendant. Just don't. Be smart and be safe. Use good judgement. Avoid adding risk that you didn't have to add.

[@k9er233]

Great advice.

[@markgoostree6334]

I've used the same hand signal with "I've got NOTHING for YOU". Worked.

[@robertfinch2449]

THAT IS THE BEST SOLUTION MOST OF THE TIME IF YOU USE A VOICE OR COMMAND OF AUTHORITY PEOPLE WILL SEE AND HEAR AND NORMALLY TAKE HEED TO THAT, THIS WAS A GREAT VIDEO AND TESTAMONY HERE

[@robcart9447]

Great Stuff! I am so glad we have situational videos like this one that people can use to sharpen up their instincts.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Thanks for the feedback!

[@oldcop18]

I always tell the person to stop, get away from me and put my hand in my pocket where my gun is carried. This has worked both times I’ve found myself in this circumstance.

[@jefferyneedham1581]

When I'm at a gas station I purposely park my vehicle on a angel so that while I'm pumping gas they cant come from behind and my doors are locked with the drivers door open so that they can't come to me without closing the door first. I always carry and I'm a disabled Marine.. Just thought it might help someone out there with ideas on safety..

[@dinamoore1580]

they come at you with needles to stick you.

[@lancecochrane9302]

Always carry two other items, a high intensity flashlight AND pepper spray. If you feel the need to take action pepper spray at a safe distance could keep you from the nightmare of having to use your firearm..

[@dennismcclain1931]

The flashlight is doable but were I am I can't legally carry mace, let alone a firearm. So I'd be in a situation were most criminals do carry firearms or a knife so all I can do is be aware of my surroundings and avoid late night fuel stops to lower the risk.

[@kennethmcfarland8478]

Using your weapon should be the criminals nightmare. But Uncle Sam says your the one that’s bad.

[@DerilVStubenrod]

I wear a suit for work. This has happened to me more than once. Last summer however, I saw a man approach a woman and she told him to stop. He didn't heed her warning - but he heeded mine. I told him that "she was asking, I'm giving you a direct order! Back off!!"

[@unastamus6122]

Chivalry is NOT dead!!

[@DerilVStubenrod]

@@unastamus6122 good morning. I guess it’s a Marine thing. My protective instincts just kicked in big time.

[@unastamus6122]

@@DerilVStubenrod Good morning. Thank you, kindly, for your service! Although she did not use the specific word, my grandmother insisted I be chivalrous from boyhood. I can still see her standing at the front door to Dayton's (downtown Minneapolis) waiting for me to open it for her then chiding me, "You'd better open the door for a lady." My career as a LEO (retired) reinforced Grandma's upbringing.

[@DerilVStubenrod]

@@unastamus6122 your grandmother and my grandfather sound the same. My grandfather used to always say that you defend those who need or ask for your help. I see your point about chivalry and how it applies here. For me, it was also about a matter of honor as well.

[@tomparker8932]

Once carrying groceries into an apartment from the car a guy who was unsuccessfully panhandling approached me from behind when i refused to give him money. I dropped the groceries turned around produced the 45 from waistband and racked one. He put his hands over his face and began running in place. I came within a millimeter of shooting him BUT merely told him to leave pronto and he ran away. Several other incidents by bums or motorists approaching the vehicle...they kinda got the picture when i racked one again and left. Just make sure you don't shoot your hand off if a perp approaches and you lift it up and command him/her to stop...however do NOT instigate a situation.

[@tomparker8932]

I am a member of USCCA and respect the conditions yet things can change rapidly without much warning soooooo keep alert and don't welcome trouble is my advice.

[@douggraham5812]

You should have a round already chambered.

[@TheDunestrider]

There is a gas station near me where I usually get my gas. Practically EVERY SINGLE TIME I have some bum asking me for some money. One time it was somebody who drove up in a vehicle. I tell them all of the places I know that are hiring. And that is a LOT of places.

[@danqodusk8140]

Good scenario, and great choice of options!

[@chesshead3943]

Great scenario, thank you!

[@rakeemboatman9044]

I did not expect this video to be like this but the best thing to do when you’re at a hood store full of panhandlers is to look like you don’t wanna talk to anybody and ignore them.

[@mikesmith-wk7vy]

I just close my door and lock it while the pump is on , it clicks off when it’s done it minimizes my time at risk

[@rangersmith4652]

You mean you get back in the car? That's unsafe. You must monitor that pump in case there is a malfunction. Period.

[@darrennew8211]

@@rangersmith4652 That's what mirrors are for. I used to pump gas for a living, thousands of gallons an hour, and I never once saw a gas pump malfunction to where it spilled the gas.

[@rangersmith4652]

@@darrennew8211 I have two, and I've never pumped gas for a living. You've been lucky.

[@darrennew8211]

@@rangersmith4652 I guess figuring out how to put the nozzle in correctly is in order. ;-)

[@frankonolfi1966]

All types of scams at gas stations

[@yuvgotubekidding]

Any one with good intentions or in real need would not corner someone at a gas station.

[@inyourdefense0]

Step #1: Give "the look"; if approach continues, Step #2: Deliver "STOP!" command; if approach continues, Step #3: if approach continues, Blade stance and make it obvious that your strong hand is covering a firearm; if approach continues, Step #4: draw to low-ready; if approach continues, FIRE

[@TomRolfson]

I agree with both techniques and ultimately would make the call depending on the person's size, stature and demeanor. To the best of my knowledge there IS no law for brandishing a weapon in WI. It goes from "you've shown it" to "DA decides if it was a threat, assault or move of self-defense" I think if you're in low-ready it's your best bet. Quite ironic, as the thugs don't know it... but at 6'3" 200lbs my stature helps but I have 15 pieces of titanium in my neck that prevent taking any kind of hit. Then we get into "equalization of force", because of my handicap am I easier justified in using OR displaying a firearm? The bottom line: It's still a situational call, but the actions of strong verbal commands and body language are your best start. Thugs are looking for victims not a fight.

[@streetfighteralpha9891]

If only it was that simple. Walking towards you isn’t deadly threat even if you tell them not to.

[@markanthony5582]

agree mostly, but you cant justify firing your gun if your life or great bodily harm was not at stake, depends on the body/verbal language of the person.

[@k1mgy]

How do you know they are a panhandler? Never build your perception and response on an assumption.

[@slundgr]

How do you know they’re not? Trust your gut

[@GaveMeGrace1]

Thank you- hard to know how much defensive, how much spare change, and how much Gospel to share during these events... trust the gut.

[@frankbutta9344]

I have NO problems keeping my hand on my pistol when pumping gas, and other similar situations. I’m 6’2” and muscular, so I’ve never been threatened. One situation that sticks out more than pumping gas, is putting air in tires. It’s likely that your shirt will lift, and reveal your pistol. That’s definitely a time for situational awareness, and keeping your hand firmly on the holstered weapon.

[@markanthony5582]

keep an air compressor in your trunk so you don't have to stop at a gas station, you're an easy target when you're distracted by filling up a tire. better to fill up in space of your choosing than a gas station where predators tend to hang around.

[@darrennew8211]

That *definitely* sounds like the kind of thing you can put off until you're in a busy daytime place.

[@atravers349]

Simple solution; Don't wait until your tank is almost empty!

[@centuryt7043]

Perfect situation for a non-lethal tool, namely pepper spray.

[@willaimrobinson9383]

For me, I guess first thing is keep eye contact ( and also check for anyone else behind or near you. Next, try to keep "anything between you and he. the gas pump the gas hose , or move to put at least part of the car between you. (The door or move around back). Draw your phone before the gun. Let him know you are recording and 911 call is next. You can even bluff and say the 911 call is for your safety not mine. You could also put a few bucks on the car between you, then put your hand on your weapon and step back. If he really just needs help with a little cash, he`ll take it and thank you for it, if not you will now know his intentions and have space and time to plan an appropriate defense.

[@zachwulf-americanpatriot5015]

My personal choice of verbal communication: Person casually approaches: says Excuse me.. Me: What can I do for you sir? (Watch the hands and make sure nobody is trying to come up behind you if u can.) Casually take a step back. Person: Oh I was wondering if you have a cigarette or any bud on you.... Me: No I do not sir.( firmly and sternly if needed) Person: Oh ok, ..stands there..... Me: Have a good day sir, or Carry on sir.. I create distance ASAP.!! if Person is very persistent and rude...and somewhat agitated STOP, REMOVE YOUR HANDS FROM YOUR POCKETS.... steps closer...DO NOT MOVE!!! MOVE AND YOU WILL BE SPRAYED! DO U UNDERSTAND ME? WALK AWAY FROM ME NOW!!! etc.. Yes this sounds like what a LEO would say but honestly, using a voice like that may increase your odds in my opinion.

[@bonesely9858]

This is exactly what happened to me and exactly how I responded. Outside of a liquor store at night, I saw the guy hanging around after I pulled into the parking spot. When I came out, I didn't see him so thought nothing about it, just remained aware. Loaded the beer in the back of the vehicle when I could see him through the windshield walking at the front of my vehicle. Because I was parked next to another there was only 2 ways out 1. towards him or 2. towards the rear of the vehicle. I looked over my shoulder to make sure he didn't have a friend and walked backwards to the corner of the rear bumper. He was now walking between my truck and the car looking me straight in the eyes and mumbling I put my left hand up, pushed my right hand around the open front of my coat and on the grip of my gun at the 4 o'clock and said "I'm not the kind of M****rF****r you mess with". Luckily it was enough to make him take off. I was lucky he wasn't suicidal because he was obviously high. One other observation was he had to be hiding between my drivers door and the next car because I didn't see him until I opened the passenger back door to put the beer in, It must have been where he was going to ambush me. I believe it was one of those 3 million crimes that was deterred by law abiding armed citizens.

[@markruby9119]

love the video. I've been put in that situation several times with strangers coming up ask him money. on occasion I give him some change but now knowing what the possibility is in this day and date I will no longer be a target. I carry a Taurus 738 TCP 380 auto most of the time in the pocket, I sometimes carry my Ruger 357 Magnum but after change the grips as they are too sticky for the pocket doesn't slide in and out too good. anyway thanks for the video I'll be more careful next time and if I have to shoot someone I will without a doubt and not hesitate

[@toastyghostyofdeath3909]

Saw a video of this once. Some guys drove up to a dude at a gas station while he was getting gas to what I presume was steal his car or mug him. The dude may or may not have been armed but he definitely didn't have time to draw if he was. His response to these three people rushing him from both sides was to hose them down with gasoline. He sprayed them until they retreated back into there van and left. I always remember this when getting gas in the case something Similar happens and I can't get to a weapon. Absolutely though this might not work. While many people may retreats when being sprayed with gas some might not. Also with the cost of gas now, the dude could have bought a whole new gun for what he just spent on gas.

[@darrennew8211]

I'd be more worried about the people who are high that want your money for drugs. It can be difficult to deter someone who is literally out of their mind.

[@thesisypheanjournal1271]

"Dude, if you step one inch closer Imma spray you with gasoline."

[@larrypowers2515]

I had a panhandler approach me at the gas pump begging for change. I told him to get lost.

[@randyreaves3601]

I always love your shows. Keep them coming.

[@michaeldesanta977]

*Panhandler:* _"Hey man, can you spare some cash?"_ *Me:* _"Je ne parle pas Anglais, je suis Québécois, je parle Français."_

[@stewslogisticsllc9460]

Advise them to stay away, prepare myself for a defensive situation.

[@darrenhooper9050]

Nice...

[@um5785]

As the vagrant approached I pulled out my taser like device and struck an ark while he/she was 30-40 feet away, they chose to leave. Perhaps not the best choice considering where I was, but I no one was injured. Another time I slid my hand in a manner that implied my cane was a pump action shot gun, didn't have a gun on or in my possession at the time, just in case leo inquired.

[@alexiskiger6440]

Ima stop her at 1:55. You shouldn’t make it known you have a gun, especially if you don’t know if they’re armed or not. You should always comply. Whether they’re asking for your wallet, money, etc. then as they’re distracted, you reach for your gun

[@JaneDoe-xn3ct]

I always fill my gas ⛽️ tank up when I have 1/4 tank of gas!

[@humblebeginnings8328]

It’s a fine line depending on your personality. I have a big heart for people in need, but I also carry and don’t trust people the way I did in the 80s and 90s. I give verbal commands in a normal tone such as that’s close enough can I help you with something? This has worked for me, and I’ve practiced my draw a million times. Always be in condition yellow, and plan ahead. Get gas even if you don’t really need it to avoid bad areas.

[@ChrisNieves]

he obviously isnt conditioned like i am here in Philadelphia, thats almost everyday here.

[@MsRandiCook]

Great video!

[@BubbaBlackmon]

This situation worked out fine but what if the person keeps walking towards you but doesnt display a weapon ? This is where a non deadly force backup could be important. I dont want to explain to a prosecutor why i shot an unarmed guy who approached me later to find out he was just drunk or what ever.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Great point Bubba. Having multiple ways to defend yourself is a great idea.

[@CNT12696]

That's where I would use the gas pump

[@marianohernandez198]

But how about if he doesn't back up what would you do

[@romewasnotbuiltinaday]

Better check your state laws on this one. If her friend brandished his weapon on a guy who just walked up to him without a weapon her friend could get charged with aggravated assault where I live. If you're not in a stand your ground state you're supposed to run away.

[@williamhenszlein5032]

Another option is to keep your vehicle between yourself and the perceived threat.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Good tip, William! Creating distance and placing barriers between you and a threat can make a huge difference in your safety.

[@elmeradams8781]

Dang if people at the pump ask me for gas, I just fill up their tank.

[@mrfarts5176]

Rarely do I not help someone that is asking for it. These Christians always like to be ready to bust out their guns though. The hatred I saw within the catholic church turned me into an atheist.

[@mike17032]

Wanna know the best way to get rid of a pan handler? Just tell them you don’t carry cash. 95% of the time that ends the conversation because a real panhandler will move on. If they continue after that, they are not a panhandler and you should assume they intend you harm and act accordingly.

[@shortty7618]

Sorry but if you are panhandling at night at a gas station, you’re sketchy. Recently called non emergency on a guy doing that. Why do you need money on Friday night? You had all day to panhandle bro. Don’t do that sketchy shit in the dark with your hands in your pockets.

[@eisenjeisen6262]

that happen to me and told them not to come closer as he said he needs $2 and he stay away. as i show my gun.

[@paulp1257]

Same scenario happened to me on my way to work at 4:10 AM about a month ago. I responded exactly as your friend did Beth. My actions immediately defused the "could be" aggressor.(I must admit that this guy caught me by surprise. His approached was from a vehicle parked at an adjacent gas pump.)

[@toddjenest3212]

Wearing a "long jacket?" Ohhh, that's stereotyping and good people don't do that. 😜

[@patmaufrais1043]

Great message.

[@Oldguy1900]

I'm a truck driver by trade and I carry, most of my deliveries and pickups are in the state of Washington in the state of Oregon next to California they probably have the largest homeless population and this does happen to me quite a bit. I just make sure I keep them over arms length away from me even if that requires me backing up a little bit that being said the reason I do and this is just for me it's a lot of my shooting practices has what's called the Mozambique drill, that's the original name for it I don't know what other people call it these days, I shouldn't have to explain if you understand what the Mozambique drill is of why this is my practice when dealing with the homeless.

[@richardthomas6602]

In Florida you cannot draw (brandish) your firearm against an unarmed assailant. You have to take the beating.

[@billgarrett1]

Not true.

[@JT-ht6fk]

Disparity of force?

[@richardthomas6602]

@@JT-ht6fk there is no justifiable disparity of force in the context of this video. At least not in the minds of a jury of ones peers. If you don't believe it, take a poll. I vote not justified.

[@pipersmith8676]

Pat my full pockets and pretend they're empty

[@worldunfolds]

Is that Cameron Diaz

[@Blackhawk556.]

I just signed up two days ago. It's one of those products that I hope I never have to use but if I do, USCCA, I hope you come through and do what you say you're going to do for me.

[@USCCAOfficial]

Welcome to the USCCA family, du9207! We hope you never need to use your benefits either, but if you do, we definitely have your back!

[@Blackhawk556.]

USCCA should I have received some type of welcome packet through email or anything?

[@USCCAOfficial]

du9207 - You'll receive a welcome kit in the mail! Please allow 10-15 days for delivery.

[@Keepitoriginalministry]

I don't totally agree with this

[@johnneiberger]

I see so many gun owners these days purposefully putting themselves into dangerous situations that they have no business getting into. I wish they'd watch these videos and get this training. The best kind of fight is the one you're not in. Don't go looking for trouble; look for ways to avoid trouble.

[@christianperkinson497]

I have a couple of problems with that scenario. 1) If it's a "scary" gas station... why did you pull into it unless an emergency. Also you should not have waited so long to put gas in. 2) Situational Awareness would've put you in a better position to deal with it. 3) A pocket pistol? Really? Good luck drawing that in an emergency.

[@OGSontar]

If it's in a coat pocket, shoot through the pocket. Jackets can be replaced.

[@johnsmithjr5498]

"It doesn't matter if they are male or female". Lmao! Because we are all equal.

[@johnsmithjr5498]

In the video she says nothing about a weapon! Maybe you should watch your video

[@iamedbytes]

John Smith jr You were making a point about women being equal. Your assailant, who may or may not be a woman, probably doesn't know that you are carrying a weapon either. Just because you don't see a weapon doesn't mean they aren't armed. Just about anything, used properly, can be a weapon. Gender, size, age within a wider range than you may think or race makes no difference if you are being attacked. In Brazil packs of street kids, boys and girls, with little knives can take everything you have in moments. By the way if you do start hitting the kids larger, older kids will show why that is a bad idea. So women, whether you see a weapon or not are equally dangerous. Who would you let walk up on you a scruffy man or a "helpless, pathetic" little woman?

[@tylerh743]

I wonder how this type of scenario would play out in a "duty to retreat" state like mine. Suppose the person approaches with a knife in hand and an angry look. Am I supposed to abandon my car and belongings? If I drew my firearm would I get in trouble for menacing? In my state the law says I have to make an effort to retreat before using deadly force, so does that mean running on foot away from my car? I just wish the law made it easier for legally armed citizens to defend what is theirs.

[@Shinobi1Kenobi]

I would interpret duty to retreat as moving to a better state ASAP. A long time ago, I lived in a state where duty to retreat applied even inside your own domicile after dark. I was a commissioned LEO in another state and I was living there temp for grad school. When I checked in with the sheriff, he told me about this. I was young. I laughed at him. He chuckled and said, "I know...I know. But I have a duty to inform you. It even applies to us and it's stupid." (meaning his deputies and himself in their own homes) They called it "duty to flee," and he specifically game me the example of bailing out a window and abandoning his own family to home invaders. I got the Hell out of there as soon as my coursework was over and never went back.

[@kennethmcfarland8478]

Crushing laws that bind and otherwise cause the law abider to hesitate is the governments way of punishing us for fighting for our legal right to have guns. They make it almost impossible to own one. And anyone noticing that you have one on you. Will squill like a pig caught in a fence.

[@2901nc]

Respectfully request: your video sound level is much lower than the canned intro. Sound levels should match. Thanks

[@DougMcDave]

I went into a crowded Walmart. Before I could lock, clear, and walk away from my car, a woman came up to me begging for money. The time it takes to stop the car, shut off the engine and exit puts us at a disadvantage! Her man was there with his car. Although I had my pocket pistol I gave in, and have $4 just to get rid of her. I should have them reported them to management. There is no substitute for vigilance.

[@brookeduncan9699]

This is why if you carry a gun you should also carry less lethal options like a flashlight, oc spray, and for god's sake, some sound judgement as it relates to reading people and the context of what they're doing and saying. A gun is a tool of last resort. There are usually better options available than pulling your gun or pantomiming like you're going to pull it out every time some dude living under a bridge asks you for change. Shoot an unarmed homeless vet let's say because he was "coming at you", whatever the hell that means, and you will more than likely be arrested for murder. Think about how things really are as they're happening and be very attuned to how things can be when the dust settles and everyone is thinking rationally.

[@doctorartphd6463]

Or, learn a few good fighting moves for hand-to-hand combat.

[@Karvega11]

You look like Cameron Diaz

[@podsmpsg1]

The Panhandler wants the money for drugs, alcohol and cigarettes. If you say no, what's to stop them from getting angry and becoming physically violent?.

[@MrPuma2072]

STEVE P That's why you carry a gun.

[@paulkillough3781]

All these comments and no one has mentioned besides be aware of your surroundings, also know that if someone becomes overly threatening while your pumping gas you can easily in a swift movement douse the thug with gasoline in the face and or body! My uncle told me back in the 70s he had to do that, so I keep that mind set when fueling if needed. Be sure to hide your keys and valuables in your console or under seat while pumping they’re doing snatch and grab and car jackings. ..I also conceal carry a firearm in my vehicle these days.

[@darrennew8211]

Or put your keys in your pocket. There's no reason to leave them in the car. Most cars these days can lock remotely with a push on the fob, so that eliminates the valuables problem.

[@AllanPowell]

Not to long ago a guy got shot because he didn't have spare change to give a panhandler.

[@steveblomefield9513]

sell your ice vehicle and buy a tesla... you don't need to go to a fuel station

[@slundgr]

No but you need a charging station. How long does it take to charge the batteries and how often do they need to be charged?

[@steveblomefield9513]

@@slundgr Elon's ideal is charging the vehicle at home through rooftop solar and batteries. Many EV owners charge their cars overnight and never go to charging stations. Elon has also added bullet-proof doors and windows on his cybertruck. However, you do have a point. As lawlessness rapidly increases in the USA it is only a matter of time before thieves do holdups at charging stations.

[@slundgr]

@@steveblomefield9513 And what does one do on a road trip in a Tesla? I’ve seen charging stations at stores like Target and my head is on a swivel at those stores.

[@steveblomefield9513]

@@slundgr True. On a road trip, Tesla owners are forced to use charging stations. However, these are not common unless the tesla owner is operating some kind of taxi service..... and ... like I said... it is inevitable that crooks will start to holdup tesla owners. After all, they are more wealthy than most ICE car owners.

[@slundgr]

@@steveblomefield9513 On a road trip how long does it take to charge a Tesla or electric car? I was talking to a guy who worked on Teslas when I was working out one time. I used driving from Denver to Phoenix as an example. In a gas car, I'd fill up a few times on the way. He said one would probably have to stop in Albuquerque and recharge the batteries and wait for that to be done before proceeding on to Phoenix. I saw a video of an electric car's batteries that caught fire, and it was scary. The fire department could not put it out.

[@streetfighteralpha9891]

This video was almost no help. What if the stranger doesn’t stop? What if he doesn’t produce a weapon but says he has one? What if he asks for your stuff with a hand in his pocket? What if there are two strangers? The warning might stop an honest person who is just looking for a handout but it is probably no more useful than a sticker on a door that says “no guns” to a robber. And calling for help? Really? No one you have to call can help you in the moment. Help is just a clean up crew.

[@oldschoolcop8568]

Your best bet to to de escalate the situation, use compassion and give them something. Being stand-off ish can lead to confrontation and it’s not worth shooting someone over nothing. Compare a couple of dollars to a 100,000 retainer fee for a criminal defense attorney after unnecessarily shooting someone over money you were thought to have.

[@joete3324]

I always....always....make sure my tank is no less than half, it is a very scary time, and our justice systems are not black and white. Stay safe! and FREE

[@robertwroblewski1072]

Your lucky you don't live in New York,here at bus stops I'm approached by bums,drugged out idiots,psychopaths daily.they want your money,I say no,if they insist,they find themselves flat on their back, in a lot of pain,unfortunately only launguage some few understand,flat on their back.

[@talkswithhandswhisper649]

Wasnt she in mask? or Charlies angels

[@kipperwhite2976]

Ditto on most of comments also try Loudly ! "Give Me 5 ft NoW" a command fm those that have been N Jail ! Thus the thought U might be a Police Person? or ??

[@orion2250]

I get overtly aggresive...i dominate the situation and conversation.if they pursue the course? i threaten with violence. Helps i am 6 ft and 250 lbs. "They" have called the cops on me for pointing a weapon at their head..i waited for the police and explained what happened.

[@Abruzzo333]

Haha well I've lived in cities for the past 25+ years so I'm not afraid of panhandlers in the least. I'm probably approached by one almost daily and very rarely have I felt threatened by a homeless person. I find this somewhat humorous that people would react this extremely scared of one.

[@floydbraido2426]

👍

[@luckygamer05]

I have no problem helping someone that legitimately needs help. If you need gas, I'll give you a couple of gallons. If you're hungry, I'll buy you a sandwich. But I won't hand over money because you just 'need' money.

[@USCCAOfficial]

That's awesome, John!

[@007cheburashka]

And definitely don't look down when one asks if you have the time..

[@iamedbytes]

John S If you are in the filling station as described in the video being a good Samaritan can be a risky proposition. If you lose distance you may lose much more.

[@luckygamer05]

iamedbytes Very true. In this particular situation, being a good samaritan definitely would be a no go.

[@doctorartphd6463]

I am the same way....... to a point.

[@reuvenhuertas3493]

Gas station the I’m not familiar I’m always if is have to, try to spend the minimum time there, I pump a like 5 to 10 bucks so I could get out get home

[@MrRightNow]

What a bunch of non-advice!!!.. like get ready to draw on anyone who simply speaks to you, telling them to stop?? WTH is wrong with people/society? Stop treating everyone as a criminal, unless they give you a STRONG reason to believe otherwise - might be a good place to start fixing things.

[@crestiesmb75]

This is very silly,I guess you avoid situations if you consider everyone a threat.I grew up in a crime ridden dirty city in NY State so I'm never fearful of stopping at any gas station,more cautious maybe.I usually talk to them for a second while their approaching like ghetto elevator talk,get a feel for um, always having a quick look around to see if anyone else is near(of course) and if I'm comfortable I may give them just change and send them on their way or I'll just say, sorry can't help you out just put my last few bucks in gas... something like that.I do tend to firm my stance but I've never been attacked in these situations.I think calling for help just wastes police officers time if the person didn't even get close to you just drop it, really.