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@J33SS8 ай бұрын
honestly the best thing to do is walk away… and find someone who’s actually ready and willing for a relationship. in my experience waiting around, adapting and acting like u dont want more just leads to dissapointment, him being complacent and taking u for granted.
Honestly, if you find yourself being attracted to emotionally unavailable men, and then trying to adjust your own behavior in hopes of winning his affection, earning his love or somehow changing him (to become someone who finally feels, sees you and openly shows love for you?), then it might be a good idea to reflect on your childhood and ask yourself why you’re doing this..
@vivhiggins5656Ай бұрын
All true!
@alenaadamkova7617Ай бұрын
Even if he is unavailable.... Nobody says you are supposed to get him as a partner, but your classy attitude and non-aggressive attitude will show him and make him remember that one day as he gains his emotional strength and willigness, its possible for him to find true purpose in relationhip no matter whether it will be with you or with some other classy woman. He will remember: I met few classy women who did show me a way, but at that time I wasnt prepared for relationship but he will feel happy that such classy good women exist, who dont punisdh him, who dont force him to be with you, but who give him option to chose from If you remain calm and classy and give him option, to believe in love, it has many values you start liking yourself for being classy calm, not pushy woman, non-judgmental woman, who is able to maintain being calm and happy for your own mental strength second it will make you realise, this way you really inspire men to change and have option, to really chose good women and nolt following some apps you will inspire other women to be classy, not pushy, not judgmental about men and their mental transformation you will increase the possibility to really attract someone who has the same attitude and mindset about relationship. and even if you wouldnt attract good guy, you know that with right mindset you may remain happy even women without man, are able to live happilly, because they have classy and nice girlfriends.
@barbarap.25278 ай бұрын
My situation now and he's in and out. Smh I'm shutting down and not putting no more effort just basic friendship. If he wants me, he needs to put in the work
@raniaabusitta46656 ай бұрын
Any updates ?! Im in same situation 🥲
@shamimabedlatif75933 ай бұрын
Me too I love him but he's doesn't love me it's hurt
@breonaharrison7328 ай бұрын
Why deal with that guy! Just move on…..
@ellenmorse85598 ай бұрын
Run….as fast as you can!
@edzisach20488 ай бұрын
it's excatly my situation now...thanks Alex for this info...
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
I hope this video was able to help you!
@easytosketch5464Ай бұрын
Honestly I really love your advice dearest may God keep blessing you
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Thank you so much! I appreciate you!
@valengracevalenzuela5227 ай бұрын
Alex Tnx you a lot to be honest becouse of you I realize my mistake about relastionship I'm so needy and begging now I slowly understand kick out that kind of emotion I have
@angelinazimmerman95192 ай бұрын
Thank you Alex for helping!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I'm glad this video is able to help you!
@laremi35778 ай бұрын
Emotionally unavailable means he wants sex with no commitment. In reply, just cut his sex meetings, meet in public places, do nonsexual activities and have fun yourself.
@kaseymoscoso8238Ай бұрын
Great advice, so much to remember! Omg! I’m soaking it in! Thank you
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Hi there! Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your support😊
@kaseymoscoso8238Ай бұрын
NP! ☺️
@coco8386Ай бұрын
With emotionally un- available guys, it's really important to talk..........about the weather. And when you want to go deep....ask him... exactly what kind of weather does he like?
@aniabrandt77 күн бұрын
😂
@mamaknow80564 ай бұрын
This is great Alex, gotta enjoy the moment yes 🥰
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@uchemaureen468 ай бұрын
Thanks again, Alex… You helped me yesterday through one of your videos. Instant help! The table turned and I’m here now, a happy woman equipped to know herself more and find her happiness in a relationship and marriage. Thank you, please.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your support! I'm always happy to help!
@vivhiggins5656Ай бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertthank you and true!
@kristinanrs77128 ай бұрын
he was 3 years emotionally unavailable and then it turned out he slept all this time with mother of his kids. Im done.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
@RosieMewan-fg5it2 ай бұрын
Honestly Alex you are doing well,well done png girl ❤❤❤❤
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
@noulee77722 ай бұрын
I’m going through that situation now. He admitted he is hurt from his previous relationship, he scares to be in a relationship. I back out and told him to just want to be friends and not more. Not giving him more than what you cannot handle
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you out!
@user-rl4kp5dh5i3 ай бұрын
So true. I can relate ..😢
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@raphaellaamorim18764 ай бұрын
I've done exactly what you teach here, without knowing! When he said he need a break, he need to breathe, I said to him that I understand, that I have a lot going on in my life too, my job, my hobbies, blablabla. When we talk, we keep a light conversation. He isn't in love again, but he still talking to me, I hope he really change his mind.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
It's good that you keep the conversation light. Let's hope he changes his mind :)
@raphaellaamorim18764 ай бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you! I'm watching your videos, and I can say I've been learning more with you, than any other coach in my country, in my mother language!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@maryhawker50035 күн бұрын
@@raphaellaamorim1876any update? Did he come back around?
@MyAngelina1234 күн бұрын
I'm in the same situation with an avoidant man. He shows interest and initiates all calls and messages but we're not together anymore. He asked to stay friends so I'm being a good friend but he still calls and chats with me in same manner and frequency as when I was his gf. He even introduced me to his childhood besties. I am trying not to be hopeful but it's hard some days 😅😅😅
@blackcarriebradshaw8 ай бұрын
Agreeing that he should take his time allows him space to see other women.
@janetstraw1918 ай бұрын
I simply wouldn’t waste my time!🤷♀️
@elizabethgarcia61602 ай бұрын
Wow!!!!!! Something I was going through yesterday with a spiritual friend 😢he obviously doesn’t trust after his last relationship
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
@alaalfa88397 ай бұрын
stoicism and blocking emotions are two different thigs. but its true that when you have goal, job, or household stuff, you need to focus on goal with happy emotions, love empathy gratitude and healthily resolve negative emotions by not being attached to them, which makes you feel negative emotions are short term, which makes your heart blissful.
@princess3778 ай бұрын
Hi Alex Why are men so complicated they are hard work. Life itself is stressful and then to have more stress from a man. I’m just looking for a connection with a man fall in love and live happily ever after.
@niharikaverma59272 ай бұрын
My bf was doing exactly the same things ...he is emotionally unavailable.....nd I was doing the same mistake 😮
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
I hope this video was able to help you!
@Karimamaraghni8 ай бұрын
Bonsoir Alex
@SilentPhilly4 ай бұрын
Soo, we have two opposite ways, how to deal with men, when they're not enough into us.. and how can we tell, if he's emotionally unavailable or just lost interest?
@user-zk7mc3jv5m8 ай бұрын
As in why is he keeping the letter. He hasn't put it inside a drawer...
@elizabethgarcia61602 ай бұрын
But I finally drew him out making him laugh it’s that simple!! 😂
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching!
@yenkimthingoc48428 ай бұрын
Hello Alex!. I meet exactly this men. I need help from you.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
Hi there! I know coach Alex would love to help you with this. I hope you can book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@elizabethgarcia61602 ай бұрын
The worst thing to do as well is sleeping with someone and then 2 months later what you’re describing happens!! So first impressions tell me everything! Enough time to walk away!!! 😢
@FrenchRelationshipExpert2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I hope this video was able to help you!
@dilrubakhanam2588 ай бұрын
👍
@musicwithlovie4838Ай бұрын
Ah! Thats why he called me narc , because i feel that he's really emotionally unavail. Ill flirt with him one time. Then he gets mad, exactly what he said im narc 🤣🤣, he's insane. I met him dating online. He's so sensitive turn me off , but he is really very handsome, tall, but very sensitive like woman🥴🥴
@user-xs4yn3ij4o5 ай бұрын
Now Couch Alex., i don't know if he will be back again . At first he was emotionally unavailable. But another girl got his timing. Introduced her his family, went to their family, ...and now he says to me that he only loves this girl that he cheated on me with. Do i really still have chance here??, Please, i need help.# I'm so much heartbroken... I can't do without him
@FrenchRelationshipExpert5 ай бұрын
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I know coach Alex would love to help you with this situation but he would need to know a little more information before he helps you with this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link! www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@IAMPOETRY73 ай бұрын
In this video you say one should communicate emotional things but the first video of yours I watched before this one you said to NOT communicate emotions because it will push him away.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 ай бұрын
My guidance is customized to address various scenarios related to this topic. Should you seek personalized advice tailored to your specific circumstances, I invite you to schedule a coaching call. This way, I can gain a deeper understanding of your situation and provide you with individualized guidance during our one-on-one session. www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@Callie08184 ай бұрын
How long do we go along and keep doing this before he actually becomes emotionally available?
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
Patience is a virtue, especially in love. Each person evolves at their own pace, and pushing someone to open up before they're ready can be counterproductive. To foster an environment conducive to emotional openness, focus on creating a safe space where your partner feels supported and understood, without pressure or judgment. It's also important to communicate openly about your own needs and feelings while remaining receptive to theirs.
@kammyo86604 ай бұрын
Enjoying the moment with someone who is unavailable will cause to be put in friends with benefit drawer…
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
Yes! Do not accept a 'friends with benefits' relationship if you are looking for something more serious.
@candygirl19908 ай бұрын
I always attract emotionally unavailable men. How do i stop alex? X
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
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@jana071004 ай бұрын
Its my siruation now and few days i think about hos can i finish with him. I feel me emitter, feel i gave so much and have no energi entmore.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
@jana071004 ай бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert its ok), im very very strong . Its only good for me, i tale it as a big big lessin like in highscool.☺️ but your videos is realt hjelps people and it give like a push a wake up and tale a responsibility for own life. Only i can change it like i want and like i wish☺️
@karrysmi8923Ай бұрын
Better single 💯
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@fatimasalie39118 ай бұрын
Yeah his emotional unavailable😮🙄
@juvyvargas69118 ай бұрын
Hi alex please I need your help
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
Hi there! If you want one on one advice, I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@user-zk7mc3jv5m8 ай бұрын
I sent my ex an accountability letter. He has read it, he is keeping it. He has it on top of his drawers. We have been split 6 weeks Do you know why?
@Adelina242444 ай бұрын
Girl I hope you left that man if he didn’t give you an answer. Find love in yourself babe and keep doing your thing