What to Expect First Day of BJJ 2019 (What No One Talks About)

[@midlifebjj]

Thanks for watching. Let me know what videos around fitness and BJJ you'd like to see...gear, diet, exercises for BJJ, etc...Thanks again and if I've missed any tips you'd like others to know, please comment below!

[@mouthguardcomic]

This was a cool video! I love to watch and analyze rolls. I will definitely watch videos like that. - I record and post all of my rolls and it has helped me immensely. (People at the gym says it really helps them as well.) Things that take weeks or months to notice, I am able to recognize after one viewing.

[@midlifebjj]

Yeah, I need to get better at recording my rolls - and analyzing....Was doing it for a while then stopped...Iv'e watched a few of your rolls on your channel! Keep up the good work.

[@mouthguardcomic]

@@midlifebjj Thanks Man U. and I know how it is! I've got hundreds of rolls recorded (backlog), but as you know, editing takes time.

[@lordofthedring]

Hey man, I just found your channel and you look so familiar. Are you from Moore County NC?

[@midlifebjj]

Appreciate the comment. No - I’m from NC but not Moore County.

[@speckledhound]

I’m 46. Wife, kids, career and very out of shape at 320 pounds. Six weeks into BJJ and having a blast even while just scratching the surface. Last night was the first class I wasn’t dead tired after rolling so it’s getting better a bit at a time and I’m down ten pounds.

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome! Keep it up and keep us posted!

[@Speciation]

How is it going now?

[@cliffcrowder4245]

I’m 46 295 and I start Tuesday super nervous

[@midlifebjj]

You got this!

[@magrum21]

Starting my first class at 47 years old in a few weeks. Being out of shape is my big concern. But glad to read you’ve had a good experience.

[@evanserickson]

Thanks for the video. I’ve done two private lessons and I have my first public class today.

[@ThePickleBean]

I’m a brown belt and this is a solid heads up for beginners! Strong work dude!

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you! Much appreciated. 👊🙏

[@carsoncardell5832]

I’ve only don’t two classes up to this point but I’m going to give some advice while it is fresh on my mind. I was way too stressed out walking into my first class. Don’t be worried, people will make you feel welcome and you’ll forget that you just met these people. Just submitted a guy for the first time today and it was great. Also, thanks for the advice man.

[@midlifebjj]

Great advice! It can be intimidating if you don’t know what to expect but 90% of the battle is showing up. Appreciate the comment, brother! Consider subscribing if you haven’t already! It’d be awesome getting some updates from you as you progress on this journey. 🙏👋👊🤙

[@bullfrogjay4383]

Brooooo ! Mat burn sucks !!! I eventually toughened my skin with callouses but in the begining it was terrible. And you are so right, it is a marathon, relax and breath !!

[@midlifebjj]

Mat burn is the worst but a few subscribers have said they’ve rolled for years and never have gotten mat burn...I’m thinking it might be related to specific mats...

[@superstylingchick]

Thank you for posting this video. I plan on attending my first class next week. I will definitely keep those tips in mind.

[@midlifebjj]

You’re welcome! Thank you for watching and commenting! You may want to check ou this video as well (since you’re first class is coming up) it’s older but the imfo is still relevant for your first day! Here is the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKrVqmN_jc6Wn9U

[@LadieBjj]

I had my first class Friday. I almost died!!!!! 😂 It’s hard. But It was fun. I am excited to this new journey.

[@midlifebjj]

😂 it gets better, I promise! Thx for letting me know how that first day was! 🙏👊

[@LadieBjj]

@@midlifebjj no, Died 😂 It was HARD! Jiu Jitsu is no joke. I was man handled. But, I don’t give up. I’ll be back Monday and I will be man handle again! 😂 😂

[@midlifebjj]

Oss!! ❤️ the attitude! Keep me posted on your progress. Most of my subs are men so it’d be awesome to get your perspective on future videos....👋👊🤙🙏

[@midlifebjj]

Hey. Checking in with you just to see if you’re still living the rolls?

[@LadieBjj]

@@midlifebjj yes. I added 1 more day to my week. So I am going 4X a week.

[@brucehawk09]

Taking my first class tomorrow night, I know my back will hate me but I am seriously excited to do this.

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome! Keep it slow... I’ve found that sometimes my heart and mind are all iin but my body didn’t get the memo...😂😂😂 thanks for hanging out and commenting! Appreciate the support!

[@matta3712]

I’m 30 years old. Wife and 3 kids...I train only twice a week at a bjj academy...man it’s tough. I don’t feel like I get a whole lot of training it’s only one hour , two days a week but it’s good training. I just started. Plus I work full time so yeah it’s a lot

[@midlifebjj]

I feel your pain! 3 kids here as well...work full time...it’s tough but some is better than none! I’m 45 years old so think of where you’ll be when you’re my age! Keep it going brother! Appreciate the comment! Consider subscribing if you haven’t! 🙏👋👊🤙

[@chrisg6822]

My first class in about a hour I’m excited,nervous I can’t wait. I’ve been wanting to try jiu-jitsu like 3 months ago I got inspired to do it by watching the ufc.I’ve been boxing since I was 12 I’m 14 now.

[@midlifebjj]

How’d your first class go?

[@chrisg6822]

@@midlifebjj it was good the people were cool and we did mount submissions and some rolling

[@bruceweis2235]

Dead on accurate, I don't think any of us who have done BJJ for a bit haven't experienced the things you noted, especially the mat burns, lol. I do 2 classes a week, unless that pesky "work" gets in the way. One thing I did to supplement my training was to buy the mats like you have, I started with 4 of them and now have 8 which all connect with velcro. I clear space in my basement and have invited other people who want to get extra training over to drill and roll. When I'm done, I clean the mats and make sure the furniture is back in place (wife's rules, lol). I now have 10 people who are on my group text list and I generally train both Saturday and Sunday most weeks, along with an additional day during the week. This has helped me a lot. All the people I invite have to understand we all have jobs and families, so it is a rule, "fast to the position, slow to the submission", anything to aggressive will not get you invited back. When you get more reps it definitely helps. Also, when you get to try stuff while rolling more often, you eventually start being able to execute with a resisting partner. A motto we have is "just try things" while rolling. Worst thing that can happen is you mess it up and end up in a bad position or being submitted, so you learn from it.

[@midlifebjj]

Great comment! I’m hoping to move in a couple of years and would love to buy a house with a finished basement or separate space for some BJJ...not to start my own school but to just practice with some like minded friends (like you’ve done) ...my kids roll too so it would be nice to have some space to practice...appreciate the comment! Hope you consider subscribing. 🙏👊

[@briand.8271]

im 20 and got my first class tomorrow, itching to get on the mat! been watching videos all day and im so hyped, thanks for the advice bossman!

[@midlifebjj]

Anytime. Let us know how that first class goes. 🙏

[@asdfasdf1397]

hows it going?

[@briand.8271]

@@asdfasdf1397 still doing it! just got my 2nd stripe last week and I’m prepping for some comps this December. Fully addicted haha!

[@hubertus328]

I'm nearly 65 and start in the evening with me first lesson BJJ in The Hague. Y're instructions give me hope and the trust that I will survive the first day. So again thanks for the tips!!

[@josephingram5842]

im 22 and just started my 1st BJJ class as well.

[@hubertus328]

@@josephingram5842Young and strong, have fun

[@midlifebjj]

Incredible! Thanks for sharing and be sure to let us know how that first class went.

[@josephingram5842]

@@midlifebjj Went super well, got submitted a few times but everyone in the school said swallow your ego and tap early so you don't get hurt while training, especially being so new to the sport

[@midlifebjj]

You’re getting great advice! My motto: tap early, tap often (which means you’re trying new things and failing…but learning), roll as often as life will allow. Congrats on taking the first step that many shy away from!

[@Jay-mcr]

First Jitsu class tonight !! Thanks for the advice man, you've got a new subscriber !! 👊🏻👍🏻

[@midlifebjj]

Jamie rock on brother! Thanks for commenting and subscribing! Come back and let me know how it went! Always curious about people’s first impression!

[@Jay-mcr]

@@midlifebjj Just got back from my second session !! Enjoyed it, especially the ground stuff. I got my Gi tonight as well 💪🏻👊🏻

[@midlifebjj]

@@Jay-mcr How are you holding up? Did you get really sore after your first few days of rolling? How's that cardio? I took a few weeks off and went back tonight...got an 8 minute roll in but I was struggling!

[@Jay-mcr]

@@midlifebjj I've been 3-4 times now. Did a sparring session the other night, that was good but it tired me out big time ! I can't get back there this week, I've damaged my lower back lifting flags! Off work and in bed...back next week hopefully mate.

[@midlifebjj]

@@Jay-mcr 3 to 4 times a week is awesome! You're going to learn fast on that schedule! Take care of that back...I'm thinking of going to this new Cryotherapy place near my academy. Have serious shoulder pain..think it's a torn rotator cuff...Hoping it will help. I'm going to film a video on the experience. Thanks your support. man! Means the world! 🙏

[@trystonprice5916]

I start jiu jitsu, kickboxing, and boxing next week! Thank you for the tips for BJJ I will definitely need them! 👍

[@midlifebjj]

Rock on brother! Appreciate the comment!’let me know how that first roll goes!

[@trystonprice5916]

@@midlifebjj Starting the 3rd week! Learning something new everyday! BJJ is definitely challenging but a lot of fun! Just ordered my gi and boxing gloves over the weekend super excited to use them!! 🤙

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome! Appreciate the update! 🙏

[@TomofAllTrades]

I’m in pretty good shape and 50. I’m going to my second class tomorrow.

[@suziehartwright]

Thanks Chad. You explained things so well. I appreciate your easy and encouraging style of teaching.

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you! 🙏

[@levig-man4103]

Dang, you are 44 years old ? You Look Like 35 somewhat. Good Job man, stay healthy

[@midlifebjj]

Appreciate it!....Actually I Just turned 46...clean liv’n, brother! That and BJJ. 😂

[@scottl7626]

I started bjj at 43. Got hurt. Took a month off. Got hurt again. Now my wife is giving me a hard time bc I missed work due to an ankle injury. It's getting harder and harder to show up to class. I almost wanna throw in the towel, but I feel so good after a good class. But the more I learn, the more I learn how much I have to learn.

[@midlifebjj]

That’s tough man...especially when the wife is concerned (rightfully so)...can you find another, less aggressive school or choose your rolling partner...maybe ones with the same goals as you?

[@pacific570]

Man Unfiltered yeah or maybe just not roll as much and just focus on drilling a lot

[@donnydonkey9708]

Ur gonna have to throw in the towel with your wife lol

[@midlifebjj]

😂

[@Jamie_jam9]

I have my first jiu jitsu class tomorrow! Thank you for these tips!

[@midlifebjj]

You got it!

[@topacybits3576]

In a hour im gonna start my first class im hyped.

[@topacybits3576]

Im 16 BTW

[@thadood4373]

@@topacybits3576 How was it?

[@midlifebjj]

Yeah, man!!! How was the first class? Don’t keep us in suspense! 😂😂😂

[@topacybits3576]

@@thadood4373 oh thanks for asking, uhmm it actually was great i was training with only adults but they where very nice. Ive trained twice now we focused on leg locks and chokes. I have signed up and i am buying a Gi tommorow.

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome! I need to work on my leg locks. I suck at them. Appreciate the update! 🙏👊

[@CrewDogGamer]

Side note to everyone. Nu skin or any kind of adhesive liquid bandage is a great way to cover up mat burn and reduce the pain

[@midlifebjj]

How come I’ve never thought about this?! Great advice! I’m going to have to slip it into a future video for sure. 👊🙏

[@CrewDogGamer]

@@midlifebjj absolutely! I picked it up from one of chewjitsu's videos

[@midlifebjj]

Ahh! Chewjitsu. The wise one! 👊🙏

[@opplez1159]

my first class is in two days, i'm pretty nervous cause i'm kind of an awkward guy. but i'm pretty sure i'll feel better after class!! the waiting part is what kills me

[@heidirosenz]

Tell yourself you are confident.

[@paisano316]

I’ve been checking out your vids and all your advice is pretty spot on man. I enjoy your vids so thanks for putting them out!

[@midlifebjj]

Thanks man! Really appreciate the feedback! 🙏👊

[@TheFloridaBikeVlogger]

man, I am nervous , I wish it was over already but looking forward to it

[@midlifebjj]

You’ll be good. From my experience- most BJJ places are welcoming..don’t forget, you can sit and watch class or two before you get on the mats. You can also just go through the warm ups, technique - and not roll until you’re comfortable….its fine and may guys do this..:or you can just jump into the deep end of the pool…they’ll be gentle. You got this.

[@TheFloridaBikeVlogger]

thanks and I am hard head, so deep end is probably best, I was supposed to go today but I just didn't, I saved myself the car ride and took longer bike ride to get my head fixed. reschedule for this friday tho @@midlifebjj

[@tomgray8969]

Just turned 53. Some pretty big injuries in the past but in pretty good shape. Fascinated by BJJ. Is it too late for me. Wish I was 25

[@midlifebjj]

Nope! I’m 49 now.

[@RRsEmptySodaCan]

I'm at 20 year old woman (girl? still feel like just a kid tbh), and I am starting my BJJ journey in a month. Super excited! Thanks for the great video!

[@midlifebjj]

I’m 46 and still feel like a kid. I don’t think that ever changes! 😂 You’re starting a a great age.Thanks for the KZbin love and be sure to keep us posted on your BJJ journey.🙏👊🏼

[@ia640]

How's your journey going?

[@zezbid4]

Im also 44. I have visited a couple of BJJ schools in my city to take a free trial class however I kind of lost motivation due to the fact that it was very exhausting despite I realized I have natural grappling skills.The warm up just killed me, not to mentioned they mixed all belt level's in one class which put me in disadvantage. The teacher dedicated only 5 minutes for technical teaching and the rest of the time was dedicated to matches...I wish I could find a school where I can find more beginners like me and they go little by little 😥 .

[@midlifebjj]

Keep looking…5 minutes is no good.

[@matthewhoffman4906]

Many gyms have different approaches. I really recommend finding a gym that has a beginners or fundamentals class so you can gradually ease your way into it. If you find a Gracie University training center, they have a great beginners program where you learn fundamentals before you do real open sparring.

[@themichaelmclean]

Subscribed as soon as I saw the hat!! Go Heels brother!

[@midlifebjj]

Rock on brother! Thank you!

[@BigBrandonMarcel]

Look up Elite Gis/Kimonos they are lost cost like under $70 and they last!!!

[@midlifebjj]

B.I.G. Brandon thanks 🙏- will certainly check them out - always looking for a good Gi without breaking the bank. Thanks for sharing! If you haven’t- please consider subscribing! Trying to hit 1000 subs in 2020. Thanks again!

[@themanrighthere9280]

Thank you Chad! Very helpful

[@midlifebjj]

No problem! Glad it helped. Let me know if there is anything else I can help you with! 👊🙏

[@justmoonchild7452]

I want to start learning this for self defense and I'm scared but watching do Jiu-jitsu makes me intrigued and exited but actually doing it sounds so scary...

[@midlifebjj]

Just call ahead and show up! Baby steps my friend

[@craigcarroll3333]

Thanks for the vid I'm 50 and am going to start in the next week r so. Never trained bjj only tae kwon do so i know it's very different. But your vid helped me to decide that I'm all in thanx bro

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome, brother! Be sure to come back and let me know how your first class was! 👊🙏

[@craigcarroll3333]

Ok cool I sure will

[@craigcarroll3333]

Hey I went to my first class yesterday under Wade Rome and it was amazing. I'm very exited and wish I started this 20 yrs ago. Thanks again for your videos they're great!

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome! Welcome to the club, brother!

[@chipcunningham2283]

Wish I’d seen this video before I went to my first class.

[@midlifebjj]

🙏

[@danielleetaylor]

Great video brother ! Oss ✌️

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you....Sincerely appreciate the feedback, Daniel. Are you practicing BJJ? If so, how long? 🙏👊

[@ambercrombie789]

where do I go to find a small mat to practice my falls? I'm looking into using multiple layers of carpet pad covered with a canvas drop cloth. Have my second day on the mat today

[@midlifebjj]

I have one I love..will send link tonight! Got it from amazon

[@midlifebjj]

Hey bud...here is a link to the mat I purchased from Amazon We Sell Mats 4 ft x 8 ft x 2 in Personal Fitness & Exercise Mat, Lightweight and Folds for Carrying, Blue www.amazon.com/dp/B00ZAIW3G6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_RiBvEbX9VKHWR

[@coreyharlow4783]

Hey bro, great video! Keep up the good work

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you! 🙏 I will try, brother!! Appreciate you watching and (hopefully) subscribing. Oss!

[@FitnesswithDalP]

Dope that you have your blue belt

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you! Appreciate the comment...working hard for that next one!

[@bobbydabutcha]

For the first week, I literally tied my belt like a giant shoe lace. I figured it out eventually, mostly because people kept yanking it from one side and it would come undone.

[@Arcliteshadow]

Same here lol. Big shoelace.

[@midlifebjj]

I’m posting a video tomorrow that will cover the belt

[@joselleconstantino-deoma9972]

Thank you for the pep talk! I was just doubting earlier if I should continue training jiujitsu because I honestly suck at it and I'm old. I just started training last week 🤣

[@midlifebjj]

Give it about a year…then it’ll be fun…the it’ll suck again…and this is the process that continues on forever! That’s progress though…

[@joselleconstantino-deoma9972]

@@midlifebjj thanks so much for the encouragement! ❤️ I really appreciate it 😁

[@midlifebjj]

Anytime! Appreciate you watching my videos! 🙏

[@joselleconstantino-deoma9972]

Hey man! I just wanted to share with you that I got my first white belt stripe last weekend 😄 Thanks so much for your videos. It gave me encouragement ❤

[@midlifebjj]

Congrats! That’s awesome. Appreciate the update! Keep rock’n.

[@generationfinancial4417]

Good video. In search of a gym and watching videos in the process. Very informative. I never subscribed to people on KZbin. You can see I don’t even have a profile pic because I’ve never even signed into KZbin but you definitely deserve a subscribe. Thank you

[@midlifebjj]

generation financial awesome! Thank you for watching commenting and subscribing. I’ll try not to let you down! Sincerely appreciate your support! 🙏

[@Roosters-rants1977]

Great video

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you

[@julg_g7033]

Nices . I like that mentality 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽oss

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you

[@oblongeyetater]

I have my first class in a few days and I’m really nervous. I’m a very short guy and a little overweight for my height. I’m really out of shape and I have no endurance for running, so I’m worried about even making it through warm ups. Because of my size and lack of any inherent athletic ability, I don’t expect to ever really be “good” at BJJ, I just want to learn and be better than where I started. I don’t want to embarrass myself either though.

[@midlifebjj]

Hay, appreciate your candid comment. Don’t worry about being embarrassed. Seriously. Everyone starts where you are. Even the jacked guys get worked when they first start. Keep going. As much as your body will allow. When your body says rest rest - but get back at it. Have you had the class? Let us know how it went! You got this.

[@oblongeyetater]

@@midlifebjj I went today and it was great! I made it through the whole class. Only started to not feel so great during the last 2 minutes of class. I'm physically tired, but mentally I feel really good. I can't remember the last time I've sweat that much. It was a really positive environment overall and I had a good talk with the instructor at the end, so I decided to sign up!

[@midlifebjj]

Rock on brother! Welcome to the channel…even though I haven’t posted in a while, I read and respond to comments. I will post again. Works got me traveling - I still roll but not as frequently as I used to. Keep us posted on your journey.

[@AtotheK17]

I’m 40 and starting now, good videos. I see you haven’t posted anything in a while. How’s your progress?

[@midlifebjj]

It’s good. I’m purple but new job has me traveling 75%…still rolling but my journey is slow at the moment…never quitting! I’ll post about my journey.

[@AtotheK17]

@@midlifebjj wow that’s great, congrats!

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you. Just keep showing up! Keep us posted on your journey. Keep safe, tap fast, tap often, beware of meatheads out to hurt you. They’re few and far between, but they’re out there. Stay healthy.

[@ferovierre]

something inside me is telling me to start with bjj but i just can't do it. i have fear of failure, what if i can't do some drill, choke ... i don't want to go alone im afraid of unknown people what should i do :/

[@midlifebjj]

You only have 2 choices: 1) Try it or 2) Don’t try it...you will fail if you try...you’ll fail over and over...BUT you will start to get better...and you’ll start noticing less failures..because you’re not really failing....you’re continually learning..if you don’t go, you won’t fail at BJJ because you can’t fail at something if you don’t even try. If you choose not to try, you’ll miss out on aches and pains, you’ll miss out on an incredible art, great friends and relationships....give it a try... you’ve nothing to lose, my friend! Appreciate the comment! Let me know what you decide.

[@ferovierre]

@@midlifebjj i decided, i will go 😁 as you said i don't have nothing to lose, I think my bigger fear are people cuz i don't know anybody. I'm introvert and that's my problem i think bjj will help me to raise my confidence, skills to talk with people, my health etc ... Sorry if my English is bad

[@ferovierre]

@@JediNiyte thank you so much, I'll save this and read it every time before training

[@winnied87]

Thank you. I consider to start at 35 and there are only two BJJ schools in town. I'm worried about my sensitive gag reflex, too. Is there a high risk for it to be triggered when starting out?

[@midlifebjj]

Not sure. Try it out and see

[@emilyhops2566]

I started in Nov '22, and i'm 52. My main thing is being old and embarrassed, as if theyre saying who does that old bird think she is, starting this at her age. I've never had a fight in my life, so i dont know how the body works when youre fighting, hence i cant work out how the techniques go, amd i'm dyslexic so i cant learn the techniques properly, so theres embarrassement about that too, it takes me 5 times as long as everyone else to learn. I hardly go because i feel so out of my depth.

[@midlifebjj]

Thank you for being candid about your situation. We all have negative “self-talk” that hinders progression and, unfortunately, it’s not limited to just BJJ. You’ve made a tremendous accomplishment by putting on that white belt and stepping into a world you’re completely unfamiliar with. BJJ can be very confusing to understand without the complication of dyslexia. Here’s what I’ll say based on my experience with BJJ: typically when a woman or older person (I’m 48) steps on the mats, I’m impressed. I don’t want to speak for the others at my BJJ school but I think most of the rollers feel the same. If you feel embarrassed and it’s in your head, just get on the mats more…watch BJJ videos in your spare time and focus your video search on the moves/techniques taught at your BJJ school that you didn’t quite understand. Don’t be afraid to ask the instructor to “show the move one more time”…I still ask my instructor this question if I’m lost (which happens a lot). Lastly, make sure the folks at your school are sensitive to your situation. By your comment it seems as though most of the negativity is self induced which is totally common-so I’m sure the people are great! However, if that’s not the case don’t be afraid to try other BJJ schools. Thank you so much for the comment! Keep Rolling! 🙏

[@emilyhops2566]

@@midlifebjj thank you very much indeed!!! 😀

[@celiad5719]

Great video, thank you

[@midlifebjj]

Glad you enjoyed it…hope it helps!

[@whiskey1737]

BJJ has taught me that a man with messed up feet and ears is not a man to mess with.

[@midlifebjj]

😂🙌

[@Leisurous]

i just tried the falling thing where you disperse the impact on your hands and arms and now my hands just hurt haha gotta figure that one out Mabey I'm doing it wrong

[@midlifebjj]

I'm probably not the best instructor (just a blue belt) but I at least wanted to share what you might have to do on day 1 so you'd have some idea. Trying to help my boys (and ladies - I have a few on the channel) out so ya'll don't look silly like I did on day 1. 😂😂😂 Thanks for watching and commenting. Hey, it'd be awesome if you'd consider subscribing if you haven't already! Would be great to have you as part of the channel! Are you currently practicing BJJ or thinking of doing BJJ?

[@kricket5343]

Hey man great video. I have a question about getting started. Right now I'm currently finishing out my contract as a Marine but I plan on jumping into jiu jitsu as soon as I get out. I already know jiu jitsu is gonna have a lot of humbling and humiliating experiences but I have great interest in it but in all reality I probably know next to nothing about it. I really have little to no martial arts experience other than the Marine Corps martial arts program. I was only a grey belt (only the 2nd belt up) and it's really nothing compared to jiu jitsu other than a couple techniques that seem relatively related and yes we grappled and had to test and master the techniques in order to earn tan belt, grey etc. But it really isn't anything compared to jiu jitsu. I suppose my question is what's it like to first start out? How would you recommend practicing at home (especially if you have no one to practice with) etc. I know this sounds silly for me to say since I haven't even started yet but I really don't see myself quiting. I lack martial arts experience but I've played physical sports all my life and I have great interest in this. Why do most people fail? I heard it's hard being a white belt learning a lot of moves and was wondering what the first 6 months to a year generally looks like, thank you.

[@midlifebjj]

Great question, I’m going to answer this in a video if that’s cool…I think others would want to hear this…plus I can ask others to chime in - in the comment section.

[@kricket5343]

@@midlifebjj Sounds good man looking forward to it, thank you.

[@outdoorswithroostercurrie6984]

I’ve got a question for you. I’ve never really Trained BJJ in a formal setting, but I do have some training in HS Wrestling, Boxing & Taekwondo. That being said that was many years ago when I was in the Army. My question is can I affectively train BJJ if I can’t run do to knees and an Ankle injury’s while in the Army. I’ve had a total of 5 knee Surgeries and 1 Foot / Ankle Surgery. I’m a Big Guy 6’3” 350lbs. I’m not a fat Slob, but definitely outta shape. I’m turning 50 in a few months and I really wanna give BJJ a try. I’ve always been intrigued with Combat sports. I was also a Power Lifter and was never a Small guy.

[@midlifebjj]

I think you should try...see how it feels. Two important steps: 1) Check with your physician before starting.2) Find a good school that supports you given your age and your injuries. Be up front and let them know...always let your training partner know as well. Let me know what you decide. Hope this helps.🤙🙏

[@outdoorswithroostercurrie6984]

@@midlifebjj Thanks. I spoke with the instructors at the BJJ School near me, it’s a Gracie Barra School and they said they would definitely be able to work around my injuries.

[@TheJitsGuy]

Good job man, nice video

[@midlifebjj]

Thanks! 🙏 - Really appreciate the feedback. Checked out your channel...Looks like it's growing....I've subscribed to your channel...not to seem sleazy - asking sub for sub (I would've asked you anyway (😂🤣😂 ) - but do you mind subbing to my channel? It would help me out and I'd sincerely appreciate it! Thanks again for the feedback. Always appreciated!

[@wgnwBash]

Thanx bro

[@nerdymom2]

you live in NC right? judging by your hat? well hi neighbor and fellow jiujitsu student! =)

[@midlifebjj]

Actually, no... I did live in North Carolina for most of my life but moved to Va about 8 years ago. I went to grad school at UNC Chapel Hill - that’s the reason for the hat plus it’s a college I’ve loved since I was a kid...college basketball runs deep in NC....as you probably know. We’re still neighbors though.... I go to NC often to see family.. welcome to the channel brother... hope you subscribed and keep coming back. Oss!

[@alaaeddinedebbichi3029]

thanks a lot man

[@midlifebjj]

You’re welcome, brother!

[@angelraygoza4957]

Should I walk in with gi on or before class when I already walked in?

[@midlifebjj]

Usually you can change at the school (if I understand your question correctly) - I’ve walked in with Gi pants on and had my top in a bag...just slipped the top on when class started ....does this answer your question? Thanks for watching and commenting!

[@angelraygoza4957]

@@midlifebjj yes it does answer my question, thank you very much 😁

[@midlifebjj]

✅👊

[@TheOddStranger]

Thats realy weird.. I'm training for 5 years and I dont know if I've ever experienced mat burn.. I recall something similar when I was training twice a day. Maybe it depends on what mats youre training? I train in Europe so maybe we have mats of diferent material??

[@midlifebjj]

Consider yourself lucky! It’s quite painful...could be different mats - not really sure....that is strange though....maybe your technique is better...😂😂 thanks for commenting! Would love to have you as a subscriber (if you haven’t subbed already) Oss!

[@TheOddStranger]

@@midlifebjj sure thing :) ive already subscribed, keep it up man!

[@everynewdaysk]

I'd like to echo this comment... I train in USA (New Jersey) and have been for a few months and have never gotten mat burn. I think it has to do with the type of mat, some KZbinrs have said it's terrible but neither me nor my training partners have complained about it. Oss...

[@midlifebjj]

Thanks brother! Will do.🙏

[@midlifebjj]

It’s got to be the mats... I thought mat burn was a right of passage😂🤣😂. Thanks for chiming in...definitely going to research this more. Oss

[@volovolo_]

Is Gracie Barra good?

[@midlifebjj]

Yes!

[@BigSiss]

I am really deciding between Jiu-jitsu and or Karate,... any advice please?

[@midlifebjj]

Gotta go with BJJ... if you’re new to the channel, check out some video links in the description of every video, also: type in Gracie Challenge into KZbin search bar- you should get some old videos of karate experts + other arts challenging Gracie BJJ students... that should provide better insight than I could ever explain...I’m a BJJ fan although I did practice Karate for a while as a kid - but hey - I grew up in the Karate Kid days - everyone was doing it... hope you subbed brother but whatever your decision is- I wish you well🙏

[@cgreen4395]

*Which my son has put a pillow on. Translation...YOU EVER GO NIGHT NIGHT! EVERYBODY GO NIGHT NIGHT DADDY!

[@midlifebjj]

C Green you’ve got problems..😂😂😂

[@andrew-4754]

Any tips for starting bjj during a pandemic

[@midlifebjj]

Practice at home. Thee is a video I released about this...John Danaher gave away a free solo training series because of the pandemic. Here is the link to my video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKCWi6etr92Bo6s

[@andrew-4754]

Man Unfiltered aight awesome I appreciate it man

[@midlifebjj]

🤙

[@vikingored7469]

Why don't you wear socks to keep getting Mattburn???

[@midlifebjj]

To train myself not to get Matt burn…I no longer get Matt burn. Socks suck for BJJ…just endure and figure out how to move…that’s what I did and that’s what others do…don’t wear socks!

[@thedreamdennis1853]

Is it normal for BJJ schools not to have air conditioning.?

[@midlifebjj]

I’ve rolled at places with no AC…they had roll up garage doors but in mid summer, in the south…rough. Just be careful rolling too crazy if you an old guy like me.

[@Quodge]

You might have a cool Dad.. but you don’t have a ‘hey kids I got us JuiJitsu mats!’ Cool Dad.

[@midlifebjj]

🤙

[@bbeige54]

Is this a sport for a senior citizen with two hip replacements? I’m cycling 30 miles a day but looking for an additional sport once the restriction lift.

[@midlifebjj]

Difficult to say because I’m not a doctor. If it were me, I’d give it a try and if I didn’t feel comfortable with the school, I may try 1 or 2 more...schools vary in training and intensity. But if I couldn’t find one with the culture I was looking for, I wouldn’t do it.

[@reptilesgamers00]

Bjj works your hips a ton

[@midlifebjj]

It does...

[@panda-xq1dy]

I know this might sound strange but as a muslim im actually not allowed to bow to any1 or anything because the bowing move in only performed during the 5 daily prayers meaning only for god. Do u think the bjj place will let me off without bowing?

[@midlifebjj]

No..not all all, my friend. Most places I’ve visited don’t require you to bow. It’s just good practice but I’m sure anyone sensible will respect your religious beliefs...

[@pidyongcrsz6846]

Nice video. How much does training cost?

[@midlifebjj]

pidyong crsz it’s crazy that you just asked that question because I was thinking of shooting a video to talk about it...the costs for training usually range from $75 a month to $125...but can go higher. I haven’t seen prices much leads than $75 but if other viewers can chime in - that’d be great. This is just my experience with pricing. I guess a lot of the price depends on the competition in the area and level of Instructor....just my 2 cents but thanks for asking! If you haven’t subscribed to my channel - it’d mean a ton to me if you would! Thanks again! 🙏

[@pidyongcrsz6846]

@@midlifebjj thanks for the reply.. I'm also a BJJ blue belt (been training for 4 years) in the Philippines and I'll be going to the USA in a couple of months. At least I have an idea of the figures.

[@midlifebjj]

@@pidyongcrsz6846 Awesome! Are the prices comparable in the Philippines?

[@pidyongcrsz6846]

@@midlifebjj here in the Philippines it costs about $65 - $70 per month

[@umeda26]

nice vid

[@midlifebjj]

nighttime world 🙏 thank you...for the comment and subscribing.

[@PeterShieldsukcatstripey]

It's a marathon not a race. It's a journey.

[@midlifebjj]

I know...videos suck 'cause their on YT forever...I get called out on this mistake all the time...I'm trying to get better but...oh well. No reshooting! Thanks for the comment

[@joshroy7162]

man set your camera down dude. good video but can't watch it without getting nauseous. keep on brother.

[@midlifebjj]

Thanks for the feedback! It’s an older video...kinda...I’ve gotten better - well a little better. My new lens has image stabilization...appreciate your feedback though and your support! 👊🙏

[@theskyisonfire]

I'm a 14 yr old girl who isn't very active... At all but one of my friends really wants me to do this with her and I think that I may really like it what do you think? Should I try it? (Odviously I gotta ask my parents but I was just wondering)

[@midlifebjj]

Yep..definitely ask your parents but I think you’ll enjoy it. My daughter is 10 and she loves it. If you have a friend that’s going with you - it may make it easier...take the pressure off since you’ll be going with a friend. If your parents allow it - make sure you do some research on the school. Make sure it’s rated well... that kind of thing. Good luck!

[@theskyisonfire]

@@midlifebjj thankyou! My friend already does it so I would be doing it with her ☺️ Thanks for responding and I will ask my parents.

[@midlifebjj]

👍👊

[@koalaofdeath2045]

do it! Way better than any of the fake self defense bs out there plus it'll make you tougher while giving you a good workout. It's tough but fun. Plus, if some dude in your highschool gets in your face you can choke him out haha

[@theskyisonfire]

@@koalaofdeath2045 now that is some insentive 🤣🤣

[@PeterShieldsukcatstripey]

Human chess.

[@jyoun79]

Post new videos! :)

[@midlifebjj]

Will do..new video tomorrow giving everyone update!

[@Codys_gaming]

How long were you a white belt?

[@midlifebjj]

Cody Pearce about 2.5 years...thanks for watching and commenting! Really appreciate the support....if you haven’t subscribed - please consider doing so! It’s free and I’ll keep trying to bring better content!

[@TravelTio]

First day is def a gut punch …. 🤮 One of Two things are gonna happen: that sucks I’m never coming back Or wow ! I can learn this ?

[@thadood4373]

I'm 45 years old and never did any martial arts let alone BJJ. Is it too late for me to start? I don't want to go there looking like a dipshit.

[@midlifebjj]

It’s not too late. I’m 45 as well. We have folks walking in at 50 for the first time....to could always try it out. Most places will give you all few free sessions. Let me know what you decide! 🙏👊

[@uzairchowdhry4044]

people should wear the grip socks to stop mat burn and improves grip. Also barefeet everywhere is gross

[@midlifebjj]

Hmmm. I’ve never seen anyone wear any type grip socks. Thanks for watching and commenting!

[@sk8clips845]

i’m 13 do wrestling, football, and baseball i want to do ju jitsu do you think i should

[@midlifebjj]

We have some high school wrestlers in our school and they love it. That said, while I appreciate your question and support on my channel, I’ve gotta defer to your parents or guardians...do I think you’ll enjoy BJJ, yes! Just my humble opinion! Appreciate your comment! 🙏👊

[@kateg5763]

Make sure you can fit it into your schedule and not get overwhelmed! I'm 14 and keep trying to add more dance, taekwondo, and self defense classes into my schedule 😂

[@javierfromthegggnetwork9657]

I got my ass whooped haha

[@midlifebjj]

😂😂😂 the more you go the less that will happen....but it still happens....are you going back?

[@javierfromthegggnetwork9657]

Man Unfiltered yeah for sure! I signed up yesterday and although it’s difficult I love it!

[@midlifebjj]

Awesome!

[@PeterShieldsukcatstripey]

Look really young.

[@midlifebjj]

thank you

[@johanjohan8019]

I’m 33 years old and had a kind of bad first class 😢. The class does not start with warmup and goes straight to a sweep that is super complicated (at least for a loser like me 😅). Nobody was interested to train with me. It felt like to be the lone kid in the elementary school 😢. The instructor after some awkward minutes paired me with a blue belt that was not so friendly and for the most of time he was irritated that I could not perform the sweep. I did my absolutely best. And that what we did for the class. When we moved forward for the sparring I received a 5 min crash course from the instructor of how to sparring and the rules. Luckily i had a purple belt that showed me a lot of techniques and that was super helpful. So perhaps I will go on, but man that was not the first class I thought it would be.

[@midlifebjj]

Maybe just a bad first class. Give them the benefit of the doubt and visit once more. If you get the same result, don’t even finish the class…just politely walk off the mats and google more places to roll…I promise - you’ll find a place that fits you. It may take some time However

[@alexhelms8048]

TARRRRRRRRRR

[@midlifebjj]

Heels

[@gagarinbjj]

Great video, but there is no way you re older than 35

[@midlifebjj]

Appreciate it ! 46 years old now! BJJ may be rough on the joints, but keeps you looking young! 😂

[@Acid_Gamb1t]

Can you tape your feet?

[@midlifebjj]

Yes...I’ve seen people do it but I’ve never had any luck with the tape staying on - or I hated the restricted feeling when stepping or using your foot to drive off the mat. Your foot expands and flattens when you step and releases or contracts when you’re not using it to drive and step...this constant expanding and contracting feels restrictive to me...but it may be just me. Thanks for hanging out, watching and commenting. Consider subbing if you haven’t already! Thanks, brother!

[@TruthvsLies5050]

Except injuries your first week! Don’t waste your money on stuff because likely you will not even be able to use it!

[@midlifebjj]

I'm 46, been training for 6+ years. Purple belt...sounds like you've had a bad experience. Hope it's not anything too serious.

[@rbau7413]

Thank you Chad! Very helpful

[@midlifebjj]

Anytime, my friend! Glad you enjoyed it. Appreciate your support! 🙏