What To Expect When The Narcissist Knows You Know What They Are

[@Jasonshepard2]

You are absolutely correct 100%

[@Stoicambition93]

That’s exactly what happened to me, everyone in my city hated me for years because lies they had been told from past “friends”. I know it’s hard if you’re going through this currently but continue to ignore, this is a perfect time to sit back and sees who deserves a seat at your table. The lies will eventually dissipate and people will begin to question the narcissist instead of questioning you.

[@jengable4888]

They will NOT succeed in their evil, sinister, schemes ! The TRUTH has already been revealed !! #justice #restitution

[@peterd2587]

Yep, but no need for revenge, just sit back and observe

[@drumdad54sdl47]

Your best revenge is a life well lived without them as you carry on & heal.

[@2jshay80]

It is the best revenge because the last thing they want to be is irrelevant.

[@decoy2636]

Anything you do will be wrong so ignore what they do.

[@nolacsanail]

Oh yesss! My narc mom intensified her campaign against me ever since she realized I refused to put up with her wily maneuvers and started grey rocking and progressed to no contact.

[@JadeOh181]

That's exactly what my father did to me for years until the day he died... He was out for revenge to his last breathe. He has turned every single one of my relatives and siblings against me, but I went no contact with them years ago until my father passed and then at his funeral, they still had the gall to try their nonsense on me. So it's absolutely no contact with any and all of them .

[@fionam3735]

I know what your going through. Stay true to yourself and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

[@jimmydean4444]

Dam I'm sorry to hear that, that's suck and I know first hand. But check this out, if it was that easy to turn family against you then what really happened is the fakes got exposed to you so now you know. I know when I faced that and realized that they turned on me it hurt to the core ( to see siblings etc turn on you ) but at least I know that I loved them WAY WAY more than they did me and now don't waste any energy on them. God bless you!

[@di4085]

I thought I was reading my story when I was reading yours. Although mine hasn't passed away yet but I'm keeping my distance right now. As much as I would love to have a relationship with them and the rest of the family. I have to because after 45 years it has trained me and I just want to heal.

[@drumdad54sdl47]

This is just proof positive that their feelings had nothing to do with love & everything to do with you being a source of ego stroking and narcissistic supply.

[@jacquelinefroehle3583]

Smear campaign goes on behind the scenes all the time

[@njmauricio4137]

Il let GOD deal with them ....

[@GreeneChakra]

Thats Good 👍🏾 Ill take that one for me too!

[@Msfairyfan]

So true

[@di4085]

Yep I'm experiencing it.

[@therealsongstress]

The one I was with just disappeared but he probably smeared me to the next. One

[@clarknawrocki3851]

It's all starting to make sense now she's describing my x wife during my divorce

[@jimmydean4444]

And this is me life now ! Yay

[@crystalcrawford553]

He messaged my mom and 15 year old. Told them lies. This 52 year old involved my teenage daughter. They will stop at nothing to smear your name.

[@ellensc-hawley3720]

I have a relative who for years has smeared my reputation, good character & everything about me so that no one wants to talk to me. but I am not to know this.. well DUH handwriting is on the wall, & liked to excludes me. so I've walked away quietly with very little contact, I'm at peace

[@bobbyrainwater7590]

I told my sons' GF point blank,keep slandering me and I'll have a warrant taken out on you for slander and other things. That stopped it.Put the fear of God in them.

[@traviswolf7210]

I strongly feel that's my next battle with the demon narcissist

[@brianwalsh1401]

Why battle with a narcissist? They live for that crap and it just drains us. Be a spiritual warrior that doesn't get sucked into the swamp but rises above it. I hope you get away from them.

[@traviswolf7210]

@@brianwalsh1401 unfortunately I have two kids with my narc ex or I would have nothing to do with her

[@brianwalsh1401]

@@traviswolf7210 I'm sorry to hear that. Whenever I think of my ex I think of how lucky I was not to have had kids with her. Your a strong person to have survived and are taking care of 2 kids. I sincerely wish you the best as I do everybody whose been affected by dealing with these lost souls. Good luck to you.

[@traviswolf7210]

@@brianwalsh1401 thank you for your kind words.

[@brianwalsh1401]

@@traviswolf7210 No problem. sincerely wish you the best of luck and I hope your taking care of yourself.

[@sonnyca]

Yes, they know that I know because they spy on me. Maybe I should expect the worst because I’m dealing with deranged individuals. 😔

[@karrynlipsett5187]

& doing 'Anything' they possibly can to hurt you & your family. Emphasis on that whole sentence btw

[@brendaleverick3655]

They're good at the smear campaign, too.

[@Carol-ye7vw]

I'm 79 my only child a son has destroyed my finances etc. Only found out about narcists this month I'm devastated. Now he is destroying my name so he sure is one. So sad to learn this at this age why I been abandoned for 33 yrs.

[@garybills8683]

It’s a living nightmare that never ends. I desperately need to get away from this person. The worst experience of my life. I need someone you is genuinely loving and kind. I know who Jesus Christ. Amen 🙏🏻

[@sylviaking8866]

Hang in there. It has been the worst experience of my life too. You are not alone in this.

[@eadler5929]

I let him have it all. After 31 years I did not know any other way (and I am a J.D. with an LLM). The one regret is that I failed to protect our children. 8 honestly thought we were creating a family.

[@fionam3735]

Oh yes it’s a real shit show with a nasty narc been through the whole lot. Your never the same after it

[@jimmydean4444]

FACTS!

[@hollygab8188]

that's what has been going on already

[@jacquelinefroehle3583]

God doesn't like the Narcissist

[@phyllistouchstone7136]

Those are fighting words

[@steverinaldi890]

This is my ex wife. I finally realized what she was going through the divorce. She slept with her married attorney to pay her attorney debt and I believe (although no proof) she black mailed the attorney or claimed to tell his wife. And I say this since I owed her attorney $5k and he never bothered to collect his debt. I kept telling him through the divorce who this freak really is but he was too deep into her private parts to notice-Until she had no more use for him.

[@RedPillAware]

Ge … you look this attractive at this age. How….how did you look in your early twenties? ❤️

[@JamesJohnsoneAndersonBoyleReid]

That's what she is doing now,,I destroyed her clothes and stole money her clothes are here going in the bin next lift and she never had money this makes me laugh now i know what she was ✨

[@Carmen-.-]

They are so irresponsible.

[@peterd2587]

Its just satan! God is good!

[@anniel5146]

Then they get violent...

[@prestonfreeman8443]

Only if the love bombing went on forever and ever 🤣

[@ronaldwescott3835]

They had me leave my building and I do because I know now my mother wanted her siblings to control me just to make me leave Idaho because that's where my biological father and family live. All in the name of great medical and VA assistance. This is the second time they have done this. Boy I'm awake now let me tell you right now and I sure hope I can find out where all this started. So let me see you mention getting a lawyer about two weeks ago and said I'd take a lie detector test as far as anything I've said that has happened with the attack

[@edwardacosta4429]

Ooooo my son of a bitch boss did this to me one time I just didn't how to fight it atm

[@khadijaayub155]

happened. all happened. smear campaign's still going on.

[@Jiorgiapeach]

Less talk more moisturizer girl

[@johngaulding3710]

Video them when they are acting like children, or degrading and belittling you. Then you can smear them.

[@Carmen-.-]

It’s not smearing if you are telling/showing the truth.

[@lsunstein]

Unless you start one first