What To Look For In A Life Partner? Gaur Gopal Das

A long-lasting relationship is about friendship, deep bonding and compatibility. What are those key elements to look for when one is looking for a life partner?
Produced by Gaur Gopal Das
Directed by Ritesh Taksande & Gaur Gopal Das
DOP - Ritesh Taksande
Edited by Shyamgopal Shroff
Script - Shyamgopal Shroff & Gaur Gopal Das
Story - Gaur Gopal Das
Storyboards - Kush Boradia
Concept & Visualisation - Shyamgopal Shroff & Kush Boradia
Assistant Directors - Shyamgopal Shroff & Kush Boradia
Location - Rishabh Rathi
Line Producer - Sagar Wadekar
Creative Head - Ritesh Taksande
Casting - Shyamgopal Shroff & Kush Boradia
Sound Recordist - Manish Mourya & Shubham Gawande
Camera and Equipment - Accord Equipments & Sagar Wadekar
Hospitality Partner - Oakwood Residence
Clothing and Fashion Partner - RIka by Niharika Rathi
Makeup Artist - Pintu Sharma & Shailesh
Legalities - Sagar Wadekar
Music & Background Score - Hemant Tale
About Gaur Gopal Das
Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.
He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award, an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.
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[@likhita4012]

"Respect is the most important thing in a relationship" Very True

[@charlottebeverlycabig9583]

"A relationship is not about you or me. It's about us. Where both individuals accept each other, respect each other, serve each other, and make each other feel important. " Thankful that my relationship with my boyfriend (soon to be husband) is founded on this. ❤️

[@prashanth6256]

All the best for your wonderful future ❤️😘

[@TIMESOFTELUGUSri]

How both of u now hope u both doing well

[@anusoman6953]

🙏

[@anusoman6953]

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[@SUSHANTA163]

The first guy was talking like he wants to crack UPSC😂😂😂😂😅

[@shonanaik5817]

Hilarious comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bikimajhi3389]

nailed it

[@Abhi6x9]

😂😂

[@KhushbooSharma-hb9zw]

Well noticed😂😂

[@sonarek7312]

Too gud.. he talk..money matters ..the girl..was serious at teaching proff.. sumtime it's better to understand others proff..thn.disagree.

[@govindtiwari2841]

Respect is the most important thing in relationship

[@subratachowdhury9913]

Slef respect and respect others

[@systemofadrumming6873]

Govind . The first and foremost thing in Relationship is Love. Then who started to love? Why does he/she meant to show him/her? I just try to discuss...

[@itsparo2901]

True

[@eduguidekeerthana24]

Exctly

[@getartsywithyogita8291]

Isn't respect owned?

[@malaysarkar4976]

When I is replaced by we, Illness becomes wellness!

[@achaleshameganathan769]

Exactly bro👌👍✌️

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I love that statement!

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Wow.. Thts a nice line

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😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@Shubhh_____]

Wow !!!!

[@reverbbit]

A relationship is not about you or me. It is about us. Where both individual accept each other Respect each other Make each other feel important.

[@omgavande6343]

Yes... I'm Lucky To Hear It At 18 ❤️😇

[@mynameismyname8608]

Ten years of being in a relation and still everytime there is lot of new sides to explore her..... True love is the essence and Loyalty to partner forms the foundations of any relationship....

[@dakshap4383]

8yrs relationship ... Dat affection dat respect dat comfort zone whenever he s arround me is just cnt b replaced by any other person n my life im lucky to hve u .. Thnk u so much for accepting me as d way im 😘

[@heartycann3783]

Wao! Drakshayani ma'am, I wish I could get some one like that in my life too.

[@souravnath3951]

you seem to be attached ..rather than in love . A person should not make you feel good, that has to come from within. Involve in generating love.

[@heartycann3783]

@@souravnath3951 look Brother you can't Judge everyone in same parameters. Fish can swim if u ask a couple of Fish to Climb the tree that's unfair. So please don't comment negetivly in anybodies personal relationship. It hurts. I say u should delete your "Khathor" Message.

[@souravnath3951]

@@heartycann3783 it is not negative brother

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@@souravnath3951 arrey 😂😂😂😂this is too much she is in GUD relationship relax . . U have GUD thoughts but still she is lucky 😂😝

[@BruceWayne-lj3qk]

Before falling in relationship , Understand what u really are and remember your own self worth!

[@munaartan2943]

Grt

[@Senthamara.i]

Yapp!

[@BruceWayne-lj3qk]

@@Senthamara.i Some people forget what they r when they love someone...and than they suffer depression and anxiety when their loved one leave them for just a nonsense reason....😂😂..Not everyone's opinion matter in your life.. People who stay with you matters others not...

[@Senthamara.i]

@@BruceWayne-lj3qk dammn. It's like you are telling my story rn. 😂❤ true... But I realized it too soon and haven't put myself in a bad myself

[@BruceWayne-lj3qk]

@@Senthamara.i 😂😂..❤️ ...Show me ur hand and i will say ur future too😂😂

[@harikrishnaneela2484]

This video contains highly fictional content,it is not the movie,Real life is always different and don't make fools ,Choosing life partner is not that easy they may try to impress on the beginning and at end when you will touch the reality you feel regret,the world is full of fake agendas so be cautious and cross check it's about trust and respect each other in the relationship. Obviously today's world trusting other person is like digging a grave for yourself,world is changed you can't decide anything in a single meeting please understand reality.

[@rohannampalliwar5346]

Underrated comment bro. Well said.

[@gayathri3604]

True.. trusting a person is digging a grave for urself, believing that he/she wouldn't let u end up there. We give an all-access permission which on wrong person is really dangerous

[@rd8209]

HariKrishna Neela , but the foundational message is something great to build on.

[@trishiachakraborty24]

True....

[@trishiachakraborty24]

Single and multiple meeting won't be enough if the person is fake 👎

[@homesweethome3050]

Prabhuji, how could you speak so differently than other Saints? You are my Ideal now, along with my Mother. Listening to your Speech, is one of my morning Rituals now. I really needed a Spiritual Guru like You in my life. Thank you for keeping me motivated, Prabhu. You are really Godsend in my life.

[@siddhikothari8129]

"A relationship is not about you and me, it is about us . When both individuals accept each other , respect each other ,serve each other " 💖💖☺️

[@rajshreeanand8585]

True

[@heartisblind]

"And who can be more unjust than he who invents a lie against Allah, or says: "I have received inspiration," whereas he is not inspired in anything; and who says, "I will reveal the like of what Allah has revealed." And if you could but see when the Zalimun (polytheists and wrong-doers, etc.) are in the agonies of death, while the angels are stretching forth their hands (saying): "Deliver your souls! Today you will be awarded the punishment of [extreme] humiliation because of what you used to utter against Allah other than the truth. And you used to reject His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) with disrespect!" And truly you have come unto Us alone (without wealth, companions or anything else) as We created you the first time. You have left behind you all that which We had bestowed on you. We see not with you your intercessors whom you claimed to be partners with Allah. Now all relations between you and them have been cut off, and all that you used to claim has vanished from you. Verily! It is Allah Who causes the seed-grain and the fruit-stone (like date-stone, etc.) to split and sprout. He brings forth the living from the dead, and it is He Who brings forth the dead from the living. Such is Allah, then how are you deluded away from the truth? [He is] the cleaver of daybreak and has made the night for rest and the sun and moon for calculation. That is the determination of the Exalted in Might, the Knowing." SOURCE: The Direct Speech of Allah, Al-Qur'an,6:93-96

[@trueindiancookingchannel2651]

The relationship builds only on one column that is LOVE. If love is there everything comes naturally. And love means to love the person and not the cute face.

[@sandipagrawaltalks]

The Best Thing that one could ever feel about Relationship

[@navyareddy9164]

@3:00 The time was 10 :55 pm and she got a good mrng msg 😂😂😂🤭🤭

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You are a keen observer 😎😎😁😁

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U r Legend

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😂😂😂😂

[@rajusekhar2115]

Good listening and observing skills , great !

[@nasird1043]

He msg(good morning) her.. at 10:55pm and fix meeting at 4pm😂😂

[@chandankairi7300]

Understanding each other and respecting each other makes the relationship stronger.

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[@deepikagoswami7071]

Thats true ..i had also found my real true honest partner we understand each other and love lots😊

[@charlottebeverlycabig9583]

Teary-eyed when the vid shows the man giving coffee to his wife (I supposed). Cause that pretty much reminds me of my boyfriend who always prepares my milk or coffee whenever I am busy working at home without me telling him to do so. ❤️

[@0fsgiven812]

Im lucky that im in love with my Bestfriend and i think marrying your Bestfriend is the best feeling ever because we know everything about eachother without any secrets and both of our parents know that we belong to eachother 😄and we fight all the time 😁😂

[@karthikeyasrihaanatharva]

Same memu kuda...

[@ramyavallabhani2839]

Lucky

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God bless you and your family 😇🤞🏽💛💫😇

[@luverneanimatics8769]

This is true even my Grand Father told me that sexual attraction will withered thru time but never forget respect and love to one another this is the bond that will last for a lifetime and may be forever.

[@Adabeauty11]

What a video amazing... Nowadays we look for the material things in life, but we must see the inner beauty of our life partner more than outer things...

[@andersoncole7468]

Really? I'm glad you noticed that too.. I thought I was the only one complaining. You sounds so intereting i would love to know you more . Here is my email address [e-mail].. you can text me on it that way we can talk

[@pallabibiswas462]

I have no words to say anything about you,but saw you deeply and listen you heartly.... ........

[@radhahirani6622]

This is an amazing clip. Relstionships in todays generations is only love for attractions, careers or either money, competing eachother. New generations from todays world must all see this clip for good relationship goals and knowledge. Thanks to gaur gopal dasji cherishing knowledge to us on these really needed☺🤗👌👌

[@kind3311]

I truly believe in unconditional acceptance that makes relationship successful. Love this video

[@keshavparashar9706]

This is not that easy in real life that you will find one easily identifiable not so good person and a good person so that you can easily decide. Nowadays almost everyone is smart in conversation. They will show they are good. But, reality of person will only reveal when you start to live with him/her. So this not helps in real life contrary to its catchy tag line

[@mano3005]

its just a reminder...

[@pros8389]

Yup.. u are ryt

[@madhuridutta4977]

Yes very true often people change after marriage

[@lakshmivelappan7792]

Keshav Parashar certainly true dude!!!

[@leladevishadevram6752]

I totally agree..some pretend to be good to get his benefits done...once its done true colours are out...well i have married n living with one just what u have written abt and to be honest this relationship has become a burden for me

[@Madhra2k24]

I alone know what suits me...i never go for money or fame...give importance to one and another 💞

[@tuhinasarkar9957]

I have been listening to many spiritual gurus but i find u very impressive. Your words are simple, understanding nd relatable. Ur speeches r very positive

[@mpsctales4343]

When I is replaced by W; illness becomes wellness . What a wonderful thought

[@dibyasumankerketta521]

U r correct...but takes much sacrifices 2 bcm I 2 w ...😃

[@proudindian0212]

She just speaks like Guruji. Wish she had her own flavour. Please don't copy Guruji, he is unique. Thank you Guruji for your thoughts!

[@ankur20121]

I am just recently engaged... Will remark this step" If I is to be replaced by We, illness become wellness". Thank you guruji for this lesson..

[@__Yankeela]

I'm surely gonna use this tip when I get into a relationship. Giving importance to one another, understanding one another. So grateful to have come across this video. Lots of love to those who needed this kinda video 💕💕💕

[@Aneeta0]

Respect for each other is the main thing in relationship

[@prernamelkani560]

#respect these videos are like life support system❤

[@premyaying4383]

Moral of the story: No matter what, Compliment your life partner for whatever she does.

[@prernasingh4665]

I totally agree to this message... Thanks

[@soumimandal1909]

Good morning everybody... Instant mood booster.... 😇😇😇😇😇

[@love24in2seven]

Ya It's obviously a mind booster..

[@DeepakSoni-vq3yt]

Love + respect will make your relationship awesome.. Don't be think like perfect love ... Just make to feel special every thing will happen awesome. ... Nice video.

[@hereisalfi]

LOVE IS EVERYTHING 💝 , LOVE HEALS , LOYALTY SHOULD BE THERE which is VERY RARE...

[@samjhanashrestha3473]

Respect is most needed ❤️

[@ankitadalvi2227]

Really good things about true Love and relationship ❤️ thanks

[@kavyahoney4924]

Guruji u r my all time favourite one I'll follow u because I can see the reality in ur videos Nd I believe that it works in real life .. u r such an amazing person 🙏

[@hpatel1748]

Good guidance for young people looking forward to getting married. Even parents should watch this video.

[@souravdebnath1584]

I got my answer 🙏

[@AJAYSUTHAR]

Best thing i seen today on internet...

[@adityaverma9810]

There was line in the video that made me greatly inspired...when I replaced by we ..illness becomes wellness....

[@krtaju]

One thing I dislike is teaching isn't a tough job .... When the same is your passion and enjoy to do .. I say proudly because as I am Subject teacher

[@santgmc]

Very true..want this to continuously watch for some more time...wish it could be a longer duration.really felt the meaning of love..🙏🙏

[@user-xw9nv9iv1p]

Mostly people want that the girl should be highly educated as well as homely...They want that the girl should do daytime job, maintain household and also earn a corporate salary..

[@snehalchandanshive9863]

Tt

[@pallavinirwan7273]

Yes it's true.. a lot of expectations from a girl.. nd they want the girl to be a good mother as well.. wish life had been a lil easier for a girl where she can fulfill her dreams.

[@drsareekakatkuriphysiother5376]

K seriously even I get that a lot . They want well educated, good job , and care taker of parents

[@harshita6269]

@Technology Hub then the boy must take care of girl's parents too

[@harshita6269]

@Technology Hub then girls should take care of their husband's parents only when there is no one to do so.

[@k-6311]

Nice lesson guruji... Respect is indeed very necessary in relationship...

[@chaitralithange4115]

Really good....what good relationship requires... No complaints no demands...being tuthfull honesty respectul towards eachother 👌

[@official.abhishekjha]

Thank you For Sharing Prabhuji Hare Krishna 🙏

[@smartshaba3770]

I have no words to appreciate because you are beyond our appreciation, I never missed your single video,thanks alot stay blessed

[@MeditationwithChhorbTay]

A relationship is not about you or me. It’s about us. We both individuals accept each other,respect each other,serve each other,make each other feel important.

[@mnmnmn0097]

Thankyou . Feeling my presence in myself whenever I see the Guru's smiling affectionte face. And today after listening this video, soul felt a true feeling which cannot be expressed.

[@gerrimiller3491]

So beautiful. My soul says, thank you😊

[@Namrta.jha123]

Wow such a nizz lesson ...i m soo lucky i found u babu ,ur lov n support n also ur caring is such a wnderfull feeling n makes me feel so special ....lov u babu n i m proud on myself tht i found u n also i glad tht u r my life partner

[@debasishtripathy9920]

Dale Carnegie has also told the same SECRET in his book " how to win friends and influence people." The only way to influence people is to listen and be interested in them genuinely.☺️🙂

[@gurjotgujriwal2838]

Feels blessed when we hear to GAUR GOPAL DAS ji's speeches...god bless you man😘😘😘😘😘

[@jayashreeh3859]

Respected and responsibility put up in a different perspective by Shri Gour Gopaldasji is truly awesome..

[@LPDEntertainment]

Yes respect is very important in a relationship also in a affair, without respect love doesn't stay longer. We should respect each other to make good relationship. 🙏🙏🙏

[@GopalaKrishnan-yv6vh]

Gopal ji... U speak and that makes me spirit

[@yamunac7259]

Because of frustrations in personal and professional life we tend to forget the value of our partner and here is the person who makes us understand that relationship is very much important. Thank you so much guruji for your wonderful words

[@joydeepnath7486]

Wonderful video Sir. I wish every single couple could adopt these positive thoughts while starting their married life.

[@PrashVerse]

3.5 million+ relationship going to have good mindset!😊!

[@aarzoo_ahuja]

Sir m not just ur fan but m the fan of your approach towards life , the way u deliver , the way u mould , interconnect and interpet things really inspire me. I just want to attend ur session n this is the 1st dream of my life. I wish I can fulfil it. A huge respect to you and your thoughts.

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Guru Gaur Gopal Das-His one of the video which was on Sorry,that video changed my life .....really he is too inspiring ,Mentor.

[@josephmc7959]

A video worth watching 🤗🤗loved it😍😍

[@oakpkdude]

When both partners feel like they are the center of the other's universe. That makes a relationship that will last. How important does your partner make you feel and do you treat them like they are the most important thing on earth to you? I am with my partner for over 27 years and we have that. I am a lucky guy.

[@oakpkdude]

@Shruti Tripathy 100%

[@oakpkdude]

@Shruti Tripathy Any time. Thank you and you have a great day As well. :)

[@sanjanabag4626]

Now I understand "Krishna powerful words " can help to build such beautiful script,a master, producer, engineer, director.. Hare krishna

[@O_u_r_W_o_r_l_d]

The most important thing in the relationship is Understanding

[@fanclub5204]

Thank you so much it's really very helpful

[@mithunjiju6969]

Sir I was really confused and think. Alot about my personal problems I knew that your page will help me out from this, and you never broke my trust, I got clear clarity and I hope everything will be fine thanks for you efforts

[@nareshnaik4255]

Much needed video for me who is really looking for proposals 🙂 thank you very much

[@falgunisuryawanshi6986]

Thankyou so much to solve my biggest problem 😊now I take a right decision

[@achikboymomin484]

First man doesn't know how to impress a girl... So he lost... But second one is honest and loyal so he got his queen 😍

[@yasserraja1]

First man is an investment banker.. Forget one.. he will have PLENTY of queens behind him.

[@ahhyeah9768]

@@yasserraja1lol🤣🤣

[@Dr.Dharvi]

Happiness of both the individuals is important and not just one person’s

[@Naresh-ul3bh]

Wow it's truly true the relationship contain only the understanding how sensitivity you have said guru

[@androiduser7271]

Krishna will bless you.

[@rishavmazumdar5651]

Pranam guruji... thanks

[@sanobarsayed9816]

Thnks......

[@KK-nk4uv]

Can't believe people get so moved by such video... Everyone knows the difference between reel life and real life, cheerio.

[@shatabdidas6044]

Wow it's really great ❤️ I got someone whom i was looking for & he respects me understands me loves me unconditionally.... I'm so fortunate that he is mine & I'm only for him ❤️❤️❤️

[@abhijitbansode9610]

Don't marry arranged.. meet each other for at least a year.. wife will be worse to marry someone by following typical arrange marriage process..

[@dineshrajput8448]

Grate job ,,💐💐 I meet u Hare Krishna From Mathura

[@mithun1985]

Great.. 👍 all the Best

[@tejashpatel9490]

Gaupriya Nexus , You don’t have the real knowledge do you

[@anjalip2402]

My friend helped me a lot..he always gave me a support..his messages solved most of my problems..i respect him,believe in his words right from the bottom of my heart..my way of thinking has changed..thank u my friend..my friend is GAUR GOPAL DAS..sir.

[@anjalibirthday2809]

May I have such a frnd...true and loyal....

[@anjalibirthday2809]

God bless u and ur frnd..may we b frnds?

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Giving importance and understanding each other

[@punitkumar2094]

Wow so amazing describing...watta msg to sent society . I heartly appreciated all of you...

[@cristineescopel5060]

Now I understand ♡

[@ayushikaushik1064]

At 3:11 , the boy texts Good morning and time in the chat is 10:55 "P.M". he he he . But it does not matter here.. Really Nice video..

[@rajeevsharma2404]

Ayushi K Purpose of this video is to share a message.... if u get the message then this fault can be ignored.. Hope u get the msg this video is trying to spread.

[@sumitraizada7270]

Love is blind 😀

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Ayushi Pandit apki ankhe bot tej h

[@chandanagoud3230]

Hahaha

[@nanin152]

He was in USA 😂 Think positively, he just took a overnight flight to meet her 😂

[@bernadettea1926]

So relevant indeed, Thanks Gaur Gopal Das sir for these. God bless you.

[@KishanSingh-ju8ym]

Truely said

[@yogeshchaudhari8298]

Great Prabhuji

[@poojam6901]

Some are act like they are good, in 1st meet. After some time they will reveal real face. wt we need to that😒

[@srikanthr570]

Believe in god

[@ahhyeah9768]

@@srikanthr570 god won't help you pal never ur a fool if u think so it's all in you're doings and god has got nothing to do with it. In case of marriage one must think of all possible outcomes and should have clarity on their partner. Pre Inspection is a must for a marriage.

[@srikanthr570]

@@ahhyeah9768 🙏😀

[@snmn8046]

Not some but​ most of

[@harryabc1789]

Well then you will find it one day. Life is all about adventure going from one mountain to other. You just need to have patient and keep believe when the time come.

[@mahajankunal]

Guru Gaur Gopal Das, some sentences by u n by the female actor are originally mine, developed n used by me in 2015 n 2016 while looking 4 my own life partner. There's more to it. Became my measuring scale. Further adding 2 it, a relation survives n grows when we leave our ego n focus on healthy growth of the relationship. Counting each others good instead of mistake. Rising above u n me 2 us. Seeing the radiant glow on our parents when they see us managing high's n low's of life.. Truely a lively relationship.

[@posibabumanchala462]

Teachers are profesionals ...Who trains to make other professionals...Good teachers for a better society

[@MiracleMowa]

Excellent sir

[@kajalp9053]

i luved it especially coz i m also teacher i connected to video alot

[@travellover-jaishrimahakal4148]

True 🙏

[@indranilsarkar6834]

Hope that this kind of respect for each other lasts for a long time...... 🙏

[@googleuser1344]

A nice message indeed.

[@gampadeviprasad]

😂

[@theoryofsr947]

There is only one true love .. Mother and son

[@ksk6409]

Even sometimes mother also selfish and cunning,sometimes unbelievable in my experience.