Yoga & You: How to choose your Life-Partner? | Dr. Hansaji Yogendra

It is the month of February, where we celebrate relationship and love. Watch how Maa Dr. Hansaji beautifully encapsulates what are the things we should keep in mind when we choose our life partner, so that one leads a happy and satisfied life.
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[@mayrasworld6683]

Only a strong women will look for a strong man. So first of all make urself a strong, stable and confident person then look for a match. 😊

[@soniamatthew944]

👍

[@maxell008]

Podi munda

[@HarshPatel-bl9ym]

Same thing applies to you girls as well. You sounded like it’s only the boy’s responsibility

[@nikitag421]

Very true

[@Aisha-kz9jd]

Very wise words

[@kaushiksaha5671]

Very good video. In my opinion there are two aspects to a successful relationship- 1. Chemistry - This deals with emotional aspects such as do you like the person, are you attracted to them, can you trust them, do you feel comfortable around them. 2. Compatibility - This deals with logical aspects such as are your career goals compatible, are your lifestyles similar, food habits, socioeconomic standing etc. When parents choose a partner they give full importance to compatibility without considering chemistry. When someone chooses a partner himself he often bases his decision on chemistry without considering compatibility. That's why both love and arranged marriages fail. You need both the factors to be considered properly for a successful marriage.

[@gdb6147]

I fully support your views. Married for 40 plus years. No chemistry or compatibility. Dysfunctional family!!

[@chithrav7989]

Well said

[@poojakkamath]

wow! Well said. Never thought from this perspective. I think every parents should talk to their children on this aspect of life. It would definitely help younger generation choose their partners wisely.

[@dr.chandralekha]

I completely agree with your view sir

[@pragya-ecom-classes4869]

Soo true, so that means it's best to enjoy your life being and invest on yourself . Because there is nothing such as right person or perfect partner. It's all about your chemistry and compatability with that person.

[@Free__Soul]

1. Self-sufficient 2. Health Conscious - Mentally , Physically 3. Hobbies 4 . Faith, confidence, positive For both men and women Be flexible and understanding in relationship. Give commitment only when you r ready.

[@suryakiran5048]

Yes 100%

[@ambadasmehtre5323]

Right

[@rakeshreddy7079]

Perfect lines .....

[@bratatisahoo7100]

And you summarised the video

[@shivanimishra3261]

Marriage is a big thing

[@highlyindian4162]

Want a right person? Be the right one first.

[@maxell008]

U guys are really ego

[@eagleseye6576]

Well said. When one is self sufficient to stand in her strength. She magnetises the right partner to her. You don't need to search for one such person. Universe will bring that person to you.

[@jesusali2540]

Im on the left

[@supriyapawar3617]

thats what i thought..... if you want something you should start with yourself first.. happiness respect love everything

[@bapiray7228]

It's like if u don't eat the lion then it's not going to eat you. Whatever u hv said sounds good in theory only, sometimes ppl get lucky but reality doesn't work that way & no, i m not judging this on the basis of my experience only.

[@zivahr2057]

Whenever I watch your videos, I feel like mother is passing her wisdom to daughter. Thank you

[@nickychaudhary4759]

1.self sufficient (earning financial stable or caple 2 health concious 3pasinate about life 4confidenfence,faithfullness, practicle Adjustment,mutual bonding ,commitment,focusing on what is good for u not wht u like Think intellectually. at discpline .it is not whole its just a glimbse just see whole video☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@nickychaudhary4759]

@Mungerilaal mil gaya mujhe or isse hajar guna jada quality h 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰or me v puri kosis krti hu khud ko v kabil bnao apne kohinoor k liye🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰☺️☺️☺️

[@nickychaudhary4759]

@Mungerilaal thnku☺️☺️☺️☺️🙏n i pray for u from god u will get also ur true n spritual love🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@komalvij9847]

1. whether a person is self sufficient 2. is he health conscious 3. what is he doing for free time ( social life ) 4. faith in himself - confidence , self dependent

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

Life will have its ups and downs, so I make sure that I will find a life partner who makes me laugh.

[@ayushighosh20]

For all women. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Be strong. Be a better person each day. Work hard. Make your parents proud of you. Make yourself proud of the person you are becoming. You will attract the right person for you who is strong and amazing as you are and both of you will work equally to make the relationship work. Until then, work on yourself and enjoy each moment of your life... You don't know how long you'll live so be grateful for the life that you have. Prioritise your mental and physical health..do something that you love and just be happy from within.🙏 And do not rush to find the one for you. You will get into a marriage that's wrong for you and lose your peace of mind for life.

[@umeshdave619]

Good advice

[@nithac7749]

🤝🤝🤝

[@3k445]

Super advice

[@YashSharma-hl6gk]

🤣

[@riscnx]

@@umeshdave619 Then pay her some money, if that advice is really worth to you... I don't think delaying marriage changes anything, delaying won't give birth to new guys the right guy is already there, just need to accelerate search. People also loose peace of mind when they have issues in fertilisation & birth complications as they get old. It's dumb to chasing jargons.

[@oshinduori3415]

A girl can also be self sufficient rather then depending on her husband

[@archananayak6119]

she meant in general.. all 4 qualities for both men and women:)

[@niranjans9952]

Its ok if a girl depends on her husband ! But she should be capable of being self sufficient in case she becomes single for any reason.

[@shariquemohammad1215]

its not just that wives depend on husbands, husbands also depend on wives.... dependency is not just financial its emotional or in terms of responsibilties too.... marriage is a partnership, you need both players to perform for the best results, else we may loose the match.. :D :D

[@ruprekha9805]

@@shariquemohammad1215 exactly

[@SunilSingh-eb2in]

But most of the girls realise this after their marriage

[@MarvelousActions]

Marriage Is a life time project of commitment and responsibility...love is actually a reaction when you grow bond to one other...

[@brahmaguru3648]

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[@anus7934]

Exactly!

[@rsurajkumar7303]

Exactly

[@hcassy1521]

Get to know each other before you get married is most important and being honest with yourself and each other because sometimes you don't know the person until you live with them

[@daminithapliyal740]

Every points are really practical and sensible, which completely relate to my thought process. Thanks madam, you are such a great advisor. 🙂✌

[@anilgupta7969]

A conversations from two elegant ladies is thoughtful. It opens the perspective of looking at life in profound way. Appreciate your effort in making this video.

[@amanrajput9940]

Really loved the way she explained the things, hope everyone gets right person for a beautiful life 👍

[@manjushamishra5849]

Yes, adjustments are necessary . Both hv to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too . Expecting only from girl is unfair .

[@vinodhatwar1567]

Aap hamari aukat dekhogi to hum bhi aapki aukat dekhenge....... it's gender equality

[@ranjitassi990]

Both way trust and faith is very important

[@manjushamishra5849]

@@ranjitassi990 👍 yes i agree . To make both the arranged and love marriages work it is necessary that the girl and the boy as well as their families respect each other and help the couple in solving any disputes between the two as they are still immature and not worldly wise . Today marriages are not surviving because of lack of above .

[@ranjitassi990]

@@manjushamishra5849 totally agree 💯

[@lovetoexplore7176]

Yes adjustments are necessary.both have to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too. Expecting only from girl is unfair.

[@malikhanah]

Dr Hansaji..... We love you and we are extremely fortunate to have you amongst us. Giving us advices which our elders did give us, however the affectionate tone of yours melts our heart. And makes us rethink of our egotistic decisions. You are a gem. Jazakallahu khairah Hansaji

[@hawrabadri3115]

God bless you Grandma, you're great person

[@hildafernandes5461]

Amazing... Really all people must listen to this before they decide to partner up

[@niranjanmishal6140]

I'm so happy for watch this channel because I want to increase my spoken English skills and there is a channel Will be helpful my English skills. Thanks for helping our career....

[@shivanfighting-ag-injustic3855]

Dr. Hanshaji, Really 100% True

[@DiraChatterjee]

You are amazing, Mam! Lots of respect and love! Thank you for sharing your insight in such an amazing way! 🙏🏻

[@Sweetgirl25]

Madam u forgot to say first main point...he/she must respect each other...Trust nd respect plays a vital role before everything....Since I saw my family where they do all this practically but inside in heart they don't respect nd love each other😕

[@pradeepasivanesan]

Exactly. Love is the first step for a happy family and have their own space to enjoy life...

[@vinodhatwar1567]

Aap ladke ki aukat dekhogi to vo aapka respect q karega......tit for tat

[@prabhakarjanakiraman9548]

You r 💯 correct... Trust n respect do a vital role.

[@merlinkulangara8005]

1. Self sufficient/earning - both parties 2. Health conscious- both parties 3. What do they do in their free time? Workaholic? Hobbies? Family time? Volunteers? 4. Faith in a higher power? In themselves? Not specifically religious. These are the 4 important things so far.

[@NV-ez8gb]

Very true. I have seen examples of people who are completely devoted or they show they are religious and have bad thinking and darkness in them which they try to hide by showing how religious they are. I think mind and heart should be pure as well as one’s actions.

[@prakid]

Loved this, got this vid at the perfect time🙏

[@shafaqmalik9958]

Lv u Mam the way u explain everythg in such a sweet way, u have a very calm personality, stay blessed. Regards. Miss.Shafaq Malik

[@chuksstanley1726]

You're a wise woman, filled with wisdom.

[@thecaptivatingbeauty7730]

enjoying learning about Indian culture 🤎

[@Handle12456]

Wow.... Her mindset is wonderful

[@rutujabhosale2399]

I m blessed because my parents have all these qualities...and i raised by them ❤

[@the_arung]

Marriage needs good team work to be successful. So the team has to be picked carefully with clear awareness of roles and responsibilities along with regular maintenance of the team through healthy communication between the partners.

[@avhale]

...it seems like more than 50% people on planet doesn't fit to eligibility criteria for marriage itself 😂

[@keyurmulrajani2221]

😅 fucking shit was just thinking that only, single hi Maru ga mein, haha!

[@ruprekha9805]

Esa kuch nai hota

[@anweshakar146]

That's why they shouldn't marry. It shouldn't be a compulsory thing

[@artbeat33]

😂😂😂

[@knowledgekokhoji246]

If we don't wanna adjust little bit then yeah even 50% is high

[@thesoulonquest]

Wonderful Advice!

[@ansha321]

really beautiful piece of advice

[@DhanashreeNandgaonkar]

That felt like listening to my mom.

[@BabitaKumari-qd6qh]

Thank you ma'am, it's very wonderful session.

[@praveenkumar.c5662]

Relationship are business according to this video Marriage is match between imperfect peoples to make their lives perfect by helping each others Relationship should be like friendship it should not be materialistic

[@DurgaPrasad-fo9iu]

Exactly bro.....

[@tigerthakur4251]

I think praveen ji become angry seeing video becoz couple are equally capable to decide everything...ofcourse men are men ...ego hurt ..

[@PraveenAndValli]

It's just an idea for choosing somebody! You are seeking a advice from this video after committed with one partner! That's y you couldn't agree 👍

[@praveenkumar.c5662]

Everyone has their own thoughts and view points ,if I agree or not agree it won't change the outcome of someones life. I saw this video and expressed my thought, if u get too much attached to only one particular standard of living then what about the ups and downs in life u,me and all of us here, have to face in life

[@justaninfiredperson]

Bro even friendships develops depending on having same frequency, same hobbies, similar likes, compatible personalities. It's how human relations works

[@rashibhameed5659]

Thankyou so much maam. It was so inspiring and learnt several realities in the world

[@eleanorreyes512]

Luv this!! Thank you.❤🙏🙏

[@sushmitaraisrecipevlog9239]

Awesome madam........100% practical words u said wic really make life happier.........i found this channel more informative towards life in positive way...thank u so much.....................

[@piuchuipoukahmei7938]

Both must be all-around education for development ..Thank you

[@bristisinha6141]

Your all words becomes the pillar of my strength... Thank you for showing a right path to all of us...

[@sangeetaparjapati2464]

Very good opinion mam I recognise your all points I change myself to get all this points.

[@vaishalipardhan1956]

Mam You exactly explained what I expect...... I thout that I'm Overthinking about marriage but I was right☺☺☺

[@muhamadbassam8665]

Amazing,life is beautifull just for those who know how to live!

[@pubgvsmlbangbang3464]

I understand pal

[@shakilamalki8510]

I'm greatful to find this channel..

[@abhinaya420]

This! Thanks you Dr. Hansaji ❤️

[@dipankarchoudhury7]

Beautifully described.

[@yshukandoori6638]

Best advice ever

[@poraliyogi6813]

She just gave a female oriented answer, same applicable for men to choose, and they should make sure they are not bringing some toxic women (Mudevi) in to your home....

[@nayanpatel1036]

This is very helpful now as I search for a life partner. Thank you!

[@vidyashreevidya4548]

Wonderful Speech 🙏🏻❤️💐

[@hari7839]

Well said Madam 😊

[@niranjans9952]

Self sufficient, Health conscious, Good hobbies in free time, Confidence: A man would be really lucky if a woman is looking at only these 4 things. But unfortunately thats not the case in reality.

[@_ammu_quotes_3892]

best advice ever ☺️☺️☺️

[@muralidhark165]

Chose what n whom u love..rest all can be achieved with love

[@Trups00]

Wonderful advice Hansa Madam ,🙏

[@ashu4785]

Thank u mam a priceless advice still my thoughts are cleared what i want in my life a big big thanks mam God bless you. Such a model woman u r for all women.

[@kevincastelino3209]

Nothing is permanent. A person who is good today may change and vice versa.

[@aishupatil5600]

Yup...this is what I was thinking

[@dwiparnidas8732]

I am following these advices with great believe ...i hope i can find my right man

[@tresawill6247]

Thank you so much

[@yogiNISHAalaa]

Thankyou so much mam, it was really needed.

[@kkmishra1679]

Yeah. Certainly needed for everyone but can't applicable in arrange mrg bcz before mrg we even don't get know a single thing about boys or girls. Nd we Sanskari youth never try to find any girl friend bcz it is considered a curse or sin. So what to do

[@nausheen8232]

👏🏻🌹💚Very beautiful speech💙🌹👍

[@bye1362]

Life is wonderful ❤️

[@nahidgray5811]

Great points to consider when dating and considering someone for your soulmate.

[@jyotsnamayeesatpathy8610]

Thank you ❤🙏mem for your valuable suggestions

[@ankitkumar-cw4iu]

Thank you very very very much ma'am 🙏

[@poulamibanerjee1254]

Very inspiring

[@loriburnett4188]

According to You.. I’ve found my Soulmate. Even though he is 19 years Older than I am, he is the one. I Do Love him and He Loves Me. Thank You. 🤗❤️🙏🏽

[@keerthipriya196]

But 19 years is huge age gap, mam. Think twice before proceeding. Sry if it hurts u

[@mohitmars]

@@keerthipriya196 rightly said!

[@keerthipriya196]

@@mohitmars 👍

[@riscnx]

@@keerthipriya196 Fake account, fake story

[@lovefailurestars7018]

Superb and interesting mam

[@malaymalay5795]

Useful...msg tq

[@artilinrow9002]

Lovely .how true

[@RitzB13]

There are no boys/girls exist anymore according to your description 😄 It’s different generation now and divorce, breakup, external affairs all are so normal theses days. Live alone and enjoy life rather than going for toxic relationship.

[@riddhibhagat]

Accurate

[@samruddhimane4790]

Nopp

[@ruprekha9805]

Changing partner itself is toxic

[@lokeeb1486]

@@ruprekha9805 exactly that's why now girls are depressed than previous generation

[@keyurmulrajani2221]

Over all @9.15 made some sense!

[@akashmahadevpatil]

Thanks Hansaji!!!

[@manishupadhyay7731]

Mam good knowledge thanks ,

[@punitnaik]

She explained the trio in person which is looks (Health) + Education (Job etc.) + Nature (Personality & Social aspect). It's hard to find all 3 in one person, especially in girls.

[@godislove6616]

Very good video. If KZbin and phones are influenced during 2010-11 . I would have choose better one. Now there is no option.. Have to move on. Any how, it's useful for young generation. ☺ 🙏

[@angelasud1379]

Nice stuff

[@pallaviverma5541]

Gratitude 🙏🏻🌿😇🌺

[@tanuagarwal2109]

Thank you 👍🏻👏👏

[@oluyalimedia8129]

Amazing words,🙏🙏🙏 watching from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@theyogainstituteofficial]

👍

[@explorernitikanagpal9517]

Last lines were very nice . Dampati.... two heads ...

[@omsingh1254]

Thanks for such a great video.

[@gabbarsingh9015]

I love the video..

[@queenmary5961]

Yes just live in reality, practically

[@deeptis5675]

Well said maam

[@adharmicindian491]

All the points mentioned in this video are extremely good and this is exactly how people should choose their partners. And this is exactly how I think. Otherwise, if the person has none of these qualities - then it is better not to be in such a bad relationship...after all it's your life - move on... And First of all be a good, confident, self-sufficient, independent, intelligent person yourself - only then marry, else before that I think it's better not to marry. And I am interested in both travelling and yoga......

[@swapnanath8179]

amazing

[@sunilareddy8191]

so nice mam tq so much

[@rakshuu92]

Wonderful wisdom 😌✨🙏 These things along with health condition of partner. One must inculcate as best qualities in self as possible For their own growth then good energies from around would naturally be attracted 😌✨🙏

[@vinitaharjani7841]

Seriously, this power is in the hands of parents,only Fantasy talks

[@umeshdave619]

😂😂 true

[@ambikadagare]

Thank you ❤️

[@user-yo9cg1zq2u]

Thank you

[@geethamohan3340]

Thanks 🙏ma Good advice for all partners thanks 😍 once again 🙏🙏Maji

[@anjalianjali6131]

Very nice

[@I_sum_iksha_]

I liked what she said about divorce

[@lovefailurestars7018]

Super mam u r absolutely rit

[@paviscare5598]

Thank you so much 🥰 mam