Yoga & You: How to choose your Life-Partner? | Dr. Hansaji Yogendra

[@kaushiksaha5671]

Very good video. In my opinion there are two aspects to a successful relationship- 1. Chemistry - This deals with emotional aspects such as do you like the person, are you attracted to them, can you trust them, do you feel comfortable around them. 2. Compatibility - This deals with logical aspects such as are your career goals compatible, are your lifestyles similar, food habits, socioeconomic standing etc. When parents choose a partner they give full importance to compatibility without considering chemistry. When someone chooses a partner himself he often bases his decision on chemistry without considering compatibility. That's why both love and arranged marriages fail. You need both the factors to be considered properly for a successful marriage.

[@gdb6147]

I fully support your views. Married for 40 plus years. No chemistry or compatibility. Dysfunctional family!!

[@chithrav7989]

Well said

[@poojakkamath]

wow! Well said. Never thought from this perspective. I think every parents should talk to their children on this aspect of life. It would definitely help younger generation choose their partners wisely.

[@dr.chandralekha]

I completely agree with your view sir

[@pragya-ecom-classes4869]

Soo true, so that means it's best to enjoy your life being and invest on yourself . Because there is nothing such as right person or perfect partner. It's all about your chemistry and compatability with that person.

[@Free__Soul]

1. Self-sufficient 2. Health Conscious - Mentally , Physically 3. Hobbies 4 . Faith, confidence, positive For both men and women Be flexible and understanding in relationship. Give commitment only when you r ready.

[@suryakiran5048]

Yes 100%

[@ambadasmehtre5323]

Right

[@rakeshreddy7079]

Perfect lines .....

[@bratatisahoo7100]

And you summarised the video

[@shivanimishra3261]

Marriage is a big thing

[@mayrasworld6683]

Only a strong women will look for a strong man. So first of all make urself a strong, stable and confident person then look for a match. 😊

[@soniamatthew944]

👍

[@maxell008]

Podi munda

[@HarshPatel-bl9ym]

Same thing applies to you girls as well. You sounded like it’s only the boy’s responsibility

[@nikitag421]

Very true

[@Aisha-kz9jd]

Very wise words

[@highlyindian4162]

Want a right person? Be the right one first.

[@maxell008]

U guys are really ego

[@eagleseye6576]

Well said. When one is self sufficient to stand in her strength. She magnetises the right partner to her. You don't need to search for one such person. Universe will bring that person to you.

[@jesusali2540]

Im on the left

[@bapiray7228]

It's like if u don't eat the lion then it's not going to eat you. Whatever u hv said sounds good in theory only, sometimes ppl get lucky but reality doesn't work that way & no, i m not judging this on the basis of my experience only.

[@devikas9599]

What u mean by right person ? Can u explain

[@zivahr2057]

Whenever I watch your videos, I feel like mother is passing her wisdom to daughter. Thank you

[@nickychaudhary4759]

1.self sufficient (earning financial stable or caple 2 health concious 3pasinate about life 4confidenfence,faithfullness, practicle Adjustment,mutual bonding ,commitment,focusing on what is good for u not wht u like Think intellectually. at discpline .it is not whole its just a glimbse just see whole video☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@nickychaudhary4759]

@Mungerilaal mil gaya mujhe or isse hajar guna jada quality h 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰or me v puri kosis krti hu khud ko v kabil bnao apne kohinoor k liye🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰☺️☺️☺️

[@nickychaudhary4759]

@Mungerilaal thnku☺️☺️☺️☺️🙏n i pray for u from god u will get also ur true n spritual love🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@ayushighosh20]

For all women. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Be strong. Be a better person each day. Work hard. Make your parents proud of you. Make yourself proud of the person you are becoming. You will attract the right person for you who is strong and amazing as you are and both of you will work equally to make the relationship work. Until then, work on yourself and enjoy each moment of your life... You don't know how long you'll live so be grateful for the life that you have. Prioritise your mental and physical health..do something that you love and just be happy from within.🙏 And do not rush to find the one for you. You will get into a marriage that's wrong for you and lose your peace of mind for life.

[@umeshdave619]

Good advice

[@nithac7749]

🤝🤝🤝

[@3k445]

Super advice

[@YashSharma-hl6gk]

🤣

[@riscnx]

@@umeshdave619 Then pay her some money, if that advice is really worth to you... I don't think delaying marriage changes anything, delaying won't give birth to new guys the right guy is already there, just need to accelerate search. People also loose peace of mind when they have issues in fertilisation & birth complications as they get old. It's dumb to chasing jargons.

[@MarvelousActions]

Marriage Is a life time project of commitment and responsibility...love is actually a reaction when you grow bond to one other...

[@brahmaguru3648]

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[@anus7934]

Exactly!

[@rsurajkumar7303]

Exactly

[@komalvij9847]

1. whether a person is self sufficient 2. is he health conscious 3. what is he doing for free time ( social life ) 4. faith in himself - confidence , self dependent

[@merlinkulangara8005]

1. Self sufficient/earning - both parties 2. Health conscious- both parties 3. What do they do in their free time? Workaholic? Hobbies? Family time? Volunteers? 4. Faith in a higher power? In themselves? Not specifically religious. These are the 4 important things so far.

[@hcassy1521]

Get to know each other before you get married is most important and being honest with yourself and each other because sometimes you don't know the person until you live with them

[@malikhanah]

Dr Hansaji..... We love you and we are extremely fortunate to have you amongst us. Giving us advices which our elders did give us, however the affectionate tone of yours melts our heart. And makes us rethink of our egotistic decisions. You are a gem. Jazakallahu khairah Hansaji

[@Sakura-zu4rz]

Life will have its ups and downs, so I make sure that I will find a life partner who makes me laugh.

[@oshinduori3415]

A girl can also be self sufficient rather then depending on her husband

[@archananayak6119]

she meant in general.. all 4 qualities for both men and women:)

[@niranjans9952]

Its ok if a girl depends on her husband ! But she should be capable of being self sufficient in case she becomes single for any reason.

[@SharqTech-j6m]

its not just that wives depend on husbands, husbands also depend on wives.... dependency is not just financial its emotional or in terms of responsibilties too.... marriage is a partnership, you need both players to perform for the best results, else we may loose the match.. :D :D

[@ruprekha9805]

@@SharqTech-j6m exactly

[@SunilSingh-eb2in]

But most of the girls realise this after their marriage

[@anilgupta7969]

A conversations from two elegant ladies is thoughtful. It opens the perspective of looking at life in profound way. Appreciate your effort in making this video.

[@manjushamishra5849]

Yes, adjustments are necessary . Both hv to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too . Expecting only from girl is unfair .

[@vinodhatwar1567]

Aap hamari aukat dekhogi to hum bhi aapki aukat dekhenge....... it's gender equality

[@ranjitassi990]

Both way trust and faith is very important

[@manjushamishra5849]

@@ranjitassi990 👍 yes i agree . To make both the arranged and love marriages work it is necessary that the girl and the boy as well as their families respect each other and help the couple in solving any disputes between the two as they are still immature and not worldly wise . Today marriages are not surviving because of lack of above .

[@ranjitassi990]

@@manjushamishra5849 totally agree 💯

[@lovetoexplore7176]

Yes adjustments are necessary.both have to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too. Expecting only from girl is unfair.

[@daminithapliyal740]

Every points are really practical and sensible, which completely relate to my thought process. Thanks madam, you are such a great advisor. 🙂✌

[@niranjanmishal6140]

I'm so happy for watch this channel because I want to increase my spoken English skills and there is a channel Will be helpful my English skills. Thanks for helping our career....

[@NV-ez8gb]

Very true. I have seen examples of people who are completely devoted or they show they are religious and have bad thinking and darkness in them which they try to hide by showing how religious they are. I think mind and heart should be pure as well as one’s actions.

[@niranjans9952]

Self sufficient, Health conscious, Good hobbies in free time, Confidence: A man would be really lucky if a woman is looking at only these 4 things. But unfortunately thats not the case in reality.

[@the_arung]

Marriage needs good team work to be successful. So the team has to be picked carefully with clear awareness of roles and responsibilities along with regular maintenance of the team through healthy communication between the partners.

[@rutujabhosale2399]

I m blessed because my parents have all these qualities...and i raised by them ❤

[@amanrajput9940]

Really loved the way she explained the things, hope everyone gets right person for a beautiful life 👍

[@Miniflower25]

Madam u forgot to say first main point...he/she must respect each other...Trust nd respect plays a vital role before everything....Since I saw my family where they do all this practically but inside in heart they don't respect nd love each other😕

[@pradeepasivanesan]

Exactly. Love is the first step for a happy family and have their own space to enjoy life...

[@vinodhatwar1567]

Aap ladke ki aukat dekhogi to vo aapka respect q karega......tit for tat

[@prabhakarjanakiraman9548]

You r 💯 correct... Trust n respect do a vital role.

[@praveenkumar.c5662]

Relationship are business according to this video Marriage is match between imperfect peoples to make their lives perfect by helping each others Relationship should be like friendship it should not be materialistic

[@DurgaPrasad-fo9iu]

Exactly bro.....

[@tigerthakur4251]

I think praveen ji become angry seeing video becoz couple are equally capable to decide everything...ofcourse men are men ...ego hurt ..

[@PraveenAndValli]

It's just an idea for choosing somebody! You are seeking a advice from this video after committed with one partner! That's y you couldn't agree 👍

[@praveenkumar.c5662]

Everyone has their own thoughts and view points ,if I agree or not agree it won't change the outcome of someones life. I saw this video and expressed my thought, if u get too much attached to only one particular standard of living then what about the ups and downs in life u,me and all of us here, have to face in life

[@justaninfiredperson]

Bro even friendships develops depending on having same frequency, same hobbies, similar likes, compatible personalities. It's how human relations works

[@poraliyogi6813]

She just gave a female oriented answer, same applicable for men to choose, and they should make sure they are not bringing some toxic women (Mudevi) in to your home....

[@muhamadbassam8665]

Amazing,life is beautifull just for those who know how to live!

[@pubgvsmlbangbang3464]

I understand pal

[@hildafernandes5461]

Amazing... Really all people must listen to this before they decide to partner up

[@loriburnett4188]

According to You.. I’ve found my Soulmate. Even though he is 19 years Older than I am, he is the one. I Do Love him and He Loves Me. Thank You. 🤗❤️🙏🏽

[@d2227k]

But 19 years is huge age gap, mam. Think twice before proceeding. Sry if it hurts u

[@therapist_theminus]

@@d2227k rightly said!

[@d2227k]

@@therapist_theminus 👍

[@riscnx]

@@d2227k Fake account, fake story

[@thecaptivatingbeauty7730]

enjoying learning about Indian culture 🤎

[@vaishalipardhan1956]

Mam You exactly explained what I expect...... I thout that I'm Overthinking about marriage but I was right☺☺☺

[@kevincastelino3209]

Nothing is permanent. A person who is good today may change and vice versa.

[@aishupatil5600]

Yup...this is what I was thinking

[@hawrabadri3115]

God bless you Grandma, you're great person

[@adharmicindian491]

All the points mentioned in this video are extremely good and this is exactly how people should choose their partners. And this is exactly how I think. Otherwise, if the person has none of these qualities - then it is better not to be in such a bad relationship...after all it's your life - move on... And First of all be a good, confident, self-sufficient, independent, intelligent person yourself - only then marry, else before that I think it's better not to marry. And I am interested in both travelling and yoga......

[@avhale]

...it seems like more than 50% people on planet doesn't fit to eligibility criteria for marriage itself 😂

[@keyurmulrajani2221]

😅 fucking shit was just thinking that only, single hi Maru ga mein, haha!

[@ruprekha9805]

Esa kuch nai hota

[@anweshakar146]

That's why they shouldn't marry. It shouldn't be a compulsory thing

[@artbeat33]

😂😂😂

[@knowledgekokhoji246]

If we don't wanna adjust little bit then yeah even 50% is high

[@chuksstanley1726]

You're a wise woman, filled with wisdom.

[@MrRudraghosh]

now i understand y it's better to be a recluse....no contact with ppl,no commitments,no adjustments and hence no scope of exploitation.

[@maxell008]

True there is no social life like a dog or cat in the house

[@Handle12456]

Wow.... Her mindset is wonderful

[@DhanashreeNandgaonkar]

That felt like listening to my mom.

[@vinitaharjani7841]

Seriously, this power is in the hands of parents,only Fantasy talks

[@umeshdave619]

😂😂 true

[@shafaqmalik9958]

Lv u Mam the way u explain everythg in such a sweet way, u have a very calm personality, stay blessed. Regards. Miss.Shafaq Malik

[@punitnaik]

She explained the trio in person which is looks (Health) + Education (Job etc.) + Nature (Personality & Social aspect). It's hard to find all 3 in one person, especially in girls.

[@oluyalimedia8129]

Amazing words,🙏🙏🙏 watching from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@theyogainstituteofficial]

👍

[@DiraChatterjee]

You are amazing, Mam! Lots of respect and love! Thank you for sharing your insight in such an amazing way! 🙏🏻

[@dwiparnidas8732]

I am following these advices with great believe ...i hope i can find my right man

[@RitzB13]

There are no boys/girls exist anymore according to your description 😄 It’s different generation now and divorce, breakup, external affairs all are so normal theses days. Live alone and enjoy life rather than going for toxic relationship.

[@riddhibhagat]

Accurate

[@samruddhimane4790]

Nopp

[@ruprekha9805]

Changing partner itself is toxic

[@lokeeb1486]

@@ruprekha9805 exactly that's why now girls are depressed than previous generation

[@bapiray7228]

I hv given up on this question years ago & not interested anymore. Things r difficult but learning to manage. Given up on physical relationship & emotional attachment too. Don't want to be a beggar anymore. Masturbation & dwelling in the past, creating ur own realm is not healthy but it's far better than dealing with fake ppl in life. Money is d only thing important in my life now while actually it was of least importance once. Nobody gives a damn abt how good, honest, handsome(hritik roshan), loyal, hardworking, entertaining you r & sometimes rich (bill gates) too.

[@godislove6616]

Very good video. If KZbin and phones are influenced during 2010-11 . I would have choose better one. Now there is no option.. Have to move on. Any how, it's useful for young generation. ☺ 🙏

[@fighting-ag-injustice]

Dr. Hanshaji, Really 100% True

[@prakid]

Loved this, got this vid at the perfect time🙏

[@sushmitaraisrecipevlog9239]

Awesome madam........100% practical words u said wic really make life happier.........i found this channel more informative towards life in positive way...thank u so much.....................

[@bye1362]

Self sufficiency Health Free time Faithful These are the 4 things we need to watch in our partner.

[@CStejaswinimishra2513]

The partner should be honest as well...this only builds trust and helps to create strong understanding.Fake belief will lead to disposition of relationship.

[@riscnx]

Being honest is very difficult if other person reacts to every new information, as if there is intent establish some propaganda.

[@muralidhark165]

Chose what n whom u love..rest all can be achieved with love

[@kripanjalitellisnayak]

And I watch this on the day I am reconsidering my feelings about my breakup! This is nothing but a sign. I am sorry to say my ex does not have any of these qualities the lady mentioned. None of the above. He is 32, he is still dependent on his parents, he is a chain smoker, alcoholic and is a drug abuser, he is not health conscious in anyway , he has no interests whatsoever, he is an agnostic and also extremely irresponsible and emotionally unavailable. I still don’t know what I was thinking and what got me to this relationship.

[@mansigadhavi5639]

Glad you realised it before making a mistake, this phase too shall pass. Dont give in and stay strong for a deserving partner! Goodluck to you!!

[@maxinskaria2950]

yes, ithuvum kadanthu pogum

[@kripanjalitellisnayak]

@@taizeenshivji9586 sure! Why not. You can send me a DM May be.

[@kripanjalitellisnayak]

@@taizeenshivji9586 I can’t figure it out either.

[@kripanjalitellisnayak]

@@taizeenshivji9586 are you on Instagram?

[@shakilamalki8510]

I'm greatful to find this channel..

[@bristisinha6141]

Your all words becomes the pillar of my strength... Thank you for showing a right path to all of us...

[@madhunaik2222]

Change of thought; Marriage is not for everybody...(शादी हर किसी के लिए नहीं होती) Coz very difficult feeling equal or making balance in life makes unequal or imbalance. Mature is Nature....out of 100 couples only few feel happy Married life why coz out of the box thinking.... One solution to happy married life is to send or say *I LOVE YOU " 108 times or more to each other or within yourself by taking his or her Name...coz this affirmation is very powerful "MANTRA" to practice as prayer..... It becomes a solid BASE.... Between couples

[@humapatel1206]

1. Self sufficient 2. Healthy 3. Free time spend on... 4. Faith

[@thesoulonquest]

Wonderful Advice!

[@piuchuipoukahmei7938]

Both must be all-around education for development ..Thank you

[@ankitkumar-cw4iu]

Thank you very very very much ma'am 🙏

[@rozitas5022]

The points she makes are relevant and should also be desired when looking for a life partner... It is also important to be the right person before wanting the right person... Generally speaking, one can find these things in a woman far more than in a man, especially in our society...

[@explorernitikanagpal9517]

Last lines were very nice . Dampati.... two heads ...

[@pprmobileservices1496]

I believe if you have money everything will be alright

[@bapiray7228]

Wht abt hritik roshan & bill gates bro. Noone keep them happy forever.

[@pprmobileservices1496]

@@bapiray7228 😀😁

[@sueanne503]

Thank you doctor hansaji for telling and explain to me how to find right person after i finish hear you explain how to find right person and i really understand that you explain to me inside KZbin video thank you hansaji

[@nausheen8232]

👏🏻🌹💚Very beautiful speech💙🌹👍

[@susantkumarnand9520]

Taking down note ladies...all will be taken care.

[@rashibhameed5659]

Thankyou so much maam. It was so inspiring and learnt several realities in the world

[@nayanpatel1036]

This is very helpful now as I search for a life partner. Thank you!

[@sangeetaparjapati2464]

Very good opinion mam I recognise your all points I change myself to get all this points.

[@Kalpanayoutubechannel27]

Amma tell us how to convince our parents for love marriage when they oppose it for reason of inter caste

[@vidyashreevidya4548]

Wonderful Speech 🙏🏻❤️💐

[@natasharamdass6389]

Dr handsaji can you make a video of if marriage is essential or necessary?

[@ansha321]

really beautiful piece of advice

[@sivakumarsubramaniam2388]

Love yourself madly 1st. If u don’t know the meaning of love how u gonna show to others? Remember love is not emotion it is an action so show it though actions not with mere words.

[@manvendrarathor]

दंपती: भारतीय संस्कृति में दोनों के लिए नियमों को परिभाषित कर रखा है और वे इतने सालों से खुशी से रहते आए थे, जब तक फेमिनिस्ट शब्द का इजात नही हुआ.

[@xxxyogic]

Aparna Ganesh is very beautiful, very good photogenic face, Saree color and design looks too good on her, and she has very good personality

[@DurgaPrasad-fo9iu]

😂

[@lokeeb1486]

@@DurgaPrasad-fo9iu 🤣

[@queenmary5961]

Yes just live in reality, practically

[@swavnasahoo711]

The person I am with checks all these boxes. Works in the big 4, makes his own juice, grows his food, teaches kids and coaches them in free time, is spiritual, and has a belief in god, talked about marrying me from the get-go, and still does. But the thing is there is depression, and we both sometimes fall into bouts of depression where he does something out of impulse. He realizes that and is quick to introspect. The amount of synchronicities and how our lives cross paths even when we are away is almost unexplainable. But the thing is sometimes sadness consumes us and we find it difficult to recover from that unless we try to. It becomes emotionally excruciating for both of us then. How do we check that?

[@ithoughtofyou]

Try to follow tips by Eckhart Tolle. I think, it should work for you. All the best.

[@exclusivelyforyou]

Its ok you both are doing great. It’s okay imperfections is a beauty itself. With time and love you will find your answers. Also, mediation helps a lot.

[@NC-hu3ti]

You both need to be healthy. Emotionally too. To make a decision.

[@dipankarchoudhury7]

Beautifully described.

[@malaymalay5795]

Useful...msg tq

[@ashu4785]

Thank u mam a priceless advice still my thoughts are cleared what i want in my life a big big thanks mam God bless you. Such a model woman u r for all women.

[@hari7839]

Well said Madam 😊

[@tanuagarwal2109]

Thank you 👍🏻👏👏

[@keyurmulrajani2221]

Over all @9.15 made some sense!

[@eleanorreyes512]

Luv this!! Thank you.❤🙏🙏

[@bye1362]

Life is wonderful ❤️

[@poonamdeshmukh9162]

I agree with your all points but it's next impossible thing to find all the qualities in same person.Our so called indian society and indian families are still following typical Orthodox route when it's matter of marriage it's 100% reality.

[@abhishekdev999]

Its the basic things what Mam has told....financial stability is very imp and a bad health will lead in draing all the savings in future.....the tendency of a person likes and dislikes in ones leasure time indicated many things of a person...

[@lokeeb1486]

If marriages are toxic than live in relationships are most toxic relations in this world

[@pallaviverma5541]

Gratitude 🙏🏻🌿😇🌺

[@BabitaKumari-qd6qh]

Thank you ma'am, it's very wonderful session.

[@abhinaya420]

This! Thanks you Dr. Hansaji ❤️

[@nahidgray5811]

Great points to consider when dating and considering someone for your soulmate.

[@akashmahadevpatil]

Thanks Hansaji!!!

[@krishnavamsi9326]

instead of searching for the right person, Be the right person. You can automatically attract later.

[@manishupadhyay7731]

Mam good knowledge thanks ,

[@yogiNISHAalaa]

Thankyou so much mam, it was really needed.

[@kkmishra1679]

Yeah. Certainly needed for everyone but can't applicable in arrange mrg bcz before mrg we even don't get know a single thing about boys or girls. Nd we Sanskari youth never try to find any girl friend bcz it is considered a curse or sin. So what to do

[@poulamibanerjee1254]

Very inspiring

[@divyas318]

It seems impossible to go by this formula, but it is only workable and happy formula..

[@_ammu_quotes_3892]

best advice ever ☺️☺️☺️