I just saw this title and had to jump in to say what you say to a man who doesn't want to commit is BYE BYE And SMILE BIG as you leave as you stand in your power. You should have noticed the energy of him being a non commitment type. Don't try to change people. When people tell you or show you who they are believe them. Stop trying to change these guys. There are plenty of guys who want a committed loving relationship. Choose to tune into those men. There are tons of those if you tune into the frequency of their loving hearts. Stop trying to get them to do anything. Would you want someone to manipulate you? NO of course not. So focus on what you want not what you don't want. As soon as someone treats me like this I am instantly turned off. Somehow they don't look as handsome, they don't feel as smart, they automatically drop in my eyes and in my inner being and I disconnect. So if they are playing a game, with me they are going to loose because that's not my thing. You have to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST them second. You are the prize. I am the EMPRESS and will not love my self less and settle for less.
@angelsandocean28533 жыл бұрын
Don't make him jealous ladies. You want someone who wants you for who you are, not because someone else wants you as well. Yes, men love to compete with each other.. but you need a man who loves you, not a man who won you as a prize
@deliadoyohoy9193 жыл бұрын
He always update me everyday of what he is doing but he frankly said he dont want to go deeper. So now I started to walk away from him because its a waste of time Alex. Thank you for your all advices Its an eye opener to all women who always been a victim of none label relationship. We should not allow any one to make a hole in our own boat. Self love and Self worth still since day one.
@Moneytalks66663 жыл бұрын
I used everything in this video word for word and even though it didn’t get the result i was wanting i did feel empowered and was able to walk away with my head held high. Thanks Alex.
@YvetteInnerGrowth4 ай бұрын
I walked away from the guy... We lasted 3 days with no contact now dating again, but still, it's a casual flow because of his ongoing divorce. Im trying not to pressurise him, but at some point, I'll raise those points very soon...I'm worth a fulfilling committed relationship. Thank you, Alex, for your continuous great work 🙏❤️
@FrenchRelationshipExpert4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! It’s great that you know your worth and are giving the relationship space. When the time is right, expressing your needs is important. I appreciate your support so much! 🙏
@mingakinsgibayuxds75423 жыл бұрын
Thank god I did exactly what you’re saying. Thank god I have some some esteem left.
@aminanur57823 жыл бұрын
Your French accent is perfect don’t change. Your absolutely 100 correct I needed to hear this, thank you.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@basicinfo2022 Жыл бұрын
4:11 affirm to yourself: "I deserve more" 4:40 tell him its not exciting anymore. 8:15 "i like you but this is not the best"
@aminanur57823 жыл бұрын
Your French accent is perfect don’t change it, I need to hear this today, thank you!!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@2wyn3793 жыл бұрын
This is good advice as to not be taken for granted.
@thereseanderson25122 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your inclusion of the idea that the guy says pretty things to u to manipulate u. Also liked about not trying to make him jealous.
@hajji15093 жыл бұрын
I'll try it because this relationship is going down, down, down! We had a HUGE argument last night about his complete selfishness. I gave FAR too much and clearly have been doing it all wrong
@memeyall79383 жыл бұрын
I tried this and it pushed him away for good. Thanks Alex
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Well done!
@angelsandocean28533 жыл бұрын
Great!
@mellead87273 жыл бұрын
What happened?
@emmarettalove4863 жыл бұрын
Love your voice ,face and mostly your words. Thanks for helping us see our worth.
@jaydeal40792 жыл бұрын
I did what u told me to, it’s been 3 days and he hasn’t reached out :( I’m not texting or calling ever again if he doesn’t chase me!! 6 months dating this guy with no label
@zashazorbia213 жыл бұрын
Lots of respect Sir. Love from India.
@iamURHO3 жыл бұрын
You're not only giving people relationship advice but you're also teaching women good character despite being somewhat broken and helping us to be wholesome by make our standards high. Myself from 2 years ago needed this. The guy being manipulative was accurate. And you are one of the reasons why I recovered and learned French haha God bless you. Merci beaucoup mec.
@mariagiveth53143 жыл бұрын
I love you but how we're now is not the best! This goes straight to him.. thanks Sir Alex
@realworld27373 жыл бұрын
I love your advice...it's short and useful.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@pradeepdheer62253 жыл бұрын
Alex you are Always sincere and genuinely concerned about women. I love love listening to you. when I doubt a man's such and such behaviour I come to your videos and realise my worth. You are the best and sweetest Alex🥰 1000'ns of likes to you Alex🥰
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that
@rowenabrusola18783 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex for teaching me what to say on my present situation . It helps alot
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@blingblingnelida3 жыл бұрын
HOLA COACH ALEX...💪 " OMG..." YOU HIT THE TARGET WITH THIS...LOVE THIS TRUE FACT...YOUR TRANSPARENCY HONESTY LOYAL TO US...LADIES.. 💘 LOVE THIS VIDEO..."
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that
@nancybruney22023 жыл бұрын
I LOVE your videos.
@amandakeller45393 жыл бұрын
I love your advice and this channel!!!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@wiewioraa83 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew this last year..
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you are here!
@puritywangeshi99133 жыл бұрын
True good advice
@maggiewanjiru28073 жыл бұрын
Alex, wao your topic is amazing Thank you and, I will love my boyfriend with or without commitment I possibly will never force him on that road...but he will because i know he loves me too.
@Blissedandblessed3 жыл бұрын
What do I do if he keeps saying he wants to see me but doesn't follow through?
@mariamaharaj64752 жыл бұрын
ALIX thanks so much for your advice I think my boyfriend through he had full control on me he was acting horrible so I blocked him
@michelleporter39593 жыл бұрын
I am seeing someone think he is seeing someone what do do about it I do care for him but I can't handle the way he go hot and cold
@ShareBearChelle3 жыл бұрын
Coach Alex, 💔💔 this is tough because I think my husband started watching/following a relationship coach called Alpha Male Strategies (AMS). Now he just has a completely different mindset about love and relationships than he did when we met. I'm ready to give up now. 💔💔
@nobuhlenonkonyana14393 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Alex im always watch yr vidios they r so helpful ..all the way from South Africa in Cape Town
@yanelanava29343 жыл бұрын
Alex you are the best!!! Thank you why I didnt meet you before??
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Maybe one day!
@yanelanava29343 жыл бұрын
you made me smile !! Thanks!
@mellandreavista7803 жыл бұрын
I love it!
@hananeoran47033 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alex
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@alicedreams98333 жыл бұрын
💕Love you Alex💕
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support, so appreciated!
@amarosarahfin25973 жыл бұрын
Thanks it's true
@syramalik89143 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot Alex
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@syramalik89143 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert my pleasure 😊
@angelsandocean28533 жыл бұрын
Demeaning relationships and dating with him 👌 Denigrate relationships while value yourself more.. and see what happens
@HeartDrivenTarot3 жыл бұрын
This is great!
@Sunnysideup01 Жыл бұрын
If you submit into a casual role no matter what you say it won’t make him commit , you have to make it clear from the beginning
@halimaff9713 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@wulandari81803 жыл бұрын
What to say to A man that Doesn 't want to commit , I Will say goodbye .
@daljeet11033 жыл бұрын
Thanku Alex
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
You are welcome, thank you for your support!
@camnguyen99193 жыл бұрын
Hi Alex .. I’m new scriber I love yur vedeos .. thanks for yur advice of yur knowledge .. make women of us .. getting better relationships if we keep learning from you 👍❤️
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will
@ajarichardfatty24033 жыл бұрын
Am always glad to hear you
@phiphis26353 жыл бұрын
I tried this and he said "I don't wanna hurt you, you deserve someone better" he just not ready to commit at all. He says he wanna enjoy his life and is ready to let me go 😭
@insideoutpodcastonspotify53078 ай бұрын
Please help me. He broke up with me bc he said I’ll be happier. And he said it’s the right thing. I want him back. It’s not the right thing it’s the easy thing bc he doesn’t wanna commit. Pls make a video on why he said I’ll be happier wihtout him and what to do!
@FrenchRelationshipExpert8 ай бұрын
Hi there! I'm so sorry to hear this! This is a great video suggestion I will keep this in mind. He probably has a lot going through his mind right now and although I don't fully know your situation, I would take this time to focus all your love and energy onto yourself ❤️
@bellasha80223 жыл бұрын
@Alex Cormont how about me I am in situation (married) me and my husband living separate is it wrong for me to asked him question like to put him in pedestal what else I should do to be able to have communication to my husband as everything subject to him it seem pressure him all's 🥺???
@ActivateDivineDNA2 жыл бұрын
✨✨✨♾♾♾🙏🙏🙏🙏♾♾♾❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💯💯💯💯💯perfect useful exciting I appreciate you and love your knowledge
@elhairaalang63433 жыл бұрын
Good day Alex! HOPE YOU'LL NOTICE MY CONCERN. I just wanna ask you to post a video tips about how to make your man avoid from cheating, what should I do as a woman to make him choose me than the other girls he might chatting. Btw I'm your solid subscriber because of you, our relationship had been back to normal, he's always into me and so far, he treated me well but I just want to know about my concern I hope you'll help me. Thanks in advance
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being a subscriber. You are enough, just be yourself.
@youmatter35103 жыл бұрын
He say he do love me but he doesn't want to marry.but he is still in touch trying to hold on to me as a fact I do love him but I don't know how to deal with this..I want to get rid of him but I can't..I feel so sorry for myself.please help.your counseling video are very helpful .
@rizwanaaauleear66613 жыл бұрын
I'm so tired
@shashichaudhary93083 жыл бұрын
Nice Alex, but what about his bad behaviour. Is it ok to call him out? Or if he contacts then just attack relationship and not him
@mellead87273 жыл бұрын
So should we really tell him “I like you but the time we spend together is not that good”?
@danicaharley627311 ай бұрын
That's insulting him and untrue if you really liked him. I'd say I really like so many things about you but we don't want the same things so I can't continue like this. If he misses you, he'll do anything to get you back once it hits him you are really gone 😅
@xhenleelee67923 жыл бұрын
How to know if a guy serious with you even u didn't meet in person. He is single dad and I'm a single mom too he really wants to meet me bec we are same country to work but just different place. I was refused to meet with him l said to him after my contract we can meet up and then he was agree in that time a lot of sweetness words from the beginning our conversation with planing in the future life but we always fight especially when he really knows that l always refuses to meet him right now, now l don't know if what currently of our relationship l really confused but there's redflag
@dai21373 жыл бұрын
Hey 🙋🏽♀️
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Morning!
@HeartDrivenTarot3 жыл бұрын
Hmm. But, I’ve been with my boyfriend 3 1/2 years and I’ve been informally living with him(I have my own home which I’m selling because I completed my Federal career. Once I said this, he said he doesn’t want to live together (officially) and that he loves me but he’s all uncertain because he was in a terrible marriage for 30 years. He’s given me mixed messages. I’m not sure then that this approach would work? But I admit I’ve made things easy for him.
@bluerosefire_5033 жыл бұрын
👍! What do him fighting for you look like?
@DawnHattonАй бұрын
I wish id of seen this first Is it possible i can book in for some coaching with you please Would like pricea before hand thank you If you could pm x
@FrenchRelationshipExpertАй бұрын
Hi there! You can book a coaching session with me using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@pinaclemente89573 жыл бұрын
Every man I meet dint want commitment play me not sure I’m selective I have standard one I want don’t want me
@fruitfullane98053 жыл бұрын
I just tell them bless you...and I move on because when Jesus hung on the cross out of love...yet they cannot commit all the way...then it is not true love. As a nurse I walked and served people right up to death...yet today they cannot be bothered except minimal effort...well...my baby feet dance on by.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Hi Fruitful, Thank you for your services as a front liner during this pandemic. You are so appreciated.
@fafiabdu41513 жыл бұрын
Alex your english accent is cute
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
:-)
@MejgJanssenTV3 жыл бұрын
i'm the 1K like!!!!!!!!!!! :))))))
@isabellairaca16693 жыл бұрын
He says he has got personal problems...the truth is that he s not over his ex ( she left him to go with one of his best friends and now they are married). He told me he has gone out just once with a girl during the last 4 years he s single. He never arrange a date with me. I think he just want sex..Am I loosing my time or can I arrange a meet with him? Thanks for this great video
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that this video was helpful, Thank you for sharing. If your intuition is telling you he only wants sex, listen to this, and make a decision that's right for you.
@isabellairaca16693 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpertfine, I ll take some distance. Thanks for answering. I really appreciate your support ☺️
@shameenanwar75993 жыл бұрын
Alex I just subscribe your cannel
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for subscribing!
@shameenanwar75993 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert your welcome Alex love from Pakistan❤
@nibadita35613 жыл бұрын
Hi Alex, there is this guy I'm in a friends with benefits kind of relationship with. Before that he was the one who initiated conversations, plans to meet up, flirted etc. Then we started to "date" for 1 month until he decided it didn't work because of different cultures, religion etc. Then we had a break for 1 month and reconnected again but as fwb. When we meet I get this feeling that he likes me a lot, we cuddle before and after sex, have fun, talk about everything but still tells me "what we have is friends with benefits with a god connection" he once even said that when we make love we connect on another level that can't be explained. Is this just good manipulation? I want him to be true to himself about his feelings for me, like he doesn't want to admit, I have this gut feeling, but maybe I am wrong. Anyways when I told him that I don't really feel any excitement anymore and that I don't have the energy to meet up he just said "well if you don't enjoy maybe we shouldn't meet up and continue" it's not like you said, it didn't feel like he was "afraid" of losing me? What else can I do, are there any other tips or strategies for my situation? And your videos are amazing by the way, they give me so much confidence :)
@FrenchRelationshipExpert3 жыл бұрын
Hey Nibadita, I have a video on my channel that talks about tips to make him fear losing you. kzbin.info/www/bejne/sKibiYhoZdCMjsU There is a chance that this relationship can work out again.
@nibadita35613 жыл бұрын
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you 😊
@aluminumfoil7702 жыл бұрын
He benefits from your presence, that is why he fears losing you. You said it best, this is just very effective manipulation. Please tell yourself that you deserve more, and seek connection with men outside of sex. You’ve articulated that you can do that well, seek the respect that reverence that you desire outside of this fwb relationship
@emelitamontederamos36073 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏
@tugzsurf Жыл бұрын
I think find a different man because when I date a man who is super into me I have no confusion. The hot and cold men are players period
@tugzsurf Жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s true the men now days will leave you no prob if you ask for more unless you are of status/image like a model they will just go find another women because there a ton of hot single women and not many good looking successful good men. So if you take this advice make sure you are ok with the man leaving