What to Say When Someone Undermines You

[@tammyanntaylor9082]

You’re giving lawyers a good name! ☺️

[@johnleebass]

😂😂it's not legal advice

[@DanceThrivePaleo]

Your advice is the most helpful advice I’ve found! Thank you for making these videos!

[@heatherknox8821]

I wish I could remember what you teach! I panic and get upset 😢

[@elizabethgillespie-gray1214]

Best advice I've found, done with thoughtfulness and kindness. I have deleted the others that are less helpful. Thank you Jefferson ❤

[@incognito595]

Jefferson, you are a light in the darkness of my life....Thank you.

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Yes, and AMEN🙏

[@incognito595]

THANK YOU, JEFFERSON. THANK YOU.

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I love you ❤ So glad your videos popped into my feed 🙏

[@Loving-waves]

Such helpful responses! Thank you Jefferson, these will definitely help me in my own responses to individuals.

[@Retro_Disco]

I need to take notes

[@soniaslater8909]

Gold!

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Great advice!

[@bevy-g5g]

❤That was great! I can relate much!

[@debrawycherley9737]

This has been so helpful. I can not thank you enough for helping me understand that it is not wrong to stand up for myself… do it in a descent and respectable manner. You are helping to restore my peace. 💕So grateful.

[@Cecelia-n7d]

I like it that this young man is in a car. I do not know his reasons, but, I what I like about it is its small, intimate space; and to me it looks cute, like he is just on his way somewhere and he's talking to a friend.

[@tammyanntaylor9082]

Write a book!!

[@vivienteo2927]

Wow! This is such an excellent tip. We are so grateful that you make such content so relatable and relevant to us. Can’t wait to get hold of your book when it’s published

[@leez2375]

Excellent responses

[@reeboxa007]

Great stuff! Thank you.

[@crissycobain8361]

This will be helpful. Thank you Jefferson!

[@jeannekelly5198]

It's a little unnerving how you pinpoint my weaknesses in every single one of the numerous videos I have seen thus far....& have saved so I can watch over & over again to automatically remember in the time of need. So, thank you!! (Just wish I learned all this years ago; would have saved a lot of hurt & heartbreak, BUT at least I am learning it now!) The book idea mentioned in the Comments is a good idea.

[@jeannekelly5198]

Just counted them: 30 videos! They are short, easy to digest the content & laser-focused. So empowering. And more coming! Again, thanks!!

[@yolandaz2706]

Great advice!!! Thank you & God bless you for sharing your wonderful knowledge🙏

[@PatriciaH44]

I have used this several times. It works!

[@ingrandv]

Thank you Jefferson, I really needed that!❤

[@m.tetrad466]

I needed this right now. I'm off to give it a try. Thanks so much!

[@trishlee001]

I know You are a Trial Attorney. Please allow me to say: Thank You Teacher for the Wisdom!!!

[@Sharon-nw5kd]

Good advice. Not passive but assertive.

[@josieflores8320]

THANK YOU ! JEFFERSON

[@lonajones899]

I love that!

[@WinterPhoto2006]

Thank you! As I'm not only a foreigner but English is also my second language, I'm always judged by my language skills. ❤

[@janettekreulen54]

That is for me a new one, when you put up with someone that does that all the time, I get used to it. Most of the time I say I do it wrong , o I am doing it wrong again, you are so perfect that is not human . And That happened only the best. I write this done ..this is new for me thanks 👍

[@patriciarees3776]

Weird, but I find myself actually looking forward to having these type scenarios happen so that I can practice using your suggestions...Thank you for such valuable info!

[@mpearson8766]

Many thanks!!

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Very polished. ❤

[@AliceLee-jt2bw]

Can I say this to my boss? She is being disrespectful to me.

[@JD-hb5fo]

Yes but only if you have low expectations of influencing how they treat you going forward and only if you are confident enough in your ability to know you can find another job if needed i.e. you are not beholden to your employer. Tread lightly due to the power dynamic.

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Good day, Thank you so much for shearing. Plesant and natrual. The microfoon seems almost like a distraction. But the again its the massage that matters. Thank you.

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I love your content! I'm just praying I remember them when the time comes for me to utilize them. 😊

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Wow this video is absolutely phenomenal this one is really really really really really really good thank you immensely

[@Deba7777]

That's REALLY good!

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Thank you for your tips. Very helpful! 😊

[@juliebriz1703]

Fab... Thanks so much!

[@takeiteasy7062]

I wish taxi driver's would share such wisdom through the rear view mirror!! 😉 😊 🇬🇧

[@monicalifornia_]

💯💯

[@hunterluxton5976]

It all comes from insecurity.

[@maricarvillarosa4510]

I love this much .. thanks

[@JudeNance]

Thanks 🎉

[@Here2vibe]

Just wondering because this fear is what's stopping me from standing up for myself: What if the person reacts with anger or revenge?

[@leahg3926]

Perfect ❤

[@Cheryldqt]

Family members who do this are tough to redirect. One screams every word at me. When I speak softly, it doesn't work to turn their volume down. What to do?

[@LukasJohns]

Ask quietly if they’ve had their hearing checked lately 😮 when they ask why, tell them gently & with a smile, that it’s due to their constant high volume.

[@juliafisher5844]

Bot confused between this and the disrespect one ? Isn't it the same when he said say " the way you're talking is beneath me " ??

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I love you ❣️

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