What Walking Away Does to The Person You Left Behind

#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #stoicism
To properly & successfully walk away is to never try to win anyone back. It's to leave behind your past life and move forward into creating new memories and connect with better quality individuals

[@Forged88]

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[@mjblue84]

I have done this 3 times in my life and have not ever regretted it! I am now in my 70's. When people treat you badly, why would you even be attracted to that? Once you close the door, you will realize you are no longer attracted to them. That's the best part! Be brave and take that step. It's the best gift you will give yourself.

[@lilfairycupcake]

i have no issue with extracting anyone from my life.

[@TrainwrekedCS]

Absolutely. Best advice you could ever give somebody, sir. Thank you very much and I am fully wholeheartedly agree with you. I've done that a couple of times in my life. And I do not regret it at all. It's given me more peace in of mind and a little smirk.😂

[@alicehong7809]

I was “forced” to do this ONCE in my life. I hate to have to do it but that individual was TOXIC AS FK!!!

[@lilfairycupcake]

ive done it many, many, times. 0 regret. @@alicehong7809

[@susanhampton9671]

Sage advice.

[@annstewart8506]

Hold your head up high and walk away from their toxicity. You owe it to yourself.

[@HighSpeedNoDrag]

The only way to escape and depart "their" control is the Irish Goodbye.

[@rayc9899]

Always love yourself enough to walk away from empty, sour and jealous individuals from the start, they are not worth your precious energies.

[@Jakilyn]

This is a wise move, however, walking away/ghosting will have zero impact on someone who doesn't appreciate or value you. You're doing it for yourself. They likely don't care anyway. They may miss the benefits your presence brought. (REITERATING)

[@ChiDante]

True, but this effect goes deeper to why . Try cord cutting on a metaphysical level since alot of invisible energy may be still flowing to them that you may as well consider as energy they have stolen from you. People fail to respectfully value presence cause it's hard to put a price tag on it. That's also why it's harder to keep track of your own energetic balance. At the end of the day it should be you who determines if they get to be high or low on your energies. And usually narcissist... guilt trip you without any care for your side of the story

[@amplifiededits111]

So so true🎉

[@user_abcxyzz]

💯

[@TheSnedmeister]

Fuxk them who cares what they think. Their miserable anyways hence why the harrass you and try interfer In your life and happiness 💯

[@NONEAPPLICABLETONONSENSE]

​@@ChiDante Also They will gaslight you further to steal a connection. It's like they're stuck in this infancy stage of their own mental maturity. There are no exceptions and no malice. Forgive people and move on with your life simple.

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Interesting video content. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@karladuncan6764]

My boyfriend left me after 20 years, I became disabled and he had found someone not disabled.

[@wendysmith-Florida]

sometimes a person walks away not because they’ve been mistreated but because they have been using the other person and they’ve gotten what they wanted

[@deanalexander3086]

Yeah most of the times this is the case

[@rogue_spirit]

Not the context of this video.

[@JronDon854]

This is the actual reason.

[@perrykim5732]

Facts, thats why I had to walk away silently yesterday I had too.

[@Occupied_South]

That's not what we're talking about here

[@bednoises6391]

Walking away/breaking up with my ex back in September was the most important thing I have done for my mental health. Now I've been dating a new woman who wants nothing but to make my life easier whilst also rooting for me to improve myself as a person.

[@SAMCRO21]

Bro take care of that connection cuz nowadays it’s hard asf to find that

[@greenbean2222]

How did you meet someone like that

[@SAMCRO21]

@@greenbean2222 pretty much how he explains it lol…cuz once you let go of one person then the other is able to energetically enter your life

[@amyzhu5187]

@@SAMCRO21 literally, all these boys are just a copy of one another. They don’t have a sense on how to value or respect one. Let alone understand what “love” is.

[@Valhalla_Heathen]

Wow congrats to you and your new girlfriend, comrade! I wish you both nothing but the best and Happy New 2024 🎉 Cheers!

[@jnformisano6771]

OMG! What perfecting timing for me to find and listen to what you've said. I walked away, I walked away from disrespect, being too available, bresdcrumbing, giving them the comfort of never having to think twice, etc. I loved him, I fed his ego, bolstered a broken, wounded soul, and forgot about me....I walked away, and I'm never looking back. Thank you so very much ❤😢

[@martinpetersson4350]

I hope he wasn’t me. I regret having blocked someone almost right after doing it and now I regret it deeply I didn’t understand how much damage it caused her either. The worst thing I’ve ever done. I know I killed all attraction, I had never been in a relationship before and I hate having to learn what not to do the hard way, I just hope she’ll accept my new friend request so we at the very least can have some closure

[@SabrinaDacosta]

@martinpegeeson4350 Just move on. You started a chain of events that will never stop. Practice self control next time and so not be so impulsive

[@martinpetersson4350]

@@SabrinaDacosta yeah you’re right

[@Stellanankya]

Broke it yesterday but I can't even sleep, I liked him but all I was getting was self doubt, breadcrumbs and disrespect. 😢

[@bridgetcerveau8721]

I finally walked away after trying to break up from him for several years. It has been 12 months now. It has been so hard at times, so painful, however it has also been amazing. I have learnt so much about myself and completely valuing and appreciating who I am. A beautiful, kind and compassionate woman. I gave my love to the wrong man. I won’t do that again. That’s a promise. I totally love and honour myself and deserve the best.

[@malone4735]

Walking Away Is a Man’s Greatest Strength 🚶🏻‍♂️💪

[@steve5181]

🤡

[@user_abcxyzz]

Or woman

[@blacklyfe5543]

Cowardness

[@malone4735]

@@blacklyfe5543 Ok Tough Guy

[@blacklyfe5543]

@@malone4735 ik I'm tough only a coward walks away from danger a real man stands on his own feet and fight for what he believes in 🤫. It's okay to walk away from certain situations that might jepardize your job or freedom but you should enforce respect among your enemies, there's no place for disrespect in my world.

[@rc.attucks]

I just ghosted this chick after 12 years for all the reasons the content creator mentioned. Best thing i could've done. I haven't looked back.

[@mekaelaknodt2021]

You can walk away from anyone no matter where you are. It doesn't mean that you have to move somewhere else, unless you lived with them. There will always be people who won't like you for whatever reasons, that's life. Just don't let them into your circle

[@mois9555]

Walking away is self protecting, not punishment for the other person.

[@alicehong7809]

2 birds in 1 stone sometimes. 😏

[@hikerhobby1204]

Yes, self protection! Sometimes your body can no longer take the stress.

[@rayc9899]

Walking away meet I respect myself, indeed, a self protecting act toward myself, toxic humans are NOT WORTH my loving self.

[@lilfairycupcake]

exactly. it has nothing to do with punishment.

[@jeraldbaxter3532]

True. While this video does make some valid points, it is really not about self-preservation, but instead, punishing those who have hurt us, or, as is more often the case, someone who we feel has hurt us. If we must end a relationship for our own health, that is one thing; to end a relationship and then gloat over the hurt you think (hope) the other person is feeling is toxic.This video is not about healthy ways to improve our lives, it is about extracting perceived revenge.

[@adamoart211]

You should never have to beg or bend over backwards for someone else's time or attention. If they don't value you and appreciate you on a genuine level, that person deserves to be left behind

[@jazzman1626]

I wish I was taught this when I was 5 years old. This is the best advice I’ve ever heard.

[@Jaeger_Bishop]

Had to finally do this to a friend of 15+ years recently. I like being kind and helpful where I can but I was frankly sick and tired of his inability to keep his word or even just return what was mine. The way he brushed off my warnings and concerns which ended up with me holding the bag for a debt I otherwise never would have gotten. No, I just blocked his number, socials...all of it. Maybe, just maybe this experience will teach him the value of keeping his word and paying his debts, monetary or otherwise. It's not about the money honestly, it was about the blatant disrespect.

[@smileyglitter852]

Unfortunately my guy you can kiss your money good bye. Didn't seem like a good friend to start with. Good luck hopefully you'll be out of debt soon.

[@lilfairycupcake]

generally they dont. a holes, generally stay a holes.

[@IAmTheEagleHTM]

Well this is a message for me. I've been around folks who only bring me more harm than good. Thank you.

[@ChiDante]

The Universe IS Relation

[@LeeAdrian777]

Don’t walk away, fly away Eagle 🦅

[@daveh9803]

When one has difficulty walking away from a relationship they know they should leave, they’re most likely suffering from a trauma bond. These bonds happen when a person literally becomes drug addicted to the feel good hormones swirling in their brain. The abuser uses intermittent reinforcement, and breaking these bonds as difficult as quitting any drug addiction. Only once a person realizes that there is a problem is the road to healing opened.

[@barbarasenchuk6175]

At 17 in 1979, I walked away from a person with whom I had an excellent friendship and I can tell everyone that I have regretted and thought about him for many years if I had to do it over I would not have walked away.

[@FriendofDorothy]

Uh oh....the plot thickens... your comment adds counterpoint to most of the others. Everybody is strapping on their hiking boots to take this advice but your comment at least advises others to THINK first: Was the person really abusive? What was our own role in allowing the abuse or disregarding it? I am intrigued by your comment because I am in a situation where the other person just wants me for sex but I want more. The song that keeps coming to mind is "I Can't Make You Love Me". I accept responsibility for rationalizing the behavior for over a year now, but I admit I enjoy the sex. I am NOT seeing myself as a victim in this situation, I believe in really looking at my own role in this. This person has been honest from the start as to the potential for romance. I want roses (yes, some men do!), not a perpetuation of booty calls, lol! But alas, I feel there is a difference between overt abuse and someone who is just scared of emotional intimacy and thus "emotionally unavailable". I have indeed walked away from two people in the past, but those people were genuinely abusive and tested my boundaries. I told both before moving in that ANY physical violence will lead to my leaving and I did ! I keep going back to current one because the sex is sizzling. I am thus not ready to walk away, but to instead "compartmentalize" so this person is now relegated to "the sex box" and I am privately resuming my search for a quality person who is not afraid of non-sexual touch and offers the affection I seek. A therapist was not helpful in sorting this out.

[@alicehong7809]

Oh wow. 1979…

[@MrWhaatay]

The fact that they didn't try to get you back tells you that you did the right thing.

[@janebond8342]

@@FriendofDorothy please try a different therapist - they are only human, some good, some not so good. Your situation is more common than you think and CAN be resolved. Have faith in you!

[@reneesears2501]

I've been ghosted for no apparent reason, I'm a caring kind compassionate person who didn't deserve this horrible action, not all people are as this video says to the person whom walked away is this manner. It's very disturbing to see this be backed or cheered on to people as a way out of any type of relationship....

[@curlyandstrong6798]

Exactly. Not everyone deserves to be ghosted. Especially if you are a caring person. I am speaking from experience.

[@yeswing10]

Their rejection is your protection.

[@curlyandstrong6798]

@@yeswing10 amen 🙏🏽

[@alicehong7809]

In your case, that TRASH took itself out.

[@jamesrutter4100]

If your for real. Consider it as an act of God. And run, change your phone number and address. And don't look back. For your OWN well being.

[@wickedhruv]

For this philosophy to be applied correctly, the person should firstly be wary of their own dilutions and unrealistic expectations from the person/people they're planning to walk away from, otherwise, you'll end up unintentionally hurting the people who genuely cares for you.

[@fembot521]

I explained why I was leaving and told the person I appreciated their friendship and wished them the best. I meant it and I wanted to end things on a positive note for me.

[@MrWhaatay]

The video says you aren't supposed to explain.

[@abarbereau9958]

What happens when you are a seven year old child and your father walks away forever. Abandonnent issues and all the rest of the utterly destroying emotions that come with it. So although in life there are many times it is the right thing to walk away there are times this cannot be validated.

[@L6FT]

"Walking away", "Ghosting", "No contacting" is basically trauma bond triggering. It is good strategy to employ if someone treated you badly as people will only want to change bad behaviour when there are consequences, that's nature. The more drastic the disappearance the greater the impression, the deeper the lesson. If you want anyone to love and respect you, then boundaries are important. If you don't know what you went, then notice that it is the opposite of what you don't want. Love and respect yourself so you may protect others in your presence.

[@konsciouskulture1351]

Instead of speaking up and saying it directly and out or love we live in a world driven by power we forgot that we can transmute how people treat us with love Instead of giving them the same hate they gave us I’m not justifying staying in a disrespectful environment but this is not how we make the world a better place You can walk away with love

[@niqqa9]

Nah fuck that

[@zion367]

True. I dont think ghosting people is very mature or respectful. If everybody just walks away from a person without saying why we do so they will never know what causes it in case they wanna work on it.

[@marshallpeters3853]

Go back to your korean drama bullcrap my guy

[@WNdaba]

​@@zion367most times people walk away after having tolerated disrespect so many times, addressed the situation several time, observed possible changes and your last tired is tired. Most times the aggressor knows very well what they are doing. So ghosting is normally not ghosting because you will have followed the above to remedy the situation.

[@zion367]

@@WNdaba I still think we can let them know we are done with their crap.

[@Guy-tq1wr]

I walked away from my siblings of origin after taking care of all my parents HUGE after life stuff. Siblings would not lift a finger to help. I died mentally and internally at least 50x. Seriously! I literally would rather be physically tortured to the EXTREME and killed after a week rather than go through that again. I have not returned a call in 3 years. Unfortunately my adult son was contacted and he gave his version of my version which was not my version really, so the effect was kinda skewed. My son knew he goofed up afterwards. I Love my son more than anything in this life, so at the end of the day, I don't really care what these siblings or their families think or do. I don't think I will ever contact them.

[@juliejenings3785]

I’m walking away from a friendship. She has deep seeded triggers that come out of her like a demon possessed her. It has happened 5 times or so in the 10 years I’ve known her. I intend to tell her why I’m leaving the friendship and it’s up to her to do something about it. There is no interest in what she does after I go, therefore no manipulation on my part. Thank you for this video mr F, I am intending to listen daily until it’s stuck in my head. You are a jewel, precious and so appreciated.

[@Sally-ih6ls]

It’s horrible to do this to anyone….absolutely disgusting unless of course they were abusive

[@Melinda8162]

I know. Happened to me. I didn’t expect it….and absolutely no word from him since for 9 months. He totally knew I would be heartbroken and that I loved him and was so happy. Yes, it was cruel…

[@Sally-ih6ls]

@@Melinda8162 never knew this could happen to me let alone it was a thing but it is getting worse and worse. Society is accepting this along with some therapists encouraging it for their clients best interest, not thinking what it dies to the person on the receiv8ng end. I’m sorry you had to go through it🤗

[@Dude-vb4ul]

The Times I walk away I always make sure that the day before I disappear I do everything they like, super thoughtful etc. It's much more impactful that way.

[@kanereall]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[@jack-gx]

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@katechenney]

Really? How do i find one?

[@Ken_Johnson]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@jack-gx]

Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@kanereall]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@donnadaniels5095]

This is exactly what I have done waking away, from my entire family including my mother sisters Frenemies lovers, everyone who did not appreciate me🤫 is their karma for what they have done to other people, before I got there🤷‍♀️ seeing people for who they really are no contact🎯 God is in control🙏🏽⚔🦁

[@ranjitkale913]

I lost something I never had, yet it hurts so bad. Here, I summed it up for you!

[@Snarge22]

From the 48 Laws of Power: #9 Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument. Walking away is exactly that once a viable solution is not possible. It's probably in the book somewhere as well, but never allow yourself to be put in a position of weakness. That today is marriage sanctioned by the State. An extremely disempowering action for men who want commitment yet it robs men of their personal authority.

[@poppytaylor765]

And women because both lose when it comes to divorce

[@Snarge22]

@@poppytaylor765 If women lost so much they wouldn't be divorcing their husbands 2/3rds of the time. There is just no way "all" those men are the problem (many are). Add in the divorce industry fleecing the couple for as much as they can get and you can see why marriage has been going down for a couple of generations now. Your remark that women lose in divorce is the indication of their reliance on husbands to sustain their standards of living. But who am I kidding poppytaylor765, accountability to women is like Kryptonite to Superman.

[@poppytaylor765]

@@Snarge22 I take accountability don’t worry and I’m self aware so personally think I’d make a good wife. I don’t speak for other women I speak for myself

[@Snarge22]

Man can't trust your virtue@@poppytaylor765 as most all marriages are thought to be lifelong when the vows are given. ...until they're not. You need to ask yourself the question from a man's point of view, "What does marriage provide that I can't already get without it?" I'll help you with that answer in regards to men. The answer is; absolutely nothing! In fact it's much worse than that. Men still are held to their obligations, being accountable and responsible. Yet today in marriage they have no authority as that's been usurped by the state, its laws, and the divorce industry. Men can get sex outside of marriage (not guaranteed in marriage) and they can have children. Being able to get these makes a State marriage license utterly pointless to men who are aware of the legal dynamic. When men are in a long term relationship and not a State legal marriage, well that exit is never fully shut, and the women know this! It alters their behavior knowing their man isn't fully locked down. Good luck to you Poppy Taylor, but if you run across men reluctant to marry, you'll know why.

[@escarlit]

@@Snarge22can we not turn everything into a battle of the sexes? bad men AND women exist-no one’s got the monopoly.

[@charlesfaith6021]

Wonderful speech l love it .lt inspired me .A Nigerian watching from lvory coast

[@lilfairycupcake]

there is nothing to explain; they know exactly why you walked away.

[@Abominable_Intelligences]

I have stept away from my ex-partner and 3 years ago, not saying anything or what not. And not looking back either, cut all communications as well It did its purpose, the only that bugs me is the fact I left my adopted son who I took care of since he was a month old. But I know its for the best, Now I'm back with my parents and don't have any plans of getting back into any emotional relationship after what I have gone through but seeing my parents who are in their 80's, got myself a new job, and seeing them being happy with me around is what completes me. Thank you Mr. Forged, you've been of great help making me stand on my own feet again. I've watched your uploads consistently, I cant thank you enough

[@BenjaminNavejar]

@markuzzz266I don't think I'm capable of being an emotional tampon for any woman ever again it's been 15 months and I did the same thing as far as leaving complete no contact.Right before XMAS she tried to contact me. Some people are to emotionally damaged and entitled to have a healthy relationship and they don't have or refuse to acknowledge self-awareness to heal there baggage. My mental, emotional, physical, spiritual health is healing and my confidence is coming back. Fulfillment in life comes from within !

[@gusmonster59]

Poor behavior on your part. You tell someone why you are leaving. You act in respectful manner to them and to yourself. Had you done it the proper way, you may still be in your son's life.

[@amyzhu5187]

Even worse for me bc I can’t walk away from someone who doesn’t love me back but he doesn’t necessarily hurt me in those aspects. But, some things he does do hurt me emotionally.

[@amyzhu5187]

I lied, yes you can walk away. But, it doesn’t mean you have to let them know.

[@user-j1spswelskisj]

Yes, it's easy to walk away when they treat you like dirt but it's sooo hurtful to walk away when they're nice to you but it just hurts to be in touch with them but can't be involved with them

[@superfields1194]

silence is golden and sends a deafening message...

[@Neo_Zeus_Prime]

I just did this. Handled it with class, she tried to make it all crazy but I didn't feed into it. I know it is for the best

[@Flyingfish6907]

Stay strong

[@Lillian-z7c]

It’s very empowering to stand on business when someone switches up on you. Let them go be less. 😊❤🎉

[@AdrianVentio-hk9ut]

I have tried so many times w my toxoc ex thank you for this video i needed to hear this today!!! Im so done!!!!!!!

[@jlm3195]

I can not support ghosting at all. At least say goodbye if you can’t say why.

[@DaphneMarina88]

Actually you are talking about Ghosting. That is immature. Give reasons because of YOU, not them! We are all here to teach and learn from one another. Take the high road.

[@sospeterojowaoloo]

A Good message to Start my Morning

[@joseeasselin-fightingms582]

I think if you walk away without saying anything is doing the same thing that they can do. I walked away but I told him I didn't want to be contacted again. I have moved on with my life and want to be left alone. I felt better saying that. Just not answering texts or else would have made me feel disrespectful and I am walking away for this very reason, because I am not respected by him. So I don't want to have the same behaviour.

[@victoriabrand2777]

I've had to do this many times recently and it really works.

[@jonschafer1356]

This entire monologue All of it On point Self respect and dignity You nailed it man You have no idea how important this is to me man Changed my life Running into this and some of your other vids, you saved ONE LIFE bro Real talk Thank you

[@karenwantland4724]

Thank you for your encouragement to walk away from bad behavior that has been going on for Far to many years by 2 daughter's.,,,,the bridge has been burned forever. Thank you very grateful!

[@CSIgirl30]

This is good. Definitely resonates, needed this advice 10 years ago

[@VannColbert]

But this move here is also considered narcissistic. If you were in a meaningful relationship with someone if you're leaving them they at least have the right to know why.. After that go your Merry way.... And they can go there's. But to leave someone wondering is never the move that's just wrong I kind of don't agree with this video it sounds good but I don't agree

[@josephrussell4625]

Your views may not be popular in this chat, but I agree with you. You should be mature enough to let someone know why you're leaving. That way you don't have to look back with questions, or regrets later.

[@PatriciaHinojos-k3m]

Exactly. Pure cowardice.

[@marshallpeters3853]

No one has the right to know what you're thinking about them. You lot are just a bunch of drama queens who like to continue unnecessary drama. The video clearly said that this is in the context of a person whos been disrespecting you for a long time, why would you try to further reason with someone that treated you like trash? Stop trying to be so nice to those who basically threw you to the curb

[@LeeAdrian777]

If they have been scum of the earth to you they deserve no explanation.

[@CameronWoods-xe5wg]

4:47 is the moment I knew this was total shit. They leave because they never cared. It's really that simple.

[@denisstupar3455]

Great work. Raw truth

[@FitnessForLife-GetRipped-cf4wb]

People never think about the ones left behind. It’s a tightrope…. Trust too much and you get killed inside… Trust too little and you kill others inside… It’s a tightrope… Over the abyss one must walk for everyone…. “I know it’s hard to keep an open heart when even friends seem out to harm you.” (November Rain, Guns N’ Roses) 🌹☸️🔫

[@vallang4832]

You will not ever get respect from walking away from a sociopath

[@Dude-vb4ul]

As a sociopath I respect everyone who walked away from me

[@yeeeeeyy]

Wow what a powerful message. Thank you so much.

[@laurajoseph4979]

Very immature and toxic. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Peace

[@YvonneStewart-m3f]

Be careful of others that use false images personality, character traits . Will pickup a few more portraying. Acting like another you open up. Attached interested A REAL MEN, TREAT FEMALES AS A PERSON. COMMUNICATES INTELLECTUALLY LISTENS TO THOSE. MEN DRESS SHAPE MAN. DRINKS TWO RUM & COKE. THOUGHTS IDEAS MENTUALLY SILENTLY DESIGN. OBJECT FOR HIS COMPANY USE FOR SEVERAL USEFUL.

[@sneezln]

Thank you I love watching people’s material and your words resonate wyth many.

[@Cowboy19735]

I just walked away finally from my ex-wife who did nothing but play " Head Games & Lies " even after the divorce! She kept going back and forth on loving and caring for me then making plans with other men. I'm Done!!!!!

[@Achcautli69]

Basically, you are saying to ghost a person, and in my opinion that is the worst advice you can give because ghosting can really damage a person's mind and leave them with a life trauma. Walking away and writing or telling them (not in person) why you left is a better way to do it.

[@marshallpeters3853]

Life trauma? How soft/nice you have to be to be such a jelly dude

[@Uzbug]

I was walked away from on Halloween last year. She'd broken things off 6 weeks prior to that and I did my best to get her back but that day I knew it was over. Still unclear as to the reasons but I've removed her from Facebook friends and no longer have her messages on my cellphone. I seriously question how genuine her affections to me were. If our paths cross again I'll ignore her.

[@jason20599]

Focus on and love yourself 💯

[@jacksaintjack2844]

Today was the last straw. One of my pet peeves is being disrespected and/or ignored. She has a habit of disappearing in the middle of a chat,. She will ask a question and I promptly answer but she is gone. Didn't hang around for the answer. WTF ??? The other is taking up to 5 hours to respond to a message I sent. Especially on the weekends. Gets me wondering what or who she is doing. So today (she is off work in a different country) and had all day to respond. I sent the message at 3pm her time and still had no response by 10pm her time. I sent a message not to bother messaging me that I was turning my phone off. But instead, I went straight to her profile and blocked her. I just walked away and there ain't no going back. It is amazing how stress free I feel.

[@HaakonGraf]

A work colleague did this: just walked away without saying bye .. but for no rational reason. My take : no common courtesy. Or manipulative.

[@haydnroberts8614]

Good Points. But i would add just leaving a note saying I am gone and not to look for me. Would not want the authorities etc looking for me, under the guise of a missing person report or the like. Would not harm to salt your trail ( beforehand) with a few dead end clues …

[@shannoncurrence6868]

I Told them before hand...wow...and still...am I really free....thx for Grace Jesus...hope in

[@jillbrooks3373]

Now, take all of those things it said that your walking away did to that person and imagine you've done it to someone who has caused you no harm at all. Someone who has done nothing but give you love and attentiveness and take from their own lives to give to you what you needed. Only to have you completely disappear from their lives with no explanation, never to be seen again. If you knew you had done that to someone, how would you feel/what would you think about it? I'm not trying to create an argument, I am genuinely asking for insight from that particular point of view in that eventuality.

[@mirandasallady8370]

This is literally the most immature and cowardly way to end a relationship. I hate to think what a toxic and hurtful presence the OP has in the real world. I am astonished that ANYONE with any sense, could hear these 7 mins of idiocy and think that it seems like a good plan of action. Grow tf up and learn to communicate as an effective adult human. Please people.

[@marshallpeters3853]

All is fair in love & war. Deal with it.

[@mirandasallady8370]

@@marshallpeters3853 what I actually "deal with" are whatever issues arise in my relationships, like a grown up, mature, human. It's unfortunate that more people don't. As opposed to acting a fool, too immature to communicate. Or perhaps too ignorant. Either way, that's how love turns into war, and it doesn't have to, if only more people would "deal with" their issues instead of running and hiding from them.

[@marshallpeters3853]

@@mirandasallady8370 Keep denying reality and keep getting butthurt then. Why try to fix anything further if it was already unfixable or irreconciable? Let it go and move on, especially when it turned into blatant disrespect.

[@chereeelliott7474]

This is actually ghosting lol 😆 I honestly feel we are getting mixed messages from all the videos giving advice at the moment

[@lilfairycupcake]

not caring, properly applied, can be a beautiful thing.

[@Yourmom916]

Man getting ghosted sucks the worst, especially after you start catching feels for the person. Man I’m such a betch smh

[@imbookedandverybusyhoney]

It's best to simply walk away in silence, absolutely no warning, 🔕 I've done it several times with no regrets ❤

[@josephrego2527]

Walking away without an explanation can be an extremely cruel way of ending a relationship. Especially if that person truly loved you. Both parties in a relationship are responsible for it going awry. To end a relationship in such an abusive way only shows the anger, abusiveness and revenge seeking of the abandoner. Only a very flawed person in need of healing would indulge in such a self-serving act .

[@stevenkrupka3670]

No they're not, not always anyway, thats a blanket statement broad - brushing "everyone"

[@linhtholuu8926]

Thankyou so much that is so true and amazing!!

[@jvb6072]

This video is awful. How could you be so calculatingly cruel to purposely hurt someone like that. That person will have forever karma.

[@jason20599]

There’s a reason why someone has to let go.

[@Ellie49]

@@jason20599 Letting go is VERY different from walking away.

[@christopherleubner6633]

In a truly abusive relationship it does nothing except anger them. Also expect to lose everything good as well as the bad. The kids, home, friends etc.

[@AnnHurrell-wl5ub]

Two sides TO every story ALWAYS !!.!!!

[@AncaVasile-v2z]

This is emotional abuse you are teaching here. Don't get me wrong, I do recommend walking away from a toxic situation/relationship, but do it by offering a clear-cut ending. Ghosting somebody is extremely passive-aggressive, it's a form of manipulation and it's pathological.

[@marshallpeters3853]

🤦‍♂️ can't even understand the context of the whole thing

[@AncaVasile-v2z]

@@marshallpeters3853 Let's say you're in a toxic relationship with someone who constantly hurts you and treats you bad. At some point you want to end the relationship. The video teaches you how to hurt back that person, namely by simply disappearing one day, without any explanation. It's called ghosting - google "ghosting and narcissistic abuse". It's very traumatic.

[@marshallpeters3853]

​@@AncaVasile-v2zWhy would you even care about how they feel any further if they hurt you for too long dude. Get away & stay away, simple. Its not like you're abusing them back the way they did, you're simply disappearing. Don't be too nice and try to waste more time giving them any reason. Bounce & move on

[@AncaVasile-v2z]

@@marshallpeters3853 Letting them know is the healthiest way, they will hurt anyway. I'm not saying to be nice to them, just don't be like them. You can still walk away, for good.

[@marshallpeters3853]

@@AncaVasile-v2z Nothing healthy about it when they've already disrespected & abuse you over and over again my friend. You're not going to be like them at all, you're just cutting them off. Its actually going easy on them if you think about it. I mean, which is worse for you, getting ghosted or getting abused/disrespected/manipulated for years & years?

[@lilaconcannon4919]

Thanks for the reading. I got it now.

[@May-vy5bu]

I walked away, but i did tell them why, i wish i listened to this first. Too bad for me

[@tamarahollenbeck2988]

Walking Away can become a habit , running away I is selfish and cowardice, and it will backfire. YOU will be the One who ends up alone.

[@robicelus]

It's better to be alone than to be a slave.

[@dwcushman1]

No one thing you do, including walking away, is guaranteed to have some magical result. Outcomes always depend on multiple factors. At the end of the day, you have to decide if that’s the best decision for you regardless of how the other person responds.

[@michaeleisen7703]

Very good! Appreciation goes out from Germany.

[@corriemathiowetz2135]

Don't walk away from someone before you've given it a chance to understand the issues. Otherwise you might miss the opportunites to learn and grow, to prevent, out even maybe you're wrong

[@nasimazad4197]

But this is very brutal, by the way.

[@sunshine92192]

This is horrible! It's a form of emotional abuse! My ex did this to me after I found out he was cheating, it caused me the worst anxiety and pain. Don't do this to someone you care about or once loved, it's just inhumane. Give them the proper closure they deserve as a person once valuable in your life.

[@JronDon854]

"Sometimes a person walks away not because they’ve been mistreated but because they have been using the other person and they’ve gotten what they wanted" Someone below. That's more often why.

[@reborn-q5m]

i gave her everything i had..and got in return , pain ,isult ,chaos uncertainity, fake words..everything fake..i was in love..now i wont be

[@elowynnrose2395]

This is also done by narcissists regularly, and is absolutely a form of mental and emotional abuse. These are not helpful or useful suggestions for relationships, it just perpetuates negative human cycles of violence and pain.

[@Jennifer-xl5fh]

Thank u Jesus thank you Jesus I literally just finished praying to you and then I went to the phone and I got this on my phone I know this is an immediate answer to my prayer dear Lord and I am in such auxiliary right now upon reading this actually actually I think actually I think this came I saw this before I went with the intention to pray about this either way it doesn't matter it's all you God it's all you loving me and answering my prayer even before I spoke it out to you and I was like oh my I was like oh my gosh like this is just what I needed 😢😅 and now that I received your strength God that I was praying about I just exciting on another text saying thank you for writing out the storm with me and being with me in these tumultuous times and and now now I am going to stand My ground and I'm not going to weaken even though I was feeling like I wanted to reach out now I'm not and I'm going to not even look forward to even with faith that the person is going to return I'm just going to go on with my life like I was just thinking as I was praying like I'm going to I'm going to better myself and be the person that I asked you to transform me to be the person that you created me to be from all eternity and I'm not going to be weak I haven't even really had a real tears thank you

[@gr8d4ne]

I needed that

[@Taylormademan900]

A woman ghosting a man for playing games. "You go girl." A man ghosting a woman for playing games. "He's a coward narcissist." There isn't a damn Shakespeare text that can get the woman to change. 😂 My ex didn't communicate through talking. We would talk obviously when we saw each other but primary communication was through text. I asked her to talk on the phone 🤳 it would make things so much easier. Okay beetch block block ghost ghost 👻

[@celestemichon1038]

I did this got money from my sister because he took my money went to Toronto cottage train to Alberta. He tried to stop the train my friend called the cops. I stayed on that train instead of transferring to the one I was supposed to be on, and then caught a bus. He tried to find me he wrote letters. I just burned them in the sink. He never found me it’s been 30 years. I am so fortunate to get away from him. However, my friends mom was not so lucky. He hunted her down and killed her and her sister in a vehicle. I learned from her mistake. If you can get out get out have a friend who can hide you. Don’t tell anyone in your family where you are because they have ways of manipulating people into giving them information. God bless learned from my example.❤

[@markh.mauldin4024]

Excellent, excellent, excellent!!!

[@Intuitive_Muse]

Better to have healthy boundaries in the first place, and refrain from allowing others to cross them.

[@dennyfie]

The one I just booted out had zero respect for boundaries none. Her way and she felt so entitled I did not get it.when she showed up after 45 years one of the first things she said that she was controlling, man was she right.she knows it's a turn off but does not try to improve it.glad it's over, I would of stroked out by now.

[@ventibreeze6648]

So the person who ghosts is an inhumane narcissist who intentionally wants to make the other person suffer?

[@eugenemichael2362]

Nope we’re just DONE with them

[@swagdaddy1242]

No it’s not always black and white the person I ghosted would flirt with me while they were in a relationship and it kept Happening over and over because of the relationship I had with this person before they started dating this other and I would get sucked back into flirting with them it was not a healthy situation to be in for the both of us trust me walking away fucking hurt and it still does because I cared deeply about this person

[@winterwulf1995]

Just remember you don't owe anyone on this planet a damn thing. Not time Not energy Not money And certainly not your life

[@jfk9996]

You shouldn't even be contemplating how the other person is going to feel after no contact. The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference.

[@MthimkhuluMpahlwa]

Great content 👌

[@shaheemjackson283]

Employees, Employers, Acquaintances, Colleagues, Partners, Landlords, Tennants whom you've known for less than 5 years: Yes Family members, close friends, partners and everything above that you've known for more than 10 years: No

[@micria8748]

I really appreciate this❤❤❤ 😊😊😊

[@j-trandell9274]

Walk away for you own self. Politely, cleanly, and with an eye on the going forward.

[@angelikagoetze6937]

These are the words of a narcissist, not an empath. An empath would also walk away from bad situations, but would only do it for his own sake and not to highten his ego. This video gives advice about how to torment s.o completely. Why? You can walk away in peace. But this video has the intention to destroy.

[@marshallpeters3853]

"Do it for his own sake" like that isn't ego driven. We're all selfish by nature and all is fair in love & war. Your inclination to always want to seem nice & pleasant is what will get you hurt every single time.

[@lorraine5220]

Totally agree. This sounds like a narsisist giving advice to me. A dark spirit behind that voice

[@vickigonya9432]

NO NOT ME!!!! WHEN I HAVE HAD ENOUGH LEAVE AND DENY ACCESS ITS FOREVER ..COMPLETE INDIFFERENCE.....