What we WISH we knew before marriage

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Nate and Sutton

Nate and Sutton

3 жыл бұрын

What we WISH we knew before marriage
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@joellaogilvie2744
@joellaogilvie2744 3 жыл бұрын
I married my high school sweetheart and we were happily married until he passed away. We were together 25 years when he passed away.
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Hi,please accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour with your mouth and believe he died and rose again in your heart,forget about swearing,over eating,lying,selfish ambitions,lust,movies,video games,hate,gossip,secular music,drugs,smoking,drinking,love of money qnd stuff,pride,idolatry, and all that kind of stuff,dedicate yourself to God fully,obey him and trust in him and Jesus
@yourmom4730
@yourmom4730 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss R.I.P
@kahlynrose4010
@kahlynrose4010 3 жыл бұрын
I’m praying
@TharaMesseroux1
@TharaMesseroux1 2 жыл бұрын
Oh nooo, my condolences! May God be with you!
@joellaogilvie2744
@joellaogilvie2744 3 жыл бұрын
It is important to note that even when other people’s marriages look great you never know what is going on behind close doors. So comparing is never okay and almost always destructive.
@freedomfighter4990
@freedomfighter4990 3 жыл бұрын
Wise words.
@KristinaLove0120
@KristinaLove0120 3 жыл бұрын
Married at 18 (me) and 19 (hubby). Best decision I ever made. Going on 6 years strong with a 6 month baby boy 🥰
@kandisburns5067
@kandisburns5067 3 жыл бұрын
I got married at 19, and have been married almost three years. I’m no expert but what I’ve found is that if you love Jesus, and focus on him, your marriage will last.
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Please write He,Him...with big first letter when you are refering to Them,and true He can Help us with everything
@loganturner3895
@loganturner3895 3 жыл бұрын
Much more than that...u will see in time!
@loveafrica97
@loveafrica97 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. I see that in my personal journey with Christ too, if you see me acting a fool and being impulsive or rude.. it’s a good indicator of where my relationship with the Lord is, distant and not good. Always a correlation!
@AaronFromGuildford
@AaronFromGuildford 2 жыл бұрын
I got married at 20, and my wife focused on Jesus so much she forgot about me... I don't have the same problem with my second wife now, thank God.
@taliw7736
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
Very true and both have to be on the same page 🙂
@Playing_with_a_Purpose
@Playing_with_a_Purpose 3 жыл бұрын
I was married at 23 and my husband was 22. People thought we were young but i think it really depends on emotionally and financially mature. That happen at different ages for everyone.
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Hi,please accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour with your mouth and believe he died and rose again in your heart,forget about swearing,over eating,lying,selfish ambitions,lust,movies,video games,hate,gossip,secular music,drugs,smoking,drinking,love of money qnd stuff,pride,idolatry, and all that kind of stuff,dedicate yourself to God fully,obey him and trust in him and Jesus
@IFANWY
@IFANWY 3 жыл бұрын
Nate being conflicted about bragging about his humility and kind of taking it back is just so relatable ahahaha, I love it.... thanks for the video:)
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Hi,please accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour with your mouth and believe he died and rose again in your heart,forget about swearing,over eating,lying,selfish ambitions,lust,movies,video games,hate,gossip,secular music,drugs,smoking,drinking,love of money qnd stuff,pride,idolatry, and all that kind of stuff,dedicate yourself to God fully,obey him and trust in him and Jesus
@abbijoy4010
@abbijoy4010 3 жыл бұрын
A fun video idea would be an interview with your grandparents Sutton!!
@maylissbjerke9204
@maylissbjerke9204 3 жыл бұрын
Yes . Good idea
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 3 жыл бұрын
I wish they were still here! I meant to say GREAT grandparents 😭 I would give anything to interview them! That would be amazing!
@abbijoy4010
@abbijoy4010 3 жыл бұрын
@@nateandsutton aww I'm so sorry🙁 well I guess we'll have to get an interview with them in heaven then:)
@JL.506
@JL.506 3 жыл бұрын
@@nateandsutton I'm curious how many children they had??
@santiagoreyes4344
@santiagoreyes4344 3 жыл бұрын
Ok since they didn't do it, I'll have to do it myself... "What day is today? Today is Q and A!" There you go, now you can go ahead and watch the video
@joys.6347
@joys.6347 3 жыл бұрын
It's so good to hear you talk about biblical submission! So many couples misunderstand the word "submission" to mean something oppressive.
@musicgirl_gwyn
@musicgirl_gwyn 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I appreciate this too!! It’s something God’s been putting on my heart to learn about recently!
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Hi,please accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour with your mouth and believe he died and rose again in your heart,forget about swearing,over eating,lying,selfish ambitions,lust,movies,video games,hate,gossip,secular music,drugs,smoking,drinking,love of money qnd stuff,pride,idolatry, and all that kind of stuff,dedicate yourself to God fully,obey him and trust in him and Jesus
@joys.6347
@joys.6347 3 жыл бұрын
@@lb7625 I already have, thanks. 👍🏻
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 3 жыл бұрын
sub= under, it’s to be “under-the-mission” of someone. I like how they noted it has to be done with humility - a Humble Leader !! is what you want to be!!
@Pico214
@Pico214 3 жыл бұрын
I love these couch talks, it’s such a blessing to see a couple who not only pushes each other towards Jesus but pushes us here on KZbin towards Christ as well 🙏🏼🙏🏼 God bless your marriage
@shepursuestruth3569
@shepursuestruth3569 3 жыл бұрын
I’m getting married in a week so this was perfect timing! God bless y’all ☺️❤️
@JaleiaChristine
@JaleiaChristine 3 жыл бұрын
congratulations! I’m sure you’ll be a great godly wife!
@shepursuestruth3569
@shepursuestruth3569 3 жыл бұрын
@@JaleiaChristine Thank you so much!! 🥰
@erikabutterfly
@erikabutterfly 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 3 жыл бұрын
God bless your marriage !! In Jesus Name, Amen 🙌🏽🕊💍♥️💍
@manyalevine1017
@manyalevine1017 3 жыл бұрын
Got married at 18. Happily married for 25 years. Amazing to grow together
@manyalevine1017
@manyalevine1017 3 жыл бұрын
U got to scedual in some spontaneity in life 😜
@terrygodgirl4430
@terrygodgirl4430 3 жыл бұрын
I am 28 and single, SUPER virgin and I am SUPER satisfied In Christ. If there are any single women in the comments, being content is possible. You have to want God more than another human. Press in to Him with all your worries and He will fill you up!
@janaeg2698
@janaeg2698 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks I needed that! I know that I’m never lonely cuz I have Christ but I still long for a romantic type of love
@deus_vult8111
@deus_vult8111 3 жыл бұрын
wow. So do you intend to be a forever single virgin? If you’re so “SUPER satisfied” in Christ?
@loganturner3895
@loganturner3895 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like diet coke,the REAL Thing??🤗
@terrygodgirl4430
@terrygodgirl4430 3 жыл бұрын
@@deus_vult8111 Absolutely not, I do not intend to be single forever. don’t miss my point. I do desire marriage, however, my life is not stalled, lonely or depressing while I patiently wait for the Lord to unfold His glorious plan for my life. Been asked out twice since 2021, great guys but each time the Lord said not yet, and I have obeyed. Obedience brings all the joy and peace you can ever need.
@terrygodgirl4430
@terrygodgirl4430 3 жыл бұрын
@@loganturner3895 my dear, Living the life God has written for you before you were formed in the womb IS THE REAL THING! Every other counterfeit version of your life is DIET COKE honey. Trust me on that one my love. Only God can give you your best.
@Debbie-gs3bc
@Debbie-gs3bc 3 жыл бұрын
I cracked up at Nate going into "low power mode" when he closes his eyes during a draining argument🤣🤣
@NicieWilliams
@NicieWilliams 3 жыл бұрын
Hilarious!!!
@NellyTay
@NellyTay 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 19 and getting married on Saturday to the love of my life
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 3 жыл бұрын
Aw congratulations!!
@kathort6900
@kathort6900 3 жыл бұрын
congratulations!
@jennihernandez7121
@jennihernandez7121 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats both of you 🤗the day is just a few hours now
@jheuliabee
@jheuliabee 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! 💐💝🎊🥳
@dandylion2837
@dandylion2837 3 жыл бұрын
God bless your marriage !! In Jesus Namen, Amen 🙌🏽🕊💍♥️💍
@jacobedwards9161
@jacobedwards9161 3 жыл бұрын
I hope I don’t lose you with the wording of this question. What is one obstacle (for lack of a better word) in marriage that was never told to you before you were married? And what is one obstacle that was exaggerated?
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Hi,please accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour with your mouth and believe he died and rose again in your heart,forget about swearing,over eating,lying,selfish ambitions,lust,movies,video games,hate,gossip,secular music,drugs,smoking,drinking,love of money qnd stuff,pride,idolatry, and all that kind of stuff,dedicate yourself to God fully,obey him and trust in him and Jesus
@Timetraveler4
@Timetraveler4 3 жыл бұрын
Hi guys! I'm not married yet, but someday I really want to have a marriage like yours! Thank you for taking the time to make this kind of videos! Love U!
@CarrieSmith1991
@CarrieSmith1991 3 жыл бұрын
I found the part about sexual boundaries a potentially concerning topic that I think should be tackled carefully on your channel. Everyone has different views on things but using a passage from the bible as a reason to demand sex from your partner feels wrong, particularly when there is always room for different interpretations when reading the bible. And just bearing in mind the ages and circumstances of the people viewing your videos. I think it is important to consider different life experiences and knowing and understanding your partner thoroughly, but at the end of the day the only person who can rightfully consent to sex is the person themselves, regardless of what their marriage partner wants at that time. Nate's comment made me feel a little bit uncomfortable so I really just wanted to address it as I may have just been overly sensitive to it, but potentially others might have felt similarly.
@elisethornton4993
@elisethornton4993 2 жыл бұрын
I think 1 Corinthians 7 speaks to this clearly.
@madeleine_isaa
@madeleine_isaa 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you- thank you for expressing this so well. I think there should also be consideration given to those who are sexual abuse survivors or have medical conditions making intercourse painful.
@treysmith5513
@treysmith5513 2 жыл бұрын
He very obviously used that verse somewhat facetiously. Nothing he said came anywhere close to encouraging men to force themselves on their wives. He suggested that if I wife decides she is no longer going to have sex with her husband is bad. This is the type of behavior that can lead both parties to sin. Husband and wife. If a man is protecting, providing for you and your family etc why make a decision like that. There is clearly something going on there with the wife. For the husband this could lead to anger and adultery. It could lead to adultery for the wife too. Marriage is a duty to each other and we do what we can to make it work because it glorifies God. He clearly disavowed depraved and shameless sex acts there. Just as he said it's important to be discerning when it comes to these situations, it's also important to be discerning when we are representing what someone else has said. A lot of times wives will withhold sex as a bargaining tool to leverage some sort of compliance or submission from their husband's. Just like a husband forcing his wife to submit to sex is ungodly and sinful, so is the wife manipulating the husband using sex. Neither is using what God gave us in the way it was intended for child bearing and pair bonding.
@protoindoeuropean
@protoindoeuropean 2 жыл бұрын
You need to read Ephesians 5. One flesh. You should never deny each other your bodies.
@vicktoria4864
@vicktoria4864 2 жыл бұрын
@@protoindoeuropean True, vut we all should live with our partner in an understanding way (I forgot the verse, but I think either Paul or Peter told the husbands to live in an understand way with their wives). If someone doesn't feel good, it's best to communicate them so we can find a good way out together
@bethany_lynn
@bethany_lynn 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all always offer the best advice from a Christian perspective I agree with! Thank you!!!! 😘 I’m so thankful for y’all taking a stand for Christ and living for Him! It is so encouraging to me!
@iuliaturcas4348
@iuliaturcas4348 3 жыл бұрын
I am so excited for this video! Your advice is always so helpful and I love taking ,,mental notes" based on your insights! Love you and your online content!
@naomigrace8261
@naomigrace8261 3 жыл бұрын
If a spouse says, 'i don't want to have sex anymore' then the other spouse should ask how they can support them and become closer together without sex. Intimacy should be done naturally. Also, it might be due to abuse, PTSD , anxiety or distrust because of what their spouse has done. So the other spouse shouldn't say, 'no we still need sex.' Cos sex is only 10% of marriage..
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊☺️☺️
@clarencehershberger2058
@clarencehershberger2058 3 жыл бұрын
You two are an extreme breath of fresh air. God bless you as you live for Him!
@elizeviktoria
@elizeviktoria 3 жыл бұрын
More videos like this one please🙌🏻 I’m on the verge of getting married at 20, so all advice I could get would be awesome! Please make more marriage videos, you guys are great:))
@fionajune8310
@fionajune8310 3 жыл бұрын
I got married exactly 11 months ago and have loved every second of it!! Great Godly advice :) Thanks for the video!! xx
@hopeolivia590
@hopeolivia590 3 жыл бұрын
Love the way your guys are committed to biblical truth in loving one another congrats on 5 years ❤️🙌🏽✨
@SJ-jl2bh
@SJ-jl2bh Жыл бұрын
I’m glad to hear you mention that you wanted get married at a young age so much but now so grateful you’ve waited. I too have said the same and still so grateful for this preparation time
@janessasingleton2685
@janessasingleton2685 3 жыл бұрын
Surprised I got your new video so quick! 😃 Love your videos🤗
@mariacharach6736
@mariacharach6736 3 жыл бұрын
Great video!! You guys spoke so well! Thanks for sharing this advice!
@real_emeldah
@real_emeldah 3 жыл бұрын
Hey y'all. Welcome back Nate. ❤
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 3 жыл бұрын
👋🏽😄
@Joyfulminimalist
@Joyfulminimalist 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in love with my husband for almost 19 years, and visa versa. My secret is know who you are (not just your job, but know deeply truly who you are on the inside) and live that way joyfully all on your own and meet someone who is the same way! You shouldn’t be expecting and depending on your spouse to be all the excitement in your life. For example- I identify deeply with my faith, everything I do I really try to do with faith- I also love art, design, beauty, and of course motherhood. I find so much joy as a mother and homemaker. Maybe something else gives you joy. Whatever it is- love it, live it. It only gets better when you can experience it with someone else. It becomes a healthy cycle of positivity and strength when times get tough. when you do have a lul, you just have to pull out one of the many things that keep you joyfully occupied.
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊☺️☺️😊
@melissahunt936
@melissahunt936 3 жыл бұрын
For the sexual boundaries question.....read “the passion principles”!! All my fears and questions were completely answered, and my fiancé and I have had so many great discussions from it. 11 days!
@aishasiddique8673
@aishasiddique8673 3 жыл бұрын
I really love you two together. Witnessing your love for one another lifts me up :)
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 3 жыл бұрын
💛💛
@jhale3524
@jhale3524 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys, your KZbin channel has been a blessing to me.
@erikabutterfly
@erikabutterfly 3 жыл бұрын
I've been happily married since Friday :)
@A-Olivier
@A-Olivier 3 жыл бұрын
I love your couch teachings, but would also love to see more vlogs. Great video.
@coreyjenkins5651
@coreyjenkins5651 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys! I enjoyed it! I am 22. Not married. Single. And have many people give me advice I don’t feelI need at all or want.
@estherbrown650
@estherbrown650 3 жыл бұрын
Okay this was so insightful and hilarious. Laughed the whole time. Love when you are real😂💞 the decision making fail. And how Nate closes his eyes I was dead ahhahaha.
@creativetips97
@creativetips97 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! It’s been 5yrs already. I remember when you first got married. When I get married again I want you as my videographer/photographer.
@claramont
@claramont 3 жыл бұрын
I love seeing all these sorts of videos!! My wedding is 10 days away :)
@hopespeaksyt
@hopespeaksyt 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! Thank you for making these videos🙃
@ramonahope4668
@ramonahope4668 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all are so great love the godly advice!
@jamiethompson738
@jamiethompson738 3 жыл бұрын
I think what you were trying to say about sex and boundaries, is that consent is important in what you are doing. It is also important to make sure your heart is in the right place when setting boundaries. Asking yourself questions, am I putting this boundary in place out of spite or malice or protection and comfortability? Like Sutton said if you are loving one another as Christ has called us to, then we should not have to worry that boundaries set are unhealthy.
@EmilyClaireDaly
@EmilyClaireDaly 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely taking notes as a single 22 year old 🙌🏼 Thankyou for sharing your wisdom with us!
@CourageDearHeart316
@CourageDearHeart316 3 жыл бұрын
You took the comment right outta my keybaord. Exactly.
@EmilyClaireDaly
@EmilyClaireDaly 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourageDearHeart316 haha I love that! ❤️
@janaeg2698
@janaeg2698 3 жыл бұрын
Same except I’m 20
@jam1369
@jam1369 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys. Thanks for the product information. I can work on my lashes. ☺
@camillavasconcelos3413
@camillavasconcelos3413 3 жыл бұрын
I love the videos on the couch, I feel like they touch on very important topics [even tho I also like the vlogs:)
@deb.7467
@deb.7467 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are such a beautiful couple. I love the chemistry between the two of you. You clearly complement each other's personality. Much love from Brazil. Xx
@aubrey4895
@aubrey4895 3 жыл бұрын
love your guys’ videos!!
@claireunderwood7580
@claireunderwood7580 3 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute. From someone who has been married 25 years, this is good advice.
@jollygoodgordon5580
@jollygoodgordon5580 3 жыл бұрын
Missed you guys. May the *LORD* bless you and keep you safe amen.
@piano-bar
@piano-bar 3 жыл бұрын
I loooove how didn’t cut out “unnecessary” scene. For real guys, please keep it this way!!
@emmaknisley9010
@emmaknisley9010 3 жыл бұрын
I got married at 18 and my husband was 20. Very common ages to get married where we live.
@carlosadurt6153
@carlosadurt6153 3 жыл бұрын
Where do you live?
@katejohnson5083
@katejohnson5083 3 жыл бұрын
Leading with humility. Love that!
@BareForJesus
@BareForJesus 2 жыл бұрын
love these videos, so open and honest with a Christian perspective so fun and inspiring to follow along your journey.
@dorothyminero-capodannornb952
@dorothyminero-capodannornb952 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, Just saw you both on "Family Feud" with your family!
@mirjavanheyst7630
@mirjavanheyst7630 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for answering my question :D Missed the bible verses a bit :) always love it when you share what the Bible says about it 😊
@benjamindorr4517
@benjamindorr4517 3 жыл бұрын
Love you guys!
@melodyrua2j
@melodyrua2j 3 жыл бұрын
Awe 💖 wow I Love how God has brought you together and the Truth, love and wisdom you share. May God continue to bless you above and beyond in every way. 3John 1:2
@anniedrosham7299
@anniedrosham7299 3 жыл бұрын
Love how honest you guys are 😊😊😊😊
@selena0ldenoughtoknowbette244
@selena0ldenoughtoknowbette244 3 жыл бұрын
41 years of marriage and still going. Yes, it has been ugly some times and absolutely blessed others. You have NO IDEA what is going on in someone else's relationship/marriage, even if the couple talks to you about (it). We had 3 couples in our group of friends divorce at 25 years of marriage. It was horrible for us and them. One we were sure they were having issues, the other two shook us to our core. Just saying....comparisons are awful and will drive a wedge in your friendships and marriage.
@MegaTelenovela
@MegaTelenovela 3 жыл бұрын
Can you guys do a video about your roles as Christian wife and Christian husband? Like who should be doing finances, leadership, and household duties and parenting discipline... ❤️🙏
@juliakent2560
@juliakent2560 3 жыл бұрын
Everytime I see you I think "Hey there is Eve again!" Haha you are so stunning ❤
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️
@juliakent2560
@juliakent2560 3 жыл бұрын
@@jasonbryan9056 I am going to report you if you do not stop following me! This is the third time! Stop it!
@katyfranceschi637
@katyfranceschi637 3 жыл бұрын
Legitimate question: if I’m not in the mood and don’t want to have sex with my husband, is it wrong to say no? Is me “depriving him” more important than my boundaries? That doesn’t sound healthy whatsoever.
@arbretree5463
@arbretree5463 3 жыл бұрын
Another great video 🤗!
@account10558
@account10558 3 жыл бұрын
I think the verse that you were talking about about boundaries is a metaphor for when you become one w/ marriage/sex
@AlbertAldridgeAAFitness
@AlbertAldridgeAAFitness 3 жыл бұрын
Very encouraging as always bless you guys
@abbydab123
@abbydab123 3 жыл бұрын
everytime i watch your videos i just have the biggest smile on my face.. like the WHOLE TIME LOL!! i just love you guys!!!!!!!!!!
@abbydab123
@abbydab123 3 жыл бұрын
also i like how you said you think a Godly couple will "just know what is a gift from God in the bedroom and what is coming from your own wierd thoughts" or whatever.. i personally believe that oral/anal stuff is demonic and not what God intended but i dont know.. thats just my own thoughts
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
@@abbydab123 Where are you from if i may ask?
@livingunashamed4869
@livingunashamed4869 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah the bible talks about the marriage bed being undefiled. As long as both spouses agree on it its fine. Nothing should be forced but in a Godly marriage both spouses should be on the same page "one" flesh anyways. Also that one time past sex life thing is a great idea!
@lb7625
@lb7625 3 жыл бұрын
Hi,please accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour with your mouth and believe he died and rose again in your heart,forget about swearing,over eating,lying,selfish ambitions,lust,movies,video games,hate,gossip,secular music,drugs,smoking,drinking,love of money qnd stuff,pride,idolatry, and all that kind of stuff,dedicate yourself to God fully,obey him and trust in him and Jesus
@nicolecastaneda9528
@nicolecastaneda9528 3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for what you do. Can you please do more relationship advice videos? thanks, God bless.
@sweetlove65miss
@sweetlove65miss 3 жыл бұрын
I have heard that the your body is not your own verse may mean your body belongs to your spouse/future spouse so don't share it with other people before marriage or during marriage e.g. cheating. There may be more to it than that, but that stood out to me. Sadly it's very easy for people to be abusive. There are some studies that say that religious people are more likely to be abusive. I agree with Sutton, a true Christian man in their right mind will never be abusive.
@anniemacc2196
@anniemacc2196 3 жыл бұрын
That conversation on sex was really disappointing. How did consent not come up at all? Or spousal rape? Coercion is sexual assault. Full stop. Of course there are boundaries in married sex! Consent is ongoing, not a one time declaration.
@lezanrieksteen2459
@lezanrieksteen2459 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@uneasylouisa
@uneasylouisa 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think it was disappointing at all!
@taylorwillis2478
@taylorwillis2478 3 жыл бұрын
I think you missed the point that they said... A godly man won't force you into something you don't want to do. That is implying consent even thought they didn't specifically say the word. It wasn't disappointing because they did say it. No one agrees that sex without consent is okay.
@goinghome1191
@goinghome1191 3 жыл бұрын
Nate, it's great that you admitted that your way had failed♥️! That's a Godly man!!!!
@AliceRoche-ii2ke
@AliceRoche-ii2ke 3 жыл бұрын
No, that's an honest man.
@goinghome1191
@goinghome1191 3 жыл бұрын
@@AliceRoche-ii2ke that too
@AliceRoche-ii2ke
@AliceRoche-ii2ke 3 жыл бұрын
@@goinghome1191 that only.
@goinghome1191
@goinghome1191 3 жыл бұрын
@@AliceRoche-ii2ke 2Peter1:7, 1Timothy 4:8, 2Peter3:11, 2Timothy 3:12, 1Timothy 6:6, Psalms 1:1-3, Romans12:1, 2Peter 1:5-8. So yes, godliness also.
@AliceRoche-ii2ke
@AliceRoche-ii2ke 3 жыл бұрын
@@goinghome1191 referencing the bible literally means nothing.
@ritaflatt7605
@ritaflatt7605 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@nanakwafoa
@nanakwafoa 3 жыл бұрын
The beat by Allen Parr talks about whether there are an boundaries sexually in marriage in one of his KZbin videos for anyone who wants more information on that
@arbretree5463
@arbretree5463 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@taliw7736
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
Great video 😊👍🏽
@carissaluttonmovietalk
@carissaluttonmovietalk 3 жыл бұрын
Great advice to apply to my future marriage :)
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️
@nalavwekalondo
@nalavwekalondo 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Nate and sutton taking note 😊 .... Is there a standard of practicing 'submission' or you do what works for you as a couple. Wish you can do a more detailed video on biblical submission what it really means and how it should really look like in marriage 🤗.
@kellywilson4293
@kellywilson4293 3 жыл бұрын
Got married at eighteen. Two years later I know it's one of the best decisions I've ever made ❤️
@Sombasimbajimbajumbo
@Sombasimbajimbajumbo 3 жыл бұрын
Love the quality Christian content!!!
@maylissbjerke9204
@maylissbjerke9204 3 жыл бұрын
I dont think i will ever get married. I dont want children so marriage at my age ,i cant or wont . Maby later, only God knows. At this moment im sooo blessed to be single with two cats getting to know god and his amazing plan for humanity and the deep things of god,best thing ever to have all the time to study alone 😂
@taliw7736
@taliw7736 2 жыл бұрын
Woah your grandparents got married pretty young. God bless that's great their still together
@tsionteklu5946
@tsionteklu5946 3 жыл бұрын
The way they are simply happy...only can be the joy of the Lord 😊
@mscottster444
@mscottster444 3 жыл бұрын
Best. Channel. Ever.
@lynettecrowley5893
@lynettecrowley5893 3 жыл бұрын
The Scripture passage that Nate & Sutton referred to is 1 Corinthians 7:3-5: The husband should fulfill his duty toward his wife, and likewise the wife toward her husband. A wife does not have authority over her own body, but rather her husband, and similarly a husband does not have authority over his own body, but rather his wife. Do not deprive each other, except perhaps by mutual consent for a time, to be free for prayer, but then return to one another, so that Satan may not tempt you through your lack of self-control.
@yeseniamorales7364
@yeseniamorales7364 3 жыл бұрын
I love your KZbin videos. My fiancé‘s family and my family are meeting for the first time in couple weeks what advice would you give me?
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️👋
@peacebypiece837
@peacebypiece837 3 жыл бұрын
Over here Really wishing I knew what that last question was 😅😅
@jeannine8400
@jeannine8400 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are so funny!!
@alisha4012
@alisha4012 3 жыл бұрын
God bless your marriage Nate and Sutton I love you too so much and bless your children
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊☺️😊
@alisha4012
@alisha4012 3 жыл бұрын
@@jasonbryan9056 Good and you
@jasonbryan9056
@jasonbryan9056 3 жыл бұрын
@@alisha4012 I'm doing great where are you from if i may ask?
@averynmitchell
@averynmitchell 3 жыл бұрын
1:44 If I may ask, what is it that you learned during this period of time?
@lindamelindasefcic7517
@lindamelindasefcic7517 3 жыл бұрын
My sister is getting married at age 19 to a 1 year older guy. Many people say its too young and they are questioning their decision. I dont think it is. Its best not to try to put God in a box! He knows whats best for us. Both my younger sisters will be married before I do if I ever do. And that is completely fine! My time will come whenever it has to.
@ArtistBuildingMuscle
@ArtistBuildingMuscle 3 жыл бұрын
Regarding the boundaries question, I think that they need to be discussed BEFORE engagement because I believe that if one person can’t stand to go without ________, and the other person isn’t willing to do it then they shouldn’t get married under any circumstances because the one not getting what they want will most certainly start to resent their spouse for it and fall into sexual sin as a result. If people have boundaries that’s fine but both need to know and fully agree to them before even putting a ring on.
@sophiageorgiou3685
@sophiageorgiou3685 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos they are so helpful for our future!! Are you guys orthodox christians?
@sweetlove65miss
@sweetlove65miss 3 жыл бұрын
I'm curious what they identify as denomination wise.
@shellbell8062
@shellbell8062 3 жыл бұрын
Do you guys think that being bored has anything to do with the amount of time spent together? The secular view is that passion lives in the space between 2 people - so it is the coming together and then separating and the space that creates to do other things that keeps passion alive. Just wondering if you feel that its a factor?
@annarocha3254
@annarocha3254 3 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are together most hours of the day. No boredom six years later
@lottevellekoop165
@lottevellekoop165 3 жыл бұрын
I'll be married may 2022 at the age of 20 and I really loved this video! Gonna use this advice 😊 Oh and fun fact, I'm from the Netherlands and there it is not even legal to get married before the age of 18 ;)
@loganturner3895
@loganturner3895 3 жыл бұрын
You 2 ARE NOVICE....good video!🤗
@averynmitchell
@averynmitchell 3 жыл бұрын
2:57 Do y’all have an Amazon link for subscribers to access and purchase things you mention? I am curious about the book(s) Sutton mentioned.
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Here is the one for husband: amzn.to/2S2Btzg and wife: amzn.to/3yQTgKm
@averynmitchell
@averynmitchell 3 жыл бұрын
@@nateandsutton Thank you!
@andrewballinger6530
@andrewballinger6530 3 жыл бұрын
Personally I like these videos on the couch better 😁
@mariachiu8187
@mariachiu8187 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Nate and Sutton, God has used your KZbin channel to bless many and to reach thousands with the Gospel. Your steadfastness in God's principles has also inspired me in my walk with God. I want to encourage you to continue to be the Christ-like examples that God has called every believer to be. I praise God that your marriage and family is doing great! May God establish the work of your hands! Recently, I watched a powerful movie called "Power of the Air," that shows the power that the media has on everybody, including Americans. I hope that you will make time to watch this movie together, and my prayer is that by watching this movie, your eyes will be opened to see what a great influence you have right now and how God can use that influence to direct others to Christ. (P.S. I thought it was important to let you know that when I was growing up, my parents only let my siblings and me watch four movies (which were all Sherwood Church movies). Their caution regarding movies (and music and books) has made me very careful about the movies I watch and recommend to others.)
@nateandsutton
@nateandsutton 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! They mean so much to us! That movie def sounds interesting! 💛
@JS-tq8vb
@JS-tq8vb 3 жыл бұрын
May we all be blessed and find ourselves in gods loving arms where we can find and keep real love 🙏🏽💙47
@lorij9649
@lorij9649 3 жыл бұрын
There is stuff on the internet regarding closing your eyes while talking to someone. Check it out and look into it!
@annie5593
@annie5593 3 жыл бұрын
13!! Omg my mind is blown 🤯
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