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@1c2y3b7 жыл бұрын
What will keep a man faithful? A man that wants to be faithful 🤷🏽♀️
@aishaakilo94037 жыл бұрын
Calexia Black exactly!!!! Faithful is just being faithful!
@Samantha-sd5ci7 жыл бұрын
Agreed!! 💯 I was pretty shocked when I saw the title of this video. I am not going to try different tactics to keep ANY MAN! But, I'm glad Tony explained "a man has to want to be faithful."
@1c2y3b7 жыл бұрын
samantha spalding before I knew better, I jumped through hoops. Never again!
@millybadze21176 жыл бұрын
Calexia Black That spoke volumes to me too! Now I don't eat my heart out nor jump through hoops like I used not one bit!!! Life is sooooooooooo much sweeter!!! Much love and peace to you my sis!
@indym3755 жыл бұрын
Exactly I agree men kill me with not wanting to take responsibility of not wanting to have self control... it baffles me how men think that it comes easy for women to be faithful especially when she's not being loved properly at home but she remains faithful and honest and true in her relationship
@anointed13026 жыл бұрын
“A man who doesn’t have HIGH morals will not have HIGH love.” Thanks for sharing Pastor Tony!!!
@lissettelopez8663 жыл бұрын
@TonyGaskins do you have a book for men becoming Mr.Right??
@ArtoniqueNelsonTV6 жыл бұрын
What keeps a man faithful is his relationship with God. if a man is a cheater, he was unfaithful to God way before he was unfaithful to you. As a woman your worth is not attached to your face, body, or what you can do for a man. You should love and value yourself because you are created in Gods image. You need to make sure you know youre the bride of CHRIST before you try to be the bride of a man. Know your worth ladies!
@tstyles96906 жыл бұрын
Artonique Nelson TV W€LL $TAT€D🙏🙏
@memoryrinehart5 жыл бұрын
A-men
@beautifulsunsets72285 жыл бұрын
Aman!!!
@tammilynne5 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽amen
@patwilson12575 жыл бұрын
You right on Sis. I’ve learned that if he doesn’t treat God right, he won’t treat you right.
@Jackson-pf5jb5 жыл бұрын
"A man is an accessory not a necessity "
@kevinvanhorsing51415 жыл бұрын
Yeah and no pussy and all women good
@blessedsenior14294 жыл бұрын
And if he don't match he shouldn't be worn
@denisegladden-peters44354 жыл бұрын
He can't give what he doesn't possess...good character, morals, decency.
@CeeceeH18195 жыл бұрын
In the beginning a man will show you what you want him to be but only time will reveal his true value, character and morals.
@faithlover1235 жыл бұрын
Carla H nice
@Michellemybell7392 жыл бұрын
So true Cee Cee!! I’ve been with my guy 5 months and it gets better -his character and his morals.
@born4this77 жыл бұрын
Lord Jesus!! Enough said!!🙌💯🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏 I'm a 27 year old woman who's been single for 5 years and I will never settle again! I refuse to, that's why I been single for 5 years because my standards are very high (I don't have unrealistic expectations though) When I found my worth in Jesus I realised that I don't need a man. When I was broken I couldn't stand being single, I would jump into the next relationship without hesitation. A lot of people think I'm crazy for being single for 5 years but I know who I am! This is the TRUTH!!!!👏👏👏🔥🙌
@foxyloxy56935 жыл бұрын
You believe in what you believe in girl. Follow your heart and know one else. You’re in charge of yourself.
@happyqueen38495 жыл бұрын
Esther Sefu
@charlessunmola875 жыл бұрын
Esther Sefu s
@rubiecon64255 жыл бұрын
Girl ur young
@festoowiny79814 жыл бұрын
Congratulations !!! However, If we choose to stay single, we should be willing to abstain! Lots of people say they are staying single but they get sexual pleasure from others whenever desired. So, some are so-many-years "single".
@yahairacope17264 жыл бұрын
If a man shows you who he really is believe him. Wish someone told me this years ago.
@lili8686z4 жыл бұрын
I said the same shit to.a friend days ago
@shelamatela10794 жыл бұрын
a husband's faithfulness has nothing to do with his wife. it has to do with himself.
@Joyfulwanderlust3 жыл бұрын
💯
@fireeye333 жыл бұрын
unless the wife is low value just like the cheating husband. high value wife is treasured like a precious gemstone by the husband
@hazelmaymcclelland5 жыл бұрын
Faithfulness is a condition of the heart. If a man truly loves a woman he will remain faithful. His integrity is not her responsibility but his strength of character. Don't use the woman to deflect from your own immorality
@Wealthybaby7 жыл бұрын
I am only 26, but One thing I refuse to do is settle for half of a man, when i am a women that's fearfully and wonderfully made. I will be whole with or with out him and he will know that.
@tymaramcginnis7 жыл бұрын
Chelle Harris yes Grl...speak!!!never settle for less!!!
@lovehome82984 жыл бұрын
Fancy Pants until life hits u .u are young still
@shanellpittman77424 жыл бұрын
Love Home a really Woman don’t need a man. anyone who comes in the path of a woman is a add on not a mandate. The Bible says a Man who finds a wife not a woman who finds a husband. This young lady is heading down a very good path and I pray god keep her spirit and mind in this same place
@Wealthybaby4 жыл бұрын
Love Home are you old and alone and unhappy ? Are you working like a slave at the job you have? Do you serve others? do you invest?, own property? Degree? Healthy friendships? A business? Serious questions ... it seems like you’re just getting started on your journey to self worth. You don’t mean any harm, you are operating from a place of unbelief and disappointment... I pray that God touches your life supernaturally and immediately...Continue to watch Tony, and do the work you’ll get there and you’ll understand how someone can say this from a very good and honest place. Almost 30 I’ll still feel the same and pray you can. Blessings to you all your days.
@Wealthybaby4 жыл бұрын
Shanell Pittman Yes dear you are 100 percent correct. I am firm in my foundation, my life is blessed because I focused on myself and my love one’s. I’ve created this notion to we’re a man would be honor to be mine, as I will him. I am a stand up women. Willing to stand up when needed and when to step back when my king has arrive. Only God could have done this for me. Blessings to you and all your life’s journey
@foxyloxy56935 жыл бұрын
I’m single as I’ve dated and all I see these days are red flags. So I’m staying single. Too much media exposure allowing men/women go from partner to partner. Sex is the head of the game which I’m not allowing for my self respect. Love me for me then a relationship can go forward! My king will approach me when the time is right then I’ll be his queen!
@pinkmotivationalspace5 жыл бұрын
I agree
@Torihappyness4 жыл бұрын
I love that, I am so drained from all these men who are out to use you like a cobweb duster then leave you😒
@ShanellSDavis7 жыл бұрын
This is so true! A person can't give you what they don't possess!!!! $$Character is the Currency $$.
@millybadze21177 жыл бұрын
Shanell S. Davis "Character is the Currency"has always stuck with me since I heard it from Tony Gaskins😊😊Very well said Shanell thank you!!
@ShanellSDavis7 жыл бұрын
Rashaad swanson yes sir
@lisai13157 жыл бұрын
Shanell S. Davis Learned this the hard way after one too many chances being doled out I left his poor character possessing tail!
@allisalinor10845 жыл бұрын
Preach
@lashaeleaf88424 жыл бұрын
💯
@kyjanamartin87414 жыл бұрын
A man with no morals with no values and still looking for them selves, is not a man ready for love.
@vixenmmh4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. You are complete. You don't need another person to complete u, but to compliment your life.
@Onelightoftheworld5 жыл бұрын
Very profound @7:50 - "a lot of rich men are filthy broke, and a lot of broke men are filthy rich"
@begee58474 жыл бұрын
He studied me on social media & knew what I liked, I fell for him & a year down the lie I saw the complete opposite but stayed around I was too much Inlove for 2 more years it just got worse only this yr I got the courage to leave for good.
@lifeshortsostandtall7 жыл бұрын
Yep. 1,000% facts Mr. Tony. Men can only play the role for so long. Been there, done it. Keep God first, live from that space. 👌
@joycewatt32925 жыл бұрын
This Brotha is sooooooo on point! Ladies listen up! This truth is from a man, not your girlfriends who claim to but don’t know how men think or operate especially on a higher level because they know and love God FIRST and themselves. Trust me... it’s the ONLY way a man can truly love you.
@samlee7526 жыл бұрын
Im a guy no im not gay but this is good perspective from a guy .
@memoryrinehart5 жыл бұрын
Why need to say you're not gay?? Man, just speak your mind, no qualifications/disqualifications.
@renee-vt3lo4 жыл бұрын
Sam Lee I respect your confirmation.
@bzebee59795 жыл бұрын
“Let a person’s character be his currency”. 👍
@tayoriginal40674 жыл бұрын
So true! A man is the only one who can keep himself faithful through loving God. Having good character and integrity.
@billypatterson65344 жыл бұрын
I love you beautiful 😍 😘😘
@kayedwards35884 жыл бұрын
I would rather be on my own then with the wrong person. ☺️
@krystalvanhorne22285 жыл бұрын
Character is currency! I love it.
@AngelRichardsonlifecoach7 жыл бұрын
Come on, Sir!!!! Dr. Jesus!!! Yesssss!!!!
@eugeniedean84584 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mauriw2267 жыл бұрын
As usual he's speaking the Gospel Truth!
@TheDnice13277 жыл бұрын
TELL IT!
@antoinetterice-white9835 жыл бұрын
This is Critical Thinking Led with Spiritual Wisdom. Priceless Forever!!!!!
@nicolelagamo114 жыл бұрын
We need more men like you to teach us women/sisters/daughters what love is from a real man! God bless you!
@tammylee36817 жыл бұрын
Where have you been Tony. I've been missing your Godly wisdom! This msg was conformation for me. I married a grown boy who doesnt know himself. God please help me 🙏🙏
@mr.fabianreid97885 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of grown boys who become husbands. I would ensure that he is surrounded by some strong husbands who can and will be able to provide mentorship and guidance. Also, keep on speaking the things you want to see him cultivate in his life.
@l.a.perrotte99086 жыл бұрын
Yes Tony! You always speak the truth. So sorry I didn't get this message about 23 years ago, would have saved a lot of wasted time. Thank God though for second chances.
@francadegaetano23024 жыл бұрын
Very well said Tony! A man shouldn’t complete us but compliment us. Unfortunately today society shows us it’s all about image. We should look from inside out instead of outside in
@Bizzimommee4 жыл бұрын
I gave it 2 years and he hid it well, he was perfect at that time... didn't find out until we moved in together
@haydeejohnson82904 жыл бұрын
"Let a person's character be their currency"
@cherrybomberxxx4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽There is so much going on in the Black man live that he really need God and a good woman who can listen to him and try to understand some of what he’s going through and all thing “Don’t put him down “. When you understand that he is a son born from a woman.. He’ll always need a strong women in his life to help keep him above water..🙏🏽🙏🏽 I know because I have listen to some of them. I had to stop someone who wanted to kill him self..A lot of times they are hurting inside and don’t know how to talk to someone.. It’s not like it was in the old days..Life is so hard these days.. I will continue to pray for all of them.. The young ladies also..🙏🏽
@ladyredconstance7 жыл бұрын
that's right tony...look at Mary j and Beyonce..they are so pretty and look what happen. That;s what happen to me I thought I could change a man, He showed me that he was no good.
@Michellemybell7392 жыл бұрын
“You’ll find that a lot of rich men are filthy broke and a lot of broke men are filthy rich”-TG. Powerful!!!!❤️❤️
@joannelandix23895 жыл бұрын
Bro Tony Gaskins I thank God for you... You spoke the Truth continue to let God use you... I hope our sisters listen and understand. 😄
@juanitajc56925 жыл бұрын
Phenomenal! This sincerely blessed me beyond measure. I just accidentally (God purpose and plan) ran across this video and my Lord...I’m no longer blind and on the right path to Self Love, Self Worth and Self care. Thank you so much for pouring into my soul and heart ❤️
@roslynjones17227 жыл бұрын
This is so TRUE!!! Unfortunately, I can't say I personally know any faithful men. Out of all the men I know (family, friends and co-workers. Young, old, Black, White, Indian, Asian, or other. In the church or in the street. At the age of 51, I may know 2 men who aren't cheaters. It's a whole different ballgame out here. You would think once a man is of a certain age, he would stop, but that is not the case!!! These men should be nominated for Oscars and Academy Awards. They aren't faithful because they know they don't have to be. They know they have options. So where does that leave women? Can someone answer that?
@kaylastarlight72526 жыл бұрын
ROSLYN JONES your so right its because they got more options they treat women bad but another thing thats a main problem is that some women who chooses that man regardless of whatever he does they take him up and start to give him help regardless of their pass bad behaviour this is what keep the cycle going why change when they don't first think anything's wrong and secondly they dont have to because some bitch will always have them sad but true
@blingblingcrystal19385 жыл бұрын
kayla starlight youre so right! Because there are some chicks always have them and allow then to do such things to get the money from them
@danashaw84634 жыл бұрын
So right. I'm 50 the men I know play games.
@Sweet_lady19924 жыл бұрын
ROSLYN JONES Damn and how do u really know that??
@marjn10304 жыл бұрын
D Goshay if a person is not at peace with someone's character eventually that person won't be at peace with anything else about that person.
@marciaheadley99335 жыл бұрын
Powerful! Powerful! Powerful! Blessings to you brother. Thanks
@vegigirl74404 жыл бұрын
This video is so important to listen to...to really accept what he is telling you...a man's character is like his baseplate...its what forms him & you need to look at it closely to see the structure, if it will hold
@Sweetberrypastries7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Cause I was everything, but left him because he couldn't give it back
@kwallace38807 жыл бұрын
PHENOMENAL MESSAGE!!! FILLED with so much GODLY WISDOM!!! Thank you for sharing!!! 📿📖👊🏽👌🏽
@kathleenmcconnell23844 жыл бұрын
💯Very on point and true!! Have confidence ladies always and don’t accept less then what you want in a man. He should be at the same level as you or better. Don’t keep wasting your time because you can NEVER get you time back! Be blessed 🙏🏽
@rhondabrown88594 жыл бұрын
Let a man's character be his currency. This is good TGaskins. Thanks and be blessed !!
@gerrimiller66074 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I have learned to be friends with a guy and explore his behavior towards others and his family. In addition, I am paying attention to his environment and how sincere he is in actions and like you said his morals and values. Oh, and I Hope he’s checking me to, lol you are so valuable and honest Tony🌸🌹🌸 Thank the lord for you!
@namegirl287 жыл бұрын
I love Tony's videos, as a young lady they provide me with a lot of knowledge
@sweetgapeach424 жыл бұрын
No one better for this to come from than a man himself. Love it! #facts #reality
@lilshawonjawn14655 жыл бұрын
What’s gonna keep him faithful is his will to
@onevenus60403 жыл бұрын
Nothing will keep anyone faithful except God and themselves. Point blank PERIODT
@millybadze21177 жыл бұрын
Super powerful!!!!! Salute to you Sir Tony Gaskins! God richly bless you!!!
@kimgordon36954 жыл бұрын
Beautifully expressed. A good Man is a Gift. ThankYou Tony 💓💓💓
@anahernandez03254 жыл бұрын
You ain't never lied with your statement. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and God bless you.
@nancyobrien57435 жыл бұрын
Beautiful words of wisdom. Thank you for sharing and may you be blessed beyond measure!
@lsduffus37913 жыл бұрын
I can feel the passion coming from you Tony. God bless you for your obedience.
@mskesha13864 жыл бұрын
It's whether he has self respect and morals that will keep him faithful. It's not in a woman or man but the person themselves. It's integrity and self love not insecurity.
@kaysintuition26365 жыл бұрын
Awesome. So true. Powerful messages. We get so court up and showing we are worthy of love. Never once stopping too see if he is worthy of yours
@grayeyegirlqausce32435 жыл бұрын
you Tell the truth about men and women Thanks you so much.
@charlivingston50844 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this more than just one time. Great message!!
@quishia5 жыл бұрын
Amen! Let us show love not in words or speech but in deeds and in truth.
@mecca416 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir! All I can say, is WOW!!!! Teach Mr. Gaskins!!!!!
@user-fq7gq6zm9l4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Gaskin for the raw, unfiltered truth!
@Sankofa11315 жыл бұрын
Excellent, young Man, and on Point.
@lissettelopez8663 жыл бұрын
AMEN LET THEIR CHARACTER BE THEIR CURRENCY WISDOM NUGGET☺😊👏👏🙌🙌 GREAT WORDS OF WISDOM WORDS TO LIVE BY
@anasmith87557 жыл бұрын
Tony you are so full of wisdom I wish we can get more videos from you more often, so many of us need this, I thank God for the day I stumbled on your channel. You have blessed me so much thank you.
@JustBeingJae014 жыл бұрын
He said y’all competing for the best tucked ears 😂😂😂 “Let people’s character be their currency” - A WORD.
@nunya2575 жыл бұрын
You are fantastic and really helping the world. I feel like I know these things, as we all do, but it’s easy to forget and make excuses for a low-quality man once the heart goes hooked. You have such a gifted way of summing it all up and presenting it so that it just sticks in my head. And your delivery is perfect for me...the way you speak, the speed, your voice, your accent, all of it. I find I’m completely focused when you’re talking...your hypnotic to me due to your delivery. Super effective and a gift from the universe. I’m not religious at all but your message speaks to everyone. Thank you for making the effort to share yourself with the world.
@SweetCicely5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you for posting this vlog. Thank you.
@jroyal22296 жыл бұрын
Tell it!!! #Preach👌🏾🙌🏾
@anniehatcher43472 жыл бұрын
Keep putting us on game. We appreciate you so much for your heart and dedication. 🤗
@npk200Cola5 жыл бұрын
Yes, because my whole duty in life is to keep a man faithful. 😒😒
@Sweetgirl4205 жыл бұрын
That video was great!!!! So true. Never heard it put that way. Thank you
@deannashearer60427 жыл бұрын
Wow 😍 this was amazing. Thank you for this!!!!!!
@rahmawampy19724 жыл бұрын
Man you are so honest.
@teresafreemanparker69674 жыл бұрын
You are so right!!! Thank you for this video. Be Blessed
@janiceconley7354 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your Blessings Mr Toni!!???Ur The💣
@aishaakilo94037 жыл бұрын
The blind leading the blind!! Amen Tony!!!! #character
@BrittneySamoneSilver4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony... peace to you!
@cindyg33966 жыл бұрын
Amen Brother, LOOK AT THAT MAN!
@Jackson-pf5jb5 жыл бұрын
"Operating From Desperation"
@chellierenae4 жыл бұрын
I needed this video 10 years ago. But I am where I am and have to deal with it
@summertime18754 жыл бұрын
Never were truer words said, very well put Mr Gaskin, thank you for your wisdom and insight, into the man's mind.
@abu-muhammadobeid54874 жыл бұрын
From.sister to a brother ily! May god bless u, ur wife n family. Thank u brother for ur service, i seriously think u are the bees knees!
@WeAreTheRemnant7 жыл бұрын
That was powerful!
@rachelrader036 жыл бұрын
So glad I you.... Every video I watch hits home!!
@andreansuapim91555 жыл бұрын
Thank you my brother you're awsome God bless you and your family.
@sarabanks33124 жыл бұрын
You spoke the truth in this video! I get it. Wow...thank you. God bless you & your purpose!
@KittyLewinsky74 жыл бұрын
Just found this channel & boy boy boy smh I’m blown away! 🤯🤯🤯🙌🏾
@moritimolapo45767 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah to Dr Jesus!! Running to Him
@purplet72walker726 жыл бұрын
Wonderfully said. Thanks
@boosboos45064 жыл бұрын
Oh dear ! This my first time watching you and i believe you it is very difficult to find a man with faith .
@lovesylvia26217 жыл бұрын
Thank You, Tony.
@lilycolombo42735 жыл бұрын
I love what you had to say! Just what I needed to hear.
@annettescroggins39055 жыл бұрын
Amen...powerful....thanks for keeping it real!!!!
@traytyler21386 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskins for your knowledge. Your words feed my spirit with things I already knew and also things I was confused about. Your messages have help me face mistakes I've made and confirm how I need to move forward. I feel preserved for God's best now. I was at church yesterday and saw a man gawking at me. I thought ewww! That's the kind of man Tony was talking about. Lol. I am equipped with more knowledge & understanding of who I am & Who's I am. God bless you!
@Rareone1014 жыл бұрын
Nothing unless that man truly respect,love and value you
@wendyfoster48874 жыл бұрын
A renewed mind in Christ Jesus in the word of life! Be ye transformed by the renewing of your MIND!!!!!
@obiageliobiago26154 жыл бұрын
PREACH. THIS WAS A SOLID & HEAVEN SENT WORD...
@hmblf6875 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome video lots of valuable information here. Thank you Tony!
@niziaharrison16865 жыл бұрын
Absolutely on point you are absolutely right
@merciamorris79534 жыл бұрын
So true so many of us women really need to get this message, thanks for sharing.