WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 | RELATIONSHIP EDITION - Ep 93

[@lucymaina598]

Road to 100k yeeeeh well done ladies

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you!

[@stacey4764]

Some men are PRESSED in the comments, trust me boo, what you think is too much some men will do in a heartbeat. But fear not you'll surely find a woman who'll accept your bare minimum.

[@TopsyAbby]

Spot on😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@heart_to_heart_]

It’s the FEAR NOT for me…. Sprinkle sprinkle 😅

[@stacey4764]

@@heart_to_heart_ lmaooo😂

[@thoughtsofgertrude8163]

😂😂😂😂 no beating around the bush.

[@ichooseviolence2532]

I will forever do the bare minimum coz most of you are in relationship's just to finesse

[@wangareeeee]

Wooow this episode called me out . I have a friend who get flowers delivered to her weekly by her boyfriend,She gets luxurious presents and as much as I'm happy for her I always tell myself aiii Kenya gani a man can do that ......now I'm realizing it's me projecting on her coz I've placed my standards so low that no man has ever gotten me a rose and seeing her get weekly flowers is a trigger coz she placed her standards super high this was a wake up call .And I'm realizing deep down I wish men treated me the same way they treat her . This was a wake up call Thank you TMI

[@kazmorich]

You needn't say more. Do not accept less. You are a baby gal, you risk your life to bring life to the world. You deserve more than you really think.

[@ichooseviolence2532]

Men also don't want to settle for less. You should be a better woman to a man too

[@mytinnylittleworld]

I am a very blessed woman. Every time i watch such episodes, I realize I have the perfect man. He affirms me, he adooooores me, he cleans, cooks, loves on me, wants meeee, cares about my mental health,keeps me in check. I am the babiesttttt 30 year old when around him. As Murugi says, KUPENDWA RAHA. Love you girls.

[@tmipodcastke]

We love to hear it!🙌🏽

[@dopebita101]

Nay (HELL NOO) to the singing...😄 . The first intro was perfect. Maybe because that is how we met you guys.

[@ruo.]

Yeees

[@dopebita101]

@@ruo. ❤❤

[@jaeldairies]

💯💯

[@makreesfamily.5769]

My take out for the episode on what women really want 1) for the world to acknowledge the value women are bringing to the table ,2) one requires family commitment to support from the spouse to family members,3)to be able to hold honest conversations in all aspects of life,4)to have monetary support yes yes yes and finally,5)all the appreciation love and affection there is to be given on earth every woman wants some.... episode on fire 🔥.

[@roughpetals4061]

Great episode guys!! please invite Eli and Georgie ndirangu for the men's version of What Men Really Want... pretty please!!

[@roughpetals4061]

I wrote this before finishing the episode, kumbe you guys had the same idea.. Yes please bring Georgie and Eli for that episode.

[@tmipodcastke]

We hope to have them here one day!

[@gretelbexmulekye84]

I have never been more grateful for being late. I discovered TMI like 2-3 months ago and now i have a whole years worth of episodes to catch up on. I have never been more grateful. Keep doing this.

[@mutaicherobon6550]

This is my favourite episode.. Lydia's sense of humour while shouting facts at us is an art .. beautiful ladies❤

[@tmipodcastke]

We love to here it!

[@suelizmungai8863]

if they mentioned 20 things, my man is doing 17 and his scores are high!! . and the few that are not happening I can explain why, eg pesa bado hazijaingia but it's coming ❤ feeling so blessed 🎉.. I'd also like to add that men also want us to understand when they can't deliver what we really want.. give him grace. and 2 apart from doing so much /being busy bodies it's good to learn what he really wants too. There's magic in mutual understanding and recognizing each other's side of the story. So maybe the best thing you can do for your other half or relationship is understanding that they won't always deliver and being Ok with it

[@dorahmulinge3800]

Wow, uko na bro inlaw??😅

[@suelizmungai8863]

@@dorahmulinge3800 😂.. yeah but ako high school soooo

[@Tkay_realty]

Woow I want your man

[@dorahmulinge3800]

@@suelizmungai8863 too bad😅😅, acha nijipe hopes, ipo siku😆😁

[@julietwamaitha1933]

Do you y'all want couple friends? Where do I apply? 😅😅

[@everything_sheila]

It’s like these two live inside me!!!😳How everything they said on this episode resonates to a T👌👌!!!! Soul sisters for real!!!🥰🥰 I'm glad I speak to my partner about what I want without feeling the need to compromise to keep him because he wants me to feel loved and heard 🥰 Ladies, it doesn't matter how small your need is, make it known that it's important to you. 👌👌Also love yourself enough to receive love. How you allow people to treat you is a reflection of your self love 👏👌

[@tmipodcastke]

We love that you related to us so much!

[@AbigaelTowett]

Absolutely loved this episode and agree entirely!❤ This is definitely what women REALLY want.💯 About the song, unfortunately, it's a nay for me as well. I used to really love how you guys would say its DEFINITELY TMI with like finality and sass. It used to give "Previously on..." when you're watching a new episode of a series - in such a powerful at the same time heart warming way.🥺 Keep doing what you do ladies; I absolutely enjoy your content and learn so much from you since I'm just 20.😇

[@tfa4782]

No to the S.O.N.G !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 Say its Definitely TMI with some sass 😊😊😊

[@ruo.]

They're getting there. Baby steps🙂🙂

[@radebethando7799]

What women really want: to be loved fully not just desired.

[@tmipodcastke]

So true!

[@the.victorgeorge]

I get what Murugi is saying about bare minimums. I feel like the why is what we should not compromise on but the how we can. For example, Kabi buying Milly a range rover, the basis of that is Kabi appreciating Milly. So you should not compromise on wanting to be loved and appreciated but it can be in other forms that mean the most to both of you and that's fine. For example when Kabi and Milly first started their KZbin channel, they used to do videos of 10 things I love about my wife/husband and that was the form that the love and appreciation took at the time, now it's the gifts and that's also okay, because that's where they are in life right now. I'm saying that you should never accept the limitation on what you want but you can understand that how you want it may be limited because of kawaida life stuff - finances, family priorities, health complications etc. Sometimes we don't realize that different is not wrong or less than, it's just different. We hear at time men being told, Other men are buying houses and cars for their women, you what are you doing? And at times your way of showing appreciation is ignored because it is not as grand as men out here. And ofcourse this is not an excuse for men to do the least in a relationship but I believe the things you are talking about that women want will be excecuted differently depending on the people in the relationship - depending on how both of you give and receive love. Loved this episode and I'm definitely taking notes. Not only for a relationship but also things that other women in my life want.

[@beloncekamz2821]

It's definitely TMIIII 🎶😄💃🏿 I love the song it is mood uplifter. I sing along to it. Celebrate you Queens #WCW❤️

[@Tessy-Lisanza]

TMI changed my whole mood of Wednesday 💯. I mean Wednesday has a purpose ❤❤. Lots of love Lyd and Murugi.😊

[@iankiplangat4224]

King betweeners 👑 here And yes to that parallel episode💪

[@tmipodcastke]

Yes!!!

[@Spinkly]

I love the singing... please keep singing cause I definitely be singing with yall!

[@carowanyaga]

Nay to the song the statement gives so much sass 😂

[@vickyitenyo.]

I am giving both of you such tight hugs for speaking on my very own behalf! Everything on this episode is TRUE!

[@tmipodcastke]

Awww! Thank you!

[@irenekiambo]

"Is he doing too much or is your man doing nothing?"😂😂😂😂

[@tmipodcastke]

Facts spoken💪🏽

[@puritymwangi6530]

I love the intro singing 😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 it gives vibes, excitement and furaha.

[@carollex4559]

Nay to the song…Great content!💙

[@suzzykarii2975]

Giiiirls!!!!! Today's episode point after point got me saying yaaaaasss.......preeeaaach girl....WOOORD!! Gaad bless ya for being so loud !!❤

[@tmipodcastke]

We love to hear it!

[@lifewithteffie7007]

Just discovered your channel lately and I can't get enough of y'all 🥺💜🌸 really learning alot from both of you

[@kezmaina-doktari]

Aaww!! Welcome to the community, in betweener. You will love it here 😊

[@tmipodcastke]

Welcome to the Inbetweener Family!

[@periswerimo8]

I prefer the old intro Nay to the song

[@valentinengare3022]

Nayy yo the song. 😂❤❤love you ladies

[@maurccn_]

it's definitely nay to the song. really great episode, loved it : )

[@miss__mercy]

I definitely love the song...be yourselves babes, I love that too!

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you for understanding!

[@STA2102.]

I want a man that understands period cramps😢, no the ones that think women are pretending to be in pain whilst i am almost meeting my creator 😂😂

[@naomykelly62]

This😢

[@tmipodcastke]

We all want this sis!

[@beckyofficial4048]

Nay to the song . Old intro 👍. Nice and relatable content ❤

[@rubyabuor646]

Nay for the song Side note love the moody dark makeup on Murugi!

[@brendamachira]

Watching TMI has raised my standards for relationships fr!💕💕 So much I've never thought of, y'all really raising standards over here!😂😂😂

[@Magend_a]

For a man who has found his dream girl, he'll be willing to provide for them unconditionally. If they have the finances. Now that we are having a relationship edition, what of myths society expects of a successful relationship.

[@tmipodcastke]

We’ll add this to our notes

[@agnesodoyo854]

Great conversation ❤. Just shared this with my brother, on how to up his game with his wife 😍😍.

[@susankibui3394]

i dont understand why people dont like the TMI song..i loove it😫its a yeeeey

[@judymainalifestyle3005]

Yeeey should be

[@theclangwilimi1485]

Yay to song and Yay to bringing Georgie!!! Lovely episode ladies❤❤ 💋 xx

[@tmipodcastke]

Yeeeessss!

[@stephaniesteph3068]

I'm actually updating my list of the qualities i want in a man,,, after watching this 😂❤❤❤❤❤

[@triple__em]

Not "president Ruto" 😂😂😂😂... Lydia you're hilarious 🙌

[@nasingoikoipiri4383]

Aaahhhhh whyyyy diiddd youuuu siittt anddd waaiiitttt😮‍💨😮‍💨wrong moveeeee.. You should have come out anddd first of alll look at theeeemmmmm😂😂ahhhh Jooaann!!!!😂😂😂

[@thoughtsofgertrude8163]

This episode has been eye opening. I can't believe that I used to think that men, who do over and beyond for their women are hiding something.🙈🙈

[@chichisjourney7308]

I love you guys but Naay to the song😂. The statement was powerful!

[@janetkaluki2008]

what an episode! I enjoyed every minute of it, I suggest you invite Eli Mwenda and Georgie Ndirangu to enlighten us more on what men really want in a relationship.

[@jeanetteuwizeye4687]

In betweener from Kigali❤🎉i cant get enough of you queens and its so amazing how you relate to the Millys husbands 😅 sometimes i think i live in Kenya bcz of you queens😍

[@tmipodcastke]

Sending love your way 🙌🏽

[@GambaWithJ]

I love chivalrous men kabisa

[@carowanyaga]

Murugi your make up and outfit are giving yess!!

[@winniewainaina3143]

Murugi's make up artist never misses. It's always perfect!!!

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you

[@tessnjokie4847]

I've loved this episode! Please do a men's version and bring mantalk and Georgie.

[@tmipodcastke]

We will🥰

[@christineooko2745]

Yeeeey to the song . The statement is kinda boring...

[@maggiematthew23]

Naay to the song,yes to TMI🎉

[@ekbalsaab3956]

Me I matched the energy,,weeeh I found I was the only one energetic 😂😂

[@joanmuthoni7558]

😂 😂 That's when you realize you're the only one serious in the relationship

[@ekbalsaab3956]

@@joanmuthoni7558 walaii nilitoka bila kuambiwa🤣🤣

[@Irenewk]

Waaaah! This convo is triggering for me!! I developed anxiety with my ex whenever we went out as in I always had to have money to pay for stuff even when I’ve been ‘taken out’ Now I run away from any hint of me paying for anything on a date😂

[@lifewithwambuimuthaka]

😢😢I relate...so glad it ended🎉

[@TopsyAbby]

Totally relatable....

[@paprika7930]

"Until the next triggering episode..." I'm HOLLERING! 😭

[@tmipodcastke]

🤣😂

[@joybusisa5151]

Nay to the song

[@brendamachira]

"How is that your problem? She has another one" OMGGG LYDIAAA!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God gasped for that one!!!😭😭😭😭stoooppp🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tmipodcastke]

Did she lie!😂

[@brendamachira]

@@tmipodcastke I love me some Lydia!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@FitMama254]

All there are relatable to me. These are the things that I REALLY want. Great episode!

[@didysteve8845]

Nay to the song.Buh anyway i always look forward to wednesday .I`m 5 hours ahead but tmi has taught me patience.

[@TryingToBeFairHuman]

In an ideal world, no man would want to work either. I think no one likes to work, man or woman. We do it as a means of survival. In my humble opinion, it feels presumptuous that men love to work, they just have been conditioned to do it and do not feel comfortable admitting they would prefer "a soft life" as well

[@tmipodcastke]

Well spoken!

[@wairimundungu1066]

Yay to the song. (You guys look happy when singing it so it should definitely stay) Everyone else will just have to get used to it.😅😅 It's only in the beginning guys. I am very tagged in this episode. The limiting beliefs I have...chiiiiiiiiiillllleeeeee. Now that I'm aware of them, I can start unlearning and practising an abundance mentality. Who said I can't have it all? Absolutely no one! Loved this episode.❤❤

[@tmipodcastke]

Exactly! As long as we are happy!

[@faithmeg9701]

I'm so happy Lydia said it. Feminism is not a bad thing 💯

[@tmipodcastke]

So true!

[@mirriej]

This episode has really enlightened me. Thank you guys, you both look amazing. I must add Murugi looks stunning in that hair and outfit.

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you🥰

[@joanmuthoni7558]

😂 If we match energies, it's over

[@viviennedebra4919]

Nay to the song in all honesty 😊

[@rodahwairimu984]

I'll still watch whether you sing or not😊 Powerful content❤

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you!🔥

[@azengajael2941]

We all need a Richard Bett in our lives (Moniques Husband) I said it😂 Love this topic❤

[@bernicerogo9190]

Wooow I'm soo intrigued by every ounce of this conversation-very insightful as well as entertaining. Good job ladies ❤

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you!

[@aunty.social]

Don't y'all think Murugi's close friend will feel bad when you talk about her situation as you whisper and giggle?

[@sashawambui]

This episode was so wholesomely triggering! 😂😩

[@stacygitonga5758]

Definitely YAY to the song

[@chikhuambali3737]

It’s definitely TMI🎶🎶😁😁

[@tmipodcastke]

Sing along with us!

[@chikhuambali3737]

@@tmipodcastke Always 😁❤️

[@DignaK]

I thought I was the only who follows my husband without any money😂😂😂 every time we’re going together, I’m not worried about carrying my purse or a card. I just know he’ll pay. Isn’t that how it’s supposed to be?

[@tmipodcastke]

That’s how it should be!

[@ericmathenge1047]

That’s okay cause it’s your husband. If it’s a boyfriend or a man you fancy carry your purse.

[@noelorraine]

Song on No song I'm still going to watch till the end..Do what feels right for you guys❤

[@serahkimani8562]

I wish y’all can do a girls trip to Mexico and discuss TMI . I would definitely go !

[@victoriachebet5544]

I love love the song!!! Do NOT stop

[@docfromkombe2000]

Without the song, there's a nice attitude😂😂.. 😊

[@debbyonami3850]

Standard raised.... period 😊

[@tmipodcastke]

Yes💪🏽

[@brendaperu5348]

Am first OMG🎉🎉🎉🎉it's never happened before.🎉🎉Hey🎉

[@angelahawa-og5pz]

now am single sasa.... Wueeeh yaani love is out there? Where did i go wrong loved the episode and love you beauties😅

[@andrewlemayian]

I love how Lydia saves face on TMI tirelessly 😂😂😂 “And not to mention that…” “And this isn’t to say…” “And we don’t mean that..”😂😂😂

[@tmipodcastke]

😅

[@janetjean1412]

Aki i never liked my name until lyd started mentioning it so well❤❤jayne😜😜😜

[@tmipodcastke]

Hi Jane!

[@AnastaciaGakuru-hk8vg]

Yesss please bring Georgie. 😊😊 Also what Lydiah said at 48:56 ... so true 💯

[@tmipodcastke]

Thank you for listening in!

[@biscotti7140]

Kingbetweeners 👑 Take notes 📖.

[@gracemimi10]

You had me at female friend or female bestie! Red flag! Red flag! I am supposed to be the only female you confide in!

[@tmipodcastke]

Crimson red!😂

[@Han-wt4vg]

Nay to the song!!!😂😂😂

[@lifeofsheila4041]

Guys I love you but Nay to the song ladies😂 Otherwise I really really loved this episode 😍

[@shalomandrest]

loved this episode ! please bring a man on the show to share

[@marthanaserian5915]

The first viewer today,,,it's definitely TMI

[@tmipodcastke]

Ayyee!

[@hayaashraf3404]

1- gentlemen 2- rest Just sit down and look cute Match the energy and see where the relationship going Don't mother Say what you want a morning message

[@faithnjoki1471]

Tumechapwa na Man City. I'm here because I need healing. Arsenal will not kill me when you gorgeous babes are here.

[@tmipodcastke]

The football babes have arrived 😂

[@lynzie900]

00:59 its gonna be a nay for me 😬😬😬

[@Wangari_Mbua]

I absolutely love you guys. This topic was 💥💣

[@edinahkendi9871]

Not lyd attacking me directly when she talked about being emotionally mature also means talking directly about things that upset you ,, I'm just from ranting to my bestie😅😅this man will think that's petty... can I be petty in peace aaagh😅😅😅

[@annenganga1265]

Yeah to the song 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@edawere9952]

Best episode ever! #mwakenya😍

[@antoninanjeri722]

Am definitely changing my standards thank you TMI for this 😊

[@nothandotakaendisa1309]

I honestly really love the intro

[@LucyJepleting-dl3uv]

Just paused to text my man!❤Also TMI ignites the feminine part of us.

[@FaithHopeLoveCate]

Naaayy to the song!

[@roxannahhaileystorm1802]

I like the singing, it's a vibe

[@micheleombima1666]

Nay to the song.