What Your EGO is holding YOU back from (& how to FIX it) | Ed Mylett

[@EdMylettShow]

What is the #1 thing that your Ego has been holding you back from?

[@jimgoldfuss525]

As far as I have come, as much as I know and understand, the Ego still throws in that little voice to get me to question my abilities, and every so often, actually gets a foothold and takes me off point and off focus. It's frustrating.

[@AlPaci]

Ego steps in when im onto something big.

[@jihooc9520]

Growing out of an allowable zone presented for me #maxout #edmylett

[@withthiskrown419]

Letting people in, keeping to myself thinking I can do it all. By myself I can go faster with the right people I can go farther.

[@lexpoleta7940]

Remove the ego. One of the best things I learnt from an old boss was “Remove emotion, think logically.”

[@osse1n]

*The trick is to be able to cooperate with and hold ego in check.* I don't think anyone can kill off the ego, that would be an end to the body that carries the consciousness. Just recognising the ego, being honest with the self and acting out of non-selfish state as much as possible is what we have to do. Creating value and uplifting others.

[@hibob4453]

Ego can help us push on. Use it to push yourself harder in your work, life, hobbies, etc

[@jimwilliams182]

You are the Best in your Space! Thank you for incorporating God in your lessons 🙏

[@AuthenticSelfGrowth]

This video was a revelation. Love the idea about negative things taking 90-120 days to show up and positive results take 6-12 months. Makes so much sense. Love your content 👌🏼🔥

[@iansteenkamp8]

Imagine writing the negative from your day in your journal, but 90 days into the future. This way you can read it in the morning again on that future date 90 days out🤔

[@AshleySalvatori]

wow Positive results don't show up for 6 months to a year!!!!! Dont stop people, stay consistent! you are right. the end of this is literally gold.

[@PracticalInspiration]

Our ego often closes our mind to new ideas because to do so would mean accepting and acknowledging insecurities we might have. Outstanding video Ed

[@EdMylettShow]

BOOM! Absolutely said and summed it up perfectly. Great stuff. What do you think I should talk about next?

[@PracticalInspiration]

@@EdMylettShow thanks, maybe something about keeping a beginner's mindset might follow this one well

[@mcintron4099]

As a bi-vocational pastor I find your content extremely helpful and encouraging. Thanks so much for all you do! May God continue to bless you and your family. God speed!

[@sandrameers5130]

For sure, EGO and humility are polar opposites and the more beneficial outlook to be coming from for many, many reasons.

[@Harharq8]

If you let other people talk and understand what they are talking is a humbleness and sign of groth

[@denise3432]

Thank God for people like Ed! I needed to hear this message! 🙏🏾

[@ezell7079]

The struggle is real. My defensiveness and needing to always win is such a downfall. I am so working on this. I am self aware and ego is overwhelming. Thank you Ed Mylett. #MAXOUT

[@guswillgetpaid7]

EGO stands for Edging God Out. Once I heard that I let God Always stay in my life and I remain humble. I don’t allow that to happen and I have people (great) to put me in my place. Thank you for the message. It is much needed.

[@BeccaGriffith]

I need this reminder in my life DAILY! Really great message, Ed. Almost every single time I get annoyed with someone, I have to stop & ask myself what I want from this (domination/control/superiority/credit) & take it to God so that I can abandon what my flesh naturally wants to do. As much as I'd like to think that my self-awareness is on par, it doesn't change how much I struggle with my ego in this and seeking the FREEDOM to allow others to be who they are as if I need to "properly" evaluate them when they're doing something I deem annoying/offensive/etc. (aka my ego is ANNOYING!).

[@americanbullyseedsrussreed3980]

That I am always checking myself. To live out of my Heart.. And to give where it is felt...

[@josielewis1247]

Thank you Ed for telling me the truth about me. And I thank you for being a God sent to others. keep doing the amazing work . !!!

[@titonothere6179]

DEATH STROYER there is! It’s called WFG! Ed was our FC but has recently step down, but we still get hands on training from him.

[@erasmorivera3966]

The ego part that hold me back for many years was the opinion of others and the fear of failure. Thanks to you an many of your friends I was able to break loose in the last 6 months, I even sold my truck just to get funds to get training to become an entrepreneur, thank you so much I found myself and my passion, God Bless You and Your Family.

[@wspmjw]

Outstanding content. Thanks for peeling back the onion on ego. #1 thing for me is taking the action needed to be a success. Paradigm is shifting..

[@RUNNINGWATER]

First look within... check my own feeling... on each situations, love this so much. Not talk behind others, check obsessed outward look, bullying not good but recognize praise pull not push subtle ego... i can not love my self if i am not believe in myself, only hang around ppl think like them, easily offended, stuck in the past, insecurity and self doubt, constantly apologizing, worry abt others think about them, need approvals Negative results trails 90-120 days later. Do not stop doing what required to win Positive results will be shown 6 months to a year. Keep doing what goods and kill bad habits within! Thanks!!

[@EdMylettShow]

WOW ! .. you seriously just summed it all up perfectly. Curious, do you have a favorite video of mine so far? Would love to hear your thoughts!

[@RUNNINGWATER]

EdMylett there are many video I watched and learn from your channel. One of my favorite is how to connect with others whenever I watch your video I learn something new that I miss last time. Thank you for creating and sharing your message with me and others. Its golden!

[@shalenadiva]

Ed, you just helped me understand seedtime and harvest!!! I gotta keep going and growing!!! Wow!!! Ego results= 3 to 4 months manifestation Discipline= 6 to 12 months

[@bobbyhebert3727]

Listening to you as I work out. Going on 61, and still getting stronger in every way. Going to change the world with my family card game. Love you my brother. God is good.

[@rafaelgomez1989]

THANK YOU ED..for me the EGO shows up when RESULTS are not evident fast enough.

[@Blueara7]

Amen, breakthrough in my life is coming! I believe with Gods strength. Thank you Ed.

[@Harharq8]

For reminding me and my friends that we have to let go our ego. And we don't need always people around us

[@MandiMillerMakeup]

Wow! I think every time that I'm listening to one of your videos that "this" one is the best one and this morning was no different. 💯 I never realized all the ego involved. Ready to check myself in these areas. I appreciate you. You've made a huge impact in my life. No amount of money can buy that!!

[@leahgarcia2923]

Truth! This one was a check up from the neck up for me too!

[@doloreshigbie1892]

I am 75.. Burned out.. I have listened to so much motivation stuff over the past two years..that I lost myself trying to find myself.. This has truly showed me what I need to do.. Wow thank you.. I am amazed at what I just heard..that's me.. But not for long.. Thanks for a path back to me..

[@joelwitherspoon8161]

My ego has led me to be defensiveness at times. Thanks Ed for the reminder!

[@jimgoldfuss525]

#MaxOut Motivation Mondays with Max Mylett....what better way to start the week!

[@EdMylettShow]

Was there anything I said that really caught your attention in a positive light?

[@Sob3r777]

You can't love yourself if you can't be yourself you can't be yourself if you don't be yourself.

[@stukenborgpodcast]

The key point you said that it takes 6months to a year for the results of good choices and habits to show up is so important! Being patient and taking a long view...super important. It’s a good thing that the results of ego driven decisions show up in 90-120 days, so we can quickly turn that around! Thank you so much Ed for this episode and your transparency!!! #selfaware

[@morgancaptain5842]

Cant love yourself if your not being yourself. Sheer gold. What holds me back is what my ego dominates my choices on what I'm not willing to do by suggesting its my high standards when its actually fear or procrastination. thanks Ed, Maxing it out with humility!!!

[@letsgetmoney8874]

Always at it!!! This is not a quick fix! This is a lifestyle!! Anddddd i love it! Who is with me!!!

[@MrandMrsJarrett4ever]

I need to change big time because listening to this revealed that I no longer want to be that type of person anymore.

[@designerntx]

This is the best !!! Taking the company laptop home every day to stay in the loop after hours, grinding ! Interviewing for that promotion, keeping up with the company competition and still hanging there. The results are around the bend and I know God has it lined up but the most challenging event is not caving into the EGO!! Thanks for this message, God bless!

[@andym0rand02]

NO EGO, FOCUS ON BEING YOURSELF!! AMEN!! Thanks @edmyl

[@perceptionshare2248]

It makes a lot of sense that when you don't see the results and want to quit, that's your ego. Get hold of it, and you will succeed. Thanks for sharing your perception, Ed.

[@ocontabilistadigital]

Wowww! Ed, you are the best personal development mentor today!

[@bastianrivero]

Fabio Platero agree 💯

[@alanvas2850]

Glad you broke down the definition of ego, eye opener for sure #maxout #noego #letgomyego

[@shawnsabharwal2214]

In an isolated, stressful world - the ego is on overdrive. Seeing a "perceived" world, one where most interaction is (sadly) viewed through others' propped up moments - ie, facebook/instgram. - or the masks we wear... has the ego work on overdrive w/ 'have not' syndrome. An ultimate irony is our social media world leads to a lonlier world... and in that world, an unchecked ego running thoughts unfiltered - through your mind - is the origin of disaster (on one's life). Your topic is so pinpoint. Your focus & passion on others, targting VITAL, core issues - is appreciated and required! Thanks.

[@gulahmad6916]

I hang out with people who agree with me in everything and I always look for approval. I am working from today on improving these two ego issues.

[@davidmuhammad1060]

Ed, the delay on results is something that no one really talks about. It's something that I discovered because I went through some stuff a couple years ago and I'm recovering. I've actually learned how to be more self aware. This video is super powerful

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you for sharing with all of us! Massively appreciate it! What other topics of discussion do you think I should talk about?

[@davidmuhammad1060]

@@EdMylettShow A lot of people talk about networking and not doing things by yourself which is true. Maybe, you can talk about how this can be a crutch and lead to procrastination. You rely do have to have strong self esteem and make a strong decision on your own to get where you need to go and then the right people will come along. That may be a great topic.

[@anthonyvcorona]

Wow! Listening to this great message made me realize times in my life when my ego got in the way because of fear..My ego must have been bigger then I thought... 100% dead on when you say I stopped doing what I should have kept doing.

[@JoeyC-PLL]

I love Mondays and getting these new videos!!! Ed, they are by far the best on the internet. These 20 min videos are always STRAIGHT FIRE! Thank you for continuing to do these.

[@KetogenicKim]

I wish you were my big brother, even though I'm older than you 🤗. I cannot thank you enough for putting all of this content out there free of charge, so much value...you've blessed my life and so many others. I really cannot thank you enough. 🤗

[@lpvalen]

I was introduced to you yesterday at Success is Contagious and it’s as if God sent you. I can’t thank you enough for sharing yourself to all of us with your wisdom and passion. Many blessings Brother.

[@simonmakacha5810]

My ego(positive ego) made me meet you Ed😊😊 thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

[@sodak7534]

TGIM. Thank you for your daily advice and challenges, because of you I have taken a hard look at my life and begun to make changes that are helping me personally and professionally.

[@smitpatel3319]

Ahh! Watching you is becoming a fun activity finding new flaws in me that I need to eradicate to eventually reach my breakthrough to success!!!

[@joegoocher4354]

Yes! I seek way too much validation from others.

[@prashanthak3187]

This video must watch again and again once in a month to look EGO or BLISs

[@hamet1234]

@20:45 I felt some of that ministry inside of Ed coming out right there! Amen

[@laurenlaplante1481]

Spot on Ed, thank you! "Doing is Power" sign on my fridge. Building my business...great messages I needed to hear now and again.

[@roxanabeltran4170]

At first I could definitely identify this message as my partner checking every box of what you speak of yet digging deep and being fair some of these points also fall on my lap as me. It seems we all may struggle with ego but as I always say it's not what you know it's what you do with what you know so thank you it's good to be reminded so that you can better yourself.

[@Music-rq5wo]

Thank you Ed will start programming positively.You are a blessing in my life.Looking foward to meet you soon.God bless

[@csreed41]

Another great message ! I feel like it was made just for me . I have given up and said the heck with the world after my divorce . I have stopped living and caring about my life and my family . Mr. Mylett is correct . I have been living my life with my consequences from my past . It's due to my Ego !! I told myself I will punish the ppl that hurt , that's all I did was hurt myself by my own actions .

[@timweldon8820]

Thank you Ed, perfect timing for this video. I was really letting my ego get the best of me and not able to recognize it. Today is the first day of the rest of my life, thank you so much

[@pattyonorato445]

Good Morning Ed, out to be the BEST teacher today!! Thank you for the Motivation this morning!! Keep it real!Have a great day!! #MAXOUT 💪🏼😊

[@TSKohr]

Right !!

[@EdMylettShow]

Thank you for the kind words! It really means a lot to me reading comments like these. THANK YOU!

[@guyjean7159]

Ego, what another brilliant topic!!! We live in a society where almost everything is self-centered. It is always about "ME, ME, ME". Thanks my brother for today's message! Everyone listening to it should get something from it. I have concluded that I have so much work to do on myself in order to reach my full potential. Thanks again, bro!

[@ara912]

OMG I am seriously so emotional in a awakening way ... GOD BLESS YOU ED I say this from the bottom of my heart ... I’ve read some quantity of books , I listen to other people ... I follow other people but I have to tell you ... you had been the only one that has seriously changed many things in my life and I am so grateful I found your videos here in KZbin and now I got newsletters, insta and ready to read your book ... THANK YOU keep doing you ❤️

[@tempesttravellingoftaste9513]

I took help by a coach. This due to I tried to get myself out of another period of burnout. My findings was not really what I expected to find. Small steps forward and sooner or later you move forward from your past. Your Energy is just amazing 🙏

[@fencemastersdfw]

Dude, I love your loud finger snaps! 🧨🧨

[@jentan5528]

I love your message Ed. You’re honest and real. Thank you for what you’re putting out into the world. ❤️

[@abrahamgarcia5486]

I almost gave up on an opportunity this past week that I had so relentlessly pursued. I almost gave up because I have not been getting any results. The fear has been real and the work ethic struggled. I had to recommit myself and really through meditation and prayer conquer this body of sin and ego!!! Thank you for your content Ed. 🙏 it truly is life changing

[@vaepasua201]

I have listened to this 4x times today because I’ve never heard ego described with this much content. Man!! Great stuff. Thanks again Ed!

[@EdMylettShow]

Glad I was able to show you a different perspective! Sometimes seeing things in a different perspective opens up new opportunities.

[@carolineg513]

This was so refreshing to hear. I was introduced to this concept a few years ago by Eckhart Tolle and it is really life changing. But the way Ed just broke this down was perfect. The hardest part is to recognize when your in the moment to stay present and not let your EGO run you. Thank you for the inspiration as always.

[@nickcarter5569]

Dude, Ed thank you. I needed this. I’m very aware of my ego, but it’s definitely still there. I’m a confident person, and I really like the person I am, yet I still struggle pretty deeply with a few of these oversized ego issues. I’m about to move to New York City, couch surf, and start documenting my life as I build a business. I truly can’t imagine not changing the world one day, you know. I’ve had this profound feeling of drive toward some greater thing as long as I can remember. It feels like a physical fire that’s runs so deep it actually defines my future and who I am. I can tell when you talk, you have it too. I know I’m on the right path toward that, but I don’t think I’d be this far along if it weren’t for you and a handful of others. Your practical approach and distillation of timeless advice is like no other. I know you get it it a lot, but you’ve helped changed my life, Ed. You’ve propelled me into territory few people go and for that I will always be greatful and humbled by your words and wisdom. 🙏🤘🏻 I will give you a hug one day in person, that I know. Haha. Much love. -Nick

[@Charlie-of4jb]

These podcasts are life!!! The content is priceless!

[@juandelgado5865]

Amazing start to the week listening to the priceless treasures of your own life experience Mr Mylett...thank you so much for sharing it with all of us that are hungry and willing to achieve te best of ourselves daily.God bless you.

[@nicola-socialmediasuccess8687]

Especially at the beginning of entrepreneurship ego is a big problem

[@EdFindlay]

Powerful!!! I didn't realize just how far gone I've been until watching this. Thank you Ed! #MAXOUT

[@jimwilliams182]

Ego is holding me back from confidence. This is perfect timing, I really needed this. Thank you so much! #maxout

[@muhammadkhan-lr9mq]

I have started on creating my business, i have been working everyday on making a difference to my life, starting training with boxers as they exercise with great intention, work everyday on getting something done, got all toxic relationships out of the way and am now going seminars etc where enterprising people are gathered..this is great info Ed..thanks

[@mikemagruder9589]

Thank you, Ed! This is a good one! Seriously, thank you for putting this out for the world. You're a blessing!

[@ThomasJones-sz3sx]

Just what I needed to hear today, I have to get my miserable ego in check. Thanks Ed #MAXOUT

[@TheKrew]

Ed is one of the most incredible people I know. Thank you Ed for being such a positive force in so many peoples lives. This one is another good one! Learning from a brilliant mind every day is my idea of living a blessed life. I am just so beyond thankful.

[@Linda-xe4tc]

Thank you Ed for making being easy to get along with look normal.

[@EdMylettShow]

Of course! What's 1 thing that resonated with you the most in this video?

[@motivationandtravelchannel4575]

I LOVE this inspiration! 100% right I am responsible for my happiness and it’s MY responsibility to take control of my day! LOVE IT!

[@EdMylettShow]

Glad you found such enjoyment from the video! Give me a few topics you'd like me to cover in next weeks video!

[@ladylaura93]

What a revelation! Somtimes I need to stand up and make the ego sit down! Thanks for making this video:)

[@993ath]

You are born for a reason What is happening in our lives are what we think we deserve. Ego usually means fear. You can't love yourself,if you are not being yourselves. Ego issues in life:- 1.Defensiveness 2.Always trying to be right in an argument. 3.Frequently bragging. 4.Revenge 5.Posessiveness. 6.Gossiping about others. 7.Obsession with outward appearance. 8.Bullying- beating people up into performing rather than elevating them into recognition 9. Seeking approval from others 10.Afraid of being alone 11.Easily offended by criticism 12.Constantly reciting the past. 13.Associating only with like minded people. 14.Constantly apologising for same thing. 15.Constantly think about other people's opinion about you. 16.Insecurity and inferiority

[@dhazz22]

Wow this is truly powerful and a wake up all. Thank you for re focusing me on checking on my ego. Thank you for providing value to me in this podcast.

[@eddycuello7184]

Wow!!! I have no words to express my gratitude with you for this!!! I just CAN say Thanks!!

[@jriv454]

Thank you for today"s topic , I don't know where to start on fixing my ego! I need to watch this a few more times. God bless you Ed!!!

[@jerryriggins123]

This has been a big help for me anytime I have ego problems pop up I turn to this episode and check myself before I wreck myself thank you ed.

[@allprotectorsnetwork]

Love that you always talk about the things you need to get better at as well! Great reminder to me! This is one I pay particular attention to. Thanks, Ed!!

[@arnelsarian1966]

So to the point, I have listened to this a couple of times and feel that life will be a lot more peaceful if I can do what Ed is suggesting and control my ego. Thank you Ed, very great full for your teaching.

[@Lexi8193-loveyalls]

Thank you for the revelation! Looking at yourself in the mirror helps but did not expect EGO coming from that many angles... like the interpretation.

[@EdMylettShow]

Glad you found such enjoyment from the video! What's another topic you think I should cover?

[@michaelallen7747]

Damn! I'm not confused about what I need to do.. and the only one standing In my way is me.. my ego and insecurities are the biggest culprits. I'm finally starting to clearly see that I'm really not a victim of even partial circumstance, maybe some are but I'm not. My life is a product of what I think I deserve and I have to continue to work on this. Great stuff today! Putting me in the right mindset this morning

[@artgarner5725]

So much good knowledge in a short video!!! The best content I have ever heard since I was 16 I have yet to see or hear some one more genuine. I have even had the pleasure of meeting him in person and he is truly a man of faith and wants to see others succeed. I don’t just like Ed Mylett… I love him like a brother in Christ. He has truly blessed my life with the examples he goes through as it does help me correct what I’m doing wrong

[@DanielGabriel]

Absolutely agree. Daily work to love yourself and keep checking your EGO at the door. 🙏💯

[@MP304112012]

I love your work so much. This video is almost a year old, but it's helping me today. This virus chaos has me searching constantly for positive material, and I am listening to you every single day 🖤

[@shalenadiva]

Self love slays the ego!!! Thank you for this video. #maxout

[@vincentlim6200]

I can listen to this every single day and it will point me in the right direction

[@johnmackeymusic]

Wow! This might be one of the most important videos ever! Not only is it loaded with content on becoming the best version of myself, but also how to see and work with others. Seeing some of these traits in myself and people around me, gives great insight into working with everyone. Thanks as always!

[@felipeluqueci1822]

good morning Ed! today you made me cry! I believe God I was talking to me through you my friend!🙏 Felipe from Brasil🤝

[@ocontabilistadigital]

Oi Felipe, eu também sou do Brasil! Feliz em saber que você também assiste os vídeos de Ed!

[@joejoe77_gold]

Mr Ed Mylett, I'm a Little Hurt cause I think you meant this KZbin about Ego just for Me! You Trampled all Over My Ego...I Needed this today...I've suffered from the Covert Ego Problem...And I'm sure you can tell by my previous comments...I try to convince myself and others of my worth! THANKYOU FRIEND!☺

[@janacarroll6193]

I GIVE THANKS for you Ed Mylett🙏🏻🙏🏻. This was extremely eye opening for me to look at me!! I have been on this journey for a while but this video put it into perspective!!! Thank you for having center and focus #1 on God and for sharing that with the world!

[@leek1002]

I believe... I believe... Your genuine honest approach makes me believe...I've forgotten that I deserve better...Not anymore...

[@jra.x2enxtlvl]

Ed Mylett UR so compassionate, so correct! I look forward everyday to what U have to say! I am doing my best at focusing on doing the most work for my family, & spending the hours working grinding to get established & become the #NXTLVL & next version of myself! #MAXOUT! #beinspyrd

[@jksalem]

As Always Thank you. EGO I was Taught is XING GOD OUT! You bring God into the Picture to stay in the Present. This is the 5th time I listened to this and I took my notes today. I needed this, because when I take Things to Personal, that is my Trigger & I know My Ego is Back! Absolutely I Get a Set Back! JS

[@Lifeofmavii]

I’ll be listening to this multiple times! So powerful! Thank you 🙏

[@EdMylettShow]

Do you have a favorite part of the video?

[@Lifeofmavii]

EdMylett When you spoke about delayed gratification. I am in the health and wellness space and can see how this correlates so well to my business. It was the perfect reminder to regardless of the instant outcome just keep showing up and putting in the work. Having blind faith that the result is coming! That was just 1 of many points that i found super powerful.

[@TSKohr]

Love the fact that you speak such truth, reprogramming is key when everything around us is programming us ! Thank you ! #maxout

[@rachelpointer4828]

Fire!!!!! Thank you for the powerful that brought me new awareness about ego! I have praying praying that Spirit would show me what our world needs to hear so that I can be a light for healing and freedom for people. I can tell you are in that direct flow and this message is going to change so many peoples lives! I’m so thankful for you and your work!