Parents tell their adult child it's time to move out | What Would You Do? | WWYD

A mother and father would like their 30-year-old son to move out and get a job. The son doesn't think he's a burden, but what will customers think?
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[@RayMak]

It's a very different situation for Asians. We'll be like.... Mum dad, we need to have a conversation, it's time for me to move out. Parents be like, what do you expect us to do with 10 rooms? Who's gonna make you soup?

[@sigil8180]

Ray Mak Exactly

[@ashm1028]

omg yes i said i wanna move out next year to be independent n mum's like 'no you're not, you're staying right here' LOL

[@unwantedindividual5901]

True

[@zarastyles1687]

Same with brown parents omg

[@Explodesyourmicrowave]

Yep This is what would happen

[@HappywifeTaylor]

Can we do gender swap. I would like to see if people would say the same thing if it was a daughter getting kicked out.

[@tawneeens436]

Happywife Taylor IKR they should do a gender swap.. my dad is fine with me living with him as long as I need if I’m working and saving money and going to college

[@HappywifeTaylor]

Right. I'm just wondering if people would tell the daughter she needs to be on her own too. I like to see if there would be a double standard.

[@tawneeens436]

Happywife Taylor yeah exactly..

[@island-life]

This is based on real life. Google the name Michael Rotondo. FYI, he also has his own CHILD but obviously, he doesn't pay child support or anything at all because he can't even take care of himself.

[@HappywifeTaylor]

que en Sooo!!! Are saying you wouldn't want a gender swap? I dont understand your comment.

[@jock244u1]

I'm 41 and live at home but my parents were loving and courageous enough to allow me to come back 8 years ago despite a 10 year meth addiction and on the verge of homelessness. I've been clean and sober for 8 years, work full time as an Industrial Relations Specialist and in the middle of my 3rd term on my way to an AA degree in Business Administration. I pay my share and more in bills, and help with the general up-keep of the house, etc. I wont be here forever, but I'm indebted to my family for letting me heal at home!

[@N0V3MBER]

God bless you and your parents. Keep pressing on. I've never met you but I'm so proud of you. Your comment made my night. Thanks and take one day at a time. You're loved ❤

[@mikekillagreen9432]

Get your ass out

[@ryanc5572]

You're a hero. Stay strong, you're such an inspiration. Wishing you all the best!

[@ianbryantdba5996]

your situation is completely different. drug addiction is never easy to bouce back from

[@youtubeuser1432]

Cuz they probably knew that was your last chance at life drug addict. Why are you afraid to be on your own. Be a true real adult. A real person. I love my parents. I could never do that to them

[@weird4productions]

Video: 30 year old still lives with parents. Me at 28: *nervous laughter* I'm in danger.

[@155chipmunkz]

Same but I’m 25.

[@jsteven8529]

@Bulimic Diet no they win in contrast to people in their early twenties who have to pay their own rent etc, when those people living with their parents can save on their future by studying with less stress, they save money to buy their house instead of going into more debt like those who are kicked out by their "parents". They win by getting the unconditional love of their parents they deserve as their childs, when those young people who are thrown out are seen as guests who are unwelcome in their "parents" home. Those young people who live with their parents win at all costs.

[@lemonzest_]

@Obstratics lmao that's the dumbest shit i've ever heard

[@MichaelTrevinoFan101]

I love how they said 30 is too long. My brother in law is 31 and still live with his parents. We live with them too. My husband is 27 and I'm 23, but we have a child and they are helping us so we can save to have a place of our own. Latino parents will love to have you even when you are 100 years old.

[@jsteven8529]

Thats real parenting. Of course the rates of elderly in nursing homes would be lower by nonwestern people

[@yellowasian619]

My dad said i can live with him forever👍👍

[@asielmilian38]

George Nguyen That is not good.

[@Jack-dw3mp]

Asiel MILIAN its good to have a choice

[@caseynivans7885]

If I had a son or daughter I wouldnt mind them living w me as long as they want.

[@yovizx]

Casey Nivans only if they pay rent

[@asielmilian38]

Luka Petković True but I feel like you should move out of your parents house when you are older but if you know how to take care of yourself and making a living its ok to stay with your parents.

[@alihamud6410]

Now I know Why elder people die in nursing homes without relatives present.

[@GwalargaryTV]

Damn

[@euniceong595]

@@pryzylla7017 that guy's motive is not to pay rent bruh

[@TheYasinporsuk]

oh shitttttt that roast thooo

[@samyen3210]

Damn

[@tirnoah5031]

So true 😂

[@julieornelas3787]

I’m so fortunate that’s not the case with me. I have a full time job, I pay bills, responsible, help my parents. Moving out is too expensive nowadays. But sry, 30 yrs old…REFUSES to get a job, a draining resource on the family, that’s just embarrassing.

[@twang-lw1kl]

I think parents should be happy if their kids stay with them

[@Lishmaa]

Most Polynesian parents are happy to have their kids stay longer, at least your able to care for them as they get old.

[@BubbaPlayzAll]

I am a parent and I think the same thing.

[@lucafalzea950]

Well, but it depends on how this cohabitation works. Parents' duty is also to give their children the tools to live without them. So I think it's fine to live with your parents as an adult but you gotta be an adult: working, paying bills, help with chores, buying groceries.

[@peachescherries3291]

Right

[@bepopxxx]

Luca Falzea well you can stay with your parent and take care of their groceries/bill/etc . At least you can watch your parent if something happens to them.

[@lisadiconti]

It was hilarious when he mentioned his posters and his train set.

[@stankatbarrell9878]

For those who don't know: In American culture a person is severely looked down upon if they live with their parents or family after ages 18-22. It is viewed as a sign of failure. I don't personally believe that but in society it is. I believe that when you are 18 or older than you should pay rent if you still live with your parents or family.

[@iamnoone348]

Yes we know, and we find it weird because it's no longer practical especially with high cost of rent and housing... but I'm not saying to be a lazy bum and not contribute to the household.

[@LMLification]

If people are adults and still living at home, then they need to at least save up so that they can get enough money to leave. Even Westernized Asians tend to stay connected to their herritage moreso than other groups and some of them will whine when their "babies" want to leave the nest.

[@ThatGlobalDesi]

Lindsey C it is quite a lot of pressure tho.

[@imalwaysright]

White people

[@kyloren1089]

Absolutely. I mean, I didn't pay rent before I moved away, but as long as I did everything else, I didn't have to or need to, but a lot of people seem to think that rent should be forced. I'm not saying it's "not fair" but it would be much harder to save up, and instead of doing that, saving up for a new car and new place is exactly what I did to move out. Also, my brothers and I visit my parents out of choice and if we decide to, not because it's forced at all nor should it be (they're not elders yet either). They made they choice to have kids at the end of the day, that can't be argued with, and it is not selfish or entitled to disagree with those who think kids "owe" parents any more than they owe their kids anything. What they say is not at all a fact. Visiting and aiding is the right thing to do I believe in my opinion even if we didn't always get along, but I do not believe it should ever be forced nor should anyone be judged for not doing so. Furthermore, if a child doesn't want to care for his or her parents if they are forced out, then I would understand that, because after all, the parents are "adults" and adults care for themselves. I mean, they're allowed to force you out once you turn 18, but society thinks you should take care of them nonetheless? How does that make any sense? You get what you give. :)

[@MidnightCravings]

I just wanna be a full time freeloader.

[@wolfie8227]

What if your parent dies? Then you be screwed

[@lakshmicommunication358]

Even I live with my parents .. I pay all the taxes and the expenses but I just want them to be with me. My wife also love them and care for them .. What else do we need ? A loving wife & loving parents .DONE

[@user-gp8lz3xy3x]

Midnight Cravings Your so guilty lol!!!!

[@timman3643]

ram shayam I live my with parents also. However I don't do it cause I want to. I want my own place by can't afford it cause I'm only making 14.69 a hr which isn't enough. Taxes, health insurance dental insurance 401k accident coverage all come out of my check. Then add bills expensive prescriptions that leaves me with nothing else.

[@timman3643]

Pussy Slayer I've had the same employer for almost 15 years. So yeah I work. Shovel snow in the winter. Cut grass in the summer. My parents don't seem like they want me to leave. However if I could afford it without going bankrupt I would.

[@user-io9hj9ip2d]

The way that kid looks at his dad for approval after saying "18" is really sad. Kids are smart, and the fact that he knows exactly how to answer John's question in a way his dad will approve shows that he's just answering the question to appease his dad. I'm sure inside he's like, "wow my dad wants me to go away in a few years". and that's sad

[@johnconnor7501]

🙁

[@fedoramcclaren4294]

You saw that too?

[@jessvision8817]

We learnt about this issue in school. This is happening to our generation because all the jobs are still being taken by the baby boomers, so we get thousands of dollars of debt then can't get into the career we went to college for, so we are stuck in low paying jobs until spots open up, resulting in kids moving back home to save money.

[@Clee-os6pv]

+JessVision: Most of the times in my case? They are picky who they want and don't want. Even when? They have the experience or willing to do it with no experience and education. Which sometimes? I have to fake my achievements, education, and etc. In order to get the job.

[@laceyb2693]

I’m a senior and I’m fucking dreading going to college because I don’t know how I’m gonna pay for it and if I’ll even get a job. This shit sucks

[@mikejackson7881]

Get a trade degree then pay for your schooling

[@jasonkhan854]

This concept of kicking the kids out of the home is a relatively new phenomena in our country. In the late 1800's and early 1900's Americans had extended families. The son or daughter would marry and have children in the same household. Everyone would participate in the responsibilities of the household and would inherit the family home when the parents passed on. Families could easily take care of each other and generation after generation this would continue. The real reason this became a thing of the past, is because the banks and the government wanted to remove the inherited wealth from the families and force them into long term debt and dependence with the banks and federal government programs. When the automobile was invented, it gave the youth a false sense of independence, because now the children of former generations felt empowered and wanted to buy their own homes. The banks capitalized on this and issued mortages (death grips) to the youth who were interested in buying up property. The problem was they didn't realize that they were being decieved and locked up in financial debt with interest for a large proportion of their lives! Wheras with the children who stayed with their families and inherited the family home, they were financially ahead because they were not in debt and owned their homes outright! They could provide for themselves and their families relatively easily, without the stress of paying on a mortage or bank loan with high interest. The banks and big government want people like YOU to be locked up in debt, so that you will not have the same kind of financial independence that your grandparents and great grandparents once had!

[@Chris-ml5vg]

holy shit. never thought of it like that

[@joemcflys6856]

but why though?

[@jasonkhan854]

@@joemcflys6856 Because big banks and big government want the people like you and I to be indebted to them. They use programs such as this as propaganda to convince the masses what is considered to be "acceptable " and "normal" in our society. Pay close attention. Even major news networks will broadcast stories like the 30 year old man who lives at home as a societal taboo and use it for propaganda purposes to shape people's public opinions. If we are indebted to the banks, we as people do not really have true independence or freedom!

[@jasonkhan854]

@African_Child_labour_worker Yes. The baby boomers wanted their children out of the house by 18, so that they could continue living in their selfish lives. However, its not their entire fault. The banks and creditors were the main cause of this problem. They perpetuated and promoted this philosophy to attain power and financial control over the people. They literally stole people's fortunes by convincing people not to let their children inherit the family home by convincing the boomers that they should enroll in a reverse mortgage or sell their property to finance their retirement. This concept appealed to many people in the baby boomer generation. It gave them a false sense of independence and this strategy caused a major financial divide and gap in our economy and empowered financial institutions and big banks to retain their power by offering mortgages with ridiculous interest rates! Unfortunately, many people fell into this trap and continue to struggle paying off their mortgages and trying to make ends meat at the same time! Best solution to this problem would be to bring back the concept of extended families back into our country, so that we the people can take the power back from the financial institutions and banks!

[@isaz597]

Truly this has been a real eye opener of a comment. I knew basically the idea of mortgages/debt etc but you put it perfectly. Now I understand it more. Thanks

[@malsawmzela609]

It's like people in US loses their love between relatives when they come to age. Strange af.

[@Jeffreyd337]

If you decide to have a child you should always ALWAYS be there for them, no matter what.

[@SS-us3ug]

Kick them out when they're 30 then beg them to come back and take care of them when they're 70. Seems fair. When you choose to reproduce your offspring is your responsibility for life. Period.

[@taxol2]

You need to caps FOR LIFE, a lot of people fail to understand that. The responsibily bond’s severed only when either the parents or the child die.

[@JulianneHannes]

People who think it's only 18years should not be parents

[@zamonium24]

I agree but they should encourage the child to get out and get a job.

[@stevejay5118]

At what point does the child have to stop making the parents work to pay for everything they do

[@JulianneHannes]

@@stevejay5118 Most children who live at home work, some more than one job. Children who live at home never live there because they want to but because they have to or wind up homeless due to average rent being $2grand in places that have jobs and are buried deep in student loan debt. The simple days of leaving home at 18 and easily getting a career and mortage are long over, the American dream is dead all thanks to the babyboomers and their greed.

[@ramcesdelgado5123]

I’m 24 unemployed and living with my parents. I’m living my own life and have plenty of time to work on myself. Love hearing this 3:12

[@shannybaaby]

Try being Italian, they never wanna let you go

[@good-gpt2-chatbot]

Even indian

[@ravikiran8730]

i am amused, i thought europeans and Americans are alike

[@1313tennisman]

@@ravikiran8730 italians and greeks are a different breed of europeans more similar to north africans and turks than nordics

[@abidubsprodection485]

@@ravikiran8730 Its especially in northern Europe and in the southern Europe... but even there theres not as much hate and stigma around living at home as it is in northern America...

[@androsp9105]

just put cream in your carbonara and they'll let you go

[@SmileBaby143]

And than you have Latino parents who want you to stay at home until you get married or have children no matter how old you are lmfao. I’m 20 and came back to live with my parents cause they wanted me back home to help out with my little sister, they don’t want me to leave until I’m done with college, my dad don’t even want me to work cause he’d rather have me at home taking care of my sister and doing the house chores in exchange lol 😂

[@ttttt316]

My brother right now is 34 and still staying home, no job and already giving me problems if I don't bring food home to him.

[@john04711]

They will need him when they get old

[@jestercalixto4821]

Why do I feel the opposite? Living independently at age 25. Isn't that amazing?

[@anonymoushuman8443]

Jess C if you can afford it

[@singhisking768]

Yeah a depressing life with judgmental office colleagues and fake friends.Who will drop you moments things go south sorry not me

[@HeavyInstinct]

@@singhisking768 Yeah why put yourself through that when you can just mooch off from Mom and Dad the rest of your life and make their lives miserable instead?

[@HeavyInstinct]

@usher luck what you're describing sounds just fine to me. However I was replying to someone who is essentially saying that getting a job isn't for them. Please enlighten me as to how you help your parents with the expenses if you don't have a job? there's nothing wrong with living with your parents as long as you're a contributing member of the household and society. unfortunately right now in the US there is virtually an epidemic of young people who stay with their parents yet also refuse to get a job even though they're perfectly capable of working. I've seen story after story of parents losing tens of thousands of dollars (in some cases their life savings) supporting their parasitic adult children. That is not "love" that is taking advantage of your parents kindness, and that is definitely something I will "never understand". When someone within the context of this conversation describes the workplace as "depressing" and full of "fake friends" and then concludes "sorry not me" I think it's reasonable for me to assume that they are one of these people. I don't believe anyone who would do this to their parents deserves respect from me or anyone else but I guess that just makes me "dumb" .

[@HeavyInstinct]

@@usher luck Well I'm glad to see you don't support such nonsense. As far as my replying to the original comment, since KZbin comments don't always generate it automatically, I always try to make sure that my posts include the screen name of the person I'm actually replying to in order to avoid that kind of confusion. As you can see my original reply clearly starts with @Prabhav Panday. I see comments all the time where you have to kind of figure out who the hell they're actually replying to. Kind of strange how when you click reply sometimes that information is automatically generated and other times it's not. I try to always enter it manually if it doesn't.

[@HadgeFizz]

People usually don't fear "growing up", They fear of all the stressful responsibilities, chores, and doing work all by themselves.

[@allanapereira9779]

They live in the same house but had to go to a restaurant to talk about it 😂 just for that I would know it was prank.

[@lakem0nst3r58]

If you look at the top of the dads head as the iPhone x haircut Edit: wow 16 likes

[@brettjames7996]

I mean hell, I was living at home till 28 but I did pay rent, a car payment and bills now I’m 29 and got a house, as long as you pitch in and help that will help you learn to be ready for when you move out!!

[@storiaholic3918]

Indian parents: CAN'T move your butt off the bed whole day and u wanna move out of house? TRY.

[@jimmya.r5761]

Well here in the middle east u only move out when u get married 🙃🙃🙃

[@UpYourArsenal]

The number of people in the comments who are proud to be single and live with their parents, regardless of culture/age/etc... Sad state of affairs for the world we live in. You're an adult, go act like one.

[@akashmengi7731]

we stay even after getting jobs.. Ok. We take care of our parents and live as a family. We dont get a call from the neighbours that our parents are sick.. Its nonsense to make a son leave forcefully. Why break your family ? Freaky behaviour.

[@batang90stonoh]

Akash Mengi Nino Fernandez it's supposed to be "get a job" not "move out of the house". Its like sending them away.most of the westerner parents are heartless. It should be the children's right whether they want to move out or not as long as you have a decent job it should not matter to them.unless you are already maried then you should really move out. They are their parents after all. Who would take care of them when they got older? Throw them to a nursing home? But yeah they deserve it right? No wonder why it's common in western country

[@batang90stonoh]

mikko no way even when we've got a job and have our own family.we still take care of our parents when they get older..we just hire someone to take care of them but we let them stay in our house and not throw them in the nursing house where u seldom see them.we still take care of them and look after them when we gt home.your excuses are lame.but yeah it's ur own culture. Good thing we didnt adopt that.

[@akashmengi7731]

When people are sick, they need their loved ones too, why cant you nurse them 24/7. when you were a kid, they stayed up all night, cleaned your ass, changed your diapers, got you things, compromised their own desires and made you happy. When you grow up and earn Good. Its your duty to provide your parents comfort, when your Mum is 60 adn your father is retired and 65, he might not be feeling very energetic, you can get him his favourite food. you can have a beer with your dad. your children will love the company of their grandparents. a good son is a support system for his parents, especially the father. I dont have a father, I know what it is like to not have the support. and plus you can spend your money on creating a business instead of putting your money into a house of your own. I agree, that western parents are not heartless, they have such a culture, but forefully making someone leave is nonsense.

[@Deep-dive-hustle]

Commenting as a 28 year old who still lives with his parents, they're getting old and I've gotta help them around with stuff and my mum would go into depression immediately if I move out, I'm employed and money is not a problem and we're all happy

[@LukeHeironimus]

Who would actually have this conversation in a diner of all places?

[@mikekillagreen9432]

Exactly!!

[@joemcflys6856]

me

[@aylinidrovo3910]

It’s a show

[@newstart1847]

I come from a middle eastern home and my family don’t believe in moving out until you’re married, but I do help with bills and take care of my responsibilities even help with my little sister ..

[@malsawmzela609]

Lol. In my place it's completely normal to stay together until we die of old age. We take care of our old mother and father and they appreciate it. Ofcourse they also move out when they have a wife and a job. But they definitely don't kick them out. I actually don't understand the culture here.

[@TinkerSizzleXD]

All these people in the comments say they’re 30 and live with their parents still. Bruh, I had my bags packed the day I turned 18.

[@1985toyotacamry]

I'm 29 I live with my folks even my sister(who is 22) got married and have two kids her husband is in a good job and we didn't move out and we are contributing. By the way none of our jobs pay enough to aren't enough to to move out anyway.

[@fantasia3714]

My dad kicked me out at 15 lol I'm still 15.

[@misskimberleyj]

I'm 31 and I still live with my parents, husband and daughter. We want to move out, we pay rent and we're currently saving to move out

[@jakerussell7537]

I’d probably agree with the parents, but at the same time how can you not love and support your child?

[@Ali_Dan47]

And then parents complain kids don't have time for them. It's a fine thin line. Walk cautiously.

[@daisyisthebestest4203]

As an Irish guy that's grown up and pretty much seen most people move out at 27.. I can't empathize with this, it's their kid and my parents would love me unconditionally and want me to stay at home till probably 35

[@justanormalhooman]

I'm Filipino and 26 years old. Can't relate. My mother and father would be upset if I leave. 😂😂😂

[@Sibasish07]

Lmao true af

[@champthephantomthief793]

I'm a Filipino too.

[@xoxogossipgirl133]

Same in trinidad its the same They don't care if we leave.

[@MarkyMarc89]

I’m Filipino as well and my parents actually want me to be the next owner of the house.

[@Natty10272]

True for me but I’m white. My parents look like they are gonna have a heart attack if I even mention moving out

[@davidferreras195]

Asian parent's want their kids to stay at home as long as possible. To them it's not a burden, it's a great blessing.

[@ryeblacas]

As an Filipino Chinese man. That’s not true lol

[@orangesnowman7137]

But their kids don’t always want that

[@yans2821]

@@ryeblacas thats quite different from my filipino-chinese family; but its not true to some Asian families lol

[@sitharthasg7402]

Yess

[@marekonjo9241]

We Africa too

[@elenahorvat4938]

Asians can't relate, our parents love to be with us for the rest of their lives.

[@sys9208]

Ya they are part of family white people seem to be so selfish and self centered

[@mike_404]

shrinivas swami Bruh realize that you can’t live with your freakin parents forever.

[@GeneralG1810]

@@sys9208 It's about growing the fuck up and learning to be independent not a mummy's boy. Get a job and learn to be self reliant and stop expecting mummy to do everything for you! Expecting your parents to coddle you is SELFISH, being independent and making your own way in life isn't

[@priyakabilan4393]

shrinivas swami In India, 7 people out of 10 people have depression and anxiety. 5 of them are women. Most common reason is lack of parents support. Lot of married women get bullied by their own mother in law and husband. If they can move out, this can decrease. What the Indian society say for this, Oh he went out of his parents house after he married. His wife changed him. Like, what the fuck?? You can’t be with your parents forever. That’s a bullshit.

[@GeneralG1810]

@@priyakabilan4393 It's getting worse over here, men are turning into mummies boys and saying "But it's so expensive to leave home" well DUH! it wasn't any easier when I was young mate but that's the challenge, to better yourself so that it gets easier!

[@Genenat]

Indian parents be like 'You're thirty and still living with us single! We want you to get married immediately and have your wife move in as well!'

[@johndferfr8450]

Lmao

[@thangamdharmaraj233]

Exactly😂🤣

[@klutchboi3266]

@@xtylishb4377 lmfao

[@rohandutta9986]

@Usama Fayyaz Indian tradition have been like this Patriarchy .

[@-Jaswanth-yp3rc]

@@rohandutta9986 ohh fuck off with the patriarchy thing

[@afifayousaf2466]

In my country, we live with parents through out life. The thing is when we get on to our feet, we start supporting em financially we pay the bills, the rent, the groceries and all other stuff just like they did for us when we were young. It is really nice. I mean you become financially stable and independent and still get love from parents. 😊

[@ismellliketunaimlockedinab9236]

I'd steal everything and be like by bich and leaave

[@cherielovesyou111]

@@ismellliketunaimlockedinab9236 Why would you do that to your parents? They kept you with them, they cared about you. How can you even think like that?

[@abidubsprodection485]

Id like to do it to...

[@buboyzone8139]

True...Living with your parents (while helping them also) doesn't mean you are not responsible and independent human being.

[@salvaje20]

So your Parents had you as an insurance policy/investment for their futures? Yeah, sounds very loving

[@Klapaocious77]

In Asian countries, parents, as much as possible want their kids to live with them. It’s always about family ties with us.

[@AlphaMacho]

I Feel Like Yeezus bru

[@adamislam672]

I Feel Like Yeezus he meant by Asian. Indians they tend live with family but that’s normally a big household with many bedrooms not tiny homes. He ain’t Chinese who eats dogs and fetuses

[@island-life]

Don't make is sound all romantic because the ASIAN CHILDREN GIVES THEIR SALARY aka MONEY to their parents on the regular. It's either to help out with the bills or to help out the younger siblings or both. Nothing is FREE because if you think of it, the Asian children are practically paying the parents back for staying in the house and for staying with them. Also on average, Asian children are OBLIGATED to take care of their parents when the parents can't walk alone or wipe their own a s s anymore. Regardless if the Asian family is rich or poor or in the middle class. This is something that is EXPECTED from the Asian children and grandchildren. This is not very common from the USA or from non-Asian families. They would HOPE that their youngsters would someday take care of them but they don't GUILT TRIP them to do it unlike the typical Asian families. This is the reason why some Asians would move out when they're 18 or 21 and would break the tradition. It gives them a reason to be independent and not have the obligation to take care of the parents later on which is reasonable since they didn't really milk their parents until their 30 years old.

[@island-life]

"And eating dogs" Less than 1% of the Asian population would eat dogs. Just like less than 1% of the Asian population works in the sex industry but go ahead, STEREOTYPE everybody! speaking of food, do you know that you eat FEET when you eat HOTDOGS? do you also know that you feed your dogs other dogs? "published in 1990 by the Earth Island Journal.1 “The rendering plant floor is piled high with ‘raw product’. Thousands of dead dogs and cats; heads and hooves from cattle, sheep, pigs and horses; whole skunks; rats and raccoons - all waiting to be processed. “In the ninety degree heat, the piles of dead animals seem to have a life of their own as millions of maggots swarm over the carcasses." "food made to be fed to chickens, pigs, cattle - and dogs. Every day, hundreds of rendering plants across America ship thousands of pounds of this recycled rubbish to ranches, farms, feed lots - and pet food manufacturers." system.na3.netsuite.com/core/media/media.nl?id=67159&c=460947&h=85ce93811a89d0d191c3&_xt=.pdf "The National Hot Dog & Sausage Council (NHDSC) notes that hot dogs, whether regular, turkey, pork or beef, begin with "trimmings." A purposely-vague word, trimmings come in lots of shapes and sizes. According to the Food and Agriculture Organization of the United Nations (FAO): "The raw meat materials used for precooked-cooked products are lower-grade muscle trimmings, fatty tissues, head meat, animal feet, animal skin, blood, liver and other edible slaughter by-products." gizmodo.com/how-hot-dogs-are-made-and-whats-actually-inside-1599811171

[@cellogirl11rw55]

I Feel Like Yeezus In some cultures, dogs are considered livestock that can be slaughtered rather than pets, just like cows or chickens. Sickening, I know, but, in some countries, it's normal to eat dogs, just like it's normal to eat cows in the US.

[@abbypepper2867]

you should have an Asian family begging their son not to move out lol that would be interesting 👍

[@lieny]

OMG PLEASE DO THIS

[@dilatedvision7014]

Yes

[@esania1443]

IKR please convince them!

[@helloitscathy]

YASSS

[@panderffa5683]

slightly racist, but alright

[@imcrazyforcandy]

honestly i dont see a problem with living with your parents,, as long as you have a job and/or going to college and your building yourself up, living with your parents is a good foundation to have. just dont act like a kid and do nothing and be lazy 24/7,, help them around the house or help them pay some bills

[@opticaldelusions]

tori yes, this can actually save a good amount of money for you and them

[@thefuzzypickle8277]

Thats what I do, rent is too damn high and with going to school. Id rather pay my parents some rent and work on their cars for free

[@kyloren1089]

Exactly, I have just recently moved and I am 27, but I have double major in accounting and supply chain, am applying to MBA programs, studying for a certification exam for my job, helped out around the house a lot, and work full time and have been doing so while I lived with my parents.

[@anwarakkad4020]

Destiny Destiny I think if you're showing gratitude and have a job and are studying then it's more acceptable but when you're 30 year olds no degree no job and freeloads off their parents it's not the best thing to do.

[@imcrazyforcandy]

Brandon i know, thats what i said in my comment

[@matthewmorris7665]

My father kicked me out at 19. I will never do the same if I have children. If I have children I will be there for them no matter what.

[@evathespeaker9537]

then they act surprised when you put them in a shitty nursing home.

[@toboabegunde4306]

Oh right you will be there for them even when they turn 50

[@Kelvin-ki7wz]

I got kicked out at 17, I'm 29 now.

[@evathespeaker9537]

@@toboabegunde4306 They'd never see me or my childrens faces if they put me with the trash at 19 lol.... can you imagine how disgustingly selfish one must be to just think you'll get away with that and still expect contact.... These people are delusional to the MAX.

[@evathespeaker9537]

@Suhan Das so is putting your child with the trash. Things have a way of balancing themselves out. That's not ''harsh'', that's life.

[@catsonia6633]

I'm Greek and here it's the exact opposite. Even if you are 35 years old, if you tell your parents you want to move out they are like "WAAAAAAAAIT WHY? YOU DON'T LOVE US ANYMORE?"

[@ΕλπιδαΕλπιδενια]

Cat Sonia Είμαι μισή Έλληνιδα μισή Αφροαμερικανιδα και ισχύει 100%😂

[@christopherscott1913]

Ελπιδα Ελπιδενια what?

[@catsonia6633]

@@christopherscott1913 if you didn't understand, she is speaking Greek.

[@christopherscott1913]

Cat Sonia that was meant to ask what is being said.

[@catsonia6633]

@@christopherscott1913 ohh sorry. she is saying that she is half Greek and half black-american and what I'm saying is 100% true

[@swatimohanty2043]

Asians are like "whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat". We stay with our parents our whole lives.

[@EvARose-kp7rh]

Ikr😂😂😂😂

[@anishs5652]

exactly what was I thinking

[@sb0804]

Swati Mohanty turkish people too. Until we get married ahhahshshsha

[@renthehag]

Spanish families can be like this too. Independence is encouraged in the men but in some families it’s considered disrespectful for daughters to even think about moving away if you’re not married.

[@swatimohanty2043]

I had dinner at my friend's last friday, After I came home,My mom served me dinner again because the former didn't count.

[@granola1210]

As an Indian,I can never relate to this 😂😂 my parents will never let me move out until I get married.

[@sophiadmello7179]

Seriously i cant even relate

[@akshaya1892]

I know right!

[@apparition555]

@James Mathew - r/noshitsherlock. brown people don’t divorce unless the abuse is on the verge of murder. and once there’s kids involved, the divorce rate is even less

[@Skyler_Momoko]

SAME lol

[@ismellliketunaimlockedinab9236]

I'm so jealous ^w^ Make sure they won't marry you off :)

[@tarteen091311]

And then when you are 80 or 70 you get depress because your “family” doesn’t visit you lol...

[@glogettaa8009]

Yeah but they just want their kid independent and live their own life and that's reality it's called though love

[@tarteen091311]

Im asian i know tough love lol... but what american culture teach kids is that you are alone when you reach 18... parents are always busy working not teaching their kids how the world works and just toss them out when they reach certain age

[@hellicure]

@@glogettaa8009 "tough love" that's how you know you are brainwashed.

[@virtualmiu9283]

@@hellicure its pretty clear that you're just a pathetic basement dweller.

@@virtualmiu9283 "pathetic basement dweller". I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kerminaarts]

Lol surprisingly in other countries it’s normal until you get married

[@aisha-3857]

Kermina Arts Because most women are opressed..

[@kerminaarts]

Aisha Delva no they are not I am saying that in other countries that for men and women you have to stay at your parents house until you find a boyfriend or girlfriend and get married to them

[@SuperAlenadro]

@@aisha-3857 Both men and women do it you feminist idiot

[@johnjohnson9915]

Well in most other countries the average age of someone getting married is much younger.

[@joeyholden2748]

John Johnson it’s not just countries, but cultures. I have Hispanic friends here in the US who are not allowed to move out until they’re married. And I have an Asian friend who already has a masters degree and is looking to buy a house for him and his parents to live in because he doesn’t want to get married, but it’s his culture to stay living with his parents.

[@connorw2706]

My parents bought their first home at 26 (my age) in my town for $54,000 in 1997. That same home goes for $375,000 now. A 3 bed 2 bath. The median wage was $40,000 in 1997 and now its $46,000 in 2019. It's not that most of us are lazy, we just can't afford it.

[@slayerette86m]

@Usama Fayyaz Sweetie, you can't live off minimum wage.

[@ripgoose27]

Min wage full time is supposed to be enough to live on your own but I work 50 a week and it isn’t enough in cali

[@kirisutegomen12]

@@ripgoose27 get out of Cali

[@aashish.kapoor]

Ben Dover I live in the cat area in Cali and the prices here 2 mil + and $4000-$6000 for rent

[@ripgoose27]

kirisutegomen12 give me money to leave then.

[@peachescherries3291]

Im hispanic and my parents would probably never kick me out BECAUSE they want me to take care of them when the're old😅

[@Diseruption]

Same

[@napa5235]

Well, usually Hispanic parents have the same culture of "kicking" their kids out, when they became adults

[@Diseruption]

Napa not really. Most of the time they just want their kids to get a good paying job

[@napa5235]

@@Diseruption Uhum... Try to live with hispanic parents till ur 30s....

[@Diseruption]

Napa uhum. My brother is 32 and still lives with us

[@antoniomosqueda]

Mexican families all live together nomatter how old you are

[@kachoo2135]

That's my kind of family. Even though I was working my parents told me I could stay in their house for as long as I liked

[@aaby9286]

Everyone expect whites lmao

[@alefmachado7312]

Brazilians too

[@asura8495]

Sounds great to be honest. But what if the family gets too big. line having 4 children who make like 15 grand children who make 50 great grand children. someone has to seperate and move out

[@cdmixztermaniakorm8404]

I was born and rise in Mexico ,almost 40....I moved out @ 19 ...(moved out the country)right now I got a beautiful family,2 teens and 2 kids and a lovely wife...it was a little hard at the beginning but wherever I got is because I work hard to get it,no body gives me anything for free..the only 2 persons to thanks ,is my dad and my mom for give me the life

[@coldbloodedproductionsyt8131]

Meanwhile In Asia) Mom: Stay in my House Your So So Young Okay Son:I'm 45 MOM

[@laila2607]

same thing for us desi people parents want us to stay with them FOREVER

[@ChoCoMoCo69]

@@laila2607 for them we are always kid.

[@orchid7493]

Cold Blooded Productions YT XD

[@RicardoRangel-ll7dp]

Lol that the something in hispanic families. Its a culture thing. Most minorities take care family forever.

[@lilhusky8756]

Why do you like to make fun of people’s race

[@Kap00rwith2os]

This is cultural IMO. My folks are Asian immigrants, and when I decided to move out in my 20s they were DEAD-SET against it, and we argued like crazy about it. In their traditional way of thinking, the chld is expected to stay with the parents until marriage, and maybe even after. So ya if my folks were in that diner they'd be totally on the son's side lol

[@sobetobey9172]

Kap00rwith2os Same with the Latino culture. My parents tried everything to stop me from moving out when I was 20. You stay home till you get married. I lived with friends in another state for two years then got married.

[@Kap00rwith2os]

Diana Taran Lucky for you your sis had to deal with that first, so it's not as bad for you eh 😂 Tho it was probably easier for me because I'm a guy... But since I'm an only child they were extra guard-doggish. 😖

[@island-life]

Don't make is sound all romantic because the ASIAN CHILDREN GIVES THEIR SALARY aka MONEY to their parents on the regular. It's either to help out with the bills or to help out the younger siblings or both. Nothing is FREE because if you think of it, the Asian children are practically paying the parents back for staying in the house and for staying with them. Also on average, Asian children are OBLIGATED to take care of their parents when the parents can't walk alone or wipe their own a s s anymore. Regardless if the Asian family is rich or poor or in the middle class. This is something that is EXPECTED from the Asian children and grandchildren. This is not very common from the USA or from non-Asian families. They would HOPE that their youngsters would someday take care of them but they don't GUILT TRIP them to do it unlike the typical Asian families. This is the reason why some Asians would move out when they're 18 or 21 and would break the tradition. It gives them a reason to be independent and not have the obligation to take care of the parents later on which is reasonable since they didn't really milk their parents until their 30 years old.

[@zandelscomicsandcards7543]

Kap00rwith2os American society is a materialistic society. Everyone is encouraged to have their own home with their own furniture. Get as many possessions as possible. If you don’t have your own home then you can’t get a whole new set of furniture. TV. and so on. That’s why our society is geared to a families spreading apart as soon as the child turns 18. Is it practical? Absolutely not.

[@island-life]

Jonathan - Non-Asian American children on average are not EXPECTED to give part of their salary or entire salary every month to their parents and WIPE THEIR OWN PARENT'S A S S later on. Apart from that, there are other factors as well like the DRAMA and JEALOUS within the family. Like when all of the children gets their own wives or husbands or live-in partners and combine that with the grandchildren. It's complicated and it's definitely not for everybody.

[@whiteillusion89]

I’m 30 and live with my mom. I pay rent. I do chores. I take care my mom and brother(he’s sick and who’s 46yrs) I buy groceries and necessities. And plus it’s California so it’s impossible to find a place to live on your own.

[@wickednwyld]

It's different if you are contributing. I lived with my folks after college, and ran my Dad's side business so he could keep his regular job. It worked out well.

[@johndferfr8450]

You are not a loser bro, I'm 21 and helping my parents here in california.

[@jacobsinger97]

There you go

[@izzydoesart3297]

Youre the nice son to your family

[@katygomez8620]

whiteillusion89 that’s different lmao chill

[@mattea4322]

My brother is 32 years old and lives with my mother. He is a veteran with an associates and bachelor degree. He is the kindest, smartest, and most free-spirited soul I know. Don’t judge a book by it’s cover.

[@biplav32]

It is different when two people live together and they share costs and different when a child freeloads of their parents

[@Asa...S]

You can't really compare your brother with this guy who doesn't want to work and pay the rent, and just likes to sit in his room with his posters and trainsets like an 11 year old.

[@owlknickerknots2607]

Josh Castro Because maybe he has some sort of medical condition stop being a bigot ! I’m sick of people like you! To each their own

[@szkokee]

@@joshcastro739 actually im 32, i have to live with my mom as shes barely can take care herself. and we cant afford a full time nurse from our money if in the meantime id like to pay for my own flat as well. i do everything around the house

[@szkokee]

@@joshcastro739 envy your loved ones!

[@marjohnson7656]

As Armenians, our parents wouldn't let us live in another house unless we're married lol

[@Jr-fm2ye]

Yeah I can be married and I still wouldn’t be able to move out

[@Mimi-ik2sn]

If you have filipino parents, they will ask "why you want to be living on your own? Do you not love us anymore?" Hahaha

[@JISOOscryst]

totoo to. haha! only child ako. baka atakihin sa puso parents ko. HAHAHAHA!

[@Beadacut_]

@@JISOOscryst HAHAHA. Ilan taon ka na ate?

[@JISOOscryst]

@@Beadacut_ im 29 na. 😆 Still living with my parents. Hihi!

[@JISOOscryst]

@@Beadacut_ im 29 na. 😆 Still living with my parents. Hihi!

[@Beadacut_]

@@JISOOscryst Hehe. I'm 22 ate. I just graduated college last year. Panganay po ako hehe, may 2 brothers ako. Same, I live with my parents as well. :)

[@x.o.alia_]

As a Middle Eastern, our parents would do anything to keep us with them at home till marriage, they love us unconditionally...

[@laljubouri5337]

right arab live so beautifull

[@mrsaya1234]

It's not about unconditional love. It's about culture. We all do what we define as normal.

[@LauraM-kr9wv]

@@mrsaya1234 It kinda is considering how many old American people end up rotting away in nursing homes.

[@fadybarsoum2939]

That turns us into dependent, entitled brats. No wonder these countries are so dysfunctional.

[@isaacstraughan5182]

Fady Barsoum Agreed

[@AmiiA]

I honestly wouldn’t get involved in that one, they’re all adults and it’s none of my business

[@TheOne-tl6nj]

Eff that you know how much CASH u can save at home? That should be the motivation not these boomer ass thinking we have train sets. I'll save 30 Gs soon enough. The rich do not pay rent remember that. Yeah u can get a roommate but they can be difficult to find and parent usually offer a cheap rent. Nothing wrong with it

[@TheOne-tl6nj]

These producers are very prejudiced against the young

[@LONEWOLF-rq5tl]

@@TheOne-tl6nj True, but people also don't pay anything these days and things cost alot of money and people should know that as well. Just because you go to college doesn't mean anything. Now,you should do like myself and start somewhere and in a proffesion that you've to work your way up to make really good money but starting off and while you're getting that experience to move up. Then you're gonna struggle big time and it's easier said than done moving out on your own.Cell phone, car insurance,if you've a car note,gas for your car, rent, utilities,food for home and to eat while not at home. Health insurance etc etc and the list goes on and on and it gets expensive QUICKLY. It's actually really sad and PATHETIC that no jobs and especially these big corporations don't wanna pay a damn thing and they're all so greedy but then expect you to bust your ass and bend over backwards for them yet they won't do shit for you. All while making peanuts. Then everyone wants to give their 2 cents in and wonder why people can't afford things and why alot of people still live at home and alot of people even move back home because they find out how hard it's and they can't afford it on their own or with a dang roommate. Sad.... This country and the economy is so fucked up that I'm very shocked it hasn't crashed yet and you now also know why awesome people are homeless. Everyone now offers extremely low pay and it's hard to move up or find anything that starts off paying decent but everything is constantly going up up and up even higher making it harder everyday. I want someone to please tell me how that's supposed to work??? Oh,if you've kids then you're really screwed. Good luck with all that!!!

[@Bidenlost2020]

Good point.

[@Bidenlost2020]

@Turbo Turlet As soon as someone turns 18 they shouldn't be a kid. Let alone they are adults.

[@angelitadavila118]

I’m Hispanic and my mom actually wants me to stay until I build up my career or get married

[@steelcastle5616]

Nothing wrong with that. Especially if you and your mother enjoy each other's company.

[@steelcastle5616]

@Anne Liesveld Because it's a dangerous would out there for single women. Many mothers now visit their daughters in cemeteries because of that. Let's let their relationship be between them. In general, mothers know more about their daughters than the You Tube audience do (No diss here....just say'in….).

[@Username-or9nr]

Steel Castle Why would you assume him or her wants to get married

[@randomhuman9672]

Yeah but by 30 you should have a good job

[@irvinvazquez3643]

Same

[@aimeecollins7644]

I've read a lot of the comments about different cultures wanting their kids to live with them forever. I'm American and have 2 teenage boys and I would love it if they would stay forever. I haven't lived with them as adults yet but I can't imagine not seeing them and taking care of them. It makes me happy. And I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful man. I love caring for them all.

[@CoercedJab]

Bless ur heart

[@apok1980]

I sometimes think it would be cool if I was a billionaire. I would convert a mall into my own multi-generational and extended family compound. You can live with your entire family, but have more than enough room to avoid them whenever the need arise

[@stefaniamarchese4177]

This is soooo culturally related. I am Italian, living in Italy but I spent my college years in the US. got the chance to catch a glimpse of both worlds, and it's true, once you are out of high school in the US you rarely go back home...here in Italy though, and in many other countries as well, time is much more flexible. If you never marry, often you stay at home and live with your parents as an adult, and it's not too weird. The video made it seem like the guy was too old to live with his family, but really it depends on where you come from. There is no universal rule in parenting :)

[@Sacchidanand]

True.

[@reemtri]

Same with the general culture in the GCC countries. We all look after each other each other. I stayed with my family until I got married. When I did live with them, I had a job and paid and helped my parents with the bills. Now I’m living with my British husband in a different house and he found it a little strange how close we were to our families but he sees now that it’s quite nice that my brother and I check in regularly with our parents and sometimes I’ll give Mum money if she needs it etc.

[@reemtri]

Besides, rent is so expensive these days that more and more children are living with their parents post 25 years old and paying in to the bills together. www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/feb/28/michael-b-jordan-live-with-parents-millennials-shame

[@claudia5228]

Same here... it's just the state of mind

[@aisha-3857]

Stefania Marchese duh it's an American show

[@krasnaludek298]

This is one of the rare instances (from this show) where I’d mind my own business. The family dynamic is very private; not an instance of abuse or anybody being mean. Lot of Asian families in my area & many of the kids are still home at 30 because they save money until married that way. Homes here (in Silicon Valley) start at $900K, so that’s part of it too.

[@danielasefa1884]

Can’t relate to this. My aunt was 28 when she left my grandmas home and my grandma was crying when she left.

[@annasoph8967]

Aww💖

[@miguelvina7188]

My grandpa cried when my parents left my dads hometown. Can relate 😭

[@daniellevinson6975]

As long as her tears simply meant "I'll miss you" WITHOUT imploring your aunt to stay, your grandma's response was reasonable in my book.

[@danielz1666]

Thats your aunts life, what about you?

[@Go88888]

It makes sense maybe 20-30 years ago. Nowadays, with student loans and overheated housing market, it would be way better for you to live with parents. Save up down payment and clear up student debt

[@AnaDiaz-wz4cf]

My brother lived with my parents until he got married at 29. He worked very hard and helped with the chores, cooking, cleaning, buying groceries, paying part of the utilities, he respected the house and never showed up drunk or on drugs. With all of the money he saved from not paying rent, he was able buy his house cash right before he got married. My parents were absolutely happy to have him home, we enjoyed so many good times together. Many years have passed since, my parents are now older and he is not stuck paying high interest on a mortgage for 30 years so he is able to help them out if they ever need anything. It's really awesome! But I do understand parents wanting to kick their kids out if they just wanna be lazy and get a free ride.

[@thegigadykid1]

@@AnaDiaz-wz4cf yeah and traditionalist want move out right away

[@darylesells19]

I kept thinking they'd bring current housing prices up, it's not like it was back in mom and dad's day where everything was at reasonable prices. But they call it pure laziness without hearing our side out at all.

[@ss5187]

Tat Suen, that makes sense if the kid is actually paying off school or something. If the kid never went to college, never got a job just sits at home all day eating all the food not helping with bills they need to get the hell out

[@esmee6308]

My uncle lived with his mother until 41 (when he met his wife and moved out.) He'd often come home drunk and didn't have to do anything around the house, but my grandmother was more than happy to have him. (He was an odd mixture between dead beat and successful. He ran his own company and it was successful, but he'd often drink after work and sometimes drive home like that totalling multiple cars in the same trench.) She even considered him when moving to a smaller home that'd be easier to maintain. Meanwhile my parents counted down the days to my 18th b-day. :D

[@justsomedude-gaming9815]

Being an adult is expensive bruh...

[@CameronsCarReviews]

JustSomeDude-Gaming Expensive and boring

[@sirgrinder]

Camerons Car Reviews not boring

[@donievans1791]

Bruh, my rent Is 915 a month, folks be that's expensive, for a one bedroom. Shit now a days its cheap

[@donievans1791]

Voidaken I live in Dallas. So I think that is major.

[@jakeevans2460]

@@sirgrinder depends how you view adult life. If you're working a shitty desk job 40 hours a week, with a horrible girlfriend who you're only with because she pays your rent, and no time to go out and enjoy life with friends and family. Then life is boring.

[@dgenxali]

That must be an American thing, I am from Italy and almost all my friends my age, 31, live with their parents

[@salvaje20]

@@scythianlord9702 It's also wrong to generalize like that. Not all Americans are the same

[@GeneralG1810]

What a bunch of mommies boys and daddies girls, NOT something to be proud of. Learn to be independent and stop being a burden to your parents

[@GeneralG1810]

@@scythianlord9702 No it's because the parents in those countries are controlling tyrants who wont let you be independent. Yeah America is so stupid that's why people LEAVE the Asian, Mid Eastern and African countries to go there. Because in western countries you have the FREEDOM to make your own life and don't have to live in fear of your parents

[@scythianlord9702]

@@GeneralG1810 Yeah, so much independence people have in America that they have the highest divorce rate, a country where the parents die alone and lonely and children are nowhere close no fidelity to one partner etc and etc. Western nations have a fucked up society and no matter what you say, I won't be convinced otherwise.

[@bkit5]

@@scythianlord9702 60% divorce rate. Yeah they are very independent at fucking up their family life.

[@MVRKED]

In Hispanic and Asian culture its normal to live with your parents well into adulthood.

[@younes86hotmail]

indian culture too apparently

[@FunFilmFare]

True! I'm both Hispanic and Asian, so I definitely know from experience.

[@iamnoone348]

Americans are the odd ones out.

[@peppa_pig_]

speak for yourself, living at home until you finish college is FINE but being a 30-year-old burden leeching off your parents instead of being a productive member of society is wrong, pathetic, and bad for you

[@LMLification]

beerus sama That is not true for everyone. Some parents do make their adult children pay some money to remain in the house. Some parents just really want their children to move out and really have their own space to further mature and stand on their own two feet. After living in Asia for a number of years, I have noticed a large number of housewives and adults without any sense of how to make it on their own.

[@alnotbiggaytho7124]

When they are 80 "why u no visit"

[@klutchboi3266]

Hahahaha

[@ArtIsDrawing]

they kick him out and expect him to visit! pfft! would never talk to them ever again!

[@GeneralG1810]

There's a big difference between VISIT and LIVING at home.

[@Benzyl_Penoxide]

Espurrrxd I’d be mad too bruh

[@bkit5]

AussieBlokeGordo If you bring a child into this world then that child is completely your responsibility until you are present in this world. If you think ur responsibility ends when they turn 18, why should they bare to care for you when you get old? Never kick your kids out just motivate them to do better. You child is lacking confidence to become successful.

[@soshiprint1351]

Me: I'm moving out. Parents: Excuse me? How dare you disrespect me like this 😭

[@SALdosry]

I built my house for my kids and I want them to live in it

[@jeenadjo1238]

Bless you!

[@JAKWEES]

Goofen Would you rather “spawn”

[@techforever1970]

thank you.

[@antihero7611]

SALdosry are they happy with the Minecraft house?

[@Extremerockerchick91]

I’m 27, yes still live my parents. I have a job, I help take care of my grandma, help pay the mortgage and bills. I do my own laundry, help with dinner and the dishes. Financially it’s best for me and my family.

[@Ami14120]

JenniferSays291 at that point you dont live with your parents Your parents live with you

[@nighttime5585]

JenniferSays291 That's very sweet of you to help out

[@luwanamedina5186]

must be nice. maybe you should give my 30 year old brother some advice to stop being such jerk and help my parents out just a little. 😒

[@simongillblad6740]

How nice!

[@androidumi1917]

That’s good that you help out, i cant wait to move out 😂

[@unbeastable957]

I would NEVER EVER interfere in such conversation. Cause i would never know in what kind of situation the boy is in. There could be a tons of things wrong with the dude wich the parents might not understand or he havent told them.

[@ajallen9674]

Me either. My sister is 26 and still lives at home, all while holding down a full-time job. She's paying off her loans and saving for a house. I'm 23 and haven't left, because I'm still in school (and I work part-time as well). Rent is so expensive.

[@montecarlo4294]

Me neither. There sure were a lot of holier than thou people in that restaurant. They sit there and act like they are perfect beings, when in reality, they are losers. They overhear this conversation and you could just tell by the looks on their faces that they automatically felt better about themselves because here is a 30 year old living with his parents. It wouldn't do for me to have been that actor playing the son. I'd be like "ya'll motherfuckers need to look in damn mirror before judging me for fuck sake! Hell, half of you shouldn't even be in here because your fat asses should be on diets". And to the guy with the kids I'd be like "dude, I'd much rather be me than you any day. Those kids are gonna bleed your ass dry, you'll see" LOL

[@teenindustry]

I agree. I think if you are a young person working it is time to fend for yourself but there are always exceptions and it is not for strangers to interfere

[@80sMusicJunkee]

My son is 29 and just got his first apartment. Takes time to save money and have the right job

[@daniellevinson6975]

How did he contribute to your household before moving out?

[@80sMusicJunkee]

@@daniellevinson6975 I let him work and save. I didn't ask him for anything. I even continued to feed him. I mean, he is my son after all

[@daniellevinson6975]

@@80sMusicJunkee OK, just asking.

[@mariam.zmnnnnn]

@@80sMusicJunkee you’re a good dad

[@Detox206]

i bet youre an amazing father. i bought my own place at 21 and rented it out until i was 25 when my parents decided its time for me to move out, broke my heart. most of my friends still live with their parents at their 30's but thats mainly because of the housing shortage in my country.

[@lamargrim8751]

I would be pissed if they did this to me in public.

[@neatfreak7941]

I can’t blame you

[@nikolacenkova7991]

Exactly, I hate drama in public 😅

[@NikhilTawde]

I am 24 and have social anxiety issues. I am still living with my parents but I do have a job. I know moving out is tough at the beginning, but I hope life gets easier eventually and I get the mental strength to deal with the world.

[@renatobonito1521]

Nikhil Tawde good luck

[@Cris18Martinez]

Nikhil Tawde as long as you help and they don’t mind don’t worry about it man

[@asielmilian38]

Nikhil Tawde I'm happy for you and I know you'll do well.

[@asielmilian38]

cristian c Yeah agree.

[@christinah7]

How did you find a job ? I have social anxiety and I can't even have a conservation with my brother. Give me some tips please 😖

[@evantheking6218]

In this scenario, I’d only ask the people to quiet down while I eat my food, this is too trivial and personal to get involved. And my son could live with me FOREVER

[@cb.on.yt22]

i can’t help but to think everyone who stepped into the convo was wrong. That’s a family issue that obviously varies family to family, honestly this is a mind your own business situation.

[@gianlucasevastamula8630]

I mean I would probably help convince the guy to live on his own but yea it is a family Matter

[@tasherabrackett4878]

But when you go to a public place and talk really loud it kind of makes it hard not to say anything.

[@zaqueenzhane7744]

@@tasherabrackett4878 not it doesntits not ur businessu can move or just close ur mouth worry about ur own business

[@MajorJim69]

@@zaqueenzhane7744 If they don’t want anyone to say anything, it shouldn’t be a public conversation. Moreover, freedom of speech is a thing.

[@ayla9905]

These people were wrong my friend is 30 living at home with her parents cause she has a career she's a stay at home nail tech and making money on her online career she pays bills and helps pay her mother's bills and rent so my friend has a reason I have a reason also cause I'm doing college still at home my parents don't mind if I'm still at home neither do my friends parents either

[@ronmanalili3348]

aging parents: NO ONE VISITS US. adult children: HELLO, YOU KICKED MY ASS!!!!

[@abidubsprodection485]

Exactly... if my parents were kicking me or my siblings out wich I'm pretty sure they wouldn't! they'll never see my face

[@QueenElsaVeganfromEurope]

True. They should have to be more responsible for their own actions.

[@abidubsprodection485]

@@QueenElsaVeganfromEurope That's true

[@Roman.Rêbwar]

I'm in middle East, we live with our parents until marriage, when our parents gets old we have to buy a big house and start looking after them.❤️

[@bethankfultohaveinternet3292]

You dont "have to"

[@Queenamizzo]

My family won’t let me move out till I am married 😂. African parents. And it is not a bad thing, I work and save up

[@Ryan-yr6hs]

Aminata Diallo what if you never marry

[@JulianneHannes]

Same, Catholic plus I live where rent is super high

[@ianbryantdba5996]

no one will marry a woman who lives with mom

[@memini3706]

Aminata Diallo same I’m Indonesian I move out when I’m married

[@edwinrojas9763]

Aminata Diallo but you work so it’s not bad some people don’t wanna get a job and live with their parents and expect everything provided for them

[@chuckie102883]

Hey i stayed till 32 but i had a plan, i got my degree, then found a good job, i saved 25k and used some of that as a down payment to buy my own home, Glad i had the support from my parents because i don’t know how i could have saved up that much. I say let them stay AS LONG as they are working, contributing and have a clear plan to get their own place. But if they’re doing nothing... well that’s a diff story

[@moneyway8178]

UniquelyMade nice

[@tawneeens436]

UniquelyMade that’s exactly what my dad and I think too.. but my mom wants to leave to the east coast as soon as my brothers 16, and he’s 10 now 😬🤔

[@intuitivelymagician2076]

agreed, i'm in that situation, finishing college as of now, saving and I plan on moving out by 33, I'm 27 as of now. Parents are supporting me while I get my life together. As well as getting my savings built

[@wolfie8227]

Yeah I actually agree with that a bit. I mean usually I feel like by the time you hit at least 24 years old then it's time to think about moving but yeah if you're doing something and have a plan sure.

[@robertramos8676]

Wondering if you guys that stayed home until 30+ had a partner during that time?

[@14gt1]

Aw... I don’t mind if my son lives with me when he’s 30 ... as long as he’s working and is respectful of house rules.

[@randomuser1687]

Any sane kid wouldn't want to anyway. I'm 19 and can't wait to move out.

[@skip031890]

@@randomuser1687 What are you waiting for? I moved out at 19 and have been on my own ever since. I'm 28 years old now.

[@shanhu5769]

As a low-income family, if my brother and I moved out of the house, my parents wouldn't be afford to the house. Albeit, my brother's 24 and I'm 20 (so we aren't quite 30 yet😂), but we pay for more than half the living expenses at home.

[@daniellevinson6975]

That's what families *should* look like when adult children continue living with their parents... In Western cultures, too many such young adults act similarly to Michael Rufano (though not quite to the same extreme).

[@gaininggamer962]

Do a video about Arab parents forsing to stay home because that what they do plz

[@zoebadr]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 yes plzzz

[@neonmajora8454]

I want to be Arab now. xD

[@thebatmanh.a5135]

Hhh we arabs only move out when we get married

[@samahissimplistic]

YES!!!

[@iamnoone348]

Neon Majora - Asians, Latinos and Southern Europeans, too... Americans are just the odd ones.

[@RetroR0bbie]

"id do anything to get my kids out" Not a candidate for mother of the year.

[@JamButter123]

Retro Robbie only white parents...

[@PrinceFloof]

@@JamButter123 What about Asian parents? Yeah didn't think so

[@JamButter123]

U mad Bro? Umm? I saw comment about Asian parents let adult kids stay until they are wanting to be independent or married and move out.

[@kaonashi1390]

Retro Robbie my mum and dad say I stay with them even when I’m married lol

[@greatest_bumble_bee_dude]

The best thing to do is to gradually get them to do stuff such as get them to study then employment and then when they start gaining more independence then they can move out though, all of it has to be planned properly

[@emmahowells8334]

What's wrong with him being at home at that age. There is so many serious issues in the world & people worry about that issue, wow seems bad to me. If my son wants to do that wouldn't bother me, living at home doesn't mean you don't have a life. Doesn't make you a baby either you can still be independent to. Family is more important, it is in my family anyway.

[@LMLification]

Yeah, but there is something great about being able to have your own space and a place to call your own with your own rules. Plus, you have no choice except to really solve your own problems because you'll have no one to lean on to help with chores, dealing with banks and landlords except yourself. Parents are not going to always be around to help their children survive, and old parents shouldn't bank on having their adult children take care of them because young people can leave this world anytime too. Everyone should have the experience of making on their own at some point.

[@Nopebrbra]

@LMLification That's your opinion . What about how can you help your parents when they get older? . You just leave them in nursing house ?

[@emmahowells8334]

LMLification people who still live at home still deal with a lot of those things, not all let their parents pay for everything, you helps from parents if needed etc. Your bedroom is your own space, Your parents took care of you, when you were ill, when you needed them, so why won't you help them & look after them when they need you. You are just being selfish.

[@LMLification]

Nope brbra No, none of my parents or grandparents are in facilities. My parents have their own house, and both pairs of grandparents have their own house. I have my own house. We all have a good relationship and actually do check on each other and are there when support is needed. It doens't require us being suffocated under the same roof. Just because you are all are under the same roof doesn't mean the relationship is better...

[@LMLification]

Emma H Dixon Yes, perhaps, but there is a difference when you have to deal with these things by yourself with no one around you. It also takes a lot of maturity and emotional stablity to be on your own because mommy won't always be there to give you a shoulder to cry on. At the same time, the adult children could die before the parents and still have to survive and vice versa. This goes beyond just "paying for everything." I am sorry, I cannot live out of a bedroom; I need my own house period, something I can really be responsible for on my own, with my own rules and sole ownership. My parents took care of me because they CHOSE to have children and wanted to ensure that they could raise me to function outside of their house eventually. They are happy for me and are enjoying their space at the retirement stage. They know I will be there when they need me and vice versa...We don't need to be under a roof together for that to happen. Plus, sometimes there are just too many adults under one roof. No, dear, being selfish woud be me cutting them out of my life, and not being in their house does not mean that. Nice try.

[@naftaljohn4030]

In Africa, most of us don't even have houses to be me moved out of.

[@zakaikoyo5303]

😂🤣🤣 lol at least we have the family home. The house or home is where the family is.

[@Mrktn4]

😭😭😭

[@daniellevinson6975]

@Naftal John Presumably, you're equally responsible for the household as your parents are. That's a stark contrast to many Western millennials...

[@janudapannila3317]

Seeing all these Asian, Indian, Middle eastern, hispanic comments and suddenly seeing this.

[@jupsoup2444]

I think it’s better just to leave it alone and let the parents deal with it.

[@tiamarie6719]

True. Family business should stay within the family. Unless, the person wants to confide in friends or a significant other or a counselor. But, the decision is still up to the parents. Random strangers shouldn't get involved at all, in my opinion because it's none of their business; and it's not an emergency, even if they feel sorry for the people. If I were asked about it, I would have to know more information before deciding who I side with. If the son for example is being irresponsible and immature, I would side with the parents; because moving out would teach him to grow up really quickly, and part of that is taking care of your responsibilities . But, if he can't afford it and has a job and is not a burden on his family; or has a disability that makes some parts of life difficult without help, then I would side with the son. I see no shame in living at home in those conditions. Both my brother and I are adults who still live with our parents, and those things apply to our lives since we are both looking for work; and I have autism. Even though I'm high functioning and pretty independent most of the time, and I want a lot of the same things most other women my age want (except kids no offense); I would and do still need assistance with some things no matter what. So, if I got my own place someday it would need to be one of those apartments where a caregiver stops by once or twice a week. Or, something else can be worked out. But, my family members and I will deal with that when the time comes. Same with my brother, except he's not disabled. We also enjoy living at home for now, because we have extras that we wouldn't always have if we were out on our own; like T.V. and internet for example, and fun events with Parks and Recreation for me, etc., and our parents love us.

[@alyssaguess]

True. Some of these videos make me realize how nosey people are.

[@batang90stonoh]

bougie clorox but they are showy as well so they're obviously just inviting the nosey ones. But yeah it's WWYD right? lol

[@coogamer007]

If its family business do it in your home. If you are doing it in public place, people will interfere.

[@batang90stonoh]

coogamer007 yeah but it's the purpose of the show lol

[@amitp7275]

I m in India, so this situation is an alian thing to me...😅

[@TheJwwinter]

But that 30 year old guy was really immature. He came across someone who probably didn't have a job and was clueless about earning money. See the remark about loving posters in his room.

[@farma2368]

Nie Mand i agree with the other guy. I mean, do adults in arab who still lives with their parent have jobs? If they do, it's still good i guess. But if they literally live there without a job , that's pretty much bad parenting.

[@Weddingcontentcreator-jia]

In Indian households it’s the complete opposite 😂

[@detectivemoustache2585]

Who asked?

[@dreviscerator]

I did two doctorates. When I was in the middle of obtaining my MD, I was about 31 and my family kicked me out because I was "still in school and indecisive" in my 30s. It made an already difficult process so much harder. Things are okay now, but I am no longer close to my family. I moved across the country and hardly speak to them anymore. Dont do this to your kid.

[@Daniel9-2]

LOL NO ONE ASKED YOU 😂 OH POOR YOU.

[@Has7e]

​@@Daniel9-2 shut the fuck up bich,what you throw comes back so better watch out :)

[@ChimaEnwere]

@@Daniel9-2are you okay?

[@teenindustry]

You were not a kid!