When 12 years old doesn't listen to you: | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

Talking to a mother who is worries about his 12 years old son
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

[@RashidaKhanum-gu8rb]

Aapka bahut bahut shukriya ALLAH Aapko salamat rakeh 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@Mr.David786]

وَرَفَعْنَا لَكَ ذِكْرَكَ○ "میرے نبی ﷺ کا ذکر ہمیشہ بلند رہے گا"

[@pakadventure4144]

Such huge respect and love from me You provide very authentic information about parenting

[@aniqahdaniah8034]

She should stop eyeing 24/7 at her children I've personally experienced it my mother in law behave exactly like you her son and my husband doesn't even wants to talk to her😢

[@ahmedalikhan135]

اسلام وعلیکم سر جی پلیز خدا کے لیے اپنا نمبر دیں مجھے آپ سے بات کرنی ہے پلیز پلیز بہت مہربانی ہوگی

[@memesboys175]

Sir es issue py mazeed video upload kare.. 20 yrs boys ky issues py b

[@HowToCook8195]

Ya Allah pak jo jo pareshan hai uss ki sari pareshaniyan dur ferma 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼or jo jo bimar hai uss ko shifa atta ferma🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼Ameen

[@abdullahraza9423]

Ameen

[@sozepinhan367]

Dr sahab aap bilkul sahi keh rhay hain Bachon se zayada parents ko change honay ki zarurat hai

[@sab8186]

Very helpful tip I have2 beautiful daughters alhamdulilah and I have my elder 1 Hitting 12 soon so I could feel the worry n pain n fear for her kids and I must say I have very caring daughter for her generation not into gadgets at all suma alhamdulilah feel blessed but yet the fear of kid going south is always lingering in my mind may Allah protect us and our kids from all fitna of this world and bless you sir for all your efforts n service to the man kind you are gem of a person Marsha Allah may bless with good health n Aafiya

[@zainabfatima5427]

AoA hope u r f9 dr, sahah ap bachu k balkay har topic pai bht achay sa bat krtay ha ma choti c guzarish krti ho k private schools k bachu p teachers ka bht miss behaviour ha hta ha agar unka khas kr ksi teacher sa koi taluq ni ha to wo bacha bht ignore kiya jta h khas kr class mai please please in topics pai dhiyan diya jai wo jo qasim shah h or bht sa log h unhay chaiya k daikha jai in chizu ko bacha basically school sa he sikhata h or school mai ya behaviour bht galat bat ha

[@shanza200]

May Allah reward you with good health n long life ,,u r a blessing to us

[@Hania871]

Sir mein bhi aapse eik issue discuss karna chahti hoon ya just message send kar doon voh bhi theek hay. Is k hi related hay Iss hi topic pe aap tafseel se videoes banaein

[@Tarannum1919]

Assalamualaikum sir...aap bohot nek kaam karrhai hai..

[@mansoorahammedshaik5275]

Assalam alykum mi mari3betiya ko quran hifiza bana samajti hu unku age 5, 2years 10months kosa sal ka choda

[@rf3481]

Please let us know the outcome after one week and the progress after that..

[@Gamingwithjazem]

Aoa ..We are really blessed to have u Sir .

[@meheralvi5331]

Sounds like she is over possessive with her son. She is dealing with the generation "Alpha" she needs a lot of patience.

[@ShahidPirzada-n4q]

Sir i m step mother i have 12 years old daughter she is very stubborn

[@ALFAIZAN.STUDY1]

Masha Allah Bht hi acha treeqa smjhane ka Allah pak seht o tandrusti wali lmbi umar ata farmaye ameen

[@nadia5844]

Sir how can I contact you? My 11 yrs old son has anger as well as temperament issues. He starts crying on every small thing. I really need to contact you..

[@rehmanraheem5337]

I have also same problem. My son is 10years old.

[@SamySamy-xv5vq]

I'm 23 now I used have same problem I used to crying on every small things , I still used to do same it's all because. I'm the elder kid in my house and my parents always neglect me loves my younger siblings more and always make me feel guilty about not taking care of my younger siblings. All my childhood I have to behave like elder and on additiom they compare me with every other kid. My parents never appreciate me no matter what I do not matter how hard I try they always be like it's not that perfect . Scold me on every thing. All my life my I used to think it's me who worthless because parents can never do wrong with their kids but I was wrong . They leave a very deep scare on my personality no matter now how much I work hard or how much I look good i don't feel good about myself . I become workaholic all I want in my life is to work and sleep .i don't even want to travel anywhere becuse everytime I try to something new my mind told me it's not going to worth it your parents it's going to criticize you. For God sake . please leave you son alone respect his choices appreciate him give me him advise but plz don't force him to do anything. Even if he do very little things appreciate him , He is loosing his confidence, when he gets ready tell him he is looking really amazing . .plz stop getting angry on him it will take him decades to love himself again.

[@bohatkhoob5994]

Bohat khob

[@memesboys175]

@@SamySamy-xv5vq ab ap kiyua kr rhy.. Mean wgich professional degree you have? Ab kiyua parents ap sy khoush hain

[@sheharzadfaisal9532]

My son is 12years old and I also have the same problem that he started to cry on very small things and also when he gets angry n unable to siphon out his anger ,he started to cry...... please Dr. Javed discuss this problem on social media so that all could be benefitted.

[@abdullahskyline]

Did the lady get any benefit after doing this all with the kid.?v want reviews

[@uzmashaheen5387]

Sir maire daughter 2yr6month ki ha pr wo baat nhi krti

[@Syed_12]

( Do Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? ) Quran 2:62 '' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques ) Quran 22:40 [They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might. Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ? ( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? ) Quran 5 48 ''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions Islam mean "submission" to God ( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God ) Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God? Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work. Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God ) The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by Good Deeds ) God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him. ( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa ) Quran 5:5 ''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And lawful in marriage are chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.'' Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion. Question to Muslim and Christian: Does God / Allah only answer your pray ? And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray? Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity? Quran 5:48 '' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise ) On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils. '' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise. '' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise. The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work

[@AyazKhan-tw2yt]

Assalamalikum sir mujhy apsay Baat Karni h bachy k liya

[@sairahanif9738]

A.alaiqum. I. Need. Ur. Help l. M single. Mother. My. Kids. 12. Years. Old. He. Is. Not. Obey. Me as. A. Mother he. Is. Not. Well. With. Me. He. Is. Stubborn. Always. He. Will. Not. Obey. Or. Ok. With. Me. I. Want. Ur. Contect. Nmbr. In. These. Matters. Plz. Help. Me jazak Allah. Ap. Ka. Contect. Nmbr. Mil. Jaey. To. Mujh. Jaisi buhat. Se. Mayon. Ki. Help. Ho. Jaey. Gi

[@alirfanalirfan2176]

Sir ye bhi btaiye k grand parents ne bcho ko laad pyar me ma ko obay nhi krne diya....ab teenage me kese unse hm mohabbat ya farma brdari ka mamla kraen

[@intellectualseries15869]

Assalam o Alaikum Javed sb

[@arsalaerumahmed2949]

I disagree with your advice.

[@5_minutes127]

Sir plz tell me something about study how I concerns on study

[@sairahanif9738]

My. Kids son. Also. Anger. Shout. ' Mis. Behave. Me. What. Will. I. Do. Plz. Solve. My. Issue. I. M. Worried. In. This. Situation

[@muslimpkofficial1820]

What if the subject kid is watching this video 🙄

[@SarahKhan-xt2gx]

Kia ye call pr baat krnay kaa silsila abhi continue ha?? Or kis number pr kis time pr baat ho sagti ha, Dr. Saab say? I astonished, hum ko Pakistan main rehtay hoay maloom nahi, or ye lady India say baat KR Rai han.

[@blessedkitchenet8808]

How to contact Dr. Javed

[@somamossafer297]

اپنا نمبر دے

[@anayafatima2067]

Aslam o alikum mjhe ap sy ek bat poachni Hy mai bht pareshan hon Meri bari beti 6 sal ki hy osy complex hogya Hy har waqt wo khti rehti Hy mama mjhe white hona Hy jb k oska color normal Hy bus jb sy oski cousin NY osy ye bola k Mai white hon ap black how TB sy wo is complex Mai Hy k mama Allah NY mjhe white ni banaya wo day by day chirchri or batamez hoti ja rhi Hy Mai bht pareshan hon Mai kaisy osy is complex sy nikalon plz help me

[@khasheen16]

Asslamualikum sir . I am from India . My son is right now in 12th standard . He is having some issues which i cant explain nicely in chat . Sir is there any way to contact you . Please it would be very kind of you. JazakAllah khair

[@hibawaqar668]

Assalam o alaikum Sir mery bety 3 sal ki hy.. bht chichari ho gae hy showting krty hy lrae bht krty... us ka aik chota bhae hy 3 mah ka use b kb pyar krty kb marty...

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Asalamualikum

[@gtgamer3123]

Assalamualaikum sir Mera bachha 13 saal ka hai usko koi v baat samjhane wo mere uper gussa karta or bahut galat bihev karta mujhe bataye sir mai kya karu

[@Laiba652]

Ye to kch kch Mera b same he😢

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merep class m ek bacha h wo itna tang krta h sunta he na parhne m ziyda interest leta h sbh kuch kiya h piyar punish samjhya phir bhi same bat kiya kro ...plz kuch guide kre

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Walikumasalam sir mujhy Kafi wqt sy sary body MN fat wali guthlain hn js MN bht pain hota Hy kindly koe Hal btain

[@humeraqureshi5435]

It feels like if m sharing my scenario at home

[@rf3481]

Omg. I'm having same problem with my 12 year old daughter. Feel that this problem is not only for us living in west where it's mandatory for children to take home their school laptops for "homework" but it has influenced worldwide in today's world...

[@FizzAbe]

Is there an email address to send our questions, plz?

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How to contact dr sahab?

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Insaan doosre ki baat sune baghair doosre ki baat nahi samajh skta.. Agar yeh lady baat sunne ki aadat bhi paida kar len to halaat behter ho jaen gy

[@adailkhan5954]

I also talk to u sir plz tell me how I contact u, I m in so troubled

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Assalamualaikum. I am from India . Is it possible to talk to you directly . I need your advice for some issue

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Aslam aluminum sir apka wathspp nambar kaya ha plz send me nambar halp me 🙏🏻

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superior lesson 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

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Sir how can I contact you From India

[@maryamnaseer]

Jo aaj kal ky hallat hai bas maa or baap duwa kiya kary on ky lia or koch nhi kr saktay

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Sir surgury k bd k upr video bnayn pz sir any type off surgury bd mn care krna ya pain ka hona bleeding e.t.c

[@fatimaasif9543]

Sir A.oA I m discuss u about my son who playing continuously freefire game and. I also tell him again nd agaiñ it's not good but he always argue with me.whzt I m done?

[@kisafatima3607]

Stop saying him not to play and try to play the game with him and discuss advantages and disadvantages of playing game😊

[@MuxTube]

Khatoon Doctor Sahib ko bhi Bolney nahi de rahi, bacho ke sath kaya kerti ho gi.

[@afrazhashmi8080]

Assalamualaikum me bhi aap se baat karna chahti hu bache k liye me India se hu

[@moosaji2138]

Mera beta 11 years ka hai mobile bhout use krta hai kuch b nahin Manta kya karein

[@imranbhatti7906]

this solved my issue, my son was behaving same, and not listening to me,

[@tabasumghaffar5520]

Assalam o alikum sir ap K phone number kesy milsakta hai

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Mera beta 17 ka hay or me37 ki us liay wo loudly bat krta hay

[@abdulsamadshaikh3696]

when children give value to parents, children never ignore parents words... Anyone obey because of value of relationship... 🤓🤓🤓

[@light-seeker1]

Aoa,what about children havi g sexual abuse when having interaction with others without having any check on them,while playing in streets or being alone somewhere? HOW CAN PARENTS NOT STOP THEM IN SUCH A SOCIETY FROM MANY THINGS? AND WHAT IF THEIR EDUCATION SUFFERS,THEY FAIL IN EXAMS BECUASE OF SCREEN ADDICTION,EVEN THEN PARENTS SHOULD NOT STOP THEM?

[@Sana-hd7kt]

Sir plzz mujhe AP se bath karni hi meri beti ke bare me

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Wait b boht ziyada he hr 2 gante baad bookh lagti he

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Sir mera beta pubg buhat khelta hy please koi hal betai

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Sir mujy bhi apse apni beti k bary mei baat karni hai contact kesay karon

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Kya ap say sawal.krnay per mujhye Jawan wasool ho ga

[@zebasanadi]

Sir how can we contact u please mention

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Assalamu alaikum sir mai aap se contact kaise karun please tell me

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سر فون نمر پلیز؟؟؟

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MASOOM ZABARDAST HAIN, ZABARDASTI PAIDA HO JATEY HAIN

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Nice

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Aoa sir how I contact you please help me

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Sir ap sy baat kasy ho skti ha whatup pr

[@asiagondal]

Sir plz mjy ap contact number bta den mjy stomach ka bht serious issu hy mjy ap sy bat krni mn ny ap ki wo video dekhi jis mn ap ak lady patient to treatment ka btaty hn jis ko sub nu IBS ka masla btaya tha lkn us ko esa koi masla ni tha sir plzzzzzzz i want to conact you

[@yazdanmalik8015]

Assalamualaikum.sir hm bhee apny 2 bacho ki wjh sy bht preshan .jn ki age 12. 15 years hn. Hostel mai hn. Studies mai bilkul bhee interested nhee hn. Hostel mai bht c galat aadat mai mubtila ho chuky hn. Wo hmari kisi bhee baat ko nhee sonty. Plz sir help us.

[@yazdanmalik8015]

@@memesboys175 . Hm sama satta mai rhty hn yhan ka environment bht galat hy. In k father Karachi mai job krty hn. Yhan complain bht ho rhe then. Ic wjh sy mibori mai galat aadat sy bachaany k lye hostel bhj dia. Yhan bhee nhee prh rhy thy ab whan bhee ye he haal hy . Ab 9th class hy. Bilkul bhee nhee prh rhy.

[@yazdanmalik8015]

Ap sy appointment ly kr bacho ki mulaqat krwa skty hn kya.. Iqbal clinic mai.

[@kaisaraziz445]

Acha hai

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Sir mere bete k Harmoon disturb hen

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Very nice Sir

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بہت عمدہ!!!

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Aslamualikum Sir I apply your rules 100% good

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Results 100%

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Sir how I contact you?

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Please ap apna nmbr dy skty h

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I want to talk you how plz

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Sir want to talk to you

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Plz sir ap ka no chaye

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Assalamualaikum sir

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How can I contact with you?

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sir aap ka nmbr kaha se mili ga

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Mai kaise connect karo

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how to contact u

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Mujhy bhi nmber chahey

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Awaz ni sahi aa rahi

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So cute conversations

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Duaon ki darkhwast hai

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Sir how can I contact you?

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ji nice

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Nice

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Very nice sir

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Sir bachuo par kha Tak bhrosa kar saktey hai 17/18years ke bachuo par