Toxic men will harvest your energy, good men will pour into you.
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
Perfectly Said ❤🥂
@jerrifetherson4146Ай бұрын
Exactly 💯❤
@BlueBean_4Ай бұрын
What if they start off pouring into you and shows they genuinely like you and then down the road all of that just stops? Was it simply a short term fling?
@sarah-sandresАй бұрын
Mine joked about marrying me first time we talked on the phone now married 2 years lol
To the 1st young man. My husband asked me to marry him within 2 months. 24yrs later…..3 kids (College grads) 2 puppies. 🤷🏽♀️ every story is different.
@Chommikenya13 күн бұрын
@@MsVee888 every story is absolutely different
@ifnotifso10 күн бұрын
Some men literally ask the day they meet you. I took it more so to speak to the guy who you haven’t even finished the first date
@xeternalflowerx20007 күн бұрын
Yh that was back in the day luv this is now
@phaedraheaden55146 күн бұрын
@@Chommikenyaabsolutely so this is why I believe some of the people on here are sending some toxic advice because there are happy endings for majority of people, therefore you do have ones that are out for no good intentions these are basically their feelings are what they experienced
@cynthiaholland13Ай бұрын
Honey started saying love in the first few weeks of dating. Married 27 years. I hope it doesn't burn out 😂❤
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
That's beautiful! 😊 Of course there's always exceptional to the game 😀
@divineplltarot333Ай бұрын
I was about to say I tho when they did this earlier on it's good and it didn't take men but a second to know you're the one. Now he's saying the opposite 🙄 confusing 😂
@LolaMonroe6835Ай бұрын
Unfortunately it doesn’t work the same way in modern dating.
@miss.courtneyeyesopened4288Ай бұрын
BLESSINGS ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME
@khadijasinenhlanhlasy123913 күн бұрын
It's up to the both of you to keep that love 🔥 . Keep it going 🎉❤❤
@thehoodedmysteri1500Ай бұрын
My guy told me he love me 3xs the 1st wk of dating. Told me he's gonna make me his wife the 2nd wk. Now going onto 5 yrs later, getting married this yr!!!! Love has no time on it.
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
Of course there's always exceptionals to the game 😀
@jasminemartin6998Ай бұрын
Same! Met and married in 90 days after saying “you’re my wife, no need to be my girlfriend.” Going on 5 years married now 🥰
@keisiapallison673616 күн бұрын
5 years later!!! 😮😮😮
@AseRa444Ай бұрын
This is why I am celibate. It's safer to remain single 💯
@EB2therescueАй бұрын
This video makes me giddy. I'm in love with someone who genuinely loves me back😊😊😊😊
@kcroftus99Ай бұрын
Awwwww ❤❤❤❤
@Bella_M26Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@daffodil45004 күн бұрын
I love that for you🎉❤❤❤❤
@IReadTooMuchCrapАй бұрын
I hate the "playful bulling" being admitted as a tactic.
@nameunknown1519Ай бұрын
Yeah that won’t work with me. If a dude that “loves” me starts that crap, I will drop him so fast 😂
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
@@nameunknown1519 🥂🥂🥂😂
@SelenaSecretShowАй бұрын
It's low-key abusive and literally is giving jealous energy
@IReadTooMuchCrapАй бұрын
@@SelenaSecretShow Absolutely!
@sassykat2000Ай бұрын
Why do you hate the exposure? Information is POWER. Remember that. Educated Discernment is Everything.
@tabithadefour149 күн бұрын
My husband threw love bombs on me very early and under three months wanted to get married… red flags. I pushed it back to a year before deciding to get married. Two years later, still in his impulsiveness he left me for someone else. Wish I knew all this before.
@kikialeaki1850Ай бұрын
10:33 having these two back to back is diabolical😅
@mol4805Ай бұрын
Right 😂 different contexts though
@AVibeCalledYesАй бұрын
Factz. Most of them just trying to hit
@LuvMaude18 күн бұрын
HAHAHAHAHA
@terrigilmore4995Күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 I was looking for this !
@Demebeso714Ай бұрын
Most relationships begin like this...never stays that way..
@NidzShah-ps6krАй бұрын
Women aren't neurotic bcz they are more careful or picky. Being selective and practical doesn't make one neurotic. I think you are a little afraid of a woman's judgement so you have found a way to stigmatise that. Its a projection of your fears.
@EB2therescueАй бұрын
That poster needs to grow emotionally... You can tell he's never been in love.
@mpGreen03Ай бұрын
@@EB2therescue Yeah, I found that he didn't make much sense, just talked out of his a** to say it poorly...
@BlueBean_4Ай бұрын
I’m not sure y’all 😢 I’m not saying my last ex did everything but he did a lot of things that was mentioned in this video. Yet he broke things off after a petty argument. Was that fake, lost interest, or self sabotage? If not all of the above?
@Eliaslovesjesus13 күн бұрын
I literally had the same experience. We broke up 3 weeks ago and I’m so confused. Wondering if it was all fake honestly. We still are in a no contact state and we see each other everyday at work so I’m slowly pulling away my interest. It was such a beautiful connection or I thought it was. 😢
@BlueBean_412 күн бұрын
@ oh no I’m so sorry!😭 it is devastating but within my 3 years of single-hood: I’ve had to stop internalizing other peoples actions as a sign of how they feel about me. Because he would always say how much he likes me (I believe he did, but he not enough for him to stick around/work through relationship kinks). Which I believe that was the case for you, probably. People can genuinely like you but if they aren’t present, mature etc to be the partner you want them to, nothing can be done about it. And believe me: you did nothing wrong. No one is perfect 100% and you don’t have to be “healed” in order to receive love. Much love to you and keep on being amazing!
@xeternalflowerx20007 күн бұрын
Yh everyone has their own interpretation of it tbh. If someone really likes you they’ll make time for you actually seem to care about you, not act like your a tool or a slave or something they just need like your an object. When men like you they want to be around you and be passionate, but it’s slow to gain true passion which is why you need to have more of a connection before real attraction happens. Touch is definitely a part of it but it’s more of affectionate touch before anything too sexual happens.
@trish976821 күн бұрын
Trauma bond can be miss narcs do all good stuff at first then turn on u
@wendypope9668Ай бұрын
The doormats 😂😂😂
@ChommikenyaАй бұрын
You heard him 😂😂
@KEOSHAANEILIAАй бұрын
Savagery! 😅😂
@melaccadickens39253 күн бұрын
You know I ended up hooking up with this guy the first time it's been almost a year now and we still talk we see each other quite a few times throughout the week we talk all the time we're always hanging out we just have a good time together in general will I best friends.
@crystalserrant59158 күн бұрын
💯on the men and women 😇❣️🙏🏾
@MarchingFt5 күн бұрын
Can one of my sisters on here tell me who is the last girl that is speaking i see her on a lot of clips i think she's truly amazing i wish she could be my BFF in real life she's so down to Earth and real i wanna follow her chommi help me out 🙏🏽
@pelumiraheen493611 күн бұрын
Say less do more please 😊
@mysticalchile8 күн бұрын
Eloped 2 months in 18 years ago. He said he loved me first. Shut up.
@modelwynter23345 күн бұрын
Everyone is unique in their own humanistic way. I don’t belief these universal ideas for how men and women behaviour.
@SelenaSecretShowАй бұрын
Being called cute is such an insult
@Ana-cadabraАй бұрын
I heard a guy tell me that I sounded cute n weak. Such an insult.
@kikialeaki1850Ай бұрын
For you
@shanikarowe3897Ай бұрын
I agree
@GreekhistoryyyАй бұрын
No it mean you are beautiful
@LacavadoeАй бұрын
Yes! I'm too old to be called cute.
@Livewire464Ай бұрын
I hate captions I can’t turn off why is everybody doing this
@daughteroftheking640222 күн бұрын
Some people are deaf.
@Livewire46422 күн бұрын
@ that’s why there’s an option to turn on captions which is why I don’t understand why everybody is adding them when it’s unnecessary
@bres.4806Ай бұрын
That white dude copied the black dude word for word. What a weirdo.