When Did You Know You Were Gay? | {THE AND} Bianca & Barrett

[@papitoquerido7827]

This is living proof that you can have a soul mate without having to be attracted to eachother or being together

[@Jakeylicious7891]

When Harry met Sally.

[@lovewillsetyoufree]

Yes my sister is my platonic soulmate.... My better half... my stronger half. Me and her god I love that little kid

[@AhmedHassan-vq8ou]

He's gay she can't have him

[@cution97]

Not necessarily true I can sense the burden he has since he used to think he was straight he probably did want to marry her because they’re perfect for each other but his burden of being gay and not being able to have a sexual connection with her he’s not into females sexually speaks for itself since they both kept staring his they would’ve already married each other had she not married her husband regardless if it was a joke or not it has a meaning no one really just says that you know p.s speaking from experience

[@LosAnggraito]

This is bc society has created this false notion that a "soulmate" is someone you're sexually intimate with, when the meaning has always been deeper than that. Two souls connecting goes beyond platonic or non-platonic relationships.

[@fortunatelyfortunate7138]

At this point they're family. Not friends.

[@dopeDNA]

Period!

[@60scinema]

My best friend and I have a very similar friendship. She's like a sister to me.

[@hiiamkatharina8884]

It’s beautiful

[@lastpheonix6607]

Honestly

[@pascaldeery4007]

Hahah same xo

[@gakailyn9249]

Nobody ever called him hot before!? This man is STUNNING

[@Mr_tumnus]

ga kailyn seriously I was so surprised when he said that. He’s like the perfect specimen

[@MyDimand]

Honestly I’m pissed he’s gay DAMN IT ITS ALWAYS THE BEST GUYS IN AND OUT THAT ARE GAY!!!!!

[@christinabellerose2290]

@@MyDimand Girl! I felt that through the screen

[@daeyounglim1310]

Exactly!

[@katalex8]

A lot of people that are attractive don't necessarily know it or feel it; especially if they were "ugly ducklings" growing up or grew up in not so great family situations and/or were bullied. Plus people figure that if you're attractive there's no reason to tell you because it's "obvious" and you must know or they assume you're stuck up and don't need anymore compliments. Some people will actually try to tear you down because they assume you need to be brought back down to earth.

[@no.23-2haru8]

"You complete me in a way that ONLY you can" If that doesn't define love, idk what does

[@davewest136]

damn onions

[@lehobbyist8144]

Did you guys see his smile slightly frowned when she said this? He almost broke it...but managed to make light of things by proceeding with a joke afterwards. They made me cried, what a beautiful union

[@Rawankha]

Why is no one mentioning how GORGEOUS she is like??!

[@nikitamampofu8288]

She's stunning!

[@soilgrasswaterair]

*You know why!* It’s not a coincidence people praise his appearance but don’t mention her appearance. In mainstream media we are taught white, blonde, blue eyes and a fit body is the ultimate beauty standard. And how many Asian actors/actresses that are highly successful can you name in comparison to all the white actors/actresses you know the name of (you probably even know the name of at least of one of all these white celebs’ dog/s). *They are both very beautiful and seem to be lovely people based on how they interact with each-other.

[@Niilezcole]

Cause look what she’s gotta compete with

[@Rawankha]

@@soilgrasswaterair true

[@freddy7534]

She is beautiful

[@appellationsobriquet6205]

They're both so attractive!

[@thekenyanshaderoom2448]

They are. And the girl is so kind and likeable

[@newjerseylion4804]

They would beatuful babies

[@patrickcoote8907]

The asiatic Lion um one problem

[@waynemiami]

But he gay lol

[@margaritam.9118]

Weave Snatcher If she’s a lesbian she can ask him to be a donor 🤷‍♀️

[@jalenl.7603]

Right now, I’m 17. If there is one thing I want to accomplish in my future, it is to form a friendship like that.

[@isaiahowens5322]

Jalen L. TRUE THAT. I’m 17 also and I have friends but I don’t think I have the ones to have this kinda of relationship. Especially with my male friends. I’ve opened up to a few so I guess I’m working on it.

[@isaiahowens5322]

Jade I feel a crew coming together 😅

[@joemarmer4125]

I’m also 17*gang* I feel u guys 👌🏾

[@jalenl.7603]

Isaiah Owens alright people lets be friends and become 17 gang. Lol

[@IBBMS]

Once you find that friend, it's amazing. I'm 23 and me and my best friend have been besties since we were 12 and it was, quite honestly, love at first conversation. We were telling each other I deepest secrets as we were walking home from school the same day we officially met. It is weirdly like true love. When you know, you know.

[@chartreussee549]

I cried. I want to experience this type of platonic love!

[@Aaron.M88]

you will. i got you in my prayers, have an awesome day.

[@jaquanpenn5966]

Char Treussee u will. ❤️

[@realSimoneCherie]

She's such a pretty crier

[@e_G_o_05]

S CP Right? I’d be ugly faced and covered in snot by now if that was me and my bff.

[@nagronwillneverdie7849]

Seriously! It's like movie star tears.

[@lolaispure4296]

@@e_G_o_05 🤣🤣🤣

[@annyms5092]

God bless, Jesus loves you and died for you all .

[@ijustneedmyself]

My face would be red. My nose and lips would be swollen. My eyes would be red and puffy. Yeah, not me at all 🤣

[@busien2276]

Based on the title I though they where a couple and one of them broke up bc he/she is gay...

[@bagaspamungkas8906]

You're not alone

[@Knaan-ro6eo]

Me too

[@realSimoneCherie]

Right 🤔😕

[@purplesun5383]

Same

[@flclub54]

Click bait baby

[@vanessamoisiak3346]

They are adorable, he tried so hard not to cry. You can see that they have an honest friendship and that they care about each other very deeply. This is just beautiful❤

[@indiamoore5349]

❤️

[@Chris-pr1hs]

she is low key in love with the dude.............she is suffering from an endless impossible love situation

[@remioshinowo6829]

I could not hold my tears, in seeing this soul mates. "You complete me" and they're just friends, not husband and wife. This is true affection and deep level of love called agape

[@beekay6857]

agape

[@jazzmynchandler1223]

Very strong soul connect for sure! We do have multiple soulmates though but their souls feel life time connected.

[@Zahra_sama]

​@@beekay6857 it's not really a Coelho reference, it was defined and explained by the ancient greek philosophers

[@roxanneh6016]

I think "stergay".. Brother to a sister and vice versa. Agape is love from God.

[@hhhoneycomb]

Yasssss

[@summerk9597]

U can tell she’s a kind hearted person ❤️

[@kapchi]

As someone who recently found out that someone I thought was my close friend didn't see me as their close friend, I am jealous of this friendship. It really is a privilege to find your person. I have given up.

[@o0evelynecastano0o]

opn20 same

[@christinabellerose2290]

Yes... That is what I most desire

[@TheEtienneDavis]

Don’t give up. There are good people like us still out there. One day someone will return our love and not take advantage of us. We’re just too kind hearted.

[@shake4259]

I don't consider anyone a close friend, some people are just like that.

[@josephp.1919]

Same. I know the feels.

[@stmark4181]

WOW! That girl is SO pretty. Her skin is like glass - so smooth.

[@angelyikes99]

They’re literal soulmates😭 I want a soulmate 😩

[@jacec5855]

I want a soul mate that I touch, feel, smell, and sleep next to and do your best to make them feel good, happy, loved. This gay dude could have all that with her. What an idiot.

[@rrspaceship7845]

@@jacec5855 HAHAH THA FUQ IS WRONG WITH U 😂😂😂😂😂

[@janekofurog3429]

Hi @Angel , how do u define a soul mate?

[@designereats3661]

Me too

[@BollywoodMediaOnline]

who wants an episode with him and the BF he has gone back to 8 times over?

[@issemacrab]

Me me me🙋‍♂️

[@user-du5cs1vs7d]

@@issemacrab 😅

[@samarhaj9209]

Woooow thier friendship is so deep, loved it when he took her tissue, put it in his pocket and gave her new one "silly me" 😅

[@josam4545]

"I'll carry your snort forever." That right there is some next level friendshit

[@maria_m4904]

Their teeth though...

[@DaveHumphrey2514]

Exactly

[@antwahnharris213]

immaculate

[@duckcluck123]

Americans

[@97hanabi]

their skin, their face, everything lmap

[@absentminded7230]

americans

[@JazzzzFaz]

Holy shit, she is so stunning. They both are beautiful people, inside and out.

[@indiamoore5349]

❤️

[@musicobx101]

I'm gay as well and have a female asian best best friend whom I've been friends with for a decade, as well and when I tell you that I was crying the entire video because it reminded me so much of our friendship, good lorrrrdtt

[@douaelgchiri5654]

"I love you because ur you " This is true love ❤❤

[@Chococat_Ariana]

Also when he takes her used tissues like it's nothing, "I'll carry your snot forever." 🤗

[@douaelgchiri5654]

@@Chococat_Ariana yeah That made me smile

[@waynemiami]

But he gay

[@Neuterlab]

I feel like she is the type of bestfriend who always give her 101% . Like she would drop everything she’s doing to help people close to her without hesitation, and that you can call her for help at 3am and she will be there by your side to comfort you even if she has to go to work at 8am in the morning. I feel like she’s that person who is so smart yet very humble about all her achievements. I feel like she will never make any excuse not to hang out with you even if she’s very busy. I feel like she is a great listener, mediator, and supporter. Damn it, now i wanna steal her from Barrett Pall! 😭

[@anitaxyz9767]

Their energy! Just seeing them interact makes me happy :)

[@khaiahmann9192]

I swear they are soulmates. I just love their energy and their connection is so beautiful. 💞

[@janekofurog3429]

Yow how do u define a soul mate?

[@rosunrajkumar876]

Her crying for him is breaking my heart! God bless their friendship.

[@niyonshutijacky418]

Hello

[@sophielove7896]

Omg..they never took their eyes off eachother! So sweet and genuine is their friendship..i crave it so much..!

[@paulinacontreras4160]

This hits home, my soul mate was my best friend who sadly passed away when I was 12. I’m 22 now, and seeing this made me think “this would’ve been us if he was still here.” This was exactly how we were when I was younger, he made my soul feel at ease.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Paulina, thank you for sharing this part of your life with us and our community.

[@samanthapatino2676]

I’m sorry for your loss.. he is still with you 🙏🏼❤️

[@averyfloyd6171]

I understand this feeling ❤️‍🩹

[@javier2241]

Before i die i need to find a friendship as pure and genuine as theirs

[@yuhboodru6398]

I can appreciate the romantic relationship-focused “The And” videos, but this one was, by far, one of my favorite ones. This relationship is what I aspire to have with someone. She’s seen some of his most vulnerable moments, and he literally pocketed her used tissues. That kind of friendship is so rare.

[@markusmeyer6391]

His level of repression is absolutely heart breaking. Almost like if he started crying it wouldn't stop. I am sending you huge love.

[@salamalaikum9784]

The one uncanny time in lifetime when you become friend with a singular woman that you love so much that you wish to be straight. . . And then one day you become the uncle of her children not because of blood ties, but because of true love.

[@emmanagelkerke4153]

Bianca would seriously be me crying the whole time - I want friendship like this

[@flexxappeal1]

That was clearly, one of the sweetest moments, that I’ve ever seen, from this video series! It takes a lot...for me to get emotional! This almost broke me!! I loved this video! These two bffs truly love each other! It’s rare nowadays to have such an amazing, genuine, unconditional love for your friends! When you have a friendship like that... you hang on to them, appreciate them, cherish them, with everything you have!! Those are the ties that bind!!! 🥰❤️❤️

[@TheSkinDeep]

Thank you so much for sharing!!

[@la381]

She is the giver in the relationship which I didn’t like.

[@pacificodelnorte6628]

So nice to see that it is possible to have a deeply loving and intimate relationship outside of the confines of a romantic and/or sexual relationship. It can be just as fulfilling, if not more fulfilling. Thanks for sharing your story, Barrett & Bianca!

[@luegenres1411]

She was crying from the first minute of the video...you can just tell she's not just a beautiful face but she has a beautiful heart as well.

[@tosterus5968]

This video made me want to leave the house and meet interesting people. what beautiful souls they both have

[@RascalHooligan]

Honestly this level of commitment to a friendship is so rare. Having a best friend is a choice you have to keep on making, through all the new friends you make and relationships you enter, all the fights you get into and the hard parts of life. It's so easy to walk away these days. I'm glad they never chose to.

[@TheSkinDeep]

So much truth in this! Thank you for sharing!

[@NamhlaSithole]

Oh man... I love them so much. They compliment each other so perfectly

[@benjaminreyes3624]

This is the friendship I want with a woman. Of course I've had amazing friendships and I still do. Sometimes we as gay men get so caught up in our world that we almost lose touch of women. Luckily women are so loving and nurturing towards us. Its nice to have a girl to talk to 😍.

[@JennyTuhls]

Want a lesbian friend? =)

[@benjaminreyes3624]

@@JennyTuhls lesbians are more than welcome.. I love that there is not anything sexual between us from either end 😊

[@angelaramseyrobinson4407]

This is a great idea. I have some very good, deep connections with several male friends. Some I’ve known over 30 years, through break ups and divorces. Totally platonic. The only difficult thing is if they’re GF, or wives feel threatened at all (which unfortunately tends to happen). If I had a friendship like that with a gay man, it would be amazing. I get it. I just love the energy of men, of all ages...and much prefer having them around.

[@benjaminreyes3624]

@@angelaramseyrobinson4407 that's awful for girlfriends or wives to be threaten by you. Especially if you've known these men for 30 years.. they're basically your brother at that point 🤦 lol

[@serinat2181]

You have such a good jawline wow

[@luthernicholaus2455]

Serina T His channel kzbin.info

[@katrinb8297]

It would be interesting to see her with around her husband.

[@Zeinaa159]

They're both SO beautiful! inside (the empathy and love they feel for each other, true human beings) out (obviously.. look at their faces).

[@heidiinphilly4057]

So deeply touched by their loving and sweet relationship. I love how much they care about one another...beautiful

[@philfrance09]

I've been following Barrett Pall for awhile now, he seems like an amazing guy. Really jealous of their friendship though.

[@pranathitulasi7713]

It should be illegal for people to be this attractive!!

[@JamieA242]

hes so good at holding in tears WTFFFFF

[@madlit2465]

Her skin is just so everything🥴😩its naturally highlighted under her eyes. Clear glowy skin. Barely any lines.

[@Rechard1107]

Maybe it's Maybelline!

[@dimunyu9035]

it's an asian thing.

[@kierun84]

the sheer purity.

[@michaelsnow3]

They're both gorgeous. How does it feel to actually have friends though? Lol

[@emilydavidson1734]

You don't have friends?

[@tujaun1]

Lmaoo YEO I felt that.We lonely af😭🤣

[@SenemYucel19]

❤❤❤ I hope you've made some fulfilling friendships since you wrote this!

[@leinzaP]

I haven't teared this much since my own wedding.... This type of love, from them both.. It's the answer to so many question of life and existence... Ughk I could go on, but.... I loved this!

[@faraikunaka8458]

He’s such a great friend, the way he took the tissue from her 🥺

[@ollieatkinson8590]

They both have such a beautiful connection with each other that it's so lovely to see. ❤️.

[@mehtou]

If James Marsden and Ryan Phillippe had a son, it would be Barrett.

[@issemacrab]

Sooo true!! James Marsden definitely 😍

[@kerrymott5150]

So accurate!

[@gbx1570]

Barretts voice is lovely and grabbed my attention. I would love to listen from him speaking every time.

[@yelleyw]

What a beautiful pure friendship. ❤️

[@jeffyoung4122]

sweetest line ever: "I'll carry your snot forever" you two seem like fun company to be around

[@dk3xyz]

Barrett is adorable. Kind and compassionate he would complete anybody.

[@hadeelkhalidxx]

The girl has one of the best laughs ive ever heard

[@Littletree16]

I swearrrrrr the MOST attractive men are gay! They have a lovely friendship.

[@plantecsmiths1622]

You like guys with feminine voices lol?

[@saltlessbread]

@@plantecsmiths1622 what does that have to do with anything? The voice tone has nothing to do with sexual orientation. And a deep voice does not make someone instantly attractive lol Just let her be.

[@Littletree16]

@@plantecsmiths1622 I like men, period.

[@saltlessbread]

@@Littletree16 hear hear

[@saltlessbread]

@@plantecsmiths1622 that's absolute bullshit mate.

[@heykelly]

Awww I want a friendship like this!

[@rickpamaran5238]

Great friendship, I can't believe no one has ever called him handsome when he was younger, because damn you're beautiful.

[@littleripper312]

It's weird how a lot of peoples closest relationship can often be with a friend yet they don't get the same social weight as a spouse or immediate family member.

[@bumbuum8071]

We dont see enough real friendship like this in this world! Thank you for sharing your lovin friendship

[@hoome260]

This makes me miss my best friend, my partner, my late husband. R.I.P. my love. 💔💔

[@LA-dv4uu]

❤️

[@SeanShimamoto]

Barrett....you are so damn STUNNINGLY HANDSOME!!! It’s really hard for an old, average-looking guy like me to imagine how someone so gorgeous like yourself doesn’t even see how beautiful you are in reality. Just based on your guys’ conversation, I’m sure the fact that I had an amazing family life growing up with two parents who were exceptionally loving and accepting, that helped to give me a lot of self worth even though I’m almost 50 and have never been good looking. When I say accepting...when I came out to my mom, she was happy that I had a boyfriend, and she asked me who’s top and who’s bottom, and if being a bottom hurts. LOL. My dad just asked me if I was happy with my boyfriend...and when I said yes, he said that’s all that matters. So I’m glad that you’re getting to experience Bianca’s family ‘cause Asian family’s have VERY STRONG familial bonds, and it’s clear that YOU deserve that...and I’m so glad that you guys have each other as best friends!!! 😍🏳️‍🌈🤙🏽

[@thaliatrinidad22]

I have a friendship exactly like this. My family is his family. Been through many life events. We understand each other and it's just that simple. No paving, explaining, just being. We are going on 9 years!

[@gloomiii]

I used to have a friendship like this when I was in middle school, where we were such close friends and we spent so much time together. Since she was African American, her mother wasn’t that fond of me, but we got through it! Eventually, she moved away and I haven’t heard from her since, I have never met anyone like her nor made as good a friend as her. The day she moved away I was crying so badly it hurt but I never told anyone because I didn’t think they’d understand. I’m over it now, but it hurts having a best friend and losing them. I feel weird talking about this now and I feel like I should shut up 😅

[@chrisaddo8237]

You should try and find her on social media- she may be happy to hear from you.

[@bordosense]

The greatest blessing is a friendship like this. Love beyond words,always having each others back and feeling the pain that your person is feeling. This friendship is something...magical.

[@lifesimply6640]

I used to have a friend like this but we stopped talking for about a year.. I’m gonna reach out to him. I love you my friend

[@BibledGoogled]

Life Simply let us know how it goes. I’m rooting for your friendship!

[@lifesimply6640]

Aryal Acasia we are FaceTiming tonight :) I will keep you updated. Thank you so much beautiful!! ❤️

[@camillefaith2005]

@@lifesimply6640 How did things go?

[@lifesimply6640]

Random person On KZbin great, thank you! We FaceTimed for 7 hours lol and we will be hanging out once the quarantine is over. We’ve been texting non stop also ❤️❤️ he truly does complete me in a way no one else does.

[@tanmoy20006]

Finding a bond like this is what life's purpose should be. Not a bigger house or shinier car, but people who love you this much!

[@HeartFallenstar]

They're definitely each others twin flames! So nice to see!

[@ijosz]

I can saw that he's holding his tears.😭

[@celia5581]

I want a friendship like this. I don’t think I’ve ever clicked this well with anyone

[@Jakeylicious7891]

Will and Grace in real life.

[@ellie___]

Her laugh is so cute😊

[@vuyolwethu_m26]

Can I still meet my best friend at 22??? I need this in my life. Or should I strengthen one of the friendships I already have??? 🤔🤔🤔

[@simonefloriane8895]

Vuyolwethu Mtyapa you absolutely can meet a "best friend" or soulmate at any age, and it also does not have to last, or stay the same forever. (If it does, wonderful!) People evolve, and so do you. Just enjoy and cherish the time you have when you feel you can truly connect with someone... you can, and probably will have multiple 'best' friends in your life. 💜 But it's also always good to put effort into already existing friendships, as long as it feels right.

[@nataliegarza5348]

If the ones you have now weren’t ever able to be “strong enough” for one of them to become your absolute best friend then you should go out there & find someone you’ll instantly click with and have a connection with rather than having to try and force one with an existing friendship ❤️

[@sosopeople9157]

Vuyolwethu Mtyapa yes, you can... I just met mine almost a month ago... oh, I am 29.

[@ayakhaled3581]

Monuments Humans you can't really judge in one month. wish you the best though 🌸

[@o0evelynecastano0o]

I’m still hoping to find my true best friend at 32...

[@marshallvalentino2572]

The girl is such an amazing, kind, understanding, beautiful, and loving person. I wish I had a friend like her

[@stevebeard7464]

I have no idea who this girl is-but she is golden!!!!! Kind-genuine, beautiful, caring, loving. The kind of human being I wish everyone was!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@valsam9218]

Ah, I'm all misty eyes now. I missing my bestie who moved away 5 years ago. These two have an amazing friendship.

[@eddylake4813]

she is ...beautiful. a stunning kind hearted person.

[@Pinky-kb2hd]

I'm glad he has her as a friend. They're very caring and supportive of each other.

[@GG-yy4yx]

She’s such a good person, I️ am overwhelmed but what a wonderful soul and empathetic person she is. Not to minimize him or his experiences, but she loves him so much that it’s overwhelming.

[@IG.8qlin]

I'm 29. Career is what most of people around me goes after including me and yet what I tell myself every day is when I leave my current job, I want to have made one or two great friends. Now having watching this video, I think my goal can be taken up a notch

[@Tu-wf4sg]

"I'll carry your snot forever" 💕

[@mramin8003]

The last moment when they exchanged ‘i love you’s and hugged.. you got friends of life, there.. so lucky

[@marijanamiletic8498]

Two beautiful people, I could watch them all day :D Also, love to see a strong friendship like that, really rare :)

[@Jayson666youtube]

They're soul mates. They care so much for each other.

[@SakuroAlex]

Seriously, why don't I have a friend like this.

[@nowornevernever5860]

This is how to say that life is not fair. We love someone, someone loves others..

[@valentinedurand5086]

They are so full of love for each other, that's amazing to see.

[@jdryak]

So sweet and so poignant: the perennial dilemma of a straight and gay person who become deep friends; one wishing against all hope to consummate a partnership, the other simply thrilling at being accepted and loved. So many of us gay people can identify with this situation. It is a blessed union, but at the same time feels at once so blissful and sad. Thank you for all the loving straight friends I have had who have loved me for who I am (without value judgement,) instead of what society too often would demand they fearfully believe of me.

[@AnkushMudgal0396]

THIS. This is all I've wanted and still want, but don't have, may not ever too.

[@ikking_1213]

This lady is so brave to be there, she still loves him. It's painful to see her suffer like that. 😫 She deserves that hug at the end. Hopefully, she'll find the right one for her.

[@meg_anduke]

I honestly cried, they are such a beautiful representation of friendship. THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL, I HOPE THEIR FRIENDSHIP LAST TILL ETERNITY

[@jeffmorse645]

Everyone needs a kind, loving friend like that Bianca. I wonder how her husband really feels about their intense friendship?

[@rosg3893]

Who cares about the husband... their friendship was there before

[@o0evelynecastano0o]

We need more of them! They are so genuinely beautiful inside and out 💕

[@nakayla01]

When he put her tissues in his pocket I lost it.... they are beautiful soulmates!!!

[@adedut8134]

How can someone be so beautiful outside and pure on the inside?